5 Ways to Command Respect from a Narcissist

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@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Do you want to know more about taking control away from the narcissist and finally setting boundaries? Join me in my free webinar! Sign up here: slay.rebeccazung.com/ 🙌

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

I'll be there for you! ❤

@suzannedelacruz9888 Жыл бұрын

I Am In Control

@_InterceptoR Жыл бұрын

#RebeccaZung I have see most of your videos in 3 days now and trying to make a full diagnosis. Is covert narcissist and covert passive - aggressive narcissist are the same? They knowing what are they doing? Do they have consciousness of what they are doing or why? They want to be change deeply? Even if they understanding it somehow, can they change at all? Its my mother. If you can please answer me. Your videos have help me A LOT! and now, i know how and why i get thru all this hell. Thank you!!!

@HelenLange-up1pz Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Rebecca. Appreciate these tips that empower our souls by retaining self-assurance and confidence.

@johnphillips8458 Жыл бұрын

Alright!! Got ta. Get on up. Thanks and I'll try moving my stuff back into the guest room. To give her space. So she can relax better from all the stress of my 😉Being behind on bills. And my spider webs on the balcony😧 how the he'll are those mine. Really now I'm Spiderman. Then where were my Spicdy Senses.

@Anwesha__ Жыл бұрын

5) confidence, self-assured 4) keep emotionally distanced from them, play offense instead of defense 3) maintain independence 2) set strict boundaries 1) show them that you are not afraid of them, they are more afraid of you

@HelpdeskInParadise Жыл бұрын

They never respect you. If you can get them to fear you, you have an advantage. They will leave you alone.

@rosalynyoung3499 Жыл бұрын

You are right they don’t have respect for you

@ginnydougan9664 Жыл бұрын

I agree with you they never respect you but if you can get them to fear you then I know they will leave you alone. I have things about him that I have never repeated and he has the fear inside of him that I will. he said if you ever tell anybody about this it will destroy me. all I would have to do is start talking if he ever comes near me again. and he knows that.

@PAPAof5 Жыл бұрын

That sounds like the alpha way to deal with it and making them fear you.. that’s not a good goal to set for yourself. That will only be food for the flying monkeys.. no my friend, they must respect you as their superior

@peterlearner8594 Жыл бұрын

They often brag about how they pulled a fast one on someone or broke some law. Make them think it's OK so they reveal more stuff. Pretty soon you have a dossier of wrong doing on them. Then when you finally have a bust up they suddenly realise you have a lot on them which they never thought you would use against them. If they do threaten you, tell them they aren't in any position to threaten you, not with the stuff you have on them

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Yes, it's best when the narcissist drops you as their target. Hope you're doing just okay, patricia!

@mykedoes4099 Жыл бұрын

1: NO CONTACT 2:NO CONTACT 3:NO CONTACT 4:NO CONTACT 5:NO CONTACT !!!

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

That works!

@sandhyasunil1116 Жыл бұрын

That truly works.

@Estudyante.Norway Жыл бұрын

What if , that narcicist contact your circle of friends and threat you to post private photos if you not contact to them?

@mykedoes4099 Жыл бұрын

@@Estudyante.Norway Get rid of any so called friends that grow monkey wings

@mykedoes4099 Жыл бұрын

@@Estudyante.Norway Plus its probably just another lie , as usual

@Robert_Stemmons Жыл бұрын

I’ll show the narcissist Just how I roll By letting him know I’M IN CONTROL. 😀🦅

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Nice!!!

@jestem2023 Жыл бұрын

Living with a narcissist will make you so stressed out that you will end up very sick. Don’t do it.

@wayneelliott1180 Жыл бұрын

The emotional distance step is very important. Once they know what makes you react, they'll plot scenarios that trigger you then point and say "See? You're crazy/unstable/mentally ill" etc, etc. Of course, they are describing themselves.

@tessellatiaartilery8197 Жыл бұрын

Showing them that you are not afraid of losing them is ultimate control. This seems even more powerful than showing less fear of them as a person. At core they are spineless weaklings, desperate addicts using others as a fix. Nonchalance and disinterest is real power over a crumbling emotional meth head.

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?

