For Those Who Feel Worthless | Men's Mental Health

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Forged

Forged

Жыл бұрын

#masculinity #selfimprovement #mentalhealth
#mentalhealthawareness #selfdevelopment
Having mental health issues is a major predictor for suicide. Almost everyone who dies from suicide has an underlying mental health problem. Ninety percent of people who die by suicide are experiencing some sort of mental illness or addiction, most often depression.

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@Forged88
@Forged88 3 ай бұрын
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@kendensetsu1604
@kendensetsu1604 Жыл бұрын
More men need to hear this. I really hope this goes mainstream.
@noah.derayy
@noah.derayy Жыл бұрын
Same I wanna send this to my dad
@boravedat2931
@boravedat2931 Ай бұрын
it wont
@Forged88
@Forged88 Жыл бұрын
Dedicated to the men who keep on fighting
@jaysonmortel2029
@jaysonmortel2029 Жыл бұрын
i am broke now not employed lonely and im totally questioning my existense
@danielsaada2214
@danielsaada2214 Жыл бұрын
@@jaysonmortel2029 go to the GYM! Trust me, i know
@kal123xyz
@kal123xyz Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Forged, just the right timing. Thank you for sharing all the wonderful videos.
@Watchlistedwords1A
@Watchlistedwords1A Жыл бұрын
I always remember that there are people with better lives then me, that is what keeps me going because I know I can do the same for myself.
@Boss_Z
@Boss_Z Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@curious_mitch
@curious_mitch Жыл бұрын
"I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become" -Carl Jung
@Queenbg1
@Queenbg1 5 ай бұрын
Yes, And I decided to become something, based on things happened to me earlier, that I do not like now. What now beyond obvious negative self-talk and regret?
@madflaka4087
@madflaka4087 Жыл бұрын
“Not all men are born of equal worth but all men are capable of improvement and a achieving a sense of satisfaction in life” - My Father
@Frostborne2778
@Frostborne2778 Жыл бұрын
He sounds like a wise man. The strongest lion is always the one who is left with nothing at the end. Remember: We must learn to adapt, overcome, and prevail. The one who is truly strongest is the one who can live with no regrets.
@print4life
@print4life 10 ай бұрын
your father sounds like a very wise man.
@proximityclockworkx1572
@proximityclockworkx1572 8 ай бұрын
@@Awoken777 Look up David Goggins. His childhood was a mess, and he only gained motivation/inspiration/discipline by repeated failure. He went from overweight cockroach sprayer to Navy SEAL, Ranger school, pullup record holder, etc etc. The point is, the fear of what you DON'T wanna end up like can be a powerful fuel for your grind. My father was rarely present in my childhood, moreso after my parents got divorced. I live with him now, but he's just existing, nothing to look up to. But I know damn well, I don't want to be an overweight wagie loser who spends his free time by playing stupid games on his phone, so yeah. Don't want to end up like a shell of a man who is controlled by his wife. Hope this helps and that you're doing well.
@GriefTourist
@GriefTourist 8 ай бұрын
Life seems to be a cruel lottery. I feel rage and hate for those who got lucky. It's as if they got rewarded for being selfish and heartless.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,i wish you a really nice day
@jeepfan75
@jeepfan75 9 ай бұрын
The story of my life. I’m only hanging around till my mother’s gone. Then I have no purpose in life. I want to end it but she keeps me going for now.
@mjy1628
@mjy1628 8 ай бұрын
Find your passion and live it. God Is With You Legend.
@tubbyrainbow111
@tubbyrainbow111 5 ай бұрын
Don't put your worth in another person cause when the leave (they all do) it'll go with them.
@hasancreed248
@hasancreed248 3 ай бұрын
Same, can’t hurt my mother, which is why I’m still around. Once she’s gone, I may leave all forever.
@shex9002
@shex9002 2 ай бұрын
Hi my name is Also Hassan and that comment is so real​@@hasancreed248
@Anonymous-lu1ok
@Anonymous-lu1ok 2 ай бұрын
Same bro
@donniecatalano
@donniecatalano 7 ай бұрын
To someone with depression or in a truly bad situation, this pseudo aggressive, "shake it off" approach is completely useless if not counter productive.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
I wish you success and happinness
@donniecatalano
@donniecatalano 3 ай бұрын
@@RedaReda-vl9ff Thanks, you too
@bayousbambino427
@bayousbambino427 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, the guy who made this video seems to lack perspective. It sounds as though he thinks the challenges he overcame were _huge_ and, ergo, he's now in a position to tell everyone how to get over their sad selves. As someone who was, as a kid, sexually and, for years, emotionally abused by my family and, via that, taught to put myself down and devalue everything I achieved despite (or perhaps because of) believing I was so worthless, and did so to myself for literally decades, the oversimplification of depression this guy makes suggests to me that he's never heard of anyone suffering more than he did. Either that or his "solution" was only superficial, never having addressed the deeper, root causes for how he ended up in that "single, specific moment" of being fat, lonely, and broke (assuming he ever actually was). No, being fat, lonely and broke doesn't define you. But, beliefs about yourself that led to you let yourself fall into that state certainly do. You can change those beliefs. But, it's a lot fucking harder to do that than just saying to yourself, "I'm not defined by this moment".
