“At least we tried”. Damn, she is such a sweet and forgiving soul. Amazing woman

Holy shit the poor girl standing there looking at her toes. You know it's true love when she's willing to go through that for you

The fact that she’s half Asian and they’re treating her bad makes me even sadder to imagine how they would treat her if she was fully black

You can tell the father wants to try but he knows his wife is racist as hell but wants to keep peace in his house, whole thing is sad.

The young lady showed so much class and did not speak one word. Her calmness and peaceful attitude speaks volumes .

This was pretty hard to watch. And the fact that your fiancé remained positive after that ordeal, to me, she's a keeper. At the end of the day, love conquers all.

Imagine if she was full black, lol. The doors wouldnt open at all.

His dad is simply is stuck in a middle.

This girl doesn't deserve to have a mother-in-law like that.

I was tearing up when she looked all sad in the car and then smiled at you and went “At least you tried.” What a sweetheart 😭💕 She was being super respectful too. Wish both of you luck!!

I would never put my significant other through this humiliation and rejection for no one. If they don’t accept you, that’s their loss.

When dad said am not going to live thousand years, I want to see you do well both you and your sister...😭😭😭those words really touched me✋🏽

Mom: I am suffering from major sickness Me: hell ya you are, its called racism

Poor girl...she had the absolute best attitude about it!!

"I'm so sick I cant even speak" yet she has no problem running her mouth nonstop

when he said back to her "i'm lucky to have you" i broke out in tears....

Honestly. Any parent who disapproves of their son’s wife ethnicity is not just racist but actually selfish. If you truly love your son or daughter and know they are happy with their partner, disapproving is basically meaning they value their own world view over their kids happiness. Thats a crappy parent arguably

My heart hurts for you and your fiancé. Your mother's hate for someone she's never met is appalling. On the other hand, your dad is very sweet and even if he doesn't approve, he was still respectful!

His father seems to want a relationship

She took the rejection like a soldier. I would have cried. Love is so strong..

When she said *_"You can marry a better woman"_* that broke my heart completly, I feel really sorry for you guys

The most racist parents always end up having a kid who marries someone black. It's hilarious to me.

Your fiance looks like a Disney princess. I would be so proud of my son for getting such a pretty girl inside and out.

Oh man, I can tell your dad just desperately wants everyone to be happy, he just doesn't know how to go about that.

Im tearing up seeing the girl put her head down, while all this is going on. She looked so crushed. She is gorgeous and seem incredibly sweet. I hate that they had to go through this.

“You can marry a better woman.” Honestly, that hurt. She didn’t get to choose who she wanted to be a birth. Her character is not based on her race or her appearance. People are so disgusting. She’s so polite and lovely. I’m hurting for this couple. I’ve been through this and it’s the worst feeling in the world.

Why torture yourselves don't bring your kid around that lady, they will live to regret it.

Damn she’s not even full black, she’s half Asian & this is how they’re treating her? I wonder how they’d treat a fully black woman.

I'm a mother of 3 sons! As long as their gf or wives treat them RIGHT! THEN I WILL TREAT THEM GOLDEN!!

Omg I cried so hard when your dad said,” I’m not going to live a thousand years. I just want to see you do well.” Your dad loves you and the anger your mom is holding on to will soon lift.

"In Korea we sent you to a private school" Ma'am how does that gotta deal with him marrying someone he loves like theres still ignorant people in the world nonsense

For someone who can barely speak she sure has a lot to say.

The problem wasn't even your dad it was your mom 😕I know this is a year old but damn I felt such sadness... Love is love...👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

Old-school Koreans don't like blacks, but own black hair shops. Very sad that it's like that.

All races really look at us like we are nothing.... this hurts me soo... I’m afraid to date outside of my race because of having to go through this...

I can't imagine anything like this. I am 64 yrs old, I live Stone mtn, Ga, USA, and I have never, ever experienced this level of bigotry, ignorance and hatred. My heart goes out to you both.

