First Time Meeting My Korean Mother-In-Law After 11 Years Of Disapproval

First Time Meeting My Korean Mother-In-Law After 11 Years Of Disapproval | At The Hospital 2023

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8 ай бұрын

Is this really happening??
If you've been following along our story from the very beginning, this might be the miracle that we've all been waiting for.
To our KZfaq family and supportive LoveWithstanders, this video is for you...

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@tikigyrl79 8 ай бұрын

Justin's family is so incredibly lucky to have such a sweet, caring and loving daughter in law/sis in law. I'm so happy that this family is starting to come together and welcome you.

@vuksgitau 8 ай бұрын

True so so true.

@trishah2145 8 ай бұрын

This is it. She’s so beautiful inside and out. I’m so so happy for them all

@Mjfa9923 8 ай бұрын

Exactly...they are very lucky to have her in the family.

@michellemckinney4678 8 ай бұрын

Imagine they’re missing out. Terrible shame.

@ritamanglona6672 8 ай бұрын

Yes

@lianadotjpeg 8 ай бұрын

Please refrain from trusting his sister with your children at this time. Regardless of how smiley she is in front of you, she has allegedly told Justin that she would harm your kids. No matter how sweet she may seem, she is still supposedly mentally unstable. Be extremely vigilant and continue to protect your babies.

@denisenoles3159 8 ай бұрын

I feel bad for these kind souls because they want so badly to have a connection with evil people just because of blood ties. I speak from experience. I cut my evil uncle off years ago because I knew he would never change. I wish the best for this family.

@nicolemariebrown4076 8 ай бұрын

Still be cautious around them and please be with your kids when they around your in laws. Happy for the change but still be careful

@sandraatkins2539 7 ай бұрын

She might not listen to your words of caution. Self-hatred and inferiority complexes in many Black people will cause them to believe what non-Black people tell them as if they are the Gospel. Frankly, if one of my relative despised a person, I would never take her to my sick relative's hospital bed.

@pearlcnrd 7 ай бұрын

@@sandraatkins2539imagine insinuating she has an inferiority complex. You're not okay upstairs, you are only getting on part of what is happening, you have no idea what they discuss bts. The relationship you have with these people is a parasocial one, idk where you got it into your head that you were in any way educated enough to assume and I sinuate what you have.

@angiealexis3093 6 ай бұрын

Yeap, and I hope she doesn't expect her to take care of the mother. She has three children to take care of so it's not happening.

@itslowtide4690 8 ай бұрын

Mom doesn’t disapprove because you aren’t Korean, but more likely because you are part black. I am 25% black (father’s side) and my mother is Korean. Growing up in Korea, they called me Gahm-doong-ee (n-word in Korean) all the time. If you were white, she wouldn’t treat you with so much vile. It really makes me sick, watching you all these years and you yearning for her acceptance, being shunned and refused even in their garage way back when, etc. Your heart is beautiful, your children are beautiful, your love story is beautiful. Your little family is deserving of all the love in the world. ❤

@cookie22100 8 ай бұрын

So sad you had to go through that. Something tells me Koreas love of whiteness and anti-blackness comes from the Christian religion that most of the nation was indoctrinated into by the American government during and after the Korean War. It’s an odd coincidence that anywhere on this earth that is not majority white, but is majority Christian has the same type of bigotry and white favoritism.

@MultiDarkAngel91 8 ай бұрын

that is not true. I am white and my korean MIL calls me a prostitute and showed up to my wedding with an extra bride. During our first thanksgiving as a married couple, my MIL tried to talk my husband into seeing another woman on the side who is korean. she also told me Im lucky because i get to keep their name. as a result, i have not seen nor talk to her for 5 years. so being white wouldnt improve your situation

@cookie22100 8 ай бұрын

@@MultiDarkAngel91 well being white is totally enough for some Korean families, just not yours unfortunately.

@MultiDarkAngel91 8 ай бұрын

@@cookie22100 WOW! I live in the 3rd highest korean community in usa. all of the stores are in hangul. I can speak and read Korean. The hair salon, grocery stores and book stores would charge me more than their Korean counterparts. At a Korean wedding, most of the female koresn guests gave me the silent treatment. The mother of the groom wanted me kicked out for being white and called me a slut. She was very embarressed when I spoke Korean to her. from my personal experince, Korean women hate outsiders

@immealldayeveryday9425 8 ай бұрын

@@MultiDarkAngel91not all some people unfortunately like many places in the world are just ignorant and sometimes you just need to stay away from people like that

@sk-wf2dn 8 ай бұрын

Black folk always have to be the bigger people in these situations. I don’t think I could never do what you did. God bless you.

