WISDOM FOR WOMEN DATING AFTER 40 by RC BLAKES
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3 жыл бұрынIn this session we talk about Wisdom For Dating After 40.
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@ombreyarenee3826 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 49, I will be 50 in March. I've realize that I much rather be by myself. Too many men are trying to find a place to live. Or he expect you to give him husband privileges, and he is not even a good boyfriend. I'm not taking care of a man child. Nor will I settle just to say I have a piece of man. Nope, it's not worth it.
@buzzingbee9499 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you will get what your heart desires. I hope I will also. We deserve to love and be loved and in a healthy relationship 💜🙏
@truezladye1893 3 жыл бұрын
Try foreign men, those that have their status okay.
@reitaebohon7853 3 жыл бұрын
You are very right.
@katherineguest2294 3 жыл бұрын
You are so correct.. A lot of ladies are targets because of our careers..if you have your own home and retirements. There are lots of males not on our same levels. There are afraid of us. Ladies we have to protect our access
@brindaram1073 3 жыл бұрын
You resonated what I think.
@phyllisburris7093 3 жыл бұрын
My mom remarried at 59 & she is still married at 89. So yes its possible to find love.
@Melly16yr10 3 жыл бұрын
Impressive
@TheSunshinefee 3 жыл бұрын
what is the point of getting married late.
@justinanthenge619 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a soul mate
@RobinRoyaleRobin 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome, love can come at any age.
@reginap942 3 жыл бұрын
Im 60 and mostly comfortable on my own but I sure would like the company of a nice gentelman. Happy for your mother
@coachRaawel 2 жыл бұрын
I am grateful to have found this ministry. I am 52. Im waiting on my husband. I took 7 years to grow internally - no dating, NO sex, no lies, no games. This is my season and i am clear about what i desire. I am already excited knowing my God-fearing husband is seeking me as well.
@joycekatuu3887 2 жыл бұрын
Same here,I thank Bishop for the wisdom.
@candace4016 Жыл бұрын
May I ask how you stayed strong in your faith and abstained from sex?
@coachRaawel Жыл бұрын
@@candace4016 so firstly There is a difference between celibacy and abstinence. I’ve been celibate for six years and a couple of months but I’ve been Practicing abstinence for about five or six months. Celibacy means no form of intimacy no toys gadgets Fondling masturbation or any of that …. No problem for me because I had to overcome trauma in order not to form trauma bonds and to purify myself and removed energies from my downline… however, because I was hurt so many times in the past it was easy to give up. Recently I was afraid that I wouldn’t enjoy sex but I know that being married that’s going to be required therefore I had to learn about tantra sex and the art of making love by understanding my own body. I have still never used any gadgets or toys but I’ve learned a lot more about my body and I’m grateful for the mindset I’m in today. Watch our live show on Sundays at 7 PM central on Facebook.
@Clauds71 Жыл бұрын
😍
@LovelyVibrations Жыл бұрын
🎯
@amyburke2989 11 ай бұрын
Im 50. A veterinary surgeon. Been a single mom for 21 years. Definitely pushed into the masculine role after guys who were not up for the role. That’s been the most eye opening thing. The masculine and feminine. Never thought I could get back to the feminine easily but when you find a masculine man it’s easy :)
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
Why would should a masculine man settles for an old used up damaged woman when he could find a nice young fertile woman with no miles. Do men a favor and stay away from them.
@catherinenjoki9378 7 ай бұрын
Am 57 have lived with a man who has never provided for me and my children he is a house husband for 20years now good father now the children are grown and out of the next
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
Sounds like you want a provider not a lover.
@AndyAkpan-wf9kk 7 ай бұрын
There always a lover and a friend out there.. Just just have to open your eyes and look ...You have to give benefit of the doubt.. there is no way all the eggs be rotten they good ones in the basket.. Just look
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
@@AndyAkpan-wf9kk an old woman's eggs are rotten cuz she's too old. She's not fertile anymore. just damaged goods.
@jeaniegee7305 3 жыл бұрын
My mother remarried at 83.
@magneticfavor9500 3 жыл бұрын
won't he do it 💃🏾🙏🏾💕
@JP-sg1xb 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Then there's hope for my mom who has been praying for a 2nd husband.
@ataed2005 3 жыл бұрын
Wow!
@cynthiarichmond3545 3 жыл бұрын
God will for fill the desires of your heart! Your mother gives other women inspiration.
@dorothymatthews6690 3 жыл бұрын
Jeannie Gee. Awesome! So happy for your mom. I'm 61 and that gives me hope.
@CoachLove 3 жыл бұрын
I deserve to be soft, feminine, protected, and provided for by the right man. 🙌🏾
@KJ-pc3rp 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@cheshahale 3 жыл бұрын
Say It!!
@lynn111l 3 жыл бұрын
Me too at age 48.
@sandieb2019 3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@buffystoltz2712 3 жыл бұрын
Me too at 52
@PamelaBrooks2020 6 ай бұрын
1. Don't date out of need. 2. Never hide yourself to make a man comfortable. 3. Be aware of masculine n feminine energy. 4. Make your intentions clear. 5. Call a thing a thing. Can't make a husband out of a clown 6. Be with a man of depth.
@womensfinancialempowerment8039 Жыл бұрын
“Don’t allow yourself to date out of need.” ✔️ I’m grateful that I’m in a good place where I don’t “need” a man but desire to share my life with someone.
@janellamurphy4212 Жыл бұрын
YUPPA!!!! IN TOTAL AGREEMENT WITH THAT POINT!!!!💥💥💥💯💯💯💯 THE ONLY MAN I NEED IS JESUS🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@bluetickbeagles116 Жыл бұрын
Yes 💯 and it should always be like that at any age.
@diamondperri Жыл бұрын
Amen
@vesboutiques 11 ай бұрын
I’m so happy you found it useful for ppppppp
@vesboutiques 11 ай бұрын
❤😅
@ms.bornagain57 3 жыл бұрын
Be careful of the one's who call themselves a man of God as well.
@blessedgirl1428 3 жыл бұрын
They are the worst
@nzurimoja1845 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!!
@brendacrawford8653 3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@MaryLouise 3 жыл бұрын
Most definitely!
@teresaintexas 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true
@deborahadamu9087 3 жыл бұрын
"Call a thing a thing. Don't try to make a husband out of a clown."
@marcycat 3 жыл бұрын
Now that's saying something.
@blessedmslady7341 2 жыл бұрын
Clown, idiot, worthless BS etc etc etc
@msherrean74 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ann8846 2 жыл бұрын
As a single 45 year-old Caucasian woman, i just found this very comforting. No false promises, but some reminders to be strong and avoid compromising on what really matters. Thank you very much, Pastor Blake.
