100 percent agree

I am a recovering alcoholic/addict and the blame I put on anyone for my addiction and my actions is the person I look in the mirror at every day. I do not like excuses! My sobriety is 30 plus yrs, I am just as tough on anyone else trying to use addiction as an excuse for a criminal act! You are absolutely correct❣️

30 years!? Congrats to you. Both of my parents passed due to fentanyl. I enjoy hearing stories from the other end of the spectrum. Keep chuggin!

Totally and 100% agree (and I'm a former addict) and very well said 🙌🙌

​@@NinaDuffy 💔💔 my heart goes out to you - you seem incredibly strong! Sending love from California 🏔🌊🌵

If she had been honest with him he likely would have been sad & hurt but would probably have separated from her yet that wasn't the reason for her duplicity. She took his life simply for the cash his death would bring when she began her new & exciting relationship (which would have gotten tedious to her rapidly without the guy constantly spending money on her). He was a whole, real person compared to being a hollow, empty or a Non-person, such as she was.

Really? I got the distinct impression that her husband was a bum. What I heard was that he wasn't working and that she had to take a second mortgage out on the house and just could not get by financially and her husband did not help her at all with the finances. In fact all he did was hunt and fish while she worked her ass off

@@moondancer4660 💯 agree

@@moondancer4660 Wait a minute. I went back and it was said that he was still a working apprentice which meant he was years away from full-fledged electrician and higher wages.

@@moondancer4660 maybe if she wasnt drugging up on stolen Tramadol she would have worked out people can actually separate & no possessions are worth murder & jail. You'd think that would be a given, though I guess it depends whats inside a person to start with, that it was even a consideration.

A very valid point. It is bad that her strength of character didn't come with a moral compass.

Yep, somehow in her mind she could justify murder, but not drugs. That's scarily broken thinking.

PREACH

It's indeed disturbing to witness such contrasting emotions and priorities in someone's behavior. The fact that she appeared more concerned about her addiction than the crime she committed is a reflection of the complexity of human psychology and motivations.

Drugs and dummies.

Not American DUMBEST THING

Sad but true...😭

sad🤣🤣

Ignorant statement. I grew up in the south and know plenty of guys with wives that like to hunt. Again, ignorant and naive statement.

People who live in rural areas hunt for sport. They are typically good people who are much more trust worthy than the average slimeball seen as normal today on Tiktok. There's no need to be condescending, but I guess it's par for the course these days. RIP Jim, you were a good man, willing to raise your stepson as your own and trying until your final day to repair your relationship with your wife, despite her behavior. The world could use more people like Jim Nibbe and less cynical KZfaq commenters.

Agreed!

Oh! That “creature” makes my blood boil!

I definitely agree

She's as bad as Cheyanne Harris. They should put hot sauce in all her food in prison. For the rest of her life. And the only thing that's she's allowed to buy at commissary is, you guessed it, hot sauce... Even her coffee should have hot sauce in it.

She looks like the evil lady in Mercy. The wrinkles on her face show at least a decade of constant scowling

Agreed his is a victim too she is so horrible smh

Me to I feel so vlbad for this kid.... think about what he went through at school.

Certainly not a shotgun wedding. I've never heard of a shotgun funeral ,....if only he'd gotten her a fishing rod. She probably would have launched a sinker into his temple. I think how breezily she sorted insurance & murdered him, without getting out quick, this narcissistic mole was going to find some method to kill him even if was going to take death by paper cuts. Still, a shotgun to try & rekindle that spark,....like you said, "what could go wrong?"

Well said.

I was like wtf .... is it normal in murica to gift shotgun to drug addict partner ? Loll

@@gabrielharvey956no. It isnt.

@@gabrielharvey956 course not, thats crazy. Thats like a few years into your relationship with your significantly drug addled other. It goes, first year is Clubbing ( bat, lead sap, baton), second year, Cutting (knife, bayonet, switchblade, piano wire), third year, Shooting (speaks for itself Im thinking) & fourth year.....well, if there is a fourth year it'll probably be explosive or incendary. In terms of gift giving though, the shotgun certainly points to him as leaning towards the optimist type of personality im thinking.

