7 Tests A Narcissists Conducts to Assess Your Suitability by Lise Leblanc

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Learn seven ways that narcissists test potential partners before entering a romantic relationship. Also, get one straightforward tip for establishing your own preliminary "test" in the early stages of a relationship to ensure your potential partner is not a narcissist or a toxic person.
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@sophiajayprice5107 5 ай бұрын

I love your channel. I am going through a divorce. The relationship centered around her. She was extremely disrespectful, emasculating and criticized to no end. You are a breath of fresh air. ❤

@gregoryritchie7852 5 ай бұрын

Had similar experience - 3 women framed relationship: "I'm the queen on her throne, you are the butler". Bad news. Relationships 2 way not 1 way.

@horiboyablemgtow7842 5 ай бұрын

My wife is trying to discard me at the moment, for the past 3 years she has been out having affairs trying to secure a new supply but at 44 yo she is only finding pump and dump situations and she caught 3 stds for her trouble. Now she has caught herpes it makes her market value is near zero, pity any guy that it catches it from her. She was having an affair with a married guy and I can bet she never mentioned the issue. Typical narc wanting to spread the misery around.

@cadebell1751 5 ай бұрын

Watch paternity court and detach , you will see men being berated … Identify who you are as a man … honestly… and watch how the judge , the women interacting with who you are …For me it’s been filling in the gaps of my experiences … personally change is difficult especially when society is pushing men down on all fronts… this was one way for me to recognize and reconnect to my nervous system. Some cases go back 30 plus years, and the man was not the father…

@AS004-xf4jc 5 ай бұрын

Exactly, she is. I watched lots of this type of videos and Lise is one of my top therapist on YOU TUBE platform.

@NarcNOmore23 4 ай бұрын

Stay strong Watch Sam Vaknin too. I'm out 1 yr now from a 20 yr relationship with a covert female narcissist. It was tough to get out But my life has changed so much in the last 6 months. Everyday it's more happiness, no more memories of the toxic person. No more pain. But you have to do the work with channels like this one. Richard Grannon , Lisa Romano. Anyway. You can do it. I did

@carparthero 5 ай бұрын

7 tests a narcissist conducts to assess your suitability 1-buy-in: into the narcissist's false narrative 2-level of investment: what do you have to offer as supply 3-emotional empathy: how they can manipulate and control you 4-tolerance: how much will you put up with their chaos, drama, manipulation 5-compliance: how easy you comply to their demands, putting the narc first. 6-loyalty: creating conflict to see if you will take their side 7-memory and cognitive abilities: can they gaslight you, confuse you to affect your judgment. lise: excellent breakdown of the science of how narcissists "qualify" sources. people do not owe the narcissist anything, because they wouldn't do anything even comparable for you if the roles were reversed. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

@balanceskateboarding8807 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing the list

@carparthero 5 ай бұрын

@balanceskateboarding8807 glad to be a bit of help. happy new year 🎉 -all the best, steven 🇨🇦

@AS004-xf4jc 4 ай бұрын

Very well explained. I can imagine now.

@AS004-xf4jc 5 ай бұрын

Just one rule you have to learn in your life. To start with any relationship, go slowly and take time.

@Liz-wz8dh 4 ай бұрын

So true. People with personality disorders usually cannot stand it when you take it slow with them if they're trying to hide the crazy. It's so hard for them to wear the mask for very long.

@cheerscheers9819 5 ай бұрын

Great video of information! Another test for a narcissist is to tell them “No!” It won’t matter how you say it, their reaction will be telling…

@cthuluownzyou 5 ай бұрын

Ex psycho used to go on endlessly about me going to Jiu Jitsu. I will be very clear in that I trained only a few times a week and never let it get in the way of other responsibilities. I think she was just jealous of me spending time doing anything besides being her slave.

