Facts!

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Kim B.

2 ай бұрын

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@UncleTone711 2 ай бұрын

This guy hits where everyone else misses

@dfromtheblock1537 Ай бұрын

Anyone knows his name?

@yellow8818 Ай бұрын

@@dfromtheblock1537Tripp Fontaine

@shawnapeebles2592 Ай бұрын

ABSOLUTELY! He says some very profound things. And the young woman to his left as well.

@jamecia8550 2 ай бұрын

People really didn't understand this until he said it? 🤦🏽‍♀️ Edit - it says a lot about you if my comment above is triggering to you 😩🤣

@serenedione 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes some people just make it hit different

@jamecia8550 2 ай бұрын

@@serenedione I can understand that

@thermant8452 2 ай бұрын

Not only did people not understand it, but if they did, they didn't understand the weight of it. If you just take a look around you, you'll see people ignoring this all the time.

@jamecia8550 2 ай бұрын

@@thermant8452 you are so right

@tecclasmokeVSOP 2 ай бұрын

Let’s all give Jamecia a big round of applause for not needing this video to grasp this concept. May she get the sweetest cookie and the shiniest gold star 👏🏾👏🏾

@crystal.diorrr 2 ай бұрын

So true but most times it’s lust that people fall into , it don’t be love.

@Stephanie-pk9sk 2 ай бұрын

OUCH!!! Not a single lie told.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

@Stephanie-pk9sk.....Facts 💯🎯🎯🎯🎯

@dumpd6227 2 ай бұрын

This is the type of invaluable advice that can change a person’s life. There are so many things that we do in life that we don’t like , but it has to be done. If we only did things because we liked them, the world would be a mess. Everything we like, is not always good for us.

@hereforit2347 2 ай бұрын

Like is a foundation and is NECESSARY to begin a relationship and even a friendship. But foundation is all it is. There needs to be a lot more for a relationship to be sustainable or even reasonable. However, being in a relationship with someone you DON’T like or vibe with is just as bad if not worse.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

I agree it will most definitely be worse if the vibe isn't good between both parties it's a setup for disaster!! I've been there and done that! Thank you for sharing your point of view 🙏🏾

@hereforit2347 2 ай бұрын

@@kimb.1950: You’re welcome!! 🥰

@abramlittle7102 2 ай бұрын

Trust is the foundation for healthy relationships. Like just gets you in the door

@hereforit2347 2 ай бұрын

@@abramlittle7102: You have to start somewhere. Which is why I said “like” is foundational. Without it, you never even get to “trust”.

@jeffstewart7439 2 ай бұрын

LIKE can be what gets you there YET, it CANNOT be what keeps you there!

@deniser.m.7356 Ай бұрын

Yep!! 💯

@marzipanmenthol Ай бұрын

Yo preach- "it can't be what keeps you there"

@Shasgirl 2 ай бұрын

I've been instilling this into my daughter since she became old enough to like boys. I stress her out about not liking someone off "potential" or jumping at the first chance to be exclusive with someone. I've made enough mistakes to know not to continue that cycle. Luckily she has followed my advice up to this point. It's too easy to like someone, but someone you can't trust isn't someone you will like for very long.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

AMEN 🙏🏾 Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏾

@acealoha Ай бұрын

FACTS.

@Rico-RR 2 ай бұрын

Realest advice any relationship coach or person has ever said, EVER 💯

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

I agree. He's straightforward 🎯💯

@CraShettaThomasHolloman 2 ай бұрын

This was a very needed conversation

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

I agree.

@xGeishaLTBx 2 ай бұрын

I completely agree

@jalicarenee Ай бұрын

I've always been told I'm gullible and waaaaaay too naive...I simply be thinking people are just genuinely honest🤦🏾‍♀️ but I've grown to the realization that people are completely comfortable living in the likeliness of falsehood...not everyone can handle living in truth. Learning as I grow❣️ Love Peace and Light 💖

@kimb.1950 Ай бұрын

THAT'S A WORD!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMENT 🙏🏾🎯💯

@dr.100purrscent5 2 ай бұрын

1000% Truth!!! Standing Ovation!!! ✊🏾💗

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾Exactly @dr.100purrscent5

@CrownedJulz 2 ай бұрын

Many folks, regardless of faith/ religious beliefs, need to hear the context of this message. GROW UP!

