I don’t know about you guys but I could listen to this guy for hours. Imagine if the world was filled with true men like this. It be great

I remember my first cigar. My Sgt came up to me while deployed. I was missing home. Troubled by the combat I'd encountered. The brothers I'd lost. He came up to where I was sitting and tossed me a cigar. (A Romeo and Julieta) and his punch and matches. He was KIA three days later. EVERYTIME I light up a cigar, I think of that cigar. When people ask why I love cigars as much as I do, I say "Gone but never forgotten" RLTW!!

I can feel my chest hairs growing from listening to this man. Salute!

This man alone has helped me communicate with more pride and happiness to strangers and just be an all around good fella

73 yrs old and I smoked cigarettes early in life but haven’t touched one in 25 yrs. Had an occasional grocery store cigar after that but again haven’t had one of those in years. Today, thanks to you, I went to the Cigar Lodge in McKinney, Texas. Never been to a place like this but I walked in and was immediately greeted by 7 of the regulars. I told them I was new to this lifestyle but I wanted to join the “Brotherhood of the Leaf”. About half of them knew what I was talking about but soon they all knew what this brotherhood is about. Mike running the store showed me everything he had. He made some suggestions and then I pulled out a piece of paper with two cigars you had talked about on your channel. I settled on a Charter Oak Connecticut Shade. Bought a cutter and torch and I’m never turning back. Sat down and got to know everyone there. Thank you for introducing me to the “Brotherhood of the Leaf. If you and Momma ever come this way ya’ll have a place to stay.

Keep the Cigar stories coming. Duane your stories always hit the right place. I love the way of the brothers of the leaf. God Bless.

I’m a huge cigar smoker and lover , was born in France then moved in that magnificent country 15 years and it’s because guys like you and stories like that one that every single day I wake up and realize that I’m more in love with USA than the day before. My friends call me the French cowboy and now be American citizen is the proudest thing that ever happened to me . Thanks man for your amazing videos 🇺🇸🤟🇺🇸🤟

I've been smoking cigars for 35 years and this guy is spot on.

This guy is cut from a different cloth. A real stand-up guy. Love listening to his stories.

As a fellow member of the Brotherhood Of The Leaf, I would have to say this is the best description of this unspoken bond. “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.” ‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭4:9-10‬ ‭NIV‬‬

The cigar bar/lounge, and/or sharing a smoke together really is the last bastion of a true neutral social congregation, in America. A lounge just opened right down the street from my house and its changed my life. Its helped me start turning things around and being a better man. If you're in your mid 20s or older and you feel lost, find a cigar lounge and just go. There's not one negative thing about it.

One night, as an MC prospect, I was working behind the bar and it got quiet. I was tired and bored, so I spontaneously smoked a gas-station cigar that I found in a drawer. I got it. Romeo i Julietta #3 is now my go-to. Best cigar I ever had was a bandless handmade bought off a guy who was rolling them on a street-side in Munich. Perfumed and mild!!

This is so true. We had a gunsmith in out community. He was a cover story in gunsmith international or some magazine with a similar name. He was always such a serious looking man. He always seemed isolated and a hermit, one of those guys who hated life and people. I was in the need for a gift for my son, and a friend suggested this guy. He lived on his farm about 15 miles from town. I drove out and knocked on his door. He comes to the door and seemed a little irritated. Told him what I needed and he told me he would come over to the shop in a minute. I has woke him from his nap. He come over and sold me the hand gun I wanted, then offered me a cigar. We sat in his lounge at the shop, had a smoke, and some of the best conversation I have ever had. He went in his gun vualt and brought me out a cigar to take with me, and I left with more respect for the man than I thought was possible. I still have remorse wishing I would of gotten to know him sooner. It wasn't but a year or so after he passed away. But I will never forget that first smoke.

Duane, I recently lost an old cowboy friend from west Texas and you remind me so much of him. He smoked H. Upman's and we would drink whiskey out of old jelly jars. Time seems to get away from us and I enjoy hearing your stories (and reminders) that we all need to slow down and pay more attention to the important things. I am sure glad I found your channel and look forward to the next video. And I see others feel the same with your subscribers over 55k. 👍👍

"Not allowed at the grownups table." LOL Love it! Thank you Dwayne! 🤣

I found this channel by accident and I know little to nothing about wrangling or even horses in general, but something about Dwayne's stories and how he speaks is very interesting and even relaxing. I really appreciate his values and the simple lessons in life that he's trying to teach the younger people like myself. I'm only 19 and tbh I haven't had a whole lotta life experience, but these videos really speak to me. Hope he decides to do more.