@Zeepjeliefs 3 ай бұрын

Hope you still practice Jiu Jitsu🙂

@jimp9151 5 ай бұрын

The key for me was realizing that via projection, her sins were being thrust upon me. In other words, she was guilty of everything she accused ME of. When you plead with them repeatedly and calmly to try for honest communication, emotional connection, and accountability with reciprocity, you are living a delusional fantasy. I learned this after 25 years. I refused to give up hope (Love + denial?) because I'm not a quitter. But when I fully realized I meant NOTHING to her emotionally, and was not a person, but merely a thing, I was DONE. We have been officially divorced for almost two years, and I left her 4 years ago. The only thing I'm dealing with now is parental alienation. Our 22 year old daughter is caught in the middle. VERY hard and be prepared. The narc is ruthless and will not cease in the defamation attacks against you. Do not sink to their level. Be there for the kids emotionally and physically, but do NOT counterattack or try to leverage your kids in any way.

@user1.8.2. 4 ай бұрын

'An accusation from a narcissist is actually a confession'

@hurricaneaquatics 5 ай бұрын

Well, this was different for me. For the longest time, my Narc suggested I do more alone. She was very supportive of me going out riding motorcycles, hunting, etc. I thought she was being supportive and caring. However, she had another angle. This gave her more time to herself to spend with whomever and not have to deal with me and the marriage. So not all of them will get upset over hobbies. However as the marriage went on, she did start to complain that I had a saltwater fish tank and say I spent too much time on it. The only reason she made a big deal out of that was to deflect the fact that I had been arguing with her for spending zero time with me intimately or any other way. So they use something you like to do and will say "Why are you complaining to me about it when it's YOU that spends all your time with the fish tank." When in reality, I spent a lot of time on that hobby because she abandoned the marriage and ghosted me in our own home. So it's always an angle to make the Narcissist the victim and you the bad person. It's infuriating and immature, but they are masters of it. They want you to defend yourself as a normal person would and get out of answering your initial question. Always happens.

@henkrijkse4268 5 ай бұрын

For me reciprocity is the key in a relationship. That's my test. There must be a reasonable balance

@plusone8015 5 ай бұрын

Caveats R Us Reciprocity is often contrived as narcissistic behavior is fairly conniving. … Oh Big conniver Nothin' but a jiver I done got hip to your jive Oh Big conniver Nothin' but a jiver I done got hip to your jive Slippin' and a-slidin' Peepin' and a-hidin' won't be your fool no more, ow! - B. Holly 🎸

@hurricaneaquatics 5 ай бұрын

There is zero reciprocity from a narcissist. They have no idea what that word means because it's all about them and their needs.

@Thedisgardedoptimist 2 ай бұрын

Yep romantic reciprocity unless you are a narcissist is what we all look for in a partner..

@ConstantlyShadow8annedByYT 5 ай бұрын

That test at the end of the video has some nuance when dealing with a covert narcissist. My mother is a covert narcissist and when presented with a situation like that, she's like 'ok, I understand, you need to live your life, no problem', but that's only until you actually start doing what you agreed you'd do. On your first or second time, nothing visible will happen, but eventually she'll start complaining to strangers and other family members of how selfish you are, how she's lonely or in need but you only think about (whatever it is you're doing), or how you're such a bad person that you prefer (the thing you're doing) over being with them. So, by all means, do the test, but be prepared for early 'success' be just an illusion. Don't assume the person is NOT a narcissist just because they're (apparently) willing and understanding. It may just be episode one of a drama series that will unfold in the future.

@TurtleTimeVoiceOvers 5 ай бұрын

_Hindsight is 2020,_ is quite an understatement for me now that I’ve been watching your videos.

@treysmythstunes 4 ай бұрын

Now I see why I've felt a mysterious tinge of hatred when the narcissistic person was talking about and exaggerating "how sensitive (or) angry I was around (some issue). Thanks for the clarification - (I was feeling defensive because I smelled this shitty behavior!)