@tmc1373 8 ай бұрын

NEVER!!! I still remember how the mother humiliated her in the garage. SMH

@applejellypucci 7 ай бұрын

Nope me neither

@staceyharris9813 7 ай бұрын

Exxxxactly! I don't understand why we feel like we have to be. It's sickening.

@musicjunkieaddict6600 7 ай бұрын

I’m not black I’m Latina Hispanic but I feel the same way if someone doesn’t accept me because my skin is a few shades darker and still has that ignorant mentality well I feel sorry for you cuz it’s your loss. This young lady is a great compassionate person with all this she still has shown this family that she’s the better person. Unfortunately it saddens me that still in this day and age people can’t look at us all as being human beings we come in all shades and sizes.

@sk-wf2dn 7 ай бұрын

@@musicjunkieaddict6600 latina Hispanic is not a race but carry on

@ChimChimChums 8 ай бұрын

Stopped watching this channel years ago, because it was too sad. The amount of abuse, and stress you had to undergo was off the roof. Glad to see that you are parents now. You deserve the best in life for being so resilient and loving for all these years.

@dlightfulheiress 8 ай бұрын

Same. I have popped on and out over the years but those first couple of years was really rough I felt bad for her 😢

@lynnelliott9038 7 ай бұрын

Yes, I had to stop watching as well, that was when the garage thing happened. And to be sure it is clearly understood by black people that this isn't prejudice, because she's not Korean, this is anti blackness because she's got blackness in her ethnicity.

@SoWhat59 7 ай бұрын

@@lynnelliott9038 What garage thing?

@lynnelliott9038 7 ай бұрын

@@SoWhat59 It was one of the videos where they tried to visit with Justin's mom. Years ago. I believe she was newly pregnant with their first child if I recall correctly.

@maiamiimaiam4343 6 ай бұрын

@@lynnelliott9038what happened

@AutumnSwatches 8 ай бұрын

You are nicer and more forgiving than they deserve.

@MargaretKearsey-dv1nk 8 ай бұрын

I totally agree

@michellemckinney4678 8 ай бұрын

Which says a lot about her character

@cynthiareneemusic 8 ай бұрын

My 90 year old Mom always tells me, be careful how you treat people. You never, never know who you will end up needing in times like these.You have handled his family with nothing but respect, even through their cold treatment of you. I’m so happy for this moment for you.

@dlightfulheiress 8 ай бұрын

I was taught the same. If you do not have to burn bridges then don’t.

@phylliskumi4355 8 ай бұрын

I feel bad for her because she loves a guy who has an awful family. It is always best to try to be a bit choosier with who you decide to marry as the person and/or family can break you. Has her husband ever tried speaking to the family?

@TheGoldenChildJai 8 ай бұрын

Maybe seeing Jayden gave your mother-in-law a will to fight and be around for them. Hopefully, she will have a speedy recovery and you guys will begin to bond as a family.

@susannaCdonovan23 8 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly. It seems the baby gave her incentive to get better or talk, and eat. Her progress was phenomenal.

@leilarieger3601 8 ай бұрын

Yep and it also gave her a really easy way out to start new

@neverppreciated 8 ай бұрын

yay first of all i just want to say, baby steps with justin's family work! and yes i agree Jayden is the miracle for this to happen! Jayden is the reason that she is fighting this stroke and for sure she will ask for more visits with all her grandkids! happy for all of you! ❤

@AddBowIfGirl 8 ай бұрын

Hopefully she and the sister will apologize (and maybe even get therapy to work through their prejudice) at some point for treating Sarah and her children so poorly for years.

@mvpglam8018 7 ай бұрын

soon as she gets better she will be back to her old ways. They never change

@gabrielledennis4103 8 ай бұрын

You are the kindest and most forgiving and positive person to still care so much about your in-laws who haven't been that nice to you. God Bless you, Sarah, and Justin and your beautiful babies! I hope your in-laws will eventually be kinder to you.

@book_worm22 8 ай бұрын

Havent been that nice? Thats putting it mildly. They have been downright horrid to her.

@Cloudfive55 8 ай бұрын

Honestly, I couldn't be so forgiving. They were so hateful and racist.

@queennanna5595 8 ай бұрын

Facts. Their treatment of her was absolutely disgusting.@@book_worm22

@queennanna5595 8 ай бұрын

That is exactly what they are racist. @@Cloudfive55

@Cookincrazy 8 ай бұрын

@@Cloudfive55she’s SUCH an angel because it’d be hard to forgive that for me too :(

@staciagrant4786 8 ай бұрын

Jayden gave her strength. Kids can totally turn a situation around. I can only believe that the mom is realizing how many years she's wasted without being in those kids life. Things are going to be different now.

