Very important video, thank you. The reason I didn't trust my instincts was I am told I tend to lean negative and think the worst of people, so I let someone in I shouldn't have. And reaching out to friends has really backfired, I was consistently told "not to feel that way ".

I have been asking myself for months, why didn't I see the signs or why didn't my gut let me in on what he was doing? It took my older child asking me questions like why is dad doing this or that over and over until finally they said you need to open your eyes and pay attention to what is going on. I walked in on a phone call and confronted him but 3 days later it's like I didn't know that had happened. Until she sent me a text I replied I don't believe you and then she sent me a photo of them together. Six months later I still don't understand how I didn't see or know. I still feel worthless