@licmir3663 5 ай бұрын

I can give a couple of examples of number 04: 1) My covert narcissist ex, at the beginning of the relationship, travelled to another city for work, and I asked what were her plans for the day, and she simply refused to answer. I thought it was weird and out of character, and we argued. After a few days not speaking, and she refashioned the event as me being unreasonable and immature for fighting, and I fell for it, because this was still in the love bombing stage, and I couldn’t imagine that she would be manipulative or deceitful. 2) Also at the beginning of the relationship, she suddenly broke up with me, for ridiculous reasons. I was appalled and saddened, because I had already started to invest emotionally, after refusing to have a relationship with her for a year and a half (the love bombing actually caused me revulsion at the start, as if I felt it was too good to be true, but she was VERY committed to pursue me at any cost). Two days later, she asked to talk and we got back together. Those two events early in the relationship were marked in my head, and now I know she was testing me to see how much punishment (lies, deceits, gaslighting, projection etc.) I could take. Unfortunately, I “passed” the test. I was in the middle of a tremendous cognitive dissonance, because the woman who acted so lovingly and passionate, who seemed so kind and good, was actually being nasty. I preferred to give her the benefit of the doubt. After all, like most people, I had no idea that these behaviors were part of a pattern of someone with a personality disorder. I only learned after the fact about narcissism.

@unreal_taxi 5 ай бұрын

How have things been for you nowadays?

@Horned1 4 ай бұрын

You are not alone.

@mosh556 4 ай бұрын

My covert narcissist ex also broke up with me very early on. That’s wild. And I can’t even remember what the reason was. I think he said something about “it’s not you, it’s just too much and I need to work on my myself for a while…blah blah blah” and mind you, he had already isolated me from my family and friends at this point. It felt like he had wooed me into a boat, rowed me out to a desert island, and then left me there alone. I was in such a state of cognitive dissonance that I didn’t even register the break up, really. I was already totally numbed out and dependent on his approval, believing every word he said to me. I couldn’t have imagined that he would break up with me to be manipulative or that it could be a form of discard! He loved me! Anyway, two days later he wanted to talk it out and he decided we could make it work. (I was so naive, and so, so stupid.) It took five years of pure hell, constant triangulation, emotional abuse, gaslighting, emotional cheating (never got proof of anything physical, but he was on dating apps), and then my own body finally giving out (medically) before I finally started to see the signs. The saddest part is that if I had listened to my own body and believed his actions rather than his words in the beginning, I would have saved myself a half decade of trauma and bs.

@Miyamoto777 5 ай бұрын

Protect this woman at all costs!❤❤❤

@Andruwjonesrichar 5 ай бұрын

I think I'm dealing with someone that has bpd and is also a narcissist

@isobelangeli2053 25 күн бұрын

Run

@jellyjams7217 4 ай бұрын

With all my research on narcissism, it seems to come down to one core foundation: The need to be loved in all possible forms of themselves. All of these behaviors tend to loop back to proving commitment and believing the other does not deserve someone different then they are. As far as a cause: abuse and over praising have been both described to contribute to narcissism, which is interesting as they are on the opposite sides of each other.

@Backfromthestorm 4 ай бұрын

I think they also don't see themselves as worthy of being loved, while also craving it. So when someone does come along they'll put them on a pedestal until they have what they want, then they'll look down on them and pity them for being so foolish as to love them. Between those two places lies chaos

@mielmortensen982 5 ай бұрын

The tactics are a pattern that go into friendships (non romantic) too. This video is super helpful. Thanks

@moimeme6533 4 ай бұрын

and ppl in the workplace, unfortunately including so-called "leadership"