@francesgeorge1707 8 ай бұрын

I hope so. This family deserves the best of everything life has to.offer. 👍💕💕🌻

@SJGore-jp3lq 8 ай бұрын

Beautifully stated 👏 👌 ❤️

@pitoufo 8 ай бұрын

Sis, you are full of grace. To have that level compassion has for her mother in law who has treated you like trash or worse, non existent. I don’t know if I could have endured. You set a great example of how each day is a new start and how we can make conscious choices to do good or not lower ourselves to the way others treat us. Your joy at this wee crack is overwhelming and melts my heart.

@macrineoloo5109 8 ай бұрын

@@pitoufo 9

@Diana-ru2cd 8 ай бұрын

I was thinking this too.

@investigacaoeleitv 8 ай бұрын

It's amazing how you are so patient with your husband's racist family. I'd never have half your patience.I'm glad your kids have great parents.

@skr8674 8 ай бұрын

Just remember, her father didn’t approve either!

@happyface3216 8 ай бұрын

@@skr8674was it cause of race or religion?

@adelsjourney 8 ай бұрын

@@happyface3216her father's disapproval had nothing to do with race but religion. Because she didn't marry a Muslim man.

@CoffeeCrazy 8 ай бұрын

I think there is a big difference about wanting your child to marry someone with a shared faith than because of race. Unlike this wonderful lady, I could NEVER trust a relationship with anyone who has that viewpoint. You would never get an audience with me or my children.

@jacquia5897 8 ай бұрын

She's good! She's been trying to connect with her in-laws for years with no luck. Their racist behinds would never get the opportunity to meet their grandkids nor would I ever stoop so low as to beg for their acceptance.

@plutoprincess777 8 ай бұрын

It just breaks my heart that you were treated so bad for so long and how happy you are with the bare minimum. You’re an amazing person and you deserve so much more! They really missed out for YEARS on such a beautiful person you are.

@lindadavis4013 8 ай бұрын

I agree!! Sorry, but they (in-laws) don’t deserve it.

@mamiereed81 8 ай бұрын

I'm not married, but sometimes it takes something like this to bring a family closer.

@michellemckinney4678 8 ай бұрын

I truly feel they’ll regret that

@kira8808 8 ай бұрын

Agreed, it makes me SO sad that she accepts the bare minimum as a silver lining. She deserves SO much better than this.

@plutoprincess777 7 ай бұрын

@@kira8808 100%

@lindadavis4013 8 ай бұрын

Yes, I understand your happy, but; be careful and don’t get used. People do not change overnight. Don’t put your whole heart out there to get it crushed.

@marsheagarner3696 8 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly. I would be very cautious to make sure that I was not being used.

@nca4794 6 ай бұрын

May God sustain her 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@audreabrown8775 8 ай бұрын

You are the epitome of patience and grace. There is no way I’d be able to do what you are doing for anyone who has treated you the way they have. I am so happy for you and your family! I hope and pray you all continue to grow positively ❤

@erinf245 Ай бұрын

Completely agree. Sarah’s grace is astounding.

@aj96614 8 ай бұрын

you are such an amazing person Sarah. you have truly shown me how to be forgiving, kind and graceful. I pray that you and your family will be blessed for many many years to come.

@nolagirl7082 8 ай бұрын

OMG Sarah!!!! I’m literally in shock!!!! I’ve been following your journey since the beginning, and I never thought this day would come! And I can’t believe how nice the sister was… She’s the one I expected to be the hardest on you. This is great Sarah.. very good news and I celebrate with you🎉💜

@susannaCdonovan23 8 ай бұрын

The progress your Mother-in-law is making is very hopeful. She can eat, talk, and walk and is feisty enough to improve rapidly. I'm so happy for you and the progress you made with the family and the ice has been broken. Your children are all so cute and sweet, it will bring joy to the family to see them and give them a happiness they've never had before.

@NinaNina-tm2mo 8 ай бұрын

I'm happy for you Sara. You're a good person and your humility, understanding and patience is paying off. Justin's mother and sister will realize that her son and her brother is fortunate to have a wife like you. I wish your mother-in-law a speedy recovery. God bless ❤

@nicolekalicazk5839 8 ай бұрын

I'm so happy for you Sara.Justin must be ecstatic .And you being a nurse will be a great help.💕🇨🇦💕

@staciagrant4786 8 ай бұрын

Im so happy for Justin, I know his days are just so much happier now that his mom and sister are involved with you and his son.

@tishainnis 8 ай бұрын

I hope your husband lets you know every day how blessed he is to have a wife like you. You’re an incredibly genuine, caring, kind, and sweet woman. Most people wouldn’t do what you’ve done for his family. As a Christian woman, you have Christ like love.