@ann8846 Жыл бұрын
@@MB-iv4mq Interesting. Are you asking for my point of view as a woman, or are you asking for validation of your point of view as a man who would like the women he dates to answer his questions? Every marriage should involve partners who bring something to the table. I don't think every date should necessarily have to be about questions like that, though. Sometimes, it's flattering and gives a woman hope to know that a man plans to offer her something if she loves him. I'm not sure why, but if the woman does not have a ready answer to your question about what she brings to the table, it could be because she thought you were trying to court her and impress her, not turn the tables and expect her to do that to you. Hope you meet someone who brings a strong spirit of mutuality to your dates in future.
@playfultones 9 ай бұрын
You will never be comfortable in something that is too small for you!!!!! Oh Glory! Thank you SO much. I was raised by a woman who taught me it was my duty to please a man under all circumstances. It was my mom! It took me up to 63 years to realize she was clueless. So grateful for these precious videos. Thank you Pastor.
@AndyAkpan-wf9kk 7 ай бұрын
She was but you wouldn't blame her... But thank God your eyes got opened
@CoachLove 3 жыл бұрын
The only projects I'm accepting now deal with creating a home. No more "build-a-man" for me.
@faithlives5643 3 жыл бұрын
Build-a-man are for weak women who don't value themselves. I watched some friends pay half rent/mortgage and the dude is banging out their backs. That is shameful to get your back banged out and you contributing financially for the roof over your head. Hell To The No! My father said. "If a man asks you for $1.00, he ain't no good." Praise God, I have never had a man ask me for money nor given a man a dime. Real men don't pimp women.
@shellyannrichards6565 3 жыл бұрын
Ditto... To no more build a man
@queenlauralee47 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@solochica81 3 жыл бұрын
NO MORE!!! 🙌🏾
@KJ-pc3rp 3 жыл бұрын
@@blksunshine2206 😂😂😂 that's so real.
@katoloniable 3 жыл бұрын
Better to wait long, than marry wrong. The right relationship will negate any ‘lost’ time
@altagraciamarte7708 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jjtothe3rdpower 3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@nicoleross7726 3 жыл бұрын
Yesssss!
@yow2363 2 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@ekindejoycenzelle1659 2 жыл бұрын
True
@cynthiasmith3768 2 жыл бұрын
I am 54 years old I use to want to be married so bad but now I am so comfortable with my relationship with the Lord and serving him, I don’t have to be married I am in a good place enjoying my life, I love being single❤️❤️❤️
@normaclark-green3657 11 ай бұрын
I'm 70, widow and I'm believing to marry again thank you so much for the 7 points great information. I was eight years older than my husband and it worked for us so I'm open and excited to see what God will do for us. I trust God
@starbeauty672 10 ай бұрын
Amen
@dorothybrown3234 9 ай бұрын
O m g. How About 🤔 ❓️ 27 year s older in love ❤️ sex👎 👎 we choose to love God and wait . Until we are married. We've been married And devices What says You.
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
I'm sure your too old to have kids again. What good are you now that you've become aged damaged goods? You don't stand a chance against younger women. Men will look right past you now.
@lindabooker5165 3 жыл бұрын
This was a GREAT TOPIC! My Dad told me when I was in High School if a man can't give you more than what you have you don't need him.
@sjay19babybaybay93 3 жыл бұрын
You're so lucky! My dad wasn't around to tell me anything about men. When i was younger especially my teens I yearned for it!
@empresserica 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a witness. I didn't have a dad around to tell me that, I had to learn the hard way, but that is the sho nuff truth!
@dragonfly3015 3 жыл бұрын
@@sjay19babybaybay93 Hi Jay, I have a 15 yr old dtr, no dad around ccx raised her on my own, & neither do I bring any man around her, too busy working, schooling and just being her parent. Your words captured my attention, about how you yearned for your fathers presence perhaps dating wisdom. As a single mom, what is your best advice/ wisdom would you share with me, so that I try not to fail in such sensitive time of her life. While I do feel I have a whole lot of wisdom in so many ways, to share with her, & do my best, so far she is a great teen& very respectful, I m sure there are and will be many blind spots& dont want to be caught off guard. It would be nice to hear other women's insight or even those that didn't have a father figure. Thank you
@sjay19babybaybay93 3 жыл бұрын
@@dragonfly3015 Don't sugar coat. Be straight with her when it comes to men. Tell not to be so trusting with men and let her know how special she is. In addition to teaching to set boundaries for herself so she can continue to aim high in life. Let her listen to Pastor RC Blakes, he tells it like it is! She needs to see value in herself. That when she encounters feelings for a boy she will know how to conduct herself when she is away from you! Tell her all the games men will play to manipulate her for sex and the mind games men induce to get her to breakdown and give in to their wants
@dragonfly3015 3 жыл бұрын
@@sjay19babybaybay93 In agreement Thank you..🤗Im frequently forwarding this stuff and quotes too. So far, Im happy to say, she does listen to what I send her, bcs she will talk about it in our conversations. I pray over her without cease...thank you so much...
@jank358 3 жыл бұрын
After 40 many men are divorced at least once and looking for a girlfriend or housemate but not marriage, unfortunately... and the never married ones are never married for a reason 😔
@Medietos 3 жыл бұрын
Jan: Not necessarily, I saw a never-married man whom I had dated through an agency a few years earlier (as he was 47). At that point in time, he was desperate, nervous,, immature, unstable and scruffy-looking. Those few years later he had developed into a dashing, calm, self-confident, smart-looking man, probably through the help of therapy of some kind.
@October3074 3 жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf how old is this man u speak of?
@nikbks8637 3 жыл бұрын
these comments are so discouraging.... :(
@Seznumerouno 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of men and women not married over 40 for many reasons.
@felinearies7026 3 жыл бұрын
Yes the dusty man child are
@ibukayov Жыл бұрын
‘You cannot equate dating to sex’ - I love this ❤️ & sex often complicates things & it’s actually traumatizing to engage in casually for anyone looking for something deeper
@adelaideanyika6422 Жыл бұрын
Very powerful and clear 💪
@janellamurphy4212 Жыл бұрын
ON POINT!!!!!! REAL TALK AMEN!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯✊🏾✊🏾
@ageeagee7805 Жыл бұрын
Yes right I have just cut all that out as well realizing finally that if I really want that type of high level spiritual relationship i have to put off sex until i find that
@PinkPatmos Жыл бұрын
I’m 45, and divorced after 20 years of marriage. Dating has been an experience. I never really had the chance to date as an adult. I’ve already made mistakes, however I’m grateful I found your teachings early in! I just began dating in the last 6 months.
@adriennerobinson1180 7 ай бұрын
AMEN, God Bless You
@junecolthirst4095 7 ай бұрын
Your insight and advice are so relevant thank you.
@chenitadickerson 3 жыл бұрын
Golden nugget for me: “Don’t dumb yourself down but calm yourself down”
@sunflowersoul821 3 жыл бұрын
"Golden nugget" indeed!🙌🏾
@healingonesmindset 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽🙋🏾♀️ Unfortunately, I did🤦🏽♀️
@arlenemccray6082 3 жыл бұрын
@@healingonesmindset no condemnation, now you know. God bless you for your confession. You rise 🙌
@princessharrison8926 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr Blake
@nikkyshamz2696 3 жыл бұрын
A WORD!!!
