The Benefits of Ignoring People
12:28
When to walk away
13:26
2 ай бұрын
So, you're a lone wolf?
18:13
6 ай бұрын
The Joys of Not Needing People
14:08
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@matthewmaguire3554
@matthewmaguire3554 5 минут бұрын
If the narcissists, billionaires, double Leo’s and people with obsessive ideas disappear the whole game collapses.
@thandomgwebi3934
@thandomgwebi3934 6 минут бұрын
There was a time pharaohs were considered gods and this solar system is named after Greek gods humans are not moral because they religious but actually religious coz they moral so instead of religion the next God is the human endeavor to find self and self is y non-religious man are still moral but the replacement is social media just as church was a centre for human interaction so is social media and the church its self was flawed as it forced obedience coz of fear like a mob gangster u were shamed and judged 4 seeking any pleasure even natural pleasure like sex is frowned upon just like social media praises nudity church praised uniformity and blind obedience which led to many tragedies (you can Google those) what church could not do are great movements like me2 and create a true place were the average person could take on a giant and gain support from people who were not afraid of the system which ever form it took were someone with power would abuse it to oppress someone that seems power less hence the rise of cancel culture any missteps by those who are in power can be punished and gives the small guy a fighting chance. This of coz does not bash the church but is just to highlight the evolution which is taking place though poorly laid out.
@matthewmaguire3554
@matthewmaguire3554 12 минут бұрын
Love how in middle of video about workaholics is commercial by queen of workaholics praising and promoting course on how to be a better workaholic…Martha Stewart
@matthewmaguire3554
@matthewmaguire3554 22 минут бұрын
Everything is a rental. Anonymous
@matthewmaguire3554
@matthewmaguire3554 26 минут бұрын
Life is a comedy with tragic relief. Anonymous You can’t buy happiness… But you can rent it. Anonymous
@N0ThanksImFull
@N0ThanksImFull 47 минут бұрын
That neck beard meme is probably older than most people in these comments.
@tonynightmare
@tonynightmare 48 минут бұрын
This brings a lot of insight and perspective. It’s hard to articulate into words right even as I write this comment but at this point in my life I’m caring less and less about what people do for a living. As you explained - see past the title or the status: “who are you?” “I want to know you.” That really resonates with me. This way of thinking contributes to my lack of socializing out of work or my current friendship circle. Maybe it’s my ignorance, believing that the rest of society is superficial, only focusing on how many likes they get; but that’s not always the case. All that being said - my faith in humanity is… well, I’m very cynical so I’ll leave that to imagination of others. Felt like I was talking out my bum but this video has got the gears going. Thank you for the video 🤙🏾🤘🏾❤️🖤
@kevinhartlock716
@kevinhartlock716 49 минут бұрын
ignoring is good when people try to insult you and devastate your day
@danieljackson654
@danieljackson654 49 минут бұрын
How wonderful are these words ❤
@Phil.Munda139
@Phil.Munda139 50 минут бұрын
I expect nothing from others n won't allow them to expect anything from me. I can chat with get on well n that is freedom to ...
@JC-dt7rn
@JC-dt7rn 55 минут бұрын
You gotta do something !!!!!😊
@user-lj9hv3zz9u
@user-lj9hv3zz9u Сағат бұрын
You’ll Be dead a lot longer then you’ll be alive. Live and run your game.
@mstiki2010
@mstiki2010 Сағат бұрын
I’ve always wondered why it bothered me when people constantly would ask “ What do you do?” Why do you care? Don’t put me in your box I’m allowed to be.
@Phil.Munda139
@Phil.Munda139 Сағат бұрын
Good to hear you have realised the singularity. And seemingly found the solace witbin.
