addressing the accusations

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VangelinaSkov

VangelinaSkov

4 ай бұрын

I hope you'll listen to everything I have to say.
I also want to address the delay in my response; the Essence of Thought video came out on Saturday and I was out all day (from 7am to 3/4am). I spent most of Sunday sleeping and cleaning. Today was the first day I could properly look at this.

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@VangelinaSkov
@VangelinaSkov 4 ай бұрын
Hi lovelies
@mayaaditi
@mayaaditi 4 ай бұрын
Just finished the video. I am so sorry you have to go though this, it's obviously very stressful for you. Please take care of yourself, your audience will not disappear on you, I certainly won't 🙃
@TheBlackGunslinger
@TheBlackGunslinger 4 ай бұрын
You did nothing to warrant the vitriol you received. Happy to know you're seeing the positivity.
@reviveearly1877
@reviveearly1877 4 ай бұрын
Hey, I watched her video too and straight away I got red flags. I'm a patreon of yours so firmly on your side, but her video was very telling of what type of person she is, mostly when she was talking about herself and dramatizes everything. Don't be afraid of her, your community is still here and backing you up.
@littlesecret3856
@littlesecret3856 4 ай бұрын
Here from Omegon's video on this. All the positive thoughts your way!
@10me20theoneandonly
@10me20theoneandonly 4 ай бұрын
I think a lot of people on essence’s video are kind of just hating to hate. You have a lot of genuine fans because you’re very much a genuine person! You’ll be okay I think ☺️
@LackingSaint
@LackingSaint 4 ай бұрын
Hey I don't know if we have any kind of audience overlap but as someone who became familiar with you through the hbomb controversy (an unfortunately negative intro) I think you've done a great job addressing this situation and I'm so sorry for the clear emotional toll it has taken on you. as someone who has dealt with plagiarism on my own channel recently it seems very transparent that this situation was handled in bad faith to capitalize on people who've already had the well poisoned against you from prior drama, and immediately demanding your patreon donations/contacting sponsors is extremely poor behaviour. wishing you the best through this!
@sephirothwarrior
@sephirothwarrior 4 ай бұрын
A wild Jack appeared!!!
@kkilljoy3588
@kkilljoy3588 4 ай бұрын
You DO have audience overlap!
@edithhuelskamp1649
@edithhuelskamp1649 4 ай бұрын
Joining in on the audience overlap. I agree with everything Jack has said here.
@beardedbear9901
@beardedbear9901 4 ай бұрын
Audience overlap here for sure. If this continues to escalate, I hope you can use your voice to amplify and bring support. Love your work.
@michaelkenner3289
@michaelkenner3289 4 ай бұрын
I mean, some audience overlap. Me at the very least.
@mracula1667
@mracula1667 4 ай бұрын
I think my favorite thing EoT said was your two week old video has been causing her mental and physical stress for a month and a half. Very normal and rational behavior from someone who definitely isn’t a bad faith actor/cry bully.
@NexLegacyAccount
@NexLegacyAccount 4 ай бұрын
The emotional distress is mostly coming from an entire community of Lily's former friends, fans, partners, and sibling being utterly pissed and officially done giving her the benefit of the doubt. - Britt
@cassy2789
@cassy2789 3 ай бұрын
If people don't want to be talked about and commented on them don't post for the whole internet/world to judge/see/comment on. it's all common sense and I'll never understand the hypocrisy and bs that those very people who are crying about people talking about them are the same ones talking crap about so many other people and always pointing fingers to get attention yet they hate when people point fingers back......grow up or get offline... It's seriously that easy.
@veronicadow1407
@veronicadow1407 4 ай бұрын
saying you’re not Irish when you’ve got one of the cutest Irish accents going is completely absurd (seriously though, this was such a thoughtful and genuine reflection, this is why I appreciate your content and I hope you keep on trucking 💜)
@yukiandkanamekuran
@yukiandkanamekuran 4 ай бұрын
yeah the claim she ain't irish while she has an irish accent is really really weird.
@Bsskhwvsh
@Bsskhwvsh 2 ай бұрын
​@@yukiandkanamekuran maybe she wasn't born there
@yukiandkanamekuran
@yukiandkanamekuran 2 ай бұрын
@@Bsskhwvsh even so, she grew up there. i.. i mean like.. you have to be at least a little irish or belong to an irish family to pick up regional dialect.
@nataliebateman1151
@nataliebateman1151 4 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for supporting Ethel. After rewatching the video, I realized how manipulative and rude she was being throughout the video. Which I hadn't actually noticed before (I don't know how). I deleted my comment of support in her video and you have my full support. You're a sweet and kind-hearted person. I wish you all of the support and love in the world, you deserve the best. Again I'm really sorry. If you see this, I hope you're doing well.
@breel75
@breel75 4 ай бұрын
To be fair, with how Ethel was putting things, its easy to get lost in emotions. They have a way of saying things where it doesn't overly let people think unless they listen to it multiple times or go into it expecting that sort of behavior. I think the way Ethel put things really triggered people's emotional side, which isn't really the fault of anyone. The use (and continued use of) strong words gets to everyone.
@gablison
@gablison 3 ай бұрын
If you followed the Rachel Oates/Rationality Rules drama some years back, you would've seen how unhinged Ethel is. Holy Shite, it was crazy how relentless and persistent Ethel was at trying to bully Rachel into self harming, it was insane!
@nataliebateman1151
@nataliebateman1151 3 ай бұрын
@@gablison I'm a follower of Rachel Oates but I never caught that video so I had absolutely no idea. I only started watching Ethel (Never subbed) in the past couple of months because of the Lily Orchard videos and that was it. So I was completely out of the loop.
@gablison
@gablison 3 ай бұрын
@@nataliebateman1151 That's fair most of the drama happened on X/Twitter so makes sense if you only follow Rachel on here rather than X.
@nataliebateman1151
@nataliebateman1151 3 ай бұрын
@@gablison I don't use that website much since it's a complete hellscape. I try and limit my time on there since everywhere you go, people are arguing and stirring up drama over nothing.
@raelynm3902
@raelynm3902 4 ай бұрын
I'm gonna be blunt and I hope this puts things in a helpful perspective. Someone else's trauma is NOT the fault of anyone else but the PERSON WHO COMMITTED THE TRAUMA. Period. End of story. I am a survivor of DV and abuse from my childhood. I would never blame someone for something THEY HAD NO FRIGGIN PART OF. The fact that someone would relate their abuse in the past to someone years down the line is disgusting and mentally deranged.
@sgtmcbrinn
@sgtmcbrinn 4 ай бұрын
As someone who was SA'd as a kid, her using her past trauma as a tool to try and win an argument is downright disgusting and reprehensible.
@dangerxbadger2300
@dangerxbadger2300 4 ай бұрын
Yeah, Ethel is completely and fully off their rocker.
@moodybagels6564
@moodybagels6564 4 ай бұрын
That's not at all the situation here though. The issue was with Vangelina removing the victims' names, effectively removing their voices and dehumanizing them. It's about Vangelina being disrespectful to sexual abuse survivors while claiming to be advocating for them.
@writheagainsoon
@writheagainsoon 4 ай бұрын
​@@moodybagels6564as a survivor, Vangelina has done more for us than most people with infinitely more wealth and power have done in their entire lives. One innocuous innocent slip-up does not negate that.
@yee6870
@yee6870 4 ай бұрын
amanda tori meating
@Bluessoulphoenix
@Bluessoulphoenix 4 ай бұрын
"She's a liar! She can't be Irish because she's from another country!" was the best palette cleanser in this video lol
@frumtheground
@frumtheground 4 ай бұрын
Right? It's amazing that people got up in arms about that. It's possible to have dual citizenship or parents of different nationalities!! Like, dang!
