Nobody gets more upset than a narcissist, who is accused of something they absolutely did.

One thing I've realized about all of them is they never shut up about themselves

Grandiose narcissists are very entertaining to the people who they newly met. It almost feels like unreal, but you see an example, so you think anyone can achieve anything. But when you spend a lot of time with them, you will realize how much they have been using controlling entitled behavior to achieve anything.

If we don't honor ourselves, then we're in agreement with the narcissist's behavior. And we end up abusing ourselves too.

It's scary to wake up and not know what kind of day it will be. In losing your sovereignty, you lose yourself.

My experience with grandiosity is that they accumulate expensive things: take expensive vacations: whilst simultaneously begging from their families, claiming that they can't pay their bills. There often seems to be an obsession with their appearance, and often "name dropping", as well as announcing that they must have, and be, "the best of the best." Thanks to what I've learned, my most recent escape from forming a friendship with a bartender, who does spray tan: fake nails: fake blonde hair: exercise class: brags about driving a fancy car (and , of course- pointing out that the vehicle I drive is "inferior" LOL): and sends acquaintances daily religious, inspirational texts- all whilst searching for a man to take on her massive 80K debts. That would be an example of too many red flags for me to become any closer with a person. I have also met people who exhibit many NPD behaviors, and have declared bankruptcy. One would not know it- because their expensive lifestyle would indicate that they have not had financial issues in the past, or owe other people a great deal of money. Even friendships with an NPD can be costly on many levels.

Horrifying to hear. I committed the crime of marrying one and starting a business together. Trusted too much. Ended ruined to the root. The only bless are our 3 marvellous kids that live with this monster. My family was deeply financially affected too. I can't stop blaming myself. These people are monsters. I'm terrified for my kids. Run while you can!!!

The grandiose narcissist I unfortunately have to live with is so far from charming, it's actually laughable.

I told my ex-husband that I wanted a divorce. He asked me what about his family, my family and the church. This explains it. He's concerned about how things will look 🤔

I would like to make a request: a deep dive about the differences and similarities of narcissism and alcoholism.

I was always so flabbergasted or irritated when my narc ex would talk about how easy it would be to achieve so many daunting tasks (opening a new business, buying property, obtaining a grant, etc), and then she would tune me out when I would try to explain the necessary steps and conditions to make any of those possible. This was coming from someone who could barely afford rent and doesn't even have a driver's license in her mid-thirties.

I had a former g. Narc friend. She came to MY wedding in a custom made dress, brought the most elaborately wrapped gift, and when we took a photo of my best friends (5 of us in total), she had to be center stage. One of my other friends who disliked the Narc, even commented: 'Let's have the Bride in the center of the photo!' But, of course~the Narc didn't move. I did think it was strange that she stayed where she was, but didn't say anything. This person exited my life not long after. She has tried to swoop back in through sm, but I see her for who she is. Thanks to Dr. Ramani and other narcissism experts.💜

Everything you do in life, from what you wear and how you look to not ever embarrassing your legalistic narcissistic parents, has to make them look good and create the image of the perfect, happy family that has it all together.

I liken the grandiose narcissist to an old looney tunes cartoon. "I'm Elmer J. Fudd millionaire. I own a mansion and a yacht."

I haven't seen my narcissist for 13 years but I still feel very damaged.

Grandiose Narcissist is a perfect description of my elder brother. He loves talking about himself and his achievements and is so entitled because he is the first born Son. He lies a lot, too. They are so fake.

My god! This is the perfect description of “someone “ in politics we all know very well!!!😅

Yes so true, they are masters in finding people who support them, and telling them half the story. The only one who know everything about it is me. My relationship with him was 7 years. I know to much secrets. And i lost most of my money. Nobody of our " friends" is asking me for the story. Nobody even contacts me. They follow me secretly on my Facebook posts. I am making poems and story,s( i am a writer) with subtile suggestions about this. He has a group of woman and they took over what i did for seven years. Give him money, give supply, give back up, give admiration, share the fantasy world. Why they don,t want to hear the truth? Because than they have to give up there own desire to be in his presence. And they are already hooked on it. And gave him so much money that they cant leave anymore. Exactly the same as i did for all this years. The lies he told me are now comming to me. I did investigation about conflicts he had with clieents in the past. Just to hear there part of the story. Because I believed his part and did not had permission to contact them to stay in tune. Disappointment, sadness, trauma,.lost of self confidence. Am i a victim? Yes i am. Doni have a platform to tell my story? No i haven,t. Once i will write a book about this. To help people in this relationships to stay in tune with there truth.