@0annonymous 4 ай бұрын

Sometimes these tactics can also go into business relationships such as tenant-landlord relations. If you have a landlord you've had for quite a number of years and it's always been great with them, and then suddenly there's a bump in the road on THEIR part, you're usually NOT expecting what's coming down the pike in the form of what could LATER turn out to be a NIGHTMARE. That's why it's smart to be secretly recording EVERYTHING at EVERY encounter, and I do mean EVERYTHING. Another thing to pay attention to is when your landlord suddenly decides to start snapping pictures inside your unit. . yes, some of those areas may be previous problem. Areas they need to show the section 8 inspector, but why start snapping pictures NOW when it's NEVER been done before? This is what I mean by if landlords that were good before start going South. And there's no legal grounds to evict.... And they start looking for anything and everything possible to use against you for leverage.... As an excuse to evict. In other words, they're trying to find an excuse that could land them high and dry later. The question when they start snapping. Pictures inside your unit is. Who all are you sharing those pictures with? Who all are they sharing those pictures with? When they snap pictures inside your unit, that's not only putting your PRIVACY at risk, but MAYBE EVEN your SAFETY. You don't know how many eyes are seeing these pictures. When someone starts snapping pictures inside your unit, they COULD be SECRETLY setting you up for a potential break in and robbery. If anything sounds familiar and you've been notice your landlord has become a bit nosy and intrusive, start covering open storage areas to remove the distraction. Nosing around isn't what they're there for. Removing attractive distraction means less of a chance to snoop. I'm sure some people out there do cover open storage areas . then you have others who may have never had a need to do so.... UNTIL something started happening that shouldn't. Sometimes they may even start picking up. You're stuff like canned goods and looking at dates and criticizing how far past the dates they are. They may not be much of a prepper like you are, but if you're following prepper groups, experience prepper groups can guide you as to how long can goods are safe. Another thing to pay attention to with greedy landlords. Who probably don't want you there. No more is if they start criticizing the fact that you have. Stop store down in the basement, even if it's well out of their way, and they don't even want you storing stuff down there when this was never before the case, and it's your basement only. Sometimes drunk narcissists, maybe trying to nit pick, poking and prodding to try to get you to move. If you're on a contract and there's NO LEGAL REASON to EVICT, you especially on a CONTRACT and ESPECIALLY if you're DISABLED, then they MUST go through things LEGALLY like EVERYONE ELSE. I know I'm adding value. Because narcissism can and often does flow into other areas

@Miggysaurus13 5 ай бұрын

This channel and looking behind the mirror saved my mental health. After breaking up with my ex. Who was a text book narcissist. I was able to make a full recovery after making sense of the chaos and was able to put myself back together. She destroyed my sense of self worth, my self confidence and ruined my relationship with my family after having cut them off for her. You’re doing the lords work. Thanks a million. God bless

@LiseLeblanc 5 ай бұрын

I’m happy to hear that you were able to recover from this relationship!

@Miggysaurus13 4 ай бұрын

@@LiseLeblanc Your videos were a big help! Went no contact. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. The trauma bond and codependency made it hard , but making sense of the chaos and understanding what I experienced helped me process my narcissist ex girlfriend. We were together for a year , I even moved in with her two months into our relationship. Spent 2 months trying to make sense of the past year. The saddest part was that I never knew her and I was in love with her mask. Glad I came across your videos. You do an amazing job explaining

@DriftingTaco 5 ай бұрын

I can't express how much your videos helped navigate a breakup last year. Thank you for everything and happy 2024.

@joelattey9233 5 ай бұрын

Lise Leblanc, you are so on point. I have dated a covert narcissist for almost 4 years with hopes of marrying her, and I'm burned out emotionally. I wish I knew these earlier 😢

@RS-ms1bz 5 ай бұрын

Do not get married. Trust me, I married a covert five years ago and those last five years were the darkest season of my life. Finally divorced three weeks ago and I’ve never felt such peace finally being free of her toxicity. DO NOT marry a narcissist. If you do, it will be the end of your life, quite possibly literally

@marigolds49 5 ай бұрын

4 years? Ugh--run!

@ma3alimezo82 4 ай бұрын

Agree 100% with comments. Do not get married. She threatened to kill herself if I didn't Marry her. I turned up late because I was so unhappy. But I freekin did it. Everytime I tried to leave her, she had some threat to her safety or living situation, no home. So I was constantly looking out for this stray cat who was ruining me, personally. I think she is more calculated or damaged than a basic covert narc. She burnsd her family home down. Chronic attention seeker. My first panic attack was when I tried to leave her, and she got pregnant. She had never conceived inover 5 years. That was 8 years ago. So 14 years on she is abusing child emotional and psychological. I honestly haven't minded being dead a few times. As I get through family court accused of fake allegations. As I witness my son be abused, and possibly medically abused. But I'm not leaving my child with that fake cow. Let me tell you. Run run run run. Be alone and have a healthier self esteem and no vulnerability like a child with her. Run