@CJMohommed
@CJMohommed 3 ай бұрын
I've been fighting for over 15 years. Yes! I have done and tried everything! I'm too tired to keep trying and in too much debt to even try if I still had the will do to so. My story does not matter because I do not matter. Being alive is torture!
@saeed_kia
@saeed_kia 9 ай бұрын
Im 29 years old and have come to realise that I have no talent. Im broke and Ive accepted the failure. No energy no motivation to continue
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
My belove brother,you are young,beauthifull and smart,dont give up,you are a warrior,keep moving forward my bro
@csgaiao33
@csgaiao33 24 күн бұрын
Try a different path instead. Einstein once said "stupidity is doing the same thing and expecting different results". Try something new don't keep committing the same mistakes just to be like everyone else. I learned this lesson the hard way.
@bayousbambino427
@bayousbambino427 2 ай бұрын
"Single, specific moment"? You don't end up fat, broke, lonely, aimless, and hopeless because of _one_ specific moment. That's the result of a collection of experiences; initially, experiences in which the individual is taught to believe they're of low value and, then, a whole series of experiences that "go wrong" because the individual believes they're of low value, which reinforces the message that they're low value. That gradually grinds the person down; everything they try in order to be better, to be accepted more, appreciated more, to feel better about themselves, failing to do so, proving, try after try, that nothing they do is good enough. It sounds like you didn't have very tough callenges at all.
@munkeeboi1982
@munkeeboi1982 10 күн бұрын
No no no! All it takes is one "simple" mind shift! Just ONE simple mind shift, and you can manifest wings for yourself and fly away! 🤓 Derrr! 🤦‍♂️
@erickhurlburt4462
@erickhurlburt4462 5 ай бұрын
Don't devalue yourself. The average human tooth is $6.23 per tooth. The eyeball is $15 hundred per eye. An arm is $169k. A heart is $1 million. A leg is $90k. Skin is $10 per square inch. A kidney is $262k
@LonelyHearts.Co24
@LonelyHearts.Co24 4 ай бұрын
Jeezz
@TheBuilderPro2024
@TheBuilderPro2024 4 ай бұрын
Not really. my heart: worth nothing my teeth: worth nothing my eyes: worth nothing my arm: worth nothing my leg: worth nothing my skin: worth nothing my kidney: worth nothing me: worth nothing
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
​@@TheBuilderPro2024your life is precious,you are beauthifull and smart,you are a warrior,dont give up
@Taylormademan900
@Taylormademan900 Ай бұрын
Not sure what dental plan you have but $6.34 a tooth is pretty good
@jasonstorey1905
@jasonstorey1905 Ай бұрын
I don’t know if anyone is reading this but I’m the oldest of my family. Porn has been in my life since 5th grade and ever since then I’ve been depressed because I’ve chosen to give into it. I’m now 20 I still watch it. I don’t want to. I have days where I don’t move from my bed or skip class because I feel down or depressed. My sister is off to college, she’s pretty, smart, and I’m not denying that I’m smart but it feels like she is going to succeed more than I will. And I will just be a burden to my family, and people will start looking past me and to my younger siblings who are more achievers. At least that’s how I feel. I know I need God whether you guys believe in him or not. I know I need to change. I’m not happy about the way I look body and face wise. So these thoughts bring me across videos like these and I start to tear up. It’s real. I’m sick of just watching my life go by. I want to be in my life. Another part of me is scared. Scared to take the first step because what if I don’t get to the point I want and now I’m seen as a non achiever. My whole family are achievers and I want to be one too. When I was little I didn’t learn how to walk first like normal baby’s did. I did some sort of spider money crab walk, I army crawled, I did pushups. I was different. And while I’m writing this, I understand that I believe I’ll get to my destination not by any normal ways but by the abnormal way I create for my own life; I will succeed. That’s also though believing God has a plan for me and believing in myself and hitting the gym. I’m just talking outloud but if anyone has any comments feel free. Thanks.
@Stoaidan
@Stoaidan 17 күн бұрын
I’m 20 years old as well, the feeling of worthlessness is ever so present from me going to shitty job to shitty job. Seeing people my age pass by me and I’m ignored with any thought or word i say, I believe god has a plan but I don’t feel there is a purpose for me to be around as know one pays any mind to me or what I have to say. Womp womp tho shit is hard, I wish no one has to experience what I’m experiencing yet I have to keep pushing. Follow in Christ.
@daviddimalanta259
@daviddimalanta259 Жыл бұрын
To those men and younger generations who have been bullied by beta parents, to those who being raised by beta parents, to those who have been driven by anger and revenge, to those who got struggled to overcome fap addiction and depression, this video is for you as a reminder. Motivation is not enough if you don't have action and discipline. I tried my best to work out my emotions, my urges that needs to eliminate as I can and even my own shadow. This video resonates me every time I fell down and keep trying to get back up.
@Uhfffyeah
@Uhfffyeah Жыл бұрын
i would like to add that discipline is not a skill that's easy aquired, you need to contstantly cultivate it. You can begin for example with doing your bed every morning and cleaning your room every day. you don't need to start big but you need to keep practicing and advancing. Good luck and even if you need 1000 tries, don't get discouraged, try again with everything you've got and you will succeed but don't ever give up and don't give up without even trying.
