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@bengumz7320 2 күн бұрын
Great explanation by Veronica. Bill W wrote a really good article about Emotional Sobriety in the Grapevine newsletter in the 1950's. He had 20+ yrs of sobriety but emotionally he was still stuck and explained how he felt. That article is published in the book Language of the Heart. That's where I'm at too. I've been sober for years but can't seem to get my emotions to line up with my intellect. I can identify so well with what Veronica is saying and what Bill wrote about. "Emotional unmanageability" -- I like that!
@Melodie007 2 күн бұрын
Within the first five minutes, I was all in
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@Banana-sb1hi 19 күн бұрын
Leta cater to and celebrate european people and recognizing european homelands. We are these days actually a marginalized people who are blamed for things other people arent and they are uplifted and prioriticed. That is racist and bullying.
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@alessandradevitofrancesco9819 26 күн бұрын
Doctor, how would you elaborate possible suggestions with a victim of narcissistic abuse from her mother, who is battling cptsd and had to resort to no contact, and now has to fight the guilt of her mother having real cancer? I feel it's an impossible and brutal situation to live
@lbrty4all Ай бұрын
I didn't get any of the three from any mother figure, and I think there needs to be discussion around forgiving ourselves when we, as damaged and struggling children of these parents become parents ourselves and make some of these mistakes ourselves. A blessing I have found in the things I never got in my upbringing is knowing what NOT to do. However, sometimes, the lack of parental guidance leads us to inadvertently repeat the mistakes of our parents. Personally, I don't yet know how to let go of and forgive those mistakes. I'm open with my children about mistakes I've made and ways I may have hurt them, and while they may have forgiven me, I haven't. And it's holding me back from healing further. Thank you for sharing this invaluable information. ❤
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@rashandaclay9115 Ай бұрын
My mother was the original mean girl. She never gave encouragement. Wouldnt go to any games or sport events i was involved in. i had one birthday party ay 8 when i first moved back in with her. Shr would always tell me the story of how she tried to abort me but she couldnt. She was 16. She would always talk about how her life would have been better if she didnt have me. I always felt the lack of respect she had for before i knew what is was. I felt she didnt like me, at all. I have the book and its helping me.
@tunagt1 Ай бұрын
Thank you, Marisa for sharing your story 💚
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@janedoe5229 2 ай бұрын
The hurt, anger, tears, emptiness, unworthiness are always just below the surface. Therefore, I am always trying to please everyone around me. I am always trying to be "worthy. I try to be good, clever, funny, accomplished. But it does not heal the hole. If my own mother doesn't love me, what's wrong with me? All my friends gush about their amazing moms and how close they are. I am alone and abandoned in the world. I look to men for love, and they lie to me and exploit me, and then tell me I am worthless, and then I am more destroyed. I am talking about long-term relationships. They say, "So what if your mom does not love you. Just forget her". Forgetting her does not help. When the bad relationship is over, then I am more alone in the world than I was before.
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@jenniferviau5848 2 ай бұрын
Yes we do recover March 3rd I celebrated 13 years complete abstinence from all substance by mental health has also gotten much better by simply making ME my priority
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@IamSincerelyemmy_ 2 ай бұрын
Wow breakthrough for me !
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@kokoblaqueen1840 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for calling your Spirit back
@sherryluxedreamtravels7966 3 ай бұрын
Wow, I was aware of the Mom connection to my issues, etc. However, this just opened a huge Pandora's box with not much that I could discern I do with IT! Excellent material & research.
@Bjorn9284 3 ай бұрын
wow!! I found a solar eclipse video from channel 8 news from 94, and Rene Syler was on, and a flood of memories came back. I just found out, I'm 1 year older than Rene. The only female new's anchor I could actualy follow and keep up with in 94 and beyond. Her comprehensible broadcasting style is mimicked and copied by everyone out there. Thank you for doing this interview and catching us all up on what's been happening. God bless. 🌹
@angelasophia3705 3 ай бұрын
While I understand why you don't want to blame mothers, as someone who has been healing this wound for years - you'll have to blame. Because the rage and the anger, esp if it was a cluster B mother, is going to be severe. And those things need to assign blame properly - to mother - where it belongs, rather than in the gaslit mind of the daughter. That might be scary. That might be culturally taboo. But it does real victims a huge disservice to refuse to blame mother. We have an epidemic of severely traumatized daughters of mothers who are intentionally sadistic, intentionally destructive, intentionally in denial. I'm tired of making excuses and protecting "women" from proper blame, when victims need moral solidarity more than anything else.
@gerrieshapiro2147 Ай бұрын
Well said❤
@Needy_nic Ай бұрын
I understand this. It's the reason I have been feeling extreme guilt, knowing that I have raised 3 children with my own wounds suppressed so deep. I should have been better, I should have known better. I had abandoned myself, so as much as I tried my mothering was just copying others. With my own addictions. Thinking I would be the one to "be better" but ended up not. 😢 I accept that they will blame me. I'm not running from it.
@angelasophia3705 29 күн бұрын
@@Needy_nic I'm so moved by what you wrote here. It's so rare to come across such honesty and humility. All any child wants is for their mother to acknowledge their pain, to see it, and care. We love our mothers without end, no matter their flaws. All we want is for them to love us back, truly, in honesty. They will blame you, and if you can hold space for that, to allow it, you will help them to heal. You should work with your guilt, to process it. You don't need to live with it indefinitely. <3
@tessg4799 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video!
@tessg4799 3 ай бұрын
Yes! Pranyama breathing is really good for anxiety. Also, The Art of Living has a great course on this.
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@janetslater129 3 ай бұрын
I'm listening to this right now, as I recently went through a financial trauma of nearly being evicted, and asking bg family to bail me out. This has brought so much shame and guilt, along with feeling of lost of trust with the family member that bailed me out. Since then, I feel like I have to have everything figured out right now...picking up two part-time jobs in addition to working full-time, trying to prove to my family that I really am working on improving my situation, etc.
@sherwpinkhair 3 ай бұрын
Yeah...more hours with this brilliant woman. Thanks for reminding me of who i am
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@christinamorales6887 3 ай бұрын
I lived in Santa Fe and have an indigenous and Mexican background with Toltec ancestors with a similar background.
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@patty4peace630 3 ай бұрын
Shari is a gifted speaker that can bring the story to life, which then can bring meaning to our lives.
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@gerardcoyne9210 3 ай бұрын
I am a man 30 years sober and I found her talk inspiring. Emotional sobriety / independence is vital to staying sober. I see it as Stage 2 in recovery. I love her message 🙏
@cmuller1593 4 ай бұрын
😋 "promo sm"
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