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯

@daynelcollins5208 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely the truth and the black community is suffering hard because of this. This is what really is happening. And when those first like me notes get passed children need to be trained on how to properly vet.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Exactly, I agree 🎯🎯🎯🎯

@TheBaumcm 2 ай бұрын

Laughing because I regularly tell me dear husband of a couple decades that I love him dearly but ain’t don’t like him, or his attitude or his behavior, in that moment. I would also go so far as to say we like the idea of things more than the thing itself sometimes, the fantasy of who we could be with that person, or those clothes or that car, rather than finding the best option for our lifestyles and personalities.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 🎯 thank you so much for sharing!

@Pandan1351 2 ай бұрын

Yo! I could shake this man’s hand in respect. Straight up spitting FACTS! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@YvetteNelson-th5tl 2 ай бұрын

You just hurt my feelings with the truth. 😢😊🎉

@atlsongbyrd6084 2 ай бұрын

He snapped!

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 🎯 💯 he went all the way off

@alainevictoria373 2 ай бұрын

THIS MAN IS SPEAKING TRUTH!!!

@305VERSATILE Ай бұрын

Bruh is Preachin' on the Porch. Good game.

@Jeffreyway Ай бұрын

🤣😂 The TRUE!!!!!! at The End 🤣😂🤣

@commandery3574 Ай бұрын

as a woman in my mid 20s, i needed to hear this. damn. like this message was crafted and wrapped just for me and i honestly thank the Holy Spirit for leading me to this video.

@mmelo2334 Ай бұрын

Same with friends, too many people don't know the word 'acquaintance' or 'colleague'.

@kimb.1950 Ай бұрын

That part 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

@DDTHEGREAT9900 Ай бұрын

❤ all facts..... Hints the term likes........for those that know......know

@aliciamonee87 Ай бұрын

I wish he’d preached this to me years ago 😩

@daadvanzdone2335 Ай бұрын

No Better Time Than Now

@RMRetief1111 Ай бұрын

➡️➡️➡️ Straight up FACTS

@serenedione 2 ай бұрын

Well call me out then, I needed this very message RIGHT NOW‼️

@lsmith9695 2 ай бұрын

Awesome message. I just don’t understand why people can’t speak without using so much profanity these days.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your point of view.

@lsmith9695 2 ай бұрын

@@kimb.1950 ♥️

@miimonalisa 2 ай бұрын

Especially the people who overuse every curse word that they know in every single sentence unnecessarily

@katrinab7657 2 ай бұрын

He spoke very well, made his points clearly and emphatically. The profanity didn't add anything.

@DeathAndRebirth-1982 2 ай бұрын

@@katrinab7657❤Didn’t take away from it either. Just shows how strongly this topic affects him. He expressed it with strong emotions while using profanity. Most of us was raised in those atmospheres and it’s just in us. Can we make this a law or a rule? Whenever you say you don’t like something someone does. Say something where you fall short and don’t like as well. Let’s just be real😅 everyone falls short somewhere 😊

@kingderald Ай бұрын

Oooooohhhhb everyone needs to wake up to this EVERYDAY

@kimb.1950 Ай бұрын

💯🎯

@franslam7398 Ай бұрын

You can love someone you don't like, that's worse. Like is more important that you realize.

@weirdLEXbutok Ай бұрын

exactly . it’s silly to think that liking someone doesn’t play a role in commitment . i’m not marrying someone i don’t like let alone attempting to date them long term . requiring someone who adds something to my life is a no brainer . it goes without saying . liking is surface level but just as crucial . if i don’t like you im not allowing you to procreate with me or do things that people who are close enough to have built trust do

@nanjalajulli4601 Ай бұрын

I like you...I love you...bro! Stop...like me love me with meaning

@christopherdavis1012 2 ай бұрын

I appreciate him saying this so articulately and with clear and concise examples but it’s kind of…damn near pathetic in a way, that this even has to be said. Common sense really isn’t common any more.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 🎯 I said the same thing! I agree that common sense really isn't common anymore. Thank you for your comment 🙏🏾

@scoobycute 2 ай бұрын

Shout out to my husband!! ❤😂

@royceroyce7715 Ай бұрын

This came up exactly when I needed to hear it ❤

@nessaboo232 2 ай бұрын

I like what he saying matter fact I love it

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Me too! Thank you for your comment 🙏🏾

@OstreiaWalker 2 ай бұрын

ALL FACTS!!

