“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.”

As someone who has been living with a severe mental illness and addictions for all of my adult life, I sincerely thank you for this video. I am making the best of my current situation, stable on meds for 7 years, sober for nearly 6 years, lost and kept off nearly 100 lbs, living independently in the community. These are big accomplishments for me but I realize to many I may look like a loser. Poor, no job, no family, no friends. But, I am genuinely happy these days focusing on my health and wellness. I enjoy my simple stress free life. I know fate dealt me some bad luck but I don’t believe in the victim mentality. We need to find success on our terms, no one else’s. Love this channel!

When someone starts off a conversation with “what do you do for a living?” It often means the level of respect they are about to give you.

This describes my life completely. My cousins grew up with a loving family who were decently well set off. Their family paid for everything for them. From their cars to their phones and even their entire college education. As for me, I grew up in a broken home. My mother is mentally ill and murdered my father. I was also homeless at the age of 18 and was unable to get any funding for college until I was 24 years old from the government. My cousins work great jobs and get paid twice as much as I do, where I currently work as a janitor and I am still in college. Fate plays a huge role in people's lives. I find myself to be hard working, but I can only work with what I was given.

It's crazy, how much we humans desire others approval. Soo much so that we would rather be an unhappy winner then be a happy loser...

_“Don't let a mad world tell you that success is anything other than a successful present moment.”_ ~ *Eckhart Tolle*

This video hits home. I’ve been a schizophrenic for over ten years now. I’ve been through hell. I am medicated and stable now. I am on benefits and I have my own apartment. I have what I always wanted. Tried the dating apps and didn’t have much success. I was even mocked by a potential date when I told her I wasn’t employed. Called me a man baby loser. It hurt. I feel like I’m not that at all. I couldn’t even explain my situation. Truth is I don’t like children or pets. And that narrows things down. Is that how society is? I don’t want any part of it. I enjoy my solitude. They will never know how strong I’ve become. Thank you for reading this.

I quit my (well paying) boring job at 30 for a PhD in a field I love. Suddenly my relatives treat me as a loser, who is too lazy to keep a job and wants to bide time by becoming a student again. They are oblivious to the excitement I get by doing what I love. But their treatment brought my self confidence down. This video is helping my mind defend itself from shit thrown by the opinion of others

The irony that most of society bases their value and worth owning things that can be taken from you within an instant. For example your job, your car, your house, even your health. None of that truly matters when character and integrity is the true wealth of an individual and that alone can never be taken away whether you’re in rags or riches.

Accepting that I'm happy as a loser by societies standards, has been one of the most liberating experiences of my life .

What's even worse: When NOBODY calls you a loser, but you think you are one anyway. Because you were treated like one for your first 20 years of life and it's very hard to change that mindset, even if you have a lot of friends and colleagues who tell you otherwise.

What I've learned in this life is it doesn't matter if you have a stable job and can afford a apartment people will still find endless reason's to be judging you. I'm ugly and have a stable job at Walmart but I still get judged in a negative way by my peers at work.

I stopped caring about anyone else's opinion when I realized that not only do they mock you for your current situation, they also mock you for trying to change it. The classic example is the fat guy at the gym. He is an object of ridicule both for merely being fat as well as actively trying to improve. I think humans are like crabs in a bucket. They hate to see anyone better than themselves and want to pull them down if they get any upward mobility. Why would you even spend the energy to notice the opinions of such miserable creatures?

You have no responsibility to live up to what other people think you ought to accomplish. I have no responsibility to be like they expect me to be. It's their mistake, not my failing. -----Richard Feynman

I got schizophrenia 4 years ago. It turned my life around 100 peecent. I was rly work ethic drive before illness. It was all about succsess. But now I am just not even close to be able to work from the moment i wake up to the moment of going to sleep. I have to accept new me. And it is hard, it is so hard. This video helps, thank you :)

I’m 47. I haven’t achieved my career goals; in fact, I picked the wrong career. I’m a loser. But I’m not particularly bright or resourceful, and I think at this point I need to just accept what I have and be happy. Not everyone is destined for greatness!