@toniwilliams9817 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 46 and I'm still vibrant, lively, fun, working on my purpose and career, and I want a partner, a King. I don't need one.
@terrymartin2455 3 жыл бұрын
Teee... where are you?
@joysmith7348 3 жыл бұрын
Girl!! You don't want a mummy's boy.
@joysmith7348 3 жыл бұрын
With a mommy's boy you'll need a teaspoon and a wheelbarrow.Lol
@crystalwilson9477 3 жыл бұрын
Me too girl.
@joysmith7348 3 жыл бұрын
Jannett, you are in the recycle teenagers age group.
@sekayiperkins7448 11 ай бұрын
I’ve had two encounters in the past week of two men offering to help me with baggage, and I turned them down. And I realize that first of all, it’s been a long time since a man ever offered to help me with anything. Second of all, I realize I’m so used to doing it by myself that I don’t even recognize a gentleman when I see one.
@QIKWIA Жыл бұрын
🙏🏿Thank you very much, Bishop.. I've learned in my decades of living to never need a man, but be a woman a man needs.. 💃I am THE PRIZE!!!🏆
@user-tp5ej8hh3w Жыл бұрын
You are 100 percent right. Bon
@ChristyKayKirk Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
how many other guys were you "the prize" for? Too bad you don't have what men value in women anymore. You got too many miles on now. Your car from the prize. Your more a liability. The best thing a woman can give a man is her youth.
@AndyAkpan-wf9kk 7 ай бұрын
A man need a woman and a woman need man... Reason why eve was created for Adam because they both need themselves
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
@@AndyAkpan-wf9kk too bad eve messed it up.
@martha6574 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 56 years old and so happy by myself. I have the best king in my which is “Our Lord.”
@luciakipps5653 3 жыл бұрын
Me too! But He said He wants to love me through a man also. I wasn't ready. I am in process of being prepared for the one HE has for me.
@luciakipps5653 3 жыл бұрын
He is establishing Kingdom marriages in this season. If youbare open to getting married, ask Him about it and He will prepare you for the one He created for you too!
@blessedgirl1428 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jamilabarnes845 3 жыл бұрын
Don't mistake a sexualship for companionship or relationship
@narcabusevictimgermany9687 3 жыл бұрын
But it helps if men are interested in having sex with you even if they don’t want a relationship with you.
@mhizzgorgeouso.s2012 3 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said
@janellamurphy5665 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!
@alishadennis17 3 жыл бұрын
It isn't worth it in the end. Let God bless your dating, engagement & marraige in abundance instead of another ungodly affair. God's got to better for you when we believe, prepare & have a good happy life & love to share & he has it to give to you for you to receive from quality man that's in submission to God you can be ❤ together with on God's good plans he will bless & not sin, foolishness & weakness that pulls us down Be lifted up on the same page for a life time of marraige & the power & enjoyment in your life of good choices with good results for you.😊😀💝
@alishadennis17 3 жыл бұрын
@@narcabusevictimgermany9687 no cause that's about hump & dump, failed Affair & fornicating out side of God's will having sex out side if holy matrimony & it's not holy or blessed & will end sadly for no good reason but being used temporarily & pulling down a woman's & man's self respect & purpose in life. 👎 NO NOT, NO NOT GOOD . FINDING SOME ONE ATTRACTIVE EVEN WHEN YOU DON'T MATCH UP IS COOL. SHUT 🚪 DOOR ON SEXUAL THOUGHT TO JUST USE HER!!!
@zaycharles1699 Жыл бұрын
After being up all night watching videos of how women are worthless after 30 I'm happy I saw this. At the age of 38 I wanna stay on this side of KZfaq 😂🤣😂🤣 Them podcast had me feeling like well Dam
@Kiki-AndBeyond 9 ай бұрын
You are so right. I'm the same age and it's absolutely ridiculous all the negative commentary concerning women over 35. I haven't put myself out there in years. However, I want to make a conscious effort to get back out there. How has dating been going for you?
@zaycharles1699 9 ай бұрын
@@Kiki-AndBeyond same it's just scary lol but May God bless us Amen
@AshleeLoveit 8 ай бұрын
Don’t let those negative men or podcast make you feel some type of way! Most are NOT in happy relationship. Most are single. You, we have a lot of good quality, in our mid- late 30s we know ours better, more in tune with our instincts. So May God bless us in finding that right kind of love.
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
What man in his right mind would settle for an old used up woman with miles and damage on her when he could find a nice young fertile woman with no miles on her? Sorry but you don't stand a chance now.
@michael10613 7 ай бұрын
this is why KS used to play "tell me good lies". Yall ladies love the false hope. Less than 5% of women get married after 45
@purplelily6950 2 жыл бұрын
What a great explanation about women dating younger men. My marriage was not ordained by God, now I'm divorced. I invited God to be my matchmaker in my next relationship.🙂
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
What man in his right mind would settle for an old used up woman with miles and damage on her when he could find a nice young fertile woman with no miles on her? You don't stand a chance against a younger still fertile woman now.
@queenmichieboo7467 3 жыл бұрын
I will not hide my age...every day above ground is a blessing!!!
@sanitamitchell5 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@carlawilliams8136 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Mnkems 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you you're doing a great job.
@beverlywilliams2839 2 жыл бұрын
Good advice Reverend Blake's you're backing experience what scriptures from the Bible amen
@clarahoskins8116 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mnkems lol
@gina9684 3 жыл бұрын
He said " you wake up and realize you don't have a husband you have a son"..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@greaterishe7197 3 жыл бұрын
Lawd Jesus I know the feeling!!
@merrytunes8697 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been there and done that. Immediately started living with someone else after our break up and we weren’t even divorced yet. He has always lived with a woman. These men are not strong enough to take care of themselves, but we want them to take care of us. We need to use logic and common sense
@gigicleanup 3 жыл бұрын
@@merrytunes8697 100% correct Sis. I am divorcing my man child as we speak! Lesson learned... LESSON LEARNED!!
@irenerandolph5228 3 жыл бұрын
Check mate!!!!
@luciakipps5653 3 жыл бұрын
Had that. Now free thank God.
@teaundascott1223 Жыл бұрын
My dad told me, if he is not adding to what you already got. You don't need no subtraction. I have a 17 year old son to raise. I am grateful for my father. The best advice he has given me.
@jazzioldchick5696 Жыл бұрын
I found this video tonight. I am a woman with male energy. Divorced with a son to raise, I had to wear all of the hats. I want to flip on my feminine energy! Thank you for this video and all of your efforts to help us. 💜
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
What man in his right mind would settle for an old used up woman with miles and damage on her when he could find a nice young fertile woman with no miles on her? Why should another guy have to raise your kid? It's not fair or of benefit.
