What a MONSTER this Woman is!!

it would be great if you could link to the post

@@redkid254two2 I googled this, and it's a freaking AD. Shame on you.

@@victoriajohnson4420 I reported that comment as such. So freaking lame.

@@Flippi037 She's a full fledged woman of Feminism

Much less in a society that looks down on that while having a wife that begins at act different towards you. Also his hours got cut, he earned less and he had to adapt to be, basically, a SAHD. Gee, I wonder why he is making mistakes and isnt perfect at something hes *new* at. Then she learns exacly what he was doing to make her life easier that she *didnt* see.

We no longer live in a world where a parent can _afford_ to stay home, depending on where you are. Maybe, even 10 years ago, it would've been completely possible. Not anymore. Not saying that SAH parents don't have their hands completely full 24x7. It's now a balancing game for the coming generations.

Next time someone asks what's wrong with stay at home dads, I'll send them this story. Because men don't know if their working wife could turn into an abuser!

Because of health issues is was not able to work so i stayed at home while my wife worked full time. I learned a lot about what she had done for years and vice versa. It made us both stronger and made our love even stronger. My wife admitted same feelings as op in story one at first. A bit of jalousy and sadness. She even had simular thoughts as op. But she decided to talk with me about it all instead of humiliating me and cheat.

@@mightress shes a keeper.

And it's a story that needs told more often.. Hollywood and American media and politicians ALWAYS portray men as abusive and women as their victims. The truth is WOMEN are every bit as likely to be abusive.

@@spaceracer23 this actually would be a good movie, with the happy ending that the ex finds a better wife and the OP ends loosing the job and in the streets.

Yep!

@@spaceracer23 Wouldn't go well with the narrative their SJW coding gave them and blue-haired whales will send them mean tweets.

It's certainly fake, no one would portray himself like that, especially an emotional abuser

I think she meant “no abuse” done by him. But she deserves everything kínder of punishment

She thinks she's life's main hero and therefore by definition can't be the villain. The very concept of her being an abuser never crossed the cobwebs between her ears. You'll notice that even at the end where she's claiming she identifies herself as the villain, she still happily took the kids as full custody, as if she was the better parent. She hasn't changed a BIT.

Sounds about right

ikr.....

She meant he didn't abuse her

Women want to make as much money as men, but there husband should make twice as much.

@@jonasstahl9826 the math checks out :P

Ex dumped me because she wanted to sleep with her boss to get a promotion.... Got fired and nearly imprisoned for some mess she did instead.

@@ngashjr sounds good to me, you were able to watch her life implode from a distance with popcorn^^

@@Bleg94 It was epic! 5 years down the line she hasn't recovered. I see her hawking things to motorists with a baby in toe

Away from her is where.

Lol

Have a friend who went through a tough divorce that she initiated. It really wrecked his world. They almost reconciled but then she opened her mouth and ruined that as well but that was a good thing because she really just wanted the house in the divorce. Now years later she'll try every few months to test the reconciliation waters with him and he keeps denying her. Ladies and gentlemen if your spouse isn't cheating on you, abusive towards you or the kids then really consider do you want that divorce before seeking counseling or family therapy. Once you burn that bridge you shouldn't be surprised that your ex never wants to rebuild it again.

Girls like this really baffles me like how the hell you go do him dirty like that and then act like it wasn’t their fault 🤦🏾‍♂️

@@MrJpaynebb yes its like a slap in thr face to that person. And the other person usually knows that and just doesn’t care. Only care about themselves and what they want.

yes and that a good woman

It seems she doesn't misses him, but the easy life she had with him. She misses what he provided for her. Having the audacity to ask for reconciliation is unbelievable.

she misses the things he would do for HER to make life easier, she doesnt miss him as a person. I am happy for him that he is away from a person like that.