@UmiArtAngel
@UmiArtAngel Сағат бұрын
bro someone fucking help me I used to not care about any of this in my early twenties, now I’m 28 and have been making all these decisions to “better” my life. Now I just miss the kid I used to be when I was feeling more lost. I was more myself, authentically, not trying to make the sales numbers and not trying to prepare for a future that doesn’t even exist, I feel so mislead man, I just tried to be smart and stop fucking off like people told me to cause I was wasting my life but now I’m not even happy 🙃 is there a middle ground? I miss that kid who was figuring it out now that I am “figuring it out “ it feels lame
@a_man_jaiswal
@a_man_jaiswal Сағат бұрын
Ambition destroys Love ~ Krishnamurti
@HonaMalta
@HonaMalta Сағат бұрын
This is what I've been saying for so long. Since I started to see the ugly face of this era, after all of what I've been through! This achievement society, harmed the humanity in general, by killing the good souls in people. The less someone has conscience, the more successful he is, according to their standards.
@ItsMeTexx
@ItsMeTexx Сағат бұрын
When people asking me "what are you doing?", usually they want to know what I'm doing for a living, my job, because most people identify themself with their job/work. I usually just say "I play video games, do bicycle tours and enjoy gardening." About 80% of the people responding to this with "So you are unemployed!?"
@rododavico
@rododavico Сағат бұрын
Loved the youtuber 'where to sit you' scenario hahaha, did it actually happen to you sometime? It's incredible how difficult it is for some ppl to just take things as life gives them.
@willpower8894
@willpower8894 Сағат бұрын
Great observations.
@endoftherope
@endoftherope 2 сағат бұрын
I'm here to to be humiliated and suffer at least that's all life has gave me I just here to be the world's whipping boy
@neelabhasamadder6169
@neelabhasamadder6169 2 сағат бұрын
I do agree with you ! But there is a thought that constantly nags me ! Me doing things for others and external validation is not needed and one should try and understand this and become more willing to live for things that makes you happy! Once you know what that is do we now go and put all our might in that …. I mean yup a job doesn’t give me validation but if I have a purpose that I found is for me and I dont live up to it then isn’t it just me being lazy and not willing to give my all … I understand this can be next time once people realise they dont need external validation…. But also becomes equally damn important isn’t it?
@doughaug
@doughaug 2 сағат бұрын
My obituary: He led an ordinary life.
@kevinhartlock716
@kevinhartlock716 2 сағат бұрын
A reflection of our truest selves? What exactly do you mean?
@thailandt55
@thailandt55 2 сағат бұрын
Disfunction teaches Disfunction. One's success needs to be observed
@timmccarty8111
@timmccarty8111 3 сағат бұрын
1st ad that pops up- Shopify for millions of entrepreneurs.
@oliviajifcovici
@oliviajifcovici 3 сағат бұрын
It is the most beautiful of reasons to live for what you figure for yourself that gives you sense
@danampolizzi7489
@danampolizzi7489 3 сағат бұрын
This was a really good video! Thank you!
@raymond_rnt
@raymond_rnt 3 сағат бұрын
You're getting this so wrong it's not even funny....
@_pedrokobuti
@_pedrokobuti 3 сағат бұрын
This channel is amazing.
@ptkettlehats
@ptkettlehats 4 сағат бұрын
4:51 JOIN MY CULT: I don't talk about anything really, just words.
@dayamitrasaraswati6276
@dayamitrasaraswati6276 4 сағат бұрын
Success is subjective. For me, success is learning to be as self sufficient as possible. Others may see my lifestyle as needless work or time wasted or frivilously doing nothing. But I don't need others to understand why I choose to live as I do. All I need is for me to approve of it.
@user-ld1dy3yc8j
@user-ld1dy3yc8j 4 сағат бұрын
“The problem with the rat race is that even if you win, you’re still a rat”! Lilly Tomlin
@marep5597
@marep5597 4 сағат бұрын
I’d say the person cleaning toilets or garbage collectors, plumbers, mechanics, farmers or anyone doing manual labor is far more valuable and contributes more to society than any ‘product manager’, ‘entrepreneur’, etc.
@FlyinGuy
@FlyinGuy 4 сағат бұрын
This feeling to so hard to deal with as a disabled person.