@htewing
@htewing 4 ай бұрын
That was so mind-bendingly stupid lmao. I get the same crap though, as the kid of mixed-nationality parents, just obviously not to the same scale
@spookyspice596
@spookyspice596 4 ай бұрын
That was the stupidest argument I've ever heard.
@shannond1511
@shannond1511 4 ай бұрын
That is the absolute best! I love when idiots just let it shine!
@mikalcarruthers
@mikalcarruthers 4 ай бұрын
Does it even matter if Vangelina is Irish or Macedonian? Like who the hell cares?
@Shortstopization
@Shortstopization 4 ай бұрын
The craziest part is that she [EoT] deleted any and all comments questioning her claims. Every single comment on the video is supportive of her POV and sees you as the villain.... but it's giving me the impression that she's deleting anything that contradicts her narrative because the majority of comments on other videos are siding with you. She says in the video that she will remove harmful comments, but its clear she's going beyond that.
@fizziep0p696
@fizziep0p696 4 ай бұрын
I noticed that too. There’s not even a single comment that’s neutral let alone negative.. I feel like a lot of the people on her side are either EOT’s extra spam accounts or ppl with a random hatred for Rachel oats who just believe Ethel’s every word
@mashaa.7509
@mashaa.7509 4 ай бұрын
That way her audience wont learn information that might make them change their minds.
@lizzylang9941
@lizzylang9941 4 ай бұрын
Yeah she does that. And she blocks the commenter.
@Klarid
@Klarid 4 ай бұрын
You wanna know why she brings up the childhood SA, the injury, your comment section? It's so the video can start with a big content warning including all of those things to make everything seem worse.
@moodybagels6564
@moodybagels6564 4 ай бұрын
No. It's because Vangelina removed the victims' names, effectively removing their voices and dehumanizing them. It's about Vangelina being disrespectful to sexual abuse survivors while claiming to be advocating for them.
@minrui
@minrui 4 ай бұрын
except that removing people's names is something GOOD unless explicitly told by the victim that they want their name out there @@moodybagels6564
@astralram
@astralram 3 ай бұрын
@@AJ-gt6ts this fr. i cant speak for other survivors, but if things about any of my abusers came to light, id rather drama channels/news channels/etc. kept my name out of it. i might speak up personally, but thats for me to do. nobody is removing my voice or dehumanising me by leaving my name out; on the contrary, i feel respected, like the reporter sees i am a person outside of my SA experiences. (but hey maybe thats just me, since it seems moodybagels is the arbiter of truth on the matter /s)
@AbigailAlzetta
@AbigailAlzetta Күн бұрын
@@moodybagels6564shut up
@MarieBSleepin
@MarieBSleepin 4 ай бұрын
Talking about your reputation burning on the fires of your history and having food taken from their starving mouth are both examples of the type of over-dramatized things someone with Main Character Syndrome would say.
@brookehansen6973
@brookehansen6973 4 ай бұрын
I'm not there yet, but it sounds like weak side villain dialogue from here
@The-Busy-Beeeee
@The-Busy-Beeeee 4 ай бұрын
​@@brookehansen6973no cause it so does tho
@sarapenn5474
@sarapenn5474 4 ай бұрын
It sounds like she gave you less than 48hrs to fork over money to stop her from putting you on blast without even directly showing what they accused you of. That’s insane and you’re handling it better than I would.
@mariaparabello6344
@mariaparabello6344 4 ай бұрын
If she really went to your sponsor to badmouth you, it could be a case of defamation and tortious interference. Meaning she intentionally interfered with your business and income.
@DefconDelta88
@DefconDelta88 4 ай бұрын
This is quite literally defamation and extortion. Defamation is a civil suit, but extortion is a 2nd degree felony in most states in the US.
@ColFlustered
@ColFlustered 4 ай бұрын
It's also pretty clearly done with malicious intent considering the "make sure your reputation burns" part. Yikes. 😬
@muffinman6048
@muffinman6048 3 ай бұрын
>she
@brittsheff
@brittsheff 4 ай бұрын
I seriously admire you Vangelina for how composed and thoughtful your response is to this deranged maniac EoT. I paused to read the screenshot of the script from their video, and holy moly does it scream “I am an angry, miserable individual who enjoys taking my rage out on others to try and make their lives just as miserable as mine is.” They need serious help. Their mean-spiritedness and misdirected rage is off the charts. On a side note, your “Macedonian/Irish” explanation made me lol! “Sometimes, people from two different countries can have a baby together” 😂 the fact that there are some internet trolls out there who needed that explanation is too funny!
@sherikrupp
@sherikrupp 4 ай бұрын
I will make sure your reputation burns??? I need her to go to therapy. If she’s already going to therapy she needs to go to more therapy.
@jaybee2337
@jaybee2337 4 ай бұрын
What a disturbed, hateful person she is!
@cunni3tv
@cunni3tv 4 ай бұрын
If she is going to therapy she needs to change her therapist and sue the actual one bc she is getting scammed if this is the result of therapy
@dollface2907
@dollface2907 4 ай бұрын
@@cunni3tvsadly seen some therapists instead of helping just make things worse
@WildWildWeasel
@WildWildWeasel 4 ай бұрын
No therapy, straight up to a maxsec prison or the loonbin.
@CleoHarperReturns
@CleoHarperReturns 4 ай бұрын
I think she should fire her incompetent therapist and find another because the current one hasn't helped her at all.
@ThePixelatedWarrior2008
@ThePixelatedWarrior2008 4 ай бұрын
If I’m being honest with you, Vangelina, this was an amazing response video. You addressed things, but were also able to admit that you did have a few faults in the situation. This response is up there with Kwite’s response. Absolutely amazing response!
@VangelinaSkov
@VangelinaSkov 4 ай бұрын
I actually know nothing about the Kwite thing yet but thank you x
@egg_bun_
@egg_bun_ 4 ай бұрын
Omg yes, Kwite's response is IMMACULATE
@debphelan-devon7928
@debphelan-devon7928 4 ай бұрын
I agree this was a brilliant response
@phantomeowz
@phantomeowz 4 ай бұрын
it's actually INSANE how many people are in support of essence of thought under her video. The way she replies to comments is petty and manipulative, the way their thumbnail is "Vangelina Skov Scammed her patrons" is very petty and manipulative, The way that she likes comments made by people who obviously don't know what they're talking about to make sure the comments made by people who DO know what they're talking about aren't seen is petty and manipulative, the way they bring up their trauma when it has nothing to do with Vangelina is petty and manipulative, the way that she says you're "threatening her with your lawyer" is petty and manipulative. This entire situation makes me angry for you, and I'm sorry.
@karolineCPH
@karolineCPH 4 ай бұрын
I just skimmed her comment section, and she likes EVERY comment on there. Is that normal for youtubers? It just seems a bit obsessive.
@yukiandkanamekuran
@yukiandkanamekuran 4 ай бұрын
@@karolineCPH only smaller ones, honestly.
@maiarustad5062
@maiarustad5062 4 ай бұрын
@@karolineCPHShe heavily curates her comment section, I’m pretty sure she set it up so she has to personally approve every comment that gets posted.
@alecrutz6979
@alecrutz6979 4 ай бұрын
@@maiarustad5062funny, considering lily orchard does the same thing.
@Midorikonokami
@Midorikonokami 4 ай бұрын
You made a mistake, you owned it, you rectified the mistake, you apologised. Thank you for being real.
@dotcom3015
@dotcom3015 4 ай бұрын
Did vangelina apologize to the people whose content she used for her video, or did she just apologize to her audience. Cause it doesn’t seem like essence forgives her
@Midorikonokami
@Midorikonokami 4 ай бұрын
@@dotcom3015 frankly, yes. She has said she was careless in finding her source and careless in tagging, and has rectified it. That's not easy to do, but she did. She doesn't like this person, and despite what the internet says, there is nothing wrong with two people not liking one another, because not everyone gets along, and that's ok. If this person doesn't want to accept an apology, that's ok too. If they resort to harassment and flying monkeys, that's just immature.