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 🎯

@dougbenton8767 Ай бұрын

They don’t have the intestinal fortitude to speak to me

@knyckname3295 Ай бұрын

He's teaching theses chicks to chew bubblegum without swallowing it...real basic life things that the parents should have taught their children as they we're growing up.

@SR-hf3hx Ай бұрын

When I was younger i would have crushes and like girls....so a similar feeling came over me recently at work...I'm now in my late 30s, I kinda thought I liked my coworker. The more she opened her mouth the more I'm turned off. As you get older you'll gain wisdom and see people for who they are

@iamaleo247 2 ай бұрын

Love it! 💯💯💯 FACTS on FACTS on FACTS!!!

@apache3481 2 ай бұрын

Truth I wish I was taught this in such a palatable way as this has been presented. I understand exactly but unfortunately things have happened in my life and I have my part in the blame. Oh well I should just move forward. Realizing in retrospect is depressing at times.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Knowing is half the battle, and you lived, and you learned. Now you know and learned, things is definitely going to workout the next time. You're going to be great Apache🙏🏾 Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾

@apache3481 2 ай бұрын

@@kimb.1950 Thank you Kim. I appreciate you for your kind words. I'm sure the most high God has blessed you positively and I sincerely hope he adds even more positive blessings to you. I feel the sincerity and compassion in your words and it helps a lot once again thank you.

@kushmorejames8164 2 ай бұрын

Like is deep, yall just be giving your emotions out left and right. It takes me a lot to like things.

@feenarvaez65 Ай бұрын

Thank you for your common sense and knowledge

@kimb.1950 Ай бұрын

🙏🏾

@sm.r3751 2 ай бұрын

“true”👏🏾

@afrofaeries 2 ай бұрын

Y’all, I’m a 19 year old girl in college and no responsible adult has ever given me this advice. I never thought of it that way. It’s like you see the most attractive person in the world…but what if they’re really a nightmare? Don’t date because YOU see or you want to believe in potential, because you can’t change others. Only God can. Instead, know God and know yourself enough to know what you need and don’t need for your relationships, platonic or not ‼️🙏🏾

@afrofaeries 2 ай бұрын

And to add on, I’m waiting for marriage and the Lord placed it on my heart to require a 6 month dating period to follow up marriage. I can’t (unless it’s total commitment and spiritual confirmation) marry someone after 2 dates or 3 months.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

🙏🏾Enjoy life. Do not get caught up in the mess. Keep excelling, growing, and glowing. Blessings to you 🙏🏾

@derrickgentryhumbleblessed8772 2 ай бұрын

Trrrrriiiip trrrrrip💯🔥👏🏾👏🏾

@youtubecommentator6023 2 ай бұрын

I watch this lady named Susan Venker and she covered a topic like this too. We're taught that we need to get into a relationship with someone to know if it's going to work out but most of the time that leaves people with emotional scars and trust issues that lead to even more problems in future relationships. If you "like" someone, just take time to get to know them before jumping into a relationship with them. When I got out of high school and started dating more often, I had guys that would ask me to be their girlfriend after 3 dates.....3 dates! How is that enough time to know someone well enough that you want to be committed to them? Not to mention, when you enter a relationship it can only end two ways. You either get married/stay together or you break up. Why would you want to enter a commitment like that when you don't know someone that well? You're setting yourself up for failure and to build up trust issues.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this comment 🙏🏾 I totally agree with you. You're setting yourself up for a disaster if you enter a situation that you haven't learned about it is so true. You have to be careful of who you fill your voided space with in life.

@jsc2991 2 ай бұрын

Good stuff. You think ppl would know this but many don't

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

That part!🎯💯

@carolynhemingway7562 2 ай бұрын

Now that was rt on point!

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

💯🎯

@acidicsoul4978 2 ай бұрын

I needed this 💀😭

@JackSpaulding1984 Ай бұрын

I love the message; I just don’t like the cursing with Iyanna there, it’s disrespectful and cringy, but I’m a littler older and I know she’s fine😂

@DeLightSmile123 2 ай бұрын

Just Be Single! End of discussion

@blklightning21 2 ай бұрын

That just depends. Are you gonna be single and abstinent or are you gonna be single and screwing everything. If the latter then you are doing exactly what this man is warning about and its most likely not going to end well for you.

@jerlishacummings7808 2 ай бұрын

Like what he said or not. This man told the whole truth and nothing but the truth!

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

That part 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 He sure did.

