a little bit of everything

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Elyse Myers

Elyse Myers

2 ай бұрын

I keep a running notes app on my phone of thoughts that float into my head that I quickly convince myself aren’t important or interesting enough to say out loud. Some questions, I’m usually just too embarrassed to ask or admit. Instead of waiting for the perfect time to say any of these, I’m just going to say all of them in one single video. Now these ridiculous reflections get to live somewhere other than in my head and on my phone.
Just keep hitting singles.
Love you! ♥
- em
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@Valerieknitterhands
@Valerieknitterhands 2 ай бұрын
You never know how you’re going to get a sign from a loved one who has passed, my son had a business called a little bit of everything
@JuicyPricklePeach
@JuicyPricklePeach 2 ай бұрын
He's always with you. ❤❤❤❤
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
😭♥️ the crazy thing is I didn’t mean to post this video today. I was trying to queue it up and post it tomorrow but I pressed “publish” without thinking instead. So this was meant for you today!
@ericacosat9557
@ericacosat9557 2 ай бұрын
@@elyse_myersI love this ❤
@Valerieknitterhands
@Valerieknitterhands 2 ай бұрын
Also it is the 7th anniversary of his passing! God is good
@denisefrandsen5106
@denisefrandsen5106 2 ай бұрын
Wow! This "coincidence" is so amazing! I call happenings like this "synchronicities of the spirit". This is truly so special! 💗 God bless you as you remember your son on this anniversary 🙏💖💝💗
@theCynicalChicken
@theCynicalChicken 2 ай бұрын
3:22 I recently read that this is kind of a common thing among neurodivergent folks. We don't do it as a "it's all about me" thing but because we're trying to relate to people. Like "oh that thing happened to you? Well this similar thing happened to me. I understand and can relate to you about this"
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
From that point on, I made it my life’s mission to never make a conversation about me ever again and instead it accidentally transitioned into me awkwardly interviewing the person I’m meeting/talking to. Like non-stop question after question after question because I’m so terrified to talk about myself and cause someone to think I’m self-absorbed. Now as an adult, married to a neuro-typical person, I’m learning there is a very normal and natural way to share experiences from your own life that relate to what the person in front of you just said without it turning into a monologue. (I have no clue how to do this, but I *do know* now that it’s possible by watching my husband talk to people!)
@theCynicalChicken
@theCynicalChicken 2 ай бұрын
@@elyse_myers My problem is that I'm trying so hard to interact like a regular human that I don't catch myself in the moment when I do the "you just told me a story, so now I'm going to talk about myself in order to show you that I relate". It's not until afterwards when I'm anxiously replaying the conversation over and over that the fear of seeming self absorbed kicks in. Of course by then there's nothing that can be done... except to continue over analyzing the interaction lol. Perhaps Jonas can start a segment where he teaches us basic social skills 😂
@bosstowndynamics5488
@bosstowndynamics5488 2 ай бұрын
​@@elyse_myersI think it's a small talk thing, socially skilled NT people weave their anecdotes into a conversation using small talk as glue, whereas ND people like us tend to just jump straight from their story to ours without what is effectively a pause for the NT person to keep up.
@thereader14
@thereader14 2 ай бұрын
Something interesting about me - I don’t feel heard if other people don’t do the same thing back to me when I talk to them. I *want* you to tell me about a time that you felt the same as me so I feel less anxious and alone. And I need you to do it in an unsubtle blunt af way or I won’t get you’re doing it.
@NovasYouTubeName
@NovasYouTubeName 2 ай бұрын
Yessss to all the above
@rebeccabiddix6319
@rebeccabiddix6319 2 ай бұрын
My husband and I were engaged for nine days. We had a non-denominational chapel near our house, with flowers, a cake and a reception. He took half a day off of work. We renewed our vows after we were married for ten years. It was ridiculously fun.
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
I would love to do that with Jonas one year! Our wedding was sweet and perfect for who we were in 2018 when we got married but we are so different 6 years later and I would love to have a party at 10 years!
@LaynieFingers
@LaynieFingers 2 ай бұрын
My husband and I were planning our wedding, and both realized we were just not into it. So, one Wednesday we called our families and said, "We're getting married Friday! We'd love to have you there, but we know it's short notice." It was a chaotic day, but it was one of the happiest days of my life. 😊 It's been 31 years... so far no regrets! 😁
@rebeccabiddix6319
@rebeccabiddix6319 2 ай бұрын
@@LaynieFingers My hubs and I have been married almost twenty-one years.
@LaynieFingers
@LaynieFingers 2 ай бұрын
@rebeccabiddix6319 Congrats! Sounds like a great start to a great life!
@hayneshaynes308
@hayneshaynes308 2 ай бұрын
My husband and I eloped to Vegas June 28, 2017 and I plan on having a not vows renewal but a anniversary party where we actually dress up and get nice pictures taken etc not like a big ordeal but something we can share with our friends and family. Also the pocket most definitely not really pockets and all skirts need real pockets.