@mariagabrielabottiglieri972
@mariagabrielabottiglieri972 5 сағат бұрын
Excellent video. I agree with Nieztche. I' ve lost my faith, used to be Christian, I found Vedanta Advaita, throught swami sirvapriyananda lectures on KZfaq very fullfiling. It refers to your actual experience and leads you to God.
@Gielderst
@Gielderst 5 сағат бұрын
That's why i try to stay away from others as much as possible. Cause nowadays the majority of people have become super materialistic, fake and shallow tryhards who strive for superficial " success " of wealth, attention and power, to mostly brag and be toxic towards others of how great they are. That's why i try to mostly avoid dealing with others, i can't stand these fake toxic tryhard behaviors.
@dinnuadaripersonalaccount
@dinnuadaripersonalaccount 5 сағат бұрын
Know Thyself
@altair91100
@altair91100 5 сағат бұрын
I am the youngest of 5 children. Four of us including me ended up alcoholics. All 5 live miserable, unhappy lives. My eldest sister is divorcing her husband, they have two kids. Both miserable, frightened, anxious children, already on medication from their teenage years. Another sister, a single mother, alcoholic as well. 5yo daughter, growing up in our family house, with her grandparents. Every day they fight, scream and shout on each other. She will be traumatised as well. I am 31. I struggle mentally all my life, barely dealing with my own demons, and someone is calling me delusional and immature for not wanting to bring another miserable beings into this world? Mr. Peterson, you are an absolute asshole.
@johndonaldson3619
@johndonaldson3619 6 сағат бұрын
*"One must better learn to view both success and failure as the imposters they both are...."* *Anonymous*
@wordswordswordsblablala
@wordswordswordsblablala 6 сағат бұрын
stopped watching when the word 'narcissism' was mentioned ... such an overused word it has no meaning anymore. can't take anyone using that word seriously.
@ckolcz
@ckolcz 6 сағат бұрын
An eye opener for many I hope.
@festuswilliams654
@festuswilliams654 6 сағат бұрын
Comparison is the thief of joy...
@theplacewhereyouare
@theplacewhereyouare 6 сағат бұрын
If one feels imperfect and wants to be perfect, where is that desire for perfection coming from? Obviously, from that imperfection, right? Indeed, the perfection usually sought is someone's standard or demand we've bought, and it seems to blind one's eye from seeing for itself, and so finding out that it's you alone who decides about what's perfect and what's not and why so.
@tedlogan4867
@tedlogan4867 7 сағат бұрын
For males it very much is instinctive to identify with ones proficiencies. It's not so much about "success" or "accomplishments", rather it's about skills, capability, knowledge, expertise. No civilization can exist without a lot of capable, knowledgeable, skilled, expert MEN. If we fail to value this, we will not be civilized, as in, we devolve into tribes and ever-fragmenting arbitrary groups.
@Cronoo
@Cronoo 7 сағат бұрын
Super relevant personal attack.
@user-ug3xm9uy5o
@user-ug3xm9uy5o 7 сағат бұрын
I watch this quote in a game....`whats left from a man without fame, wealth, power or good appearance' The answer is virtue, said one of the character In the end what makes a good or bad person is wether he could choose and want to be a man of good will. A good person in general....maybe....
@Pincer88
@Pincer88 7 сағат бұрын
Thank you kindly Einzelgänger, you are a jewel on the internet. When I remember of the loved ones I lost in life, I never think of their status, their success or lack thereof, but of the good times we had together, the ideas we exchanged, the love and friendship. When looked at from a considerable distance, our lives must seem absurd. So damn busy perfecting our rehearsed behavior that we neglect the things that really matter. Friendships, love, spending time together.
@7bewear223
@7bewear223 7 сағат бұрын
I've never understood why they feel good from PULL OUT A CRYYING FACE OUT OF BLOOD. What's more, its host may be DEAD Monkeys that fail to transform DNA are failures If a impoverished Monkey gives birth a child and No money for its meals And let it steal , it will be damned. Monkeys whose genetic modification failed Stop bringing bloody victims to prison planets
@buddhistandthemoney1
@buddhistandthemoney1 7 сағат бұрын
Your past two videos hit me deep in soup.... thank you