I'm a former Firefighter and I've found a similar brotherhood in a few areas.Bourbon, Guns, Boots, and Car Collecting. It seems to erase the BS of differences and y'all can just be human beings to each other. The Fire Dept was the same way. Guys from all different backgrounds learning to live and work together above what the outside world wanted to make you believe about that type of person. Thanks for the story, it brought back some great memories I've had over the years.

Amen. Was feeling awkward about how I’ve gravitated away from church and have found more community in the local cigar lounge. It’s a brotherhood and I love it. Thanks brother.

I have privately collected and smoked Cigars, Never occurred to me to see it as a social construct, a modern day peace-pipe, But Brotherhood of the leaf must be a thing.

never was close with my grandpa before he passed, and didnt grow up with a father. Life lessons like these is what more young men like me need to hear in this fast world.

Man, this video brought a tear to my eye. God bless you, sir. Greetings from Ukraine.

Brother hood of the leaf and of the Briar is real for me. No truer word have crossed my ears in a long time.

😃👍Danke für das Video. Ich bin von Deutschland nach Dänemark gereist. Abends rauchte ich eine zigarre und fühlte mich gleich zuhause. Brotherhood of the leaf.

I am born and grew up here in Singapore, fast-paced, bustling Asian city and I needed to relax. Stumbled upon your page. I used to smoke cigarettes for years and discovered cigars only about 5-6 years back. I have been to different parts of europe and asia but never been to the US. I've always wanted to. I grew up watching cowboy movies with my dad and maybe that is one of the reasons why I was attracted to hear what you have to say about the cigar. I love the messages you bring across, may you always be in good health and success in all your endeavors. BOTL!

Man, the grown ups table analogy hits like a truck. I mean it's so simple and profound at the same time. I wish I could come up with something that smart myself.

I am not a smoker but I do love you Philosophy in life. It definitely can be applied across everything you do.

This is one of the things that my wife and I love the most about the cigar community. Hi class, low class, no class. White collar, blue collar, no collar. Black, white, Spanish. American, Canadian, Mexican. Catholic, Baptist, Jewish. Doctor, commercial pilot, auto mechanic… When you sit down at the lounge there is nothing but people who love cigars. They love to smoke them, they love to talk about them, they love to share them and as long as you feel the same then there are never any questions, just acceptance and camaraderie! Society could learn a lot from the cigar lounge, hell many churches could learn a lot from the cigar lounge as unfortunate as that may be.

Tonight I’m having the rare occasion of getting to relax by a campfire and have a cigar alone. I knew exactly where to come for a good story and some perspective. Love your videos, Duane.

I feel this same brotherhood feeling you just described when I am skating at the skatepark. we skaters talk to each other all the time, doesnt matter if its a stranger, a newcomer or if its a skater with a higher skill level. we are all equals.

"We don't care" is right. We are all brothers and sisters in Christ. Brothers of the leaf, I would be proud to have that on a t shirt. Thank you and the Mrs n keep doing what you're doing.

You're a great store teller. Im a new subscriber. Feels like im camping with my family around the camp fire. shooter the crap.

Brotherhood of the Leaf, love it! Thank you from a Canadian Cigar smoker.

Damn this is good stuff. Listening to your stories is fascinating for some reason. I think it's because you remind me of myself. I wish you all the best in life.

Keep the stories coming. I enjoyed this one a lot. Thank you Sir.

That place is so peaceful.

Another amen borther. Im 61 havent smoke a cigar in 2 yrs for what every reason. Started again. And how im enjoying it. Im 61 old musician and rancher you can say, and what i say as upitedy people and me usually dont mix. But there we are equals in the cigar shop! The brotherhood of the leaf!!

I love this format of storytelling. Keep it coming.

this is amazing. i would love to hear more stories from you!

getting some genuine enjoyment from your videos. really appreciated. thank you

Dewayne, you're a blessing. Thank you for sharing your stories and wisdom. God Bless.