@movingforward789 5 ай бұрын
@@ez-g3090Wow…. Your negative opinion was unnecessary…
@CoachLove 3 жыл бұрын
It's not my job to make a man feel comfortable by hiding who I am! That position right there nearly killed my soul...
@extrememelonspillageyesyes730 3 жыл бұрын
Hm I feel u yes iam 40 years and I will be honest I have already come to grips that it's me and God I havent achieved much because of my choices running behind men however I am doing it all on my own at this point I will love to be married but waiting on God I am in a relationship but hm it's gone no where for 12 years me and God 2 mths and it will be over cant do it any more cant hope or believe.Wabt to go back to college to improve myself it feels as if I am starting all over and hmm I am ok
@sweetielee9193 3 жыл бұрын
@@extrememelonspillageyesyes730 Its It's ok to start over.
@ez-g3090 2 ай бұрын
@@sweetielee9193 but it's not ok to be trading your d@maged goods for a high quality man.
@honeydip3965 3 жыл бұрын
Cute & fine won't pay the bills.
@moneyhoney2485 3 жыл бұрын
You better say it! Tuh 😒
@andrealmorris8576 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@666happygirl2 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN TO THAT
@ericthered1140 3 жыл бұрын
height and weight???
@October3074 3 жыл бұрын
@@ericthered1140 go back 2 Kevin Samuels page with that Sir.
@Weelsa 11 ай бұрын
I wish I had this lesson taught to me a young women. I saw all the red flags, my instincts was always correct. But because what I saw was not what it seemed I continued down the path. I am grateful for the Lord opening my eyes and teaching me what I needed to know. I am very happy being single because it helped me to reflect and evaluate myself. I have boundaries and I understand my worth. I'm in love with the woman I've become ❤️
@daniellemason8481 2 жыл бұрын
I truly appreciate this! I divorced after 16 years of marriage and although I don’t know anything about dating the Holy Spirit has guided me and this video is validation. 🙌🏾
@Idklolhelp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for talking to us (female ). Sometimes we settle for a physical relationship.
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
What man in his right mind would settle for an old used up woman with miles and damage on her when he could find a nice young fertile woman with no miles on her? Sorry but you don't stand a chance now.
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
@@Idklolhelp at her age she's lucky to get a cat or dog to keep her company.
@cassandrabowen9379 3 жыл бұрын
Im still learning at 64
@janellamurphy4212 3 жыл бұрын
Me too at 68
@jaywatson6261 3 жыл бұрын
@@janellamurphy4212 Me too at the same age...👍🏾
@deborahadamu9087 3 жыл бұрын
"This is not the day, nor the time, for a woman to depend on a man for her life line."
@shayjohnson5449 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@sharoneh8929 Жыл бұрын
Dating is not a sexual relationship. Do not equate sex with dating. Never date out of need...Live your Purpose, it is all fulfilling, be married to your purpose! 😊Powerful truths💥✨ Woman know your Worth✅✝️💯
@deborahsteele7427 7 ай бұрын
"PASTOR RC, YOU'RE SUCH A TRUE "DELIGHT" TO LISTEN TO, AND YOU'RE EXTREMELY FUNNY, AND THIS IS A MESSAGE THAT A LOT OF WOMEN TRULY NEEDS TO HEAR, AND LISTEN TO VERY CAREFULLY, AS WELL" ... "OUTSTANDING JOB', AND PLEASE CONTINUE ON DOING THE "GREAT THINGS" THAT YOU'VE BEEN TRULY CALLED TO DO, AND MAY THE LORD ABOVE, CONTINUE TO BLESS & PROSPER YOU, IN ALL THAT YOU, BOTH SAY & DO" ... BLESSINGS ALWAYS, MS. DEBORAH J. STEELE - 11/22/23
@firstladyqueen5985 3 жыл бұрын
Be careful of feminine men, and masculine women. Today's society is soooo messed up! 😥😢
@msh511 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@reginap942 3 жыл бұрын
?
@Medietos 3 жыл бұрын
Nutritional Balancing Science helps w that
@tacowboys6890 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 41 I get so angry when I see these young girls driving & the guy’s siting on the passenger side with the seat laid back to the floor, or the woman pulling out her EBT card to pay for groceries & he’s putting them in the basket. I’m sorry (not in all cases) but if a lady has to have an EBT card then why are you there she shouldn’t be receiving food stamps with you in her life as her man/husband! Just some things in our communities today that irritate the heck out of me!
@farfetched9296 3 жыл бұрын
It's not getting any better
@billitraphillips7369 3 жыл бұрын
Me and the guy I been dating for 15 months today just ended officially today what he had to give was not enough of what I require Im a wife..
@yanicketienne1464 3 жыл бұрын
Billitra Phillips: I’m sorry that it didn’t go well for you. It hurts. I sympathize. Yes, queen standards say you deserve more. Praying for you. Hang in there. 👍🏽
@andrealmorris8576 3 жыл бұрын
CONGRATS! you Woke up sleeping Queen
@therealone8628 3 жыл бұрын
@@andrealmorris8576 lol
@gwenlee9562 9 ай бұрын
I am over 70 and after dating over 66 men have written a book "Off The Wall: An Extraordinary Ordinary Girl". Of course I had to explain dating is not a sexual relationship. I met and talked with over 300 men, but only decided to date 66 men. Some of my male friends told me that my standards were too high and I was older and should lower my standards. I explained, it would be "NICE" for a man to find me that would ENHANCE my life (as I would ENHANCE his) but not "NECESSARY".
@adriennerobinson1180 7 ай бұрын
Oh wow
@ez-g3090 2 ай бұрын
Over 66 men? Sounds like you good a lot of miles and d@maged accumulated on your u$ed up body.
@Lola-vm1di 2 жыл бұрын
I have officially adopted you as the father I never had, please keep this good advice coming and thank you/bless you
@deniselopez6226 3 жыл бұрын
“We don’t have to make a man comfortable” AMEN!!
@rosettajones1161 3 жыл бұрын
So true why make him comfortable when he is suppose to be the provider? Not so!
@ursalawooley971 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!
@ivanfunctionx8431 3 жыл бұрын
@@rosettajones1161 mens don't have to be woman provider
@rosettajones1161 3 жыл бұрын
@@ivanfunctionx8431 Absolutely not if he is not married to her. And she shouldn't provide for him either.
@bahamastranslatorsbyprof.m3098 3 жыл бұрын
@@rosettajones1161 n kk Jim
@alifeofjoy29 3 жыл бұрын
NEVER had an issue with my age. In fact I feel more sexier and secure in my skin the older I get. It's called aging with grace! Bless! #40thisyear
@In_deine_Staerke 2 жыл бұрын
Getting 36 this year - but still - have to learn and better earlier than to late.