@daviddimalanta259
@daviddimalanta259 Жыл бұрын
@@Uhfffyeah 🤟🏼🤟🏼🤟🏼🤟🏼
@318DoubleE
@318DoubleE Жыл бұрын
Both my parents beta and I became worse than them.
@editor7354
@editor7354 Жыл бұрын
@@318DoubleEu can change the ending g
@savage_banana1
@savage_banana1 Жыл бұрын
Even when i gather the motivation to go to school, I will just be shit on by everyone so all my confidence is just gone again... I'm fighting a losing battle against myself
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up
@Mrlonely237
@Mrlonely237 3 ай бұрын
You got this bro, I believe in you ❤
@Abm69420
@Abm69420 16 күн бұрын
Ignore the ones who underestimate and make fun of you. Life is better without friends than toxic ones.
@Ishidanfarded2370
@Ishidanfarded2370 6 ай бұрын
Im still worthless even after watching this video. I wish i were dead most days
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,your life is precious,you are beauthifull
@bbqfire6199
@bbqfire6199 2 ай бұрын
@@RedaReda-vl9ff Bruh we exist to be slaves to a corporate dystopia, who are you kidding?
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 2 ай бұрын
@@bbqfire6199 this life is temporary my bro,this life is a test for the hereafter,i invite you to islam my brother,watch the muslim lantern my dear bro
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 2 ай бұрын
@@bbqfire6199 my bro,this life is temporary,watch the muslim lantern bro,i invite you to discover islam
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 2 ай бұрын
@@bbqfire6199 i invite you to discover the religion of islam,take it easy my bro,i wish you a beauthifull life
@TheBuilderPro2024
@TheBuilderPro2024 11 ай бұрын
...why? I'm just... a curse... ...two of my grandmothers are dead... my parents want to divorce... I have no friends... I'm just seen as worthless... I'm just... an empty shell...
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,keep moving forward,you can do it,i wish you a bright futur
@comotelevu6958
@comotelevu6958 4 ай бұрын
Comment for the algorithm. -> "This world has its own natural mechanics of operation. If you do not bend to its will and align it with your own --skip> you will never make the necessary changes." favorite quote.
@ericlweatherhog
@ericlweatherhog 5 ай бұрын
How quaint. I am still worthless
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,your life is precious,i wish you a really nice day
@greatswordenjoyer2689
@greatswordenjoyer2689 Жыл бұрын
Great message brother, more men should hear your words
@quintongammon7773
@quintongammon7773 Жыл бұрын
I'm everything you described and then some x10. I was cursed from the beginning. Neutered by nature, I'm not a real man and never can be. The final solution is my option.
@user-gh8vs1mr9w
@user-gh8vs1mr9w 10 ай бұрын
No matter how ugly yo past is u can always rewrite the script never give up on yourself 💯
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up my friend,keep moving forward,dont give up,you are a real man
@Gaizaz
@Gaizaz 2 ай бұрын
I understand how you feel bro
@Bjornvandijkja
@Bjornvandijkja Жыл бұрын
I really spent 13 years of my life thinking people care about me. Thinking people want to be my friend. I'm so dumb 😂😂
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up
@ader.t.v.6768
@ader.t.v.6768 6 ай бұрын
been this way since berth and will always be. im here for others to use.
@stanleyhochrein9136
@stanleyhochrein9136 2 ай бұрын
Really? Alright... well, let me use you then! I'm going to make you do this: *OPEN YOUR FUCKING EARS AND EYES AND WATCH THIS VIDEO A THOUSAND TIMES EVERY DAY. YOU ARE NOT FUCKING WORTHLESS AND YOU CAN BE A GOD! BUT ONLY IF YOU DECIDE TOO! I SWEAR TO GOD IF YOU KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR CURRENT, TEMPORARY CIRCUMSTANCES, AND DOING NOTHING ABOUT THEM, THEN YOU WILL LIVE A HORRIBLE, INSIGNIFICANT, AND UTTERLY WEAK LIFE FOREVER!* *BE THE FUCKING HERO YOU NEED GODDAMMIT!*
@SAIFULLAHJAMIL
@SAIFULLAHJAMIL 10 күн бұрын
4:06 This eternal bliss will be like this yet much better. Paradise in the Hereafter.
@bethelsheunesumasukume352
@bethelsheunesumasukume352 Ай бұрын
1:02-1:13 Just being gifted isn't enough. If you want to achieve greatness, work hard for it.
@blackmagezero3946
@blackmagezero3946 5 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this. i have 2 kinds of arthritis: I am overweight and have done nothing with the 30 years i have been alive. I have thought about killing myself many times and thought why keep on living if it's just pain and shit every day. Today, i changed myself. Thank you. I will favorite this and watch it daily to remind myself to keep on fighting and hope that one day, it will get better.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,you are amazing
@jimmcd5660
@jimmcd5660 3 ай бұрын
Hope you’re doing well.
@6blocky427
@6blocky427 11 күн бұрын
"With audacity one can undertake everything, but not do everything" - Napoléon Bonaparte
@TheRoarWithin
@TheRoarWithin 4 күн бұрын
I feel like I’m void of any personality or good traits. I feel like I have to wear a mask every day, in order to try and fit into society. But I have never fit in anywhere, and that’s painful.
