Katli sounds like a good person even the way she speaks, you can almost see that she’s got good intentions ♥️♥️♥️

Katlego is soo wise & only wisdom builds a home. I don't even want to talk about her beauty.

"...even if that person does not give you that respect. Offer it to them,they will tag along the way..." Shuuuu the maturity and wisdom in this though. 😍

I love how she keeps on saying "my son" not step son

This kind of women are indeed found by prayer. I am not in that situation but these opened my eyes. I wish all the step parents may find strength like hers.

I love how she keeps on saying “my son” 😭♥️ From the way she’s speaking, I think she’s a good mom and wife. May God bless her and keep their entire family together.

Oh my God I am in tears right now. this came a a perfect time for me. I have been struggling with my 10 year old daughter (step daughter) and I could not understand or did not know how to handle the challenges we have been having. This has made me realize that I am the adult in this situation, and she is the child, this was so helpful. Great content and God bless

Wow! Katli sounds so matured and like she’s been married for over 10 years. Buli you got a gem in your friend.

Also I love how Buli allowed the guest to own the interview. Totally enjoyed it ♥️♥️♥️

Above all credit must be to her husband who had his storyv straight and by the looks of it he handled the barriers with his ex and son and Katli well. Maturity,respect, and love is important... A huge clap for Abhut' Colleen👊

Beautiful conversation indeed. I have a 2year old daughter and I used to worry that I won't find a man who will love her as much as I do. But to hear another woman saying "My son is my everything" (even though he is not her biological son), it gives me hope that my husband is out there and when the timing is right- God will make it happen. Thank you so much guys. Katli we need more women like you. May God bless both you and Buli, Mncwaaaa

I was referred to by a friend. I’m currently in a relationship with someone that has a child outside the relationship. I must say that this video was so informative. It’s not easy at all. My boyfriend’s baby mama is really spreading the negative energy and she’s making this whole process difficult for me. She would call and lie that the child is sick and making unnecessary demands just to ruin our moments and stress my man out. Sometimes she would deny mans access to the baby. I know she might be hurting but she’s not helping. I wish she could be open minded to this and put her differences aside and co-parent. Sometimes mans want to stop reaching out but I’m always there to encourage and advise him to do it for his child. Sis Katli God bless you ❤️ Sis u just earned yourself a subie ❤️❤️❤️

We need conversations like these, to help those who are in relationships & may feel stranded & knowing how to approach certain matters within the relationship. It would also be great to hear from a guy's perspective & how they dealt with the situation. Thank you Buli😊

This lady is very much matured. She doesnt do badmouthing like other women would do😍❤😘😍❤

What a beautiful and profound interview. Katli is so mature and a marvel to listen to. Loved all the witty nuggets that she threw in. Great interview Buli. Keep up the good work 😍

The wisdom in this video is what I need. I've recently started dating someone with a child, not involved in the child's life yet but I feel like I needed something like this 👌🏽🖤🖤

Only 10mins in and I’d love to see more of Katli on your channel ❤️. She’s always been so level headed, gentle and kind... actually since primary school now that I think about it and my goodness she’s grown into a phenomenal woman. Great video Buli. Definitely sharing with anyone who will ever encounter this scenario

Katli seems like a calm and peaceful woman with so much wisdom. I could listen to the both of you all day. Keep feeding us this good stuff Buli❤️

Glad i came across this kind of content. Two fearfully and wonderfully made ladies sharing their wisdom. Very much needed . ...love from Namibia

Firstly thank you for that disclaimer. The sound was on point throughout the video. I think the biggest take away for me in this video is that boundaries are important and that the partner with the child needs to set the tone for how things will progress with the co-parenting I absolutely love Katli's heart. In shines through in this video ❤

Abuti Collin found a priceless and a bonafide gem in Katlego; I really enjoyed watching this. Very insightful ☺️.

What a fruitful interview, as a single mom that will get married one day , you've really covered some of my concerns with being in a blended family

As a wife who is raising a blended family, I really enjoyed this 🤗😊 When my husband and I met, we gifted each other with 2 year olds 😁..... I can relate so much with Katli especially with making the rules consistent in both households. I have learnt so much from this video, thank you very much ❤️❤️

3 months into my relationship and my partner has a son who's almost 2, I haven't met him but from the way he talks about him am already in love. And I am in love with the father that my boyfriend is

I’m so glad I ran into this channel, right now. I’m in a very serious relationship with a man with a child and there’s a bit of a friction. This video was very insightful. ❤️

Katlego is such a beautiful person. Really such a meaningful conversation, so much wisdom , conveyed so gracefully. Great content Buli ❤

Thank you to Kathi for the part about how you should already have a room, clothes and all essentials at both houses because step children always feel like visitors. ❤❤

"She's not realer than I am", stumbled upon this channel and I have found it so insightful. Katli is just a ball of wisdom, I pray I become this patient in a situation like this. Great content, amazing topic.