„Who is the coolest and richest guy you know?“ … said a 4 years old boy in his fifties … 😅 I can only laugh about it because I am out. I finally made it. It took time, and thanks a heaven to Dr. Ramani for her wisdom and support.

I ran across this type many times during my career in the ad industry.

Self esteem vampires.

"Nobody gets more upset than someone being falsely accused, without basis; unfounded claims". Tragically, many people go to prison, sometimes for the rest of their lives, for being lied on.

Emotional abuse is physical abuse. Neglect is physical abuse. Abandonment is physical abuse. Financial abuse is physical abuse. Verbal abuse is physical abuse. Spiritual abuse is physical abuse. And OBVIOUSLY sexual abuse is a VIOLENT form of physical abuse EVEN if you "consented out of fear, guilt, desperation, or obligation" and EVEN if you were complicit to the point they didn't have to physically hold you down and force entry or contact. If you KNOW if your HEART that what transpired was AGAINST YOUR WISHES IT IS PHYSICAL ABUSE. Even if no "physical force" was used. EVEN IF YOU "TECHNICALLY SAID YES" OR SAID YES "AT FIRST" you DID NOT agree to THE ABUSE. And even if you did "agree" to be abused it was ONKY UNDER DURESS AND AT THE MERCY OF SOMEONE WITH MUCH MORE POWER AND INFLUENCE AND MANIPULATION OVER THE CURCUMSTANCES THAN YOU ARE AWARE OF. Just because you don't have a bruise on your body does not mean that you aren't sufferingva subsequent injury handicap, or in agony. Just because someone SAYS OUT LOUD THAT they CARE about you and didn't MEAN to hurt you doesn't mean they are BEING HONEST ABOUT THEIR INTENTIONS. IT'S CALLED LYING WHEN SOMEONE SAYS THEY CARE ABOUT YOU AND THEN PHYSICALLY ABUSES YOU.

The narcissist who bromanced me was grandiose & somatic. Perhaps the most physically attractive man I've ever met. A commanding physical presence. Dripping in charisma & sex appeal. The kind of man who everyone notices when he walks into the room; & acts accordingly. Would spend a lot of time posing in his full length mirror. A total shape shifter, a different person to different people & setting. Also admittedly aware of his cruelty.

Oh my goodness..this is so my ex husband.. 32 years later he's NEVER changed

Everything you need to know about grandiose narcissists = keep a wide berth between you and them.

This always reminds me of my cousins husband, although he was later diagnosed with another mental health condition and addiction. The first time he met our family was at a wedding and he was very charismatic, fun and flirty with everyone. I was around 14 at the time and he told me I looked much older (in a complimentary way). Then I heard him say it later to other girls around my age. I realized oh he says that to everyone 😁. He truly was the life of the party. But, my cousin had a rough life with him and eventually divorced but for some reason she was still involved with his life even when he was dating someone else! She would go to places with them. (I often wondered if she was afraid of him and he still controlled her.) He ended up taking his life. Its probably been 15 years now but she still rarely dates and from the dysfunctional family dynamics we grew up in, no one talks about any of it.

They will cause you to have a nervous breakdown if you let them. You must get a lawyer and run as fast as you can. Absolutely you must adore him 24 - 7 .

I was brought up not to brag and to be humble about any achievements. My ex narc constantly knocked me for having a poor self image and lacking confidence. I'm so confused at this point, that I don' t even know what I am anymore.

The first tantrum I ever witnessed from my ex narc boyfriend, I was in disbelief! A giant mid-fifties man turned into a toddler in the apartment parking lot! I came up with a solution and he continued the tantrum like he didn't hear me and he kept repeating how his life was so horrible...I see it now, he just wants attention, negative or positive, attention... looking back I'm surprised by how many people just don't see it OR they do see it and they enable it...

Their rage is horrendous. Like a tidal wave. They come across as great but behind closed doors, wow it’s a different story.

Thank you, Dr. Ramani for not only helping me understand my narcissistic mother, but also for helping me see the toxic traits that I have myself. And for helping me understand the other toxic people I have encountered and thought that I was just a bad person in life. Your videos help me so much!

I fell for this in my previous job. We had not one but 4 or 5 people like this on my team. They all sucked but were so bad and inexperienced at the job they thought they were all great. They were so dang confident that they fooled me. I thought the cockiness was based on actual competence. I was wrong place was a dumpster fire. I'm a truth teller so after about 6-months i was starting to be in deep conflict with some of them. After a year it was horrible. Very unprofessional when they had tantrums, shouting cussing, throwing things.