@tinostrong3394 2 ай бұрын

TRIPP THE ONLY ONE I LISTEN TO 💎👏👏

@mozzyl88 Ай бұрын

oh he preached damnit. the word LIKE is more than basic tho, bcuz if you have two cars you LUUUUUUV..... LIKE will make you rock with one and NOT think about the other. hell you'll be like that color on that car is YUUUUUUCK! im driving the other one toniiiiiight! hahaha! shout out Bernie Mac

@EvangelineRudolph 2 ай бұрын

Facts!!!

@HISprincessV 2 ай бұрын

Smh....oooweee he took that SWITCH off the tree and whooped a lot of folks backsides with those WORDS!! Bro tired of childsplay!!

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

EXACTLY HE WENT OFF WITH THE SWITCH LOL!!

@user-lt7mv2ui2p Ай бұрын

I think he's trying to speak on lust, can't get to know somebody if you don't like them first.

@lifer7774 Ай бұрын

This Man is on another level and mindset mentality wise if only alot of us would think like that before we jump right into it dang this completely blew my mind out of the universe how accurate this man is everything he said is facts absolute truth and can save your life much headaches and heartaches if you apply this to your life's choices stay blessed everyone especially the young one's out there be safe and guard your heart and health may this young generation learn and prosper from this wisdom and knowledge #Amen ♥️💯

@kimb.1950 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your point of view, and yes, I totally agree with you. 🙏🏾🎯💯

@lifer7774 Ай бұрын

@@kimb.1950 Your very welcome!!

@msg3tr1ght 2 ай бұрын

I say all the time that there’s a lot of adults dating with an adolescent mindset. You can’t be 40 dating like you’re 16 or even 26. I separate my LIKE into 3 categories: physical attraction, curiosity, and interest built over time. Few people fall into that 3rd category and those are the ones I pursue or allow to pursue me. It’s saved me time and heartbreak.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

I like that! Thank you for sharing your point it's valid!!🎯🎯🎯

@AuthorLHollingsworth 2 ай бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯💯💯💯💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

@dmason5249 Ай бұрын

Nothing but facts told!!‼️💯

@key-keeb8281 Ай бұрын

What he's saying sounds so profound. But one can also say that always being cautious and analytical makes 4 slow growth also kinda takes the magic outta life. Mistakes in like or love choices is often how we grow, learn and become better. Shit is set up that way for natural reasons. I "like" this dude tho ❤

@kimb.1950 Ай бұрын

You stated true statements it's about learning from mistakes and growth.

@kimb.1950 Ай бұрын

You stated true viewpoints. It's true you learn from mistakes and grow.

@Pytnamed_Lon 2 ай бұрын

Word!!!!!

@peterwilliams6361 2 ай бұрын

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

@peterwilliams6361 2 ай бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@TheBigKaiju 2 ай бұрын

At first this sounded like some type of church gathering talk session then bro started dropping every single bomb in existence lol. He spittin facts though for real

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Lol!!! That's why I like Tripp he's straight, no chaser!! I respect that! 🎯💯🎯💯

@serenedione 2 ай бұрын

THIS IS A MANNNNN‼️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@daadvanzdone2335 Ай бұрын

Are You Sure??? Or Do You Just Like What He Said?

@daadvanzdone2335 Ай бұрын

😂

@serenedione Ай бұрын

@@daadvanzdone2335 This is A WHOLE MAN and when he speaks he never misses‼️ Tripp is so emotionally intelligent 🤞🏽

@ronirenee5391 Ай бұрын

This is so true!!

@kimb.1950 Ай бұрын

💯🎯

@CouldYouBeMoreObvi 2 ай бұрын

Tripp Never Misses!!!

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

💯🎯🔥

@constancejenkins3867 2 ай бұрын

Amen amen and amen 🙏🏽 🙌🏽

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@Smarty2able 2 ай бұрын

Lmao 🤣 this is the first time i heard a valid argument. He's so right

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

🤣Exactly

@Smarty2able 2 ай бұрын

@@kimb.1950 I don't like the cursing but he's right. Love and like are two different things. You want someone to love you even in marriage

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

@@Smarty2able....I agree🎯🎯🎯🎯

@tinye1920 Ай бұрын

YES!!!!🙌

@I.am.PRECIOUS 2 ай бұрын

Wow I am blown away by what I just heard. Eye opener for sure 👌🏽👌🏽

@dontdoda1thang564 2 ай бұрын

Blown away?? 🙄 All he said was some basic sh*t ya parents should've taught u!! 🤷🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