Others : You're a loser. Me : It's a peaceful life.

The beauty of being a loser: No silly expectations to meet from society etc.

I embrace being a loser by society's standards, I have no pressure to impress anyone, and I also love being single and decided never to marry. I have not experienced any heartbreak in 4 years now.

My parents are raging classists and put all sorts of standards on me growing up: the jobs I can have, the education I can peruse, the passions that are suitable, how to dress, who is acceptable to date, how much money is too little ALL just so they can impress others, to make them feel like losers or their kids . At first I fell for it and ….I punished myself, I lied about how much I make, I forgot to be thankful for the things I have, I’ve envied the success of others etc until….I had to give up my job because it was going nowhere ….now I’m everything my parents consider a looser no job, no perfect body, not dressing elegantly cause I got nowhere to go, no kids BUT I have an amazing husband, I get to take care of the house everyday….yes I struggle with depression but ….I’m working on myself I try to push myself to learn new things not to make money, not to be seen as successful but ONLY to make myself feel fulfilled. I’m happy to be what my asshole parents consider a looser because now I’m finally free to be myself without worrying about the fact that my moms friends cousins daughter is the CEO of Audi in Switzerland lol

“ If a man walks in the woods for love of them half of each day, he is in danger of being regarded as a loafer. But if he spends his days as a speculator, shearing off those woods and making the earth bald before her time, he is deemed an industrious and enterprising citizen.” -Henry DavidThoreau

There are so many ridiculous standards for what you have to accomplish in this world in order to be accepted by others. not only do you have to be good looking, confident, highly educated, making tons of money, living on your own without parents, zero mental problems, well traveled, constantly out doing things, zero disabilities or health issues, I could go on forever. Our lives are so relative and fragile considering how easy it is to fall behind.

I'm from Indonesia. I really appreciate of how realistic this video is. Very rarely especially nowadays we can even see the concepts of 'fate' & 'luck' being honestly and critically discussed today, because most people just prefer the simplistic optimism bias (or toxic positivity), including on meritocracy, while ignoring a lot of the harsh truths, facts, & reality.

I have traumatic childhood so I avoid people so I'm a loser and people who made me like this in the first place are winners. Being kind good person = loser Being abuser over confident = winner

I am a guy in my mid fifties. I have had a fair amount of success In my life, continually employed for over thirty years, a pretty wife and good kids but several years ago I had some serious health problems and was forced into early retirement, my marriage started struggling so we separated. I have less money than ever and other then my kids I don't have many relationships but I am so happy. I have no work or relationship stress. I just do what I want to do and live slow, quite and easy.

"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." ~ Jiddu Krishnamurti

It seems a lot easier to feel like a loser when the internet has created an open window into everyone else's lives, and more often than not exaggerates the finer qualities of them while burying the downsides. It can foster a self-defeating attitude where you always feel like you're behind.

I'm a loser (in many sense of the term explained here), and when I embraced it as a part of my unambitious character, I stopped struggling and discovered how lazy I could be and still get by well and happy. That was over 20 years ago. Now I'm past 45 and heading well into an early retirement. I'm not particularly rich, but I have far more money in my bank account than the majority of people my age. It takes a lot of time, effort and thought to be a well off full time bum.

I am a loser, totally embraced it. You cannot expect someone else to love you if you don't love yourself.

I've always been considered a loser. But the thing I notice at 37 is that I'm so happy. I love getting up every day and reading my books. I love programming (when the program works!). I love drawing in a newsprint.

Remember that saying that you are a “loser” is all that they can do, if you can get over that and don’t give a fk, then you have nothing more to worry and happiness will follows. Life is too short to care what others think of you.