Video request: Dr. Ramani, your work gave me an understanding that helped me leave a toxic marriage of 12 years. Distraction is a major issue that I'm working to overcome now. I find it difficult to think deeply about my work or focus on any one thing for a long period of time. I'm not even ruminating on the narcissist now; just not focusing on what I'm supposed to be doing now.

Yes! I’m hearing “I’ll take on both your jobs AND I’ll do XYand Z as well as AB and C”!! Also, the CONSTANT status behaviours such as interrupting, not giving full attention, depracating humour, as in deprecating others.

My mother is convinced she'll be a famous painter after her death. I mean, I do like her paintings. Her art is her one good trait. It's just... most people don't suddenly become famous after they're dead, you know... I wonder why it took me so long to recognise that this was grandiosity.

Dr Ramani, please make a video about covert narcissist. The one I worked with, did NOT talk about their achievement openly but rather had an ATTITUDE of “I’m better than you” She always put me down in such a subtle way, I didn’t know how to address it at the time. She showed her superiority by body language, subtle comments and patronizing, condescending comments when NONE was around. To me, these are the worst.

This reminds me of an eye doctor I once had. He was is always on the phone with people he wanted recognition from like various medical institutions and the like. He was more on the phone with "Important" people and could be hardly bothered with his patients. I eventually sought a different doctor because I couldn't stand the degree to which he was Full of Himself.

WOW, this sure explains a LOT! It's exhausting trying to keep up with his need for supply. You have helped me so much. I no longer feel the need to try to keep up with him as it won't change him anyway. Just knowing why he acts this way brings me peace.

I think I'm in a relationship with one now....I saw the signs but took them as just narcissistic tendencies. Thanks it explains a lot.❤

Another thing Dr. Ramani, you know you are saving lives, right? The abuse I went through trying to care for this woman should be illegal and she should be paying or learning at the very least. I am currently trying to re-establish self after that. What a process that has included internal debates that should never have happened. Again, thank you for what you do and who you are.

Taking notes andcatching up, im happy to be here. thank you Dr Ramani.

I think that instead of showing narcissistic rage, grandiose narcs often get away with situation by weaponised incompetency. They'll act too innocent that will protray the victim as the wrongdoer. Then they'll boast infront of the enabler how they fooled the victim, gaslighted and manipulated.

You do a Great Job at explaining what often(to myself at least) seems a very complex topic, and differentiating the unhealthy narcissistic behaviour from the acceptable sometimes similar behaviours we all share 👍🏾 Awesome! Thanks

Dr. Ramani thank you so much for making these videos. It has been super helpful to me. Is helped me understand the narcissists abuse I endured for 28 yrs. I have been on my own for 6months and working on not going back like I have in the past. Thank you for helping me see what I felt and thought but did not quite understand. I always thought I was alone and had to figure out on my own. These videos give me a understanding and cures my soul. Because now I know I was not crazy...just gaslighted. Again thank you for helping me and others understand that we cannot change narcissists and to let go of the hope that life will one day be happy with them. That will not happened and as a co-defendant is a hard pill to swallow. Is a journey and we need all the tools we can get and your content is a strong firm tool I now have. Thank you again.

I had a close relationship with a narcissist for the past 15 years, purely online. Really devastating stuff. She abused me in some really monstruous ways and did it with ease since the fact we only interacted through the internet gave her free reign to lie about anything she wanted. One of the things she did was pretend she had a heart condition and often when I did something she didn't like she'd pretend it was triggered and that put her in the hospital, then for days while she was "in the hospital" I'd have to appease her. She used this to force me to run some roleplaying game for like 4-8 hours a day daily for years. She did countless things more over the past decade. The real danger that the internet adds to these people is that they now have a place to lie about everything, about their fake success and victimhood, and your chances of figuring it out are far lower than they would be in real life, and the extreme they can take their lies to in an environment where they're your only source of information about them is essentially limitless.

Thanks Dr Ramani, so enlightening

Amazing and indeed this is how they exactly act

Thank you Dr Romani for your truth. I have never encountered such as this and I don't want to.

Dr Ramani - Please, please consider making a video of how to handle it when “you” have a narcissistic employee. Many folks talk about how to respond to a narc boss, but I’m telling you that having a narc employee is absolutely horrible! And, it’s dangerous! I need your help!! Love your videos. You are helping millions of us! Thank you!

Absolutely brilliant!