Powerful Interview. Love the content. I liked how katli said She and her Husband are one and how he constantly call the boy My Son... She's such a wonderful Parent and a Boy is blessed to be raised under such Parents.

Katli sounds like a very sweet and loving person. It really takes a matured person to do this co-parenting thing and she's the best at it ❤❤. Loved this episode 💕

Your wife talks are just gold!!! As a new wife of 10 months this has been so inspiring. Keep doing what you are doing. You are a blessing.

Absolutely beautiful and insightful. To especially people that had ruled out raising children that are not theirs(me). It takes maturity and Gods wisdom. Katli's husband is blessed to have her and make raising a child in two homes manageable. Thanks Buli❤

What a conversation! This is good Buli! Also Katli is such a breath of fresh air, so well poised, so mature, my gosh!!!

Absolutely love Katli! So mature, so wise and so knowledgeable! Virtuous woman. I love how she says “my son”. Do invite her again Mrs M♥️

Wow!! This got me so emotional. It's so wonderful to see people who love peace and unity. Keep being beautiful and having a golden heart ♥

Katli is one of the most gracious and kindest people you'll ever meet, even from just one conversation! So much wisdom and love to share. Loved this video!

I love the heart behind this particular segment. So very intentional. Katli is a well of wisdom wowwww... This was amazing. Thanks ladies

Buli’s ability to remain honest, observant and opening the platform for Katlego is amazing. Katli is a light that’s walking. When Jesus says we should joyfully take on the cross, this lady is exemplary. Here we’re being shown that it’s possible to have a fully functional and loving blended family. This young lady comes across as operating from the love Jesus teaches. Abhuti Collin met an amazing woman. Surely he’s also great because she seems like someone who operates from wisdom and picked the right one 💎. Thank you ladies ☺️.

This is a wonderful interview and very informative. Katlego is holding her household down very well and with so much wisdom. ❤

Literally GOALS!! this is what I love, the relationship between the women. Love to see it.

Katli😍😍 very beautiful, soft spoken and sounds so wise. Love love her💕

Best content 👏🏾👏🏾. This just shed light on how to handle the situation. Such wisdom

Thank you for this video, I love Katli's maturity and heart, it's so pure. Learned so much

I thoroughly enjoyed this interview 💯 I love the content sis! Katli walks in wisdom.

22:12 I am Katli and Katli is me 😁😁.... I feel the same way about kids with cellphones and I've somehow stopped my daughter's biological mom from getting her a phone and after this convo, I feel soo bad 🙈🙈🙊 Katli is soo kind and gracious. You ladies are awesome 😃

Thank you Buli for this informative content. Katli is such an understanding, grounded, humble, sweet and thoughtful mother. I'm equipped with all she has uttered. God bless you wives ❤️☺️🙏

Katli is so maternal very well spoken.May God continue blessing you abundantly with your family.

I love Katli, for some reason I understand why you guys are friends.This was so nice to watch.

thank you so much for this video; Katli shared so much insight, wisdom and maturity ♥️

Loved this so much. I know Katli, met her through a mutual friend way back when. She’s always been this matured. Enjoyed this video thoroughly.

OMG I loved this video!! Katlego seems like such a nice person, I enjoyed this topic. It shared some light because I also had the same sentiments of not dating someone with a child

I enjoyed the interview ❤❤. Katlego is so beautiful, sweet & humble. Buhle thank you doing the wife talk series.

Katlego speaks so well hle. Like she's so fluent in her speech, she's pleasant to listen to. Really enjoyed this video. Thank you ladies.

First time viewer... shes definitely wife material... shes just got such calm energies

I thoroughly enjoyed this video. Thank you Buli. Katli is so gracious in her approach, love it.

Wow my first time seeing this and I'm impressed .... well it's something I've been thinking about often, blended family marriages. I was terrified just at the thought but seeing such a young mom talking so positively about the whole scenario gives me hope so I may say this was definately sent from heaven Your maturity Lady humbles me mhhhh.

I'm in a relationship of 3 years and having a 5 year old from the previous relationship. I always admire how my partner is so loving, supportive towards my child.. Thank Buli for this video

Okay, I didn't want this to end. Much love for you both

That was beautiful, really enjoyed it. You asked really good and useful questions

Really enjoyed this video. Both of you so well spoken, so graceful, so profound, so wise, so beautiful. Everything flows from love indeed.