There's people that judge you for where you are, if that is in a worse position. Others that'll despise you for doing better than before. Some that wish you would revert to bad behaviors. And more that hate it if you turn out to be doing better than they are. There's no escaping it. You cannot win. Play your own game, don't be dragged around by fear of missing out or social retribution It's a struggle, i know.

Being a guy who has been an introvert most of my life - not really a people person in the least, I struggled with the idea of "luck" being a big part of success. From my 44 years of life experience I saw that "all who you know, not what you know" be a massive enabler for success. The extroverted person who socializes a lot and has a massive collective of people surrounding them would have an upper hand in regards to success, as they know how to talk and use charisma with people. Most employers and people of high stature are attracted to that, where the introvert is ignored for their lack of.

Happiness starts on the inside, relying on others for happiness is a dicey proposition. I think that's why kids tend to be happier, they haven't learnt to crave societies approval yet. Thanks for another insightful video 👍

Thank you for this video. I've been struggling with addictions and mental illness for quite some years by now, unemployed and with a medical condition (on my lungs) that doesn't allow me to get jobs that are too physically demanding. But trying to keep going forward and make the best out of what I have, I stumble upon this video. Thank you, and for all the people out there feeling like this, you are not alone, you are not a loser, you are a wonderful person. Love yourself and keep going forward

'It never ceases to amaze me: we all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.' -Marcus Aurelius Once you fully accept and embrace yourself, you will feel very liberated and free. Many people say i'm a loser. I don't care, i love myself and the simple life i'm living. Live on your own terms !

When I look around at the people who have checked all the boxes of success, I'm usually not all that impressed.

Life is a journey, and whether you a "winner" or a "loser" at the end of it is always death. When you think about that fact long enough, you realize most things people stressed about doesn't matter at all

This channel is the quintessential manifestation in the modern world of how you can be a loser in real life and still find joy in making videos for entertainment, posting them in You Tube, and with time making profit from them. 👍

Man am I glad to have this video randomly pop up in my KZfaq feed. You could say that I'm just figuring out how to be a "happy loser" without even realising that it's a thing and it's possible. I am a believer that life and people are constantly changing, so any circumstance that is befallen someone or that someone currently experiences, isn't permanent. So to have a mentality expecting change and accepting current circumstance (even if they aren't befitting of once dreams/goals), is an important thing to cultivate. I feel like everyone will be a loser in their life at some point, because that's just how life can be, unpredictable & ever changing. So it's up to us to change our mentality, adapt to the situations as best as possible and never stop looking out for an opportunity for change/the next shift.

The book "Status anxiety" by Alain de Botton is also worth-reading

One of the most amazing philosophies that I've ever heard came from a talk I had with my friend. While relating to her my insecurities, she replied, "Well, I think the thing about life that you have to accept is that there will always be people who are better than you. Better looking, better liked, wealthier and more successful. But the tragedy isn't that you aren't as good or will never be as good but it's that you think that just because you are not *as* good as them, it means that you're no good at all. So just focus on being the best that you can be because I promise that you will never not be enough." Her words changed my perception of everything.

Very well written and spoken, this is something i meditate on when i hear/see someone being called a loser or some other derogatory name, even if they really have done something that warrants some kind of abusive response (as in what did you expect? You did this and everyone will call you that.) I always feel like taking the bad guy's side when everyone else is calling him a loser for being a certain way. Like the song by Beck: "I'm a loser baby, so why don't you kill me?" I see that as a kind of challenge... You can make some mistake in life and have everyone gang up on you but when you say "OKAY! I'M ALL THOSE THINGS YOU JUST CALLED ME! ... So what? What are you going to do about it now? You've already had your say but I'm still here. Nothing has changed despite the emotional effort you put into hounding and berating me...

The moment that you let go and be yourself is when you're truly free.

Human are nuanced and complex. Brushing anyone off with a one word label says more about the person doing the labelling.

Society is always redefining what a "loser" is. Those who claim to be tolerant and "accepting" often call losers those who disagree with their values.

