1. I’m sorry, but.... 2. No you’re taking it all wrong 3. I’m sorry that you’re so sensitive 4. I’m sorry you feel that way 5. I’m sorry you think that 6. Ok, I’ll apologize if.... 7. I’m sorry, but I only did it because of you Hope this helped if you don’t have time to watch the whole video

Genuine and sincere apologies are essential to successful relationships.

"There's a difference between saying "I'm sorry," and apologizing." "Never apologize if you aren't really feeling sorry.

Who else here has before actually meant a sincere apology but they accidentally used one of these?

I hate the “but” apologies. If you did something wrong to someone, just own it. If you don’t think you did anything wrong, discuss it in a rational, unbiased manner.

2020 is gonna give a fake apology for everything

Easy: 1. Visibly turn on the camera. 2. Sigh 3. "I made a severe lapse-

“Never discredit your gut. You are not paranoid. Your body can pickup on vibrations that your mind cannot perceive.” ✨

👍A real apology has three main components: (1) it acknowledges the actions taken and resulting pain inflicted on you; (2) it provides an action plan for how s/he will right the wrong; and (3) there is an actual change in behavior proving to you that there won't be a repeat of the past.

2021 is coming up so soon! What's your New Years Resolution?

7 Signs Of A Fake Apology 1. “I’m sorry... *but*..” 2. “No, you’re taking it all wrong” (or “i’m sorry you took it the wrong way”) 3. “I’m sorry that you’re so sensitive” 4. “I’m sorry you feel that way” 5. “I’m sorry you think that” 6. “Okay, I’ll apologize if...” 7. “I’m sorry but I only did it because....”

The best apology is changed behavior. All of these manipulative verbal "apologies" work because people let the weight of words hold more value than the weight of actions. I don't trust "I'm sorry" until I see it followed through

Real fake "I'm sorry" can be caught when the people who make mistake try to overact on saying only "I'm sorry" to cover their mistake. Even worse, after saying "I'm sorry", they go back to make fun of that "I'm sorry" with third person when you're still hurt. I faced it once and that's a shit of once my ex-friend called "friendship".

I often struggle because I use to be a manipulative person, I took therapy and alot of self awareness to stop it. I often apologize "Im sorry, I didnt mean to hurt your feelings" or the "Im sorry thats not what I ment!" But the difference for me is im always aware that the other person's emotions are there reality and its my responsibility for causing them in some way and Its ny job as a good friend or partner to understand and fix the issue. At least that's how I see it.

Most youtubers: *sweating*

The three words “ I am sorry” doesn’t mean much if the person continues to hurt or offend you. Apologizing isn’t the same as feeling genuine remorse for the deed done or the comment said

I heard someone say if someone tells you you hurt them you don’t get to decide that you didn’t. Sometimes I rather see people get their karma than a fake apology so they know how it feels. Blaming the other person for being hurt is gaslighting.

If someone says you've hurt them, you don't get to decide that you didn't. Great video!

this will expose all these tiktokers with fake apologies for saying the n word or grooming minors

The cat is having the time of it's life 😂: 4:58

At 3:18 the picture looks like a scene from the "Life goes on" mv

im so familiar with these "apologies." There have been so many "friends" that have gaslighted me in the past and I thought I was going crazy and I would always pin the blame of any issue on myself

Let's apply this to all these yt apologies

Every sibling ever: of course i know him, the one who fakes apologizing, he's me

there's a lot of times when people still apologize when they shouldn't have

This is exactly what I was telling my ex when he would say, "I'm sorry you felt ignored but...." I said dont apologize for me feeling ignored because thats not a real apology, thats just putting the blame on me. Needless to say he's past me now. Over a year of having to deal with someone who can't take accountability for anything is bound to result in a failed relationship. Dont ever let it get to the point where you're constantly forgiving someone without them ever apologizing. Don't give them that power over you. Respect yourself and keep strong boundaries.

A girl hurted me emotionally so bad in a summercamp that i cried for hours, and she only apologized because other people were looking at and she wanted to make a good impression. She said something like "Oh, sorry, it's just that my grandfather passed away reciently and because I was sensitive about it I got mad at you and started saying things I didn't mean" I was still crying, and I was so sensitive that I accepted her stupid apologize. Everyone smiled, and the next day everyone acted that nothing happened. She and some other girls in the summercamp always used to make fun of me, they started to do it again when they saw me forgiving that girl. They were other girls that weren't mean to me but didn't help or deffend me from their "friends". I only made one real friend in that summercamp. The rest of them just were toxic bitches who didn't care about how I felt. At least one of them apologized genuinely days after. Thanks for read my story, I guess. Sorry if my english is not very good