You two are so brave. Your father seems kinder and more reasonable then your mom.

that's one way to lose your kids. not because he loves her more than his mum, but because his mum doesnt love him enough to treat her son like a person and is disrespectful enough to be unworthy of being respected

I would not speak to my parents if they can’t respect me and my decisions then I will just ignore them and be happy

I’m half Vietnamese and half white , my wife is black, we have been blessed that both our families love us , and we didn’t have to go through any of this, but even if we did, that too bad for for any of them, their loss, the relationship is between the both of u , everyone else is on the outside looking in , stay strong 💪🏼

Bro she's perfect, never let her go. I'm so happy for both of y'all

She's gorgeous. His parents are super rude and crazy.

I’m pregnant and this triggered my nausea.

This video just shows that the two of you have been a team from day one. Your love and support of one another is beautiful to see. I’m praying for the two of you and your beautiful children. 🥰🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾

Very sad but I'm not the least surprised. I have Asian friends in the US here who love to come over to my place and really enjoy the African food I prepare. Unfortunately I can never visit them because they told me point blank that their parents are not friendly to Blacks. It's very sad but true. Personally I find it very funny because if you're racist then it's better you stay in your home country. You don't come into a multicultural society and expect your kids to move with only people from their home country. I feel very bad for this lady because she's so beautiful and genuinely sweet. We might be in the 21st century but some people are still stuck in pre-historic times.🤗

I love how she encouraged him by telling him how proud she was of him. What an awesome catch. Dude you are so lucky.

That is abuse. It is shameful that neither parent acknowledged your future wife.

Now that year's have passed, look how this same amazing coupled blessed them with beautiful grandchildren and their only legacy.

*"it's a strong case of flu"* I'm done 😂

You can tell she has a heart of gold. It's such a shame they won't even give her a chance

I’ve come back to this video and I just have to say that Sarah is such a beautiful person inside and out. You can see how much of an amazing heart she has.

Bro, She's gorgeous. Lucky man. I'm Korean too.. Parents same way, but not as extreme as your parents. Maybe they will open their mind over time. Best wishes to you and your family.

"I'm so sick I can't even speak", as she is yelling lol.

It was the body she was born into... her soul is just the same. I cant understand how racism still exists. It makes NO sense!

Brooo ive watched this when they first posted it and i came looking for it and watched it again and bawling my eyes out 😢

I am seeing you and your beautiful relationship for the first time, and I know this video is 2 years old, but I must tell you, you are a beautiful young woman you have class. I am hurt in my heart, just watching you hold your self with composure in the garage, being respectful, keeping your head down as your fiance tries to speak to his father about his loving you. you both are amazing, and I sure hope that you are still together with your beautiful little girl that I have noted I've seen in skits of other videos, may you be blessed each and everyday by the most high God

I just want to say that this happened to my family. We are white hispanic. My uncle was deeply inlove with a black woman. My grandmother treated my uncle the same. He didnt allow her in the house. Cussed at her racist things. Treated her so poorly. Hated her and convinced him to leave her or else she would never talk to him again. He did what she said. For 20 years he didnt date anyone. In one year he married and had a child with a woman. A hispanic woman that my grandmother chose for him. It was so odd cus we didnt see it coming. He didnt post pictures or invited anyone. We just got a knock at the door and he was with a baby and a wife acting like nothing ever happened. He did it to make her happy. (His mom) I went to go visit them and i stayed over a few nights. It was such a weird vibe. She was a sweet woman. But the vibe between them was like strangers. They didnt talk or gossip as a couple would. They never hugged kissed. They sat in different sides of the couch all the time. It was an unknown feeling because from what i was used to i saw my uncles and aunts cuddle or hug or talk to eachother all the time as friends. But they seemed like strangers and when i thought back i remembered that he wasnt like this with his black girlfriend he had years ago. I just want to say that when you try to make others happy it usually doesnt make you happy. In the end, realistically, when your parents leave, the one person that will stay by your side will be your wife and no one els. Till this day my uncle admits to letting go of something he really loved. Stay strong. For your own good.