@yukiandkanamekuran
@yukiandkanamekuran 4 ай бұрын
It wasn't even that big of a mistake, like it's okay if you haven't explicitly double checked every source. I mean, it's a good idea, but if you skip over one or two things, I wouldn't say it's a massive red flag.
@dotcom3015
@dotcom3015 4 ай бұрын
@@Midorikonokami essence just asked for payment for the work that vangelina used. Then she provided proof of how that work was taken. Vangelina has only threatened a lawyer and provided no proof. Vangelina has also not directly apologized to essence considering they have direct email contact and she also has not credited essence. So tell me where I can find the rectifying of her so called ‘mistake’?
@7secouds607
@7secouds607 4 ай бұрын
@@yukiandkanamekuran Although I don't think either side is fully right here, she was covering the topic of a groomer, she was calling someone a groomer, she should be checking EVERYTHING when saying that stuff, that's something you should expect from people making these kinds of videos, getting those kinds of facts wrong could fuck up someone's whole life. You should not be letting her by with "it's not even a big mistake", because this is a big thing she shouldn't have been doing in the first place. I don't think she's fully wrong, it was just a mistake, but I don't think it's smart to act like it wasn't a big one or that it's fine not to double check these things, you should be checking every source.
@LazyBedhead
@LazyBedhead 4 ай бұрын
Honestly Vangelina, I think you’re focusing on the wrong thing here. Ethel has no ground for a case of plagiarism against you, but it’s not because you didn’t properly credit her, it’s because there’s nothing of her’s to credit anyways. Screenshots of public tweets and tumblr posts are not something Ethel legally can claim as her content. Just because she took a screenshot of something Lily posted online, doesn’t mean she own Lily’s post now that she has a screenshot and presents it in a video. By that logic, she would also have to go after Definitely Bored Oranges, because he also used Ethel’s screenshots in his video on Lily three months ago. You can’t copyright claim screenshots you took. It would make sense if you copied her word for word from her content, but she doesn’t provide a single instance of you copying her videos script other than you came to the same conclusions about Lily Orchard. Paraphrasing having a similar opinion online is not enough evidence to claim plagiarism. And the fact the first thing she demanded after not providing any evidence of plagiarism directly to you in her email was money shows she’s not coming at this in good faith. It’s one thing if say a band claims music played in a video and claims monetization of the usage of their music, but it’s another to claim active plagiarism and say “compensate me or I’ll burn your reputation to the ground.” I get wanting to be credited for you work if you feel you’re not give proper credence, and I understand wanting your work to be financially viable and recognized, however, you cannot claim screenshots as copywritten work or plagiarized work because anyone can take a screenshot of something that’s public. There’s no artistic expression there to protect.
@Ali_D_Katt
@Ali_D_Katt 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for putting it so eloquently this is what I was searching for the words to say. That lady is a nut and is owed nothing in my opinion. I'd speak to a lawyer because extortion and blackmail are criminal and if she lost a sponsor from nutty bird calling them that's text book defamation.
@smallphoenix13
@smallphoenix13 4 ай бұрын
Didn’t think about this before but you totally explained why she didn’t bother to issue a copyright strike and instead just went straight to threats! She literally has nothing to ISSUE the strike on! Why did this not come to me until you explained it?
@datsun4x
@datsun4x 4 ай бұрын
I stubbed my toe before watchimg this video. You'll he hearimg from my lawyer.
@sungexpression9093
@sungexpression9093 4 ай бұрын
Ethel: short on rent and struggling to make ends meet “Surely this must be vangelina’s fault” Lmao
@GraveYardShif7
@GraveYardShif7 4 ай бұрын
lmao 😂🤣
@Tkokat
@Tkokat 4 ай бұрын
That email alone is enough as evidence for extortion.
@DefconDelta88
@DefconDelta88 4 ай бұрын
Which is, might I add, a 2nd degree felony or higher in most US states. She has a case for a felony prosecution AND a civil lawsuit.
@faithlessfate
@faithlessfate 4 ай бұрын
Considering she is not an American citizen this becomes an international issue. Essence has really fucked themselves if Vangelina takes proper action.
@TheLollygirl69
@TheLollygirl69 4 ай бұрын
This ☝️
@dotcom3015
@dotcom3015 4 ай бұрын
@@faithlessfateessence is not American either
@anticorporatists9959
@anticorporatists9959 4 ай бұрын
I'm wondering if this is either iilluminaughtii or the friends of iilluminaughtii
@rueriddle
@rueriddle 4 ай бұрын
That KZfaqr is an extortionist. They have threatened you. They have a history of this behavior. You aren't losing me as a subscriber
@djstringsmusic2994
@djstringsmusic2994 4 ай бұрын
Not the first time they've done it either. They did worse to Rachael Oates a few years ago
@RianLKLock
@RianLKLock 4 ай бұрын
Essences of thought more like Essences of a idiot also isn't extortion a crime
@nightgenerator
@nightgenerator 4 ай бұрын
​@@djstringsmusic2994totally, except the "years ago" part...she's STILL obsessively going after Rachel
@peachybun
@peachybun 4 ай бұрын
@@djstringsmusic2994she’s still so fixated on Rachel Oates, it’s unreal 😓
@djstringsmusic2994
@djstringsmusic2994 4 ай бұрын
@@peachybun no way??? After half a decade?
@platinumaether8198
@platinumaether8198 4 ай бұрын
Screenshots aren’t plagiarism. Eot is fucking unhinged.
@DaniZeros
@DaniZeros 4 ай бұрын
Btw, about the "Essenceofthought seems to be on bad faith": as far as I've seen, Ethel has not once acted on good faith.
@Qb3nsis
@Qb3nsis 4 ай бұрын
Whether Ethyl believe she was taken advantage of or not, telling someone you're going to do something unless you receive $ is literally extortion. First I heard of all this junk. Peace and Love through all of it.
@neb1167
@neb1167 4 ай бұрын
Literally extortion and even if the video was plagiarized it would STILL BE EXTORTION. I can’t believe this person, what is wrong with them?
@Anonymous30174
@Anonymous30174 4 ай бұрын
It’s blackmail too she can get in so much trouble for doing that to Vangelina
@Conformist138
@Conformist138 4 ай бұрын
I haven't seen the video yet, but this comment is the top one and all I can think is that if it's **that** Ethyl, then it's gonna be wild and abusive.
@ScreamingMothVibes
@ScreamingMothVibes 4 ай бұрын
@@Conformist138 I need an update as soon as you finish on what you think now. 😂
@Bullshotinbutt
@Bullshotinbutt 4 ай бұрын
Problem with Ethyl's videos (all of them) is that she perpetually thinks she is being a victim or bullied or taken advantage of and now, seems to be using this victimhood as a grift. IMHO.
@rgxwrestlingmedia
@rgxwrestlingmedia 4 ай бұрын
Sounds like clear extortion. If they're putting a figure on it, instead of "hey, I've noticed this, can you take it down please? it's dodgy af.
@PhoebeTheFairy56
@PhoebeTheFairy56 4 ай бұрын
I've seen their video, they _did_ originally ask her to credit them (instead of even asking to take it down), in a comment on the video instead of in an email
@kyletucker3811
@kyletucker3811 4 ай бұрын
​@@PhoebeTheFairy56All due respect, that changes nothing about the extortion claim. Nor does it prove plagiarism.
@michaelkeller5555
@michaelkeller5555 4 ай бұрын
Alright, I don't like admitting this for obvious reasons, but when I was younger (late teens/early 20s) I had a tendency to use my experience with CSA for attention and sympathy. It's gross, I understand that now. But that also means I can smell that kind of behavior in others a mile away, and that's exactly what she's doing by bringing up her childhood trauma. She's bringing it up for attention to make everyone look at her and feel sorry for her. Also, I think the word you're looking for with most of this is manipulative.
