I went on a staycation, faced some fears, and drank some wine!

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3 ай бұрын

The wolf shirt in question: amzn.to/3JRm5wU
Recently, I’ve been challenging myself to get out of my box and try and find things that recharge my batteries (that aren’t the usual reality TV in bed at home.) so I spent the night at HOTEL and watched reality tv in bed. Totalllyyyyy different!
I ordered room service, had some delicious dessert, read til my heart was content, and even challenged myself to talk to a few people! Overall, I was really proud of myself for getting out of my house. It felt like a really safe way to challenge anxiety!
If your anxiety looks anything like mine, just know i'm in this with you. Just keep hitting singles.
I love you! ♥
- em
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@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

I know it’s not that funny but when I had to edit through the footage of me and the man who dropped the coffee off at my room, I did NOT need to go that deeply into the lore of my howling wolf shirt. 😂

@sophiel362 3 ай бұрын

You didn't "need" to, but we appreciate that you did 😆 and I'm definitely going to go read those Amazon reviews now... and possibly buy a freaking awesome shirt

@danihafr 2 ай бұрын

I would have probably my done the exact same thing you did 😊. He commented on the shirt so that opened the door to the convo that followed!

@marias8007 2 ай бұрын

i was so impressed! i would have said a curt hi, mumbled thanks for the coffee, and shut the door, loudly, and not apologised for it, relieved to be back in the room on my own (i would have grumbled, to myself, about the cold coffee, though)

@rjbgfx 2 ай бұрын

You being you is not a problem. People are different. Embrace yourself

@always2bfaithful 2 ай бұрын

But you didn’t go too far at all. It was the perfect exchange. I would have been like, “omg, omg, omg, look at these reviews with me” and THAT would have been awkward.

@gabz563 3 ай бұрын

As an introvert I live for this content - feels like I’m traveling with a friend without leaving my bed

@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын

I LOVE this!! I watch so many travel vlogs because my anxiety keeps me from traveling a lot of the time and I always feel like I’m going on a trip with that person. So this comment made my whole life that I could do that for someone else!

@catcolb11 2 ай бұрын

@elyse_myers Yes!! I feel this, not just as an introvert, but as someone with chronic illnesses that often keep me homebound (even before the pandemic I was essentially "sheltering in place" because of multiple autoimmune disorders and chronic pain). It sucks feeling like a shut-in on all but my best days. (My life used to be so big and beautiful with an amazing career, friends and travel... now I often live vicariously thru other people's videos.)

@standup2982 2 ай бұрын

@@catcolb11 this is also me. I became disabled and chronically ill four years ago and most of the time am bed bound. I have carers twice a day and a cleaning call from the same company. I too live with chronic pain daily and am autoimmune. I was talking to my carer last night about what feels like my previous life, which now feels like it wasn’t mine. Sending love from England ❤️

@catcolb11 2 ай бұрын

@@standup2982 sending love to you from New England. Wishing you better health.❤

@standup2982 2 ай бұрын

@@catcolb11 thank you, I love how women find each other here and connect from across the pond. Love and support to you 🫂🥰

@EmanDeMoan 3 ай бұрын

I really like this girl. She's very honest and it's comforting to hear someone talk openly about many issues that I relate to.

@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

Thanks friend! Trying my best to bring myself to the internet just as I am and let it be enough!

@wendybrown500 3 ай бұрын

I couldn’t agree more!

@catcolb11 2 ай бұрын

You are absolutely enough just as you are! ❤@@elyse_myers

@AliFinNoble 3 ай бұрын

The other day I had a full-blown panic attack from chronic pain. That day I had watched your book store video. And I just told my self give myself grace. If Elyse can do that than I can make it threw the next 10 minutes. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤❤

@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

YES YOU CAN! So proud of you!!!

@emmeryledin1977 3 ай бұрын

Same here - having severe anxiety while pregnant and watching Elyse always makes me feel better. ☺️

@lulumoon6942 3 ай бұрын

OMG I never realized I was having panic attacks over my breakthrough pain spikes, THANK YOU. Wishing you comfort and joy. 🙏🕊️

@rain-wanders 3 ай бұрын

As a fellow chronic pain sufferer I so understand this. I went on a work trip this week, and I can't sleep in a bed because of my back and hip being so bad, so I was trying to sleep propped up on the couch... anyway, I was in so much pain and so overtired that I had a panic attack that first night. We've all just got to keep going and do the best we can and keep facing whatever our obstacles are.

