How To Be More Charismatic & Charming (3 REAL Psychological Ways Without FAKING It)

Рет қаралды 94,997

3 жыл бұрын

LINKS:
Apply For The 6 Week Attraction Course Here:
www.apolloniaponti.co/the-alg...
[FREE EBOOK] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMAN
www.apolloniaponti.com/7Commo...
**PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS **
www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...
VIP MEMBERSHIP PRODUCTS:
[FRIEND ZONE NO MORE MEMBERSHIP COURSE}
www.apolloniaponti.co/friend-...
{BREAK-FREE OF CODEPENDENCY}
www.apolloniaponti.com/codepe...
VISIT ALL MY PRODUCTS HERE:
www.apolloniaponti.com/products/
[PODCAST]
Itunes: www.apolloniaponti.com/podcast
Soundcloud: / apollonia-ponti
Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/6TlEwYK...
[ BLOG ]
www.apolloniaponti.com/blog/
[SOCIAL MEDIA]
Facebook: / apollonialovecoach
Instagram: / apollonia_ponti
[CONTACT ME] **PLEASE SEE NOTE BELOW
NOTE*** Advice will ONLY be given to your situation if you book a coaching session. If you cannot afford a session please reference my blogs and videos as this is why I provide this content. Due to volume and fairness to paying clients please book a session if you need further guidance. I appreciate your understanding.
Media, coaching questions, video testimonials, and interviews: team@apolloniaponti.com
Apollonia Ponti
© 2020 Apollonia Ponti. All rights reserved.

Пікірлер: 140

@BrBrianODowd 3 жыл бұрын

As a man I have practiced many of these qualities (you mention), for many years, but for my own benefit and not to attract women. I don't agree with the concept of 'learning' how to attract women. I think it is better to focus on personal development and growth and enjoy the spin-off benefits which may or may not include attracting women. I am happy either way.

@SkylerDouglas 2 жыл бұрын

It's called being on your purpose but you should date amd shoot the shot when it's clear.

@joemancini2988 3 жыл бұрын

This is one of your best videos yet with terrific advice. The best boss I ever had was a gay man. His rule for life, not just business, was “Easy as ABC: Always Be Charming”. People who understand this will not only have success in their relationships, but in every day life. Be respectful. Be kind. Ask people how they are, how their families are doing, what are their plans, never kiss up, and never kick down.

@Zuxiro 3 жыл бұрын

This person here is speaking facts she'll tell you anything that you need to know she's here to listen

@mike-cc7ul 3 жыл бұрын

Aight g

@blindonion 3 жыл бұрын

Your message really helped me realize why many years ago I was living a dream and everything seemed easy. I lost myself, but I'm going to focus on becoming myself again! I'm going to start putting myself outside of my comfort zone and just living! Thank you!

@Tig660 3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad I came across your Chanel Mrs. Ponti. You have an amazing aura and energy. Thanks for your work!

@chuturt3997 3 жыл бұрын

You’re an awesome coach Apollonia! ☺️ So much deep knowledge and insights from your work

@jackwalker1822 3 жыл бұрын

Apollonia this is the absolute best video I have seen of yours. And I have watched a lot of them. You explain these concepts so clearly that it really makes, dare I say, perfect sense. And these are things I really need to work on. Thank you so much for your efforts.

@damilolaalao4326 3 жыл бұрын

You hit the nail on the head. If most men were willing to listen and get this points acted on. This is good stuff!

@rjohnson5972 3 жыл бұрын

This is by far my favorite video you have done.

@josephgarcia1161 3 жыл бұрын

Get up every day and do shhh stuff.... Luv'd that! These videos put me in a good mood and challenge me. I've been through pain this year with a serial cheating gaslighting wife of 15yrs married and now divorcing. These videos are helping me put my broken pieces back together.

@outlawstarr5209 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Apollonia, happy Sunday. Great video subject on Charisma.

@sportsfan323 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the videos and the live broadcasts, Apollonia! You are very good at what you do, and I appreciate viewing as many videos as I can see. Take care of you, and keep up the great work as always :)

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! xoxo

@AlessandroGenTLe 3 жыл бұрын

I would really like (no jokes) to read here below the reasons of people putting negative feedback to this video. It would be a nice exchange of point of views. Apollonia isn't saying bullshit here. I tried this on myself in various stages of my life. It's always me, but the moment I was feeling myself, and I was careless and secure, I got girls and women. The moments I wasn't because of various reasons (maybe feeling useless at work or some failures I have had that impacted on my self esteem), that reflects also on women and there was no attraction from them whatsoever. And it was always me, same face, same body etc. So while it's certainly true that good aspect helps, that's not the only key point (referring to normal women, not gold diggers or supermodels...).