I'm no cowboy, I ride a steel horse, but it's good to see real men still exist, we are getting few and far between, I am a combat vet and a member of the brotherhood of the leaf, you seem like the type of guy that I would enjoy sitting down and having a beer and a good stogie with. I enjoy your vids, thanks.

Dwayne, this was great! What a wonderful recollection of the past. I could sit by a fire and listen to you tell your history with mama and the world for days. You are the best!

Thank you for sharing this story it means a lot to me now more than ever. I remember back when I was a young man back in the Army (barely 21 yrs old), my Abrams tank crew just qualified as a crew and headed back to our company to celebrate. I remember seeing my tank commander holding a bunch of cigars and passing them out, I manned up and asked him for one and he looked at me with acknowledgement of a job well done. From then on, Cigars were the only habit I picked in the Army. When I was deployed in the middle east my unit and I made it a habit to smoke a cigar after completing dangerous assignments and patrols or whenever we wanted to just chill out. Thank you again for reminding me about the "Brotherhood of the Leaf" and thank you again for these amazing videos! And yes I still enjoy cigars to this very day, got my Dad, brother and close friends of mine to enjoy cigars!

Love this story! Thank you, keep them coming. From a loyal follower. ❤️👍🏼🙏

I don’t smoke at all, but I like the smell of cigars and I could just sit there and listen to just about any story you tell, Mr. Dwayne. Please, keep these going. Not only is it so peaceful to hear you talk during these convoluted times, you also have plenty of wise things to say that some of us young guys (and not so young, as my case) could learn. Cheers from Spain!

Sounds like an old time preacher to me, my dad was one. I am now 79 years old and I wish I still had him to listen to today.

This talk really warmed my heart! Thank you very much.

Great video Dewayne! Love the cigar stories and I’m glad to be apart of the brotherhood!

Amen, brother. Love your style.

Congratulations on your success with the launching of the school, sounds like things are going well. Puts a smile on my face to see good things come to those who work hard to bring them to pass. Blessings in your future and keep the videos coming absolutely love your stories.

I can listen to you and your experienced wisdom for hours. Thanks from U.K.

I found your channel thanks to your prior cigar video. I subscribed to your channel thanks to the wisdom you share from your life. Honest integrity is what the younger generation needs, keep up the great videos.

This was the most wholesome video I‘ve seen in a long while. Its just one sincere down to earth person talking from the heart. We are missing exactly that nowadays. Keep doing what you’re doing. Thank you sir !

This is the second time I've watched this video, and I got even more out of it this time. From one Brother of the Leaf to another, thanks for the content.

Just got done watching this whole playlist of Cigar videos, I don't smoke, don't plan to, but none of that matters. This mindset, these gems of wisdom, this caring - old style approach to handing down life lessons and advocating for brotherhood, real brotherhood that is not beholden to how closely you agree with everything I think is so very important. I've found snippets of this kind of brotherhood in other communities, and will likely continue to find more, but it's so reassuring to hear stories from someone who's already traveled those roads.

you have a gift to remember all these wonderful memories 🩶

What a man there isn’t many left like him today, god bless you sir

this hit me ina spot i never knew i had. my first duty station in the military i got deep into cigar collecting and it allowed me to create even better bonds with the guys i served with. makes me miss those close friends on a deeper level than i ever thought. its something so simple but it allows you to just "smoke and joke" as we say in the military, but it becomes a very melancholy, but happy memory of times shared with people just being human beings in the moment

Dewayne if I ever get to hit the road and see more of this country one day it would a dream to have a smoke with you and a cup of coffee from the fire kettle.

Awesome story and thanks for sharing. Was just thinking it’s really about kindness, treating others how they need to be treated. Thanks again absolutely love your stories.

you always tell a good story that even this old dog can relate to. I smoke cigars and was a Lawman for 22 years. thank you for great stories you share.

Duane ... love your philosophy on life. Love the 💕 horses and training, that’s what attracted me to your videos; but I came to look forward to the many subjects you speak too 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thanks for the experience.

You make me happy. Thank you for your great videos, and for being the gentleman that you are. God Bless You!!

This is a fantastic video! I have really gotten to enjoy cigars, but more than just smoking them. I enjoy learning about them, learning about the people that make them, and the individuality of each blend. I hope we can sit down one day and have a cigar together. I love hearing people’s stories and life experiences. I don’t know what else to say, but keep doing what you’re doing.