She sounds like my ex wife except I was the one working 2 jobs

Especially taking as long as she did to realize she fucked up! It gave him enough time to "go through the motions and realize just how bad she was!" So by the time "she learned her lesson and wants to start over!" His good will has been spent and the "love" that shackled him to her (his desperate wish for her to take him back prior) was shattered forever! Maybe she should find the guy she cheated on him with and hope he didn't move on to the next "taken chick to bang!" because she ghost him long enough that he had to realize the magic is gone and to not be "the sucker fool" he'd best move on quickly so he'd feel superior that "she's still obsessed with him when he long lost interest rather then be the fool thrown away!" (I never see cheaters and those who willingly have a relationship with one they know working out even if the "if they cheat on you" rule didn't apply! I see them liking it only because of the "Taboo" of what their doing and the fear of getting caught and orchestrate for it it brings! Basically their like adrenaline junkies....so when they stop cheating and get together....the magic's gone since now their straight up together! Meaning it's only a matter of time before one or both cheat to get that "rush" back or they break up normally which I doubt they'll do because then they won't get that "rush" from breaking up after "getting caught or thinking they got away with breaking up and the cheating scot free!" All it takes it "one taste" to hook you and make you an addict....but eventually it will takes it's toll on you! Why they say "never make a deal with the devil, like Vegas THE HOUSE ALWAYS WINS!" and in this case it's your "base bad human nature" you allowed to be unleash leading you to "the inevitable outcome EVEN A FUCKING CHILD COULD SEE COMING MILES AWAY!)

Just reading this was extremely painful, like holy fuck. The only thing that I could think off while listening to OP was to put a Note with 'Sorry' and the ring on to the Kitchen table and go anywhere, just away as far away from literally anything as humanly possible.

Divorce isn't enough for that piece of shit. She should not even need to see her kids again.

If I was him I would take full custody of the kids and remarry take everything from her

@@sodelysmedrano6583 Same here.

Yes and she abusing him

I know

Me too. I hope the husband ditches her and she ends up with an abuser who beats her daily. I hope to learn that in a follow-up. It would delight me.

don't worry pal i'm sure she is

Sounds very like my ex wife actually.

Me too it's especially good that she took so long before she finally f****** apologized! If she had realized earlier her stupidity and beg for forgiveness he likely would have forgiven her and got back together with her and we'd be on countdown for when she falters to Temptation again because we all see she didn't learn her lesson at all and sooner or later that feeling she had that made her sabotage her not rich but still happy life will start to sink in. This is why you can never trust cheaters if they fell for Temptation ones don't fall for it again because right now they're making the same mistake that made them cheat in the first place they're running on emotions completely and utterly! She's only sorry because she feels bad emotions now she feels the guilt and all that stuff! Which is why I say it's great that she only started to reflect in apologize after he got past the point where he would have jumped back in with her! That's why people always seem to take back Traitors like this because they're still in the emotional stage where they feel it's all their fault for something they didn't do! As she pointed out she never once explained what he did wrong she just expected him to know all these things he was looking for every excuse to self-sabotage I know because I screwed myself out of a program I was in a decade ago with the same mindset I became so tired of learning and not doing that I started to sabotage myself avoiding the classes not getting to them on time not studying eventually the end result happening I failed out it's only after I was given the boot did I finally realized what the f*** I was doing! Every time I made those bad decisions I felt like something took over my mind for a second like all emotions just closed up and it became easy to make those bad decisions! It's never appeared again but I guess it's because now that I saw the problem and recognized the issue it never shows itself again!

I read her nastiness as her nasty ass.

Me too. Karma has never been sweeter, OP got the full “grass isn’t greener on the other side” experience and I hope her kids resent her. Awful mother, awful wife all around, she didn’t care about ANYONE’s needs but her own.

First story girl is a demon. So mean for what and straight out lied about him to the world u sick u should leave him alone unless it's about the kids

Wow love how the first op is justifying being abusive and a cheater

Notice that she's blaming Reddit for her decisions instead of herself. She hasn't changed, if he takes her back she'll just do it all again

Rinse and repeat. I saw that crap to. She sounds like a mental case.