@AliFinNoble 3 ай бұрын

@@elyse_myers I got so distracted and flabbergasted by the fact that you read and left a comment that I almost overfilled my bathtub. You rock 🤩

@kathleeninkansas1770 2 ай бұрын

for anyone reading comments. It's your car door, it's your front door, it's your bathroom door. You are entitled to keep them closed and locked until you are ready to open them. Never feel rushed to 'move it along' if you're not ready to do so. it's your space. keep it as long as you need.

@cscp13 3 ай бұрын

"Faced some fears and drank some wine" that's really all the girlies want 🥺

@Tinckoy 3 ай бұрын

"My body doesn't know the difference between being hot from a panic attack and just being hot" is so relatable! I've been battling some pretty extreme agoraphobia basically ever since Covid, and your last video had me crying happy tears for you as you faced your fears, because I related so much. I've had these exact same fears leading to exposures and pep talks in the car with my therapist. Thank you Elyse, from the bottom of my heart, for sharing your journey, I don't feel so alone, and very genuinely appreciate it. I know first-hand how big of a deal stuff like this is and was to have done, I wish you so so so much more success. Progress isn't linear but gosh do days like this feel amazing. We're doing it scared, and that's okay!

@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

You are so amazing, thank you SO MUCH for taking the time to write this comment. Your encouragement means the world to me! WE’RE DOING IT! 😭♥️

@lulumoon6942 3 ай бұрын

This explains much!

@tigersmom77 3 ай бұрын

I thought I was the only one!

@lindahoffman2692 2 ай бұрын

@@tigersmom77 You are ABSOLUTELY NOT ALONE in your struggles!! I’m here and so are all these incredibly BRAVE folks facing the same FEARS we are! Together we’re so much STRONGER!! ❤️

@lindahoffman2692 2 ай бұрын

“Progress isn’t Linear” is like my Mantra every time I take a step backward in fighting my Implacable Enemy - ANXIETY!! ❤️

@kitnkabootle 3 ай бұрын

If your full career is just to video blog your life, I will be watching! You’re so charming and likable and we’ve all felt the little awkward moments that happen in day to day life, but when they happen to you it somehow normalizes it. I am glad you like to bring us along as support-viewers because it’s really wonderful to be there with you and watching you succeed as you conquer your fears. ❤️

@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

I’m so grateful you’re here!!! Thank you so much for your encouraging words, you are so kind!

@cc1232-L0vE 3 ай бұрын

“pull it together, elyse. a million dollars is on the line”😂made me crack up

@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

Same 😂😂😂

@cc1232-L0vE 3 ай бұрын

OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH I LOVE YOUR MUSIC AND YOUR VIDEOS I WATCH THEM EVERY DAY AND YOU ARE MY FAVORITE KZfaqR AND LIKE MY BEST FRIEND SO THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

@terrydacktull 3 ай бұрын

I HAD to look up that wolf shirt I needed to see those reviews for myself. Here’s Amazon's AI summary for the reviews of Dwight’s shirt: “Customers like the appearance and mental health of the shirt. For example, they mention it's a beautiful piece of art, it makes their senses heighten and their mind clear, and it gives them a profound sense of confidence. They are also satisfied with power, and value. That said, opinions are mixed on fit, thickness, comfort, and quality.” Hilarious. Thank you Elyse.

@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

Hahahaha the reviews are so GOOD. Definitely some quality reading material 😂

@HRHDMKYT 3 ай бұрын

Wait…are those lines in that AI reviews summary things that Dwight has said on The Office? Specifically about that shirt 👕 ? Inquiring minds want to know!😊

@terrydacktull 2 ай бұрын

@@HRHDMKYT Haha no. I guess my comment was a little confusing. The reviews for the shirt are people just being funny and trying to emulate Dwight saying that the shirt makes them feel powerful or masculine. Amazon has AI make a summary of the reviews but since AI doesn't know what is satire and what isn't, you get this hilarious paragraph.

@KimberlyGilbertDC 3 ай бұрын

YES to "Body Doubling." 1000x YES.

@billyalarie929 3 ай бұрын

Body doubling is such a calming experience.

@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

Learning how to ask for (and utilize) a body double has changed my life!

@Shnikey Ай бұрын

I completely got what she meant by having the VLOG as company but I’ve never heard of a body double. I think I need something like this. Thanks for the reference point!