Bro a woman in a comment one day said "even as a woman I dont believe some women's tears because we're good at faking it to get what we want" I admired her honesty because had a man said this the replies would have been brutal haha

Right. Agreed.

Agreed, I'm tired of that narrative

spot on

??? He went on and on about how even though she cheated on him she still loved him because she said so in her journal

​@@woahitstheillusion9749yea he reported facts, that's what she wrote in her journal, and he didn't go on and on it didn't even take the whole time I was on the interstate exit for him to read that part

Indeed

Drugs don't turn people into killers.... if they did.. half western population would be serial killers

Not all people that are addicted to drugs ( or in recovery) are "terrible!!!"

@markjonesatlarge5240 That's not what I said. Did you even read my comment?

Ikr? 😅

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@@marynehra502 evidently she was taking Oxys, lortabs, and the rest too. She said Tramadol thinking she would get a lighter sentence.

What next? I killed my family over my addiction to T3 with codeine? Like at least get you some Opanas lady.

@@pickles3128 I heard she was minimizing her addiction by saying Tramadol. She knew what the good stuff was and was abusing it.

😅😅

I was gonna say this…

Is someone who drinking an ultra light beer to the point it causing problems in their life still an alcoholic or no?

More like morphine light

I knew someone who was addicted to tramadol. It gets some people effed up.

I think the 21st century is the most likely time we see this type of criminality. If we consider some people being digitally disconnected from flesh & blood human beings along with the average internet users ability to say what they please to others online without any face to face accountability, the people mainstream media tout as those we should most admire & desire to emulate are billionaires which is coincidentally meant to imply that they are better than the rest of us but in reality means they've pretty much accumulated their obscene wealth at the expense of people or the planets creatures or the environment itself, The entire language of buying & selling is "if you want it why wait? Have it now." If your not cloaked in brands & labels your not worth a second glance, What possessions a person has & their financial worth is what demonstrates a persons human worth above all else, more is best. Image is everything. Self interest is the most important consideration above all others. Everything must revolve around what we want & any means are justified in getting it as long as we get what we want & getting it makes us winners. Every pxt must have myself in it. MY page must have enough individual selfies to at least equal the equivalent of 2 minutes non-stop scrolling. Anybody & anything can be bought & sold. Anything is justified if the price is right. How much money do you have? How many followers do you have? (If the number is below or falls below 1000 in either category that will be deemed unacceptable & you will be considered worthless & blocked) Killing anybody is acceptable so long as you have a reason to justify it no matter what the reason is. Accountability is for others, The consequences for my actions must not interfere with what I want when I want it or what I want to do when I want to do it or else its not fair & I should get another chance, Anybody interferring with me getting what I want when I want it must be punished by all means neccessary including death & they should not get another chance, I am the center of the universe. (Though somewhat tongue in cheek, I think the people that arrange for or commit murder as a solution to separating themselves from their partner would truly subscribe to more than 1 of the above modern "rules for living".)

The killer was living beyond her means! Likely spending a small fortune on her habit. Tramadol addiction is odd. Of course people abuse it/become dependent. However, as a former heroin addict, tramadol has no effect. Possibly the whole bottle could do it... Which lends credence to the fact she was probably taking A TON of the pills, not even to get high anymore, just preventing withdrawing. Therefore, depleting her finances.

@@ItsNeverAManequinGood point!

Addiction doesn’t allow for budgeting. Speaking from experience, the individual with the addiction has to will themselves to change their cognitive patterns and behavior

...she was on drugs. Extra cost!

Dude, she had a 180 pill a week habit. This wasn't a budgeting problem.

Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder🍺

​@CobiewithaK 😅

​@CobiewithaK which is why drinking before going out makes sense!!

Your own beer goggles!

🤣🤣🤣and here i was thinking i was being mean!

Hahaha!! So so true! The withdrawal from no epsom salts in the bathtub was absolutely unbareable!!

Whoever was selling her that shit was laughing their ass all the way to the bank haha, tramadol

@@adamkatavic6914 right, telling his buddies 'Dude this lady keeps banging on my window at 3am begging for tramadol! She said she'll pay anything.' The funny part is that she was also stealing prescription pads and writing them herself. A blank script pad, she could have put anything and this bozo wrote TRAMADOL smh 😂

😂😂😂😂

​@@bees.857too funny 😂

I’m not blaming Jim at all , as a man he should’ve gotten a part time job and saved the house and looked at other options for debt relief and marriage counseling. Addiction was her first priority and she needed to come clean about that.