She also sounded like she wasn't really missing him as a person but what he would do for her. Her easy life and happy home. If she would truly love her ex she would back off, apologize to him and wish him to find some loving woman that will give him the love he deserves.

@@stuartward1755 Yep With a snap of a finger.

She is not taking any personal responsibility at all, at the end she is still condescendingly preaching to people on reddit regarding marriage and divorce. Her husband only broke because of the abuse, had she just file for divorce without breaking him, he wouldn't be in the state he is in. The divorce is probably beneficial for her husband though, getting away from that psycho.

Apparently majority do not have good mental health states haha

Well a lot of weemaaan start to lose interest when they start to outearn their ATM

@@DarkReanimation sadly true, i bet you if he was earning.more or just as.much as her she woulda.chilled.the hell out

This is the same woman that would complain she felt oppressed being a stay at home mom if it was the other way around. Juice ain't worth the squeeze.

@@DarkReanimation hypergamy brother hypergamy controls them and Reddit did too…

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀

Chalk another heart break up to foolish pride.

Tbh he is too kind. Should have stepped up to her, maybe she would respect him. Bitches don't respect man when he is kind.

It breaks my heart but you laid it all out pretty perfectly. A broken man is sad to see. Im sure the guy wasn't by any means the best or number one father in the world, but it seemed like he did give it a good try and was making things work. I will never understand people who fuck with others without trying to work with others.

I watch this dude named think before uyou sleep on youtube he explaains how traditional marrigies aare better than all these modern women

​@@ImperativeGames And how would he have done it? How would he have done it without compromising his access to his children? Also, her children don't seem to be her highest priority as they should. So he's most likely only coming around to make sure the kids are clean, fed, and healthy.

@@ratiobozo6821 Think is a legend of MRAs.

Not could, would. She would easily leave him again, as soon as the internet tells her the grass is greener.

Do you think it’s possible that she doesn’t miss him doing those things for her, but she misses how much he loved her that he’d be willing to do those things for her?

@@tommoore2012 No, if she did none of this would have happened to begin with. Love is too big an emotion to be undermined by attitudes like this.

Wow. Them? lol

That is so sweet. You have a heart of an angel.💛

😔

"if he didn't want me to hurt him, he would have tried harder to make me happy"

If I was one of OP's kids I'd never forgive her. I'd outright tell her "you stopped being my mother when you cheated on Dad".

"it's your fault I'm unhappy so I'm going to make your life hell"

Not that I disagree completely but. You realise one of the reasons for the stupid affair and divorce was advice in the Internet. I'm sure in her first post she wouldn't have described the same situation in those words. She would've said deadbeat husband, lazy, and a dead bedroom. And while I don't think people who watch these videos would condone cheating they would give divorce as an option for those reasons. Recently there was a video about a wife who was flirting with another man but was prevented from doing anything stupid and as a result had 6 more years of a great marriage. People in the comments were suggesting that the OPs husband should divorce her even though she did not even kiss the guy... Point being you only ever get part of the story so careful with the words and advice you give. Even in this story there are so many factors we don't know.

This is true. At least she's learned a lesson and posted how wrong she was.

Just temporary. She"ll brainwash some poor other ignorant fool !

Yep did it myself never felt so powerful

It feels like an orgasm hahahahahahaha

Me too

As a woman, it encouraged me. Abusers, whatever the gender, should be held accountable for their actions.

In this story, the trash took itself out.

@@dainblack8289 that's insulting to trash. At least trash is useful for making compost and recycling and shit. She can't even wash a single dish 💀

You guys are funny af.

"Figure it out!" What an unpleasant individual.

She does know. She took herself out, remember?

Of course she had his support and utility during her affair. She only cared about what he could provide her, nothing about him as a person.

I was shocked when she said she felt bad for hurting him with the affair but didn't want to show him that. What kind of insanity is that? Even after hurting him and seeing him breaking down even though he did nothing g to deserve that she wants to continue punishing him. She did too many unforgivable things to have a second chance

@@sakurafan000 Her: I'm gonna twist the knife in his back even more. Why won't he take me back?