@CarrieB11
@CarrieB11 2 ай бұрын
I frickin love you talking to yourself as the cameraman. It is hilarious!
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
That part got me good 😂
@tinaletarte3078
@tinaletarte3078 2 ай бұрын
I LOL ed at the kangaroo
@NovasYouTubeName
@NovasYouTubeName 2 ай бұрын
My fav part!!😂😂😂❤❤❤
@gaines_gal
@gaines_gal 2 ай бұрын
I love how chaotic this video is because it is so reminiscent of my continuous thoughts. 😂😂😂
@lhmccool67
@lhmccool67 2 ай бұрын
Same!!❤
@07foxmulder
@07foxmulder 2 ай бұрын
lol you must be so quirky!!
@nicolettedelorenzo6291
@nicolettedelorenzo6291 2 ай бұрын
Three things: 1. I’m glad you’re using your journal 2. Your curly hair looks fab! 3. I love how easily you went into that grocery store. I know maybe it wasn’t easy on the inside but you seemed really relaxed and that’s awesome
@Hawk_Leigh
@Hawk_Leigh 2 ай бұрын
YES!! I was thinking the exact same thing! I wanted to celebrate that with her because I've been struggling with leaving my house for years and I'm really trying to work on it recently and grocery shopping is like one of my worst, so I'm so proud of her and it's super inspiring ♡♡
@lindahoffman2692
@lindahoffman2692 2 ай бұрын
@@Hawk_LeighGrocery stores are like the Mount Everest of conquering my Anxiety, which I think is why God gave me INSTACART!! 😂😂 I’m completely in Awe of how Elyse manages to even THINK about going to a CROWD focused event like Coachella or attend public events like Nick Jonas the way she does. I wish I had that in me and wish she’d share more about how she made such progress. ❤️👍
@madmommy
@madmommy 2 ай бұрын
Holy crap, I have ALWAYS wondered if we see colors the same as others! Not everyone tastes things the same, or have the same sense of smell. I love that I'm not the only person who wonders about this!
@Talkingllama3.0
@Talkingllama3.0 2 ай бұрын
I know for a fact that my partner and I see colours differently! and it's not as if either of us is colour-blind or anything, we just see a different shade! 😅
@cloudsn
@cloudsn 2 ай бұрын
I worked in a fabric store, and we 100% see colors different from each other. And it's not just my observation, there's been studies. Like some places in the world have a zillion different names for shades of green, and those people are able to tell them all apart, but other people can't. Telling colors apart is a literal learned skill. Mind: Blown.
@skbrickmeister
@skbrickmeister 2 ай бұрын
My partner and I could only agree on the color to paint the living room because she saw "Barely Green" as green and I swear it was yellow.
@kimwells8395
@kimwells8395 2 ай бұрын
​@@cloudsnthere are different shades of every color and there are shades inside other colors. This is why you have a 'gray blue' so if you would put a blue next to it then it would pull more blue out of the color and same with gray next to it. But, every shade has undertones so you put a yellow next to the color and you can really see the difference. This is why you can't just say you want a white wall in design. 🤗
@user-td5zx4nv1b
@user-td5zx4nv1b 2 ай бұрын
This particular question keeps me up at night
@juliegauchay4219
@juliegauchay4219 2 ай бұрын
Oh my heck, the best part of this whole video is the "not a pocket" segment - your facial expressions are hysterical!! (I'm still laughing about "good luck getting those to lay flat after you wash it!" *whap, whap* 🤣🤣🤣)
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
8:03 I cannot begin to express how let down I am by Final Cut Pro for fading half of those subtitles out too early. It’s bothering me so much. 💀😂
@JessicaVanHusen
@JessicaVanHusen 2 ай бұрын
This format makes my eyes and earballs very happy.
@bvbbl3z_does_art
@bvbbl3z_does_art 2 ай бұрын
THEY CAN I SWEAR PLANTS CAN HEAR
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
I BELIEVE IT
@ericalane7220
@ericalane7220 2 ай бұрын
I talk to my plants all the time, I like to treat them the way i do my pets. I feel like they can absolutely hear us. If not, at least I was nice.
@bvbbl3z_does_art
@bvbbl3z_does_art 2 ай бұрын
@@ericalane7220 And even if they can’t (which I disagree with), it’s really good for their growth!
@feliciar2773
@feliciar2773 2 ай бұрын
Can they understand though😮
@ThatGirlShelbyy
@ThatGirlShelbyy 2 ай бұрын
As someone that has around 200 houseplants, I definitely think that's the case as well 😅
@JonBrase
@JonBrase 2 ай бұрын
0:54 I'm the kid that took my glasses off, handed them to other kids and said "Look how blind I am!", and reveled in the "Woah!" reactions. In fact, I'm not sure even in my late 30s that I've entirely stopped.
@kimwells8395
@kimwells8395 2 ай бұрын
I am that kid and still in my late 30's my kids love to see how blind their mother is. 🤣🤣 They also like to ask how far I can see when I don't have my glasses on or what I can read, but that's most people when they know how blind I am. 🤷😄 I just know that everyone will have better vision when they put my glasses on even if sometimes they don't help me.