@DiSWRwow77 Ай бұрын

Hi. Body double is an Adhd thing to help u get normal things done@@Shnikey

@thatswhatshesaid14 3 ай бұрын

Ive struggled with agoraphobia for the last 13 years. It got worse after my first child. Many years of therapy and I was able to go on my first solo vacation to las vegas, for 2 weeks, 2 months ago. It was the best thing i ever did for myself. It was so hard yet so fun, all at once. I was put in so many situations where i had to rely on mysylf, instead of my husband. It was scary and freeing. I cant wait to do it again.....keep doing these staycations, and anything else that involves selfcare! You are so worth it and more 🤗💚💚

@MrsYeee 3 ай бұрын

Oh my gosh, I'm so proud of you! My anxiety and agoraphobia got worse with my 1st child, too. Then covid happened and another layer of fear was layered thick on top. I haven't mustered up the courage to go away by myself yet but I will one day work my way to it. Thank you for sharing ❤

@lisalane9131 3 ай бұрын

You should be so proud of yourself for making such progress! That's fantastic.

@tessajones1359 2 ай бұрын

This is also a goal of mine! To go on a solo trip. But I like the idea of staying at a local hotel like Elyse

@frenchfry14595 3 ай бұрын

Elyse, you said something on the video where you went to Barnes & Noble and had a good trip. You said that you are a shadow of your former self. I'm 53 and I'm here to tell you that we all are shadows of our former selves. I dont' look anywhere near as good as I did in my twenties. I can't do as much, and I get tired a lot. So I wanted you to know that you are not alone in feeling that way at all. There are plenty of people out there feeling the same way, so we understand when you talk about your anxiety. Thanks for the insight.

@jkuhmann 2 ай бұрын

Of all of the deeply relatable things in this video, the "I got too much. I just wanted to try... that's actually a lie, I didn't even want to try everything, because I've already tried it I just like it and I want to eat it" hit me in my soul.

@SauerPatchGardening 3 ай бұрын

I didn't know staycations got to include a hotel! When I've done them, we pick a spot in driving distance from home, and become a tourist for a day..but, then go back home the same day. But, adding a nights stay in a hotel, changes everything! And that was a nice hotel. Also good advice on the drinking water in the gym.

@Pisces-1978 3 ай бұрын

Elyse, you're amazing! IT IS GOING TO BE OK. You are so brave showing the world you...all of you. You make me feel so much better about my own fears + anxieties. Thank you for your uploads. We're all going to be ok. And if s--t gets in the way, we will handle it calmly + make it thru 💪You're amazing, Elyse Myers!!!

@emilystevenson6370 3 ай бұрын

Currently pregnant with my second & STRUGGLING. Seeing you thrive as an autonomous human being after 2 kids & even after health issues with your second, is giving me so much hope for the future & making me believe that it will get better/won’t be this hard forever. Please keep posting content. You’re saving lives Elyse Myers. Just by being you. THANK YOU. ❤

@HannahlovesStories 3 ай бұрын

Bringing 6 books on vacation/staycation is the way to go! Reading is my favorite vacation activity 📖

@Itsshegooo 2 ай бұрын

The way Elise puts her struggles into words makes me feel so seen like when I try to explain this to anyone it makes me feel and sound crazy but when I hear Elise talking about her experiences it’s makes me feel like I’m not alone and that’s very rare for me ❤❤ (also love that she brought Twighlight that’s such a comfort book and movie for me)

@Itsshegooo 2 ай бұрын

@ville__ I genuinely don’t care who you are get a life you’re pathetic

@calvinpaul4456 3 ай бұрын

“My bag doesn’t have front pockets and I didn’t have a purse!” I understand this feeling!

@marianaduarte9030 3 ай бұрын

As someone who greatly struggles with phone calls AND asking for things I was so proud of you when you managed to make all those different phone calls

@Julia-en5ys 2 ай бұрын

„Im trying not to be anxious because there’s nothing to be anxious about“ was also my go to for a while but I listened to an interview with Bill Hader (who’s an incredible human) and he said to just notice you’re anxious and to take the narrative out of it (aka you’re not anxious _because_ of anything, you’re just anxious and that’s okay) and that helped me out a ton! It’s just a feeling and that’s totally fine! Doesn’t mean it works for everyone, but it does for me! Feel the fear and do it anyway! To anyone reading: you’ve got this!! You really do!