@@jasondyrkacz8270 she's a psycho

@@sakurafan000 She's sadistic. She took joy in the pain she caused him and reveled in it.

I'm amazed that the dad moved out, and she got to stay in the house to play happy families with the kids she'd never parented. She should have been the one to move out, dad should have got full custody, and the awful OP should have been paying child support from her wonderful salary.

Gynocentric courts said no and she keeps everything. Society

@@inciacci549 do women even pay child support these days?

Yes but its rare, a female millionaire got hit a few years back.

@@Black_Knight_-BK- depends who gets the kids. Women get kids over 80% of the time. So it's rare.

The guy needed the divorce. She was abusive af. And honestly only cares that he's convenient for her. Divorce was good.

I think you might be the wisest man around.

Imo when dudes cheat, theyre gonna open on what HE did wrong & what she DID wrong. Women just talk about what HE did wrong & never say what SHE did

Women do not love men unconditionally. This is natural. She was out-earning the man & he was at home. So she fucking hated him. Most women would’ve acted the same

She would be ecstatic that she has a tragedy in her life to blame everything on going forward.

@gnielsen07 Unconditional love is overrated in adult relationships. You shouldn't need to be told the basics of moral values while simultaneously insinuating that you have the maturity to care for a family. If you fuck up, you best learn from it, and please, OP,, do your self help away from your family to not hurt anybody more.

That would be tragic, and even, more screwed up, and cause her relationship with her kids to self-destruct.

Not worth it

My thoughts, exactly.

I somewhat agree but please don't make this into a gender thing. This woman is a horrible human being. But unfortunately there are a lot of people out there that are like her. Men and women who marry others to get benefits and walk all over their partners.

Yeah, I get pissed at my boyfriend but really it’s cuz he could’ve got a better job working with me easily but he decided to go somewhere else which I told him they weren’t going to pay or give him the hours he was claiming. And guess what that exact thing happened, he has to watch our kid now for the three days I work and I always have to hear him bitching and complaining “the baby kept me up all night”, “help me I don’t know what to do with him”, or “I work harder cuz I have to watch your kid” it’s infuriating cuz he hasn’t worked for two weeks and every time I come home he’s done nothing but watch tv and the baby. Plus the bitching and moaning is complaining seeing as how I watched him by myself while my boyfriend was working and still do majority of the week while my boyfriend leaves us alone or goes to do something else. He works some days NOW and when he does he’s an arrogant ass telling me “hurry up I have to go to work at this time” or leaves all the child care to me even though I work the same time he does, doesn’t help he accepted a random shift and didn’t tell me about it till 4 hours before work while in that time we were rushing to find a sitter because for some reason this idiot thought I could suddenly take off of work and watch him while also waking me from the limited sleep I have between shifts to take care of the baby even though he can and there is no reason for him to do so since he didn’t work either.

Lmao wrong as hell. I agree that this SPECIFIC woman is terrible but dont start grouping every woman together. Its like me saying “all men are dogs who cant control themselves around women and should never be trusted because they think with only their dick. Thats why they are so stupid.” Not only is that a very pog thing to say, but im being sexist by saying that. Also ive been in a relationship for 3 years that truly is unconditional. Though, sometimes i think it isnt the same for him... which makes me nervous...

@@concerned7563 congrats your are one of the exceptions to the rule. But you know what they say "Exceptions prove the rule." And you may not like it but generally speaking women are not like you when it comes to dating practices. One needs only look at dating/marriage/divorce statistics for that. Or the Various articles about women complaining that they can't find men who make a equal or greater income to them to date. Let's be real women are constantly being told to not settle & have check list as long as their arms or longer of unrealistic expectations that men need to meet in order to date them. Whereas men are constantly being shamed if they refuse to essentially date down or just say no to a woman that they find unattractive for ~insert random preference here. ~ As for your bf not being all in if that's the case I will say that sucks & I would question why you feel that way & why would he not be.