@Lisa-yy7ov 2 жыл бұрын
Me too. Born in 82
@denisewinston137 2 жыл бұрын
Hi I'm 58 and I am more comfortable and love my age now, then I did when I was in my 20s and 30s, I love my body all my curves and my looks
@shaquandaperry8203 Жыл бұрын
Me too!!! I just turned 40 this past May and honestly I am ready to settle down !!
@crystalgrose Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙌🏽💯
@traciemcelroy6391 2 жыл бұрын
I never had a dad or brother who guided me, if I had you as a positive role model in My life I could've avoided so many life snafus ! Bless you for sharing your God given wisdom! Watching you now as a grown woman I'm watching as if you're my brother or uncle giving all the golden nuggets of life!! Thank you
@FernGray Жыл бұрын
Im 38 and took 2 years off after a super damaging 3 year Relationship.. I’m happy, physically mentally and spiritually fulfilled, quit my job to pursue a more mindful and balanced lifestyle, and am actually so cautious about putting myself out there again and disrupting the energy and peace I have.. as i approach 40 im determined to step out with less fear and more faith because I want to share and experience gentle and reciprocal love.. God is faithful!
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
What man in his right mind would settle for an old used up woman with miles and damage on her when he could find a nice young fertile woman with no miles on her? Sorry but you don't stand a chance now.
@EncourageMe-zv6ju 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not your job to make him comfortable, it’s his job to make you comfortable. Facts 👏🏾
@user-im1kr6yy1g 3 жыл бұрын
It's no one's job to make either feel comfortable .
@tinajones6787 3 жыл бұрын
An this is the absolute Truth
@Jane5720 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-im1kr6yy1g wrong, the man needs to.
@user-im1kr6yy1g 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jane5720 he doesn't owe you a thing other than to act respectful and dignified. Any expectations you might have beyond that are your issues not his.
@Jane5720 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-im1kr6yy1g and you have the right never to bother with him again
@happylindsay4475 3 жыл бұрын
“ You are never going to be comfortable in something that is too small for you..” Mercy! A whole WORD!!!
@daughteroftheking721 3 жыл бұрын
❗️
@rosej5029 3 жыл бұрын
I'm going through that right now with my SMALL job and friendships.
@judymarshall3562 3 жыл бұрын
You are so true,
@sweetumsDenise 3 жыл бұрын
Riight! Girl, a WHOLE WORD!
@adriennerobinson1180 7 ай бұрын
Yes! TRUTH INDEED
@verycherry4459 11 ай бұрын
I'm so glad to have found this! Social media discriminates against women over 25 or 30. There is hardly anything positive regarding women over 40.
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
That's what women get for waiting till they have become damaged goods to try and find a man. Now you have no real value to offer a man.
@karinazrzu 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sandreaacker5642 Жыл бұрын
I love this video Pastor! I’m 38 and that’s always been my mindset. Never feel like you need a man. Pour into yourself and give yourself everything you desire from a man. A man is a chaser/hunter, he knows what his desires are. I’ve learned lessons in relationships. Always let a man be a man, never force anything. When a woman is in tune with herself mentally, spiritually and sexually, she will carry herself as such. It’s nothing wrong with waiting.
@joyceogbaki3037 10 ай бұрын
❤ am 37 years
@adriennerobinson1180 7 ай бұрын
Truth Indeed AMEN 🙏
@yolandabrady6517 3 жыл бұрын
Dating and desperation are a bad combination!!!!
@rosettajones1161 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true which is why it is never to show that you are desperate to a man.
@ladyt_speaks_truths3923 3 жыл бұрын
"Never concern yourself with running someone off.... You got to be clear" "If he run off he needed to be run off" Thank you for the confirmation
@gingerandspice1209 3 жыл бұрын
True! I state up front what I expect and want and let him choose whether or not he wants to stay!
@blackgoddess3 3 жыл бұрын
So right
@nildabridgeman8104 3 жыл бұрын
POWERFUL 💪
@justJamiePS 3 жыл бұрын
truth!
@missbrendacrawford8865 3 жыл бұрын
I
@nalaniaivao8679 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 46. Been a widow at 41. There was some lessons I've learned about dating for needs. It doesn't work. I'm now in a place where I have everything & am happy by myself. Truly happy. I am a child of God & will never chase after a man. I miss the companionship sometimes but then I remember Jesus is always present. Thank you for sharing.
@fantasyangel8377 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing wisdom with us. I lost my significant other about 9 months ago , I have made the decision to grieve and take my time before getting into another relationship. We have to be careful as women, when we share information about losing someone, cause guys try be sneaky about finding a way to use that to get what they truly want. Ladies, let's stay focused on God and have discernment when interacting with men. Stay blessed.
@ayshasuleiman4208 Жыл бұрын
Hey who ever your videos are the best thank you very much
@lauraani9952 2 жыл бұрын
"A man has to intrigue you intellectually". This is deep.
@carlac1955 3 жыл бұрын
My Mom remarried at 51 they are celebrating 27 years of Marriage, he's a wonderful step dad and GrandDad! My Aunt remarried around 60, and they stayed together until he passed at 80, the stories are endless, just like love.... Thank you for this message and all the others Pastor Blakes!!!!
@JM-yf5rt 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Your comments are inspiring!
@abprecious9554 3 жыл бұрын
This will happen for me 🙏🙏🙏
@dawn7732 3 жыл бұрын
Sweet. Thanks for sharing. Wonderful to hear.
@janicewoods8399 3 жыл бұрын
I married the 3rd time at 53 and he is just like he was the first, my true soulmate we have been married 7yrs now wouldn’t choose no one over him. It will be to death do us part
@megfischgrund2551 2 жыл бұрын
@@JM-yf5rt Thank you for your wisdom. I am 66 years young and proud of it! Wish I had listened to you years ago❤️🙏. Now I understand the mistakes I have made!
@YourAuthenticSelf_LifeCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
I don't need a man but i do want that companion that partner in my life. I'm good on my own and I refuse to settle for less than I deserve.
@lauraa2453 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss girl, I always tell my family members that too; I don’t NEED a man, I WANT a man!
@theonly1258 3 жыл бұрын
True
@denisecox8683 3 жыл бұрын
If he can't add to me I refuse for him to take away at 41
@charmariah4766 3 жыл бұрын
@@denisecox8683 Exactly @55.
@thelmajones9508 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Girl .Me too. Brilliant Answer 👍
@judithisalube1097 Жыл бұрын
I'm from Uganda and I thank the holy spirit that guided me here,I wish I got this advice much earlier on Neverless its never too late to become the queen that I'm purposed to be ,thank you pastor for being my guide
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
What man in his right mind would settle for an old used up woman with miles and damage on her when he could find a nice young fertile woman with no miles on her? Sorry but you don't stand a chance now.
@msprettykawaii950 Жыл бұрын
I realized that I might be single and focus on my kids or career. I can be happy as long as I know how to be contented.
