Or past lifes memories from our lower human soul part... Devils have thoughts about how to craft the soul and the human beings full of negative emotions all connected into the subconscious collective. All this plugged into that lower plane of reality or Matrix or Netflix type of planet all corrupted toward Evil
@deniszen117 сағат бұрын
Thanks for your video! In my twenties I was reading about a Bulgarian-French spiritual teacher Omraam Mikhael Aivanhov. He was explaining about Evil which is the Shadow of your Shadow Self. Or if you rather : the dark side of your Shadow Self... There is a Native tale about feeding the "Good" wolf or the "Bad" wolf. The dark side of the Bad wolf would be a werewolf (the Shadow of the Shadow Self)
@dropthekorpi18 сағат бұрын
I was on a long walk yesterday and found myself doing exactly this, becoming aware of my bodily sensations and relaxing. I thought of it as trying to walk, or do any physical activity really, with my whole body, and paying attention to my breath really anchored me to a place of experiencing the body instead of being distracted by the thoughts that arose. It's interesting to see this exact topic coming up in your video a day after I came to this insight unintentionally. I think it has to do with social anxiety, I found myself really struggling with where to look when I came across other people on the walk, whether or not I should greet them or not and so on. Out of this discomfort came the idea of sensing my whole body as I walked, and it caused a direct shift in my consciousness that made the rest of my walk much more pleasant.
@SamRoff7 сағат бұрын
Yeah, it can feel really clunky at first with the embodiment shift - it's like learning how to behave again from a more authentic place, takes some adjustment
@Pumpychan20 сағат бұрын
Sam, you’re right on point here with the most credible voices in Buddhism today; Daniel Ingram, Sam Harris who you mentioned, and most others. I am on the fence here as to saying my true thoughts since you’re such a good guy and I sense that you mean to do well towards everyone in making this. So with no antagonistic intentions whatsoever, I will say my thought here, and hope I don’t draw too much ire from the “sangha” of the reel. Not one of the refutations of SELF actually gives me the slightest sense or experience of no-self. They all, rather, simply serve to explain how it is that I come to feel a self. The 4 illusions are the very basis by which I can claim to be, not have but BE, a self. (Definition to follow.) Trampling on sacred ground here perhaps but I want to show another side of how all this can be interpreted. Of course I’d love to be selfless, I could be, to use a recent popular phrase, “unburdened by what has been” (ahem…) however this is not the case Trying to stay concise, all the components of DEPENDENT ORIGINATION that you go into make not the slightest nick in my intuitive, visceral, and operative self. Some elaboration: though all I do, experience, perceive, and think may well be the effects of prior conditions, the color red is all in my head, etc etc… yet it still is in there. It’s what my eyes see. It is not compelling to point out that this is purely a function of my mind creating a qualia. So then it is. And it is not compelling to grasp that my personality is a construct. Of course it’s a construct!! What else would it be. Nor is it compelling to realize that I have no independent existence… I need air and sunlight, I “ am what I eat” and all that appears to be outside me is in fact stimuli being interpreted by my skull-encased brain. Yes I know that. But all of this is how we organisms come to life. We interface with the substances, energies, and cultural patterns of the world we inhabit and that’s what we call LIFE. What is the epiphany here. Sorry but I just. Don’t. Get it. Sam, if someone with evil intent were to come bursting into your house there and attempted to start hurting your family members, I’m pretty sure you would go ape-shit trying to defend them. You would immediately and spontaneously becone a “me”… I refer to the great quote from Mike Tyson that everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face. That person, the punched one, that’s a self. It’s not even a choice you can make. Your subconscious systems would kick in hard. In fact, I might even say, you are making this video to demonstrate something spiritually virtuous about yourself. This selfless you is the self you now fancy yourself to be. And in some short time I suspect you’ll sit down to a proper meal and continue being a feeding self. It’s primal. You cannot get out of this. What I’ll grant, and only this, is that there can be much more refined, aware, compassionate version of self than a thoughtless, depraved, depressed, or obsessed self. You can be a BETTER SELF. But I’ve yet to see anyone who claimed to have hacked through matrix of the self behave as though there were no self. Rupert Spira, Sam Harris, you, Joseph Goldstein, all the no-self’ers … they maintain a very self-consistent pattern of behaviors, dressing styles, talking styles, etc. because it is Self 2.0 that they’ve cultivated, and not <null self> I’m told by Buddha not to accept what is said on faith so I’m saying what I truly see and feel after listening to you with complete openness. Very good wishes to you sir. You are doing good things for people with these videos. I’ll finish by saying that as well.