@SarahWuSLP 8 ай бұрын

I would never tell them about this channel. I think it would undermine things

@pearltoomer6392 8 ай бұрын

They know l feel

@BrioaZ 8 ай бұрын

@@pearltoomer6392I feel like if they did know they'd definitely say something to Justin with how blunt they are

@Jaydaydesign 8 ай бұрын

Make sure your husband will stand by you and lets his mum know in no uncertain terms that any disrespect Or racist behaviour towards your children is not going to be tolerated. The Aunt who raised me did not approve of my choice in life partner because of his nationality. I left home at 16. At the age of 28 I made the decision ON MY TERMS to offer her the opportunity to form a relationship with my young children (2 & 3 years old at the time). My first duty as a parent is to protect them from abuse. I informed her that if I felt she was demonstrating any behaviour toward them that was derogatory or negative then she would never see any of us again. It was in the third visit that I overheard her making an off Color comment to my cousin about my son growing up to be a wife basher ( because italians can’t control their emotions and anger apparently?). I promptly informed her that she had been warned and that we were leaving. She looked shocked. She was arrogant enough to believe I would let it slide. My kids didn’t need to grow up feeling there was something wrong with them and they were not worthy of respect. The world is a tough enough place without your grandparents treating you with disrespect.

@InTruthNLove 8 ай бұрын

Good for you!!!!❤

@bibbiana4Lyfe 8 ай бұрын

THIS ^ no one should ever be treated as less than

@RainingPouringSnoring 8 ай бұрын

Wow. It's amazing to me how people can attribute entire behaviors and personality traits to a skin color/nationality... without ever speaking to the person. 👏 good job leaving and protecting your impressionable children from that nonsense

@jeanetteambersley9237 8 ай бұрын

Good for you❤

@bibbiana4Lyfe 8 ай бұрын

@@RainingPouringSnoring Black Children definitely need to be protected from racist nonsense that will affect their self esteem even if from their own family members. Black Ancestry is not a crime or a disease and these relatives who are also minorities have absolutely nothing to feel themselves superior about.

@pal3803 8 ай бұрын

Praying for your mother- in-law's full recovery. I see your amazement and happiness that they are accepting you after all these years, I get it, but why did it take so long and a medical emergency for it to happen. You are amazing not to harbor resentment as some would. Blessings to you all and prayers for family healing, physically and mentally.

@Ambi1021 8 ай бұрын

I think it has more to do with the fact that they have a son now.

@Salz-qu3ml 8 ай бұрын

@@Ambi1021 Bingo!

@GirlMomma 8 ай бұрын

Oh Sarah, your happiness is just emanating! My cheeks hurt from smiling so big this entire vlog with you. You're such a good person. You are an inspiration to me. You'd have every right to be bitter and angry for being judged just for the color of your skin by them, yet you're graceful, forgiving and loving. You're amazing. ❤ I'm so happy for you guys. You're teaching a huge lesson to them. We are all each other has in this crazy world, it doesn't matter what color we are. 🫶🫵 my friend! Love Sara 😘

@sharonb4339 8 ай бұрын

I know right !!! she's amazing she have a good heart

@GirlMomma 8 ай бұрын

@@sharonb4339 100%❤️

@AriesLaZuriUhuru 8 ай бұрын

I will continue to send positive vibes full of healing to Justin's mother.

@GIRLINA101 8 ай бұрын

It's truly sad that the woman had to be half-de@d in order to show you a modicum of human decency. 😢 Your patience and compassion are admirable. Your husband and children are lucky to have you.

@Flourish_today 8 ай бұрын

Usually they are on their death bed before they realize that all human beings bleed red.

@zeyv4551 7 ай бұрын

For some people, it does have to take that. Unfortunately, this happens more often than you know.

@LapsangMao 8 ай бұрын

I am quite amazed how it took a major illness to unite the family together. Silverlining 💗

@traceejohnson290 8 ай бұрын

Are they united? Did the mother ever acknowledge Sara or only happy to see her grandson😏

@adrianajones8004 8 ай бұрын

@@traceejohnson290I don't think so.

@Flourish_today 8 ай бұрын

@@traceejohnson290and eat her food😮

@tmc1373 8 ай бұрын

nobody said anything about "united".

@LapsangMao 8 ай бұрын

From the latest episode, it sure sounds like they are all being welcomed into the home. Sister is on talking terms with Justin and Sara. Whole family welcomed into parents home. I'd say they are getting there.

