Does God Allow Polygamy in the Bible?

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Douglas Beaumont

Douglas Beaumont

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The Catholic Church has never supported the practice of polygamy and I know of no Protestant denomination that affirms polygamy. But why not? The problem with polygamy must be in the Bible, right? Right???
0:00 Protestant Polygamy?
1:23 Polygamy vs. Polyamory, Polyandry, and Polygyny
2:14 Disproving Polygamy with the Bible Alone
2:59 What the Bible says About Polygamy
3:58 Anti-Polygamy Bible Prooftexts
4:20 Polygamy According to Deuteronomy 17:17
5:12 Polygamy According to1 Corinthians 7:2
5:48 Polygamy According to 1 Timothy 3:2
6:39 Pro-Polygamy Bible Prooftexts
7:21 Godly Polygamists in the Bible
7:33 Polygamy Allowed, Rewarded, and Blessed in the Bible
8:47 Martin Luther on Polygamy
8:57 Protestant Divorce and Remarriage
9:54 Catholicism on Polygamy
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@christopherolugu7404
@christopherolugu7404 5 ай бұрын
This is a great video. I found this knowledge out through 100s of videos I’ve watched and you pretty much give it all in a matter of 10 minutes. Good stuff man.
@scorpionking685
@scorpionking685 Жыл бұрын
Keep coming pls 🙏. Very clear. Thank you n God bless.
@antoniocossa4508
@antoniocossa4508 11 ай бұрын
One of the best expositions I have ever seen on this subject.
@stason8096
@stason8096 Жыл бұрын
Never thought of that before, great points.
@Peter-tg9zv
@Peter-tg9zv Жыл бұрын
Besides the Levirite Marriage the strongest proofs would be that God calls himself the husband of two wives and Jesus portrays himself as the groom of five brides.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Yeah one could go there too!
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont And we do, but that is only scratching the surface. When you really explore how deep this rabbit hole goes, you run FROM Catholicism, not towards it.
@TrailandBackAgain
@TrailandBackAgain Жыл бұрын
Well laid out. Thanks!
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
I appreciate it Mark!
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
Perhaps, but with the wrong implied conclusion.
@johnxland9373
@johnxland9373 Жыл бұрын
We really have to pray for our protestant brothers and sisters so they can finally fino the Truth.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Amen
@christopherlampman5579
@christopherlampman5579 Жыл бұрын
Worked for me boys. Keep praying. I’m still technically a southern baptist looking to start RCIA as soon as possible.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
Uh! The truth is found in Scripture; not the whore of Babylon! You are praying to so called saints, but in reality they are demonic spirits.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
@@christopherlampman5579 Why?
@simplydanny
@simplydanny Жыл бұрын
What a gem of a coffee break. Doug always comes with such common sense to his videos. Few but good videos.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Thanks Danny! I endeavor to teach truth while making content that doesn't just repeat the same stuff thats already out there. :)
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
Psalms 18 was written by David after Saul had died. At this time, David had married Ahinoam and Abigail, and yet the Holy Spirit inspired him to write that he was righteous and had kept himself from iniquity. That doesn't exactly jive with Catholic dogma, and yet they claim to be led by the Holy Spirit. This same Holy Spirit that gave us these words from King David, is not the one leading the Roman church. That church has been led by a different spirit, that is not from God.
@simplydanny
@simplydanny Жыл бұрын
@@danieldeluca4936 what exactly doesn’t jive with catholic dogma and can you specify which dogma you’re talking about, because we differentiate between dogma, doctrine and teachings.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
@@simplydanny Catholic dogma teaches that polygyny is a sin.
@simplydanny
@simplydanny Жыл бұрын
@@danieldeluca4936 it teaches that it’s not the ideal of God proven by Jesus, which would make it divine revelation thus Dogma. Are you saying that polygamy should be allowed, and because Catholics believe it shouldn’t be allowed we don’t have the same Holy Spirit? Please tell me your more nuanced than this.
@gk3292
@gk3292 Жыл бұрын
Great job Douglas!! ✝️🙏
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Thank you kindly.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
The only thing he proved here, is that the doctrine of monogamy only is unbiblical. This is what I have been trying to tell the people in my church. On the one hand, he is right that this doctrine is not consistent with Sola Scriptura. On the other hand, this is a very bad reason to embrace Catholicism. You don't embrace the very source of heretical teachings on account that the churches that are closer to the truth of Scripture, have not yet forsaken those heretical teachings. That is a very bad logical conclusion!
@canibezeroun1988
@canibezeroun1988 Жыл бұрын
It's so funny you bring this up. I talked over going to the Catholic Church with a friend and I told him polygamy wasn't condemned by scripture. He basically said you could infer it being forbidden, but I didn't agree and said someone had to teach him that. "Look at how their lives turned out!" Because Job, a man of one wife had a great life while he was going through a trial.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Yeah that's not a good argument. I remember Geisler saying the first recorded polygamist was a murderer and I thought "the first recorded monogamist brought death to the entire human race"!
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
Yet all this proves, is that polygyny is not a sin! God never condemned it. It was condemned in the Greco Roman culture long before Christianity was perveted by this heretical idea. Forbidding marriage is a doctrine of demons, but we see women in our churches who simply cannot find a husband in the church, because they are searching in an ever shrinking pool of unmarried men. When you think of Catholicism and marriage, does it not strike you as odd that Rome will not allow divorce, but they will annul a marriage? The effect is the same! They are STILL separating what God hath joined together, whether they want to recognize that God has joined them together or not!
