Don't Waste Your 20s - Advice From A 28 Year Old

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Жыл бұрын

This is my first video in a while. This is me rambling until realizing I have wasted a lot of my life already. #depression #mentalhealth #guitar

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@thephilosopher5799 Жыл бұрын

Bro you gotta take care of yourself. What do you want? You can do anything you put your mind too. Don’t stress too much about your job. Look for another while you have this job. Sound like you have hobbies that you like but don’t commit. You should really focus on saving money for a guitar and learn how to play to gain self confidence and feel accomplish in something. I’d recommending getting a haircut to add volume to your hair and changing to a healthier diet and exercising more. I’m a girl but been in your situation before until I cut everyone off and did what I wanted to do. No judgements from others just free. The only way to fix depression is to fix the things causing your depression. Also don’t worry about everything from your past. Forget the things you were upset about happened and remember you want to do things differently. Get off of social media and don’t compare yourself to anyone.

@EpicBatJ Жыл бұрын

Jeez I needed this too thanks for that except for the job tryna not to worry about it I don’t like working I think nobody does but I am tryna grind and get off of social media so it is working so far

@hejhejhej952 Жыл бұрын

Well said!

@kaylat7063 Жыл бұрын

I hope he takes this comment seriously man

@DMurcielago 8 ай бұрын

🐐

@jamesdeclan7538 7 ай бұрын

Well you name is accurate. Keep chasing it. And remember when you think you are at your best, you are not you can be even greater!

@esehavek1 4 ай бұрын

U didn’t waste your 20’s . U EXPERIENCED your 20’s. U learned a few things. & now it’s time to step it up a bit & take life by the balls !

@bayek9869 Жыл бұрын

Bro I’m 28 and going through the same thing. Let’s walk this journey together.

@proton580 7 ай бұрын

how's your life now and any advice for someone younger than you?

@rafaelmendez5329 8 ай бұрын

Wishing I could have found this advice in my 20’s. I actually wasted my 20’s working jobs that I hated, experienced the 2008 economic collapse, overworked, underpaid and in debt. Unfortunately I made some mistakes in life but my 30’s are much better. Just remember that life is like a movie and you are the director, only you can decide the narrative of the movie. Being an adult is not easy and isn’t fun. However you are ambitious and talented. You got this bro, just stay strong and focused on your dreams. Shit sucks right now, I totally understand the frustration. You are not alone. ❤️🙏

@proton580 7 ай бұрын

how's your life now and any advice for someone younger than you?

@rafaelmendez5329 7 ай бұрын

@@proton580 it’s actually getting a little bit better. Best advice I can give is to grind in your 20’s. Hustle and grind in your early twenties and stay debt free if possible. If you have the financial means to travel then do so. Life will get complicated as you get older and will be harder to travel and experiment with new things. The worst thing any young person can do is load up on debt and have addictions. You will also notice that your circle of friends will probably get smaller as you grow older.

@teodortodorov1662 Жыл бұрын

Keep grinding man! The success is only into you

@joshuafranco5372 Жыл бұрын

Youve got this dude waiting for another update video hope youre doing well just keep moving forward and make sure each day is a step up from the last

@midseptembr951 8 ай бұрын

Fam, get a job! Not hating, but get a job at a factory or fast food if you don’t want to get your hands dirty. Idk where you’re from, but most places start @ $15/hr. $19/hr if you work at a factory! If you can find an employer to pay you weekly, even better! You can easily rack $500/wk! Then, you can reinvest in yourself and create the lifestyle you deserve! You got this broo❤

@RealMozart 4 ай бұрын

I really feel the music taste part, I feel exactly the same as you about music. I like the classical stuff and I also love Lana Del Rey.

@lynk2975 Жыл бұрын

You’re doing great brother!!!!! Happiness gets easier and depression goes away with age!!! Just gotta stick with it. Watching all The way from Missouri, your fan, Keilyn

@RandomizersTV Жыл бұрын

Feel very much similar, definitely grow your hair back out to what you had like 8 years ago (I skimmed your channel). Definitely keep up with music man, music is one of the most beautiful things on this wretched earth. Really enjoy seeing REAL people like yourself, no fakeness, no trying hard to be someone you're not and I admire that, I mean that.