@zinta1
@zinta1 6 ай бұрын
But.. what if you really are worthless? I mean I'm 61.. crippled and can barely walk...have Meniere's disease and lost my hearing... can't get a job. No wife.. no children... haven't had sex in 12 yrs. Can't take care of myself. Homeless living on a family members couch... I have absolutely no money. Filed for disability... still waiting and I doubt they will help me. What really is the use of living? Think seriously... Im crippled, can't do anything, unhappy, no love, own nothing, and 61 yrs old. What in this world do I have to look forward to?
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up my brother,your life is precious,you are wonderfull and beauthifull,you are still alive my bro,i wish you healing and success
@blaine1124
@blaine1124 Жыл бұрын
Cumulative successes builds you up, but cumulative personal failures teach you otherwise.
@stevenlowe3245
@stevenlowe3245 9 ай бұрын
You mean I can just stop being depressed 24/7 for 62 years? Wow...why didn't I think of that? I'll just do that.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,keep moving foward
@jimmcd5660
@jimmcd5660 3 ай бұрын
Hope you are doing ok Steven.
@emiliochavez6793
@emiliochavez6793 Жыл бұрын
Honestly this page is helping me get out of depression and pushing me to do more for myself
@markc8864
@markc8864 11 ай бұрын
24 years old and I hate my life
@juanjosoler336
@juanjosoler336 10 ай бұрын
"If you can't fly, run. If you can't run, walk. If you can't walk, crawl but by any means keep on moving"
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
​@@juanjosoler336you are a beauthifull person
@mccarney4207
@mccarney4207 7 ай бұрын
I’m having a lot of career doubts these days. I’m a communications student so my job prospects are really open and dependent on what skills I learn and hone in on myself. So without a clear picture of what’s next I feel lost. All I have right now is dedicating myself to being a good brother, son, cousin, etc as well as maintaining my good friendships. I’m grateful I have that, but I can’t help but feel useless or lifeless sometimes when I think about how out of shape I am, how I can’t get my love life together, and how I can’t get assignments in on time
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,i wish you a bright futur,take it easy,you are a cool guy
@iamchad587
@iamchad587 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had a Father/Mentor like you ☺️ You know that I am 14 years old kid but still watching your videos.😇
@Alfonzosdesigns
@Alfonzosdesigns Жыл бұрын
You are ahead of many brother
@editor7354
@editor7354 Жыл бұрын
Good luck bro
@thatvolvoguy6565
@thatvolvoguy6565 10 ай бұрын
I wanna say it gets easier but everyone's path is unique I wish you the very best on your journey NEVER GIVE UP ❤
@tubbyrainbow111
@tubbyrainbow111 5 ай бұрын
Get yourself down to a boxing club with a good coach to mentor you kid. Tell him you want to train up for some competitions. Trust me it's what you need right now if you don't have a father figure in your life. Do it as soon as you possible after you read this or you'll never get around to it. DO IT.
@wellbodisalone
@wellbodisalone 10 ай бұрын
Mental health is such an important topic to discuss at any stage of life. It's ok to ask for help when times are difficult.
@ms.playboyinternational393
@ms.playboyinternational393 Ай бұрын
I refuse to cry. Because if I cry, that means my enemies won.
@drifter233
@drifter233 7 ай бұрын
I needed this. I miss my dad :/
@Alex-tz4op
@Alex-tz4op 3 ай бұрын
I dont wanna be here anymore. I cant take this anymore.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,keep trying,keep moving forward
@bryanmeekins835
@bryanmeekins835 5 ай бұрын
I was writing a comment when suddenly the power went out. When it came back on and I went to retrieve the draft to finish my comment it was gone and that is when I realized that it was confirmation of my true worthlessness. With something like that nothing you or anyone else says can change that basic reality. It's a fact and facts don't change.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up
@user-kw5fl7yg4u
@user-kw5fl7yg4u 9 ай бұрын
just remember, if you ever feel useless, just think about the man who designed the turn signal for bmw
@schopenhauerist
@schopenhauerist Жыл бұрын
Feeling worthless is mostly the true reflection of social reality. We are worthless as poor, ugly/average looking, and unlucky men in the eyes of society. The only logical way to destroy these feelings is to refuse seeing ourselves as part of society and its hierarchy. If we ignore society, we shall may not feel worthless. The problem is that we base our value according to the perceptions of society. So we find ourselves in our mental prisons. But if we refuse to admit the values of society, we shall become free. You can find such example in history in the example of philosopher Diogenes.
@BrandonPoyser6969
@BrandonPoyser6969 Жыл бұрын
Tonight...will be my final hour. Goodbye Goatse...