@tonyt155120 сағат бұрын
Excellent video Sam. Hope you're doing well
@SamRoff7 сағат бұрын
Appreciate you Tony. Likewise man.
@amulyaacharya545521 сағат бұрын
Such a great and timely video !!
@SamRoff21 сағат бұрын
@@amulyaacharya5455 glad it’s helpful bud! 🙏
@dariobagaric14622 сағат бұрын
You've changed a lot over the years, it's great to see.
@SamRoff21 сағат бұрын
@@dariobagaric146 ☺️🤩
@andrewodonnell712623 сағат бұрын
Wow that was profound.
@andrewodonnell712623 сағат бұрын
Thanks i found that really helpful
@SamRoff11 минут бұрын
I'm glad man <3
@theinngu55602 күн бұрын
Thanks
@liliiagrabchuk49623 күн бұрын
Thank you🙌
@Berbs764 күн бұрын
I feel ya on the gaming, nothing passes the time of sorrow faster, then, there it is, still there, always at the finish line of avoidance.
@user-yo9oh5us8x5 күн бұрын
What a view man😮
@SamRoff4 күн бұрын
Very blessed :)
@iamhudsdent27596 күн бұрын
Best not to count the hours, days, or years. It's counterproductive. It's best to know sadhana as the practice of being. Being has no time. And time is not even a real thing. By all means, show up "on time" for appointments, but realize time is nothing. Being alone is real.
@kevinoconnor51757 күн бұрын
nvr comment on vids but i feel like doing something nice today. Only want to help u cuz u said in this that u should probe into more fundamental beliefs (so what is the view i'm holding here?) and that i can pick the correct practice to make myself feel better or im a helpless victim that's nvr getting out of this. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WANTED TO FIND in this vid. cuz I have 2 examples of this situation that happened today in my mind. 1 of which caused me to have to call the doctor. I'll tell u that one. I get anxiety when i play golf with people who I dont know and it means I get not 1 second of sleep before golf. I ate my breakfast and dinner as fast as i could when i got home as I was ABSOLUTELY exhausted and I slept 5 or 6 hours earlier that normal. I woke 12 hours later with ab pain for 2 hours. I will choose to not eat like crazy next time. I like that ur trying to help ppl and my advice ( Who asked!! ,,.. i knoow) is don't angle to close to ur nose cuz at the start u can see ur nose hair and it grossed me out so i looked at ur eyes and it felt gay to do that so i feel like all wierd now and probz forever cuz that happened. and that the only reason im not watching ever again. but big fan of ur aussi voice. that' combo'd with ur interesting ideas will get u stuffz and u no maybe even really cool stuffz too Thanks :) ps the "giving a voice to tension location in the body but touching the area and putting the voices into a bowl of chicken noodle soup is a lovely idea. 1st time and last time watched, gonna miss u. <3
@lotuspoints8 күн бұрын
The reason u were upset and anxious is bcs it doesn t make sense for a living creature not to have 'cravings or aversions'. They are ur survival tools, don t ever get desensitised. Mindfulness is one thing, but the toxic positivity is another
@karthy2578 күн бұрын
In my opinion, the guidelines are little strict. I do Vipassana every day, but I'm not sure I'll attend a retreat like that. Anyway, I use meditation as a means to increase my concentration and relaxation
@lotuspoints8 күн бұрын
I love this! I wanna get in touch with you both if poss. Finally someone gives it a deep and meaningful review. I ll be reaching out in a week or two, if you are willing to answer some questions
@lotuspoints8 күн бұрын
And did you ask your psychologist about the benefits of this "practice"? How about scientific findings, independent research?