@campingforayearrenoheart5908 3 жыл бұрын

Just be positive be best the best version of yourself every day , help yourself help others, give and expect nothing back , life is better when you help make people smile

@edwardcasey3142 3 жыл бұрын

I agree . I not striving to be perfect but I like being around people who are smarter then me in a certain area and done volunteer work only asked for hands on training and breakfast lunch and dinner for the physical work . I think is fair .

@derrickbailey4125 3 жыл бұрын

Thankyou so much apollonia for these tips im definitely gonna use them.

@martinyeboah5526 3 жыл бұрын

One of the best and brilliant contents from you

@kennethkunz2449 3 жыл бұрын

I love this - you are so encouraging! Thank you!

@buzzinh2401 3 жыл бұрын

recently someone broke up with me but it's such a big opportunity for me to grow. i'm so grateful for the content you created in this channel. what you are doing here is absolutely significant and enlightening! thank you very much

@josephgarcia1161 3 жыл бұрын

She was on her game in this one! Preach it sista!

@charlesmorristhewriter4863 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much Apollonia, this was very good information

@jayphive2468 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Apollonia Ponti!

@TheWorkinProgressChannel Жыл бұрын

9:39 It's great you advocate the use of affirmations. Words/ thoughts are energy. Personally, I've benefited from using the present tense rather than the future as it may cause you to delay or put things off and until a time that never comes. Affirming in the present shifts the mind in the here and now. Love the content!

@TheYoda454 3 жыл бұрын

Great advice in general... keep it up!

@jimmycharles7797 3 жыл бұрын

Great content!!!

@stormfalcon72 3 жыл бұрын

I’m first to comment... Yay! Apollonia. Great video. Looking good too ☺️

@cheeple 3 жыл бұрын

There were soooo many gr8 points in this video, it really resonated, ty so mush.

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach 3 жыл бұрын

Commonly, people start dating, and they aren't so attracted to one another, but after they get to know each other, the personality, the character, etc. they suddenly become irresistible. I enjoyed the points made in this video! Thank you!

@samuelchibuye6590 3 жыл бұрын

You are always helpful 🙌🌟

@jaimeortega331 3 жыл бұрын

I Like Your strong and very powerful advice you tell it like it is! I am Glad I Found Your Videos!

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@KDotz 3 жыл бұрын

Apollonia Ponti AKA The Goat

@moorewithcooper2836 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks again for your video I’ve learned so much

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it!

@captain_daniel9y631 3 жыл бұрын

i love your outfit and hairstyle. It's gorgeous

@Chicofuran 3 жыл бұрын

Get up to do shhhhh.. stuff!!!! Lol I heard that. Great video. Very helpful

@braedenduncan1052 3 жыл бұрын

This video is deep but is explained in such an easy to understand way. Brava!

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@martinmiller3647 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome job I appreciate you 🙏

@srinu687 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Apollonia 🧡❤

@meaty109 2 жыл бұрын

OMG AP......you say so many things that just really hit home! ....even tho I've heard all the preaching with regards to pushing thru the failures to reach success......I am still afraid of failing...I guess bc I've had so many in my life... I wish I could say more...let me just say I lost my wife to a terrible accident last year and I'm wondering if I'm going to be alone for the rest of my days. Feels like Im starting over. But again, TY for the wisdom that you speak, :-)

@chidichuks2853 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Appollonia

@robertmathurin739 3 жыл бұрын

Love this information,,♥️

@CB-vg8pv 3 жыл бұрын

Very good video. I was wondering if you'd do a video on those who have a mental disorder like ADHD, OCD, Bipolar Disorder, etc and what women tend to think about relationships with them as well as those that are in good health. Speaking of which, what do you think about those who are dealing with a physical disorder? Those types of relationships are a lot more involved and can take a lot of patience, understanding, and kindness. More so than for the average joe. Thanks. Stay healthy and safe.

@yonylopez5600 3 жыл бұрын

Your the best .Apollonia.

@josephgatambia5679 2 жыл бұрын

Finally man's getting help

@jonathanfactor6688 3 жыл бұрын

Great advice

@samuski36 3 жыл бұрын

This stuff also applies to landing a good job! It works!

@arunkv3776 3 жыл бұрын

I see your videos. You are a nice dating and relationship life coach

@DidierBampiliMusicProduction 3 жыл бұрын

Good talk.

@rockocastro6414 3 жыл бұрын

Tu cabello se ve hermoso con. Esos highlights Buen dia apolonia

@shashank95915 3 жыл бұрын

Your videos are really really good....so much one can learn and imbibe to become a better person😁😁😃

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😀 Also, that's amazing.