I have to thank youtube's algorithm for suggesting this video right when I needed it the most. Thanks for making this inspirational video Bro. Keep up the good work!

I really wish I could have seen videos like this when I was younger. As an autistic and introvert, I was always shamed for being “boring”, not talkative enough, not doing enough, “weird”, and once I got into my teen years that’s when it really messed with my mental health and self esteem, and I began living my life in pretence and forcing myself to do things I genuinely didn’t want to do in order to be “normal” and considered “interesting”. Then also had parents who put on a lot of pressure to have that typical “success” of university degree, impressive job, etc., but I know that was based on their own life regrets. I’ve battled anxiety and feelings of never being “enough” or “normal” for years, including the struggle of easily becoming overstimulated which just makes me totally shut down. When I think back to when I was at my happiest, it was at a time before I let society’s pressures get to me and I was just being myself and enjoying it: I love quiet, routine, good books with a cup of tea, piano, and doing art especially, just for the enjoyment of it. I love being alone especially and don’t understand that need for constant company or noise.

When someone calls other a loser they lose most of my respect. I think, calling someone a loser means you don't have any understanding of how the world, and people in it works. Same thing as being called stupid. I was called a loser many times, and also a winner many more. I am 35 years old single man with out a job and I'm not happy. But I am working on my self and improving my skills so this state I'm in will change at a certain point, and I'm aware of that so I can deal with loneliness and lack of money. I am talented but unlucky in some regards but untalented and lucky in other, just as we all are. I am also proud to not be bothered with what other people think of me. Thanks for the video, this is a great subject to tackle for this modern times.

I have no friends, I'm semi-disabled, haven't had a girlfriend since 09' (I haven't switched sides), barely have money etc etc. That which would obviously be deemed as being a loser. However I've overcome things that most couldn't and have created more things of value than most can and do. If labels are useful then I deem myself as a "Desirable Loser".

What really helps me is positive reinforcement through looking at & celebrating my successes, being as kind as I can to myself & having supportive people. Before my best friends, I'd often feel very bad about myself, partially due to my family I live with. I have asthma with kind of a smoke "allergy", am highly sensitive & have a social phobia so both my mental & physical health keep me from various pursuits. Currently, I have to deal with the cycle of "I want to move out to do better but I can't cause I'm not doing well enough to be able to afford moving out yet". It's hard to fight several battles, sometimes I have to take breaks & be okay with not fighting on some fronts right now in order to rest- but if I manage to either land a job I've been offered or teach myself somethig well enough to make a living out of it from home, then I might finally be able to break free. The part about other people's views is so true- if/when you go vegan or openly stand up against other justice issues, sadly so many people will show their true colours. While there's a thing you simply can't stand or pains you or even emotionally breaks you, others are apathic, in great denial or even make fun about it. It can hurt so much & put great strain on relationships or even break them entirely. When it comes to opinions it's like: "Seriously? Someone who can't even understand/believe basic facts &/or doesn't even have basic respect &/or empathy for fellow sentient beings is someone whose opinion I care/d about? Why?". Of course, it's often not that easy emotionally but when you realise how discriminating many people are, it really lowers one's opinion of them.

If I was unemployed, I wouldn't even bother with dating. My priority would be getting a job not a girlfriend.

I've been through a ton of shit in life (including abuse, for example), and as a result, I've lost ambition to achieve anything society would consider to be "great". I've come to terms with that. I consider that success.

I get labeled a loser from time to time, but I'm happy to do the right thing, even when no one is looking, and I can fix my own problems. Sometimes people who call me a loser come to me for help with something. I like to see if helping them will change their attitude sometimes. Never does. I think they see it as having the upper hand. Of course he's helping me, I'm a winner, and he's a loser. I just laugh.

Another excellent, thought-provoking vid. All too often ppl are quick to judge others. I try to surround myself with ppl that aren't like that, who can see there's more to life than being wealthy, "successful", famous or popular. It's all hollow & superficial in the end, and not where true contentment & peace of mind comes from.