@sandeepshetty890010 күн бұрын
Hello sam, the hornets also get released, surely even as the watching becomes establised, without judgment I have learnt to bypass the process of thoughts, when watching sensations & its impermance, & the thoughts too become the part of impermance, they do not cloud your watching ❤❤
@MaximusBarlowe10 күн бұрын
Great video as usual, Sam! I’ve been watching most of your videos for a few months now and I have opened my mind towards learning to work on myself and becoming my authentic self! Thank you!
@SamRoff10 күн бұрын
@@MaximusBarlowe beautiful! I’m glad to hear 💪☺️
@cesar_zapata10 күн бұрын
That cockroach-pulling sound was spot on. hahahahaha
@SamRoff10 күн бұрын
@@cesar_zapata hahahaha I must’ve been a sound effects guy in a past life man
@leviniakamuvaka11 күн бұрын
🙏🏽
@AkshayKumar-ph6no11 күн бұрын
the phrase was i am curious
@slipfunc12 күн бұрын
Thanks so much for this!
@SamRoff11 күн бұрын
My pleasure <3
@misshillie8213 күн бұрын
Im literally terrified of being rejected or not been liked by someone. I know mentally I’m going to survive if I’m being rejected but the fear keeps me from being authentic and that makes me feel deeply lonely
@SamRoff13 күн бұрын
Yeah I know that feeling. I remember there were periods that there was a sense of 'There's no way I could possibly feel the sensations of discomfort' when that stuff was arising. If you commit to being kind to yourself and allowing yourself to feel those unpleasant sensations, you will start to feel more centered. The key is to slooowww down, and comes with a beginners mind over and over again. There's a very real reason we developed coping strategies like that. Sounds like you're getting leverage on it now though which is where the alchemy begins. Keep at it :). Speaking frmo experience, it can and will calm down and serve your growth into authenticity tremendously.
@yhseow14 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Causality and permanent self is what I personally felt as the more important practice.
@tannerknighton14 күн бұрын
WhatsOnYourMind already said it, but I thought of a mix of Jake Paul and Ryan Gosling before I saw his comment!
@SamRoff14 күн бұрын
🤣
@JHS27069414 күн бұрын
I hope you find Islam, you'll be suprised.
@TheeStarQueenDrea15 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 I really appreciate this perspective right now.
@SamRoff14 күн бұрын
You're welcome!
@ataylor99215 күн бұрын
6:04 This is so on the nose. I also agree with your point about the value of not just going complete non-duality and saying you were never broken and theres nothing to fix, because that paradigm, though perhaps true for some, has lead me into a contracted state by not actively embodying my feelings. Though a parasocial relationship, I'm grateful to have you in my life Sam! You've made such an impact in my process to live more authentically.
@SamRoff14 күн бұрын
I'm really glad <3!
@f4llenstarr16 күн бұрын
What should we do to practice this throughout the upcoming week?
@SamRoff16 күн бұрын
@@f4llenstarr good question - what did you resonate with the most? Generally speaking you can feel where you are deficient as you listen to each point and then open more deeply to any one. Bodily sensation/embodiment awareness is probably the most profitable in my experience - especially if we’re working with trauma. It creates a solid foundation and is where deep inner work occurs.
@justanothernarutofanbeliev993216 күн бұрын
I'm not flexible at all I can't even bend my legs like that
@WhatsOnYourMind.17 күн бұрын
Sam, you look like a cross between Jake Paul and Trey's Trades. You stud you, lol.