@molee1803 8 ай бұрын

Korean mother-in-laws are notoriously difficult in general. I am sorry that she was so disapproving of you. You are incredibly kind, patient and generous. I hope that she loves you and accepts you for the beautiful soul you are. Any mother-in-law should very so lucky! Prayers for all of you to heal and move forward ❤

@TheSarahlou 8 ай бұрын

Sarah youre smile is amazing when talking about the love your mother in law shown her grandson. I always remember the sadness in your eyes when you was first talking about his parents now to see your eyes actually smiling when talking about your mother in law is amazing xx

@joyful9984 8 ай бұрын

What a sweet, patient, and caring heart you have Sarah. I can’t imagine the peace Justin must feel having his hopes come true. God bless, and continue to heal you guys family. Your example strengthens others Sarah.

@tangajTANG 8 ай бұрын

It was Jayden that gave her the will to work at getting better. She wants to hold and love him. I believe if you follow your instincts to visit with the baby when lead, everything will fall in place. Your mother in law is very happy to see her grandson.

@rachael196 8 ай бұрын

Sarah you are an absolute angel! If not for you and Justins resilience and determination to make his family see your love, i dont think it would ever have happened. I know one day Justin's parents will be thankful for it. You're kids will be thankful for all the hard work you guys put into it too.

@areldia225 8 ай бұрын

You are getting back all that you have unconditionally given. Justin is so fortunate to have a family with you.

@LynnDanielleTreasure 8 ай бұрын

I am happy for you, Sarah. I hope they continue to treat you this gracefully when things return to normal.

@adriennehilll 8 ай бұрын

This video literally brought me to tears. You are the sweetest, most kind, genuine and loving daughter in law they could have ever asked for. I pray your relationship with them continues to grow and will be also praying for 엄마’s health

@nedraenglish6362 8 ай бұрын

Tred softly and cautiously. Keep your antennas up and alert Justin and Sarah. Blessings to you both and the babies. Continuous prayers ascending. Jayden is her reason for fighting to live. ❤❤❤❤

@cynthiacater5825 8 ай бұрын

True advice given, and hope taken.

@monarnyc 8 ай бұрын

I agree just watch for the future and they may change back to their old ways.

@rlaw4742 8 ай бұрын

Sarah you and Jayden are the blessings for Justin’s mother and his sister. You are so loving and forgiving. ❤

@winifredbrown7771 8 ай бұрын

I am praying for everyone. Peace in a family is so important.

@sweetbamabrown 8 ай бұрын

My face hurts from smiling the entire video. I have happy tears and I'm so happy to hear this. I am praying for her recovery. It's been a long time coming. Hopefully, you all are able to build a strong, lasting relationship.

@blacklikethesun 8 ай бұрын

Right????

@sonchie68 8 ай бұрын

I can see the joy all over you. I'm so happy that Justin's family is beginning to accept you into the family. ❤

@ChristianLove7 8 ай бұрын

I told you Sarah!!! Is there anything too hard for the Lord? “No!” You deserve all the love that his family can give you, you have been so faithful and left the door open for this to happen. Your followers love you too🥰!!!

@nicollette4485 8 ай бұрын

I've watched them for a long time and I'm speechless. Just listening to Sarah and knowing what her & Justin have gone through is just crazy. No disrespect, but I hate that it's taken Justin & Sarah having a baby boy & a stroke for his family to acknowledge this beautiful family. I'm happy for them and I really hope this is nothing but happiness going forward.❤❤❤❤

@z.s.7761 8 ай бұрын

A grandparents will power to live on for their grandchildren is so powerful. I say this because my dad had chronic pain and and other illnesses since before my nephews and nieces were born. He would tell me he couldn’t leave until he saw them older and they graduated. He was basically like a father figure to them. I’m sure your little one gave her strength when she saw him and probably reminded her of her son as well.

@marversecreates 8 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you Jesus!! Amazing! I have been praying for you and your family! I am glad you had a positive experience with them. You absolutely supported them and also gave them a positive experience with Jayden, bringing food and advocating for them at the hostpial. Such a blessing that Justin's mom recovered so quickly, that's a miracle!

@andrewbodie3308 8 ай бұрын

That’s so nice. People don’t realize how important family is until something dramatic happens. Happy for you and the family. 🙏🏼

@spiritharris1080 8 ай бұрын

I’m so happy Jason’s mom is healing. I’m also happy that Jason’s family and you are talking and communicating. So wonderful! Thank God!🙏🏽

@book_worm22 8 ай бұрын

Justin

@happymama1717 8 ай бұрын

Justin's family is FINALLY getting to know what an awesome person you are! I'm so thrilled for you!

@m0m0ntherun 8 ай бұрын

I am so happy that Justin's family now gets to experience the light and amazing human being that you are. You have handled all of this with grace , patience, humbleness and humility. I pray that his family will now open their doors and hearts to you and your kids so that they can enjoy whatever time they have left knowing that their grandchildren love and adore them. Your children will grown up experiencing that love as well. God bless you and your family. I pray that Justin's mom makes a full recovery.