@joelattey9233 4 ай бұрын

@ma3alimezo82 Thank you for sharing. I tried breaking up on 4 occasions in the past. Each time, she returned with claims of pregnancy. She never gets pregnant when things are fine between us and only when we break up. The last time she returned with a supposed 6 weeks old pregnancy in March 2023, I took her to a random hospital for a pregnancy test. The test results came out positive, so I took her back. She promptly destroyed the new relationship I was building whilst she was away. After she finally got her grips firmly on me again, she mysteriously miscarried again and blamed it on me for stressing her. Apparently, she had bills (school fees) to pay, and she thought I was the best person to do that for her. Now that she is done with school, things started getting worse. Sensing a possible withdrawal from me, she started the fake pregnancy antics again. I am wiser now. I ignored her and she didn't know what else to do. I called for a break up. She cried like a babe, tried to blackmail me for making her BP rise and so on. She finally sent me a message blaming me for everything that didn't work out between us and did other things to indicate she was rather the one calling it quits. At least, it has been a peaceful one month since then. I'm dealing with the after-effects now, but I know it's only a matter of time. Thanks.

@JavaGeek7654 5 ай бұрын

a smart N will follow your early boundaries early and remind you over and over they’re respecting them. They can save/break these up for later when they really want to shock you.

@--emt 5 ай бұрын

Lol that's the dumbest thing I read all day 😂 and "later on" when they test your boundaries it's the same thing you don't fucking cave from the start to when they " try" to pull a fast one . Super empath went supernova. I'm a narcissist worst nightmare. Speaking from irrefutable experience.

@joshsteele 5 ай бұрын

Your videos saved me from abuse. Thank you.

@Bibleinformationandhelp 5 ай бұрын

So, in essence, in the beginning of the relationship they will test you to see if you will take further abuse. This is very wild. It is a good thing they won't get away with it. Some people may call it karma.

@0annonymous 4 ай бұрын

Such can be the case with greedy landlords who go from good to their residents, to suddenly being an opportunistic harassing nit picker. Name a start bothering you about what you have in your home, on the lawn, even if it's not in the way or bothering them. They may start criticizing your stuff, tell you to get rid of it, and even start criticizing your way of life. Remember, the stuff we're talking about CAN be ESPECIALLY true IF the person DRINKS, ESPECIALLY a lot and then DRIVES AFTER DRINKING.

@Bibleinformationandhelp 4 ай бұрын

@@0annonymous It is good to continue to do what is right even if it seems to be to our disadvantage. I believe things will turn in your favor if you are doing right.

@ExposingFrauditors 3 ай бұрын

Lise Leblanc you have hit everything right on the head it's been 7 months of hell

@LiseLeblanc 3 ай бұрын

I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through hell. I hope you find your way out

@destydv 5 ай бұрын

my ex has a lot of these qualities and she discarded and blocked me completely out of the blue. i was actually relieved at the time as i had felt pressurised by her, but my head was also melted by the cold treatment... thanks for the insights

@deezgex 4 ай бұрын

And when they do take accountability it feels and seams just in that moment then forget about it. Then it happens again and again blammed on you unless for some reason they wanna let it go temporarily want you again peacefully or they will make it all your fault then move on leaving you feeling confuzed and empty and not even care

@stevenjarvis6154 5 ай бұрын

Lise....you really do know what your talking about....I love your videos

@BohemianKitsch 4 ай бұрын

i think you just described nearly EVERY woman. LOL!

@mikehess4494 4 ай бұрын

Thank you. This applies to companies, boss's, coworkers, family, friends and or groups.

@jellyjams7217 4 ай бұрын

God I love narcissistic behavior. Turns me on they’re so smart and crafty and motivated

@mountainman88 2 ай бұрын

I had a suspicion after two years of emotional turmoil. I called out her dramas, demanded that she take accountability and stood my ground then she discarded me.

@balancer00 5 ай бұрын

Is there a connection between children growing up alone in a daycare setting between the ages of 2 and 3 and the epidemic proportions of narcissism in the world? Can you talk about the theoretical development of both NPD and BPD? I find it difficult to ignore or avoid people with these disorders, and I’d like to develop a skill set to combat the more debilitating aspects of their personalities, if that is possible?