@blasianprince6458 3 жыл бұрын

I learn martial arts as young kid constantly learn different style but I'm introvert and empathic

@folengndieshe2398 Жыл бұрын

Noted ✅

@James67851 3 жыл бұрын

A woman at my job is showing interest and we’ve been on the same vibe lately over the last 2 weeks. I don’t want to string this vibe out to the point that she looses interest. I’m going to use your advise and see how this goes.

@AlexanderRodriguez-pk4cg 3 жыл бұрын

You are smart and beautiful thank you!

@vt3musicproduction 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

@josealvarado8842 3 жыл бұрын

I hear what you're saying Apollonia, as humans we don't automatically get better over time, we have to do the work to get better and not get stagnant in our comfort zone because growth happens when we get uncomfortable. I know I'm not perfect and I realise that I strive to be better than I was the previous day and continue my progress. I also noticed that you almost said "shit" at around 8:40 or 8:41 at the video but you caught yourself haha great video Apollonia. I'm currently single and happy about it but I know I'll get my idea woman for me when I'm ready and when the time is right.

@positive_vibes_2427 3 жыл бұрын

LMAO! at the 8:40 catch hahahah

@BenedictCobb13 3 жыл бұрын

I just love looking at you

@Bluudclaat 3 жыл бұрын

Rock climbing and bouldering, boys - get on it

@tbpc1 3 жыл бұрын

i tend to scare people because im very direct when i speak, and im very honest and not fake

@a.a.4791 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Apllonia, Thanks for your coaching. I have benefited more and more from your videos. But i would like you to add some trick for your videos to be more effective. Just make points. For instance you are telling the 7 secrets of making women chase you, or something like that, Say Number 1...... and then number 2.. and so on. THis is a mechanism which makes watching videos more interesting. I see you've already made some videos like that.

@jermainejones1560 3 жыл бұрын

Such a lady 💕💕😏

@aubreymuzabala5589 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much...

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

You're most welcome

@arjunadithyanoriginal2544 3 жыл бұрын

That special apllonia💡

@steveng1624 3 жыл бұрын

Charming lady

@bryanholtz9454 3 жыл бұрын

Lol...stop speaking about me. I embody this to a point of 3 human great traits because they are owned by the divine, and my name is Bryan. I am malleable but not change in time. I can feel compassion the point of over sharing my emotions. And last I am too much of an empath that I get pulled in too many directions. You are amazing, and I love your insights and I have come to a belief from all you share, enjoy life by being yourself and a man of intentions and communicate it consistently, simple and clear. Don’t demand your expectations but just be unselfish art yourself.

@TheAdivine4u 3 жыл бұрын

Nice 👍

@sohaibqureshi8437 3 жыл бұрын

Mam you speak good and concise and speak according to points but still I am not able to understand when the explanation and examples go to many!

@IsaacOnyait 3 жыл бұрын

LOL, I LOVE THE WAY YOU SAY “ponti” IT TURNS ME ON TO WATCH ALL THE VIDEO😂

@brandonmacey964 3 жыл бұрын

I am weak but HE is strong.

@shodanart 3 жыл бұрын

All these are so valuable! Be “authentic!” “Come from compassion.” “Cognitive reframing” Well said. You care about men. “Connection.” ❤️ Most men out there will benefit from hearing your compassionate lessons. I was going to say most “young men.” I know I would have benefited. But, many older men will also need this.

@alexanderlara4183 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Apollonia ! I just want to thank you for helping me better understand women and their point of view and just teaching us how to be better in social dynamics. Do you live in Miami?

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

I do.

@alexanderlara4183 3 жыл бұрын

@@ApolloniaPonti Me too i really miss the night life we used to have especially the full moon celebration. i was wondering if you could tell me why some women have an inherit attraction to things that are risky or bad (ea Infidelity, dishonesty, violence) for them something I have had trouble understanding for a while.

@travisandrews3909 2 жыл бұрын

I'm charming all the time

@anirudhmetri213 3 жыл бұрын

I really need your help :-)

@renaldomelville8974 3 жыл бұрын

U can't always fix your flaws,that's why you should embrace it with acceptance and confidence..cause a woman ain't perfect either,but she will put up a wall that she want you to break her free of...she need the real you but more so you don't want to live a life by alternating yourself...you might feel disappointed if she rejects you,but move on... they are woman out there who can relate or the very least understand...and that's how you get great woman...

@trojon 3 жыл бұрын

"Do sh...shtuff..." 😂

@bhaskarmishra8479 3 жыл бұрын

you know...I read it somewhere.. to catch a fish you take suggestions from a fisherman and not the fish...it was wrong..every other channel that I have visited teaches how to get a girl...but doesn't teach how to enhance quality of life along with that...but you do that... a lot of respect and love for you ❤️

@alia.9426 3 жыл бұрын

Compare and despair

@OnedayX 3 жыл бұрын

Had a girl tell me she didn’t like me cuz I had gray hair. Self esteem went down.