@ericabrooks1004
@ericabrooks1004 2 ай бұрын
Got my first pair of glasses at age 7, and I have been doing this for 30 years now 🤓
@coolmoon4382
@coolmoon4382 2 ай бұрын
I'm 58F and I still make everyone try them on when I get a new prescription.. I guess to prove to everyone just how blind i truly am. Lol...
@MeldaRavaniel
@MeldaRavaniel 2 ай бұрын
Came to say this lol. It's a fun happy hour thing to trade glasses with each other and compare how messed up (or not) our eyes are. IDK why I find it so endlessly amusing.
@bosstowndynamics5488
@bosstowndynamics5488 2 ай бұрын
The catch with this is that the glasses create the opposite eye problem for someone with "normal" vision - as someone who doesn't need glasses I can just about see through the extremely strong glasses my friend needs, because they correct short sightedness, and most people can compensate for long sightedness to at least some extent (but wind up with bad eyestrain as a result). It's still fun, but might give your friends the impression that you're significantly less blind than you actually are
@Waterflame
@Waterflame 2 ай бұрын
I used to think that flowers screamed when you picked them, so my boyfriend at the time bought me a potted rose bush for Valentine's Day. (It was very sweet. He was... not. The plant lasted longer than the relationship.)
@airhutt
@airhutt 2 ай бұрын
I broke a tree branch off a tree when I was a kid and took it upstairs to show my parents and my step dad said the tree is crying now I broke its arm.. I still feel so badly. Lmfao! 😢
@carolehirsch7315
@carolehirsch7315 2 ай бұрын
10:32 so accurate! Found my father’s diary from when he was a teen and wow did he have some dark days. Random suggestion from a meme I once saw: Always designate someone you trust to delete your browsing history when you die.
@tinaletarte3078
@tinaletarte3078 2 ай бұрын
Or don't browse anything you'd be ashamed about. Just a thought. Not meant to be snarky but I guess it sounds that way
@EmanDeMoan
@EmanDeMoan 2 ай бұрын
​@@tinaletarte3078how boring would that be 😂
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
@@tinaletarte3078I browse plenty of things I’m ashamed about but not because I should be ashamed, but because if someone was looking at my internet history, I wouldn’t be there to explain how all of those are related and why I needed to look those things up. 😂
@NovasYouTubeName
@NovasYouTubeName 2 ай бұрын
@@elyse_myers🤣🤣🤣
@Hawk_Leigh
@Hawk_Leigh 2 ай бұрын
​@elyse_myers oh my goodness you've explained it perfectly! 😂 also, I'll add onto that, my calculator's history is *even* more embarrassing than my browser history 🙈🤣
@southstreetcookies
@southstreetcookies 2 ай бұрын
I’ve been following you since the taco guy story and I have to say, I really love your long form videos. You’re a great story teller regardless, but I just feel like we’re hanging out and spending the day together with these videos. Also, lately I’ve been rolling my sleeves back and every time I think to myself “it’s the Elyse Myers double roll” and immediately feel cool 😂
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
Hahahah omg I am HONORED you’ve embraced the double roll!!! 😂 thank you so much for your kind words!
@southstreetcookies
@southstreetcookies 2 ай бұрын
@@elyse_myers I was hoping you would see this! Thanks for the reply, I know you have so many comments to sift through, so I am honored ☺️
@samc2
@samc2 2 ай бұрын
I wholeheartedly love that you wrote down all the thoughts that bothered you and then got them off your chest like this, that feels like it would absolutely scratch a good itch in my brain 👍👍
@marielafleur29
@marielafleur29 2 ай бұрын
Yes, THE POCKETS! Thanks for bringing it up to public knowledge
@sweetlittlebubbles
@sweetlittlebubbles 2 ай бұрын
Elyse I truly loved this video. It just feels so good. The pacing, the blend of vlog and sketch content, the grounding of the random notebook thoughts… seriously *chef’s kiss* Also don’t think we didn’t notice that you went to the store and let the vibes guide you. We did. So proud. (Yes we’re going to celebrate the win and not fixate on the flashing situation because we need wins.)
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
🥹🥹 thank you so much!!!
@LanNguyenLoves
@LanNguyenLoves 2 ай бұрын
Hahaha hilarious and my fave is you ending it with “have a good day!” Bc that’s what our toddler says to us…especially when she’s having a tantrum. “I’m mad, I’m walking away, have a good day!!” 😂😂😂
@cinemarie2
@cinemarie2 2 ай бұрын
The pocket bit 🤣🤣 when you act opposite yourself, it's always so good, it's the best :) The foil 'glasses' !! I love your videos so much, thank you :)
@estrellita2912
@estrellita2912 2 ай бұрын
Why is no one talking about the incredible humor in the pocket bit 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@goodeats1601
@goodeats1601 2 ай бұрын
BRO how did you just moved on from that incident in the parking lot and barely none of the comments said anything! That’s so traumatizing I saw in another comment you said this wasn’t the first time that’s happened in a parking lot?! This is why I don’t like to go out people are absolutely crazy and creepy 🤮 I’m so sorry that happened to you but I don’t know how you kept the video going! Also love this style of video it was very entertaining with the little clips describing your ideas or way of doing things bravo!
