Something I never do

Y'all want ass kissers 😂😂

Why doesn't this have more likes.

A lot of us are waking up. It’s already happening

U don't have nothing to offer men y'all just be trying to take looking for suckers

@@noirfit9721 poor mfers on section 8 be acting high and mighty too lol

Bm accept single mothers all the time 😂🙂

Same happened to me. A few years ago I got a new job and met a guy there who wanted to be my boyfriend. I told him I wasn't interested in dating a coworker but we acted like BF/GF anyways and became FWB. He cursed me out for being late to hangout. I told him I caught a flat tire on the way and had him on the phone the whole time while roadside service changed my tire. He asked to come sit with me but I refused because I was turned off and shook up from the curse out. I STILL met up with him afterwards and he ignored me for a few minutes and played on his phone. His friend was there and I told him everything. His friend said "yeah, that's how he acts when he doesn't get his way". My heart DROPPED! I prayed that night for God, to take him out my life because I was too scared to stand up to him about that situation. My schedule changed the next month and we were working opposite schedules AND I got moved to a different location. I slowly stopped answering his calls and left that job the following year. Eventually, he got a GF and blocked me on ALL social media YET still reached out via text and DMs. I stopped talking to him altogether and it's been a year since we spoke. BTW he has a baby mama who got engaged this past Thanksgiving and guess what? Him and the GF "conveniently" got engaged for Christmas. The baby mama found her wedding dress for Christmas and the GF "conveniently" found hers right before new year's. All though I'm glad I dodged that bullet, I'm still pissed he didn't think I was good enough to marry. Oh well.

@@xmswayzemx this sound waayyyy too messy. Good that you are out of this mess. And FWB is never a good idea girl! Keep that in mind. 🙏🏾

@@AJD7233 I wasn't sure about being his gf so I decided to fool around and be fwb but I should've passed on this option too. I'm just glad I didn't get pregnant, get any stds or get too serious and waste time. And right? I'm not sure who's faking the funk more, him or his gf/fiance cuz they seem to be trying to keep up with and 1 up the baby mama. Not gonna lie, I hope it blows up in their face and falls apart. Yes, I've been listening all day to gabby barrett - I hope 🤣

@@xmswayzemx well i dont think he did not wanted to marry you. You didnt want to be his girlfriend. Maybe if you wanted that he would marry you. But oh well, he still did some dumb things. And be happy you are NOT involved in this. He does not sound happy at all!!! And you are, without him! Period.💁🏽‍♀️🎀

Happy new year!!! God bless you!!

Smh yep me too, that silent treatment is toxic and it is considered emotional abuse. Send him some psych videos on the silent treatment. My ex also keeps trying to pop back like nothing happened. No sir. You will take accountability and change or i am ok with you staying ghost forever. Keep holding him accountable honey.

I think you should get off statistics and just get out and be friendly. Don't put math to socializing.

You'll never get any likes these people want bm to be ass kissers

As black folk we disrespect our children, even toddlers, and significant others way too much. We have very nasty mouths towards each other. That needs to stop. He's right, it's what people have accepted. We need self discipline because this I'm not perfect junk is gaslighting. In our community we curse out the people we're supposed to love the most and a lot of people think it's normal. It's not normal.. That's dysfunctional and sick. We have some serious psychological work to do over our verbal abuse.

@@superodalisque Our children are disrespect us as well. Let’s not make excuses on either side of the spectrum. If we’re going to go their then let’s talk about respect. There are a lot of psychological issues within the community No one is making it better. I don’t know exactly where your comment came from as far as kids and such and loving people who we should love BS. If your wrong you’re wrong.

@@Empressgem613 I respect your opinion. I can see your side. But speaking as a Mom, I never raised my voice to my child and he never has to me. I see a lot of loud fussing going around in too many black households. I see too many of us quick to have a fresh mouth even with strangers and dump all of our personal problems on them and out our most negative private business in the streets. If we, both fathers and mother's, don't communicate that way they have nowhere to learn it from. Environment means a lot. If a child sees our man disrespectful of us as well as society at large they are going to try it too. My take is that black women also have been worked on not to value themselves. So we attracted bullies because we are nurturing and understanding. But most of us both adults and children need to dial back on the fresh mouth. But sometimes if black women aren't that way they get run over. People complain that some of us are shrill but it's their abusive life threatening behavior that caused it. I feel sad that there are people who actually think somebody not acting stupid and talking loud is "idealized". I grew up with a whole family klan with men who never once cursed or raised their voices around women or children. These men had Jim Crowe pressure and still didn't do it. Having low expectations helps no one. As a whole we need more discipline and self control. That's why we have so much violence among black men. Manners have a purpose.

@@superodalisque I stay far away from people who pose to be perfect. That’s just not the reality. I love that your world is perfect but I’m a realist. Luckily this is social media where you are able to say and be whomever you wish to be, it’s pretty pretentious. Have a good one.

It’s not about what they feel after you leave; it’s about YOU (how you deserve to be treated w/ respect & if he doesn’t, he doesn’t deserve you). What he thinks is no longer your problem. Simple as that.

hope you vetted him

Why do you think women are more likely to file for divorce? If you have any male friends or brothers you would know damn well men are out here being more trifling to their partner.

@@Alize.W And how are you so sure about that? Have you been around the world? You’re only talking about what the media displays. Women have high standards for no good reason whatsoever, you women choose a bad boy instead of a good guy and when that bad boy hurts you women you guys then turn around and then say how all men are bad. You guys did this, you people are to be blamed.

I think this is a direct response to a letter from a female subscriber. Of course this information is applicable to both genders. Personally I wouldn't get so hung up on why he's talking to women. It's good information to have for everyone involved. Most especially for people like me who are people pleasers and have a problem engaging in direct and assertive communication.

@@Onepieceistheworstfuckinganime come on it’s not rocket science.. if most women all around the world ( on social media) have the same issues with men - I live in the UK btw but originally from Nigeria and men are the same! you all are wired the same that’s why I have the utmost respect for the few men who are trying to be the best version of themselves. the ones that although are not perfect & have made mistakes in the past, have decided to turn it around and be the man they were destined to be. A man who treats women with respect ( We deserve it) we are loving, caring by nature & sometimes, we endure a lot of cr*p from men & still stay longer than we should. We are also smaller & physical weaker than men but somehow strong. Part of a man’s job is to protect, I would say provide but most women make their own money so men don’t even have to worry about that. I just think men & women are wired differently & both have to communicate, listen & understand each other.. if not, there will always be this divide b/w us & we will keep going round in circles..

@@tarabrown740 You really think anyone is interested in reading your irrelevant paragraph?