@EbonyMeansBeauty Ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@trisha685 2 ай бұрын

Ooh God wanted me to hear this

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

It's factual, and it's truthful. Thank you for your comment 🙏🏾

@empressbthealkemisst 2 ай бұрын

💯💯💯 Say all of that!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@nathalieduverna6963 2 ай бұрын

That panel tho❤

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

That panel is everything ❤️

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

That panel is everything ❤️

@thefoodtubeprincess Ай бұрын

🗣️🗣️🗣️

@Ice-im9zk 2 ай бұрын

Damn. He went in

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

He went all the way in. He straight, no chaser.🎯💯

@antoniahueing3989 Ай бұрын

💯💯🔥❤️❤️❤️

@enjoymyroblox.A.R.R. Ай бұрын

Been tryna tell folks

@anywallsocket 2 ай бұрын

Love how he had to flex about them cars and houses like he didn’t like em 😂

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

🤣

@dianerconley1347 2 ай бұрын

Well said.....I'm gone give this video a like...lol

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

Lol! Thank you 🙏🏾

@lwinston5950 Ай бұрын

Reallllll shi

@micheleadamson9867 2 ай бұрын

Tripp is the truth

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

I agree he's definitely the truth!!🎯🎯🎯🎯

@makeeblah 2 ай бұрын

A word.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

🎯💯

@ggates2500 2 ай бұрын

Oooo.

@thrill102 Ай бұрын

💯

@kitcowool 2 ай бұрын

Is that Iyanla on the panel?! Ok!

@elliotselmon7581 2 ай бұрын

TRIPP!!!

@35tshone 2 ай бұрын

So true!!!

@treezy7593 Ай бұрын

The overall message is fantastic and I ride with it. But I do think he's oversimplifying the concept of "like". Functionality (what i think he's emphasizing here) is definitely integral to a long lasting and healthy relationship and should be seriously considered in relationships, but relationships aren't just about functionality, otherwise they could just be entered and operated on like a business, there would be formula for it to be successful but we all know no 2 relationships are exactly alike. "Like" is very vague in this context, is it physical attraction, attraction to personality or desire? If it's any combination of those 3 I believe it's also crucial to a healthy and long lasting relationship. Doesn't meant there aren't moments where you dont "like" each other temporarily as he said, but it is still crucial. Case and point, relationships where people mutually break-up or divorce despite having a functional relationship but they feel wholly unsatisfied. If "liking" each other wasn't important they should have stayed together as the relationship itself is working.

@D-Reality Ай бұрын

I LIKED this video, lol +1

@kimb.1950 Ай бұрын

🙏🏾

@oohbabybloo 2 ай бұрын

Why is he cursing and using the N word…then coming with the gospel. Keep the same energy. I do agree with him though.

@IcedOutkrs 2 ай бұрын

Basically people operate too much based on 1 principle of thought & based off comfort. Critical thinking needs to come back in society. Your partner isn’t perfect & neither are you. It’s about pulling through together even when things aren’t ideal. Commitment is a full time job.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

You said a whole word commitment is definitely a full-time job, and it takes dedication. I agree about critical thinking 🎯💯

@IcedOutkrs 2 ай бұрын

@@kimb.1950 facts. The interesting key thing I noticed he said also was people were asking certain questions 2:29. That’s also because the fundamentals weren’t done or created properly.

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

@IcedOutkrs ....Right it wasn't, I agree, and that's part of the issue.

@AtheneHolder 2 ай бұрын

Every time this man open his mouth its a damn TedEx talk... he too real bruh But he right... liking someone is a great START and will help at times when you're mad at the person if yall pursue a serious relationship... however LIKE don't pay no bills!!!

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

That part 🎯

@thefoodtubeprincess Ай бұрын

SHOULDN'T BE FUCKING OUTTA WEDLOCK ANYWAY WED🔐LOCK! GET IT!???

@AlexSt-1 2 ай бұрын

✌🏽

@rebekahpowers1595 2 ай бұрын

Dammmm ❤❤❤

@kimb.1950 2 ай бұрын

I know, lol! 💯🎯

@pastordavequales4165 Ай бұрын

It’s unfortunate that he has to even make statements like this to todays adults… but then again I can see why he had to…. I’m a baby boomer and we were raised with that understanding as teenagers… but todays adults need to here basic wisdom bc they won’t listen to common sense teaching from our generation. Just Saying