@Victoria_Loves_Jesus
@Victoria_Loves_Jesus 2 ай бұрын
i've been living alone in the mountains for over 4 years now and haven't had friends close in so long .. you just feel like a best friend
@MicheleWalkerWebb
@MicheleWalkerWebb 2 ай бұрын
Victoria my dream is to live alone far away. I'm in a city now, I have no friends. Elyse is nice to listen to. I feel I can trust her.
@Me_Ewe_and_Yarn_Cheryl
@Me_Ewe_and_Yarn_Cheryl 2 ай бұрын
I've always thought the same thing about colours and vision. Same with sound: Do you hear what I hear? Do you see what I see? Great lyrics for a song. Oh, wait, it's already been done.🙃
@sirenacarpenter
@sirenacarpenter 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely love the pocket presentation!
@Am33na_rrr
@Am33na_rrr 2 ай бұрын
I agree. Plants absolutely can hear us because when a random gust of wind comes and makes their leaves shake..It’s not wind it’s them hearing us talk and their signal for us to shutup
@esotericareads
@esotericareads 2 ай бұрын
I recently attempted to consume all of your content on here and I have to tell you how comforting it has been. Especially when you talked about wanting your mental health to be at a place where you can show up for your child. As a chronically ill person, i carry a lot of shame that i have to miss out on things. But my kiddo is a teen now and really has so much empathy and reminds me to take care of myself. They feel love from us in so many ways that it's ok that we have limitations. Anyway, you make me feel less alone in the world. And you make me laugh. So thank you. ❤
@courtneyG89
@courtneyG89 2 ай бұрын
OhmyGOD- why are you seriously the most relatable human being on the planet😂 (No pressure btw…) The pocket bit made me CRY🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 God, I needed that. Thank you for your service, ma’am🤝😂
@screenplaya4562
@screenplaya4562 2 ай бұрын
Old men: We're not always sending our best. Apologies, ma'am.
@AmandaChristineCo
@AmandaChristineCo 2 ай бұрын
☠️ 😂
@gloomy_gal
@gloomy_gal 2 ай бұрын
A little bit of everything is such a fun title.
@Skibbityboo0580
@Skibbityboo0580 2 ай бұрын
Accurate in the best way possible!
@tonkyland
@tonkyland 2 ай бұрын
watching your videos gives me the coziest vibes like i'm hanging out with a good friend whom i feel comfortable with (not in a parasocial way just a nice vibes way)
@elizabethbrink476
@elizabethbrink476 2 ай бұрын
The falling in love segment…😭 I’ve been feeling this and it didn’t register until I heard you say it. I’ve been married 10 years and 4 babies later and I was so consumed with knowing if we’d ever get here, that I missed the falling in love part. 😢
@nerdmom6
@nerdmom6 2 ай бұрын
I also loved the falling in love story. I actually made my husband of 33years come and listen to it and he got tears in his eyes. We feel as if we are falling in love all over again now that our children are grown and on their own.
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
Falling deeper in love with your person is a gift all in its own but it’s so wild you fall in love for the last time and sometimes don’t even realize it!
@Oofball2011
@Oofball2011 2 ай бұрын
we have been together for almost 11 years, and I have never thought about it this way!
@valaya.3
@valaya.3 2 ай бұрын
I've only fallen in love once and so I just wonder what it will be like a second time now that I know what it feels like. I hope I can treasure it for all of you who didn't get to treasure it the way you wanted
@recoveringsoul755
@recoveringsoul755 2 ай бұрын
@@valaya.3 I think when you're older and fall in love again, you have a different appreciation for it. Probably takes longer to get there because everyone has more baggage to deal with. But you can enjoy it in a different way than when you were a teen or 20-something and just took it for granted. Sometimes in my marriage he'd do something that would make me fall in love all over again. Until I realized those were things that normal husbands always did. And I was accepting crumbs, grateful to get anything at all
@margaretwillis7306
@margaretwillis7306 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for a funny, insightful episode! Property taxes support schools and town services; sales taxes often support major highway maintenance/repair. Just remind yourself when you think about it that we want good schools & fire & police and roads in good repair.
@spiritedaway0tutu
@spiritedaway0tutu Ай бұрын
That “relating stories back to yourself” thing is called anecdotal storytelling, and it is an autism and adhd symptom, along with being present in other neurodivergencies! It’s a sort of unique way of showing empathy. It’s not selfish, don’t worry. For some of us, it is just easier to hear something, relate it back to a personal experience as a way to explain that someone isn’t alone or to match your experience with others!