@deltawhiskey1998
@deltawhiskey1998 4 ай бұрын
It’s not gross- its processing, especially at that age, when you’re brain still isn’t finished developing. Humans aren’t perfect, we learn and heal and change and grow! And there is nothing “gross” about wanting attention and sympathy when you’ve experienced a serious childhood trauma & breach of trust like CSA - especially if the ppl who didn’t get the attention & sympathy you were from the adults who were supposed to protect you & keep you safe you from harm. What isn’t okay is using our own trauma as an excuse for causing harm to others. And even then, it doesn’t mean the person is intentionally causing harm. And also, in the same way that at a certain point, they are responsible for doing their own healing- we are responsible for setting boundaries and keeping ourselves safe and/or finding healthy ways to cope with, process & heal any harm to ourselves. It’s a ballance, and life is both difficult & beautiful. Anyway, hope this doesn’t come across as lecture or out of pocket - I just hate to hear some1 being so harsh about themselves, especially for such an understandable and human behaviour! Im so very sorry that some1 used their power to hurt you and take away your innocence/safety as a child. I hope you know that it was not your fault in any way, and it should never have happened 💕. You deserved so much more than that, you deserved to have safety & protection. And you absolutely deserved attention & sympathy to help you in your healing process. I sincerely hope that you are getting the attention & sympathy & have are on your healing & recovery journey 💕🙏🫶💕
@jupitersnoot4915
@jupitersnoot4915 4 ай бұрын
even if it's processing, maybe people should try and process trauma in a way that doesn't involve manipulating and harming other people. 'processing trauma' is not an excuse to manipulate and attempt to control people.@@deltawhiskey1998
@AndyAyala0101
@AndyAyala0101 4 ай бұрын
@@deltawhiskey1998 we know it's you Ethel lol
@MissingmyBabbu
@MissingmyBabbu 3 ай бұрын
I would also bet talking about it is so she can put a content/trigger warning for SA at the beginning so people think it's got something to do with Vangelina.
@lalicornenoire
@lalicornenoire 4 ай бұрын
You're not losing me. You did an honest mistake with those screenshots by not checking the source - it happens. You won't do it again, and I am quite certain of that with how terrified you sounded in that video. Your reputation won't burn - you've acknowledged your wrongs, said sorry, said no to harrasment - you did everything right. You'll be okay.
@i_am_ava
@i_am_ava 4 ай бұрын
Agreed ❤
@goopah
@goopah 4 ай бұрын
Yep. That email was off the chart emotional and aggressive. Trying to use fear as a motivator to give them money. Unfortunately, that strategy sometimes works. Hopefully Vangelina stands her ground. Hang in there, girl!
@VangelinaSkov
@VangelinaSkov 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much I really appreciate it
@flopbr1
@flopbr1 4 ай бұрын
I'll paraphrase what I said on the accuser's video: Asking 30% of ALL monthly revenue because of a few screenshots taken from a public tumblr post is crazy, and spending 90% of the video trying to make their audience pity them and comparing taking screenshots with scientific research ☠
@malloryharding882
@malloryharding882 4 ай бұрын
I stopped watching Ethyl’s video after they spent so long making us feel bad for them.
@Em22-wtf
@Em22-wtf 4 ай бұрын
I would t even give them the satisfaction of a click on their chnl, let alone a video. What a despicable, rotten, self hating, human being.
@anotherwaterfrog
@anotherwaterfrog 4 ай бұрын
pretty sure they delete comments too lol. doubt your comment is still there
@edithhuelskamp1649
@edithhuelskamp1649 4 ай бұрын
It popped up in my feed yesterday so I watched it out of curiosity, having never heard of that creator before. I barely made it through half of it before I couldn't take it anymore. She seemed to me like one of these creators that thinks they own a topic completely if they've ever covered it. After listening to Vangelina it's clear that none of what Ethyl claimed was even sincere. She is just being a darkly insignificant blight on other people.
@anyght
@anyght 4 ай бұрын
Did they delete it? All the comments I saw were all positive so i thought they were deleting any opposing views
@beetothetee
@beetothetee 4 ай бұрын
I knew EoT sounded familiar- then realized they were the one who’s been harassing Rachel Oates for years. I’m so so sorry they’re extorting you- that’s 100% what it is. They didn’t even try to make amends. They wanted to get paid to go away and now they’re mad that you couldn’t be bullied into paying them off.
@Lyysabeth
@Lyysabeth 4 ай бұрын
Ohhhhhh that's how they sound familiar!
@Nachocuppajo
@Nachocuppajo 4 ай бұрын
NOT RACHEL OATES I LOVE HER CONTENT
@beetothetee
@beetothetee 4 ай бұрын
@@Nachocuppajo same!!
@whatscookingoodlookin1
@whatscookingoodlookin1 4 ай бұрын
I remember seeing a video on her and being so confused. And by that point there were a ton of them on Rachel and I had only really watch a few of both their content so I was just sitting there like….??? What’s going on? This situation is really making everything make more sense
@Ikine557
@Ikine557 4 ай бұрын
Is she still bothering Rachel? I thought that situation was resolved years ago.
@Deadpool4president
@Deadpool4president 4 ай бұрын
30% of everything? That's absolutely not how copyright works
@kaibird542
@kaibird542 4 ай бұрын
Yeah when I initially heard “30% of the video’s ad revenue” I was like “okay, I guess that makes sense…” But wanting 30% of her Patreon money AND 30% of the sponsorship money??? That’s definitely a step WAY too far
@Metal_Enjoyer
@Metal_Enjoyer 4 ай бұрын
On a personal experience her community discord is probably the most "no fun allowed" server I've ever seen. I got banned for a meme that apparently "made fun of people with seizures" when it didn't do that at ALL.
@brookehansen6973
@brookehansen6973 4 ай бұрын
People with seizures make fun of themselves 😭
@IxiaRayne
@IxiaRayne 4 ай бұрын
Wanna hold a bet how long it will take Ethel to accuse you of ‘weaponising white women tears’ or saying Vangelina manipulated her viewers by being emotional/ crying. 🙃
@britzkrieg2
@britzkrieg2 4 ай бұрын
2 days. 🤑
@beowulfandstuff5547
@beowulfandstuff5547 4 ай бұрын
3 tops​@@britzkrieg2
@_Sapph_
@_Sapph_ 4 ай бұрын
I'm sure she's adding it in the script now lol
@VangelinaSkov
@VangelinaSkov 4 ай бұрын
I nearly cut that whole part of the video cause I was expecting that :/
@user-eu3hi2vo3e
@user-eu3hi2vo3e 4 ай бұрын
Don't give her any ideas 🤣
@nap0038
@nap0038 4 ай бұрын
Alright, I don’t comment twice on videos usually, but this is a very strong one. This has to be one of the best defusings of a situation accompanied with a total table flip that I’ve witnessed on the platform. Most apologies come out with apathy, deflection, or emotional drownings, but this video is a complete reversal of that. You took accountability for mistakes you may have made (honestly they’re typical “mistakes” done during research), explained your side of things in a calm and direct manner, and you didn’t really fire back at the other side, considering what they’ve been doing to you. You’ve earned a new subscriber for sure, and this is a great testament to your strong character.
@Mspoor70
@Mspoor70 4 ай бұрын
Agree👏👏👏
@dizzypdx
@dizzypdx 4 ай бұрын
Yeah, I subscribed due to this video too. So much class
@escabasket153
@escabasket153 4 ай бұрын
I also subbed because of this, though I’ve been watching her Illuminaughtii series for a while, this made me become a subscriber.
@wanderingegg_
@wanderingegg_ 4 ай бұрын
Completely agree! I also subbed because of this video.
@verucasaltpile3510
@verucasaltpile3510 4 ай бұрын
I think the most bonkers thing about her video is her bookending it with "I'm human, I'm fallible, so if I'm wrong please understand my intentions are good!" and literally sandwiched between this paperthin disclaimer is her saying "IM GOING TO FUCKING DESTROY YOU AND BURN YOUR REPUTATION TO THE GROUND" LIKE SIS WHAT??? HUH??? WHAT???