@NehaSharma-wq9yc 10 ай бұрын

You are right They are literally spineless lol .

@subramanimani9779 6 ай бұрын

Perfectly well said the showing that we are not bothered about losing them will scare them and make them respect us

@komodokisaragi9398 4 ай бұрын

its weird, its like turning yourself into a designer drug. most of what the list is composed of is what todays society would consider a high Value Man/Woman. I really dont think it would be a good idea to be with someone so superficial. but atleast you know what you're getting yourself into

@iamgoddessoflove Жыл бұрын

Don't lose yourself to someone that doesn't respect you; instead, let go of that relationship to allow doors to open from someone that deserves you. 💙KZfaqr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

@HapillyMe Жыл бұрын

It's hard to leave a narcissistic husband when he's the bread winner, and you are on his medical insurance, and inflation is horrible.

@saadiayakubu7121 Жыл бұрын

In applying number 4, they tend to accuse you of been arrogant and seeing someone else.

@GracieAckerman Жыл бұрын

#3 on independence- have your own bank accounts. Don’t ever let a narcissist hand access or control of your money and assets

@joanngross786 Жыл бұрын

I was married to one of these monsters and I made the mistake of paying for all the renovations of our house with MY credit cards since he didn't have any. Needless to say, when he divorced me, I barely escaped with my life and left being tens of thousands of dollars in debt. Decades later, I am still in severe debt and in a constant battle against depression, anger and hurt.

@GracieAckerman Жыл бұрын

@@joanngross786 my ex husband stole most of my assets and committed bank fraud in my name by forging my signature- 10 years later he is now facing charges because I found banking documents and other legal documents that prove his crimes. I never should of let him have any financial control either -that’s why I made the comment so I get how you feel too

@joanngross786 Жыл бұрын

@@GracieAckerman Thank you Gracie for such great advice so others don't have these financial disasters.

@Chelzebelles Жыл бұрын

💯 Phone is even more important to maintain control of imo.

@silviac221 Жыл бұрын

Yes, especially for women, who are often educated to be dependent: your own job, bank account, car if possible (or at least learn to drive, don't depend on him to drive you). Your own friends. Your way of breaking free.

@Breauxmann Жыл бұрын

Tables have turned. I’m in control now. Day 36 no contact. Never going back, it’s ovah!

@iys6890 Жыл бұрын

I'm proud to be an empath- basically the polar opposite of a narcissist! Empaths are emotionally very mature! 🙏😊

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?

@staceywilliams8847 Жыл бұрын

I am in control with my Lord Jesus!

@Sara-et8sn Жыл бұрын

Amen Amen

@SpeakLife444 Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Stay strong! ❤

@jesss6383 Жыл бұрын

Mantra: “I’m worth more than this!” “This chaos cycle is exhausting and I’m DONE with moving in this circular path and ready to move FORWARD”

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Stay strong! ❤

@reginaldblakey1441 Жыл бұрын

Last but not least one command of respect is to leave the narcissistic relationship,let karma conception flow, don't entertain a clown and be part of the circus, maintain the distance.

@silviac221 Жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more.

@d.r.q.2032 Жыл бұрын

great advice!

@joanngross786 Жыл бұрын

Great advice!!

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Stay strong! ❤

@susanhayes5558 Жыл бұрын

I'm in control. I will not let them suck the life out of my family any more.

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

No longer! Stay strong, Susan!

@kevinhanley6462 Жыл бұрын

We're all in control of the manipulator. Keep a healthy distance and try to get back to your plans that day, so they haven't taken over your happiness.

@ccarlymartin Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the tools to deal with this horribly manipulative person. Was married to him for 26 years and newly divorced. I'm so happy that he moved to another state. Freedom at last! I still have to deal with him for the moment. So much fun watching his "covert" little tantrums. Now is my time for healing. I got this, today. Work in progress.