@Alfonzosdesigns
@Alfonzosdesigns Жыл бұрын
Man stay and fight you can and you will
@saltator8565
@saltator8565 Жыл бұрын
Rest in Paradise Brandon 🙏
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up Brandon,you are beauthifull and smart
@konradjurkiewicz7520
@konradjurkiewicz7520 Ай бұрын
Fight over 20 years with unfair debt of your family, work without rest to get out of the poverty. Remember all those interesting people you had no chance to talk to. Remember beautiful places you had no chance to see. Remember no one around will understand, because they live normal life. Reach 50, become ill and lonely, look at friends getting older and dying. Then we can talk again about urge of giving up. It is easy to stand against enemy in one battle and die, there's no suffering in that, just pure emotion and dose of stupidity. Try to battle for years and you will see what the hell is.
@zacharybedard2612
@zacharybedard2612 10 ай бұрын
The fight will end soon… 2024/November/4…
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up my brother,you are beauthifull
@thatonezayfir3374
@thatonezayfir3374 3 ай бұрын
I really needed to hear this. I always felt insignificant, just another cog in the wheel, and replacable. But this video has given me hope, courage, and motivation to keep on living. Thank you.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up my friend
@subberlota
@subberlota 3 ай бұрын
I feel the same, we’re in this together
@tjcarr70
@tjcarr70 5 ай бұрын
Picked myself up several times throughout this life, some success, many failures and setbacks. Problem is that when you succeed (or deemed a success, as depicted by Western values), I still feel like a failure. Now 54 years old, never married, or had a girlfriend, just a waste of time and air. Now looking after my ill 95 year old mother. Been through therapy on the NHS and now medicated upto the hilt. GP will no longer deal with my meds (legal reasons) and I have been discharged from the mental health service, even though I tried to take my own life just three weeks prior. Meds at the highest dosage and no one monitoring me, even failed at therapy :(
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up my bro,your life is precious,dont give up,keep moving forward,have a really nice day
@DriftSanti
@DriftSanti 10 ай бұрын
Life is constant suffering even if you have a good attitude😅
@Forged88
@Forged88 10 ай бұрын
At least it allows you to endure rather than complain
@RawfunRahman
@RawfunRahman 7 ай бұрын
convert that suffering into fuel for improvement
@dominantasmr578
@dominantasmr578 Жыл бұрын
This was extremely inspiring and motivational. Thank you for this. I've been in a dark place lately and this is exactly what I needed to hear.
@kurumi-edits4793
@kurumi-edits4793 23 күн бұрын
Me still listening after 1 hour this can heal my mental
@ALYang559
@ALYang559 Жыл бұрын
This was amazing. Very underrated video. Thanks for this video. We will never know but, there are so many people in silence that needed to see this.
@DikshantJangra
@DikshantJangra 8 ай бұрын
Almost midnight, thinking about last 15 days. How I can see 15 days as half month and realise that how inefficient I was being. Completely feeling down, listening to these words- how you completely defined how I was feeling and then highlighting the importance of attitude. These were very empowering words ever I had listened. "As long as you are alive, you'll always have a chance to make something out of yourself and all it takes is a varacious will of a single man"
@damianhull9397
@damianhull9397 Жыл бұрын
Found your channel a few days ago and have been binge watching your videos. Great content. We need and appreciate it.
@Forged88
@Forged88 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support mate 👊 much appreciated
@klutzy5750
@klutzy5750 8 ай бұрын
I’ve just been laid off from my job and my girlfriend just broke up with me. Now what?
@Forged88
@Forged88 8 ай бұрын
Hunt for a better job. Make more money. Get a better girl
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,you are amazing and smart
@imawarrior313
@imawarrior313 Жыл бұрын
The start of this video discribed my current situation like i can never do lol
@lucky7601
@lucky7601 Жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work brother. I owe you a ton for helping me be the fucking man the world has tried denying me to be.
@Garugontheblue
@Garugontheblue Жыл бұрын
Nah man. I dont deserve to live. I AM worthless. I cant keep a job. I have no friends. My family doesnt talk to me. Im a registered sex offender. I cant provide for my family. I can honestly say the world would be better without me. My whole life my dad told me I was a worthless piece of shit and I hated him for it. But god damn here I am 31, no job, no way to provide, and a worthless piece of shit just like he said. I know my place. Underground.
@Elitegama2
@Elitegama2 9 ай бұрын
All the things you said about yourself may be true. But it means far more to turn around a bad life than to be birthed into a life of leisure and luxury. You only have one life, you might as well continue the fight. I hope this helps you
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up my dear brother,you are wonderfull and beauthifull,keep trying,keep moving forward
@rickdee67
@rickdee67 3 ай бұрын
56 years in and I’m now more certain that less than 5 people would consider taking time to be at my funeral. My health is failing, i spend hours a day on the toilet and serve zero real purpose in this world. I wish I had the balls to off myself daily and with each day my situation becomes more obvious that I’m a complete nobody and no one would mourn my passing. I hope I’ve made some difference in the world but even I don’t think so . Great video but you’re not taking into account that some people are trapped in a downward spiral due to failing health.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,dont give up,your life is precious,you are beauthifull and smart,keep trying
@jimmcd5660
@jimmcd5660 3 ай бұрын
I hope your having a better day today Rick, I feel you, life is quite a challenge, and frankly sucks much more often than not, don’t worry about how many people would be at your funeral, I mean same with me, but that doesn’t matter. You are a beautiful person, you are perfect as is even if it feels the opposite, hope you take some time this weekend to be nice to yourself, you deserve it. Relax, have a nice cup of coffee or tea and try to enjoy at least a few moments.