@ottom.3094
@ottom.3094 Жыл бұрын
@@danieldeluca4936 Exodus 20:10 If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights. Deuteronomy 17:17 And he shall not acquire many wives for himself, lest his heart turn away, nor shall he acquire for himself excessive silver and gold. Multiplying wives is in the same category as multiplying wealth. Do we also teach Christians they can only have (1) car? Only (1) house? Only (1) oz of Gold? Furthermore, if the Master had no problem with his servant, David, having roughly 20 wives, then who are we to judge? 2 Samuel 12:8 (to king David) I gave you your master’s house and his wives and the kingdoms of Israel and Judah. And if that had not been enough, I would have given you much, much more. Also to king david: 1 Kings 15:5 For David had done what was pleasing in the LORD’s sight and had obeyed the LORD’s commands throughout his life, except in the affair concerning Uriah the Hittite. Therefore the Master, King Jesus Christ, had no issue with david taking care of multiple women and children through marriage. The marriage bed can not be defiled - but God will judge adulterers and fornicators (Hebrews 13:4). A man (husband) becomes “one flesh” with any woman he has sex with. Even a prostitute, therefore, he can become one flesh with more than one woman: 1 Corinthians 6:16 Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.” Flee from sexual immorality. What about what Paul wrote regarding everyone having his own wife and her own husband? If you read what the Holy Spirit had Paul write in the original Greek Language, you’ll see that it’s an entirely different Greek word between the man and woman: 1 Corinthians 7:2 “Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own [heautou - exclusively owned] wife, and let every woman have her own [idios - shared] husband.” If the Holy Spirit wanted monogamy only - then the Spirit could had Paul write “heautou” for both the husband and wife. No human translation is perfect - only the Holy Spirit is Perfect 🕊❤️ New Matthew Bible (from William Tyndale who was martyred. This came before the kjv): Matthew 5:28 But I say to you that whosoever looks on a “wife,” (γυναῖκα) lusting after her, has committed adultery with her already in his heart. Almost all translations translated the Greek word “γυναῖκα” to “woman” instead of correctly translating to “wife.” But for that same Greek word “γυναῖκα” they translate correctly to “wife” in every other verse. 1 Timothy 4:3 1 Now the Holy Spirit tells us clearly that in later days people will follow deceptive spirits and teachings that come from demons. 3 They will “forbid marriage.”
@GoldenRuffian
@GoldenRuffian 9 ай бұрын
Exactly, there is nothing in the Bible or Scripture against polygyny. You would have to ADD to Scripture with "tradition" to arrive at that.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont 8 ай бұрын
You also have to ADD to Scripture with "tradition" to arrive at the idea that every truth needs to be spelled out in the Bible.
@GoldenRuffian
@GoldenRuffian 8 ай бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont every truth? Or just the explicit Truth of God's unchanging character, the EVERLASTING permanence of His Instruction, and the objective standard of good and evil? The Bible is what we judge all other "truth" by; and if the Word directly conflicts with any assertion, we must faithfully submitt to His Will. If we try to ADD to the Word - specifically the Torah, and try to speak for God, then we have made ourselves God. As if we can know good from evil ourselves, as opposed to knowing what God ordains as God good and evil; it's literally the lie the Serpent told Eve in the Garden.
@mikesolns1364
@mikesolns1364 7 ай бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont This is blasphemy
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont 7 ай бұрын
What is? @@mikesolns1364
@charlesbeatty888
@charlesbeatty888 Жыл бұрын
Good work sir.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Many thanks
@FrJohnBrownSJ
@FrJohnBrownSJ Жыл бұрын
Clear. Thanks for this.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
The only thing that is clear is that Scripture never calls polygyny a sin. The reality is that Rome introduced this heresy of monogamy only into the church, and this teaching is among the doctrines that the Evangelical church has yet to eradicate.
@isoldam
@isoldam Жыл бұрын
There was an advertisement for relationship counseling for polyamorous people on this video. It's amazing what self destructive things people can talk themselves into. What makes me sick is that some of these people have kids.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
The wheels have come almost completely off the morality bus in the West. Incest and then Pedophilia will prpbably be next. People always think they can limit the effects of their poor principles by intuition but the next generation diesnt see it (e.g., Luther and Protestantism).
@scottschultz2669
@scottschultz2669 Жыл бұрын
Now in Canada, government is promoting state sanction assisted suicide for disabled, elderly and others. The same government also promoting sex with animals. This is very vile and evil against God and His creation. I pray and sincerely hope that Vatican will speak out and condemn such actions. Protestant leadership sadly won’t.
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
I think it's rather dangerous to lump in "polygyny" which is biblical, good, and certainly not sinful, with other non-biblical forms of "marriage" like polyamory / etc. We may very well need polygyny in the west as Christians to care for an overwhelmingly growing gap between good Christian men and women, and all this "evil" shade being thrown on the practice will only make that harder to accomplish. Polygyny is 1 man, 1 woman, in a covenant with God. If a man should take a 2nd, it's a separate covenant, there is NOTHING sinful about this, it's never been rebuked, condoned, or said to be a problem by God, man shouldn't be adding to the text what isn't there.
@NeshieTheKingSlayer
@NeshieTheKingSlayer Ай бұрын
Abraham had Sarah and Hagar, Jacob had 4 wives and 12 sons from those 4 wives…. David had about 7 wives but when he took another man’s wife in Samuel god rebuked him. Then David turned from his sins but didn’t divorce Bathsheba. Weird.
@lelamaciolek1166
@lelamaciolek1166 Ай бұрын
Oh man. I’d rather not be married if I had to share a husband.
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
Good job on this video, and thanks for putting it out there. The protestant church 100% has it wrong on this issue, the reality is that it just hasn't been a pressing issue for the church, ever... thanks to it being outlawed as a practice for most basically since the church started. But with marriage laws changing the way they are, the church is in for some real trouble soon I think, and this question will start coming up way more often for pastors, who in my experience have nothing more than base level (terrible) arguments on this issue, and are definitely not prepared.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
He doesn't actually agree with polygyny being acceptable. He simply disagrees with Sola Scriptura. Read his responses to my comment. You can see that he embraces this doctrine of demons.
@ottom.3094
@ottom.3094 Жыл бұрын
Exodus 20:10 If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights. Deuteronomy 17:17 And he shall not acquire many wives for himself, lest his heart turn away, nor shall he acquire for himself excessive silver and gold. Multiplying wives is in the same category as multiplying wealth. Do we also teach Christians they can only have (1) car? Only (1) house? Only (1) oz of Gold? Furthermore, if the Master had no problem with his servant, David, having roughly 20 wives, then who are we to judge? 2 Samuel 12:8 (to king David) I gave you your master’s house and his wives and the kingdoms of Israel and Judah. And if that had not been enough, I would have given you much, much more. Also to king david: 1 Kings 15:5 For David had done what was pleasing in the LORD’s sight and had obeyed the LORD’s commands throughout his life, except in the affair concerning Uriah the Hittite. Therefore the Master, King Jesus Christ, had no issue with david taking care of multiple women and children through marriage. The marriage bed can not be defiled - but God will judge adulterers and fornicators (Hebrews 13:4). A man (husband) becomes “one flesh” with any woman he has sex with. Even a prostitute, therefore, he can become one flesh with more than one woman: 1 Corinthians 6:16 Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.” Flee from sexual immorality. What about what Paul wrote regarding everyone having his own wife and her own husband? If you read what the Holy Spirit had Paul write in the original Greek Language, you’ll see that it’s an entirely different Greek word between the man and woman: 1 Corinthians 7:2 “Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own [heautou - exclusively owned] wife, and let every woman have her own [idios - shared] husband.” If the Holy Spirit wanted monogamy only - then the Spirit could had Paul write “heautou” for both the husband and wife. No human translation is perfect - only the Holy Spirit is Perfect 🕊❤️ New Matthew Bible (from William Tyndale who was martyred. This came before the kjv): Matthew 5:28 But I say to you that whosoever looks on a “wife,” (γυναῖκα) lusting after her, has committed adultery with her already in his heart. Almost all translations translated the Greek word “γυναῖκα” to “woman” instead of correctly translating to “wife.” But for that same Greek word “γυναῖκα” they translate correctly to “wife” in every other verse. 1 Timothy 4:3 1 Now the Holy Spirit tells us clearly that in later days people will follow deceptive spirits and teachings that come from demons. 3 They will “forbid marriage.”