@Human4Peace 8 ай бұрын

As a white mother of 3 children their father being black I am proud of my children and if either side of our families didn't like we were mixed couple we would walk on. Didn't need anyone's approval.

@sandraatkins2539 7 ай бұрын

You are White, so you probably do not suffer from an inferiority complex. As is typical, this Black woman is basing her self-esteem on her acceptance by those non-Black people. She is the type who will accept degradation and humiliation just to be in their company. Respectfully and a word of caution, please make sure that your non-White children do not have this sense of self-loathing, even if others are not aware of it. This woman is really sad, and the old lady is afraid of facing God because she is closer to death than not and fear she will be reprimanded for her hatred.

@dianepulido8526 8 ай бұрын

You are a very patient and non judgemental person. You are someone that doesn't hold grudges. Thats how I see you. I would be angry that so much time was lost not having a relationship with their grandchildren. Me being a grandmother, that kind of relationship is so important and cannot be replaced by anyone. And it must've been very painful just to think what your husband was going through knowing his Mother wanted nothing to do with his children. But, thats just me. I hope things continúe to become more friendly and close as a family. My advice is to take it slow. Justin's mom seems to be a person that becomes overwhelmed very easily. Don't become pushy about visits. She'll have her daughter to help her along at home. I wish the best for all of you.

@jackmedcalf6254 8 ай бұрын

Sarah you have so much grace. You are such a wonderful, strong person.

@Trinity25Apr 8 ай бұрын

Justin's parents and sister have had an epiphany. The Lord truly works in mysterious ways and is always a great leveller. In this time of adversity, they have been moved to acknowledge the existence of Sarah who has been part of their extended family for so long and has,with Justin, created three of the most delightful grand children, neices, nephew they could ever have dreamed of. So much able bodied time has been wasted, now, the mother in law will be learning many things some again, some for the first time. I sincerely hope she makes the best recovery body and soul so that this fractured family can at, long last, heal. Bless you all.

@cassified1378 8 ай бұрын

OMG this just does my heart so good! I am praying for continued healing for her physical health and I pray for emotional healing and bonding between you all! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💗💗💗

@karenh2890 8 ай бұрын

My mother-in-law didn't accept me until I was expecting her first grandchild. We were married eight years before we had a baby. Once my mother-in-law accepted me, then my husband's sister and brother started talking to me. My inlaws were divorced, so thankfully, my father-in-law accepted me from the beginning. The division was over religion in our case. You were very kind to bring food and of course, your baby boy! I hope things are continuing to improve. Life is too short. ❤

@christinawong5158 8 ай бұрын

Hi Sarah, I followed your channel for the past few years. Wonderful to see your family grow and flourish. It is also a blessing that your children and yourself are able to enjoy time and memories with Justin"s family. Your grace, forgiveness and willingness to reach out to your in-laws despite of what they did in the past shows how an amazing person you are. May God continue to bless you and your loved ones.

@annmaria77 8 ай бұрын

Hi Sarah! You look amazing, you are strong and an amazing wife and mother ❤❤❤

@Venise7777 8 ай бұрын

You’re such a sweet person. This is great news! So happy for you & your family ♥️♥️

@shirleystephenson8424 8 ай бұрын

I am smiling from ear-to-ear watching you talk about a situation that has taken a HUGE TURN for the better, thank the Most Highest for this blessing! 🥰❤️🥰

@talithiamcleod5108 8 ай бұрын

Awww Sarah , so happy for you and Justin

@SuzeeD4358 8 ай бұрын

This is wonderful news Sarah! I'm so happy for you guys. Sending love and prayers that Justin's mom continues to improve.

@tkay1154 8 ай бұрын

Can you imagine someone having to take up the courage having to put everything they got, having to gather alllll their strength to finally meet you after disapproving of you not because you are a bad person. Not because you have done something so unforgivably wrong. Not that you got some criminal record or something. But because of the color of your skin, your skin…something you had no control over. God given ❤🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ chilllle anyways. ❤❤

@Sunshine-zi4nq 8 ай бұрын

Colour yes but also cultural differences. Some Koreans also have problems accepting light skin filippinos or Chinese who look like them. Many Asian families prefer own race for fear that a foreigner won't be a good fit in the family. I know of Indian families who got their sons to break up or divorce White women too because they didn't want any mixing. Am not justifying anything. Just explaining. It's changing now with the younger generation. However you are partly right, there will be more objections when the outsider is Black.