@nickiglesias8245 3 ай бұрын

Elyse Myers content on a Friday = A Good Friday 🙌

@anahidkassabian4471 3 ай бұрын

Elyse, you’re a total star. Very many of us experience at least some, if not all, of these things. But you confess to it publicly, which I *think* helps you, but it definitely helps us! ✨♥️✨

@aunte9415 2 ай бұрын

the almost accident anxious spiral is real. i 100p relate to it on so many levels. it's made me an incredibly anxiety ridden driver to the point where i will cancel things or ask my partner to drive me. thanks for sharing and being brave

@Rlsy5112 2 ай бұрын

This video soothes my soul. I can’t tell you how much I look forward to Fridays now. Where I live, sometimes it’s a Saturday. Which means I get to stay in that excitement for 2 days which is awesome.

@ashleylaughlin1425 3 ай бұрын

You being you on the internet for everyone helps me be confident in myself. Thank you. ❤

@ericahunn1 3 ай бұрын

You make it ok that I’m not always ok and you make me want to be brave

@ShaunaOutsideSeoul 3 ай бұрын

The sweatshirt on with the AC cranked is so relatable - it’s really hot where I live and my dad thought I was crazy for wearing a sweatshirt when he was visiting and I don’t have a way to explain that it makes me feel cozy so idc about the temperature 🤣

@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

I always run so hot because of my anxiety that I don’t usually have the luxury of wearing a sweatshirt for warmth 😂 I can only wear one if the room I’m in is like 65° or cooler hahah

@andrea.r.g. 2 ай бұрын

@elyse_myers Living in Canada 🇨🇦 you'd think it would be cold enough here - but not for me with anxiety! I always want so bad to cozy up under a ton of blankets, but we don't have AC everywhere like you seem to in the US. 😟 PS: I was going to write 'in the states', but then I thought I don't think I've heard Americans refer to themselves like that 🤔 maybe that's just a Canadian thing? Is it? Sorry for rambling, I feel the need to over-explain myself - sound familiar??

@KBHW2021 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing. When I watch your videos it’s like watching myself. I’m so happy to see you trying new things, it’s a huge encouragement! Here’s to the little wins!🥂

@sarah_harvell 2 ай бұрын

I don’t know if you realize how much it helps me to watch you verbalize your anxiety. Sometimes I feel like there’s something wrong with me when the smallest task feels like a huge deal. I’ve always looked up to you and knowing you struggle too makes me feel less alone. My mom and I love watching your videos together. I hope you know how special you are. Thanks for being so authentically wonderful 💕

@NovasYouTubeName 2 ай бұрын

This is the best Elyse. I love hanging out with you! Each in our own places and at different times. You just make us feel like we’re there without being there and that’s awesome thank you ❤❤❤

@Koejj90 3 ай бұрын

You are doing well, hope you can relax and enjoy your staycation ❤ love how you explain all the thoughts that come up in your head, it makes me feel involved in your adventure. Thanks for sharing!

@fulaabalaaba 3 ай бұрын

I am loving these videos and I am glad that taking us along helps you because reading these comments clearly we are all helped by you! So grateful you are able to share these with us Elyse!

@SaraMcLu 2 ай бұрын

Oh man, I just really like watching your videos so much. I feel seen, I see people I love in you and I see how hard it can be for all of us. It’s a gift you’re giving us by letting us into your world! Thank you, Elyse Meyers! ❤

@SauerPatchGardening 3 ай бұрын

I also had the same growth situation on my shoulders. Lipomas. Sounds very ominous but, it's like you said, extra fat for no reason. I had them removed. I had them on both shoulders near the bra strap area. I had a really good plastic surgeon. But, put it off way to long. So one side I had to do twice because the first surgery didn't get all the fingers. And it grew back. So, do it, sooner rather than later and get a surgeon that knows alot about lipomas. My first surgery wasn't successful in the long run so, I chose a different person the second time, and it's been like 7 years now and they have never come back.

@elyse_myers 3 ай бұрын

This is REALLy helpful thank you!!! The general surgeon I met with when I was getting it checked out seemed really confident he could take care of it easily. But I didn’t think to really check it out deeper than that when it came to who did the surgery. Thank you for this!!

@trishblakely3476 2 ай бұрын

Maybe it’s time for a Dr. Pimple Popper collab video? 😂

@PINKTOES5150 2 ай бұрын

I love that you are so brave during anxiety happenings.. lately I am staying at the hospital with my client , watching you deal with day to day mini episodes helps me cope .