@n.v.1173 3 жыл бұрын
“YOU DON’T HAVE A HUSBAND, YOU HAVE A SON”!! 😂😂😂 Cracked me up! 😂
@jowan254 3 жыл бұрын
Hilarious
@nicoledavis7320 3 жыл бұрын
WOW JUST WOW, THAT'S ME AND I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW IT YEA HE ACTS JUST LIKE A CHILD CAN'T DO ANYTHING FOR HIMSELF, BUT AS SOON AS
@nicoledavis7320 3 жыл бұрын
I ask or suggest anything, oh im treating him like a child.
@nicoledavis7320 3 жыл бұрын
He doesn't want to do much of anything for HIMSELF.
@wildhorses6817 3 жыл бұрын
And you will be supporting that son, they are looking for money these days
@dorothycopeland4267 3 жыл бұрын
I am 73 years old and in a good relationship. I have no problem with telling my age. I love your teaching. We do things together. He is a jewel.
@sweetdiva590 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow. I'm happy for you. How did you meet? I know this was 4 months ago. Sure hope you see this
@miguelinafrizzell4655 2 жыл бұрын
So happy for you
@dorothycopeland4267 2 жыл бұрын
@@sweetdiva590 We met online. I prayed and asked God for someone to talk to and I beleive he gave me who I am talking to. God has done a great deal in my life. I came from an abusive husband. My husband passed in 2004. I stayed away from.any relationship until now. Now I am able to talk to someone. He encourages me. He adds to my life and I am grateful. Thank you for your wonderful teaching and counseling for women and men. I can tell you and your wife are solid people and firstly jointed together as a three fold cord and that is as it should be. God bless you both.
@MoniqueBoea 2 жыл бұрын
Go head Ms Dorothy!
@dorothycopeland4267 2 жыл бұрын
@@MoniqueBoea thank you for your support. Coming out of a bad marriage and being single took me some time to trust someone else.
@user-zx5xw4yw2e Жыл бұрын
"Call a thing a thing. Don't try to make a husband out of a clown. Call a thing what it is." You're soooo right sir. 👍
@sharoneh8929 Жыл бұрын
No time to waste!!!😮
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
Don't try to make wife out an old used up damaged woman. How about that for the truth on why women are like cars they lose their value with age and require more maintenance. The best thing a woman can give a man is her youth. I'm sure you would want your son to bring home some used up single mom and have all the responsibility of raised the child but no authority. How stup!d can you feminist women be. You so called Christian women are nothing but hypocrites. Stop lying to yourself. If you don't have a husband by now it's clearly cuz your not worth having around. You bring no real value to a man.
@ez-g3090 7 ай бұрын
@@sharoneh8929 the time has already been wasted. She should have tied down a good man when she was young and had what men value in women. Don't be over here giving the wrong advice m0r0n.
@kaibri9287 Жыл бұрын
It was great listening to you. At 43, all you're saying is accurate. I didn't have that mine set in my 20s and most my 30s. Took learning the hard way. Better late than never
@lauraa2453 3 жыл бұрын
Ladies know your worth and don’t be afraid to remind men of your value.
@cynthiadavis7130 2 жыл бұрын
Just tuned into your video, I’m listening.
@shereejarrett7784 2 жыл бұрын
If we have to remind him of our value, then he would not have valued us in the first instance. As women, we have to keep our worth and value at the forefront of our minds; lest we allow an unworthy suitor to cause us distress. No more broken consciousness...embrace the queen within and reign graciously with God at the centre of our being.
@swifplaya 2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@lindavindiola9174 2 жыл бұрын
I refer to what was stated in a previous message about being desperate!
@msreeree65 3 жыл бұрын
10:58 IF YOU NEED A MAN....YOU DON'T NEED A MAN!!!! Whew Chiiile.....#thatsaword💜
@helenadair32 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, that part !
@vondrajones8790 2 жыл бұрын
Just discovered these teachings recently. Thoroughly enjoy The Word presented in everyday language and situations. I’m 73; a widow that’s been celibate for (7) years; and have been a QUEEN all of my life. My King/my husband treated me as a Queen for (53) beautiful years - and I WON’T accept ANYTHING LESS! As I say: “YES - I’m SINGLE - and you’ll have to be AMAZING - to CHANGE THIS!”⭐️👑💜 Thanks for your encouraging words, Pastor!🙌🏽😇
@ImtheONEnotthetwo Жыл бұрын
Are you saying you were 13 when you and your king got together? 73-53-7=13.
@anneiconex1473 8 ай бұрын
@Vondrajones8790 I'm glad to hear you say that, because recently I've been feeling the same way. I thought I needed to be married after 32 years and a divorce. But now somehow I feel like the longer I'm single the happier I am.
@speakinggracellc Жыл бұрын
We re not equip to shoulder all the load!! God bless you on this statement 😇
@gertrudebuck366 3 жыл бұрын
“IF YOU NEED A MAN, YOU DO NOT NEED A MAN!” I AGREE 💯
@Bridi1973 3 жыл бұрын
🎯
@shayjohnson5449 2 жыл бұрын
Right
@Goodnewsgoodeats 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree! 48 and proud of my age, I have been celibate for 5 years and I don’t need a man, I am the prize and if he is not worthy of me he can just go away!
@rosettajones1161 3 жыл бұрын
It is good that you are proud of your age because you are still young. Being celibate for 5 years is great and if you rather not be with anyone that is your preference. I think being with someone who would love you authentically is a good thing because it is ideal to be with someone to share your lives together in every aspect. However, if he is not what you need and going to be excess baggage then yes he should go away as in "fast." Not worth your time or anyone else's.
@ldaisysharvest8658 3 жыл бұрын
This is another masculine energy.
@lexabuckleyparsons1994 3 жыл бұрын
Same x
@lottabailey9904 3 жыл бұрын
I have been over three years and counting
@lennyladd3253 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you, I've been celibate for 15 and I don't need no one to hold me up.
@aran08504 2 жыл бұрын
This was an enlightening conversation pastor thanks for sharing. Ladies avoid those channels that tell you it's over for you if you over 35 in the danger zone.
@KEIHFR Жыл бұрын
Nothing but facts were spoken! I decided to be celibate after my divorce. The amount of men belittling women who chose not to have sex and have standards is crazy!! I literally was told I would die alone because I chose to still uphold standards and refuse to give husband benefits to every guy you gives me some attention.
@janellamurphy5665 Жыл бұрын
I am still going to remain celibate and now am 71yrs old!! I have been there, done that have the tee shirts and hats😂! Ain't got time for the drama or little boys!!!
@virginiamadison152 11 ай бұрын
I was thinking of doing celibacy after my divorce.
@Reclusive_Butterfly 11 ай бұрын
Same. Divorced & celibate (and celibate while separated). He was an abusive sadistic narcissist. Sex is the last thing I'm worried about. I'm 36.