All the while bumping and grinding with an ex…… Yeah she’s twisted,

@tinawindham6958 I'm amazed Jim couldn't tell or didn't confront her about it that we knew of.

​@@tinawindham6958 she was spending all of the money on drugs. As a man he shouldve kicked the disgusting drug addict out of his house.

I thought so too, the moment I heard it...

It is a scheduled narcotic . It is a labeled Opiate.

Truth

It's crucial for the legal system to carefully assess and consider all factors, including claims of addiction, when determining an individual's responsibility for their actions. It's heartening to hear that the judge in this case was able to see through any attempts to deflect blame and made a fair decision based on the evidence presented.

I'm sure she's downplaying the "drug."

Tramadol is Addictive. And YES it is a Opioid no Difference from from any other prescription Narcotics. People who get into Withdrawals will do Anything to get the next Fix.

I've taken tramadol for years due to back pain, and I cannot understand how anyone could become addicted to it. It's so mild I have to take two at a time along with two extra strength Tylenol just to take the edge off the pain.

100 percent correct. In the midst of my addiction I found tramadol .I was stupid enough to buy it. I bought it ,the person swore I wouldn't be sick anymore. What a waste. It's like Tylenol 3. Thank God I been clean for 11 years. But yes you are right!!!

​@@dcastleb69because you can't become addicted to it. Props to you for not getting stronger drugs. I pray your pain heals. And pray she will have remorse and understand her stupidity one day.

I love your comment.💕 I took Tramadol after the cancer surgery. It hardly helped the pain, much less a good buzz to become addicted!

Not true at all. We are surrounded by angels. The so called monsters are rare (we’re just watching too many true crime shows).

Oooh !! Jiles could do an "Angels Among Us " cast to juxtapose the horror! That would be hot sh!t

There are so many good people in the world.

Yes there is. I wish there were no monsters@@ma53jg 1 monster is 1 too many

Name?

At least give us the names, so that we can verify

sounds like Kendra Gayle Licari from Michigan

@@gordonaliasme1104 Sorry I didn't have the names of the case memorized but @FionavanDahl got it right 👍🏻 I just looked up her comment and that's the case

​@@FionavanDahlYes that's who I thought it was too. She catfished her own child. I'd love to read a psych analysis on her.

I have to skip fake noise crying,it irritates me like mad.

If they are sad enough they get let go 😂😂😂

​@@Memevze Or so they'd like to believe.

​@@Memevzeit must've worked on all the gullible men her life.

@jonye7511 I hate to say it but most people do fold when dealing with a crying person. It's like a social mistep to question a crying person or to imply they are lying.

Probably depends on where you live. I know a few myself.

My mom and grandpa went hunting all the time for deer meat

I mean, he should have never married a single mother six years his senior who doesn’t even know who fathered her child. That just horrible decision making.

Hunters aren’t any different from other people ,they arent psychos or serial killers. And hunters “do not kill for fun” . Most of them hunt for food. Some put the hunting and killing secondary, and just like being out in nature. Some hunters are paramedics, doctors, nurses or other health professionals.

If you find that combo unsettling, i advise you not to ever engage in small talk with a nurse in the midwest or southern US!

I concur, about the Journaling. It is so disgusting that her sex appeal worked on the prosecutor and made him too weak to serve justice.

You are 100 correct. She's not even smart enough to fake a journal entry? What a bitch she is.

Oh yes it is. It's now scheduled a narcotic. But. It's not a powerful narcotic. It is addictive just like anything else.

That’s NOT TRUE at all. I have taken tramadol for nearly 20 years for RA and if I don’t take it, withdrawals are flu like symptoms, aching all over, staying in the bathroom…it’s not good at all . They are synthetic opioids. Which is why they are a controlled substance.