@nicolearntz7809
@nicolearntz7809 2 ай бұрын
You are amazing. Truly. I find such comfort, humor and relatability in your long form content. I am either saying (out loud) “Same. Right! I know!” Or laughing. (Or tearing up.) You are such an incredible person. This makes me realize that there MUST be more people out there in the world just as quirky, curious, confused and unsure about life as I feel on the reg. And others that also notice the little things in life. ❤ Thank you for being you and for sharing yourself with us.
@meganpender
@meganpender 2 ай бұрын
The color thing!!!!! I think about that all the time. It's so true... Like is the blue I see the same blue you see?? Does this really specific magenta color look exactly the same to you as it does to me??? How would we even find out??? Words wouldn't be sufficient enough because those are limited, and that would be hard to use words even, because if you try to describe it using another item/color, what if they don't see THAT color the same either??? I'm so glad I'm not the only one that thinks about this 😂
@bosstowndynamics5488
@bosstowndynamics5488 2 ай бұрын
It's a common concept in the philosophy of perception and conscious experience. Another freaky one is the concept of a philosophical zombie - the idea that you actually have no way of telling if someone you're talking to is conscious, you just assume they are because you are and they're also humans. Mostly intended as an interesting thought experiment to probe the concept of human consciousness but occasionally used by awful people to dehumanise others (see the whole "NPC" rhetoric that's taken off in recent years)
@TheKristamazing
@TheKristamazing 2 ай бұрын
Apparently, as we age, colors become less vibrant to us.
@marychastain8248
@marychastain8248 2 ай бұрын
The pockets bit had me DYING. Gah your timing is *chefs kiss*
@nomoreillusions
@nomoreillusions 2 ай бұрын
Zombie Apocalypse is not (supposed to be) an actual fear of zombies (I mean I guess for some?) but it's a way of saying "Are you prepared for a disaster" and the idea being if you were prepared to survive a zombie apocalypse you'd be prepared for things like actual likely disasters because you're prepared to live without power, without grocery stores, without city water, etc. But it's hard to get people to care about those actual things because they weirdly feel less likely. But if you make it a "fun" exercise, like zombies, then people are actually more likely to prepare actual emergency supplies.
@cloudsn
@cloudsn 2 ай бұрын
Is that how other people think of the zombie apocalypse? Because I think of how I'd survive it as almost a stress response. When I'm super anxious I'll think of what would happen if zombies attacked right now. Like, "I don't have to worry about my job or making money or paying rent. all I have to do is survive the living dead. easy." It calms me down. Maybe I'm just very strange.
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
Oh this makes so much more sense! I’ve always taken it so literally and I didn’t understand why it was such a topic of conversation!
@ericabrooks1004
@ericabrooks1004 2 ай бұрын
I always think about how people who were either crazy couponers or ready for a zombie apocalypse in 2020 were like, see, I’m not really crazy after all. 😂
@recoveringsoul755
@recoveringsoul755 2 ай бұрын
Well without power or grocery store, it won't take long for your neighbors to be so hungry that they'll do anything to try to feed their own families. They'll be acting like zombies. They'll try to steal your food, if you grow a garden they will take from there, if you have chickens they'll steal the eggs or eat the chicken People won't be able to get their medication, so that alone will make people act differently. And no heating or cooling. How will you cook your food? Prep with canned food, or freeze dried. Things that are shelf stable. You can get ghee instead of butter. Evaporated milk in a can, etc Stuff you can eat right out of the can might be better. Without heat.
@andreamp09
@andreamp09 2 ай бұрын
@@cloudsn There's an anime based on this premise lol.
@humn7735
@humn7735 2 ай бұрын
Hello from IRELAND!!!! AND YES PLANTS CAN HEAR US!!!! 🇮🇪☘️
@jonasmyers494
@jonasmyers494 2 ай бұрын
💚🤍🧡
@katieshamblin
@katieshamblin 22 күн бұрын
The jump from "I wish I had known when I was falling in love for the last time" to "I'm over my hair today" !!! WOMANHOOD!!
@natashabeachy5159
@natashabeachy5159 2 ай бұрын
The pocket segment was the best!!! Loved the format. I definitely lol😊
@missmishpot
@missmishpot 16 күн бұрын
I adore your videos, especially in this random form. It’s like having a convo with a totally likeminded, good friend without the awkward planning and actual social conventions. From pockets to crochet to taxes, you’re absolutely 100% “my people”…who I can wholeheartedly enjoy without having to “people”. In fact, your love of crochet is what plunged me hard back into the craft my great grandmother taught me years ago. Thank you! May you and your beautiful family be blessed with ever better things to come.
@beanieNX420
@beanieNX420 2 ай бұрын
A lot of times, you/they aren't making every story about themselves, they are trying to say that they too have experienced that thing before and relate to what your saying. I do this too and didn't know it at first. I'm also on the spectrum.
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
I felt like that was the main way people connect with each other and now I question myself whenever I meet someone new 😅
@beanieNX420
@beanieNX420 2 ай бұрын
@@elyse_myers Yeap, same. How else do you let them know you really 'get it'? How do the NT's relate to each other if not saying 'hey I know that thing you went through 'cause I did too!'?? Baffling.