@ball3677
@ball3677 20 күн бұрын
I've pretty much accepted being romantically rejected and will probably die alone. But what truly upsets me on a deep level is when Im trying to be friendly and platonic and still get completely rejected and ignored. I am such a low status life form that even anything more than acquaintance is unreachable. Honestly im past self-loathing. I've reached genuine, pure hatred for myself. Is literally any companionship so much to ask?
@KristhianjosefBalino
@KristhianjosefBalino Ай бұрын
Im going to try again thank you.
@anyanwuemeka20
@anyanwuemeka20 2 ай бұрын
You can still fight so hard to make changes and at a point you'll realize certain things about you can't be changed, you can't help it, you know 🤷
@Ishidanfarded2370
@Ishidanfarded2370 6 ай бұрын
Iam worthless, why cant i grow the balls and end it?
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
No no no no no no,dont give up dont give up dont give up,your life is really precious,keep trying,keep trying,dont give up,i wish you a really bright futur
@mudasirhussain3168
@mudasirhussain3168 Жыл бұрын
15 / 4 / 2023 it has been a long journey... But atleast i was never ment to be born, I was never a good choice, no one helped me. I thought I can changed but atlast the reality was different Thank you for the motivation
@Frostborne2778
@Frostborne2778 Жыл бұрын
You must keep going. I know what you mean, I know how you feel. I feel it too. I also have to keep on going, so we can find a way out of this mess, with the promise of reward at the end.
@altrae1771
@altrae1771 9 ай бұрын
​@Frostborne2778 thats the only way isn't it?
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
​@@Frostborne2778dont give up
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
​@@altrae1771keep moving forward
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,dont give up
@blgdinger3
@blgdinger3 4 ай бұрын
I think the most important aspect of this video is it's not just feel-good bullshit, which you actually point out. I'm fucking sick of that sugar coated rhetoric.
@jamitybamity
@jamitybamity Жыл бұрын
I very quickly relate to the intro for this.
@sidogga1234
@sidogga1234 Жыл бұрын
This video and channel deserves more views. Your doing a good thing man. I’m just glad I’m actually not alone in feeling this way and that my fight is a thousands man fight.
@Alfonzosdesigns
@Alfonzosdesigns Жыл бұрын
Everyday I feel alone
@sarthakshah33
@sarthakshah33 Жыл бұрын
That is my entire life in the first ten seconds😢
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up
@mulfie4749
@mulfie4749 8 ай бұрын
Trouble is where i live most people..wife,kids,family..from both sides, cousins, boss, collegues,neighbours all know i have issues and i pretend to be oblivious to all the comments,innuendos, gestures that come my way on a daily basis, 5-1/2 years now and its taking its toll, if i say anything about my situation then i would get called mad,crazy and insane which so i say nothing!! Coz whats the point!! Already been called a coward numerous times, sometimes society just don't want you to be part of it so they come together to make sure you know what your fate is!! What hurts the most is the more you try to make things better the more the screw turns from the people who you once trusted the most!!! Absolute torture!! Constantly put in positions that undermine my ability to make a choice knowing that someone will get hurt. I.e my family try to hurt my family..wife and kids!!! My wife hates them so has turned my daughter against me, son still sees me just a matter of time!! She speaks bad about my family!!! They speak bad about her!! Its lije i have to chose!!!, I live with my mother! Kicked out!! No where to go!!! Stuck! No friends, hobby, crap job, paying two rents!! All because i put wife and kids first so i could pay off family debt over a 3 year period between 2015 and 2018, work work work, and still trying to be there for her and kids and her family issues and health!! Endometriosis,cancer, emergency c section's,dvt, blood disorder and numerous other operations!! When i needed help!! Discarded like i was a hinderence coz i hoped she would understand like all the times i was a able to listen!! No one will understand or care!! Thet say time heals but i disagree!!! Not always...sometimes gets worse!! How does someone forget the past when ya constantly reminded of your past, your parents past and past mistakes on a daily basis from people you want to help you get better. Every day is literally a rerun from the day before!!.. i cant stop thinking about all this stuff that has happened and at the same time trying to solve this horrible conundrum that plagues my being!! From my experience mental health is something to mock coz this is what i have had to deal with from multiple people! Liked the vid tho!! Especially the beginning because the wording really does sum up how i feel right now!! I can't take on all these people alone!! They have me over a barrel!!! So up tomorrow and do it all over again!!!!😢
@marshallpeters3853
@marshallpeters3853 8 ай бұрын
You live with your mother and got two rents to pay and still had the audacity to add more burden to your life by having wive & kids? You brought this on yourself bro, and now you're complaining about it like it isn't your own doing
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up my belove brother,i wish you success and happinness,dont give up,you are a good man
@alvinfriesen4918
@alvinfriesen4918 27 күн бұрын
I'm worthless without God, my worth he has given to me. - literally me
@grayden7934
@grayden7934 6 ай бұрын
I’m only a child but I feel just like this
@muddyfalcon
@muddyfalcon 7 ай бұрын
I don't think you all realize what kind of rage worthlessness brings on. It has turned me into a monster of dread to all.