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Good for you! Remember to never give up and to stay strong. It's never always easy but it's not impossible to beat the narcissist. You got this! 🙌

@Jackgritty28 Жыл бұрын

Respect has to be intentional,or does the narcissist fake it,if you don't get it,it's because they need their supply no matter the consequences.If they couldn't use you,they'll abuse you,if you see them,keep your distance,don't always be on the defensive,start going on the attack,because sometimes the best form of defence is attack🆘🚩💲

@ccarlymartin Жыл бұрын

@@Jackgritty28 Mine is a very long and sad story. You don't stay with someone for 28 years and not love them. I've watched way too many youtube videos on the subject and I honestly have to turn some of them off because they become so hateful toward the narcissist. I understand why my ex is the way he is, because his mother nurtured it in him. He's now coming to terms with that. He says he is "healing" and I tell him to get counseling. I have no doubt he will never change and I've finally set him free in my heart. I only understood what was happening to me in the last year or so, but when I look back over 3 decades I see classic behaviors of narcisism and co-dependency. I thought I had a solid marriage and I was lucky to have him because I was having issues with low self worth and shattered confidence after only a couple of years together. Aww, anyway, I should write a book. I'll always be untangling myself from that abuse. So many layers.

@yukio_saito Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your freedom 🗽

@ccarlymartin Жыл бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq Thank you for the kind words. Lots of twisty pieces to these folks, but I can now see one coming from a mile away.

@sabrinapetersen5358 5 ай бұрын

A narcissist doesn't have any respect for you or anybody else! You will wonder to yourself why did I ever trust this person? You will go down a dark hole with a narcissist friend, who you will learn isn't a friend after all! Just a jerk who doesn't know how to really love you in the first place and who only thinks of women like a supply or a Object or a thing to use as they see fit to do with you! So if you are experiencing this kind of disfunctional relationship I would suggest that you go and seek a therapist and a good Therapist To help you deal with this problem! And may God be with you in this most difficult time in your life!

@daniellelewis6962 Жыл бұрын

Super hard to emotionally distance from the narcissist if they are your child. I’m trying.

@kevinmalone3210 Жыл бұрын

I use to have a neighbor who was a narcissist. A woman whom I made friends with. She was attractive, and there were characteristics in her personality that I liked. After awhile, 2 to 3 months later, as I was talking with her on the phone, she voice an opinion on a matter and I disagreed, but in a friendly manner, and she screamed her head off at me! She couldn't tolerate my opinion! I made the mistake of staying friends with her when I needed to cut it off right then and there. It slowly went bad over the years until I finally cut it off from her. I once told her, she was the most egocentric and narcissist person I ever met. She freaked out! She went into a tirade and screamed, not to call her anymore. She later called me and I stupidly started to talk to her again. One time I straight out called her a b**ch on the phone out of anger. I later called her and apologized, another mistake. How did she respond? She threatened me! I responded, Are you threatening me? She had no answer. Before I apologized to her, and after I called her a B, she became afraid of me, yet she knew me for years, and I never made any threatening gesture towards her, or caused her any reason for her to be afraid of me. Narcissists deep down inside of them, are really scared, and cowardly people who might, if they can make it work, benefit from professional help. They are some of the most out of touch people in existence.

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

It's best to go no contact. Really hard dealing with the most toxic personality. You got this!

@kevinmalone3210 Жыл бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq You're absolutely right, I learned my lesson the hard way. If I run into anyone whom I think are narcissists, I immediately go no contact. It's the best way to save your sanity. Thanks for your video, it has some good insights.

@goodmorningsundaymorning4533 Жыл бұрын

This is why I keep to myself. I moved into a new apartment about 2 yrs ago and I am cordial with my neighbors, a simple hello how are you, a wave, but that is the extent. I know narcs will force themselves onto you with instant "friendships" so I don't give anybody opportunity. But then again, I cherish being an introvert.

@mercedescue1655 Жыл бұрын

This one sounds like my relationship with my daughters mother in law. Unfortunately I have to spend more time with her than I d like. Everything is ok as long as I dont say anything but this is not the way I want my granddaughter to see me. Yep I am in control. No more mrs. Nice guy.

@addyourname5570 Жыл бұрын

If she wasn’t attractive, would you have kept things going? Wonder why that is…

@francoluz2629 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯. Once I gained my power back he began to glitch. I kept pushing through despite his mental,verbal and guilty attacks. There was so much resistance between us when we had interactions. It's a mindset. I could feel myself in a capsule protecting myself from his attacks trying to drain my energy.