Dr. Rama is so beautiful, inside & out.

Hits home 100%. I felt like in a Hollywood movie

Just stand up to them! Tell them that you won't put up with it and too bad for you.

You look very pretty today.! 😊Thank you for all you do! 🦋

Without you I would feel so alone. Thank you for explaining everything so clearly

Thank you kindly 💗 I went NO CONTACT with a GRANDEOS NARCISSIST. SPOT ON!!!!

My grandiose narcissist keeps me around by giving me lots of money while he drives me crazy lmao. Now I accept it and keep the money

Are narcissists ever alcoholics or addicted to other substances? I am in 12-step recovery, and recently at a Speaker Meeting I heard someone tell their story. My gut feeling was that there was something missing. His speaking gave me the creepy feeling that he was high on some substance that I could not quite identify. There was something inauthentic and contrived about his sharing. It was like reverse grandiosity "look at me how messed up I was." He had this unique skill of sharing outrageous behavior that would generate that kind of laughter associated with identification. In a perverse way, he sounded like he was a substance abuse stand-up comedian, if there is such a thing. When I abused substances, I acted outrageous at times, but mainly I wanted to numb myself to feelings and reality I didn't want to face. I was able to feel confident to the extreme. Mostly, I got a feeling of invulnerability which led to risk taking be it social risky business or the dare devil kind. I may be asking a "which came first the chicken or the egg?", question. Does alcohol or drugs trigger latent narcissism? Do grandiose narcissists who have multiple failures turn to alcohol and drugs?

Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!❤❤❤

Could you maybe make a video on what mental illnesses or conditions have an overlap with narcissism or look similar? And what capacity to change those personalities have compared to „typical narcissistic personalities“? Thank you for your work! :)

Thank you very much mam i am from india in the country like india where the narcissism is so common that it is coming from the root of the family i came to your channel because i felt something around me is not okay that taught me this disorder now a days i can sense in family friends function how people drag about themselves how they make others feel less valuable whenever they tell about themselves i can see that disgusting happiness on their face mam you're doing great job again thank you very much for your videos

Thank you!❤

Oh the older Narc I know had perfected the flat face, blank eyes as his listening pose. Picking up pieces of what was said to twist and use as weapons, but never really hear.

Thank you for the education,but I just have to say that you look great. 🌷

Gee, who does this sound like, on display in front of whole world!!🤡🤯

OMG I'm still laughing at the "I am ADHD" - I am so naive that I actually believed my boss the first times she said that 🤣🤣🤣 This is the best one. I get the "Bipolar type II" excuse quite often for all the impulsive and excessive reactions too. Honestly Narcissistics put an amazing show together. When you start getting it, and mastering gray rocking, it can be very entertaining. I look at it like that now, it's less depressing than trying to reason them.

Literally in the middle of watching “the wolf on Wall Street” … it’s so crazy because the main character fits the bill of a grandiose narcissist! A filthy rich one. It’s kind of triggering.. but I can’t look away! 😆🤦🏾‍♀️

I feel like I would have to have a long conversation about narcissism with Dr. Ramani in order to understand everything and how to delineate that with all the caveats that other mental issues/needs bring in.

My domestic partner and I are dealing with one at the moment. He was so oblivious to it. But it has been affecting our life. It is so hard.

Whoa! My ex was larger than life… when you said he could not spell ‘the’ THAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED with the word ‘then’. Amazing, that was a flashback 😂. Glad he is long gone.

Not downplaying the rest of the video, the intro is the summary one needs.

I love your videos as it helps me in my world. My biggest challenge is my husband's potential brother narcissist. As I have cut the person out of my life and my children's lives, the person uses the family's religion to really push on my husband. I feel a lot of guilt for all that he goes through. This brother is relentless with shame and guilt manipulation. I wish there was a way to help him without involving myself with the brother at all. I always appreciate how much I learn from your videos and they help validate my experiences with people like this.

In my experience, if you are the sole target of a grandoise narc's rage episode and you try to stand up for yourself then yes they won't physically attack you the way a malignant narc would - but they will tell you the most vicious and hurtful things you have ever heard in your life. And they will expect you to thank them afterwards for "helping" because "nobody loves you as much as me to always tell you the truth even when the truth is you are awful - be grateful for my honesty."

