Yes, kind of sums up INFJ struggle. We exist in one sense but not another 🤣

Being an INFJ is great because as a nurse it comes in so useful and my patients love me because I can relate to them and I know what they are saying and feeling. However, at times it is a curse. If I get overwhelmed or work too many shifts I become physically, mentally, and psychologically drained. I love people but hate them at the same time. When people ask me to describe myself, I say “I am the walking contradiction of everything!”

@@mariachristopher836 I can imagine being a nurse and INFJ would be exhausting. ISFJ probably could handle it better maybe.

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Godzillallah 🦖🐉🐲 works in the most mysterious of ways. God Z Illa Allah 🔥 🦌🔹🙏🔹🦌 ⚔️ ☯️ 🛡️

It might be due to the fact that "evil" is a matter of perspective - someone who steals from the rich and gives to the poor would be a villain in the eyes of one but a savior to others. I believe there's no such thing as good or bad but rather a difference in perspective. Where one could say something is "evil", I'd say is when it impedes upon another's free will.

Same!

Yess!

As an infj I know what you mean. For me it goes beyond that. I got screwed by a narc. Besides learning about myself, selfcare, bounderies and the fact that i am an infj. In order to recognise them I studied their behaviour. The dark triade are definately evil. If you have no empathy (/humanity, capacity to feel or love) and purposefully harm others for money, attention and control....yeah thats evil. But the horrible part of being an infj is....part of me is the objective observer...its fascinating to me. I didn't know its that easy to manipulate, control or destroy a person to their very core. They hardly do anything and their victim destroys themselves from within while completely loyal to them. Part of me is wondering if you can use it for good. The ability is neither good nor evil...it just is...the intend behind it from the user is what makes it good or evil. And in ways its simular to what infj's do. We see your core trauma and know how to heal it while a narc uses it to destroy you with. But while we are hands on helping and getting not a thank you....the narc does hardly anything and gets praised. Its cause I don't think controlling others in any way is acceptable....I can see the tricks now and part of me thinks its fascinating.

@@maaiker2977 In order to help others one must understand what they are up against The Dark Triad can be good or bad depending on how someone uses it - for example, an INFJ who once used it to harm others but then later on decides to teach it to others, how to watch out for it, how to defend yourself etc. would be considered a positive outcome The problem I see is that no one even wants to explore that aspect, and thus, they can never defend themselves against it "It takes a thief to catch a thief"

My life didn't change at all pre vs. post covid....

My life didn't change really....Fewer people driving was a plus.

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that's the spirit !

Thanks. I needed that. I am so disgusted with the world and so sad for the people who are suffering. And I feel so alone because I just can’t participate in most shallow rituals of our shallow society nor do I want to be a depressing wet blanket, so I just avoid people as much as possible. I wish I could join a monastery and spend my life in quiet contemplation.

I have thought of being a monk after my husband died.

I hope you have a wonderful day as well ^_^ Have ya gotten a response from the animals yet?

uh, felt like i was reading my life, either we're both weird or both INFJs

Wait! Talking to animals makes you weird? Whom ever thinks is weird they are the weird ones. Lol. Guess I’m super super weird cause I even talk to the trees and flowers and etc. Anything with energy and life. I think they can feel my energy and sometimes I feel theirs. I love being weird I guess.

I relate to everything, I even want to be an architect

Your not weird your could very well be an infj.

No one will ever know an INFJ suffers, but an INFJ is always acutely aware of when others are :)

I meant unfortunately as in his desire to achieve his dreams was thwarted, less so about the war XD

@@brianon4049 I know, I just thought it was strangely phrased which made it verry funny

I think that’s how we should approach history, we INFJs see things from other people’s perspective. And that’s how everyone should do, that’s the only way to understand history as it is, without judging it’s people by our common universal moral standards.

@@lolatolqinjonova3569 Maturity is the ability to see things from other's perspectives, but people don't because in no way does it benefit them If only they realized the truth...

@Flora Braswell Who are you even talking to? I tried to apply it to all the comments but it didn't make sense for any of them.. Oh, edit: Also, idk why a hi five was in order..

Appreciate your comment and your willingness to delve deeper! I feel as though INFJ's are the only(?) personality type that's actually willing to dive off the deep end into the depths of the darkness that awaits them. Compared to other types, they simply just steer clear of it and never really examine what's underneath, which can lead to a lot of repressed issues and trauma later on in their lives. We don't know for sure what made Hitler turn to the dark side. But we can learn from history and hopefully, avoid going down that same route!

Personality types doe's not prevent you from having mental illness or breakdown.

To be able to see everything as it really is, not a strong human trait. Todays society seems to be more concerned with what people might think of them, being politically correct and virtue signalling. Real self-improvement /awareness and acknowledging there is a darker side to us rearly get to surface. Can we really evolve if we can't see our flaws and weaknesses?

@@onnik-k7584 We cannot - that's why society hasn't yet, but we're getting there :)

Yes!! I completely agree with you. I don't agree with Hitler, but I do understand where he was coming from. I'm also afraid to say this things cause people tend to think that if we understand that means we agree, and that's not the case at all. How can you decide if something is worthy for you if you don't fully understand it? Plus how can you be sure you are not recreating the same exact storyline if you don't fully and deeply know it? Unfortunately this way to process things make us really easy to access by psychopaths, sociopaths and narcissists too...