@Wonderish
@Wonderish 2 ай бұрын
Yes, exactly this! How else can someone know they’re not the only one??
@tinaletarte3078
@tinaletarte3078 2 ай бұрын
Sometimes you can gauge if a person wants assurance and comaraderie or if they're wanting to sound amazing or unique
@katepaynedechavez
@katepaynedechavez 2 ай бұрын
I didn’t know this was neuro-atypical until I started watching stuff about adhd in adult women - 🙋🏽‍♀️ this to say…so you know I can relate…😅…me too…super self conscious about the fact that I do this. Just did it yesterday, and I keep replaying it in my head…even today…
@kaella463
@kaella463 2 ай бұрын
Okay but you are THE funniest, most relatable person. And kudos to you for making me chuckle when nothing else has quite satisfied today. Thank you for your contributions!
@user-pe8ur9ht6m
@user-pe8ur9ht6m 2 ай бұрын
Love her SO much!!❤😂
@HydrogenTwoO
@HydrogenTwoO 2 ай бұрын
I actually was nervous to get glasses for my astigmatism as an adult, and the ones I had for four years were hexagonal gold frames (not real gold, obviously). I was super nervous because they were so different, and kids got bullied with glasses also, but everywhere I went people loved them. Nobody asked to try them! So maybe that's the key, pick something super unique that they're too distracted to ask about trying them on bahaha
@nixonyourat
@nixonyourat 2 ай бұрын
"Jean on jean is okay right?" Me *nods in canadian*
@jonasmyers494
@jonasmyers494 2 ай бұрын
The pockets clip is like a SuperBowl commercial for pockets 😂😂
@delaneyjenson4761
@delaneyjenson4761 2 ай бұрын
People do see colours differently 🙂 Cone cells or cones are photoreceptor cells in the retinas of vertebrates' eyes. They respond differently to light of different wavelengths, and the combination of their responses is responsible for color vision. Depending how many you have will vary what different shades you can see! 😃❤
@jeanbean8726
@jeanbean8726 2 ай бұрын
I did that weird laugh cry thing throughout this whole video lol, thank you, I needed that. ❤
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
🥹♥️ I’m glad you enjoyed this!!
@keywestling
@keywestling 2 ай бұрын
@7:44 SAME. I have embarrassed myself multiple times by accidentally reading aloud lines from the book because I forgot that I am IN A PUBLIC PLACE.
@mahroutabesh
@mahroutabesh 2 ай бұрын
That fact about Taylor Swift putting random words in her lyrics, omg im so happy someone else feels like it😂❤ since English is not my mother language I used to think of it as a me kind of problem 😅 I feel relieved 😊
@JesusChristIsKing-777
@JesusChristIsKing-777 2 ай бұрын
The breaking news pocket part made me laugh soooo much! Thank you ❤😂
@gaines_gal
@gaines_gal 2 ай бұрын
Omg the love one hit so very very hard. At the time me and my husband got together we were both working two jobs and our lives were so rushed. I wish I took time to remember everything more. ❤
@paigepiper4948
@paigepiper4948 Ай бұрын
I absolutely have had adults pull the, "let me see how blind u r" and grab my glasses just to be like, "dayummm, u really are blind AF" like, no shit. Give em back. That shit happened when I was a kid and sadly, it still happens occasionally from "adults" 🙄 30 yr olds with the maturity of 3 yr olds.
@mck4507
@mck4507 2 ай бұрын
This is the most relatable series of thoughts I’ve ever heard
@erickaeisenmann7926
@erickaeisenmann7926 2 ай бұрын
I found this video so soothing. All of the statements you shared were amazing and for you to be so open is a gift to others, thank you for sharing!
@amynoonanmusic
@amynoonanmusic 2 ай бұрын
I LOVE HARBOR HOUSE!! So many memories. I used to work up the street at Cannons. I feel like we maybe played viola together somewhere lol
@melaniewhite3300
@melaniewhite3300 2 ай бұрын
Holy crap!!! I can't imagine living in your headspace for more than 5 minutes. That craziness that runs through your mind would exhaust me!! BUT I ABSOLUTELY LOVE WATCHING YOU DO IT!! ❤❤❤❤❤
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
Hahahahha I mean I am exhausted all of the time. I look at other people and wish I could just shut my mind off and relax. BUT IT’S ALL GOOD, I GOT THIS BRAIN INSTEAD. 😂
@shellycluff_art
@shellycluff_art 2 ай бұрын
This comment made me tear up because I watch Elyse’s videos and they’re so relatable! I gaslight myself into thinking I’m normal and everyone thinks/acts this way and seeing someone say they *don’t* think that way is so validating. Elyse thank you for finding a way to capture the way you think because it’s so hard to compare the way we think with anyone else. ❤
@beccajones1994
@beccajones1994 2 ай бұрын
Hey Elyse! Just want to thank you for being so real. It is so refreshing and inspires me to be more authentically myself!