Psych2go literally exposing the whole beauty community

1:12: im sorry, but 1:47: no you're taking it all wrong! 2:13: im sorry that YOU'RE so sensitive 2:42: im sorry you feel that way 3:07: im sorry you think that 3:38: okay, ill apologize..IF 4:17: im sorry but, i only did it because of you

i really hate the "im sorry but i only said/did it because you.." it is so freakin manipulative and it really can end up with you watching out everything you say or do just in fear that you're gonna cause the same reaction in other ones

my former friends: *apologize for hanging out behind my back and intentionally leaving me out of things* me, who’d heard this apology at least 5 times before and was manipulated into feeling guilty: it’s okay! :’)

Everyone: Talking about the topic of the video. Me: *Looks at the cute little references.*

The noise in the background is so mesmerizing :0

Real sorry is said like: “I’m really sorry” Reason why your sorry but for example: “I sorry that I took your rice bowl “

3:12 kinda looks like life goes on MV-

I noticed all of this in N word apologies.

My friend: apologies fakly Me: pulls out this video

I needed this, on christmas eve I got sick, like really bad, I even was crying bc of the pain, and all my mom could tell me was "take something for the pain, you are ruining christmas for everyone", I already took something, and told her, at the end she cried and played the victim and I ended up like the GRINCH, even if I was the sick one

Some famous people watching this from their secret account: i- 👁️👄👁️

I believe changed behavior needs to go with an apology. Because if you continue to act the same way it didn’t mean anything.

When it turns out that you were always fake apologizing: *Wait, we are the baddies?*

I’ve never spent a day in my life without saying, “I’m sorry.” It’s that I’m told to say it, but I just feel really guilty when I mess up.

There's this person who apologizes for everything she does and I don't know if it's just in her nature or they're just faking it everytime

You know it’s a fake apology when they say “i accidentally did that” and don’t even apologize.

Or when you tell them they did something wrong and they say “I’m sorry if I did that” or “I’m sorry if that happened” “I’m sorry if I made you feel that way” Like there is no IF! you DID do it! It’s like they are not taking responsibility for their actions and making me second guess myself 😤

The analogies that the animation presents is brilliant

I love how characters are used for every example. The little Saitama is so cute! (0:19)

5:40 1: Think about what you did or said 2: Think about how that goes against your morals or how it hurts the other 3: Then you will feel the sincerity of your apology

I feel like, "I'm sorry if I offended you" should be added too So many of my friends say that when I get genuinely upset. It's borderline guilt tripping, and a complete avoidance of responsibility. 😔

I feel like i always do this but i dont realize 😶

This channel has THE BEST way of speaking sentences in explanations. Change my mind

Another one is bribery in place of changing behaviour, no "I'm sorry" just gifts and ignoring the problem on repeat. i don't like gift-giving now because I've seen this so many times.

Yup, this confirmed that my ex definitely never gave me a sincere apology even once. (:

The only thing I can suggest to make an apology sincere is: whenever you apologize, make sure you mean it; otherwise you shouldn't apologize at all. But if you do, have the decency not to say any of these apology additions that video suggests. Cause now one would know whenever you're apology is sincere or not. I know I will.

I have a toxic mother, and she use all the 7 fake apologies. Doing the hurtful things over and over again.

I just in a fight with my mom, and she just checked off every single box on this list. What’s worse is how much she’s trying to make me feel like it’s my fault.

My friend and I had an argument a long time ago and a month ago she apologized and yesterday she got mad at me and called me mean stuff & didn't want to be my friend :( but hopefully I heal & move on :')

My friend of 12 years really hurt me when she said, "I'm sorry you feel that way" after trying to tell her how hurt I was for her calling me a particular name. I realized afterward that she was saying that to paint herself as the victim and she was being manipulative to make it seem as though she didn't do or say anything wrong. 😞

The animation and references in these videos never cease to amaze me, no matter who the artist is.

Hearing a fake apology is like a slap in the face, so to speak. Do not waste someone's time, for the person who was wronged sees right through the sham ! Take responsibility for your actions, and keep your mouth shut because when you give a fake apology, you are adding insult to injury.

I love how on sometimes they use 2020 and covid as a example

How about "I'm sorry you're angry" when I'm not? All I asked my "friend" who is middle-aged like myself, was this question: Why am I the only one calling and visiting, doing all the work? ("Come see me at work; I'm bored.") When I asked her to explain months ago via email, she did not reply. I even went up to her work and left messages with her co-workers, which she knew about but again, chose not to reply. (Who's really the "angry" one here?) Then the other day, she emailed me, wishing me a "MC" and using words like "love", "friend", flattering me, etc. When I brought up the matter again, expressing my confusion and frustration, she wrote that she had "too much self-respect" to "go back and forth" with me. I asked her why would her self-respect prevent her from answering a simple question. No reply. I wrote her saying that I was sorry for expecting "the bare minimum" from her, that I'm glad we met and wished her well, but that I would not bother her again. She wrote back but I did not reply and deleted her email. My heart can only take so much. I know that I make a great friend and that TRUE friendship is a 2-way street. I have no patience for mixed signals and I cannot be with people who do not own their mistakes. I have standards on how I want to be treated and I'm only interested in relationships that I can actually count on. Anyone care to comment? Please do. Am I missing something here? I have noticed that she does not get along with other women.