@mariacontos2715 5 ай бұрын

Very useful and so true!! Thank you so much!!!

@niaalamanda9884 4 ай бұрын

Someone told me i am narcistic he use projection defensive and blaming everything i say, talk everything. Believe me, you cant fix them.

@panfilo12 5 ай бұрын

Wow! Very nice Lise described everything perfectly

@jonathanphipps9607 3 ай бұрын

Your Channel has quite literally done more to help me than i can express... thank you.

@deezgex 4 ай бұрын

I heard the words validation non stop over everything and the term admiration when she spoke to me about us

@jellyjams7217 4 ай бұрын

I tried to invest in the well being of a girl by making her question the effect that tarot readings had on her mental health….it was a text that she probably read with a certain tone that I didn’t intend, but I also worded it around how tarot effected my own mental health and that she should think for herself. she claimed that I was “not respecting her boundaries”. My belief was that her reaction was too emotional and presumptuous without the ability to think for herself or debate big ideas without taking everything too personally. If I don’t agree with something, I will always push a boundary with the intention of expanding thought and awareness and I do not believe this makes me a narcissist, I just don’t want my partner to have a problem with thinking and debating ideas that may go against her own current perspective.

@noturbo 4 ай бұрын

so her going is a compliment

@mrjsjacques 5 ай бұрын

Beautiful! And brilliant! God Bless you and yours in 2024!

@NormanInAustralia 5 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@TurtleTimeVoiceOvers 5 ай бұрын

Happy New Year Lise! I just wanted to take a moment to thank you so much for your videos. I ended things with my narcissist in October and your videos pretty much saved my life. I’m a voiceover artist and my goal for 2024 is to grow my KZfaq channel so I can get voiceover work (he was in the process of building a website for me when we broke up, obviously that isn’t going to be an option now). I’m extremely worried that my narcissist is going to find out about my channel and use it to gain access to me. I am super uncomfortable knowing that he could be watching my videos and this almost stopped me from creating the channel in the first place. We have an unspoken no contact agreement. But he’s texted me a few times since our break up. I don’t have my name anywhere on the channel for this reason. I’m wondering how people with public channels deal with the fact that there could be a connection with the person who abused them. It’s almost stopping me in my tracks and I’ve thought several times about deleting my channel. We dated before and he’s admitted that he stalked me physically and online. Any tips from you or your viewers would be greatly appreciated. I really don’t want to go back in to hiding.

@antoniossurvivor 5 ай бұрын

Quite relevant information. Thanks Lise. Blessed New Year and season 🙏

@nicholecornes1915 23 күн бұрын

Leave them now!

@BubbaHotepMothership 4 ай бұрын

Good to see Lise again. The last longtime “N” fem I stopped seeing was in therapy & naturally wanted me in therapy with her P-doc. After she put on 80lbs via meds. She wanted nothing from me but she “loved my Apt.” Then sends me 2 foldout cots in the mail.

@laszloiso777 5 ай бұрын

This is GOLDEN ! 100%🎯🎯🎯🎯 on the spot! HAPPY NEW YEAR! 🎯

@LiseLeblanc 5 ай бұрын

Happy New Year🎉🎉🎉

@FCASMRASR 19 күн бұрын

Lisa your stuff is brilliant and been very helpful to me. I have a family member (Mum) who i do care for who suffers from NPD. i kinda knew it for many years but didnt know what it meant exactly or have the language to express it. Thanks so much for sharing

@balanceskateboarding8807 5 ай бұрын

Spot on!

@duckmann5000 5 ай бұрын

Lisa thank you so much for such in depth information, just amazing 💯 spot on

@billybotts9521 5 ай бұрын

Happy New Year Lisa 🎉🎉🙂

@ORHANBAKI-kb9ju 4 ай бұрын

It is very important to know and understand the narcissistic personality disorders and the relationship to a narcissistic personality to avoid your value time, energy and self-image and -esteem feelings. Thank you very much for your well scientific based, helpful, useful, great videos. Orhan Baki, Şenlikköy-Florya/Istanbul-Turkey.