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Congratulations in getting control back! Keep safe and stay strong! 💪

@inesavoege5560 Жыл бұрын

Glitching, that's what I noticed when I started to say NO MORE BS and started to stand up for myself!

@priscilalondon Жыл бұрын

That’s my situation right now.

@debmccafferty1007 Жыл бұрын

@@inesavoege5560 ex melted down and topped things off with catfished photos

@tinajones5548 Жыл бұрын

Yes, once you show them you WILL not stand down they throw in the towel . Lesson learnt, eh? 😊

@luisn.gonzalezsr.7211 9 ай бұрын

Thank you I was in unaware these personalities existed!!! I maddened one and my whole family is and I broke the cycle so they are SUPER PISSED!!!! 🤬

@Lindaheal 6 ай бұрын

Love the declaration Of Indepencence! Btw, the malignant narcissist having a tantrum on the floor is a special kind of hell when they're in the condo overhead.

@willsolo1967 Жыл бұрын

Being impassive and indifferent towards a narcissist is best

@larac0 Жыл бұрын

I’d add that if CONTACT is necessary, take as much time as you need before replying the “text/email/call”, preferably avoid the call and keep everything written, never “react” replying quickly, take a day or two if possible and respond as briefly as possible, if the answer can be given with an emoji (e.g.👍), even better

@zodiacfish69 4 ай бұрын

I am in control of my own life so glad i never relied on him for anything he relied on me for everything a pure taker selfish unkind heartless deffo believe they are empty souls

@liliarivera4125 Жыл бұрын

My narcissist asks me for money even though he has a good job, I have learned to say NO... he really gets upset with me but slowly I have just learned to stop being scared when he reacts from me saying NO...

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

You got this! Stay strong and if you need extra support, you can email support@rebeccazung.com. Team SLAY will be there for you!

@steinmoller-nilsen4118 Жыл бұрын

But he tells your children you're financially abusive. Even though... (throwing up...)

@caseteamcouture8633 Жыл бұрын

The narc I know makes 3x more than I do and still thinks I should help him pay bills he created. FAWK THAT

@Coco-og7zw Жыл бұрын

Dealing with this right this minute. My husband works, makes great money and has 3 bank accounts with money in it. He asked me yesterday to borrow money and I told him NO for the 1st time. We had a big blow out and now he's giving me the silent treatment.

@Sublimefireflyy Жыл бұрын

That’s because they like to keep you broke so they can spend theirs with or on whatever

@s.b.8258 Жыл бұрын

5 ways to command respect from a Narcissist(my notes) 1. Confidence in self-assured people. 2. Keep emotional distance from them. We are no longer allowing them to control us. Keep your cool. Say I'm in control. They don't hand power over your soul. 3. Maintain your independence. Start to put your boundaries. Keep your independence in every way that possibly can. Go here and there, read a book etc. Start doing things for yourself. I declare my independence for myself.

@s.b.8258 Жыл бұрын

Continue... Create Your vision of what it is that you want. You almost forget what you want, your perfect life. Think about it like a GPS. 4. Set your boundaries. That's how you command respect. They will have a tantrum. It's like having a tantrum on the floor. They think the parents will give in. Scare tactic. They want you to be afraid. Stick to your boundaries. 5. The most important one. Show them that you are NOT AFRAID OF THEM. They are more afraid of you than you are of them. They love to see you squirm, they love to see you react because they feed off of that. If you cut off the supply source then they won't be there. Down the road they'll move on. Show them that nothing that they are doing will bother you. They are like vultures. They need something to feed off of.

@hollyhergott915 Жыл бұрын

I'm in control Thank you Jesus

@RebeccaZungEsq 2 ай бұрын

Check this out - slaythenarc.com Keep slaying!

