Video was useless i was already doing all of these things 😂😂😶

As long as you are attractive or a woman, none of these matter.

what the fuck i do like 5 of those

Wait, why is canceling through a text message (not) good?

i love the body language you show us, so open and friendly.

Lol I have adhd and I do all of these accidentally all the time. I have to be extremely conscious of these, in order to not do them and I’ve gotten way better results when I do… and my friend taught me about matching body language and tone of voice, and while it may seem manipulative, it ties in with what you’re saying in this video and when you mirror someone, you act like they act, and fully hear them out, they feel completely and utterly heard and understood by you. And that is crux of getting someone to like you and respect you… I always use tips like this to get ahead cause I really struggle with social interactions, and I’ve killed interviews that I should’ve been nervous on by using these techniques. You really have to read the room, but also listen to your gut. Sometimes it isn’t always about making someone like you or respect you. Sometimes they have to earn YOUR respect and in that case, interactions can become better because they’re mutual. Respect from both parties is the best feeling. That’s how you know you’re in a good place in life. When you’ve succeeded in making someone you like, like you. And eventually, the conversation WILL turn to you and they will learn more about you.

Your videos are truly helpful and target the right topics. However, please refrain from using unusual words and stick to a speech that is as simple as possible, i struggle to watch most of your videos because i simply require more mental energy to understand what you are saying When you could have structured your words in a simpler manner such that someone could understand it with less mental energy and use that energy to actually understand and comprehend what you are saying and applying it in their head by creating scenarios. That's what i do with all the videos i watch but can't do it with yours. Hope you take the feedback Edit:- More addition to the above You speak like someone would write in a book, now that could work in books and writing however it does work while speaking like at 6:32 you used the word "etymology" how much percentage of the english speaking population actually know the word? Quite low + It also seems like you trying hard to sound smart, even though you are😂 however it gives a less inviting vibes and is like only meant for smart people

Construction taught me to never take sh*t from anyone.

I lived through a lense of momentum Mori. Life. Was. Great. And stress was so minimal, but it didn't negatively affect my work at all. It was great.

You are the older brother I never had. Seriously you’re opening my eyes. Respect from Italy 💪🏻

It's really concerning how I haven't noticed that my behaviour unknowingly followed some of these steps by the book, and yet I'm quick to notice some of these flaws between some of my friends, sounds really hypocritical if you ask me. I'll try to do better, progress may be slow, but it's better than nothin'

I realized how many of these qualities my friends have.

Thank you for the examples, they were super important for me to understand how and where to use assertiveness. Some of those triggered memories of past conversations that have happened around me or that I participated in. I felt so helpless whenever these happened because it's always the same conversations over and over again and they never lead anywhere. Everybody just gets defensive and acts selfishly and nothing changes and I just do not know what to do differently. This video explained so much and gave me hope.

I have always had a problem with trying to finish peoples sentences for them, a friend called me out on it once and I got defensive at the time but now I appreciate him for it.

thanks

Love the advice man keep it up. Love the accent too. You have some great content and youll be at a million soon;)

Talking shit about other to those who like the person u talking shit about is a thing, that u see sooo damn often in life

I literally do most of this on purpose with this one dude ik to get him to stop talking to me but ffs he wont stop

"in is the only way out". better spend time looking inwards. Try to become fully human, not male or female. These are physical, social and limited things. To be a full fletched life

Really good video 👌🏽

Mmmmmh those advices sound sigmatik

I hate when people do number six

Your videos are of so much help in everyday life. I hope i can keep my calm, stand my ground and put the things you've just taught me into practice, the next time i find myself in a situation where i need to be assertive.

im not special , but im hella different from most of ppl around me, that honeslty fukin hard to live with. i dont like most of things, even tho i was born in 00 , i feel like a grandpa, i hate too much and being in the good mood i just dont see it

I dont talk anymore with the dude that bailed on me lol, that how bad some of these can be

Now ill make sure noone ever likes me so i dont get hurt! Thank ye

I couldn't watch the video last night. So it is weekend and I was sleeping in the morning because I spent the whole night out with my gf but my roommate slept. Early in the morning the roommate started watching Tiktok on full volume but I have just arrived and slept. It really annoyed my sleep, how I asserted on him was to annoy him back. Instead of shouting at him I started signing loudly because I know he hates my voice. I did it until he realized what I'm doing and grabbed his earbuds 😂😂 Now as I've watched the video, I'll assert better next time. OMFG 😂

When you take such time and care in explaining things I feel fortunate to be listening because I came across your channel through luck. I really love the use of "when you, I feel, because" in a positive context. I think that has huge potential for others to feel seen for what they do.

This is good strategy for life but not atleast with competitive exam I am preparing where I don't set the pace. But still I will try some of the ideas and the video is actually helpful

This is great content, probably something I miss in my life.🙂

This would work if I gave a shit about octopus vs. jellyfish. I know icebreakers. I just need a constant stream of them.

This is a cool video

Glad to see your new videos man) It's incredible how you keep being consistent, keep it up!

I know you've heard this hundreds of times, but I'll be ASSERTIVE and say it again, your content changes lives, it helps me immensely, thank you brate <3

I watched your videos… however I find all the advice difficult to practice… is it because I’m a narcissist? All of these tips seems like a mask I put on to make people like me… but I can’t realistically put on a facade every day without feeling like I’m not truly speaking my mind

17 year old here you are the only youtuber in this space who I feel is 110% genuine and actually happy with their situation in life.

Phantastic!

woaah im so early

This sounds like non violent communication. To be assertive without the threat of violence leaves the door open for children to run over you. I think you’re assuming this between two mature adults talking. That sounds like work and a paycheck.

Gonna get some popcorn for this

Narcissism: the tutorial

please tell me im not insane, why does he look like harry potter please i seear im not crazy

How am I supposed to make this work? I feel like I cannot look a person in the eye unless I am calm or mid conversation. I deal with executive dysfunction and while I have tried to do these things in the past it continued to be hard. The emotional regulation issues that come with it and slow processing challenges me heavily and I feel like there is a piece missing that I can’t figure out. Why does it feel like I can’t be normal and do this despite wanting to. Despite all my effort and exhaustion from expending the effort?

Asian Parents' Handbook

No, I just like watching KZfaq. I guess an "addiction" is when it causes problems.

I am pausing the video halfway through to mention Leo (Lev) Tolstoy's book "(My) Confession", as a parallel to what Lewis is pointing out as a meaningless life or searching for purpose. Reading through the pages you can really feel (but probably won't understand) how an erudite man would really struggle to find the meaning for his life. Okay, he has done due diligence to the society from this era, but still searching and trying to find what is the real meaning of his existence. Now that I've watched to the whole video, I can really point out that the sentence, written on the cover of the book published in Bulgaria, really do puts things in perspective - (paraphrasing for english speakers) "If a man choses to live, he still have something to believe in". Thank you, Lewis, for bringing so much quality on the table. I really like that you present your personal thoughts and opinions in these videos. Your channel is a true gem amongst a s*ithole of idiotic psychological abyss.

Sometimes being mature makes us alone. For example in a classroom not everyone is mature, the mature student will get made fun of off. Experienced*

Super underrated

I was wondering why a lot of people don’t like me as much as they used to. Until I get to the last part. Well fuck me, and time to get over it.