@SimplySarah129 3 ай бұрын

I completely to relate to all the feelings you expressed a loud in your video. I feel like those are often some of the same things going on in my head and it makes me feel so crazy! Seeing your struggle with the same thoughts and feelings is so helpful for me. I feel so much less alone ❤ Way to go for feeling all the things and continuing on!

@redbarnhomestead7384 3 ай бұрын

It gave me so much joy having you share your experience with us. I relate deeply to this process.

@tammycurtis4751 2 ай бұрын

I have just recently found you and your page. Thank you for your transparency and sharing yourself so openly.

@champagnelollipops5572 3 ай бұрын

Sending you so many gentle hugs cause I felt this SO hard. Thanks for what you do Elyse. It’s more meaningful than you might ever know

@katherinelynn1276 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for content like this! I go through EXACTLY the same things so it makes me feel less ashamed. I get depressed when I look at most social media because it makes me feel like I should be out doing more things but it's such a struggle with social anxiety.

@bitzi1 2 ай бұрын

You are 100% me. I am desperately thankful someone else feels the way I do. You inspire me and make me feel seen. Thank you sooooooo much

@amyh2888 3 ай бұрын

I'm so proud of you. Keep on being brave and thank you for sharing your triumphs and victories with us. You make us all feel seen. I love you!

@mahroutabesh 2 ай бұрын

I love how authentic and real you are and you are so relatable ❤❤❤❤

@coffeeandcynicism8581 2 ай бұрын

I hope I can live with as much authenticity and bravery as you try to live with. I’ve never watched someone who is so kind. Not just nice. But Kind. And not afraid to learn and grow and be wrong sometimes. Thank you. You rock and you make such a difference.

@mmartin7563 3 ай бұрын

You have opened my eyes to what people with anxiety deal with all the time. The whole exiting car until you get into your room fiasco has happened to me so many times. Seeing it from your perspective is enlightening. Thank you for sharing and hope you enjoyed your staycation! And cumbl cookies are soooo good!

@MidnightMunchiesandMore 3 ай бұрын

Omg same! I swear doing vlog-y stuff saved my life! Thank you so much for being you and sharing your journey with us!!! 🩷

@CassidyDeStefano 2 ай бұрын

This is my first time watching any of your videos. Gosh I feel less alone now. I know that someone out there feels exactly how I feel and it feels like I’m seeing you in real time. I’ve always felt crazy or high strung and never thought anyone else could understand or felt the same way. Gosh this is refreshing.

@patchyrain6752 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Elyse for always being yourself & inspiring others for just trying things we want to do even if we are little scared to do it

@lyndseetoyn6031 2 ай бұрын

I love you, Elyse. You truly are amazing. I am so glad you're still making content here. I love seeing your videos. They make me smile. You are an example to all of us who have the same struggles as you do. BTW- I was very concerned when I heard about the tornado in Omaha. I am glad you and your family are safe.

@sarahlemieux 2 ай бұрын

I love the editing techniques you use where the vocal overlaps the edit -- it is a very cool enhancement to the feel of your storytelling.

@user-ej6ti1ld8p 3 ай бұрын

I love when you take us along your adventures. You’ve become my best friend on the internet.

@cosmicloverstarot 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for taking us along on your adventure. That was a delight to watch! You inspire me to be brave and validate my existential woes and emotional turbulence.

@jessicathenerd4352 2 ай бұрын

Your videos alwats bring me joy Elyse. Because you are relatable, down to earth. Best way to describe it, your videos are my confort food. It feels like im not alone,thank you for that.

@RainbowOwl24 Ай бұрын

Thanks u for this. I just watched this vlog while having a really hard time with my agoraphobia and the shame that goes with it...but it kinda made me feel like I went on this mini trip with you, and also that maybe I'll be able to do something like this eventually. I used to love doing little staycations but havent been able to in years. Thank you for sharing this, Elyse. This is why you are one of my fav creators, because you share the hard stuff and make me feel less alone with my struggles.

@THEWLLAS97 Ай бұрын

I really appreciate you being on the internet. You just being you is so affirming! Also that dress is so cute and I love that you I immediately changed to be more comfy once you got back in your room to eat.

@strugglebus3661 3 ай бұрын

Im so proud of you, and i really love when you bring us with you on these adventures. Im excited to finish the video, even if you didn't make it the whole time.