@monkeyjames8401 Жыл бұрын

It's good to see you again, man! I'm an obsessive Billie & Finneas fan - and your reaction to their cover of M.J.'s "Bad" is one of my all-time favs! I would like for you to prioritize the KZfaq reaction stuff (really anything about those two artists). But, that's just me. The guitar store thing sounds good for you. Your life is not wasted when you can engage in something that gives you a satisfying creative outlet. Prioritize whatever that is - and the experience will be a treasure that money can't buy. Please, keep us posted whenever you can. "You are not alone. You are not unknown."-B.E.

@cosmiccentral1651 Жыл бұрын

Great vid man I'm sometimes paranoid about making my 20s mean something... because I'm 21, I've never had a girlfriend...or kissed a girl before or been behind the wheel on the road, and I sometimes feel like I'm just behind in life because I know I could 31 just like that...but again good video man keep pushing.

@YoMomma.___. 8 ай бұрын

Find discipline and the world is yours

@proton580 7 ай бұрын

how's your life now and any advice for someone younger than you?

@cosmiccentral1651 7 ай бұрын

@YoMomma.___. Easy said than done my guy

@cosmiccentral1651 7 ай бұрын

@@proton580 Wow I forgot all about this comment I made, but anyway, I'm 22 now got a factory job, Im struggling to make ends meet, things have just been up and down but I guess that's life, I met a female at one of my jobs, we really hit it off and she was cool and funny but due to the small town I live in it turns out were distant cousins which I found out the night I took her to her prom so uh...yeah, were still cool, but she has a boyfriend now and I think she had one at the time I was talking to her unbeknowist to me. But that whole situation broke me for bout half a year, but I came back from it, though I haven't really dealt with a female since then as Im trying to focus on myself. I have been driving for bout a year now and set to get my license before the year out so that's good news, I'll be able to get out more and away from my small town to meet different females and new experiences. I don't really consider myself to be in a better position than I was a year ago if I being honest, but my advice to anyone younger than me is, always take good care of yourself, don't let depression or mental health keep you from showering daily, brushing your teeth, eating, going outside, force yourself to be the best version of you, because I let those things get me down and as a result it screwed up my health a bit, but Im still pushing forward and praying that things will get better and Im trying to have faith that one day. I will have a beautiful wife and a beautiful family and be financially stable, easy said than done but I just gotta believe, hope that helps man, I know it probably won't in this day in age, its hard for us young people especially us young men to see a light at the end of the tunnel with the way society is now, anyway stay blessed🙏🏾

@YoMomma.___. 7 ай бұрын

@@cosmiccentral1651 with a mindset like that, ofc it is

@FutureTrunksSSJ1 Жыл бұрын

I know life gets hard sometimes, but just remember that people care about you

@creationpower333 9 ай бұрын

God bless you man

@jusskraa1255 8 ай бұрын

Thank you bro👌🙏

@1219john 4 ай бұрын

Bro you a vibe 🖤

@PureCapsaicin 8 ай бұрын

You are a KZfaq legend man we need to blow you up so you can start making money on here!

@n3philim275 Жыл бұрын

Some people may enjoy something in their head and talking to someone isn't the same as being in a group. There are many circumstances and variations of social aspect that can be a trigger for you

@nordriket 7 ай бұрын

dude, you need to clean your appartment, get a hair cut and grow out your beard. You are still very young and have lots of potential. You do like metal and that is a VERY good sign, after all. You look like me in 2005.

@saiguzman 4 ай бұрын

Woman here, yes please he needs to clean his room, our house is a reflection of ourselves and our habits.