@SamRoff16 күн бұрын
@@WhatsOnYourMind. I’ll upload a video me boxing Mike Tyson soon ;) stay tuned my friend
@heavenlydenied17 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video. I have been going through a very similar experience and have previous experience with IFS. The childhood trauma is truly overwhelming but videos like these helped. In that moment you have to just surrender and feel the emotions. IFS taught me to be there for the inner exiles and show them why their self beliefs are false.
@SamRoff14 күн бұрын
Beautiful, IFS is really powerful work :)
@jimmybobmcgrath67118 күн бұрын
And I recently spent time with my family.flight got delayed a couple days.lots of stuff came up😂
@SamRoff18 күн бұрын
@@jimmybobmcgrath671 That’s a recipe for triggers! 🫡
@jimmybobmcgrath67118 күн бұрын
I've definitely been feeling this.your explationation is spot on.much appreciated
@SamRoff18 күн бұрын
@@jimmybobmcgrath671 very welcome!
@andreaguevara424718 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Sam! I feel so lucky that I found your channel in this tuff moment. Sending you much love and gratitude ✨🌿
@samkim238918 күн бұрын
you're letting go. that is a good thing. only achievable after years of meditation. you are liberating yourself from piles of emotions that have weighed down your unconscious. after a while, you won't even have much left. i even look deeper for them, hoping to find more to let go. i always love the sensation of liberation after feeling the emotions (wherever or whichever period of my life they may have come from) as fully as possible and then letting them go even though that will often involve crying, shouting and twitching like hell. there was a time i felt these emotions would never run out and that I was stuck in some vicious cycle. it wasn't true. they are eventually let go and don't affect me anymore. i can objectively look at them because I've dealt with them, paid them the attention that was long overdue. but it's important not to be addicted to feeling these, too. then that's when it really gets dark.
@wolraadtwoltemade196319 күн бұрын
Thank you🇿🇦
@parthshah969119 күн бұрын
I have been feeling this - thanks for making content on this! Also, please keep making videos like these😊
@Le_Kinho19 күн бұрын
Hi Sam - how quickly have these contractions dissolved for you? I've been doing this embodiment work for several years and it has been a very slow thaw. Best wishes.
@SamRoff19 күн бұрын
Hey! Much more accelerated lately. Depends on the approach you take. Slow thaw overall though, undoubtable progress. Best wishes to you too.
@benhadlett544519 күн бұрын
Great video Sam 🙏
@SamRoff19 күн бұрын
❤
@evelinel.982719 күн бұрын
Somatic Experiencing is great too (along with IFS, etc.). I was part of the KI membership for over a year and made lots of progress using the tools with a daily practice but left after the leadership became very toxic, even cult like. Now I don't mention it or suggest it to anyone as I don't think it is a healthy community due to the leadership.
@SamRoff19 күн бұрын
@@evelinel.9827 Mmm thanks for sharing your experience. A good caution, and great suggestions too :)
@iami259619 күн бұрын
Hey Sam, perfect timing on this video. Resonates with exactly where I am at - wanting to feel comfortable in my own skin. Thank you for the pointers.
@SamRoff19 күн бұрын
@@iami2596 Very welcome. I’m glad it’s helpful :)
@raquelbunny20 күн бұрын
I signed up for one starting very soon! But I'm super active and I'm doubting my ability to sit still for 10 hours per day for 10 days!
@karimsabry950222 күн бұрын
Cool - spot on ❤
@hiranwijeratne968626 күн бұрын
Lord Buddha has explained the anatomy of thoughts. If u want to end suffering, just study it.
@hiranwijeratne968626 күн бұрын
Why don’t u study Theravada Buddhism or Pali canon n learn about mind n what’s actually out there in the world n not. Because Vipassana meditation is from Theravada Buddhism (the oldest n Orginal) Buddhism.
@hiranwijeratne968626 күн бұрын
Theravad Buddhism teaches about the illusion of ourselves. You will surprise if u study it. Especially the abidhamma pitakaya