In my experience, it is better to be single than lonely - if it is meant to be then the universe will find a way, and if not, then you have eternity to find the loyal companion within to be with ^-^

So true! Much better to be single than lonely!!

Hmm.. Prob shouldn’t type him but if he existed, he was human and imperfect. IMHO :)

This is so me. When I'm in a relationship with someone, I make him feel like he's king, but then suddenly I can also just leave him point blank with no explanation.

Are you sure she won't read this comment XD

@@brianon4049 Yup...nifj is also a master of deception and keeping secrets, remember? She doesn't even know my KZfaq alias "Vanessa" nor has any clue about MBTI.

Ohh no your good lol I believe that we are great manipulators I believe in a good way just to get what we need from a situation if that makes sense

@@vanessa271 Hmm....

@@jennylumbrera8284 Hmm........ 🥺🤔

According to spirituality, one cannot appreciate what they have without occasionally immersing themselves in the opposite. Perhaps that's why we walk the grey zone between worlds

We've never had it to begin with. Objectivity per se is an illusion, unachievable by humans at least.

73 ans, même chose.

Thank you for your support my friend! Glad to have you with us 😊

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UwU

We are alive and well - huddled in our own tiny caves watching the world pass us by ^_^ (You can find more of us in the Discord :D )

Everyone to an extent has a duality - INFJs are just more aware of it (and IMO the most likely to realize and balance it out) :D

Being able to understand people regardless of why they do something - such a trait is known as being enlightened in Eastern cultures :) Be proud of how open minded you are!

You probably think you’re unique but you’re a majority. Other countries are purposely building a stoic and masculine based society. Americans are making emotional men, not ready for war.

What does gen xer mean?

@@nimrarashid552 people born between 1970-1984. But Google to make sure about the dates. The Generation after Boomers, before Millennials.

Yes! Having guests or just in a conversion I want other person to feel comfortable.

Singapore is a nice country :D

We love you as well ^_^

@@brianon4049 The cover photo.... you talked a lot about hitler but nothing of Jesus... why did you place his photo there next to hitlers? just curious

@@skywalker5thwrld Many people think he's an INFJ as well - I wanted to showcase the dual polarity of the INFJ and how one can become either one :)

@@brianon4049 oh that is so beautiful! I'm in love with your mind... where have you heard Jesus is an infj? I think that would be 100% correct I just am VERY curious where you may have heard of this fact...

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One of usssss

No u ^-^

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Thanks for watching :D

"Tell a lie, tell it long enough and the people will believe it." - A.H I think many people don't want to acknowledge such a perspective because they've been told what to believe for so long. To see another perspective would be to admit they were wrong, which our ego's prevent us from doing 🙂

Peace and love to you my friend!

Nature is an INFJs best friend :)

Essaye la méditation, ça me réussit bien.

@@octobre4623 Thank you for your advice 💙! Merry Christmas 🎄! 😇

I too like to use banana's as well to help me speak! =)

@@brianon4049 Hahahha

Agreed

Thank you for your kind words Maria! INFJs are typically more mature than their peers at a young age, thus, don't feel bad about your ability to see things from others perspectives - it takes time for others to catch up ;)

Nobody has understood me in 57 years ,....I'm 62 years old now. LOL ! Hang in there kid , look on the bright, you won't have to share the snacks and drinks with the other people on movie night. LOL !

@@kuangtien3980 this made my day!!! tysm! and sorry for that :( i wish u the best in ur life :D

No u 😊

Lol, was gonna say the same.

Hope you have a great day too, partner :D

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Jesus to Hitler real quick. "0 to 100 real quick." - Drake 🤣🤣

Yet if we were to type it it would take only a fraction of that time :D - From one INFJ to another

@@brianon4049 truth lol

It depends for me, I can speak very fast when I'm talking about something I've thought a lot about and formed an opinion

@@homersimpson3127 yeah i think we're pretty swift when we know exactly what and how we want to say

Ironic how the best speakers in the world incorporate gestures to make themselves more enticing - ignore your classmates!

Used myself as a test subject 😃

I agree - a person's background will determine their other facets besides just MBTI and is in most cases the most accurate For an overall picture though I like to use MBTI since a persons background is unique to them and it's difficult to account for everything that goes on

I wonder what the comment was

Yes! Exactly thank u :))

A precise, perfect analysis of one of the most complete humans that have walked on this planet

INFJs are completely different from each other , you wouldn't expect any two of them to have much similarities. On my point of view , Jesus was a self-actualized INFJ. There's a reason why nobody, even a closest friend , who can predict the action of an INFJ friend.(this applied even if the friend is also an INFJ) That's why I think the 12 disciples always tried to follow him in all places he went to learn from him. There's also other examples of self-actualized INFJs to ever walk on this earth. e.g Buddha, Krishna e.t.c

@@jimmyjimmy4505 Jesus is not INFJ. Try to understand my comment properly

@@gamercj3682 what about Muhammed?

Bitter truths are difficult to swallow let alone acknowledge It is far easier to simply pretend they do not exist and to enjoy one's life without their pretense - what most people do not understand that INFJ's seem to have grasped is that life is worth living because it's bittersweet :)

If you believe that part of being a narcissist is having an elevated sense of self, then how could Hitler be one? He offed himself. A sociopath definitely wouldn’t do that. Look at the state the world is in right now. It’s not good. Hitler probably saw it coming, and wanted to do whatever he felt necessary to prevent getting to where we are now.