@@laucorn123 honestly, i didnt care to read that whole sentence but dude your first comment was sexist as hell, the point of the first one was to pretty much tell you your being a bigot tbh. It doesnt matter what you have experienced because generalizing people aint right.

Me, too. My heart is bleeding for the kids, and their dad. (SIGH), Jesus.🤦‍♀️

Every man who is thinking about taking back a cheating woman should read your comment. This is what almost inevitably happens because she never addressed whatever it was that led her to cheating the first time, so history repeats. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

Is he an idiot ?

@@bolikde9389 You mixed up the words "is" and "he", amigo.

If a man married western women this day and age, he deserves every bit of grief he gets. Double if he never learns from it.

you get my sympathy the first time she cheats, but not the second time. Kids or no kids, it's over

Sould have BOLDED the word MY. Be sire to point out your statement point.😅

Well, sadly that's not the case. Only recently did I hear (not reddit but real life) of someone who had divorced his wife, who had worked for the whole family while he was studying for years. Then within a few years after he became rich, he had an affair with his assistant/secretary/receptionist (I forgot which). He divorced her and did not leave her with much either.

@@linger368 agreed, it can happend both ways. On the other hand figures shows when a wife outearn her husband the divorce rate skyrocket (at least in the US of A).

@@Koozomec its very rare than men leave women because they dont earn enough but its pretty common to for women to do so

@@linger368 generally finances are a much more important aspect to a relationship with women, not men. Even my mom openly admits, if she’s gonna date a guy he better make as much or more than her because she doesn’t want to have to substantiate his life as well. It’s basically a fact at this point in the human race. Just like how men are naturally more drawn to physically attractive women, we can’t help it to an extent, men tend to just be more visual creatures. You can argue and bring up as many alternative situations you want, but the broad truth is just that. That’s how our genetics have developed over the years

Female that thinks she can do better rational. I've experienced it and so have most other men my age.

only a woman

You definitely have a heart of gold, I mean, you're going to make an wonderful wife.👍👍👍👍💛

You are what I call a real woman, naw scratch that, you are a traditional woaman.