@ladynokidsgustofwind5304 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for bringing us along. I’ve got high school sleepover vibes for sure

@christieo1180 2 ай бұрын

I am currently on a solo travel trip in Thailand and constantly gently anxiety-ing. So while I'm lying awake at 2 in the morning over thinking everything, this video popped up and made me feel less alone and less of a failure. So thank you for being so open and sharing content like this, it's really appreciated.

@theresacampbell4380 2 ай бұрын

This is the second vlog-style video of yours I've watched on a doomscroll on my way to a breakdown. Your content has helped a lot, from your silly little gigglings at yourself to the awkward interactions that are mulled over for long periods of time. I'm feeling a lot calmer and cheered up now, thank you so much for making content like this. Will definitely be watching in the future when I'm stressed (if my brain lets me). I hope your having a good day wherever you are!

@gabbyh9788 3 ай бұрын

My best friend just pulled out of our vacation this summer, so I was thinking of going on a quick staycation. Now, i definitely need to. And thanks for the idea of getting a good bathtub! As a very anxious person, your channel has helped so much. Thank you and have a wonderful weekend Elyse 💜

@sydney1808 3 ай бұрын

Please keep making these videos. I love them. I relate. I laugh. I get ideas for my own life. ✨

@emiilyrose 2 ай бұрын

i absolutely love these vlogs!! not only are you so charming and fun, the editing is great and it inspires me (chronic introvert) to go try new things!! put in the reps as jonas says!!

@erinh13 17 күн бұрын

Why are you so relatable? I love that about you. You're going to obsess over the almost accident the same way I do.... yep. Still thinking/talking about it. Years later, I still think about situations like the one you had.

@caitlinglover2636 2 ай бұрын

This is my kind of stay-cation! Thanks for bringing us along Elyse!

@racheldilbeck2384 2 ай бұрын

Elise Myers you are an Angel!!! So grateful for your channel…I have bpd and ptsd and watching you makes me feel so much better! Your words are so powerful…thank you. Mental health needs to be a normalized conversation and you have brought that to the table. I originally found your channel because I love to crochet…and I got a lot more than I bargained for watching you! Again thank you for everything🙏🏼

@Janine.Najarian 2 ай бұрын

kick the chair

@katieebabyy300 3 ай бұрын

Elyse you’re soooo amazing! Thank you for being you! 🫶🏼🫶🏼🥰🥰

@kimberlysaucedo2687 2 ай бұрын

That is amazing! I hope you had a great time. The books that I saw were great reads, too.

@breezeh1127 2 ай бұрын

You are such a beautiful spirit and I wish i could just hold your hands and say its all ok and take all your anxiety away for you❤ You are such a great person and I just want you to truly know that you are, in your own heart too.

@shineonyoucrazyalmond Ай бұрын

Thank you for all that you do, Elyse, and for the realness that comes with it. I am a fellow very anxious person, and you and I are around the same age. I'm home alone tonight for the first time in a long time and was on the brink of a little bit of a panic when I turned this on. Having you to relate to and your video to keep me company really turned my evening around.

@erinmlaswell 3 ай бұрын

You’re my favorite. I’m so glad you’re on KZfaq ☺️ Thanks for bringing us along during your staycation!!

@rosaliac.386 2 ай бұрын

Elyse you are a saint I swear. The break downs of how everything just feels WRONG when leaving the house is so accurate I almost started crying

@YesStefinitely 2 ай бұрын

Elyse you are my hero. Watching you do all these things gives me so much courage to try it someday too. From all of us nervous girls, thank you.

@CarrieB11 2 ай бұрын

This was a joy to watch. Every mom needs some time alone, at some point. Good for you! And I'm so proud of you for sticking with it and enjoying yourself!

@sashanick9533 2 ай бұрын

That was the greatest!! I have had a not so good day today and watching this video made me happy cry! You conquered so many fears in one video and had the best staycation that I feel all mom’s day dream about!! You go girl! Love your vlogs!!❤

@gingercyanide Ай бұрын

Not me almost in tears laughing at the first part because it's so relatable. I feel all these little anxious things too but you're so good at articulating all those feelings perfectly.