@kuameandrew9554
@kuameandrew9554 7 ай бұрын
thankx very much
@hollyrodriguez3259
@hollyrodriguez3259 Жыл бұрын
I’m a Catholic convert. I’m entering a Carmelite monastery soon. My dad is a Presbyterian or “reformed theologist”. I’ve bought him books on Scott Hahn and several books he can look through when he has questions about why we believe what we do or where our catholic teachings can be found in tradition and scripture. He seems to enjoy attacking my catholic faith. I was an atheist before I converted. He doesn’t truly consider us Catholics to be Christian’s. He tries to use all of the cliche tactics that a typical Protestant uses, like “where in the scriptures does it say…” and it gets old. I hope one day you can do a video on the non scriptural teachings of reformed theologists. Specifically T.U.L.I.P …. Calvinism is unfortunately a very cold and cultish denomination. I get sick of hearing that Jesus did not die for all mankind and that free will doesn’t exist because of a special clubhouse full of “the elect”. It breaks my heart that people can call themselves a Christian while believing God is the author of evil and just sends innocent souls to eternal damnation because he “predestined” it.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
Forbidding marriage is a doctrine of demons.
@ottom.3094
@ottom.3094 Жыл бұрын
Lord Jesus did not die for the whole world. Only those whom the Father sent to him. Most of the world does not seek God nor fear God. We all have free will - but not everyone is going to diligently seek God and find Lord Jesus. The road is wide to destruction.
@ashutoshshrivastavnanditat4052
@ashutoshshrivastavnanditat4052 Жыл бұрын
That is an eye opener. Earlier, your bumber sticker Catholicism attracted me away from fundamentalism of Bible alone type of Christianity
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Glad it helped! Devin helped me too!
@Holy-Heretic
@Holy-Heretic 7 ай бұрын
nice video- good points- but one mistake- many many protestants especially baptists are pretty firm about being anti-divorce and anti-remarriage.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont 7 ай бұрын
Protestantism basically invented "Christian divorce" so "many many" is, I think, an overstatement (unless you just mean they don't *like* it). How many denominations are firm about disallowance?
@Holy-Heretic
@Holy-Heretic 7 ай бұрын
​@@DouglasBeaumont All I can say is that every protestant church I've been to personally has been pretty strongly against it (Including by not letting a man who were divorced and remarried serve as deacons or elders- even though they the man in question did it before he were Christians)- I suppose I can't really speak for the broader protestant tradition
@Holy-Heretic
@Holy-Heretic 7 ай бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont maybe I should make it only one many :)
@Holy-Heretic
@Holy-Heretic 7 ай бұрын
which were sbc, pca, and nondenom churches
@growohio
@growohio Жыл бұрын
I find your teachings interesting. At various times of my life I have been a Southern Baptist and a member of the Church of the Nazarene, neither of which make allowance for divorce in their respective statements of faith. I would be curious to know of any Sects that officially sanction divorce, as there is greatdiiference in the sanctioning of an action, and the mere recognition of the reality of the action. What of Genesis 3:24, what of becoming "one flesh", under the teaching that you seem to espouse, this would leave open becoming one flesh with multipe spouses.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Like most things in Protestantism there us a spectrum of beliefs and moral allowances. There are 2 or 3 multi-view books on divorce you might find interesting. Genesis 3 is the starting point for the discussion and I think that if you combine it with Jesus' teaching on divorce the picture of God's ideal of monogamy comes through. The problem is people become one flesh when they have sex whether they are married or not (1 Cor. 6:16), so the real question is whether it is appropriate. Since it is only appropriate for married people that begs the question as to how many people can be married and we're right back where we started. :)
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont It appears to me based on a great deal of study on this topic that the strongest case to be made is that God has given polygyny as an option, for a fallen world, that should be used based on context. It being "ideal" is entirely circumstantial. There may be times where there are far more women than men, that would make it ideal. There may be times where there are far less women than men of marriageable age, that would make it less ideal. There may be times where there are FAR more Christian women who want to marry than Christian men to marry, that would make it ideal in some cases, where a Christian woman would absolutely prefer to join an existing family as a 2nd or 3rd wife, than be alone forever without children (if she wants children), or just to be alone. To me it seems far more reasonable based on the text to believe that God cares a great deal for how each marriage is done, according to his design + commands for marriage. He doesn't seem to care if a man chooses to take on more responsibility with additional marriages, but He does seem to care if the man does not treat them all properly/fairly. Polygyny is an option, monogamy is an option, celibacy is an option (for some, gifted) ... The choice comes down to context/circumstances. Every single one of the options can be done wrong, abused, mistreated, and in a way that dishonors God. Every single one of the options can be done right, and glorify God in the process.