This video might be the most influencal of all youtube videos I watched on my self improvement trip last year, which ironically is about beeing a happy loser. But this term gave me a new identity, and following to that a new approach to all the things I perceived as negative in my life. After making this mindshift, I had different experiences in work, friendship family and even love. I don't wan't to describe this as sucess, as this would going against the sense of the video, but I definetely would say it made me finally happy. Whatever could go wrong, I was always thinking - at least I can be a happy loser and nobody can take that away from me beside myself. So thanks for that! as english is not my native language, I hope I could make the positive Impact from this video clear on my life and also express my gratitude.

I'm a happy loser. And i'm glad with what I've got. A simple low payed job, a small living place, no partner to bother me and last but not least my mother. And I simply don't socialize with others. I Just live day to day and don't care much what happens, as long as I'm not causing anything bad on purpose. I simply stop caring and worrying that I'm not doing anything with my life cause I know that nothing is forever anyway.

The fact that some of our leaders have narcissistic personalities says a lot about society as a whole.

I stopped comparing myself to others, began to appreciate my own uniqueness. Found peace. It isn't academic or professional success that defines me. I'm an introvert, there's riches in my inner life beyond rat racers' imaginations.

Two facts of life that SHOULD be common sence; 1. Your job status DOES NOT define your worth! And 2. EVERYBODY is born different! We need to stop comparing ourselves to others.

I read some of the comments and people disagreed as they might have thought being a loser means laying in couch all day doing nothing. No. Even a tree tries to be a full fledged tree so yes all humans are striving to become the best versions of themselves. But as Einzelganger said the success doesn’t always depend on hard work…… external circumstances stances has to a lot to do with it. Therefore even after trying ur best to live a satisfying or a full fledged life if people call u a loser then their opinions shouldn’t affect you. I think this was the message “ to not care so much of what people think of you as u r already winning” than anything else.

Thank you for this! I lost my job and many friends and acquaintances are judging me because I haven't found another job fast enough. The people I know hate their jobs so maybe there is some jealousy there.. This tutorial Has Changed my thinking. I am going to try and no longer worry about what people think of me.

If you cared about everyones opinion, you wouldn't have time for yourself. It's you who is the hero in your story, at the end of the day no one cries with you when you're sad, no one fights with you when you're having a hard situation and no one pays your bill when it gets high. So it's your life, people like to feed their ego with insulting others. Be happy, improve, experience and show the world your middle finger as it deserves.

Sir please never stop making videos! These are the only things keeping some of alive. Even to live is an act of courage. Thank you 🙏

Bro took 13 min to say, "If people think you're a loser, but you don't care, then you're a happy loser." I feel that way sometimes

"Imagine a guy"....proceeds to describe my life.

"One shouldn't be concerned with the opinions of the sheeps" - Heraclitus Most people who throw the term loser and label it on other people do not think critically or introspect why the label itself is being used, they just learn it from their social conventions, and how the society view and call such individuals, it is not an opinion that they form, they just adopt it and that's what conformity is, those people are sheeps who blindly follow their herd.

It seems to me that every time I tried to step outside my allocated place in life I got smack back into line by Providence. In 2019 I finally managed to get out of my Night Shift job; I switched to days and 6 months later I was offered a Junior Manager Position. I decided to get in shape and participate in a 54mile charity hike. A month later COVID hit and everything did a full 180. My workplace closed and even though I found another job I was back at the bottom. In 2021 I decided to end my lifetime of loneliness and found a GF. I ended up betrayed and it cost me 8 months of trauma and one of my closest friendships. In 2023 I decided to get in shape; ended up developing debilitating OCD and being unable to go anymore. So I've just decided to stay inside my little hole and, as Dostoevsky writes in Notes from the Underground, settle in it.

great timing, just got finished watching your latest video before This reminds me of a comment on another video with a similar topic, something along the lines of “Better to be labeled as a loser and content with oneself than to constantly be a slave to the endless pursuit of approval”