The spirit behind what you’re saying is what’s going to save us. Thank you for the message.

Cheers to the leaf... I've had similar experiences with nice folks and truly have enjoyed those spontaneous moments. Thanks for the talk.

Awesome stories Duane! In todays climate this is very warming to hear! Love you content! Keep up the great work!

Great story! Having a pleasant experience where people can be friendly because of a common interest is very gratifying. I'm glad you share your experience with us. Now I want a cigar.

As a new member of “The Brotherhood of The Leaf” I really enjoyed your video Duane! Thank you for sharing your thoughts, they resonate with many of us!!

Hey man, you're right about our country being torn apart, and I appreciate your message here. I started watching your channel because my wife wants to ride horses for our honeymoon and, to be honest, I am a little afraid of horses. I figured I'd watch you and learn about the animals and people who love them. I've learned a lot and feel pretty good about the coming experience now, so thanks. I also have made a personal pledge to reach out to my fellow Americans, because we all are a tribe here in America, a bickering tribe, but a tribe nonetheless, and try to express my humble love for all of the people I live here with. Regardless of their political leanings. I will love them all as best I can. A brotherhood indeed.

Dewayne, great stories brother! This wisdom of yours is needed in our world today. Keep them coming brother. I too am a brother of the leaf.

I hear your words and I feel at home, brother. You speak straight to my heart. I love your channel. Greetings from Germany!

Some of the best experiences of my life revolved around smoking cigars with lifelong friends and new acquaintances. I started smoking cigars at 18 years old and turned many of my friends onto them. Now I get to enjoy them with my son, who’s 22, and his friends. You’ve hit it right on the head, it’s a brotherhood.

I found this brotherhood during the pandemic during some long walks while I was unemployed. The community of BOTL/SOTL has been a part of my life since that first cigar. I’ve met some great people. Hope everyone has a good smoke today.

He is BRILLIANT> I love him, just discovered him...he brightens up this rainy day here in Somerset, UK!

Just started seeing your videos, and sir, You’re a very compelling, intelligent story teller. The world needs more of what you bring to the table: Old fashioned Values, and common sense!!! You are very entertaining, and I’m now a subscriber!!!!

Thanks Dewayne. As they say, "If I call you brother it is because you have earned my respect". You nailed it brother.

This dude hit it right on the money. Having this one commonality allows us to know a little bit about the guy across the table from you. I was in Greece on a trip a few tears back and bought a partagas at a little cigar shop in a small town. I was getting ready to light up and saw a group of guys sitting on the waterfront. When they saw my cigar they beckoned me over. It was just a random group of traveller's. Some on cruises, some locals, some from adjacent countries. We sat together in fellowship. Most spoke English. After an hour of cigars and adult beverages we were like any other group of cigar guys. Talked a little bit about cigars, sports, wives. The usual stuff.Like the guys this cowboy described. My home cigar club the Cigar Ambassadors has judges and it has janitors. It has senators, and it has street sweepers. But we all have one common thing together. And the fellowship we share has a value beyond measure. It's hard to describe but I'll wager every cigar guy or gal that reads this or watches the video above will be shaking their head in understanding before they finish this. Long Ashes my friends. Enjoy every second of it, the best hour of the day. When we share some time together and shake off the days problems. No matter any where you are. We all get it! Kevin

Loved this post! You gotta make this a weekly or monthly segment. God bless and giddy-up!

Man, I moved to the city and you remind me so much of folks back home. I like this channel and I like your message. All love

Love this. I'm not a smoker, but I love this. Even if I don't smoke, there is a remarkable thing about pipe and cigar smokers. They are thinkers and tend to be brothers. George Bruno introduced me to the concept. I just found this channel and I already love it. Thanks my friend. You're a real gentleman, and follow the gentleman's code.

I enjoy all your videos, they are refreshing. Wish I could still smoke cigars, medically I cannot. I am glad you have a fellowship of people that breaks the boundaries, it's a much needed thing these days. It saddens me that what you say about churches is too often true and I'm sure people will get all triggered over it. I will say though there are fellowships of Christians across churches, across the map, across the internet, that identify by common values, behavior, faith and form a brotherhood as well. I would like to ask those who would be triggered about telling some truths about some churches, don't be triggered, don't be blinded to truth, don't attack people who point out what's plain to see. Find your fellowship, your brotherhood that cuts boundaries. Speak truth, but don't try to force people who won't see it to change. They will not until they choose to look. Thank you Duane for your integrity, honesty and ability to speak plainly.