@TheBuilderPro2024
@TheBuilderPro2024 4 ай бұрын
you're not the monster, i am the monster
@muddyfalcon
@muddyfalcon 4 ай бұрын
@@TheBuilderPro2024 are you doing two finger push-ups with one arm, one arm pull-ups with leg tucks, I don't think so, I AM THE MONSTER!!! meowwwwww
@TheBuilderPro2024
@TheBuilderPro2024 4 ай бұрын
I do worse, it cannot be explained...@@muddyfalcon
@muddyfalcon
@muddyfalcon 4 ай бұрын
@@TheBuilderPro2024 I believe the builder pro, I believe in thebuilderpro
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
​@@TheBuilderPro2024you are not a monster,you are a beauthifull human being
@karnetsnk8376
@karnetsnk8376 Жыл бұрын
WHY?! why should i suffer to build something out of myself, when it wont make a difference. I gave up, basically i am leeching of my parents... if today they decided to kick me out. i would be dead in 2-3 days out of thirst cause i wouldnt even bother to beg for water. in the end it makes no difference if i am dead or alive, if i try or not, if i win or lose.
@Forged88
@Forged88 Жыл бұрын
Because suffering is the ONLY WAY. You either suffer to live or suffer to die. Either way, you will suffer. Its your choice mate 👊
@karnetsnk8376
@karnetsnk8376 Жыл бұрын
​@@Forged88 Death it is then. For couple of years now minimum i dont even care about my well being. I noticed i have issues with my body functions and dont even bother going for a checkup. and by my actions force the possibility of death. i even went on a bike ride with almost useless brakes for 2-2.5hrs. i was close to unaliving 3 times, but i said i wont make the possibility of death a guarantee, but ill make it close enough.
@Forged88
@Forged88 Жыл бұрын
@@karnetsnk8376 Absolutely no one can help you, if you can't even help yourself
@karnetsnk8376
@karnetsnk8376 Жыл бұрын
@@Forged88 i dont seek help, i seek death tbh.
@RizzerixLP
@RizzerixLP 11 ай бұрын
Im also leeching of my parents. Im such a loser I wish I wasnt born.
@mattialonghin_mr.l857
@mattialonghin_mr.l857 Жыл бұрын
Can't be a coincidence I found this today. Because I don't believe in coincidences. Such a powerful speech💪
@Keith-tz2jy
@Keith-tz2jy Ай бұрын
That's right. I've become self sufficient and i don't care if i die
@_vehtty
@_vehtty 9 күн бұрын
I needed this. Bless you all
@ILovePakistan7729
@ILovePakistan7729 26 күн бұрын
Thanks buddy 😢😢💔
@jackmehoff9517
@jackmehoff9517 Ай бұрын
May chaos take the world!
@gauravraj8043
@gauravraj8043 21 күн бұрын
just what i needed to hear right now!!
@orlduniverse
@orlduniverse 7 ай бұрын
Thank you. I was downward spiraling this morning and getting caught in a terrible loop of hatefulness… I really needed this pep talk. It calmed me down a ton. Thank you so much.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,keep moving forward
@animood5387
@animood5387 7 ай бұрын
I am a woman and this helped me ❤
@mac_aranguiz
@mac_aranguiz Жыл бұрын
This is amazing advice but never forget if you truly what life you have to live for god
@gregbanter3022
@gregbanter3022 6 ай бұрын
That’s true but sometimes he lets us suffer to the point of either breaking or surrendering it all to him .
@LGoodfellow1
@LGoodfellow1 Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@maximesinimale3404
@maximesinimale3404 2 ай бұрын
"You need to fight for your live, you need to devour the world, however!! You need to be a MEN ! You need to believe in you" My father words. ❤
@andreossit3903
@andreossit3903 4 ай бұрын
Thank you
@simplufulger7648
@simplufulger7648 Жыл бұрын
Hey Mr Forged. I wanted to ask. I want to translate your video in my language, with the exactly same video. And with putting the original link from video in the described, and mentioned that is translated and is not my work I want to do that because many from my ppl don t know enghlish. And with all your work we can help the people exist from the dark.. 😌 i want to know if you give me that permission.
@Forged88
@Forged88 Жыл бұрын
Sure mate, carry on 👊 Just leave the link to the finished video in this comment. Where you from my friend?
@simplufulger7648
@simplufulger7648 Жыл бұрын
@@Forged88 Romania
@simplufulger7648
@simplufulger7648 Жыл бұрын
@@Forged88 thanks
@simplufulger7648
@simplufulger7648 Жыл бұрын
@@Forged88 i want to ask you. You have the text somewhere? And to give me all the text.. and i m translate it. Because it takes me a very very loooong time to write all that are you saying 😂
@xenithix1337
@xenithix1337 3 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@Forged88
@Forged88 3 ай бұрын
My pleasure mate 👊
@liquidsleepgames3661
@liquidsleepgames3661 7 ай бұрын
I have alot of issues im not athletic/good looking i have poor mental health and as much as i would like to have someone in my life i know in a train wreck and no one would willingly walk with me
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,you are beauthifull and smart,keep moving forward
@liquidsleepgames3661
@liquidsleepgames3661 3 ай бұрын
@@RedaReda-vl9ff in 15 years trying to be friends with countless people of both genders to asking random girls after a little flirting back and fourth and get rejected it's not a matter of time if that were the case you would think time would throw me a you made it this far gift instead of kicking. Heck the last "date"" one person said yes to and I waited over 2 hrs in the restaurant before receiving a photo of her in her PJs with a guy in the background with a caption saying hahaha. Hahaha.hahaha. as if I would consider a date with you have fun eating alone (that was 2 weeks ago) Had a fun night planned instead I went to mc Donald's and a tear soaked burger alone in my car after which I went home and laid in my empty room Something like 15% of all elderly were single for life. I know if she hasn't find me in another 10-15 years it will never happen and so I will be clear of any concerns of this earth and will instead give myself a lead injection.