@SharraAlexander
@SharraAlexander 2 ай бұрын
I had a friend find out he needed glasses by trying on mine in class, so that's a cool spin on it
@Skibbityboo0580
@Skibbityboo0580 2 ай бұрын
As a plant, I CAN hear you!
@chelseaosman1219
@chelseaosman1219 2 ай бұрын
This entire video made me incredibly happy. Thank you!
@valaya.3
@valaya.3 2 ай бұрын
The part where you were acting out a book and then laughed at yourself was so real. I so often do something so completely genuinely and then I think about it and can't help but laugh at the goof that is me. But I find it so endearing when you did it. So even if I still laugh at myself, I hope I can do it with more confidence and understanding that I'm not alone in the weirdness
@EdimentalGardens
@EdimentalGardens 2 ай бұрын
I think the pith usage is just onomatopoeia. When James Joyce needed a word to convey the sound of someone knocking on a door, he invented “tattarrattat.” Today, almost a hundred years after he coined it in his novel Ulysses, “tattarrattat” has become a legit word
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
That’s what I was thinking, but pith” didn’t sound at all like a beer can opening to me so I was really confused! 😂
@JacquiDonner
@JacquiDonner 2 ай бұрын
I've had so many of these same thoughts and have not expressed them out loud...I have very recently thought that I would like to renew my vows just so I can redo all the things I didn't like about my wedding because I let other people talk me into things I didn't want.
@justanotherartist274
@justanotherartist274 2 ай бұрын
Your videos feel like a manifestation of how having an adhd hyperfixation can feel, but in the best way possible. Or pleasant like when you see a penny on the sidewalk or are outside in nature. I enjoy your videos is what I’m trying to say.
@therootedcoop
@therootedcoop 2 ай бұрын
I am so grateful for these vudeos, it feels like I am hanging out with someone who you are so comfortable with you just get to say whatever pops into your head and its so relaxing and comforting, so thank you!
@laurafelberg3138
@laurafelberg3138 2 ай бұрын
That last blooper has me in tears!!! Oh my gosh, love you so much and miss you on the stupid social medias. Glad you're still sharing life with us here!
@LizKain
@LizKain 2 ай бұрын
I love this. Also, thanks for the comment about falling in love, it's something I don't think most people think about. I also appreciate this yellow notebooked list cause I've got a whole list like this of Liz quips that sometimes turn into Facebook or what have you statuses. Some people therefore have called me quirky, it's all good. And I hope no one ever steals your glasses. - an adult, I think
@TurkeyCreekGal
@TurkeyCreekGal 2 ай бұрын
I don't understand property taxes either! I live in Oklahoma and every year I have to pay property taxes on my appliances. Like my microwave, my washer and dryer, my refrigerator etc! Why!! I already bought them, I paid taxes on them when I bought them, so why do I still have to pay taxes on them!? Truthfully, I don't own a washer and dryer, nor a cook stove just so I don't have to pay taxes on them every year! Instead, I take what the taxes would've been and put that money into savings & some day I'm going to buy the oldest/cheapest washer and dryer from the 80's-90's so the taxes will be unbelievably cheap! But I'll forever just use a hot plate and my wood stove in the winter to cook! I probably won't buy a dryer bec in the summer I use my clothesline & in the winter I hang them inside to dry
@fauckedupmut
@fauckedupmut 2 ай бұрын
The falling in love segment... speechless. I've pondered the majority of the thoughts you shared here, but this... it never occurred to me. I need to slow down and be in the moments I'll cherish while I'm living them. Not just falling in love, but bonding deeply with those I already love.
@lindawarner4100
@lindawarner4100 2 ай бұрын
I talk to my plant every day and she is so happy. She’s survived 2 moves and I’m thrilled
@pp20173
@pp20173 2 ай бұрын
It's like not knowing you're in the good ole days until they're over and you're thinking back to what you felt were the good ole days.
@kmarapatt
@kmarapatt 2 ай бұрын
I love seeing clearly. I was without any glasses for over 5 years and getting them back, I just can't believe I was walking around without seeing every detail. Also I think you look great with glasses!
@lysbird
@lysbird 2 ай бұрын
The label thing had always confounded me
@SeerOfTime577
@SeerOfTime577 Ай бұрын
The entire "Not a pocket" sequence was absolute GOLD.
@EmilyZelkowitz
@EmilyZelkowitz 2 ай бұрын
I missed you so much!! I’m soo glad I came in search of your KZfaq from insta. Here I go creepin on your channelllll :) finding this made my day. Hope you and Jonas and bbs are great!
@honestlee3556
@honestlee3556 2 ай бұрын
I laughed I cringed I laughed I cried. I loved EVERY MOMENT! This is exactly what I needed to put a smile on my masked RBF face. 😂 Thank you dear lady for sharing your life with us! 🐝
@dianekim6879
@dianekim6879 2 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY DIED when you gave your pocket 101 lecture!!