Wow, I didn’t think my ex was grandiose but this describes my experience 100%. 😬

I have a co-worker who ALWAYS praise herself and criticize other people’s appearances, output and personality. She is a GRAMMAR POLICE and despite she’s not a native English speaker, she corrected my AMERICAN friend’s sentence when in fact it was an American SLANG 😂 She always tell the people around her how she’s gonna be promoted because of her skills and exceptional output and always tell some how lazy or dreadful their work are. She almost always complain when it was her who brought them to herself in the first place! She shared to me once that she doesn’t understand why people are leaving her side or cooled the way how they interact with her. We were close, but now I will absolutely stop feeding her ego by not reacting to her stories and asking the SPECIFICS if she’s gonna exaggerate praising herself. Thanks Dr. Ramani for this video. It is very educational and relatable.

In reflection of themselves. They love shop windows and their reflection Mirrors

Thank you!

A video request: could you make a video on children with disabilities of narcissistic parents, or rather how a narcissistic parent treats such a child? Both my parents are narcissistic. There are 3 of us: I am the oldest daughter, then there is my younger brother, we're adults now. Our teenage sister has got a Down syndrome. I always thought that my parents dealt with it well (before I realised who they are), and now I think quite often how they treat my sister and how does it feel to them (dad is overt, mom is covert). Or maybe there is such a video already on your channel? Thank you so much for all the insights!

It’s heartbreaking when you love a narcissist and the only thing they show love for is themselves

My narc father literally calls himself a shaman healer and my enabler mother is his cult follower. Times when he has verbally attacked me all while charging and intimidating me; my mother had called that interaction as “healing”. He has been kicked out of temples because he was not respecting the temple and then wondered why he was kicked out 😂 When you speak clearly to him basic thoughts. He spins it around into some dramatic statement in his “healing voice” that makes zero fucking sense. He and my mother fixed their diets. My mom learned she had a gluten intolerance. But my father doesn’t eat processed foods and basically survives off beans. So I believe he uses this to make him feel he’s so much better than the rest of Americans eating the American diet. And my mom believes his abuse to us back in the day was partially because of his diet. He went through a phase when I was in high school where he got a flat top and wanted to be called seargent dad. He has zero military background. I was the asshole punk teen for rebelling against playing into this. He also go religious right after that and woke me up at 4am throwing holy water on me cuz I was possessed. And then maybe a couple months later chose the dumbest reason to start a fight. Cops called twice cuz he broke the house. I was told to go to my grandparents for safety. And then he had my mom tell me that I gotta figure out what I’m gunna do because he’s disgusted at the thought of me in his house. So that was the day I was officially kicked out. But he will still say to this day the “cops told you to get the fuck out of my house”. So yea I’m trying to figure out how to heal from this because no matter how well I do in my life there’s still something holding me back from loving myself or feeling motivation or loving life. It comes in waves. So I think I can work on it

You just explained my grandiose narcissistic mother to the T and she's out of my life. This people are contagious. Stay away!

When my mom met my dad, she said everything was fun, exciting, his family was amazing, and his parents were soooo successful. They went traveling everywhere, camping, hotels, dinners out, clubs and casinos. Fun, fun, fun! It was one big happy grandiose fun family! 😄 Then when I grew up, all I heard my dad say, over and over and over again, was how our city was "The best city on the world!" and my school was "the best school in the country! You could never find a better education!" (Not even close btw) However, a few years ago after my grandparents past and he was the only one left living there, my dad changed his tune "This city is awful, nothing to do here. I wanna move to a bigger better city." "But dad," I said "isn't this your dream city? You always said it was..." "No, never was." He said. "New horizons is waiting for me!" Me: 🤦‍♀️

the family relationship section is exactly how i grew up. i have bad anxiety from the ups, downs, and walking on eggshells

Just dated a girl who kept saying she is going to become a lawyer, then become president(which is fine) but she would literally try to talk to every single possible person she could, then tell me it’s because they’re gonna vote for me one day like “I’m better than all of them” and “people might shoot at me so you better be able to take a bullet for me. I’m so righteous and people will hate me because of it”. We’d go to a concert and she’d be like “I can sing better than her and I’m prettier I also know how to manage bands I could make them way more famous” Constantly telling me “I can get any job I want I’m perfect, I never make mistakes and you should listen to me” Telling me”you do not get to have me on your arm unless you obey what I say, you’re negative attitude reflects on me” It was putrid and I’m glad I’m out.

My narc was a Kardashian fan to the point of tears when the show closed. Unreal. Now, everything is warning sign...