Oh wow Buli this was so informative, lol I'm not a mom yet not even married or dating but this was really on point. I really love your friend, she's so matured and wise, so organized...Some people were really made for these kind of things, she is such a mom! What a queen really! Lol its like she studied to be like this, I really love to see it.

Katli speaks from a beautiful space. Sooooooo wise! Abuti Collin is blessed. Blended families are tough.

This is such an eye opener . I'm grateful 🙌🏿❤️

I like how matured her response to situations is. Lord teach us 🤣🤣🤣🤣

This was so worth watching and so informative. I am going to watch this over and over again ❤️

wow. thoroughly enjoyed this video. so important to have these conversations. so necessary!

I absolutely loved this conversation. Thank you Buli and Katli ❤️

I dont have experience in the topic but I really enjoyed this conversation. Very mature and its conversations we dont have enough in our society. The biggest thing i took from this is that the Biological parents made it easy for her to come into the space. Well done ladies

Oh My Word!!....first time I saw your channel and so refreshing to watch a SA video...and a woman of such elegance, wisdom, beautiful and God fearing family... I love the person you are...and I Love you you both (you and you husband) beautiful couple. And such insightful content...that we can learn from ...God bless

i needed this!!

Wow I love this, here I am thinking if I had or Thando had a kid before we got married that we would have really benefited from this episode. Hey Katli and B you guys unpacked a very interesting topic hey, big up guys and God bless you.

Thank you so much for this conversation. I'm currently in a relationship with a man who has a 5 year old son and it hasn't been easy not even one bit. Took a lot from this. I have a lot of learning and unlearning to do. Definitely need to take this journey one step at a time.

This was really helpful, thoroughly enjoyed it ❤️. This was a very mature conversation!

Wow! Thank you so much Katlego for sharing. You are such a matured woman. I've learnt that building a home requires a great deal of wisdom, love and understanding. beautiful conversation ladies. God Bless

I don’t even have kids, but wow I’ve surely learnt a lot. @Katlie you’re a blessing 😘❤️

Katli is so wise. What a pleasure to listen to her. 😍🥺

You interview so well mate! Incredible at it in fact ❤️ Katlego also blows my mind with her eloquence and wisdom! Overall great content

Thanks for a beautiful and insightful video Buli, Katlego seems like an amazing person!

This was a very well thought topic, so insightful. Thank you ladies.

Spirit led🙌. What a sizzling interview, Katli you have tackled it so well. Your honesty and how you handle everything is impressive . You are a great parent. May God bless you #smartAndMarried# 🥰

You two are beautiful and so classy. Love this video. I also love how the children are playing in the background. So stinking cute

what a beautiful conversation Buli your friend has a beautiful heart and shes a breathe of fresh air...

First time watching your channel and I absolutely love your content.

Wow. Katli is a really wise woman. God bless the both of you ladies ❤️

I really enjoyed this wow!! ❤ Thank you Buli

This video was everything I didn't know I needed. Thank you for this!!

I loved every second of this interview.

Soooo much to take away... Thank you so much Katlego.... TRAIL AND ERROR on another level!

Listen the timing! I just met a guy who has not just 1 but 3 kids 😂😂. I don't know how but I did! The journey is yet to unfold! 😊 Thank you Buli & Katli

This was interesting. Love love the content

Katli is so mature. I enjoyed this conversation. :)

This was a very interesting conversation and I am so glad to hear from another young lady how she is going about it. I definately want to go about things in a less chaotic manner and be mature about it all, especially when I feel like the mom isn't. Thank you Katlego for the advice about being the bigger person when the other party isn't coming correct. I think keeping the conversations all about the kid is really important, for both parents and always respecting the others boundaries.

What an interview 👏👏💯💯🔥🔥Katli is such a lovely lady... God blessed you with amazing friends Mrs M🌹

Katli is such a beautiful soul 😍😢❤️

Absolutely amazing & filled with soo much wisdom.. humbled😢❤..keep spreading love❤👌👌❤

this has been so helpful ladies ... thank you so much for all of this.

So much wisdom, thanks for a great content.

I loved this conversation and gave me further insight to what i did not know. and honestly speaking i fall into the "i know i cannot do this" category. I know life throws you curve balls but in my head i want a certain structure for my child and having another external person influence/ me influence their child/ my child would be HARD for me. so i guess (hopefully not) if i'm faced with such i would rrruuunn. and honestly its OK, not everyone can do this.

Thank you Buli for the great content

Loved this❤️