@NovasYouTubeName
@NovasYouTubeName 2 ай бұрын
The pockets part was hilarious!! And I dress like you but my name brand super fashionista sister says you CAN wear jean with jean (not that we really care - it’s all about the pockets baby!)
@lindabe11a
@lindabe11a 2 ай бұрын
It's so good to see u, I'm glad I read some comments on something over on TT, SO HAPPY YOU ARE BACK AT THIS, YOU ARE A WONDERFUL VOICE AND TALENT IN THIS WORLD!
@jenniferriske1328
@jenniferriske1328 2 ай бұрын
Elyse, I’m the same way, I just have random thoughts that I write down often as well.
@justkc
@justkc 2 ай бұрын
My 21 year old kid and I talk about the color thing often. If everyone is seeing something different how would we ever know.
@justkc
@justkc 2 ай бұрын
Yup. No interest at all in jumping out of a plane or with a stretchy cord around my legs. Nope.
@dylnpickl846
@dylnpickl846 2 ай бұрын
Had to pause the video to inform you. As far as my own fascination with zombie apocalypse, I figured out this has to do with my living with severe mental illnesses my entire life while everyone around me invalidated me and told me I was fine. Every single day since childhood was torture for this reason, and the idea that a zombie could be around every corner fit my internal emotional experience and validated me more than my real life. This theory was validated by progressing in my trauma work, and now that I have a supportive home, mental health treatment, and almost no more suicidality, my fascination with zombie apocalypse has dwindled.
@elaboratelizard
@elaboratelizard 2 ай бұрын
The talking and making the conversation about you is really common in autistic and adhd individuals. It’s anecdotal. Showing that we relate to how they are feeling. But it is often taken by allistic/ neurotypical people as being rude and only making the conversation about you. It’s just a different form of communication. 😊
@susanreed9173
@susanreed9173 2 ай бұрын
I have questioned the color thing since my teens! (I’m in my 40’s now.) My red might be your blue, but we have always been told it’s red. 🤯 I enjoyed this very much! Thank you for an insight into your random thoughts. ☺️
@jenn-k-h
@jenn-k-h 2 ай бұрын
DYING at the pocket bit 😂 And loving the INCREDIBLE random thoughts ❤ Some of those blew my mind.
@kait_shmait
@kait_shmait 2 ай бұрын
i was sitting on my front porch the other day with my husband and i was looking at our red car and i literally had the SAME thought about color. i was like, how do i know the red i see is the red he sees? HOWWW?!? i didn’t say it out loud to him because i thought it sounded nonsensical!! 😂😂😂 glad i am not the only one that thinks these things! also, your naturally curly hair without the products and styling is GORG!!
@BethanyPickHer
@BethanyPickHer 2 ай бұрын
I just adore this woman
@imnotlikethem1
@imnotlikethem1 2 ай бұрын
This is an prime example of why long form content has always been superior 😊
@SuchIsASam
@SuchIsASam 2 ай бұрын
I spent all day, literally since 7AM, doing nothing but watching your vlogs on repeat because they are so comforting. Then surprise! A new video! Thank you, Elyse! ❤
@KatieCat11
@KatieCat11 2 ай бұрын
Yes. The way I've been ignoring my salad for ten minutes while I search for something to watch AND FINALLY this pops up! Saved my lunch 🙌
@maryshannon3326
@maryshannon3326 2 ай бұрын
Plants can hear us, for sure. I agree with you on a few of these. Most are things I have never thought of, but now I am!
@beccaspringstead6322
@beccaspringstead6322 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree about the coloo! I have said those exact words: "how do we know we see the same colors?" I theorize that favorite colors exist because we see them differently
@alextharman
@alextharman 2 ай бұрын
Cue Creed, “If that’s flashing lock me up.” 😂
@elyse_myers
@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын
I wish it would have been creed honestly because then I could have at least crossed him off my “office cast to meet before I die” bucket list. I feel like it would only be fitting. 😂
@NovasYouTubeName
@NovasYouTubeName 2 ай бұрын
My husband and I went to the set of the office for our honeymoon ❤
@zorgbarley1762
@zorgbarley1762 2 ай бұрын
The part at 7:45 about reading a book as though it were a script... sometimes reading over a book I love, I find myself reading the lines of one character out loud, like I am the character. Not prepping for a movie role, just like I am inhabiting the character for a minute.
@Frankie0912
@Frankie0912 2 ай бұрын
Ahhh I have missed you on the clock app! So nice to see you and hear all of your insights no matter how random. There’s just something about it that’s good for my soul. I hope you’re well
@chise1953
@chise1953 2 ай бұрын
I LOVE YOUR VOICE ELYSE! ❤️❤️❤️ The silence at the kangaroo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@justanotherartist274
@justanotherartist274 2 ай бұрын
I’m so glad people taking other people’s glasses to see how blind they are is a universal experience.
@nataliemorrison5876
@nataliemorrison5876 2 ай бұрын
The "Breaking News" bit was brilliant I need MUCH MORE of that😂 You conversing with your "assistant" was comedic gold I watched it 4 times🤣
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