@ItsMeKelso
@ItsMeKelso 4 ай бұрын
That’s so weird people wanna accuse you of lying about being Irish… Like what would someone benefit by claiming their Irish if they weren’t...
@yukiandkanamekuran
@yukiandkanamekuran 4 ай бұрын
it's definitely giving chronically online.
@MyScreenNameIsTroubledOne
@MyScreenNameIsTroubledOne 4 ай бұрын
The kickass accent maybe? I dunno. 🤷‍♂️😂
@RachelOates
@RachelOates 4 ай бұрын
So proud of how strong and open you’ve been throughout all this ❤️
@lexxist
@lexxist 4 ай бұрын
RANDOMLY REFRESHED TO SEE THIS ??? HI???
@Psnrspxb
@Psnrspxb 4 ай бұрын
Hi Rachel I'm so sorry what she's doing to you as well just stay yourself bc you're a strong and amazing person
@xoxorosequartz
@xoxorosequartz 4 ай бұрын
i hope they will leave you and vangelina alone because it’s gone too far
@DaniZeros
@DaniZeros 4 ай бұрын
That garbage is still going on? I just disconnected after the Noel Plum and RR take years ago. Omg, Ethel, go fuck yourself already... Keep strong, Rachel! 🙂
@DaniZeros
@DaniZeros 4 ай бұрын
Can barely believe douche Ethel did not stop after all the trans debacle years ago. Keep strong Rachel!
@BigAl2k6
@BigAl2k6 4 ай бұрын
"I was raped as a child and I'm somehow going to blame it on Skov" Jesus christ
@MrJimmyTide
@MrJimmyTide 4 ай бұрын
This is why we have victim-blamers and people who don’t believe victims. The pick-mes who ruin it for everyone else.
@andrewjones1143
@andrewjones1143 4 ай бұрын
​@@MrJimmyTideExactly true!
@LittleMaitea
@LittleMaitea 4 ай бұрын
@@MrJimmyTidewe also have victimblamers because some people assume everyone has the same experience or don’t have enough ounce of empathy … BUT also because of what you said It’s sad just sad how a small group always ruins it for all
@moodybagels6564
@moodybagels6564 4 ай бұрын
That's not at all the situation here though. The issue was with Vangelina removing the victims' names, effectively removing their voices and dehumanizing them. It's about Vangelina being disrespectful to sexual abuse survivors while claiming to be advocating for them.
@LittleMaitea
@LittleMaitea 4 ай бұрын
@@moodybagels6564 sounds rather like a clashing of views then something done to hurt people Dataprotection vs. Exposure From my experiences I wouldn’t want to be broadcasted for what happened to me. If a KZfaqr with a bigger audience did it they couldn’t take it back. If I wanted to be broadcasted I could reach out to the KZfaqr and ask that they include me so I can show the world I’m a survivor. Or make a video myself… Also not using the names is cleverer to avoid court cases So without asking every victim this was a logical move. You can claim that you as a victim felt attacked that you felt silenced but you can’t claim she had ulterior motives.
@AnonBloggerCom
@AnonBloggerCom 4 ай бұрын
As curious as I get when there is interesting drama, this person's going straight to cash demands and hitting your sponsors tells me that I don't even want to give them views. This strikes me as a blatant cash grab.
@JustSheilz
@JustSheilz 4 ай бұрын
I have never heard of this Essense person but they sound a bit unhinged....
@danicali7946_
@danicali7946_ 4 ай бұрын
This situation is ridiculous on Essence of Thought’s end. The fact that she came to you with an IMMEDIATE demand for money shows what the whole goal truly is. The fact you literally were like “I was wrong…” shows the quality of your work. Like yes you mess up but you RECOGNIZE that you have the ability to mess up and are willing to fix it instead of going on a tirade. Your reputation is only going to get better from this. ❤
@MoeMoon
@MoeMoon 4 ай бұрын
You plagiarized my thoughts. Send me money
@Cbawtam
@Cbawtam 4 ай бұрын
I’ve just gone to Vangelinas video on LO and the comments from the last few days have been awful calling her a transphobe a plagiariser a liar the works. Saying that she threatened to send lawyers on her etc. No acknowledgment from these fans of EOT that it could have possibly been a misunderstanding and can it be cleared up, just straight up harassment and aggression. I understand why VS is scared of EOT.
@manolgeorgiev9664
@manolgeorgiev9664 4 ай бұрын
Essence of Thought has done that before. Not particularly the copyright claim thing, but the "play victim and demand reparations" thing. She's a narcissist, that's her shtick.
@raelynm3902
@raelynm3902 4 ай бұрын
I wouldn't at all be surprised if Ethyl is friends with Blaire. Sounds like they might be reading from the same playbook.
@PhoebeTheFairy56
@PhoebeTheFairy56 4 ай бұрын
The thing is, unless she somehow faked it in her own video, she _didn't_ immediately demand for money.
@nap0038
@nap0038 4 ай бұрын
It’s a shame that hbomberguy’s video has seemed to have a double-edged effect, where more people are now so much more vigilant in creating their own work while rightfully calling out those who don’t, but there’s this other trend of other’s abusing that activism into doing shit like this. So sorry this has happened to you.
@TempoTronica
@TempoTronica 4 ай бұрын
Btw, essence of thought has been accused of plagiarizing Opal. So this is just passing along the ball, as far as I'm concerned.
@EclipsianVanadis
@EclipsianVanadis 4 ай бұрын
You got more info on this? I'd be very curious about that!
@BB-bw8tk
@BB-bw8tk 4 ай бұрын
more info please? would be wild if this turned out to be true oml
@theproducers1967
@theproducers1967 4 ай бұрын
Are there any videos/blogs you could link for this?
@Anonymous-js5zn
@Anonymous-js5zn 4 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, Opal has seemingly vanished from KZfaq
@TempoTronica
@TempoTronica 4 ай бұрын
@@Anonymous-js5zn I'm aware. All I could find to link here was a video by ephrom that pointed out the incident. And it's still not showing up as far as I can tell.
@AyaBlue22
@AyaBlue22 4 ай бұрын
I have no idea who Ethel is but, their attack seems absolutely unhinged. Huge yikes.
@LeProphic
@LeProphic 4 ай бұрын
"You have snatched the bread from my starving mouth, pilfering out work to create a monstrosity." "I will make sure your reputation burns upon fires fuelled by your own history." Not only is EoT a bully and attempted extortionist, she's also one of the most hilariously overwrought people on the platform. I can't get over how unnecessarily dramatic they are.
@Gigi_Luigi_
@Gigi_Luigi_ 4 ай бұрын
Honestly she should consider writing a book. Maybe then she won't have to blackmail random people into giving her money
@DeadNoob451
@DeadNoob451 4 ай бұрын
She ?
@grayaj23
@grayaj23 4 ай бұрын
Just to clarify: It's not "attempted" extortion. Uttering the threat itself *is* the crime. You don't need to fall for it for it to be illegal.
@wm_wm4
@wm_wm4 4 ай бұрын
@@DeadNoob451 Get out of here with that b.s.
@pola5195
@pola5195 4 ай бұрын
I was just introduced to the Rachel Oats situation and tried to piece together what actually happened from EoT's videos - I couldn't even piece together which one I'm supposed to watch first or which one would have the strongest evidence of this "serial transphobia" every thumbnail is screaming about or even how many victim's there are (is it just her? It kinda started feeling like the titles is just her speaking about herself in third person - TRANS PERSON VICTIMIZED)
@greyson3421
@greyson3421 4 ай бұрын
I do *NOT* doubt you for a second. Anyone who demands and threatens you for money, because they feel entitled to it, without reasoning, is a *human garbage.* You don’t deserve this, KZfaq needs to step in and make an example of that channel threatening you. Even IF you did plagiarize, that’s not the way to handle that.