@CoffeeCrazy 8 ай бұрын

Preference is one thing but how we treat others is a matter of your heart not culture.

@HelloCoco888 8 ай бұрын

There couldn’t be a more fitting name for your channel Sarah, I guess love can withstand and overcome anything. You did that. I had tears in my eyes. God bless you and your entire family.

@melissatomelden8125 8 ай бұрын

Sarah I admire your ability to take the high road and putting your self on the other persons shoe and be so understanding. The world would be a better place if people had your mindset . You and Justin inspire me to be a better person and for that I thank you ❤

@edsnsharon81 8 ай бұрын

Sarah, those of us that have been watching everything from your wedding till today will know exactly why you lit up like a Christmas tree in this video. This makes my heart so happy and Sarah, did you see yourself on this video? Girl you are glowing with so much excitement and happiness and most importantly the love you showed to Justin's family . I can guarantee all of us had goosebumps while you told this story. I'm so happy that they will finally get to see how amazing you are. Justin, sending love and prayers for your mom that she makes a full recovery. Love always

@debbieclemons4501 8 ай бұрын

Sarah I totally proud of you!! You are a wonderful daughter in law!! She will see that! Kept doing what you doing and be supportive of your husband and his mother/family. It will work out in the end!! Also who won’t change after seeing Jayden and your daughters

@jondcarson52 8 ай бұрын

Well " Hold back tears, hold back tears" did not work for me. I have been a blubbering mess watching this wonderful revelation. It is unfortunate that such a profound health event triggered these truly life changing moments. I think that staring at one's own mortality can have a profound influence on behavior. I am thrilled for you all. Even if your mother in law reverts to her old habits, I feel that you have witnessed her true feelings, and that your sister in law has always wanted to embrace all of you but felt obliged to fall in line. You have just made my weekend, and maybe my week a more joyful one. So happy for you all. Grab hold of these moments, and cherish them, regardless of what happens in the future. Jon

@merklingassoc 8 ай бұрын

Your video is making me cry. This is so wonderful that you've been finally able to meet the family. I'm always amazed how tragedy often opens closed doors and brings families together. What a gift that your little one (and you and your kindness) helped Ralley your mother-in-law and give her the want to live and recover. You may say, well I don't know, but it's clear to me it's true. FYI atrial fibrillation biggest risk is stroke. My husband had it and also had a stroke. I hope your mother-in-law continues to recover and that your father-in-law stay safe and healthy. ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

@dmorkehill 8 ай бұрын

@LoveWithstanding , The Power of God ❤. You and Justin have always been humble and respectful. God intervened and humbled his mom and sister. You and Justin continued to be who you are, kind, respectful, and humble. You showed them Grace during a devastating time. Their hearts softened and opened. They FINALLY see YOU❤❤❤. CHEERS TO HER RECOVERY AND THE HEALING OF YOUR FAMILY. So very happy for you all. Especially your babies ❤❤❤

@carolbarlow8896 8 ай бұрын

How wonderful that God turned this whole thing around. Sending love and prayers for continued healing from Atlanta, Georgia. 💗

@ahhhbeee3673 8 ай бұрын

You are an amazing human being! The fact that you never gave up just says a lot about your character. Your intentions were pure You never badmouthed them but was just disappointed about the situation. I hope they get to see that now. This put a lump in my throat & nearly started balling for you. I’m so happy for you & Justin. Hate really never wins & your love really prevailed! I hope this is the start of good things. Kinda going through something like this but a little different. Watching this made me realize that hate doesn’t solve hate. And you always have to be the bigger person. May God continue to bless you & your fam. Thank you for sharing & I’m so happy for you both. Such a beautiful person you are! I hope they see that.

@cicilyly6027 8 ай бұрын

Sarah you are the sweetest daughter in law to them. They are so blessed to have you apart of their family. You’re so caring and kind.

@blacklikethesun 8 ай бұрын

Sarah im so proud of you. Dude, this almost got me teary eyed. I really hope justins mom makes a speedy recovery. I hope you can have a relationship with his sister and parents. Do your best.

@jrbear12182000 8 ай бұрын

Keep rising shining stars as light shines around you all.

@sharondafrazier2489 8 ай бұрын

That is awesome!! Everything happens for a reason. This seems to have soften her heart toward you. I pray that she has a speedy recovery 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@barbaraguthrie5107 8 ай бұрын

I would definitely NOT vent to the sister!

@joceyz 8 ай бұрын

I’ve been watching your story evolve over the years. This is the glimmer of hope we’ve all been rooting for you.

@lagunn327 8 ай бұрын

I am so happy your Mother-in-law is improving and has met and held her grandson. Praying for her continued healing and for the entire family to bond!