@dathunderman4 Ай бұрын

Would be better if he just shaved the facial hair, if he grows it out it’s gonna look scraggly

@iamharper 7 ай бұрын

i'ma be real with you, I think you're cringe, I don't personally find you attractive. But I'm definitely attracted to your openness. i like that you're emotionally open. I like that you show these things about yourself and those go FAR. You're a likeable person. use this to your advantage

@MusicJunkie37 6 ай бұрын

He's cringe and simultaneously likeable? interesting

@iamharper 6 ай бұрын

@@MusicJunkie37 absolutely they play into each other

@namey6297 Жыл бұрын

Dude you have to at least buy 1 cheap acoustic guitar if you cant afford an electric, maybe it will cheer you up

@bayek9869 Жыл бұрын

That’s what I did. It’s better than nothing.

@MasonicSeven7 Жыл бұрын

Every single one of my siblings has someone special in their lives that are close to a best friend or even more than a friend, and I actually don't have anyone. I've given up, I'm 19 I still stay at home, I've never gotten a job because I don't know how, and I need my mom's help for it, and I just can't do it. I don't know what it is I just simply can't do it anymore I can't go outside, I can't socially interact with people I fail all the time. And it physically hurts to the point where I just want to stop everything, I dunno what it is I just wanna pull over get out of my car and just lay down and stop (metaphor or whatever I dunno how to drive), I want to be nothing, I wish I was nothing, I truly wish sometimes that I wasn't born, I really do, because sure I wouldn't know what life is like, but when you think about it, it technically would be fine right? If I don't exist or if I'm not aware of what life even is then what's the big deal? Am I gonna be sad? No because I would just simply be nothing like an inanimate object or i would just be an air particle or something I dunno I just wish it was as easy to become nothing just like how you go on your computer and put a file in a trash can and press clear trash, I wish it would be that easy to not have existed, later on I will change, sometimes at certain moments TV and videogames will make me forget about how I feel, and right now as I am typing this but probably not as how you are reading this I am actually confident that if a time machine was presented towards me i would actually try to stop my parents from ever creating me and I just simply do not care with what anybody else thinks right now, but maybe later on when I'm in a more good of a mood I will look back and think nah I don't wanna stop my parents, I dunno what I am typing anymore I'm just gonna close my eyes and wake up the next day and hopefully not remember this until later on at like maybe 5:33 PM who knows honestly, it's 3:07 AM right now and I just hate myself so fucking much I can't even get a good sleep school because I need sleep pills to help me sleep now, well goodbye, and whatever if you have any mixed feelings over this comment, I'm just a random stranger somewhere in Illinois. Peace.

@proton580 7 ай бұрын

how's your life now and any advice for someone younger than you?

@MasonicSeven7 7 ай бұрын

@@proton580 I've gotten better, I decided to workout last May right when summer started, I used to weight 260 but now I weight 206 I'm pretty tall so that weight loss difference is really good, also at the beginning of May I decided to focus on fragrances and my skin condition. I have a good skin care routine now and smell good and I'm slowly building up muscle, I also got a job too, but I still struggle with learning how to drive and talking to people and women. Honestly my advice is the same as any other advice either choose to make a change or don't, some people in this world are just born lucky either tall or good genetics or they just like working out, or have a skill that you might not have, or some or most people might not like what or who you are/identify as, thats just how it is and there is a lot I would give anything to change about myself but life isn't a videogame, and I come to terms with it but its best to start off slow at one small improvement at a time i decided to start doing that in the summer because i had nothing important to rely on or anyone important to rely on me, so instead of just waking up and going on my phone everyday and playing the game, I decided to workout, buy different types of lotion and fragrances for myself, get a job, and I decided at the end of summer I would start by talking to my friends again because I haven't seen them in person in literal years but I was always in contact with them online, eventually when I saw my friends at the end of July they saw a huge improvement instead of a fat nobody who didn't make an effort. My friends tell me now that I look really good and that I'm slightly muscular, I want to keep improving my body and then learn how to drive, and once I do the only thing I'll have to do is talk to women to try and get a girlfriend. Honestly it was obvious for me to know where to start, but it might be harder for other people who have people or things involved in their life taking up their time, but I think the best way of slowing improving is on your days off or any days you have free time, please try to actually get up and improve what you believe is wrong with yourself, take a look and think what do i need to work better on? my hair? Weight? Money? Room? Social life? Those small improvements will help you be more humble and content with life, but be careful don't be too humble know your worth in life you deserve more if you prove it and make an effort. I'm 20 years old now

@proton580 7 ай бұрын

@@MasonicSeven7 glad to know you're doing well and thanks for the advice!