People need to understand that there is an etiquette to apologies.

Most apologies are so commonplace & bogus now. Worse than ever, pitiful. 👎

A non-apology apology, sometimes called a nonpology, backhanded apology, or fauxpology, is a statement in the form of an apology that does not express remorse. ... Saying "I'm sorry you feel that way" to someone who has been offended by a statement is a non-apology apology.

Currently mad cuz my ex did all of these but 1 🙄

"I'm sorry, that you're so sensitive" feels like rubbing salt on stab wound they caused

My mom goes back and forth between "I'm sorry but that's just the way I am" and "sorry but if you hadn't been a bad child I wouldn't have been a bad mom to you". Either she blames me or acts like her ability to behave is set in stone and she refuses to even try and change that. I'm so sick of trying to talk to her because it's clear she won't ever see reason and actually take responsibility to be a better person.

3:14 Like an echo in the forest🎶

When i missed school for a few days i asked my “friend” when do we have the English test, and she told me we have it on Tuesday or Wednesday( I don’t remember exactly) but it was actually the first day of school on Monday. She did that so i can come to the test unprepared and get a lower mark than her. After the teacher graded our papers, we went to the bathroom and i asked her why she told me that we have the test on Tuesday and she said: “i also didn’t know.” How can’t you know? You were at school. She didn’t even looked in my eyes, didn’t sound convincing and didn’t even apologize or feel sorry about me, it was so obvious that she lied to me. Edit: well, her plan worked tho, she got a slightly higher grade than mine and the teacher was disappointed on me.

All great points! “I’m sorry you feel that way” just makes me more angry, because it’s not an apology!

The spongebob theme and one punch man at 0:23 made me more comfortable idk why

I love how they explained what is a bad apology by making it interesting(spongebob, the year of 2020 and even life goes on by bts)

Its the SpongeBob graphics for me 💀😭

My late mother did that. And, I’ve seen lot of people who didn’t apologize and they think that they are right. Not!

My toxic friend said I’m sorry after trying to guilt trip making us do things that we didn’t want to do, and only cares about herself. I told her that I had to think about it. She used depression against me and tried to guilt trip me.

Can we talk about all the sly pop culture references tho

dude ur animation is so cute wth

My mom did something that probably scarred me for life. She said sorry then told my dad about it like "I had to (...)" and it just frustrates me to no end. You don't have to tell him! She told my sister as well, highlighting something I told her instead of when I was crying and the actual thing, only mentioning that it happened, and they both laughed it off...and I laughed too. Laughter is contagious, and I couldn't not laugh while dying inside. It's like what she did was a freaking joke. Scratch that- everything bad she's ever done in her whole life!!! Especially to _me._ I cry every day. I don't know if it's depression or something, or that Mom always says the wrong things and has absolutely no empathy or sympathy, or both. She also blamed something she did on her having anger issues (as she guessed), like that validates it. She whines every day and I have no choice but to bottle up my feelings since she's like an extremely irrational toddler who so happens to have birthed me. I just want less hate in the world, including from me.

I really like the references, while being educational and genuine

was that a life goes on reference? 3:14

3:11 I am the only one who is thinking that this looks like BTS “life goes on” MV thumbnail??🤔🤔😂 Edit - I just checked on it and it was exactly same 😂😂

oh.... No. 4 I get a lot, I never knew until I saw this. Keep up the work, and I love your videos!

Saying sorry without admitting what you did wrong or only saying "sorry for everything I've ever done". Is like selling an empty bag of cookies

aww i love the beginning! it looks like you were in sandy's house LOL and the billie eillish puns omg :)lol how was christmas for you?

I saw spongebob on this. Nice touch

I truly love this content!! Why are not a lot of people making this kind of advice

People often do not validate our feelings .. thanks for sharing

and this shows how fake laura lee's apology was XDXDXD

LMAO THE SPONGEBOB AND SQUIDWARD TOOK ME OFF GUARD

It's so great to see these types of videos and realize it wasn't you who was crazy. People were really doing this

I love the art style, please do this more

Love the spongebob reference!!

A Turtle doesn't approve fake apologies

thank you for making psychology more accessible! it’s gonna be my future career soon. ❤️

stuff like this makes me realize how good it was to end the toxic friendship I had because he said if not almost everything on this list

Who else noticed: spongebob, tangled, covid and taylor swift in the animation?

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Love how you used mother Gothel at the beginning 😂

When they say " Sorry doesn't mean anything" or " sorry isn't enough". I had to leave a group of people because of that mind set.