@toughbiblepassages9082
@toughbiblepassages9082 4 ай бұрын
8:35 "[there are] two cases [of] God either approving or rewarding someone with polygamy. That does not sound like the kind of thing God would do if polygamy was against His will." 9:56 "The Catholic church does not allow polygamy.. but it is (at least) being consistent.. [relying] on it's extra biblical traditions" These are absolutely contradictory things to say and is very inconsistent. Even though the Catholic Church rejects sola scriptura, they do not reject scriptura.. they only reject the sola. They still believe that Scripture is infallible and authoritative and for you to say that the Bible not only does not condemn polygamy, but actually approves of it (as it does and as you admit at 8:35, namely that God approves it) then on the other hand you have Catholic Church tradition, declaring this practice to be evil when in fact the Bible says it is not evil.. you have the Catholic Church rejecting a practice which the Scripture actually approves of contrary to tradition. This is a contradiction, and while I am not a Catholic, I KNOW that the Catholic Church CLAIMS the Church does not contradict Scripture, even though that is what you are clearly saying in this video. That is neither Catholic nor Biblical. Far from escaping the issue of polygamy by claiming extra-biblical authority, you've actually made the problem far worse for Catholics.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont 4 ай бұрын
These statements are not contradictory because they do not both affirm and reject the same proposition. I did not go into the reasons behind the Church's position - and without knowing those, none of the claims you made based on the Bible vs. Tradition hold. For example: www.catholic.com/qa/why-is-polygamy-ok-in-the-old-testament
@Eliza3424
@Eliza3424 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Beaumont!
@markellis5008
@markellis5008 7 ай бұрын
Just here scrolling looking for your wife's reply.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont 7 ай бұрын
It was . . . non-biblical. ;)
@flyswatter6470
@flyswatter6470 Жыл бұрын
Awesome!! I've actually never met a Protestant who takes sola scriptura seriously.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
You have not met me then.
@flyswatter6470
@flyswatter6470 Жыл бұрын
@@danieldeluca4936 really? If I pointed out a quote from scripture, Like "Truly, truly, I tell you, unless you eat the flesh and drink the blood of the Son of Man, you have no life in you." You won't tell me "It doesn't really mean that? And how do you know it doesn't really mean that? Not from the bible.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
@@flyswatter6470 John tells us what those things mean. By drinking His blood, it says that He meant receiving the Spirit, and eating His body meant believing His Word. So yes, I do take sola scriptura seriously, but I don't just rip verses out, without reading other texts to see what those verses mean.
@flyswatter6470
@flyswatter6470 Жыл бұрын
@@danieldeluca4936 Where does John say any of that? And if we disagree, what authority do we go to for clarification?
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
@@flyswatter6470 John 7:37-39. If you disagree with me, I recommend you check out what Mike Winger has said regarding transubstantiation. He has an excellent breakdown. He also has an excellent breakdown of the supposed authority of the papacy.
@apostolicapologetics4829
@apostolicapologetics4829 Жыл бұрын
I do not believe in sola scripture but it seems clear to me that the bible speaks of "from the beginning a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife" However, the verse about God giving the blessing of more than one wife in 2 Sam 12:8 does pose a challenge that I will have to think and reflect about.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Yes, someone could just say that a man must cleave to every wife he has. ;)
@apostolicapologetics4829
@apostolicapologetics4829 Жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont so this multiple wives was tolerated, allowed by God but not willed? But how can something not antecedently willed by God also be blessed? I am trying to think of another example in salvation history where God blessed sinful activity. Maybe marriage is in the category of secondary nature rather than primary nature such as allowing brothers and sisters to marry within the first generation, meaning it is not intrinsically evil.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
@@apostolicapologetics4829 Yeah it's a tough conundrum especially for those who seek to follow Scriptures words alone. The Catholic Church has defined monogamy as the only legitimate form of marriage but its explanation of the OT practice varies. Stolen from Catholic Answers: Why it was permitted is the subject of theological debate. Jewish tradition normally emphasizes that polygamy was never looked upon as a good thing but was permitted as a concession to the realities of the world in which the ancient Jews lived. In Christian tradition, we see this through the lens of God’s gradual revelation: “In times past, God spoke in partial and various ways to our ancestors through the prophets” (Heb. 1:1), and Jesus appears to say that the Mosaic law did in fact make concessions to the weakness of human nature (Matt. 19:8).
@quantumcomputist8572
@quantumcomputist8572 Жыл бұрын
You raise a good point about that verse that discussed marriage from the beginning. You correctly note that Sam 12:8 poses a challenge. With these two contradicting verses at face value, one just has to "theologize" their way out of it. Once you "theologize" your way out of two verses, that is no longer Sola Scriptura but one is relying on their Church's interpretive tradition to get themselves out of the conundrum and every denomination does this. I am agnostic about denominations but the above objection from Dr. Beaumont is one reason that keeps me away from Protestantism. Of course, I have reasons to keep me away from Catholicism as well as Eastern Orthodoxy.
@apostolicapologetics4829
@apostolicapologetics4829 Жыл бұрын
@@quantumcomputist8572 I would add there is a difference in theorizing. As the protestant is left with mere human theorizing where the catholic in addition to theorizing has an authoritative Holy Spirit led interpretation Church to guide them. What is stopping you from becoming catholic?
@anthonypetrozzelli5429
@anthonypetrozzelli5429 Жыл бұрын
Jesus states very clearly in Matt 19 that he restores marriage between a man and a woman. In the Old Testament, this
@anthonypetrozzelli5429
@anthonypetrozzelli5429 Жыл бұрын
Was allowed.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Jesus says to divorce and remarry is adultery, he doesn't say additional marriages are adultery.
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
Jesus spoke about divorce there, he never spoke on polygyny, aside from a parable comparing himself to marrying 5 of 10 virgins... He never ever put a limitation on polygyny. A biblically polygynous marriage is 1 man, 1 woman, + God. If he takes a 2nd wife, it's a separate covenant... so it's still 1 man 1 woman... just for an added fyi.
@pianopleasures8225
@pianopleasures8225 12 күн бұрын
I actually spoke with a Coptic Orthodox priest about the Parable of the 10 Virgins. I thought it was a reference to polygyny as well. Apparently, this is a reference to an actual Jewish tradition of a night time wedding celebration where bridesmaids would arrive holding lanterns to present themselves as potential brides for other men. But like this man said, there is much evidence in the Bible to state that polygyny is nothing controvesial.
@TheThreatenedSwan
@TheThreatenedSwan Жыл бұрын
This happens a lot among Mormons.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Yes, and they have their own set of doctrines and "prophecies" to support it - yet oddly the official position of the LDS is that it is not allowed. Very strange group!
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
Mormons from my study take polygyny to another level that is extra-biblical, which is not surprising considered all their extra biblical text. It's my understanding that the FLDS that still practice it, believe it's the "ideal" and is required for some level of glorification... this is not what I get from the Bible, to me it just seems like a marriage option, which is available to men only, as a woman can only have 1 husband. It would be used in situations where it would be more "ideal" than monogamy (1 wife).