@dorkenspache8353
@dorkenspache8353 3 ай бұрын
The fact that in her most recent video she tried to claim you were transmisogynistic because you were afraid of her is horrible. Like Ethel thinks anyone who sees her as a threat is because they think all trans women are threats, but it is literally just because she is threatening people!!!
@tootsiepop13
@tootsiepop13 4 ай бұрын
The problem is, the resources/screenshots are pieces of evidence that could be found on Tumblr or other KZfaq videos. I understand what Ethel means by credits in the description, but she does not own the Lily Orchard evidence. She got it from Gallade, Courtney, Brittany, Lily herself, etc. Speaking of Courtney, it should also be mentioned that Courtney (Lily’s sister, who arguably has one of the most important testimonies) reached out to Ethel to offer testimony, and Ethel ghosted her. I don’t want to speculate, but it’s looking like Ethel cares more about money than Lily’s actual victims
@tedinger3660
@tedinger3660 4 ай бұрын
hmm, did she actually issue a copy write strike? or did she just demand cash?
@Psnrspxb
@Psnrspxb 4 ай бұрын
She just demanded it
@darknezfire
@darknezfire 4 ай бұрын
If she is really struggling, clearly she just wanted the money
@caressacatt
@caressacatt 4 ай бұрын
I couldn’t finish her video. Simply because of the random tangents about her past trauma and injuries. I have trauma. As a survivor of DV, I recognize that I’m responsible for MY own triggers. No one else owes me anything, and I certainly wouldn’t weaponize that against someone who has a different opinion than me or done something that offended me. There’s a place and time for everything. A video with accusations of plagiarism isn’t one of those.
@edgybarbie77
@edgybarbie77 4 ай бұрын
💯
@mmc1086
@mmc1086 4 ай бұрын
As a fellow survivor of DV, the only reason I got out and survived was because I took accountability for my own life and actions 🤦🏻‍♀️not to let the abuser off. He had just brainwashed me with violence and violent threats into thinking I didn’t have a choice. Healing is recognising one’s own agency as an adult!!! Xoxoxo
@moodybagels6564
@moodybagels6564 4 ай бұрын
The issue was with Vangelina removing the victims' names, effectively removing their voices and dehumanizing them. It's about Vangelina being disrespectful to sexual abuse survivors while claiming to be advocating for them.
@linottesparkles1294
@linottesparkles1294 4 ай бұрын
@@moodybagels6564I disagree. Many times victims’ names are kept private to protect their identities. I think this was Vangelina’s intention.
@brookehansen6973
@brookehansen6973 4 ай бұрын
​@@linottesparkles1294 I agree. I'd be big mad if someone put me on blast like that so I'm glad she took their names off
@averysspookshowspectacular6205
@averysspookshowspectacular6205 4 ай бұрын
I had her video recommended to me and was worried at first. Then I went to her channel and saw multiple hours of trying to call Rachel Oates transphobic and realized it was all bullshit. I did go through their script (because I generally prefer reading to listening) and was genuinely *flabbergasted* at their claims and "proof".
@HaidebugCreates
@HaidebugCreates 4 ай бұрын
Rachel Oates transphobic?? No way she's that kind of person.
@lindseystein9676
@lindseystein9676 4 ай бұрын
That might be the person that’s been harassing her for quite some time… I heard her mention that recently in a video
@theproducers1967
@theproducers1967 4 ай бұрын
@@lindseystein9676 It is. The beef between Ethel and Rachel has been going on for years apparently.
@lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241
@lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241 4 ай бұрын
Dang! I’m so easily manipulated! Ethel almost got me! In hindsight there were quite a few red flags in her video. Do you think it’s possible that Ethel might be the one harassing Rachel Oates?
@breezygrl10
@breezygrl10 4 ай бұрын
There is videos she's posted about Rachel Oates. Claiming she's transphobic and whatnot
@maiarustad5062
@maiarustad5062 4 ай бұрын
More than possible, it’s certain.
@britzkrieg2
@britzkrieg2 4 ай бұрын
Ethel has been on a multi-year crusade against Rachel Oates.
@lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241
@lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241 4 ай бұрын
@@maiarustad5062 In one of Rachel’s recent videos she talked about how this person drove her to a failed “self un-alive-ing.” You think they are the same person?
@lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241
@lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241 4 ай бұрын
@@breezygrl10 yes! That’s why I was wondering about it, because Rachel said something in her last video about someone harassing her, calling her transphobic and how she tried to end her own life because of it. If it wasn’t ethel, maybe one of her fans?
@drmorpheus2311
@drmorpheus2311 4 ай бұрын
HoW daRE yOu USe aVaILaBLe PubLiC INformATioN, ThAt I aLSO uSeD, In YOUr VidEo I swear some of these people forget that there's public information that anyone can use in their videos. Sometimes things just get reused or said similarly to others. That's just how things are. Just because you say the same sentence or phrase, doesn't mean you /copied/ them
@Pleasedonotperceiveme488
@Pleasedonotperceiveme488 4 ай бұрын
This comment section: talking about the recipts. Making points calmly and kindly. Her comment section: bullying and name calling. Say less, we can see intent and meaning right there.
@amalonebd
@amalonebd 4 ай бұрын
If it was a copyright issue why not use the copyright system??
@Astaraea
@Astaraea 4 ай бұрын
Fully in support of you, and the fact that EoT is deleting any comment on her video that isn't 100% on her side just makes her look even worse. I hope you thrive even more after this and that she sees the ramifications of her actions. I hadn't actually heard of her before this, but by the sounds of it she does this fairly often with little to no substance behind her claims. People like that don't deserve a platform. Keep doing you.
@siverfanweedo
@siverfanweedo 4 ай бұрын
saying this as a disabled trans person who was groomed and has been SAd (as a child and adult). Ethyl has legit rubbed me the wrong way for a while i have seen her Lily stuff cuz Lily is a creator whose drama i follow as a former brony. I watched Ethyl's video last night and there was so much that just.... yah Her demanding money and HER saying how much feels unethical if she was privy to any of the stuff you made that should probably go through a lawyer or something to make sure it is fair to each party. Her bring up her status as like a victim and all shit was 100 percent emotional manipulation and was unneed and actually paints her in a worse light then you. and i also wanna say this: People are just gonna be tranphobic asses whenever a trans person is brought up, i have seen transphobia on videos about Keffle and it happens on videos about Jadyn. ALSO it is not helped when Ethyl is die hard on painting Lily in the worse light possible: Lily is in fact a shitty person she has done so many things wrong but idk something about the way Ethyl talks about it. Like sadly not everyone is gonna be critical about this but i think Ethyl forgot how the iilluminaughtii drama started, this isnt me saying Ethyl is an abuser this me saying when you blindly and emotionally call people out and make the first step and use EMOTIONS over actual evidence in a case bring up stuff that does not belong in a video: you have set yourself up in a way to fall.
@Moho_braccatus_
@Moho_braccatus_ 4 ай бұрын
I was about to say, as someone who is also trans, Ethel accusing Vangelina of being responsible for transphobic assholes in her comment section seemed disingenuous. KZfaq creators can't control who views the video. The most that can be done is deleting nasty comments, but I'd probably go crazy if I had to sort through hateful comments all day.
@flegmon618
@flegmon618 4 ай бұрын
I agree, she is taking a kernel of truth and is blowing it out of proportion. She is taking things the worst way possible, charging her words emotionally and is using hateful superlatives and absolutes. We all know, only siths deal im absolutes. How can one go through life with so much hate and anger?
@littleshopofeldritchhorror6224
@littleshopofeldritchhorror6224 4 ай бұрын
They may not be a abuser but they are an extortionist
@smashingmolko
@smashingmolko 4 ай бұрын
Eot is unhinged, of there was no good faith. I'm surprised they've made it this far without big creators highlighting it.