@southernbellerising Жыл бұрын

I’m in control! Rescind your heart space, attention & energy and direct it inside for yourself and only those beautiful souls who give you all the feels…who truly reciprocate the love you offer them. ✨🙌

@adamcefalu9430 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@catherinegichiri1246 Жыл бұрын

Respect from a narcissist : Confidence (Keep emotionally distanced from them -Take control of your life Maintain your independence

@tovenrvik6336 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing and exposing Narcissists, it's about time that those parasites get known to the world‼️

@lynnolmsted4698 Жыл бұрын

There is no purpose for their existence

@tovenrvik6336 Жыл бұрын

@@lynnolmsted4698 No, they want's to control, destroy and dim another humans light ‼️It's been said from a Godly perspective, that Narcissistic abuse makes us stronger, you really find your own worth, when someone works hard to destroy you‼️I have educated myself on the topic Narcissisism for 3 years, grew up as a Scapegoat of two Narcissistic parents, and has been heavily Gangstalked for a decade, monitored, ppl taken themselvs into my home when I'm out, sleepdeprivation, the Flying Monkeys of an earlier Narcissistic landlord have moved into neighbour flats everywhere I moved in, it's into the Police register, neighbours is being thrown out bcs the sound torture they have put me tru at nights‼️I'm stronger than ever‼️💎Starseed

@spmoran4703 Жыл бұрын

My question is why are there so many of these assholes around at present . They are everywhere breaking up job opportunities, relationships all sorts of things . Give me a subject of human interest and there is a narc trying to do something nasty too it. I have had enough of them..

@carlinewilson3391 8 ай бұрын

I didn’t know I was dealing with a narcissist until recently. Three years married helping him with a green card right after we got married l started noticing the change from the love bombing phase 😢.

@joncomarti9005 Жыл бұрын

Yes he is afraid I’m not coming back when I go away on vacation or visit family ❤

@jestem2023 Жыл бұрын

I was self assured, just graduated as an engineer starting my career when I met my narc. After marrying him and specially after my daughter was born and I quit my career to raise her the abuse started. 20 years later I am struggling to pick up pieces and put myself together. It took that long to get away from him.

@mardykrzewinski3601 Жыл бұрын

In my case it's my mother. I'm old enough to know better. She's NOT in control of me anymore. I'm the one in control of MY life .

@sharonwilliams5263 3 күн бұрын

I'm in control

@TheLamba444 Жыл бұрын

Number three is where I have allowed myself to fall into that a deep financial abuse trap, slowly trying to dig my way back.

@RebeccaZungEsq 11 ай бұрын

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

@Mary-cz8pf Жыл бұрын

I live with my 1/2 sister. She's exactly like what you've described. If I detach myself emotionally, she gets angry because I'm not making her feel like its all about her. She loves people making her feel like she's better than anyone else. She thrives on attention. I definitely need help with dealing with her. She has made me feel neurotic and put me in a major depression. If she cleans, she wants recognition even though she lives here. She has tantrums all the time. If I didn't need her money for half of the rent and utilities, I'd kick her out. I usually just keep quiet so I don't give her anything else to blow up about.

@livinggood6876 Жыл бұрын

I have a sister like that. I finally went no contact.

@d.r.q.2032 Жыл бұрын

Do whatever you can to not live with a narcissist, no matter how badly you need the money. Is "she made me feel neurotic and put me in a major depression" worth the money and stress to live with her? These people destroy your lives - get them out!

@Mary-cz8pf Жыл бұрын

@@d.r.q.2032 I went through the same thing. Never used ito have anxiety attacks til now

@lynnolmsted4698 Жыл бұрын

Put an AD on the internet and find someone else to live with you!! Then go " NO CONTACT" and move on without her! She will NEVER change!!

@user-ng4ik4lc8d 5 ай бұрын

I’m in CONTROL

@MariaVazquezGazmeySantiago Жыл бұрын

* I request respect in my life , marriage, with my family, children, employment, job, work, company, everything related to my personal, public, private, health, finances, services, and everything related to me . Thank you !

@ellemae4916 6 ай бұрын

I’m in control!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq 2 ай бұрын

Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar- slaythenarc.com

@williamsandbach4058 10 ай бұрын

Im in control I havent been, but I am now

@ivanaveselikova6188 Жыл бұрын

I found that if I turn their agressive and digging remarks into some fun and give a big smile they step back surprised. Yes, they can see I am not afraid of them. It is one of the most important tactics, I suppose. Thank you for all the help and support you give to people. 🍀🍀🍀

@jocelynstewart1186 Жыл бұрын

I AM IN CONTROL, YEAH BABY!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq 2 ай бұрын

Check this out - slaythenarc.com Keep slaying!