@marisagraham523 3 ай бұрын

I love seeing all of this long form vlogging from you so much! You always make me smile when I see your videos pop up! You’re such an inspiration for so many reasons! ❤

@tracidevault3976 2 ай бұрын

I love this video! My husband convinced me to go to a concert with him last night that has theater style seating. One of my big no's. We sat on the outside seats (none negotiable) with my husband by the isle. The lady by me was super sweet. Said hey we're neighbors, I said welcome! Off to a good start! Then I spent 3 plus hours wondering when and if I should be speaking to her to the point of total distraction. But I did it and I survived and had a pretty good time. ❤❤ love that you did this for yourself.

@lessismore5706 3 ай бұрын

I get anxiety driving to new places. This was well worth the drive…beautiful space. You’re putting words to all the thoughts that go through my mind in similar situations. I hope you have a restful staycation

@nicolearntz7809 2 ай бұрын

This was amazing! I am so proud of you for doing this! SO PROUD. And it looks like something I need to do. I never would have thought to take a solo staycation. Your favorite foods, books, a tub, room service and all the desserts! You did GOOD! Despite the setbacks you did it!!!! Thank you for showing it all. I laughed so many times because I KNOW! (I said “same” so many times.) Thank you for sharing this adventure, this challenge and ultimate triumph. ❤

@juliestrator 6 күн бұрын

this is so relatable!! I used to stream. mostly from home, but i did a couple of outside streams and everyone was like, woah you are so brave talking to the camera and doing all these things (that i usually feel to shy to do). i felt exactly this! like i'm there with someone, so it's less scary!!

@jacquie94 Ай бұрын

I have never felt so comforted and understood as I do when listening to you. My brain says so many of the same things and I just feel so much better knowing I’m not alone. (Btw, the last time I had to valet park at a hotel, I had similar amounts of chaos and I’m still nervous about the next time I’ll have to do it!!!)

@zorgbarley1762 2 ай бұрын

I love this video. This staycation looks amazing. Also, Elyse is a constant reminder that we can feel imperfect to ourselves and still be utterly amazing to other people.

@jajssblue 3 ай бұрын

I love how you keep trying new strategies. This is exactly where I am with my mental health.

@MidnightMunchiesandMore 3 ай бұрын

Same

@bridgyboo93 2 ай бұрын

I use conversational vlogs like this as body-doubling when I need to fold laundry, but don't want to fold laundry. So, thanks for bringing "us" along on vlogs. We're all helping each other. ❤

@HayleySulfridge 2 ай бұрын

19:20 is a perfect example of how i learned to calm my anxieties when i was younger. You were so stressed about how loud our door was, but look at your reaction to someone else’s door being just as loud. It was no biggie. That’s how MOST people react to things you worry they fixated on. Tell yourself that every time until you start to believe it. It helped me majorly. Moral of the story? Everyone has loud doors and no one is as bothered by it as you think 😂

@MrsYeee 3 ай бұрын

Elyse, you are amazing!!! So proud of you ❤ You're giving me courage to even think about one day doing a staycation.

@sarahl2502 2 ай бұрын

I feel like I’m starting to comment the same thing on all your videos, but I just have to thank you for making me feel normal. I have anxiety and sometimes when everything starts going wrong I just want the day to be over and I feel so alone. Like I’m the only one who struggles this much or I’m too awkward or something. But you (I don’t know how to say this) give me hope and a release (an Elyse release) from all that. You are so sweet and rather than wanting to get away from you (like how I feel people would react to me) I just want to be around you. Through your anxiety I see how you handle things with grace, and you go on living a good and happy life. It inspires me to do the same.

@miranda12309 2 ай бұрын

You are such a lovely human. Thank you for sharing your day ❤

@w4ntsm0r3 3 ай бұрын

I've been wanting to do this for so long and I always decide not to becuse its "silly". It looked so fun and relaxing. Good for you. ❤

@MissRobinHansen 3 ай бұрын

You are the best content creator by far. I adore you, your quirks, and the freedom you have to be yourself. ❤

@second0banana 2 ай бұрын

Watching you run water to wash your feet had big "Mister Rogers going on a visit to places in the neighborhood" energy and I loved everything about it. Probably a music thing. 10/10 no notes.

@elyse_myers 2 ай бұрын

I love this so much 😂

@taylorrobertson9273 3 ай бұрын

Every part of this is so relatable, it was so fun to watch. So happy you got to do this ❤❤

@Meaganredding 2 ай бұрын

You are so funny and relatable and adorable! When you said my body doesn’t know if it’s hot because panic attack or just hot I had to giggle because I have said the same thing. It’s so frustrating. You tell yourself you’re fine and it’s ok and your brain just can’t comprehend that and panics anyway.