@_coloringbook
@_coloringbook 4 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this, Vangelina. People like that truly scare me, too. I am really hoping for the best for you.
@uglygeguri
@uglygeguri 4 ай бұрын
EoT honestly needs to get offline. They are way too reactive and don't seem to be aware of how content creation works and how to interact with your peers.
@DarthAether
@DarthAether 4 ай бұрын
Honestly given the likelihood that everyone is using the same resources there's a high chance people are going to say the samething or similar so to scream plagiarism and cry victim makes zero sense. I'm sorry this is happening
@mateo335
@mateo335 4 ай бұрын
That's what I was thinking, you're covering a topic many creators have done. Of course, people are going to use the same sources. Are people supposed to find a completely different source when they make a video?
@yukiandkanamekuran
@yukiandkanamekuran 4 ай бұрын
literally like, its a drama that has been milked, like every other drama that I've seen. Insane that its like "how dare you use the same sources as me without crediting me", like,, girlie, you don't own those sources.
@AppalachianAllegory
@AppalachianAllegory 4 ай бұрын
It seems to me that this Ethyl person just continually does this sort of thing, and she will likey continue to discredit herself as she perpetuates this cycle. She sounds like she's in need if some sort of professional intervention. I hope that you can protect yourself legally, and that she can figure out the true cause of her troubles, and heal.
@britzkrieg2
@britzkrieg2 4 ай бұрын
What's so vexing is that Ethel has a therapist.
@Tintelinus
@Tintelinus 4 ай бұрын
​@@britzkrieg2 therapists can only help if you tell them stuff tho
@mynameisambertoo7379
@mynameisambertoo7379 4 ай бұрын
@@Tintelinus And if you actually want to take in their advice, which you are never obligated to.
@allisonvaughn
@allisonvaughn 4 ай бұрын
Just the fact that she started with the threats says a LOT about her as a person. She sounds narcissist and deranged. PLEASE get an attorney and do what you need to do. Just the fact that she blackmailed and tried to extort you is mind blowing
@dangerxbadger2300
@dangerxbadger2300 4 ай бұрын
She is seriously deranged. She's been stalking and harassing Rachel Oates for literal years
@Cammasia
@Cammasia 4 ай бұрын
One thing I'll give Ethel is that she seems to have put a lot of work into gathering information and doesn't seem to receive credit for it and that does read as potentially hurtful. But that's it. She has no reason to only single out you if your sources also didn't make it abundantly clear that Ethel was the source. And if she had checked your source list, she apparently would have found the screenshots while browsing the Tumblr blog, so she clearly didn't do any proper research into your video before launching her accusations. Which - as she is going after your livelihood - she absolutely should have gathered all information available to rule out any other possibilities that aren't plagiarism. I hadn't heard of Ethel before and saw a video of hers about the creator you are referencing here. She was going on and on about a tweet in which the creator didn't distance herself from a transphobic friend. Ethel's video was 5 months old, the tweet nearly 5 years. The creator has also apparently since cut ties with the transphobe. I haven't watched any other of Ethel's videos, so I can't really judge her. All I will say is that she seems to believe she is doing the right thing , but she seems to have a lot of anger and not a lot of understanding as to a) who wants to harm her or her community, i.e. who is an actual threat, and b) which battles are worth fighting and in which intensity.
@JimC607
@JimC607 4 ай бұрын
This is a shakedown. Plain and simple. Don't give in, they have nothing but empty threats.
@Goosidy
@Goosidy 4 ай бұрын
asking for 30% of a month patreon is wild
@Bubba.mitchell4603
@Bubba.mitchell4603 4 ай бұрын
You can’t even ask for that much when it’s not even equal to begin with
@ProbablyCathy
@ProbablyCathy 4 ай бұрын
Not to mention illegal, unethical and immoral. I refuse to believe that she is going to be able to keep being malicious and just horribly mean to other humans and continue to grow as a creator.
@Bubba.mitchell4603
@Bubba.mitchell4603 4 ай бұрын
@@ProbablyCathy exactly. That’s how you fall from the internets graces
@Em22-wtf
@Em22-wtf 4 ай бұрын
Especially where it's not the only video she's ever done 🙄. What dumb 🍑, no 🧠, empty 👤 logic is this anyway?! I've never ever heard of this person before (whoever is talked about in this video, I obviously missed the one she made that brought all this up), but now I know to avoid him like the plague ☠️💀 I wish Vange would STOP groveling to someone so disgusting as to try and illegally extort another creator, then try to use mUh GeNdEr as another way to make her feel bad. If people STOP apologizing to these attention seeking victim wanna be's & ignore their BS, they'd stop trying to do this to others and you'd remove their power. Vangelina gave someone a 45 min video, her time to make it, and all the other time she spent thinking about it and won't ever get that time back. Also, the money lost putting effort into this, instead of actual videos that makes her money, she's losing money AND time dealing W this. All for what?! Lies? This video won't be enough for them. Paying would not have been enough. Nothing will EVER be enough for people like that. Stop pandering and giving them attention & they'll have to stop it because no one is giving them what they want... Attention. I'll never ever watch a video linked in this one OR chnl. Gross.
@93lozfan
@93lozfan 4 ай бұрын
Right? If it was just profits from the video that would be normal but asking for patron profits is a point for Vangelina
@bluehorseshoe23
@bluehorseshoe23 4 ай бұрын
Some people’s default energy is darkness and they struggle to let light inside. You seem to embrace light and resist darkness as much as possible. Keep that up.
@JD-pd3gl
@JD-pd3gl 4 ай бұрын
That’s a beautiful comment, totally agree♥️
@invadersin5203
@invadersin5203 3 ай бұрын
The moment EOT compared you to Blair, I immediately thought "someone is projecting" then the irrelevant mentions of abuse scream narcissist. I really do hope you have spoken to a lawyer about the defamation and the threats of further defamation
@whalechief
@whalechief 4 ай бұрын
before you went on past reading through the email, i was already like "woah, hold on. this looks malicious and in bad faith" like she's just trying to take other ppls money like ?????? this whole thing is ridiculous on their end. we arent going anywhere, keep making ur vids
@MonkParty
@MonkParty 4 ай бұрын
"I have nothing to do with your broken foot" that's what someone who has something to do with a broken foot WOULD say!!!
@sonablom
@sonablom 4 ай бұрын
Definitely something somebody NOT Irish would say
@WellWoopdidoo
@WellWoopdidoo 4 ай бұрын
In fact, I broke my foot last week… and I know multiple people who are “Irish”. We’re through the looking glass now, people.
@darknezfire
@darknezfire 4 ай бұрын
It's common knowledge that claiming a nationality that you don't have is the cause of billions of broken foots every year 😂
@MrJimmyTide
@MrJimmyTide 4 ай бұрын
@@WellWoopdidoowhat about the reverse-vampires?
@moodybagels6564
@moodybagels6564 4 ай бұрын
Ethel never claimed she did, though.
@clovercard22
@clovercard22 4 ай бұрын
This would have been so easily solved if she was open to talk, like in her email you can see she is fine with her stuff being used as long as she is credited. But instead of just saying that and give you a chance to explain yourself she had turn her first contact into an actual threat. She was so ready to fight she shot herself in the foot.
@dontworryabtitlol
@dontworryabtitlol 4 ай бұрын
Recently learned the term "crybully" which imo seems to apply to ethel based on the content of this video and a cursory glance at her fixation towards other creators as seen on her channel.
@wendyd_darling
@wendyd_darling 4 ай бұрын
You dry those tears sweetie! Don't play their games. You did nothing wrong. We got your back and we ain't going nowhere!
@VangelinaSkov
@VangelinaSkov 4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much 🥺
@wendyd_darling
@wendyd_darling 4 ай бұрын
@@VangelinaSkov you prob already know but Omegon made a great piece on this. It's great so far! Ethyl is insane! Stay strong!