@stevebetance116 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Rebecca ! I've been listening to your videos for about a month. I've never had an intimate relationship with a narc before. At 60 years old I met a lady that I thought I could spend my life with...then, well...you know...Thanks again for the clarity !

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Glad to help! Stay strong!

@user-wj5nc6gt3y 4 ай бұрын

My narcissist kicked me out of my own business!! I was dependant from him legally to keep my business open, and he knew that, and he controlled me.. One day I got enough, and I fired him, he was totally confused, he always thought he had all in control, but finally I took control😊!

@pawelluzny7 Жыл бұрын

I'm in control I'm not afraid now I will have my life back now I won't be manipulated and belittled anymore or feel guilty or blaming myself for past 15years !!!

@JustMe-es4qs Жыл бұрын

I never want to earn respect from them. I never care about them in first place

@sothere8758 Жыл бұрын

Rebecca you are also like Jesus who said the devil is a narcissist and explains how to deal with them. Very correct and a spiritual warrior you are to me.

@GM-nf4bw Жыл бұрын

I'm in CONTROL!!!!!

@cainecoombs5220 Ай бұрын

I am in control

@kekp3791 Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much! This is so true. I have my mother in my mind which until few months ago I would have never thought she was a narcissists. After many analysis in the last months I connected the dots and I recognized she is a narcissists covered by nice words in appearance, which never relate to her actions. I have always maintened a distance from her financially because it was impossible to deal with her, but I was emotionally dependent on her as a mother figure. I cut off everything few months ago and she is begging people around me to forgive her as she will try to recover her mistake. Which she didn't until now. She always saw me as a strong person to rely on and to take advantage of whatever I had. But when it came to support me she never was able to do so, because she was busy taking care of her adults children, who by the way have their own family and never really had problems in their life.

@TenderhornH Жыл бұрын

I'm In Control!!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq 2 ай бұрын

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@user-fx5bl3yo9z 11 ай бұрын

Married to this person for 36 yrs and she divorced me and she ended the msrrage a week before I had surgery and always asking for koney and completely ended with hate and been realy verbally abusive. But it ended,finally so am getting help now,thank you for your advice she herself was a leaga secretary,nothing I did was good and am in control now of my life.

@SaritWorld Жыл бұрын

It is scary how much you know about these individuals. Thank you amazing lady. Thank you for your free help...it surely helped.

@rmiller2741 Жыл бұрын

Great video. Have no fear of them! They fear that because you have the potential to expose them.

@livinggood6876 Жыл бұрын

Coercive control needs to be criminalized, its domestic violence. These people are aggressive and rage constantly. They are harassing evil creatures that derail lives and ruin their families health.

@user-qu3fl9tw9v 3 ай бұрын

I’m in control!

@zodiacfish69 4 ай бұрын

Glad i got rid of my narc had enough of the abuse lies anger dissappearing acts due to the drug abuse & he was in and out prison for the crimes he committed

@sylviagonzales4567 Жыл бұрын

I'm in control. I'm totally struggling. I need help, I'm very abused and been trying hard for a year. Mental health doesn't help. I'm lost.

@jimmoravec1326 3 ай бұрын

Mine has done it all multiple times and continues on with no regrets remorse apologies nothing

@kimberlythomas-kelley2073 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this!!! ♥️

@ChaddLackey Жыл бұрын

Thanks! I appreciate your videos!

@judithdavy6244 Жыл бұрын

Excellent, Rebecca🌟🌟🌟

@rickyreese3834 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for validation.

@Vandana2121 Жыл бұрын

I AM IN CONTROL

@maustin950 Жыл бұрын

Thank you going through it now.

@luna-pn6pt Жыл бұрын

They don’t respect anyone including themselves

@RebeccaZungEsq 2 ай бұрын

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@pemmylewis2861 Жыл бұрын

What a great, great, great video!

@angiemanley3743 Жыл бұрын

I’m in control 🙌🏾

@pmprei3767 Жыл бұрын

Got this!!