“I’m sick. I can’t even talk” *proceeds to talk throughout the whole visit* 🙄🙄

I can't imagine a whole family being terrorized by one woman (his mother)! It may be painful, but you need to move on and leave your mother behind.

Great watch! My heart goes out to the two of you and praying that you guys remain vigilant and keep fighting for each other.

Even though the mother rejected your fiance she was still smiling saying "at least we tried" beautiful couple

Bro shes beautiful, strong and patient, you got a keeper. As long as you are happy and can wake up to each other in the morning its all good!

Truth is: this is real life. Interracial dating can be complicated. I respect you guys so much for your vulnerability❤❤❤ Sending Love from South Africa🇿🇦❤

Just seeing this and I’m soo angry,! His mom judges her without knowing her. I have a knot in my throat.. I can’t contain how sad I feel for them. 😢

Sometimes you need to distance yourself from your parent(s) to live a healthy life. There’s nothing wrong with that.

Can confirm. Asian dads are mellow er than the moms.

You both deserve all the love in this world. I cant believe at this day and age, people still react this way. You both are lucky to find each other, don't let anyone else come into this beautiful union.

Thanks for uploading this video. It gives me hope. I'm trying to make my Korean parents see my boyfriend of 4 years and this video gives me hope and strength, that I am not alone. thank you..

I love your fiancée's optimistic and bubbly personality! Keep her close. We can all see how much you two love each other. It will all work out someday. All the best :)

The irony here is your wife is the most amazing woman. You are both lucky to have found each other.

Sometimes parents think they know what's best for us, they want the best for us..... But they have to be open to meeting the person that makes you happy and a better person. My heart just broke at the mom's reaction, you could tell dad was very calm and trying to keep the peace in this whole situation. I agree with your dad though, sometimes the more you push... the more resistance you're faced with. Just give it time guys, always do your best, live the best life you can, at the end of the day you know you guys have tried. Wish you nothing but the best, much love, happiness and good health!! Thanks for posting.

Why is it important that your wife builds a relationship with your family when they clearly loathe her. Waste of fuel driving all the way. Smh

Your mom went from I'm sick to we are all.sick...lol

Mom said she was sick and couldn't talk but she had a whole lot to say. Sometimes you have to continue your life journey without your parents.... this situation is so toxic. If your mother is like this she shouldn't have moved to multi-cultural country. I can't even imagine how your mother would react if your fiance was a dark skinned African woman.... my goodness.

Omg. Thank you for filming all this... I Subscribed. I wish you guys the best!!

They wouldn’t even let them in the door breaks my heart

Girl don't ever hold your head down...

Your wife staying so positive she's so strong. Your mum is really missing something cuz if she was trying she would realize how much she's amazing. You're a very beautiful couple

OMG, GIRL, YOU GOT Courage!!! I would be cry all the way home 😪 , BUT YOUR SOO SOO LUCKY TO HAVE YOUR MAN NEXT TO YOU SUPPORTING YOU DEAR. KEEP YALL HEAD UP HIGH AND AS LONG AS Y’ALL ARE HAPPY N IN LOVE AND HAVE A HAPPY FAMILY, THATS ALL THAT MATTERS NOW., BEEN THERE , DONE THAT, AND THE END WHEN OUR KID WERE GROWING, HIS PARENTS (MOTHER) GAVE IN WHEN SHE SAW SPITIN IMAGINE OF HER ON MY BABY GIRL-FACE WHEN SHE WAS 5 YEARS OLD..

Your vid makes me feels human.. I saw few interracial marriage which appear to be smooth and the videos they uploaded are all sweet and happy family which kinda makes me feel like a failure in life..all the nice things they have how good was that.. But I know for sure their struggle are different so is mine and yours and everyone else. And your family reaction is comprehensible to me since the difference in culture and everything.. This is as realistic as it can get. Thank you for showing me the reality of life as in raw.