@DunstanW 3 жыл бұрын
Dating After Forty... 1- Never date out of need. 2- Never hide yourself to make a man comfortable. 3- Be aware of masculine feminine energy. 4- Make your intentions clear 5- Call a thing a thing 6- You've got to ask grown men type questions. I love the "Be on the same frequency" and the bengay tube lawrd A Massi... Love you Bishop and lady Lisa🙏🏾❤️ Once again what a insightful confirmation tools to laying down good foundation for the dating scene, not many touch on this subject I appreciate it... Great Grace to you Bishop and the work ahead, we so🙏🏾for you and your family and ministry...
@monaedawson4523 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@DunstanW 3 жыл бұрын
@@monaedawson4523 You're very welcome Queen 🙏🏾💞
@bitorwaliz2317 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you for putting that down
@DunstanW 3 жыл бұрын
@@bitorwaliz2317 🙏🏾You are very much welcome dear
@jasminewhite75 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for capturing these words of wisdom.
@IMcr1.s 3 жыл бұрын
I Dont need a relationship to feel valuable. I'm not struggling with my identity, I dont have low self esteem. #datinginmy40s
@trish3530 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree on the man having a mind. Intelligence is sexy!!!
@derrickdaplumberful 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds Lonely!!!
@islandgirlruby2750 3 жыл бұрын
I agree sis
@rosettajones1161 3 жыл бұрын
That sounds really great that you don't have low self esteem because a lot of women do. I feel that we as women should not be struggling with anything and never ever show a man that you are desperate, then they will take advantage of any woman who shows that side of themselves...Women are valuable but they have to act like it and have standards. High ones.
@tonyathreet3567 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had a father like this! Thank you Bishop!
@janellamurphy4212 Жыл бұрын
SAME HERE SIS!!!
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
If I had a father like him I know my life would have been better. I'm great full that he can help educate other women.
@hertistinewalker Жыл бұрын
❤ I really enjoy your talk show. Bishop Lake, can you speak on the topic of a widow? Dating at 75 someone that's 63. Hey my husband's best friend can you please speak on that
@-Jesus-daughter 7 ай бұрын
Same sister.
@tamisha8577 7 ай бұрын
Lord how I wish as well sis 🙏🏾
@KathyDaniels-kj8xc 6 ай бұрын
Bless you pastor for giving younger women as well as older females whom they are lacking in so much spiritual knowledge which God as given, but they ignore. The enemy has deceive in many ways.
@theseesawpuppetshow8900 3 жыл бұрын
I have a whole lot of a masculine energy because I have been alone for so long. So when I meet a man it's difficult at times. It feels weird to meet a masculine man because they take over, it's an awkward situation for real. I have had to learn to pull back. It feels nice not to have to do everything by myself.
@kerry-annconnell9521 3 жыл бұрын
I have masculine energy because all the men in my family choose to take a less masculine position. They are okay with a woman taking the lead, but I absolutely despise that! I’ve just come to the realization of how this has impacted all my relationships over the years - including my marriage! In fact, my ex-husband recently declared that I’m just looking for someone to take care of me after he realized that a reconciliation at this stage would entail him having to step up to the plate and position himself as the head of the household - he wasn’t ready! Lord help us!
@peanut924 3 жыл бұрын
I get that. Sometimes people think I'm gay because I hold both roles in some ways. That really hurt.
@yow2363 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I have that same issue. I have to remind myself, when I want to jump out of the car quickly, instead of letting the man open the door.
@joannajohnson2669 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I know exactly what your talking about
@candimero5634 3 жыл бұрын
I’ll be 58 next month..I was married for 14 years a long time ago..I would love to remarry..I’ve been single a while now..I miss companionship and sharing little things...
@deelightful6124 3 жыл бұрын
Same here ...married for 8 years...divorced since 2010. During that time...I dated several men but nothing to write home about. I am 53 years young. Deep down I'd like a REAL AUTHENTIC connection with a high value man. Meanwhile...I continue to growbspirtually..work on ky health and purpose driven activities. Stay beautifully strong..until Boaz arrives.
@candimero5634 3 жыл бұрын
@@deelightful6124 I will pray for you to connect with your Boaz..and you can pray for me to meet mine lol🙏lol...be blessed and have a great day🤗
@Chaneldavis779 3 жыл бұрын
@@candimero5634 can I be part of this “ prayer group “? Thank you
@candimero5634 3 жыл бұрын
@@Chaneldavis779 absolutely!!!!🙏🙏🙏
@julietmbugua5151 3 жыл бұрын
@@Chaneldavis779 I wish I can get a partner
@rpfullingim Жыл бұрын
Heck no I will never hide myself to just a man about my kids. Never period! Take it or leave it. That's me. My mom always tell me this , there's a lot of men in this world you haven't met yet! Never beg a man to stay she told me that. 😊
@Chahlie 2 жыл бұрын
Oh man, I laughed all through this! A few years ago I looked after an elderly lady who had met her late husband at 70! She wasn't looking and he was from another country and was visiting a friend and had come to borrow a bicycle. It was so sweet when she was telling me about it. :)
@richricogranada9647 Жыл бұрын
From another country tells it all about his real intentions
@adriennerobinson1180 7 ай бұрын
Aw,How Wonderful
@gigicharrier1367 3 жыл бұрын
I do not consider myself religious in fact normally I have been turned off by religion but when I hear you speak ,I hear logic and reason and I actually recommend you to my female friends who have issues with men treating them badly ,, I just want to thank you for your videos, they have helped me enormously
@billitraphillips7369 3 жыл бұрын
Yes he speaks very good logic I recommend him to my friends too❤
@msdecemberloveangel8236 3 жыл бұрын
They have helped me also
@jeaniegee7305 3 жыл бұрын
This theology and philosophy can be for a Christian as well as a secular woman. All women should be following these concepst.
@nanabell402000 3 жыл бұрын
I mimic your sentiment. Love this man's teachings.
@t.sinclair8288 3 жыл бұрын
I'm about this and I get called defensive all the time because I shuts nonsense down.
@kitokamilimusic6378 3 жыл бұрын
Lol, folk forever call women names when we stand up for ourselves & don't act like a dummy..lol
@durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 жыл бұрын
Yes sis, let them call you what they like cos they mad they couldn't use you. When someone gets mad or bitter cos of that, all it does it shows his true intentions.
@SenecaDunmore 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@mwashi401 3 жыл бұрын
And continue to shut it down when your spirit tells you that something is not right..
@dragonfly3015 3 жыл бұрын
I get called names too, Or they assume I'm bitter or some is a wrong with me!!! I just know my worth and too busy being a parent, my career and focusing on bettering myself!!!
@corinnenorton8781 2 жыл бұрын
You are talking about me when you started talking about being masculinized . All my life I've had to be strong Pastor and it truly has hurt me tremendously. Thank you for the knowledge you give . I appreciate you more than you even know ❤️❤️
@mzkittym.5450 2 жыл бұрын
I like the idea of companionship. Building a healthy friendship is so important to me.