@marigolds49 5 ай бұрын

Happy New Year Lise! Thank you for your valuable advice--keep the videos coming!

@simonschneider5913 5 ай бұрын

helpful reminder for me. thx!

@deezgex 4 ай бұрын

Even the term heartstrings

@AnthonyMassarelli 5 ай бұрын

thank you for all your helpful videos.

@FreshPresh8888 4 ай бұрын

This was excellent and spot on. Thank you so much, I really needed this validation as I’m starting to feel like I’m going crazy.

@MaestroMaxim 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for the tests… Happy New Years to you & your’s. 🥳💯✌🏽

@deezgex 4 ай бұрын

I had to work one weekend with a reptile expo on a weekend she had her kids. She had previously blew up on me but i still helped her get her vehicle from the shop and took her even though i had gotten blocked. She kinda acted like she was my woman even in the car ride but once i worked the show and even we both talked and i stopped by to see her briefly. After the 2nd day of the show i was gonna go see her. She made it out i was inconveniencing her by going over and had blown up on me over nothing at all suddenly then days later said stuff like i didnt care about her while she was home not feeling great while I worked, told me she was my number one supporter even while trying to guilt shame me then followed a kinda breakup on her end days later suddenly. This happened few times then ultimatly few months ago after 4 years together and she blamed me for her not being spiritually etc where she should be in life even though had praised me for me being a main reason along with god to where she finally is in life. Its all nuts imo

@anothercat9600 2 ай бұрын

Very important video.

@MeenaMonjazeb-kn8dq 4 ай бұрын

I’m appreciating your content so much thank you.

@mekman4 5 ай бұрын

thank you and Happy New Year!

@LiseLeblanc 5 ай бұрын

Happy New Year! I hope 2024 is your best year yet🎉

@DiegoDonati1975 5 ай бұрын

Thank you and Happy New Year ❤

@LiseLeblanc 5 ай бұрын

Happy New Year! Wishing you all the best for 2024🎉

@AugustusTiberius-tq1gw Ай бұрын

Sounds like my X. She sure tested my patience. It's a shame it all ended with her not me. I founded interesting that she found a rebound guy so fast. Oh well. This tells me that she wasn't the one. False hope, False promise.

@apple1234iou 5 ай бұрын

Happy New Year Lise…:🎉

@LiseLeblanc 5 ай бұрын

Happy New Year! Wishing you good health and happiness 🎉

@aviator000 5 ай бұрын

Good morning! January 1, 2024.

@rr58315 4 ай бұрын

Hi Lise, I've found your videos thoroughly informative; great content and excellent delivery. Do you have anything on Antagonistic narcissists? I just broke up with one who created fictitious rivalries involving my sister in-law in order to spawn false accusations and constantly insinuate things against me, in general very jealous, threatening and bullying. She never forgave and was full or arrogance.

@Juka161 5 ай бұрын

Be in love is no fun anymore☹️

@kdworak4754 2 ай бұрын

I have very slight narcissistic tendencies. I tend to catch them very quickly and sometimes even stop them. What should I do?

@ingy2468 4 ай бұрын

Does the female narcissist rarely want to do anything for the man as there isn't anything in it for them? By anything I mean all the normal things you do for each other in a normal relationship, like massages, paying compliments even, or, to the extent of not wanting to give oral in sex as there isnt anything in it for them! 😲 and they persist with excuse, after excuse to not give you that pleasure and then it can extend to regularly refusing sex as she knows how enjoyable and import it is to you in a relationship, Which is perfectly normal in a lovers relationship. Shocking and crude yes, but I've come across this and being a narcissist seems to be the answer.

@matthewfrance8567 4 ай бұрын

Can you explain all the other personality disorders?,surely you're explaining a relationship. People are crazy 😅

@aerinalese8636 5 ай бұрын

Thank God I failed her tests.

@sampomme 4 ай бұрын

I have a question. The first two points technically occur in my current relationship (she actually admitted to breaking up with me to test how committed I was to her). But at the same time, she does actually admit her faults and is very self aware about her behaviour. Any thoughts on this situation? We have developed very strong feelings and love in just two months.