Great video Duane! Both my wife and I are part of the Brotherhood of the Leaf and have experienced this bond many times. And one of our favorite sticks is the Charter Oak Connecticut. You hit the nail on the head about everything tearing us apart and as a pastor, I'm trying on that end to bring the Christians back together. But it is the Brotherhood of the Leaf that really binds us together, no matter what the race, background, economics, politics, or religion, it binds us together. Keep up the good work!

Dewayne, you seem to always make me chuckle. This video is so true. Blessings.

Thank you for sharing this video. I am a grad student and nearly every interaction I have with my contemporaries is fraught with political disagreements; it often seems that there is no outlet which can bring people together. While I've never smoked cigars, I can see a similar bonding when it comes to firearms. I've taken family and friends, on both sides of the political spectrum, out shooting and it has turned into an activity where we can stay out for the day, camp, and have fun shooting. This causes us to slow down and share a common bond with each other, making us realize that we aren't so different after all and facilitating unlikely friendships. I really appreciate hearing your experiences and look forward to watching your other videos.

Loving this content brother. One of the very best parts of cigars is how they're "the great equalizer", they bring people together and inspire deep thought. There's no better time to make new friends and no better time to instill strength in old friendships than while smoking cigars.

Man I love it. It got real at 13:50!! Speaking facts and love right there. Thank you Dwayne! People need to hear that.

Great video, really appreciate these stories. Love these types of videos from you.

Speaking of brotherhoods the Marine Corps birthday is on the 10th. Semper Fi brothers and sisters! God bless you all.

I've listened to most of your videos and just ran across this one. It reminded me of a time in my life when I ended up in northern Idaho, trying to shake off a bad marital breakup. After some time up there I was invited to an 'invitation only' gathering of men that met on Wednesday evenings. It was called 'The Roost' and was held on the upper floor of an old barn, an old hay loft that had been converted into a man cave, sporting a circle of couches, chairs, and a wood stove for heat when needed. I nervously walked up the narrow stairs to the loft and was met by around a dozen guys, all of whom were Jesus followers, sweet-smelling cigars, and good whiskey. Even though I was a pipe smoker, I was welcome. The Roost was to become the epitome of a real men's group where deep issues of life were discussed, cigars and pipes (at least one pipe) were smoked, and good whiskey was sipped. It was wonderful and I often wish there was one on the island where I live. By the way, the reason the group was invitation only and somewhat secretive was that a number of the attendees were on a church staff. People in their churches just wouldn't understand...

Following from Australia, I appreciate the honesty of your content. Wish you success with your new venture, the Dry Creek Wrangler School.

Amen my brother. I was out fishing in my little boat. smoking my cigar. and went out deeper waters to see what they where catching. guys says. don’t know what your smoking. damn it smells good. Thank you. brother of the leaf.

Sparking my leaf at the grown up table haha

Your not allowed to sit at the grown ups table....classic!! I love it. Love the video Dewayne. Couldn't agree more!!

Best thing that worked for me was I was a bourbon and cigar guy in the Army. As a older E4 cpl I found the only other bourbon and cigar guy in my company. The commander. So after a rough day we would have a counseling session behind a building or our of view out in the field. Learned alot and laughed alot during those time.

Lotta wisdom unpacked there- and truth too. I've slowly been drawn my own way more and more over recent years, and it's starting to make sense- when I realize it ain't me. Glad I'm not the only one who is only vaguely able to describe a cigar's taste or profile...after more than a hundred different kinds. This channel is a kindred spirit for me.

I absolutely love listening, learning and watching all your fascinating life lessons ! I was a bit sad when you said “ you just don’t care “ …. That’s the world we live in right now . 😒

This is a great video sir, I recently starting smoking cigars and the amount of fellowship it's brought is honestly amazing. It really brings people together and we need more of that.

I could listen to this guy for hours. I love me a good story teller!

I just sat in my recliner and we shared a cigar via KZfaq and I listened to your words of wisdom. Another great video, cowboy.