@cassieory2009 Жыл бұрын

I AM IN CONTROL 💪

@stephaniegarcia-hb9mb Жыл бұрын

Wow so true

@alexandrinajones4965 Жыл бұрын

OMG!!!! U just so amazing!!!! Just listening to you makes me feel so much stronger!

@stephaniegarcia-hb9mb Жыл бұрын

I love this video

@PettyPotato Жыл бұрын

Thank you for turning my life around

@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын

Stay strong!

@tommycops Жыл бұрын

I'm in control!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@jacqueline4365 Жыл бұрын

I am in control!✨️🙏🏼

@artwithme756 Жыл бұрын

I'm in control! Wow, thank you for this enlightenment, from the bottom of my heart.

@mariroseengert8666 Жыл бұрын

Going through the divorce process now and he is dragging it out, yet he is the one who wants the divorce and yes I am going through with it. I want my freedom. A boundary I set and he hates - if he wants to have any kind of negative attack - he is to talk to his paramour, his lawyer, or if he wants to communicate with me it is only by Email. We are co-parenting an HFA autistic 30 year old male. If he wants to communicate it is to be civil, calm and cooperative and I repeat this mantra.

@lucawilliam876 Жыл бұрын

Hi i was a victim of this and im looking towards getting over it but i can't...i want someone to talk to...

@user-dn8uw8ju7i 5 ай бұрын

I'm definitely in control.

@RebeccaZungEsq 2 ай бұрын

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@tracyalexander3662 Жыл бұрын

I'm gaining ground by gaining control! Thank you Rebecca for being a beacon of light! Many blessings to you ma'am!

@michelebrammer3475 Жыл бұрын

Yep definitely in control, after years and years of abuse from my sister, I see it all so clearly. She is a vile abusive liar, no friends, partner or children! Loves to aim all her abuse at me, even calls me the nasty bi...ch and bully! Definitely like watchkng a 2 yr old throwing a tantrum then conveniently forgets it ever happened 🤣 Not anymore, thank you so much Rebecca, your videos are the best and so helpful xx

@tovenrvik6336 Жыл бұрын

Learn to Go Gray Rock from Dr Ramani video, so you don't react to a Narcissist bcs that's what they want, it's giving them Narcissistic supply, learn to be as interesting as an grey rock and they can't feed off on you‼️Look to Narc Survivor ‼️🎖️

@user-uc5oo2iv6w Жыл бұрын

My sibling who is a narc has kids and she has neglected each one. So its best they do not procreate. She blames me for losing everything (her half of an inheritance) 17 yrs ago bc she couldn't get me to take my life after a loved one died. Yep now she has my child and it is a complete Shit show. Excuse my language. Her child whom is so oppressed made my child think i was not rich enough or a good enough mother. It's awful pattern but At Least we can now be empowered with this Knowledge.

@CLHS1944 Жыл бұрын

I’m in control now! NAMAslay!

@GOYB76 Жыл бұрын

I'm in control

@mo8160 10 ай бұрын

It all starts with you. You have to respect yourself to command respect.

@jessicalimbaugh5950 Жыл бұрын

I'm in Control!!

@tamarraslaton Жыл бұрын

I’m in control💯💯💯💯

@mikegump3766 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing all your time, energy & knowledge with us...What a kind giving Lady...Bless your ❤️ 💙...

@franciscogomez6279 Жыл бұрын

I am in control!!

@vivianamendez2870 Жыл бұрын

Glad to know you are an attorney with knowledge of the topic….

@teenagersareadults Жыл бұрын

Excellent thanks. So good. You are a star.

@RebeccaZungEsq 2 ай бұрын

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@LoriSings65 Жыл бұрын

Thank You so much you ROCK 😘

@RebeccaZungEsq 2 ай бұрын

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@geraldevans2688 6 ай бұрын

A soldier, the son of a soldier ,raised in a soldiers house . A headstrong unkind wife who never Apologizes and lead a double life with a different goal than the Man she married was somewhat of a challenge ,it wasn't pretty. Until I realized not to expect any kind of love from an empty soul,and to stay calm and direct when communicating .love is long suffering and kind ,harshness would do no good,and that for the son of a soldier to learn is quite a formidable task. Needless to say ,we are no longer together .I have peace.