I am what would be considered a loser by the "winners". I don't have a job, i live at my parents, i don't have sex, i am obese, I tried to commit suicide 5 times and i spend most of my time alone. But don't consider myself a loser and i hope the "winners" will choke on that. I thrive in solitude, i read books and learn much from them, i play video-games, mainly single-player cause i like a good story with good graphics and i suck at competitive shooters where most players are cheating and being rude so why bother. I meditate from time to time. I have the time to do what i want. I have been battling depression for 20 years and i learned much from the disease, from myself, how to deal with it, i have my priorities sorted and i feel great now most of the time. With my mother we took care of my grandmother after her 2nd stroke for 5 years, We did everything. It was the most difficult task i had to do in my life but we did it from start to finish. I have 4 real friends, not facebook friends, yes they have jobs, yes they live a "normal" life and no they don't keep me as a friend out of mercy. We go way back to high school and we keep in touch. I follow Taoist and and Stoic precepts and i am happy most of the time. It made my life so much easier. I don't care what others think of me, i am not an asshole and i try to be kind and compassionate. I am free of strangers' gaze, i don't have to pretend to be someone that i am not in order to impress someone to get something out of that person, i don't have to court because i don't look for sexual interaction and i still feel good. And more ... The less you desire the more you own. Thank you.

"Im a loser", i got a job but life happened and now im living with my mom again at 27, i lost everything, future plans, money, time, ability to drive, even health, my literal balance is gone, since im dizzy most of the time, i dont truly consider myself a loser or a victim, im working as hard as i can to even imagine a different future✌️

Thank you, that is really beautiful ❤️ Not only this one but many of your movies.

I became a happy "loser" 2 years ago by decision. From then I grew so fast inside, I suddendly found myself in a "winners" position without any struggle.

That's why we should never pride/ego for our success,post, possession or power, instead we should be grateful and beholden !

I have no job, no family, i gamed for 8 years non stop. I am not a loser because i did that. I still wake up doing push ups. I go outside climbing. I am very healthy ( after a bump in the road wich made me game even more) I dont over eat, or over consume. I might not have the money people like to have, but i will out life most of you

I don’t mind losing but my kids are paying the price. That’s the hard part about it.

The only reason I don't get labelled a loser is solely based on me not interacting all that much with society outside of work and family

Growing up I was always put down for playing games. And being 35 I haven't been playing much,but I really want to get back in that gamer mentality,so I do agree that people do influence you cause it makes you stop doing what makes you happy. I needed this video,just popped in my recommends like the universe was saying(here listen to this please).

I always thought stoic people/stoic philosophy were kinda depressive, but now that I've seen this video, I have completely changed my opnion. This is so wonderfully down-to-earth, honest and healing knowledge. Thank you for making this and sharing these philosophies! :)

I’ve given up trying to be cool Life is too damn outta control for that. However there is far too many things to be grateful for and it really helps me keep going despite my deep psychological issues which I had a break from today

As an American south of the loser line I am glad to have heard this. I’ve done right by people my whole life, was never rewarded in turn and I’m okay with that. I’ve always tried to live right and do right for the sake of it, not expecting something in return. Thanks for this video.

Life is a mix of pain and pleasure. Pleasure is the interval between 2 Pains and Pain is the interval between 2 Pleasures." Stop trying to ride against the tides of life, instead flow with the tide. Acceptance is half the battle won. 💪🏻🙌🏼

Stereotypical success: I fail im great but unlucky. You fail then you’re incompetent and lesser. I win im great!.. You win meeh you’re just lucky. This is how most people Think, same goes for the idea that what matters is my intention, but for you what matters is the outcome. People are way more judgemental towards others and give them way less leway than they do themselves.

If you're happy with your life, it shouldn't matter what others think of you. So, you don't have a car, own a house, have a girlfriend or a dream job, it doesn't matter - you can still be happy. But, as an adult (unless disabled), everyone should be able to pull their weight, not be a burden on others (family, society).