@MasonicSeven7 7 ай бұрын

@@proton580 thank you proton I am sure you will succeed in journey of self improvement

@DoctorHouse999 6 ай бұрын

bro you literally have your whole life ahead.

@Appl3Kid Жыл бұрын

I have the same bed sheets

@DoctorHouse999 6 ай бұрын

like bro I'm 27 and honestly, I wasted so many years due to no fault of my own. My family was poor. I did very good in school and now I've moved to a 1st world country but yet I feel I barely have any achievements because I see so many dudes with hot gf/wives and money. But don't forget that those dudes almost always get a head start. Most successful people are privileged. They don't just realize it.

@fortitudo1409 9 ай бұрын

fuck dude you re the best

@AnthemTD 8 ай бұрын

You have a toilet in your bedroom. Can’t tell if that’s a win or not

@elJaviFlores 8 ай бұрын

Start by not living like a slob, that will help you feel better👍

@panelty8379 10 ай бұрын

you should start a podcast, you have a nice voice to listen tbh

@user-wi6bl4pb3r 2 ай бұрын

I’m 30. My 20s went by in a flash lol

@trydowave 8 ай бұрын

Too late

@afterhourscinema782 7 ай бұрын

If you got depression, do what i do and drink your problems away :) Now my life sucks even harder but at least i have funny stories to tell 😂

@proton580 7 ай бұрын

how's your life now and any advice for someone younger than you?

@zeeahzeedix Жыл бұрын

I get it to some extent. The same way you say you feel in a guitar store is how I felt on a football field. Not guitar playing of course, and of course I wasn't going to play ball in the pros, so when I got out of college it was like I lost my identity. It really messed me up and I became more depressed because of it. Took me a while to crawl out of it but eventually I did. Good thing for you is that you can keep playing guitar for a long time. Hope you figure it out.

@initiatorhater0688 Жыл бұрын

its impossible for a woman to waste her 20s in regards to dating life, but easy and very possible for a guy, human male

@bornwithoutconsentobviously Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@user-us3jy2mb5r 9 ай бұрын

I don't think this is true, I'm 20 and I've never even kissed anyone. I'm a girl. Stupid thing to say.

@initiatorhater0688 9 ай бұрын

well you barely are 20, but if someone surpasses an age, like lets say 25, goes into their later 20s, enters 30 and still single, alone, most of the time, its a guy, male@@user-us3jy2mb5r

@msko5180 9 ай бұрын

Yeah I'm 21 and never kissed someone. Its also about lifestyle, character ect. Not just gender

@keydabeastgamingg 8 ай бұрын

If you choose to sit around saying shit like that of course it’s going to be a waste. You have to partake in your own rescue, try new strategies and when the old ones aren’t working. What u just said is just an excuse.

@MyNameIsTre1 Жыл бұрын

Why don’t you work 2 jobs and save up??

@jank8874 Жыл бұрын

You mean how to waste your life in self pitiness

@guerrillaj Жыл бұрын

Sometimes its best to take a step back and do some soul searching, a little reflection. Like when a car breaks down have to open that hood and start running some tests

@forestelder Жыл бұрын

Are you medicated for your depression?

@kimwarren1389 Жыл бұрын

ρɾσɱσʂɱ

@BigDaddy-pe5xi 6 ай бұрын

You are still young. Most people waste their 20s in bars in clubs anyway. You are not alone. I'm a musician and I was alcoholic too. But of course I had some sex (with like 30 bitches)

@n3philim275 Жыл бұрын

Also I hate discord and your very irregular on KZfaq so give me a random email of yours I can email you on of a number or line app or something.