@dch4446
@dch4446 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Needed to hear this. I’ve been on my way getting back up and this just reaffirmed that fact. Keep going brothers.
@JoshuaAmes-zf3gj
@JoshuaAmes-zf3gj 3 күн бұрын
I understand I have nothing coming to me...
@OrkydOrygynalsTV
@OrkydOrygynalsTV 21 күн бұрын
Great video.
@judsonbaker1915
@judsonbaker1915 Ай бұрын
I know this feeling well. However I still keep going.
@Fishebidniz
@Fishebidniz 2 ай бұрын
the point of continuing when everything in your life is worthless is to prolong the suffering that I deserve
@arkhamyt6052
@arkhamyt6052 5 ай бұрын
what can stop me from getting bad thoughts every second?
@Forged88
@Forged88 5 ай бұрын
Knowing that you are capable of so much more than you think/estimate yourself to be
@oblivious108
@oblivious108 8 ай бұрын
Not fully convinced, considering the fact that i am a loser and nothing ever changes in life. Even if i do make those changes or choose to go to the gym, nothing ever changes. My life is practically meaningless.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up,keep trying,you are cool and beauthifull
@oblivious108
@oblivious108 3 ай бұрын
@@RedaReda-vl9ff Sigh.. I wish I could convince my self of that.
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
@@oblivious108 you are breauthifull smart,cool and amazing,keep moving forward my bro
@oblivious108
@oblivious108 3 ай бұрын
@RedaReda-vl9ff Alright, alright, alright, let's not get carried away with hollow, optimistic, affirmations.
@echo_chambeRR
@echo_chambeRR 5 күн бұрын
Damn it, change the attitude. You are floating in your negative echo chamber. You don't even notice that your statements make no sense. "Nothing ever changes"? Excuse me? The whole f*cking Universe is constantly changing, nature is constantly changing, humanity is constantly changing etc etc. That's the most BS statement I've ever heard of. Even YOU are constantly changing, it's just that you who don't notice it (your cells are constantly being updated for example). You ARE changing. You have NO CHOICE. And you gotta change that attitude. Break the echo chamber and see the world as it means. Stay strong, brother.
@dochmbi
@dochmbi Жыл бұрын
But! Being nobody is a huge advantage! Being ignored by people is great! It means you have all time for yourself. For instance, you could take the saxophone and dedicate your life to it. No one will bother you or get in your way. And you can play saxophone around the clock all the time. It's amazing!!! Recognize how valuable your time is and spend it on productivity. Pretty soon you will be pushing people away so they don't steal your precious time.
@schopenhauerist
@schopenhauerist Жыл бұрын
Yes, this is true. We should refuse to be part of society and its hierarchy. This is the only way to destroy loser mentality.
@mrtrollnator123
@mrtrollnator123 Жыл бұрын
But I have no skills, no motivation, I lie to myself about being great, that life is not as bad as it seems, in reality, I don't know the reason I'm like this, I just don't, and until I find the root cause of this issue, I guess I have to continue masking my emotions, pretending everything is fine...
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
​@@mrtrollnator123dont give my friend,you are amazing and smart,take it easy
@antyoutube7796
@antyoutube7796 5 ай бұрын
There's moments when i feel worthless that i wish the world could just end but staying strong will always keep me alive.
@raritygem1891
@raritygem1891 Жыл бұрын
Watched video after video on this topic and none of the help anyone ever tries to spew ever works for me. I have tried having a different outlook I have tried changing my attitude nothing seems to work.
@marshallpeters3853
@marshallpeters3853 Жыл бұрын
No one can help you if you don't want to help yourself bro. Your only option is to keep trying
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up
@spacehunter2004
@spacehunter2004 2 ай бұрын
My Grandpa said to my dad, “If you say you can’t do something, just know that “can’t” could never do anything.” Took me a while to process this but what it really means is that if you’re on the edge of giving up, just keep pushing until you have achieved your goals. (Also I do NOT recommend that you go Postal because that’s gonna create more of this “men are useless” bullshit, and it’s also gonna affect the morality of mankind.)
@aaronabraham1076
@aaronabraham1076 5 ай бұрын
I'm tired to go on , been getting back up for more times then I could count for. I'm done with the potential thing as it just note going to sprout even a little as the more I do it it gets worse
@RedaReda-vl9ff
@RedaReda-vl9ff 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up my bro,keep trying,keep moving forward
@pr00009
@pr00009 12 күн бұрын
i dont have to kill myself. but i also dont need to save myself either
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