No "winners" or "losers" in life! It's not a competition it's just life!

I experienced a life being a loser. But when my life turned to be the same as the winners do, I wanted to be a loser again. Being a winner is very despicable that one longs for that serene experience of being a loser.

If you think you are a loser, you become one. If you don't think you are a loser, then you're not. Mind has power, and we need to learn how to manage it.

I would argue being a loser is not even a thing. It's all in people's perception. As a youth, I was unemployed- labeled a loser by some. Then I worked in low skilled jobs- ditto. But now I'm pretty well off and have lots of qualifications. I am the same person but are perceived differently now- this has led me to believe many people are stupid.

always thought I'm a real looser. 27 years old; no college or other useful qualifications; never had friends or a girlfriend, bullied and mocked by everyone since I was a child; NEET for most of my life also because of I always suffered from psychiatric disorders as depression, o.c.d., social anxiety, avoidant disorder, apathy, anhedonia etc. all of this create a vicious circle. I feel lost and alienated from the rest of society, and really don't know what to do with my life. And tis condition will hardly change in the next years.

I have been watching your videos for a year now. I can honestly say, your channel is the best one in all of KZfaq! Thank you for helping me get through my darkest moments with all the amazing content. Please keep it coming!

I am preparing myself to be a loser. Not that I am not putting in the effort to accomplish my goals but rather to expect my pursuits to fail and see success as a Happy surprise.

I think it's important to know that being a loser is a mindset and you can only be a loser if you believe you are. If you are happy with your life and feel like you have won in the game of life then you can't be a loser. It's also important to know that being a loser now doesn't mean you have to be a loser for the rest of your life. You can make choices now that turn your life towards a direction that makes you feel like a winner. Those choices will often require hard work and involve a lot of discomfort but if you are willing to push through it, you can win

If you're happy, you're not a loser. The real loser is the one who worked all those extra hours in order to get that promotion, the corner office, and a boost in pay. Only to end up working even longer hours with more stress, more pressure, which results in a lowered quality of life. People are fooled into thinking that a fancy sounding job title and moderate rise in pay is the definition of success, but it's not. Quality of life is the definition of success. Creating a balanced life, one which affords you more time with friends and loved ones, one that doesn't cause you crippling worries and stress, is a life that deserves the designation of success.

12:29 Such wise and lovely words, which are rarely spoken. "What counts is YOUR definition of good and bad, success and failure, winning and losing"... I'll add, "and sticking to your deepest morals as much as possible. Because that is true sign of strength, and unbending integrity." Especially important nowadays, when media and advertisements encourage and profit from toxic behaviours.

I am reading comments before going with the video. The comments are so soothing . Looking forward to watch video❤

Even though I work my ass off in my music career and Im meeting career goals, I feel that when Im around my "9-5 work" friends, Im out of the loop and a sort of black sheep in social circles. I know that feeling will change when Im making a really good income from my talents. im just very happy that I realize that I have a gift that can help ppl and I can make a living off of it. Most ppl go thru their whole lives not knowing why they're here on earth and even tho it can sometimes be torturous, I know exactly why Im here and I need to follow thru for as long as Im here!

this video was a huge uplift for me. i've been going through a lot in my life right now where i've been studying so hard for an important exam in my career repeatedly and failing. i've had plenty of people tell me that i had been studying correctly but now i believe it may have been out of my control and it isn't my fault... thank you for helping me accept myself and find the value of self love and happiness 🙂

People have treated me like a loser about as far back as I can remember and since I was treated like a loser so much throughout my life's journey, as far back as my early childhood I started feeling like I was a "loser" and that's what I became a "loser", a person who was not able to become a success in their life. Not that I believe anybody should be called or defined as "a loser" I do not.

This is wonderful stuff... I love everything about this vlog

Thank you for uploading 🙏🏻