@canibezeroun1988
@canibezeroun1988 Жыл бұрын
I think this is only because of the hard times they've had with the federal and some state governments.
@abdalrhmanhamdy8848
@abdalrhmanhamdy8848 5 ай бұрын
simple question . Why do Christians criticize Islam because polygamy is allowed? Although he ordered fairness between them and spending, and if you are not able to do so, then just one. And also put a limit on the number of wives
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont 4 ай бұрын
Polygamy is only one of many serious problems with Islam, but its one that more people instinctively take issue with whether they know theology or not.
@pianopleasures8225
@pianopleasures8225 12 күн бұрын
​@@DouglasBeaumontSo you are against polygyny then?
@charlesbeatty888
@charlesbeatty888 9 ай бұрын
My man
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
5:54 - If you look at the greek in depth here, the word "own" is different for the husband's "own", and the wife's "own" ... one seems to be associated/implies exclusive ownership, one implies possibly shared ownership (wife shared ownership of husband) similar to her "own hometown" or "own home". The choice to use 2 separate words here seems pretty clearly a purposeful choice so that it would not be taken to mean what modern English readers have tried to make it mean (because "own" is used in both cases in English, even though you can "own" something exclusively and non-exclusively, it doesn't make it clear as the greek does that they are different forms of ownership).
@isolafitness
@isolafitness 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@mrmonay
@mrmonay 9 ай бұрын
Care to elaborate as to what is so funny to you?@@isolafitness
@Psalm-dh1gf
@Psalm-dh1gf Жыл бұрын
Genesis 2: God took ONE (!) rib, not 4, or many.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
If only the Jews had Genesis!
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
That means that God only intended one wife for Adam. It has nothing to do with the rest of us.
@brianhemmert9394
@brianhemmert9394 Жыл бұрын
Mark 10 Jesus clearly states, a man will leave his Father and Mother and cleave to his wife and the twain shall be one flesh, so they are no longer TWAIN but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together let not man separate!
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Yes, whoever a man has sex with becomes one flesh with him. So if he marries more than woman and has sex with each wife then he becomes one flesh with each. Indeed, this occurs even if they are not married (1 Cor. 6:16). So this fact does not resolve the question.
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
A man would always have to leave his father and mother and join to (a) wife ... before he could ever join to a second wife. A man can be "one flesh" with a prostitute regardless of his marital state, while it's warned against (obviously). One flesh is signifying the importance of the physical act of sex, it's not a limitation on a man's ability to be "one flesh" with more than one woman.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
So why then do churches tell men that they must separate all but one wife?
@williamreed1512
@williamreed1512 6 ай бұрын
First off god gave Israel her certificate of divorce,god doesn't hate divorce,but the action of the people that commit,and cause them he is a divorcee himself by his own words. Second of When Jesus was answering the question to the Pharisees that were trying to trick him into making him choose a side on is divorce only for adultery,or just any reason like she burned my dinner. Choosing sides caused John the Baptist to lose his head so Jesus quoted scripture both times by saying in the beginning it wasn't so let no man put asunder what god created. And quoted where god said you cant divorce Your wife to marry your sister in-law by Mosses law if you're wife says she will divorce you if you married her god say you,and the sister-in-law are then commiting adultery. In doing so he qouted god, but in no way did he change god and Mosse's laws on divorce that protect women such as abandonment,or neglect. In Matthew 5 verses 17,and 18 Jesus said he wasn't here to change the laws of Mosses or god which both of them have laws on divorce,and polygamy. Third god already knew before he married Adam and Eve that he would consider polygamy as marriage because he has already seen that he would allow me to marry multiple wives. God wanted men to multiply but because of wars you would have say 10 women to one man. 9 empty wombs why when god knew man is capable of loving more than just one women,and could replenish the population faster. Fourth the Catholic church outlawed polygamy early enough that most Christian became accustomed to monogomy,and never questioned it. The Catholic Church claimed Jesus outlawed polygamy by calling it immoral. That would make Jesus Christ a liar by Matthew 5 verses 17 and 18. Remember some of them words and laws were gods, and Chrit said you can't ever change gods words or laws ever. So the question is do you believe is Christ's a liar,and god immoral by his acts and deeds because god allowed polygamy never condemned it, witnesses polygamist marriages as marriage, never called it a sin,and gave David a man who already had multiple wives more wives, or do you believe the Catholic church. Remember the Anathema from the council of Trent anyone who calls polygamy marriage or dive is Excommunicated,and let them be Anathema. Nothing like kicking god out of the church,and Chris said it was marriage but a twisted form so there goes Christ too. So much for the infallible popes, bishops, magisterium.
@andrewpatton5114
@andrewpatton5114 11 ай бұрын
I do have to point out that Jesus said, "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her." That he used the word "adultery" means that it is forbidden because the first marriage is still valid and binding, and as long as it exists, no other union is lawful. This is a departure from the Old Testament, which permitted polygamy and divorce, indicating that while God permitted these practices under the Old Law, the New Testament holds people to a higher standard. Indeed, the Church recognizes the distinction between the sacramental marriage of two Christians, which is absolutely indissoluble, and the natural marriage of two non-Christians or a Christian and a non-Christian, which can be dissolved in favor of the faith.
@mrmonay
@mrmonay 9 ай бұрын
This is simply not true. A man biblically can always add another wife without any form of adultery being committed. This is not changed in the NT. Yeshuah was discussing divorce, and remarriage in a very isolated and specific set of circumstances, we cannot turn that into more than it is. One part of what Yeshuah was saying here that if a man puts away his wife *in order to marry another woman* that he commits adultery against his first wife, in that he forces her into adultery (because she's not actually properly divorced). It's not the 2nd marriage that is the adultery (unless that woman is also improperly put away, because she's still married in God's eyes). There would have to be some form of sexual immorality on the part of the woman to divorce/send her away, "I want a different wife" is not a valid reason to divorce the first. So if the man simply took a 2nd (free to marry) wife and didn't divorce the 1st wife, there is no adultery. The problem is men were (and still are) divorcing women in order to marry another because they don't want to deal with or support both. But there is NO adultery if a man simply takes a 2nd wife, or 3rd or beyond. As long as he keeps his covenants with each.