It may be just for the kids! Let's be real here the moment they hit 18 and become adults no longer the law keeping them from their father or any of that garbage guess who's going to be seeing his kids a lot often and probably even getting close to Future grandchildren and guess who's going to be treated as that woman who will likely only see her grandchildren from afar and will spend her Twilight years an old folks home completely abandoned and ignored! I swear these people always want their little taste of heaven but they never seem to understand the term "a taste of Heaven... For a lifetime in HELL!" I especially was thinking of that when she was talking about how she was on cloud nine when she was cheating that no matter what good he did once she crossed the line it was never good enough and she was in the mindset of it was too late for him to change anything and only made her mad because he was making her feel bad for her poor choices! Cheaters are only sorry when they have to suffer consequences when they get that imaginary they get to ride out into the sunset to a happy life while their EX is Left Behind, a loser forever never recovering and showing just how much of a parasite they were perceived as being because in the mind of the cheater like the first story they're holding them back so they obviously must be parasites! only then does the cheater feel validated.... When that doesn't happen when my favorite couple "cruel-reality" start to show themselves ( similar to what happened to the Egyptians in the story of Moses, where they were happy to see the slaves leave if the plague stopped but quickly changed their minds once it finally dawned on them dad all the hardships like hard labor and whatnot was completely left to them meaning instead of taking it on themselves they decided to risk the wrath of God again by attempting to forcefully return said slaves... People of course also need to remember that it didn't end well for them when Moses parted the Red Sea and once the Jews were safely brought across the Egyptians who stupidly tried to follow them through the sea that they should have acknowledged was open by The God Who Threw those plagues at them had it gone on them just how stupid that was when it was closed with them still in it! I want to point that out because it seems to be similar with this woman just like all cheaters who want their ex back in such a humiliating bad relationship because "they learned their lesson" ) The cruel reality that what left with them was everything that made life easier for the cheater! As she pointed out with the guy she cheated on her husband with she ended things with him because she knew he was a simp and he come back to her but looking at how he didn't come back into the story it makes me wonder if he really did come back But the Sex wasn't as great anymore because you know she's not doing a bad thing anymore she broke up with her husband so she's not cheating on him anymore and that seems to be the fun of cheating that you're doing this to boodang that you shouldn't be doing when you don't have that validation because you know you're free person now, it's no longer fun oh, and then you have to look at the person you were cheating way and the same mindset that was applied to your ex now starts the apply to them why did you get together with someone like this? Where they always this boring. It's funny that it took having to go to a therapist something that should have been done when they were married you know a marriage counselor! And a large Bill to finally realize she shouldn't have listened to people on f****** Reddit! Especially when she also put that she edited her story to make herself look like a complete victim so of course they were going to be you go girl because they thought they were supporting someone who was in a bad relationship not somebody who wanted to be validated I'm sure if they knew she was cheating the trolls and those with common sense would come out and negative Force against her. Sorry for forcing you to see a wall of text but I just entered rant mode when I was thinking about the story and read your comment! Not mad at you just saying in a way that he was probably only staying connected to the kids nothing more eventually the way you said he can't trust her anymore memes he past the point of no return! At that point I see when the person who was thrown away finally stopped crying angry hating themselves believing it was their fault before they finally moved on to anger where it actually deserved the person who threw them away what did they do to deserve the entire treatment they never said like I'm using with this chick for example they never explained their complaints they kept it to themselves till eventually they forgot why they were angry at them they just were angry at them it only dawned on them that they were in the wrong once of course they don't get their ride out into the sunset ending that they believe they would get right after they got divorced! But I think another clue is she didn't have somebody to replace him if all those things that replaced and her kids were successfully convinced that she was the victim in this entire Affair and Daddy was the one in the wrong so they speak their side she would have felt validated for throwing him away but instead as I said the DD couple called cruel reality show the different day not spending time with her kids means that separating them from their father and especially the oldest knowing mommy cheated means their opinion on her is incredibly low buying love doesn't last very long! And the problem with lost is it's not Love Without Love attached to it eventually when it resides you start the wonder why you're around this person anymore maybe the deal with your lost but without love it's empty all Flash no substance! And boy do I love it when cheaters Reach This stage I have no love for traitors or home Wreckers! Which is why I love it when they get the ending they truly deserve

@@paulman34340 exactly,that's the point,she didn't find someone to replace him n also her eldest daughter saw her texts with AP n stopped talking to her made her want to trap the poor husband again, besides he was also a great house help .....well,I hope the over exaggerated sigh of relief she let out after signing the divorce papers was worth it,coz she's the ultimate loser,.....n still,she's just trying to make herself feel better by letting it all out.....n I'll agree with u about the kids part too.....she knows she's screwed in the long run,she wanted to use the husband to repair her image in front of the kids.....the kids will definitely resent her in future.....if she really was sorry about what she did to her husband,she would have done more than just ask him about getting back together.....I'm just ecstatic that she's hurting (if that was even true),for what she did to him n the kids,she at least deserves that.

@@paulman34340 I wish I had enough energy to read this essay

@@dbl3323 oh don't say that! You seem to have enough energy to waste on making a comment about not reading an essay! I'm sure you have enough to read mine :-)

@@paulman34340 weeeeell now that I have your comment in my notifications I'll just read it later👀

Lol damn right, the first sign that gave it away she only missed abusing him was saying he had faults at the therapist office. The husband really never had any fault the way She told the story. He did all he could to be a good husband, part time house husband, and father while working full time just like her. She’s upset because she knows she’s disgusting and won’t be able to wrong him again.

It's really the only story.

Yes it is like these people don’t realize that they are in the wrong.