Doesn’t it

No you are very wrong, tramadol wd was the most painful thing I ever went thru , I thought I'd die, it's very addictive and is now a scheduled med bc of it..I was a pain patient and on many diff pain meds but tramadol was the only one that grabbed me by the balls so to speak. I suppose we are all diff chemically, what affects one might not affect another. Trust me when I say it was the devil to me whereas so called stronger meds didn't faze me

Tramadol is a synthetic opiate and as such it is habit forming and you would suffer withdrawals.

Agree!

Hi gorgeous 😍

Thanks so much!

He’s trying to get her to confess. It’s just a tactic. He doesn’t actually believe what she did is ok.

I understand why you feel that way. They never use those words with male suspects not even when they are bawling their eyes out. But it's true it's a tactic.

They do. There is a lot of videos where the interrogator is friendly with a male suspect.

@@gabrielegiani2484yes they do use this tactics for male suspects. I’ve seen it many times. They will use whatever approach it takes to get a confession.

As someone who researches crime for a living, I can tell you that investigators do this all the time with both men and women. They want the suspect to feel comfortable talking.

What is your point? Yes, a lot of us might be addicted to or habitual users of something, but we're not murdering people for life insurance so we can keep watching KZfaq.

@@Catherinzsl that is my point exactly

I don't have sympathy for her either, but just to let everyone know, yes, one injury can lead to addiction! Some people have a lower pain tolerance and take the prescribed medicine. It only takes a few days for some people to become addicted. I'm glad you could get by with Aleve, but so many people are more like this person. That's why we have a terrible Fentanyl crisis right now, and I don't won't people to misunderstand the reality of the situation. However, as I said first, it's not an excuse to murder your husband.

terrible judgmental comment - becoming addicted after an injury was a major pipeline during the beginning of the opioid crisis

I'm an addict and I'm not offended, nor hurt by this comment. My addiction came from an injury, but it wasn't from some baby aspirin bullshit like tramadol. I'M JUDGING AND I DON'T CARE.

@@bees.857amen!

​@@bees.857good for you, but you're not everybody - the murderer from the video is not going to read these self-righteous comments, but think about if somebody in a really bad situation did I've never had tramadol but I've seen several comments already from people who either started with it or had trouble getting off it repeat to yourself, "not everyone experiences life just like me"

Was it marijuana psychosis???

@@tinawindham6958 yeah supposedly, even though I never heard of that. Think it b.s. for an excuse for murder, dont you?

100 percent! Tramadol? I'm an ex addict who tried tramadol bought like 25! for withdrawal to fet/heroin...11 years ago though. I'm clean now. But it..didn't work.. therefore..not addictive. Not buying her dumb ass excuses .

It is considered a narcotic today

Tramadol is an Opioid.

I was given Tremadol after surgery and it sent me completely off my face. It definitely gives you a high!

I agree. Your info on tramadol is spot on.. Im disabled and tramadol didn't work. Tylenol is stronger. Still dealing with pain management and these new laws that have ruined many lives that need meds to move and try to be a productive member of society as best they can. Very sad.

Thank you, I was prescribed Tramadol and there's no way it had anything to do with this story.

Idk, there was mention of credit card debt.

I wondered about this too.

Me too ...then I'll join you in the sack 😊

"Manson lamps "

The devil? I hope that was a metaphor.

Hopefully you will never be in a position where you are accused of something you've never done, if you were you would be grateful there is certain criteria to be met. I understand why you think so though. It's infuriating if somebody hasn't been charged for a serious crime when their guilt seems glaringly obvious. Modern scientific methods have narrowed those avenues to elude justice somewhat at least, but on the flip side I imagine there are many people serving time for crimes they never committed & there can't be many worse things than being confined for years, rotting in a prison & being innocent. I don't know what the stat's are but people generally seem to care much more for assets, cash & status than humanity or self-improvement i.e the shortest shortcut to get what a person wants & to hell with anything or anyone else. But they would be outraged if they were to be on the receiving end of such treatment themselves.

@@evryhndlestakntrue

She literally admitted that she killed him.

No, it's not.

@@spacecityHTXBy that I meant it’s not you’re typical opioid of abuse; there’s no euphoric effect. I can see someone using Tramadol to help with withdrawals but not to abuse.