@cbtam4333
@cbtam4333 8 ай бұрын
⁠@@mrmonay There is no evidence in the Scripture that Jesus was limiting his teaching on divorce and adultery to refer only to divorces that were solely for the purpose of marrying another. Even if many divorces were occurring for that reason, divorces often occur for many other reasons, as exhibited in the question asked by the Pharisees, “Is it lawful to divorce for any reason?” Under the Hillel school, a man could divorce his wife for burning the toast. Under the Shammai school, only very limited reasons were allowed, such as sexual immorality. Jesus responded to the Pharisees by addressing the ultimate will of God for marriage as found in Genesis 2:24 and applying it to divorce generally. Additionally, there is nothing in the texts of either Matt. 9:19 or Mark 10:11 that indicate how much or how little time must pass between the divorce and the marriage to the second wife. A man could divorce his wife in order to marry another woman. But he could just as easily divorce his wife and later (e.g., after 1, 2, or 5 years) marry another woman. It is disingenuous to insist that the verse requires the divorce to occur solely because the man wants to marry another or that the divorce must occur only a short time before he marries another. It’s adding to the text. Just as importantly, it makes no sense to call a man who marries another woman after a divorce an adulterer if polygamy is acceptable to God. If polygamy is God’s design for marriage, a man who unjustly divorces his wife and marries another is not an adulterer. He’s a wrongful divorcer. A bad husband. But not an adulterer. Adultery by definition involves a wrongful sex act, and divorce is not a sex act. If a man marries another woman after divorcing his first wife, and polygamy is not a sin, then having sex with the second wife cannot be adultery. But Jesus says it IS adultery. The only way this can be true is if adultery can be committed against a wife (not just a husband), whether or not the husband is married to the woman he is committing adultery with. For this reason, there is no room for polygamy in Jesus’ teaching.
@mrmonay
@mrmonay 8 ай бұрын
"There is no evidence in the Scripture that Jesus was limiting his teaching on divorce and adultery to refer only to divorces that were solely for the purpose of marrying another." I'm not claiming that it is, I'm simply not doing what you're doing and making it more than it is. Jesus is addressing the reasons that a man can divorce his wife, while also showing that marriage is supposed to be permanent. What He was not, and the teaching is not doing, is ever teaching that a man who keeps his first wife and marries another, commits adultery, which is what you're claiming and adding to the teaching.@@cbtam4333
@mrmonay
@mrmonay 8 ай бұрын
"Additionally, there is nothing in the texts of either Matt. 9:19 or Mark 10:11 that indicate how much or how little time must pass between the divorce and the marriage to the second wife. A man could divorce his wife in order to marry another woman. But he could just as easily divorce his wife and later (e.g., after 1, 2, or 5 years) marry another woman. It is disingenuous to insist that the verse requires the divorce to occur solely because the man wants to marry another or that the divorce must occur only a short time before he marries another. It’s adding to the text." What are you talking about? Honestly you're going so far off base with all of this it makes little to no sense. When did the subject of "time" between divorces even come up? @@cbtam4333
@mrmonay
@mrmonay 8 ай бұрын
"Just as importantly, it makes no sense to call a man who marries another woman after a divorce an adulterer if polygamy is acceptable to God. If polygamy is God’s design for marriage, a man who unjustly divorces his wife and marries another is not an adulterer. He’s a wrongful divorcer. A bad husband. But not an adulterer. Adultery by definition involves a wrongful sex act, and divorce is not a sex act. If a man marries another woman after divorcing his first wife, and polygamy is not a sin, then having sex with the second wife cannot be adultery." A man who puts away his wife except for sexual immorality, "makes her commit adultery" is actually what the text is saying in Matt 5:32. What you're also missing here is that there's the "putting away" and the "writ of divorce". Men could and did put their wives away without a proper writ of divorce, causing those women to end up in adultery by having to go be with another man or become a harlot to survive. The blame of adultery is on the husbands head and he will be held accountable. But it's not the marrying of another wife that is the adultery. So you're half right, you just miss the part where the scripture is telling us that he's forcing his 1st wife into adultery. Polygyny is not a sin, marrying 2, 3, 4 or 1000 is not a sin, and it's never adultery (unless one of them is married/wrongfully put away). Furthermore this is also why it says that any man who marries a "put away woman" commits adultery. Because she's still married to the first husband. The point of all of it is you can't just willy nilly put away/divorce your wife because it will fill the land with women who are in adultery and men who are too because in God's eyes they are still bound. Much like what we have going on today in the Christian church and outside of it. Rampant divorce, rampant adultery. Because people don't take marriage seriously and treat it as permanent. But you'll notice, in a discussion on polygyny you continue to focus on divorce and adultery. It's pretty simple, just go find a command that says a man cannot marry more than one woman at a time, or he is bound to one woman while she lives like you can easily find for women, if it was as you say it is, it should be easy to find. @@cbtam4333​
@jsphfalcon
@jsphfalcon 6 ай бұрын
Obviously in the new testament, it is one woman and one man. However, it is written in deuteronomy that if a man has two wives, the oldest son from the first wife should get double portions. That is God's wish. I suppose that is the justification beduoin Jews use to justify having two wives. So it would seem God may not necessarily send you to hell for having two wives but I bet you it would be less confusing and painful for your kids if you just had one wife. After all if you had to split an inheritance 70 ways like Gideon's kids, you would wish you were the only child like Abimilech.
@christopherolugu7404
@christopherolugu7404 5 ай бұрын
This is a weak argument. If God approves of it and if it’s allowed, then let it be done. Guess what monogamy brings the chance of divorce and one of your kids may not be yours because your wife stepped out on you and now you’re taking care of someone else’s kids and the same issue of splitting inheritance you still have to deal with that with multiple kids. Nothing in life is perfect and there are always gonna be some type of issues. Having more than one can be very helpful and positive to a family unit especially to single mothers.
@Justas399
@Justas399 Жыл бұрын
Would the Catholic Church accept polygamists in their church as they have accepted homosexual couples? Would they have a blessing for them?
@isoldam
@isoldam Жыл бұрын
The Catholic Church has not accepted homosexual couples. I have only heard of one case of a homosexual couple getting a 'blessing', and that runs counter to Church teachings.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
If by "accept" you mean welcome, sure. If by "accept" you mean consider faithful members who are not in sin and who may receive the sacraments, no.
@Justas399
@Justas399 Жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont are homosexual couples not allowed to receive communion?
@Justas399
@Justas399 Жыл бұрын
@@isoldam I thought the pope had visited a homosexual couple and accepted them. Also, if I’m not mistaken there are priests and bishops who have blessed homosexual couples. I think I saw some of this in Germany.