@mzkittym.5450 Жыл бұрын
@@MB-iv4mq I learned something from u. You sound like my co worker. He suggested I get a pet. Says no guy is going to just be friends. 😁
@kitelouma2721 3 жыл бұрын
"There is someone who will love you for you" R.C Blake
@sparklesparkle9352 2 жыл бұрын
I must start believing and trusting God that it is possible.
@beverlypegues7722 2 жыл бұрын
I’m me,65 yrs old, ready to live life the way God wants. If a man is apart of my life, let it be. But I am not going to settle for anything less than I am
@carmelathreatt2197 Жыл бұрын
I heard that a lot but everyone dont get their desire in life some women's never find a mate in life I have bad experience with men I a pretty women beauty Is a. Curse
@msdecemberloveangel8236 3 жыл бұрын
I do not want a man who i meet wants to take me to bed. With no commitment no boyfriend type. Surely no husband behavior. THEY wants to wear these masks to protect them from COVID-19 but not afraid of HIV- AIDS. ITS SO CRAZY TO ME.
@emmacoleman7792 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for saying this.
@dragonfly3015 3 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeessss, Ive been saying this to so many people....COVID IS SUCH A BIG DEAL...YET, people forgot about all these other serious STD''s. Oh, and we hear commercials making it sound like having HIV or AIDS is normal and ok...Its stull a serious disease.
@msdecemberloveangel8236 3 жыл бұрын
@@dragonfly3015 very serious disease
@narcabusevictimgermany9687 3 жыл бұрын
That’s true!
@msdecemberloveangel8236 3 жыл бұрын
Correct we become numb to the fact that these sexual diseases still unfortunately exist Im afraid of them still.
@brendadavis9365 Жыл бұрын
Thats so true. My Mom told me watch the news to know how to hold a decent conversation. Yes Sir Bishop....
@shaidafaraj4182 Жыл бұрын
Best video ever! The truth and advise given in such an entertaining way lolllllll love it
@ivetterivera9917 3 жыл бұрын
I just turned 50 last week and I’m single. I was married to a narcissist for 22 years, been divorced for 5 years but went back to him last year and ended after 2 months. I’m still trying to heal. I’m content being alone. Yes, it gets lonely at times, it gets hard.. but, I’m not settling ever again. I thank God for you Pastor Blakes, I’m learning more about myself and my worth.
@tarabeverly3680 3 жыл бұрын
Sending LOVE and light to you as you heal. May Divine Love come to you🌞
@ivetterivera9917 3 жыл бұрын
@@tarabeverly3680 thank you so much ♥️
@t.jordan2467 3 жыл бұрын
It’s hard but you’ll heal, it just takes space and time. I survived a 13 year (narcissist )marriage. Happily single over 10 years:) still learning myself, improving my mental and spiritual health# loving me never felt so good😊
@AnnnnnaQ 3 жыл бұрын
I was in a similar situation sis! I feel you. Stay strong and don't compromise your standards!🤗
@ivetterivera9917 3 жыл бұрын
@@t.jordan2467 thank you so much for sharing it’s refreshing to know I’m not alone♥️ we will get pass this!
@tiffaniebarnes4984 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I’m having a conversation with my father. Like RC is telling me things that he would tell his daughter.
@niecey7155 3 жыл бұрын
What’s wrong with that?
@samfoxx6358 3 жыл бұрын
Q
@VenekaWithDriveIntoGreatCredit 3 жыл бұрын
@@niecey7155 It seems like she's saying it in a good way.
@favritewryda2018 3 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed!! That is why we're all here, for proper forward moving guidance from our spiritual father
@cynthiarodgers3896 Жыл бұрын
I am 55 years old and this truth is very hard to hear. Thank you, Sir 🙏🏾
@virginiamadison152 11 ай бұрын
I just came across this and OMG.. This is why I am getting a divorce right now. I had a feminine masculine husband. I want a man's man. All Masculine. Thank you for opening my eyes so I can get it right next time.❤
@tinaking9120 3 жыл бұрын
The shoe example got me hollerin!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m 38 but it’s never too early to learn. I’m knocking on 40’s door.
@latoshamcknight2944 3 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆😆
@jackierumph6963 3 жыл бұрын
You cannot afford to continue to take on projects. In your 40s and Beyond!
@evelynbryant9526 3 жыл бұрын
You shouldnt take on a project regardless what your age. The pain is still the same. So lets get over the age thing !
@naturalmysticone7721 3 жыл бұрын
Ever
@TapIntoAlignment Жыл бұрын
“At any age you’ve got to call a thing a thing…” A title wave of wisdom from this enlighten man. Saving in my favorites. 💗✨💗✨💗✨💗✨💗
@patriciawhite9509 2 жыл бұрын
R.C. You had me cracking up over here about the feminine energy these men display. They cant make decisions. That is so sad 😔! I love your videos.
@ministryandwellness 3 жыл бұрын
I believe another issue is that women don't do is vet the men properly. Who is his family? What's his relationship like with his mother? Who are his friends? You could be dating Charles Manson.
@jank358 3 жыл бұрын
Having a strong male figure is more important to me than his relationship with his mother, at the end of the day if he has a bad relationship with his mother he more than likely didn't have a strong male figure as well. Even if he did have a good relationship with his mother, if he's a mama's boy with no strong male figure it usually presents a different set of issues.
@lswilcoxon 3 жыл бұрын
If a man has an unhealthy attitude or holds resentment towards his mother, he will have unhealthy relationships with every woman he encounters. The same thing with women and their relationships with their fathers. Unhealed trauma begets more trauma.
@gingerandspice1209 3 жыл бұрын
Vetting is critical, people really are not doing this!
@mrs8792 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I had known that. Another tidbit is learning how he treats his mother and sisters
@ridedabus10 3 жыл бұрын
@@jank358 AMEN!!
@mhizzgorgeouso.s2012 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 44 and dating is hard, Never hide yourself to make a man comfortable 💯 well said I’m going through a lot and is like I was sent to this platform for some spiritual food
@cundumita 3 жыл бұрын
The same here. I am turning 44 in March.
@lottabailey9904 3 жыл бұрын
I have a cousin like this so sad
@ButterCookie1984 3 жыл бұрын
I love it!!
@darlenemeadows1665 3 жыл бұрын
Wait, wait, waT waT u just say Did you say it's different for men than it is for woman? Surely not!!! If men can have sex so can a woman!!! Stop double standards. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
@tiffanybrown665 11 ай бұрын
I’m 38 years old and single but this video is very useful and helpful thank you!
@altheatangco1184 11 ай бұрын
Im 41 and love being single
@Reclusive_Butterfly 11 ай бұрын
I'm 36 & divorced. Single.
@BeverleyMcbeanlewel647 2 жыл бұрын
Such wisdom here! You have me laughing my heart out. You said call a" thing a thing" But I say call a "spade a spade" 😇🤣
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