@sherrir2531 8 ай бұрын

You are owed an apology from that whole family.

@Cookincrazy 8 ай бұрын

Yeah I hope she doesn’t just let this all fast forward to “acceptance” because of their traumatic event. That’s not fair to her at all. And an easy pass GO for them

@TSUNAMI-MAMI 8 ай бұрын

Wishing you, and your beautiful family healing and happiness, Sarah. I hope this is the beginning of a new chapter full of love, connection, and family ❤

@Jayy01234 8 ай бұрын

Wow.. I’m so sorry to hear that you all had to be brought together in this way. But, I’ve been watching your guys channel for years and I’m so glad to hear that you’ve been able to take this huge step and that it went so well! Sending all of my love and well wishes to your family! 🙏🏾❤️

@lindatoliver2267 8 ай бұрын

Sarah you are beautiful on the outside and the inside.

@MichaelPark21 8 ай бұрын

I am happy to see that is some positive progress for your mother in law's health :) Lots of love!!!

@SweevosWife325 8 ай бұрын

Love y'all so much!!! Beautiful family! I hope you receive kindness and love from Justin's family. I hope it all work's out in the end. Y'all deserve to be a whole family. 💜💜💜

@mercibeau 8 ай бұрын

aw i commend your guys’ patience with justin’s family. this is so awesome to see progress!

@mimi-yt7gq 8 ай бұрын

I have been praying for this since before your 1st was born. I have been a long time sub and followed your story. This is such a great start to a beautiful family! I pray it all goes great. Hugs!

@taliasmith3347 8 ай бұрын

I am happy to hear that your mother in law is getting better 🙏! You are an awesome daughter in low! ❤

@harlemcattux7997 8 ай бұрын

Could you have dared to wish for more....continued healing for Justin's mother and prayers that the family grows even closer. Thank you for sharing the story betw your in-laws (mother/sister) and yourself as it evolved, it was like watching it happen....and, each part was like a gift being unwrapped. (* You're right to take it slow, you don't want to step on any sensitive toes or be pushy...the connection is still new and fragile.)💓

@andie9842 8 ай бұрын

That's amazing! So happy for yall! Babies really bring the most joy & sunshine to everyone in this world..they're such a blessing! Sending healing thoughts & 💕 love! ❤✌️

@Quyllur1 8 ай бұрын

That’s great news!! Family is everything and I’m so happy you guys finally interacted and hopefully it’s a wonderful beginning to a beautiful relationship with the family. You guys are so genuine and sweet, they’re so blessed to have you guys too. ❤

@jenniferlooby8776 8 ай бұрын

I am extremely happy for you guys. I hope you and your sister-in-law and mother-in-law will continue this relationship 😂😂❤

@adritori8179 8 ай бұрын

In tears listening to this. I’ve been waiting to hear this news for so long. Im glad it finally happened, I wish it was under better circumstances but this is good news. Looking forward to hear about your continued good progress with the family relationships.

@bettyG101 8 ай бұрын

Been watching your channel for awhile...I'm so happy to see the joy on your face and in your heart. Prayers for the family to stay united and prayers for Justin's mother's speedy recovery. 🙏🏽💜🙏🏽💜🙏🏽

@andie9842 8 ай бұрын

Yea also so much props to you hun...for being so thoughtful & caring, patient & kind❤

@karenmitchell3441 8 ай бұрын

So happy for you! Hopefully all goes well from here onward!! 💖❤💕

@vamswolfmom4498 8 ай бұрын

Sarah, I’m glad you’re such a kind and sweet person. You deserve being happy knowing that you can see your husband breathe again. What a relief. Sending you and your family love and strength 😊🫶🏽🙏🏽❤

@TA-fm1nq 8 ай бұрын

This is absolutely the very, very best NEWS I’ve heard all year 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Thank You 🙏🏽 God. 👍🏽👍🏽♥️♥️♥️

@jeandavid4162 8 ай бұрын

That is awesome. Jaydon could be her therapy to getting better and stronger. I'm so happy for you all. Praying for Justins mom to fully get better.

@HappyBlueButterfly 8 ай бұрын

You are a such a graceful woman❤much love to you Sarah!

@tambui2587 8 ай бұрын

You're so sweet, Sarah. Your in laws is very lucky to have you in their lives. Hope they will come around now. Best wishes!!

@leishie98716 8 ай бұрын

I’ve been following for years and this is such a blessing. Praying that God will continue to heal his mom and that your relationship blossoms.

@racheyraych8060 8 ай бұрын

I’m happy for you Sarah,Justin and the kids🙏🏼 must have been a very humbling experience for his mother. Praying for her for a complete recovery and hopefully a new chapter with your family 🙏🏼❤️ blessings