@DarkAngel-cj6sx
@DarkAngel-cj6sx Жыл бұрын
Where did you read that story? Come on
@ksizzle1488
@ksizzle1488 5 күн бұрын
Polyandry is a sin. Polygyny is not. The problem is that people use polygamy like they're all the same.
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
This guy is deceiving you. He is not pro polygyny. He is Anti-Sola Scriptura. He is correct that Scripture does not condemn Polygyny, but his conclusion is that we should return to the Catholic Church. It is a very bad argument. We should recognize that the Catholic church introduced the heresy of monogamy only, which most of us do, and help Dr. Beaumont understand that the doctrines that are not supported by Scripture, have no business being taught in ANY church.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Given that what I meant to communicate is so clear how is that being deceptive?
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont Obviously, some of us in the Christian Polygyny community did not pick up on that, so I understand you did not intend to be deceptive here, but I want those of us who have commented on your video to understand that you are not agreeing with us at all! While you make valid points, your conclusion should not have been to embrace the Catholic church that introduced these heretical and damaging teachings, but to attempt to reform the church that you once were a part of, to embrace the truth, which is that God NEVER disapproved of polygyny.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
@@danieldeluca4936 Ah the fruits of Protestantism....
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont Protestantism has not eliminated the monogamy only heresy that the Catholic Church introduced. We are still working on getting a denomination to open their eyes to the truth. This video that you have posted may be useful in that endeavor.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
@Daniel DeLuca Maybe. If the Reformation has taught us nothing else it's that there is nothing so false that some Protestant group won't think it's true and blame the Bible for it.
@e.zalewska2285
@e.zalewska2285 Жыл бұрын
Actually Doug, I've been talking to my Muslim friend, who tried to advertise Islam to me, and I explained to him, that in the Eden Garden, God gave Adam only one wife. Only one Eve. Not two or three Eves :) So in Eden - where everything was perfect - just how it was meant to be in God's eyes - a man had only one wife. Not many. Only afterwards, after committing the original sin (very similarly as the divorce was allowed by Moses' law), the polygamy, because of a degraded nature of a man, was allowed by God. But after our understanding and hearts started purifying again because of contact with God's messages, He slowly got us out of this mentality, and expects now more from us, than He did centuries ago. My friend said, it's a very good argument against polygamy and couldn't respond to it in any way. Also, for us Christians, Jesus said, that a man leaves his parents and conjoins with a woman so closely, that they become one. If polygamy would be in Jesus' mind while saying it too, that wouldn't make much sense. Because women in polygamy aren't married to each other. Only to a man. They don't share each other. And husband being one with one wife, can not be one with other wife - they do not create a unity. If they would have to - they ought to be sharing each other with same commitment - which as we know, they simply can't. Jesus said, that "God created them male and female". It means their entities compliment each other. There is no room for a third party. By saying about becoming one - Jesus meant the pair's exclusivity. Not sharing a man between two or more women. When polygamy happens - there is ALWAYS jealousy, anxiety and insecurity among women. (Even if they claim, there isn't 😉) And no room for peace or harmony. (From a logic point of view, it's also strongly unfair). Also - in Jesus' times - there was no polygamy allowed. Only a divorce - which He also forbade. It simply proves a case against polygamy.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
The "allowance due to sin" argument would be sufficient if God had not given David his wives. Becoming one via sex is not limited to spouses (1 Cor. 6:16) and non-ideal conditions do not equal actual sin. (I am not saying your conclusion is wrong though!)
@e.zalewska2285
@e.zalewska2285 Жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont thank you for highlighting 1 Cor 6, 16 as an example of "becoming one". Still though, Jesus quote wouldn't make sense if he meant polygamy, because He stated, that God created them "male and female" not "male and females" 🙂 He emphasised here the importance of "one to one" ratio in a relationship. Besides, the argument with not granting Adam many wives as a God's "blessing" in Paradise means more to me, than catering to David's desires of owning a harem (having nature and conscience already stained by the original sin). God "gives" or as some may say, "allows" many things to happen, and sometimes "blesses" us with considerably bad things, as for example, some people hurting us. It might not been said in the Bible that what David was doing was a sin, but it doesn't mean it wouldn't be a sin trying to do it now. For me, if in Jesus' times there was no polygamy among Jews present, it means it was a moral shift from "the old times", to which we are not meant to go back. I forgot to thank you for the amazing work that you do 🧡 your videos are interesting and educational. The knowledge is presented in a very approachable way. I love to link your videos in my discussions. I especially like the "sola scriptura" one. All best to you Doug! 🌻
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
@@e.zalewska2285 This video was much more about exposing problems with sola scriptura than promoting polygamy of course. There are reasons the Church was anti-polygamy form the very beginning, they just aren't all in the Bible. ;) Thank you for watching and I am so glad my work is helpful to you!
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont The only reason, was because they adopted the Greco Roman culture, and if you had really done your research, you would have seen this, because it was spelled out in Thelyphthora and in James Campbell's work, "The History and Philosophy of Marriage".
@cbtam4333
@cbtam4333 9 ай бұрын
@@DouglasBeaumont The only wife of Saul named in the Bible is the mother of Michal, David’s wife. Do you really believe when God said he gave David all that belonged to Saul, including all of Saul’s wives that he really gave permission for David to have sex with and/or marry his own mother-in-law? Why would God give permission for David to engage in incest? Is it at least possible that a king taking over all that belonged to the previous king, including his wives, meant taking charge over, as in being the new head of the household containing these widows of Saul, rather than marrying or having sex with them? Is there any indication in the Bible that David married any of Saul’s wives, which he would have to do if he wanted to have sex with them without committing fornication? Simply having charge over females in a household was not the equivalent of marriage. At least some of these wives of Saul must have been around as long as Saul had been king, which was for many years before David took the throne, making them quite a bit older than David and certainly not desirable for producing heirs. The only explicit example of an Israelite king having sex with his predecessor’s wives was Absalom, and that is presented, not as marriage, but as a traitorous high crime of public sexual assault, certainly not anything God would have condoned as a normal, healthy or moral practice. For these reasons, it seems questionable to assume that God gave David Saul’s wives as women for him to have sex with or marry. Rather, it seems just as likely that these wives simply accompanied the palaces and treasury and royal land holdings and armed forces and everything else that came with taking over a kingdom.