@Bluudclaat 3 жыл бұрын

Big breath 420 vibrate high and pass to the left!

@TomFox1 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@georgeguzman7307 3 жыл бұрын

Hi, this is going to be another topic but I'm having some problems with my girl right now we have been broken up for 3 weeks we have keep contact but she still doesnt want to be together and this what she has told me: I never needed your help.or support financially. All I ever needed was love, you to build me up with confidence, support my wants and desires, inspire me, etc....instead, you broke me down, belittled me, disrespected my time, space, freedom, person and thoughts, called me names and shamed me. I want to change but she doesn't believe me what can I do ???? Thanks alot in advance 😊😊

@theblackfleet6867 3 жыл бұрын

All businesses are on lock down! Yoga, gyms, etc

@gregorygreats9392 3 жыл бұрын

I love you...

@tim4505 3 жыл бұрын

Just write a NYT-Best Selling Book already!

@daveystrange Жыл бұрын

8:38 - you were going to say "and do shit', weren't you? 😅

@baxydangenieus2584 3 жыл бұрын

Interesting topic Where's my crush?

@macdonaldgrazette1897 3 жыл бұрын

I don't believe people are looking for perfection.I think they are always looking to be a better version of themselves.Similar to when a woman obsesses over her weight or the beauty of others.It's imporrtant to be authentic, but if your authentic self doesnt strive for the qualities that make us better human beings,then we can't expect this from others.

@xavierwarren9799 3 жыл бұрын

I enjoy how your realness creeps out sometimes haha, and you have pretty hands as well...just saying.

@robertrichards6459 3 жыл бұрын

Morning High value female

@19Bacardi79 3 жыл бұрын

Annnd my name is Brian

@temitopematthewolusesitemi8246 3 жыл бұрын

Bye 4 now

@jesse399 3 жыл бұрын

What do you say for women that alway go with their feelings knowingly players know how to tap into that emotion. Meaning players didn’t play women, women play themselves.

@danmolina4185 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Apollonia girl can you tell me what you think about overseas love .? I am in love with this girl for over 5 years now Apollonia for the first fore years things was going quit good with her but this last year she started getting mad at me because I can't send her money she is in another country in Africa and things are not going well for us now to be honest I really love her and I want the best for her she lose her mom dad and the only one Brother she had she is from New York and I really want to get her home with me but it's very hard and it's like she don't understand what am going true

@jonathanrios4366 3 жыл бұрын

I have done Yoga

@greenturbo0420 3 жыл бұрын

Do sssshhhh stuff lol nice save

@positive_vibes_2427 3 жыл бұрын

LMAO!!!

@alaaabdelrady2348 3 жыл бұрын

Hello apolonia, we broke up 4 years back, both of us involved n another relationships and both of us already broke up again, Now I wanna back to her, we contact and she refused at 1st then she said she needs time to think about it, WHAT should I do at this time, help me please, thanks in advance

@MJBrabantNZL 3 жыл бұрын

Take the red pill. You'll get it. Thank me later, and only once you've taken it.

@karansarang9712 3 жыл бұрын

Giving examples in your videos and specific words and phrases to say is more helpful.

@alia.9426 3 жыл бұрын

Anyone else noticed that she was about to say I'm gonna get this bitch🙄🤣

@mutebiumar1613 3 жыл бұрын

Hey ponti thanx for the tips but last week l really l got a big shock of entire life.have been relationship for 4yrs but surprisingly we talk with the girl in the middle of week on weekend someone else was proposing to her and she's married now seriously l fainted am not myself l dn't know wat to do

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

Hmmm, it seems like she was checked out of the relationship way before you were in one if this happened. I'm sorry this happened but we should also get aligned with your standards and values. I know you can do it. You shouldn't chase a woman that has showed you this type of intent.

@mutebiumar1613 3 жыл бұрын

@@ApolloniaPonti Am trying thanks for encouraging

@gabormeszaros4896 3 жыл бұрын

11:38 can you write it down? xD

@ShubhamKumar-tl8bz 3 жыл бұрын

You're so beautiful and amazing ❤️😍😘😘❤️💗❤️💗

@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!

@ShubhamKumar-tl8bz 3 жыл бұрын

@@ApolloniaPonti welcome dear😊😊

@alineharam 3 жыл бұрын

Shubham Angel better to focus on the help and good counsel AP provides, and less on her appearance. If she were less attractive, would her words be less valuable? AP, you look good, but that is not the point of your coaching.