@GeteMachine
@GeteMachine 4 ай бұрын
What EssenceOfThought is doing sounds like what someone does in a divorce hearing.
@dizzypdx
@dizzypdx 4 ай бұрын
As someone who works with the courts, this is exactly what goes on in family law cases.
@effy_kujo
@effy_kujo 4 ай бұрын
It can sometimes be impossible to find the original source of screenshots when they're spread so much. This is ridiculous. Your livelihood & income aren't in jeopardy because of this weirdo, don't worry. If anything, you could possibly have a lawsuit on your hands if you suffer any monetary or reputation damages due to her disingenuous & obvious slanderous video made out of malice.
@dgf3308
@dgf3308 4 ай бұрын
Even if you had copied her, this is not how anyone should act on that kind of situation.
@GalaxyStarLily
@GalaxyStarLily 4 ай бұрын
This all the way. Demanding 30% of someone's ENTIRE online income, talking smack to sponsors, and trama dumping hurts all crediblity on EoT's part.
@thewitchlyone
@thewitchlyone 4 ай бұрын
EoT is literally just another illuminaughtii, bullying other online creators, accusing them of plagiarism, while trying to blackmail and smear their reputations. The irony EoT tagged her post of you with #anotherillumanaughtii when they are the one who is acting like blair. Hopefully like blair this accusation of plagiarism will show who they really are and be their down fall. I love your work and energy girl, we are here listening to you and supporting ya! 🦇🖤
@Lazrael32
@Lazrael32 4 ай бұрын
I didn't get the HBomber stuff either but a surprising amount of people can't hear criticism of their favorite youtubers/streamers or they freak out. 0.o
@kelseycondray
@kelseycondray 4 ай бұрын
I promise you that this will NOT ruin you! Us ,as your fans, will stick by your side!
@dazeslays
@dazeslays 4 ай бұрын
wow. the only exposure to EoT i've had was in fact her lily orchard videos months ago, which left a pretty good first impression on me. i was unaware of her apparent track record of harassment. sorry you got caught in the crosshairs
@NicholasMcdermottNick
@NicholasMcdermottNick 4 ай бұрын
Yea same
@NursissisticOfficial
@NursissisticOfficial 4 ай бұрын
I think the emotional manipulation of comparing you to illuminaughtii is also noteworthy, and the amount of compassion you have displayed in your response here easily disproves that statement. Thank you for clearing this up in such a thoughtful way.
@Lostcarrot
@Lostcarrot 4 ай бұрын
Almost every comment on the other videos she is replying to. They are sitting there what, all day, thinking about you? Wild
@dangerxbadger2300
@dangerxbadger2300 4 ай бұрын
That's how stalkers operate unfortunately
@wendysmith3783
@wendysmith3783 4 ай бұрын
yes, this gave me the creeps too
@blackmirrorprisoners
@blackmirrorprisoners 4 ай бұрын
Iilluminaughtii accuses legaleagle of plagiarism -> gets cancelled. essenceofthought accuses vangelinaskov of plagiarism -> we’ll see.
@tanimal3964
@tanimal3964 4 ай бұрын
I don't know if you can copy right or even plagiarize screen shots, this is wild LOL.
@TheOvadex
@TheOvadex 4 ай бұрын
Never heard of EssenceOfThought before this. After watching a few of their videos I've come away with the impression that they're little more than an attack channel. Anyone that gets out of step with them is on "The List".
@colinmorrison2446
@colinmorrison2446 4 ай бұрын
Been a casual viewer for a little while and I was shocked to see the accusations in the Essence of Thought. In all fairness I attempted to watch their video and found their 'proof' to be unconvincing. I was unable to make it through the entire presentation. Very sorry to hear about the unfair personal attacks, as that is what they were. Please keep up your work, it is well researched, articulate, and insightful. In contrast to leaving, you have gained one new subscriber, for what it is worth. Your work matters
@artemisiapura5178
@artemisiapura5178 4 ай бұрын
That person IS extorting you. You have every Right to be upset and hurt, you have owned up to your mistakes and do not deserve this level of cruelty. I hope Ethel takes a good hard look at themself, because the only place they’re going is downhill.
@N3rdDak
@N3rdDak 4 ай бұрын
This week on “a video I don’t think a creator needed to make, but had to because internet crazies ruin everything for us.” :D
@OdetariBby9
@OdetariBby9 4 ай бұрын
This is absolutely un-necessary for Essence to blow this out of proportion. I've heard a lot of bad stuff they've done. In all seriousness, I think Essence took this WAY too far. Thank you for taking responsibility for the things that you personally felt that you did wrong. And you don't owe them any money, not even the patron nor the Sponsorship money, that's ridiculous. This is Extortion and Blackmail at it's finest.
@mrspreminger
@mrspreminger 4 ай бұрын
Vangelina girl I’m so sorry. You look terrified in this video, and I honestly get why because shes been going after Rachel for five years now. Just know most people realize how manipulative and horrible Ethel’s behavior is and that we’re behind you.
@soundofazure
@soundofazure 4 ай бұрын
Ethel going Sephiroth-mode yet again. 🙄
@soundofazure
@soundofazure 4 ай бұрын
Also, they are still going on about Rachel? Wow
@lordnord8934
@lordnord8934 4 ай бұрын
This seriously sounds like she's trying to swindle you
@vienna227
@vienna227 4 ай бұрын
Hey, no. hbo,nercomnerguy is not where I’m not getting my info from. I like you and you’re cometary, you’re kbomberguy.
@lordnord8934
@lordnord8934 4 ай бұрын
@@vienna227 that made absolutely no sense...
@echolocationn
@echolocationn 4 ай бұрын
@@vienna227 Psst.... your bot script is clearly broken.
@adu1991
@adu1991 4 ай бұрын
How does she sound like she's trying to "swindle" me? Explain.
@TrevorRox6
@TrevorRox6 4 ай бұрын
@@adu1991 Do you understand the concept of extortion? Extortion - the practice of obtaining something, especially money, through force or threats. Vangelina is being extorted.
@JulieMarcum-zs1pz
@JulieMarcum-zs1pz 4 ай бұрын
I just watched your video. It had me in tears. You're a strong, smart person and you will get through this. I wish I could give you a hug from across the pond 💜
@Wolfdog2416
@Wolfdog2416 4 ай бұрын
Vangelina, you are doing great. I know this wasn’t easy, but you handled this in such an honest, thoughtful and respectful way. Your reputation is good in my book. Please take care of yourself.
@GnosticInformant
@GnosticInformant 4 ай бұрын
that had to be one of the most insane videos I have ever seen from someone who clearly is psychotic and thinks they deserve to have attention and success for no reason at all. Why she thought she had you on that is beyond my comprehension.
@BoredPodcaster
@BoredPodcaster 4 ай бұрын
Something broke in their brain if they think someone can give them a third of profits when they are literally attacking the income source. Don't EVER give in to extortion. The second you do, they'll learn they can keep doing it, and they will. Good news is, now I know who NOT to watch on youtube for content. I don't support people who use extortion against someone else over an alleged legal issue.
@Raine_lrr
@Raine_lrr 4 ай бұрын
The compassion you give for a channel that allegedly going after you is awe inspiring! I hope you can wade through this, and show them you’re a better person, and channel.
@GothicCla
@GothicCla 4 ай бұрын
Sending you much much love, i hope this situation will not damage you. I enjoy your content, i've been here for quite some time (your first video on dissociaDID) and i hate to see you in the middle of this turmoil. Stay strong.
@rawfeederlife
@rawfeederlife 4 ай бұрын
I've been a quiet subscriber for a while and enjoy your content. I appreciate how you're handling this situation. It can't be easy.
@Pseudo_Medicine
@Pseudo_Medicine 4 ай бұрын
This is the first I've heard of any of the drama and ugh. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this right now. She certainly won't be changing my mind about you
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