@sebinantony6983
@sebinantony6983 Жыл бұрын
You say polyandry and polygamy is a sin. You are correct since you are a Catholic now and you have the grace to realize it. But what about the Protestants? Are they advocates of Sola Fide? Do they approve, work is must for salvation? Is a man also what he believes? If works have no role in salvation, what if one commits adultery? Polyandry and polygamy come under adultery. If work has no effect on salvation, what is the need for classifying them as GOOD or BAD? What if all the commandments including the Ten Commandments violated? Can commandments be violated only by action? Action denotes work. Actully has this doctrine degraded the Europe and from there the entire world in the realm of sex? Has this caused people to lose faith in virtue? People must think why the church buildings are empty and they are being sold and converted into pubs. The Protestantism has definitely a role iin this. Perhaps inviduals can follow virtue. But their chucrh cannot in view of the points explained above.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
Yes they have a more difficult time for sure.
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
Polygyny (1 man, multiple marriages with wives) is definitely not a sin. Polyandry would be, because a woman cannot have more than 1 husband. Polygamy is kind of a catch all phrase that isn't specific enough for this discussion. 1 man + plural wives is polygyny, and it is never mentioned as a sin.
@sebinantony6983
@sebinantony6983 Жыл бұрын
@@mrmonay Although woman is a weaker sex, she is also an heir to grace in equal proportions (1Peter 3:7). When God created, God created man and woman. He did not create man and WOMEN. If man needed more women, God would have in the beginning itself created more women for Adam. If polygyny is allowed, why the males oppose polyandry? How did the Church of England originate? Henry VIII, while he had one wife living, wanted to marry another one. The Pope did not permit. It led to a split in the Church. Here we see, the Pope preferred a split rather than violating an eternal truth and teaching by Lord Jesus. The Catholic Church will not solemnise such a marriage. Perhaps, the Protestant imitation church can do it. Because, they are not a Church and only an imitation or denomination. The have no Apostolic succession. Perhaps the king could have married another woman, when his first wife was living, without the consent of the Church. Then it would have been his person sin. If the Pope allowed it, it would have become a sin of the Church, and it would have worldwide ramifications. Jesus says there are two ways. One is narrow, which leads to salvation. The other way is wide, which leads to damnation. One has definitely to go through the narrow way, if he wants to reach heaven. The wide way indicates worldly pleasures. One cannot eat the cake and have it. He must give up worldly pleasures, if he wants to reach heaven. He has to swim against the flow of the river. If he swims in the direction of the flow he will end up in the abysmal sea. Jesus says Iam the Way, and his way is narrow way, where one has to face odds and overcome it. This is the message of cross.
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
@@sebinantony6983 The Roman Catholic Church teaches converted men with multiple wives to divorce all but their first wife. So frankly, with due respect, I don't consider the Roman Catholic Churches historical view and practice on this matter of any relevance or value. If you think taking on the responsibility of 1) even doing the work to learn what the scriptures say about polygyny 2) defending the scriptures, 3) taking on the MASSIVE responsibility of a 2nd or 3rd wife, and 4) doing it all properly, is "swimming with the flow of the river" or "not going the narrow way" ... with respect, you aren't paying attention. To even speak on polygyny biblically today is a test of a man's commitment to the scripture. You can go with church history and tradition, I'll go with the word of God on this.
@mrmonay
@mrmonay Жыл бұрын
@@sebinantony6983 God created woman from man, for man, in the garden, under perfect conditions, from his own rib, perfectly designed for him. If we use your logic, we should only marry women who God took a rib from us to make perfectly for us. Respectfully, we don't live in the garden. We are fallen. Ideal left the building when sin entered it. Now ideal depends on context. There are MANY contexts in which God would absolutely prefer a good Christian man to take on and cover an additional wife than leave her alone, uncovered, and wide open to the enemy. There are also many contexts in which a man is simply only capable of providing for 1 wife well and in accordance with God's will. The fact of the matter is, context + scriptural filter is what defines what is "ideal", not the Roman Catholic Church or other church father's who lived under Roman rule where the practice was outlawed so their bias would have been tilted towards that. Meanwhile Roman men slept around all day and night outside of their "one wife" ... Much like today!
@sunnyjohnson992
@sunnyjohnson992 11 ай бұрын
God did not originate the practice of polygamy; For he provided only ONE wife for Adam! He did for a time permit a man to have more than one wife. (Genesis 4:19; 29:18-29) However, God authorized Jesus Christ to reinstitute His original standard of monogamy. (Matthew 19;4,5) The apostle Paul made it clear at 1 Corinthians 7:2: “Let each man have his own wife and each woman have her own husband.” The Bible also states that any married man in the Christian congregation who is given special responsibilities must be “a husband of ONE wife.” (1 Timothy 3:2,12)
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont 11 ай бұрын
That's a decent argument but it's not decisive as Mt. 19 / 1 Cor. 7 could be interpreted to apply to every single marriage. We don't notice that because the Church has consistently said that such a view is wrong, but that's due to tradition not merely interpretation (which is my point in making this video). That translation of 1 Tim. is interpretive. What the Greek says is, "be a one-woman [kind of] man" (thus it applies to non-married men as well) But, even if it did say a husband of ONE wife - it's only directed to Deacons, not all men (in which case, why would it even need to be specified?).
@russelbangot3036
@russelbangot3036 Жыл бұрын
This is why you cannot save your soul in ANY of these PROTESTANT religion thier authority(Not from God) tells you to commit SIN worse they twist the word of God in the bible to justify thier evil doing. This video demonstrate that.
@DouglasBeaumont
@DouglasBeaumont Жыл бұрын
I'm not sure how this video demonstrates that "you cannot save your soul in ANY of these PROTESTANT religion" because that was not stated anywhere in it and especially since the Church specifically says Protestants and others can be saved (Catechism 817-819).
@danieldeluca4936
@danieldeluca4936 Жыл бұрын
Telling polygamous men that they must divorce their wives, when no fornication has taken place is a sin. Jesus said that whoever does this, causes his wife to commit adultery. This is wickedness on the part of Rome and many but not all Protestant Christians. Fortunately, some of the Protestant denominations have come around to realize that this is wrong, and have allowed these maried men to keep all of their wives. The Catholic church needs to do likewise, but there is so much more that the Catholic church needs to get right that reform is not the best option, when there are so many Bible believing churches to choose from, even if they fail to understand the truth regarding the fact that God allows polygyny today.
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