Shit all ways gave me horrible stomach aches so I’m also puzzled how one can become addicted to it 😂😂

I know 😂 crazy . That barely takes cramps away smh

From a non gun country, I just could not imagine being with anyone who is so comfortable around them

Falling in love and getting married is not a simple thing at all, actually. It is a process with many steps and opportunities to see the truth along the way. Not victim blaming at all but it’s wrong to characterize serious and big life choices as simple.

@@hermione10663 aint that the truth! and even when someone see's the truth alot of people sweep red flags under the rug as a part time mishap or whatever.. i was a prototypical player in my late teens and early twenties.. but i realized that intermingling your spirit with random women has some profound side effects that might go unnoticed to the undiscerning. i've been 4 years single and celibate To God be the Glory!!! NOW THE desire to fornicate has all but ceased from my being and that has been a huge blessing. it also keeps me safe from women who have evil intentions. sex cannot be used on me as a spiritual weapon, waiting for the right girl and even if that is not meant to be i am totally content being single and a eunuch. this might sound weird but the only time i ejaculate are in wet dreams but thats a handful of times a year at most. im only going to talk to God fearing great souls, as soon as i see someone manifesting into satan un repentantly im outchaaaa! One of the first women i spoke to after getting saved was a self professing witch who wanted me to move to canada right away to live with her.. like what do you want with the preacher boy? It was satan sent into my existence. she is one of the most outwardly beautiful seductive spirits who we have so much in common it seems like a match, but she starts drinking and acting eradic multiple times a week.. then all these horrible things would happen to her for speaking ill of christ and trying to get me to sin. she even straight up died of a drug overdose and i thought that would provide her some spiritual insight to change her ways but no... im convinced the devil sends agents into your existence.

@@zanderisamazing5043understandable. They really don’t do anything unless someone acts on them. It’s like having a vehicle. The human operating it is always the problem.

Louisville, KY

New bedford mass

Hello from Oklahoma.

Thank you! I commented the same thing! If I was going to steal pain medication, it definitely wouldn't be Tramadol!

Not to mention her Google history. 😅

Thank you & same 2 U

Such loyal followers. Great to see. 🇦🇺💙

Me too and his 2 other channels

Or maybe she was just plain dumb and used to have whatever she wanted

Yep exactly what I was thinking. He should’ve manned up and gotten a part time job if they were having trouble and maybe she wouldn’t have turned to pills. A husband should be the head of the household and lighten her load not cause her a burden.

​@@tinawindham6958 disgusting victim blaming mentality. she could've left her husband who wasn't even the father of her child, instead she CHOSE to plan and execute the murder of her husband so she can collect the life insurance on his head to fuel the drug addiction she brought on herself.

that's like saying a woman who was murdered by her abusive husband had "red flags" because the dinner was cold. james was alive and after he met jennifer, he was dead. that wasn't a red flag to you? sympathizing with a murderer whose motive was life insurance sounds like the real red flag to me, debbie.

@@grantmoe9535 not having money is the problem. Like you know taking pills because you’re a drug addict. That’s what I meant.

@@debbie7747 that only explains her motive, it doesn't shift the responsibility for her crime to anyone other than herself.

Several days of HELL then I still have the pain to deal with..I wasn’t trying to get off of them I moved to another state.

Deadbug says: "...and his death clock started ticking."

Henry Tudor?

There are a couple of cases where people essentially did get away with it until they did it a second time...

If they did we wouldn’t know. I’m sure it’s been done.

I already did: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aJ9ofqZymrqrf4k.htmlfeature=shared

😢 It saddens me when I hear a person is going through medical problems that are painful. In your situation, your pain medication is monitored by a qualified physician, and that makes all the difference in the world! My long time partner of 20 years died May 26, 2022 of anaplastic thyroid cancer. He was never a pill person, but before that diagnosis, he was in so much pain, but they gave him Tylenol. Eventully, I believe the nurse heard him crying, so he was finally given a pain pill. At that point he had severe laryngitis (one symptom). 😰😢😭

Nope! Our summer is Dec-Feb, super hot Christmas’s here, also storm season ☀️⛈️

@ImYourBigDaddY. we got a 37°C day coming up in a couple of days. Not looking forward to it at all. But have enjoyed the kids being back at school.😅💙

My condolences for your loss.

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She’s having to pay 100’s of dollars for the pills.