I'm autistic with imposter syndrome and I struggle with this because I don't feel like I'm deserving of making more money than my parents, unfortunately my parents have been on welfare most of my life. My parents got disabled when I was about eleven years old, both of them. Well, my mom got her at first but my dad got hurt a couple years later. I try to reshape my narrative by reframing the small successes that I have had into more fulfilling ones that could help propel my professional career, because I'm 42 years old and I'm still working making less than 22 bucks an hour and all of my friends were making six-figure jobs. I get looked down on in my social circle, in fact I never get invited out anywhere and I'm treated like a child amongst my best friends because they know that I don't make good money. I told my friend I wanted to get a job as a property manager with her leasing company, and she told me that she had some clients who needed their dog walked. It's ridiculous because I have a solid 4.0 in college but I've struggled and I never completed an AA. I worked my way up from receptionist his supervisor at the 1 800 quit now program decades ago, and I was really proud about it, but then I began dating an abuser, my life went downhill, and here I am. I try to talk about what my life will be like when I have a college degree and when I hopefully get my PMP, but it just seems like I'm lying to myself. I hate it so much.

I've known (at least) three in my life that were clearly this way. With the most recent one - a friend - it was like "well, at least we could have some fun times going out to places ". Actually, listening to someone's BS that doesn't make any sense and that you can not question - because they get upset - is really miserable. Oh, and this was a guy who supposedly had a big time job but lives with roommates, drives a beater car, and doesn't have an emergency fund.

I'm a female with BPD, got that under control quite well, but my traps tend to be a bit narcissist'ish. I learn a lot of your videos on what not to be. Where too look out for in my own behaviour towards others. People in my envoirement told me that in the last year I became a lot easier in those aspects, so I guess it is helping me :) Sometimes it was not clear why people got upset with me, apperently I did some gaslighting without being aware, so I tend to be a lot more aware to not to do that. I'm not there yet, and never will be perfect but nobody is, however I made so much progress and I'm a little bit proud of that.

I realized the other day how my grandiose narc mom is also a user of people. She only contacts you when she needs something. She also has used all the men in her life, all 5 husbands. She met a nice "normal" guy in the late 80s whom she thought was "boring" because neither he nor his family had any drama. She likes John Wayne types, saviours on white horses. And even though she hated her own mother, she still had her live with us so that she could help pay the mortgage so that my mom could make her weekly shopping trips to buy more clothes and jewelry from QVC and all the shopping networks. And me getting a job, following through with my music dreams in Los Angeles, etc, means that mother loses control over her baby adult child because I now have my own income and career and life. Yeah, I fell for it as well. I didn't know any of this at the time. But I knew my mother was severely effed up; I knew that by the time I was 10-11 years old.

I'm experiencing minds games, with my bf helove testing you if your not strong they will be breaking you down or bring you down. And no matter hiw hard you try to keep up with then knowing that something is wrong in their head it traps you at some point. No matter how many time you confront them some they get mad or use manipulation on you and makes you think is your fault or just admit it for a one time thing make you feel their chaging.

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Good point.. a shell of lite inert gas ice type in the shell that will probably be blasted off.. and the earth ground pole will keep the the wearer safe.

Is that all Dr. R ? I make my sales target on the 2nd day of the month and have a free bentley as company car and a ferrari for the shopping spree and i'm planning my space trip next July right after I take over General Motors and fire everybody. Also it my birthday next week, for the 4th time this year and I'm having my 5th house decorated by an award winning designer. After that I'll take on elon and brandson together.

Well, much will run right through most materials ..

Im not a narc but i keep my lambo parked around the block so neighbors dont grt jealous. My yacht and helicopter i only use when im alone because i dont want people to be envious or want to use me. I learned this going to college to become a doctor. Never got the degree but i know a thing or 2 bout a ting or 2

I’m not accused of anything actually and definitely NOT grandiose . I can do what I say I can . Gaslighting!! I do think however- some of the narcs I know USE people and then stomp on them - sabotage the people that helped them - the guy I dated- He had no job and was in a really bad place physically & financially- I AM responsible for creating his job for him that allowed him to get some other similar teaching jobs - allowed him to alleviate his anxiety- pushing him to go to the doctor- pushed him to the gym - I got him to his destination- I am responsible for that - because I’m a good coach- not because I’m codependent- he re-paid me by attacking my job and humiliating me publicly. And continuing to have contact with the person who was intervening in a police investigation into assault charges. Yep !! That’s a great person!

Omg your right he keeps trying to say he might have ADHD ITS CRAZY

I think it can be as big of a mistake to look for the quiet person in the corner, as it's my belief they are often vulnerable narcissists.

Thanks!