The dad is trying. I appreciate him. I'm so sorry for going through this.

Anti-blackness in the Asian community is such a serious and unaddressed issue.

You both compliment each other so well and I dont mean just physically. You both possess immense courage and bravery for loving each other and even trying to include his family in your lives still. ❤

His father needs to have a stern talk with his mother.. and tell her this is my son... This is the woman he loves and is going to marry.. Either be respectful of his wishes... or you can leave while I have them over to visit... And when my grandchild comes... if you cant be loving towards my sons family..... You can leave and stay gone while they visit with me... Because I am going to be a happy positive part of my sons life... She can get in line... or be gone for the happy moments..

Dad seems like he would actually meet her, if your mom wasn't around.

Shes so pretty and so sweet i feel so sad for her ☹️☹️

This happened to me too before! I can totally understand how y’all feel. I’m Taiwanese and my bf is ABK, Even I’m an Asian it seemed not enough for korean family to accept me. They were hoping their son could marry a korean as well. It was tough at first.... thank god you guys came through!

Omg I just love love how Sarah takes light of the situation. She is definitely the most positive person I’ve ever known. You married the right woman for sure and she will for sure be the best wife and mother💜

Thats sad for them to think ur girlfriend is not worthy... she's gorgeous...

The level of second hand anxiety was too much watching this.

I teared up watching this. You both are so strong and I appreciate that you share your journey on breaking generational norms. Your wife has a heart of gold and I understand why you would choose your wife over your family. Please stay strong, you guys will and deserve the most beautiful life!

Don't feel bad and, just Live Your life... I'm Asian, my 1st husband was caucasian...his Parents were so Predijuce, after so many years I divorced him.......its not worth the ABUSE ESPECIALLY, Your Wife has to Go through...Especially Korean Mothers...Don't let your wife and ESPECIALLY Your Child , have to hear these Abusive words... Who does she think she is..."I Raised you with all my heart ". I'm sure your wife was raised by her mother with all her heart...Korean women thinks they are the Best...Rich.and so high and mighty...Sorry, I will never ever go down that Road!!! Just Live A Beautiful Life just the 3 of you...,Have no guilt...Pretend they they don't Exist....They donot want you in their Life....SO, THIS IS ENOUGH! YOU TRIED MANY TIMES....MANY GOOD BLESSINGS YOU WAY...BABY DOESN'T NEED TO KNOW ANYTHING...RAISE HER WITH LOVE AND SECURITY AND SHE'LL BE ALRIGHT...DO NOT EXPLAIN THE NEGATIVE.....ITS NOT IMPORTANT... FINISHED! DO NOT EVEN TRY TO CONNECT...YOU'VE DONE ENOUGH..MANY BLESSINGS...

_"I'm so proud of you. I'm so lucky to have you."_ *I'M NOT CRYING YOU'RE CRYING*

Marry a better one? Not in a billion years. That woman completes you dude, 100%, and I know you and her both know that, and you'll probably never see this comment, but I'm happy you have each other.

Wow this just made me cry, she had such a good attitude hope things get better.

props to the both of you for staying so calm through all that, holy crap

Next time bring a gay lover and see which one they prefer.

I couldn’t help but get emotional as the parents turned their own son away. I’m so upset. But your girl is soooo positive! She’s strong. You’ve made a great choice man! She’s great and you’re great for standing up for her

This brought tears to my eyes. 💔 I pray your mom comes around. I think your dad is more open to whatever makes you happy.

I'm so sorry for both if you. My partner is Japanese, I haven't met his parents yet but they are simply happy he has found someone. This is so heartbreaking to watch, I really feel for you both. In time, they will need to come to terms with your relationship if they want to be a part of your lives. Sending love to you both.