“Oh this 18 year old understands me better than my wife” 🥺 👉👈 Bro grow the fuck up. This young girl is blaming herself for this relationship and making herself feel guilty

I love this series so much, but as a deaf viewer i really wish you still had CC on your videos, they help so much :(

The webcam secret is terrifying, imagine how many other people know how to do that 😰

to the one with the older workplace lover, honey u a victim, as a person that has been in your shoes, being a minor and being freshly 18 is not much different, he still had an advantage in the relationship's power dynamic AND he made the first move in a non-asking way based on the secret. I know you still care for him and that just further supports it. What would an almost thirty-year-old with a whole life want with someone who is freshly 18? Im sorry for being blunt but i could hear that the guilt is eating at u, and u don't deserve that. You deserve better. You are worthy, he knew what he was doing. You deserve to heal !

I just started the episode and just have to say I was literally going to cook Spaghetti tonight!!! I think I'll change my dinner plans! Thanks Jeremy!

The poem should have been called “masturbation intoxication”

As someone in the cybersecurity community it's really easy to hack Into Webcams and security cameras and other related things. It's not only 100% possible but it's really easy and it's been done a lot. There's an blog that literally step by step shows how to do it so people can protective themselves from it correctly. Use camera covers or use paper and tape on the camera. Always check your security settings especially when it comes to what each app on your phone has access to.

Am I the only one that thinks that the girl who had an affair with a coworker was manipulated? The age gap, him saying that he doesnt talk with his wife like that which can make her feel special, the talking all the time, idk kinda gives me manipulation vibes

I saw a clip on tiktok of you singing to your therapist and now I’m thoroughly invested to this podcast and your videos

Alex said “I think everyone should add ‘getting laid’ to their services.” Then an ad came on that said “No insurance? No problem. Book us today and we’ll do anything to make you smile” WHATTTT. This cannot be a mere coincidence

28:20 she shouldn't have felt guilty after he put his hands down her pants, he made the first move....he should be the guilty one.

i rlly wish u didn’t have better help as a sponsor :( they don’t vet their therapists and one time i tried it bc i heard a lot of my fav yters talking about it and mental health is taboo here in sk so i got a vpn, paid for better help and the therapist i got was very much “have a warm bath and think positive thoughts!❤️” and then when she found out i was korean she became super fetishy and our whole session turned to her asking me very weird questions about sk and being korean :// i’ve also heard a lot of other peoples negative experiences with them in other peoples youtube comments so yea👎

As someone who’s been cheated on by a friend of my bf: it is ALWAYS your place as the other person. You’re the only other one that knows what’s going on. If you have even the slightest pang of regret, ask yourself: “if this was my husband, would I rather live in ignorant bliss or be told the truth?” The answer is usually truth. Edit: the other person didn’t tell me because it “wasn’t their place” yet tried showing me screenshots on screenshots of them talking to other people about it to prove they “felt guilty”. If you truly felt guilty you’d drop the bomb even if you’ll blow up too. Refusing to drop the bomb is proof you’re scared of being caught. If you actually felt guilty you’d care enough about what your actions have done to an unsuspecting person who believes their marriage/ relationship is sound to fix the mess you helped create. This doesn’t apply ONLY to people who didn’t know they were being the other woman. But once you do find out, this now applies.

i love this series so so much. i’ve literally watched every single video. keep it up girl!!💗

the woman on the phone interview sounds so sweet and like such a genuine kind person, just young and vulnerable. i think she’ll grow into a more strong minded girl but for right now i think that he’s taking advantage of her and how young and immature she still is. his fault all around imo

The "Going Public" secret honestly seriously sounds like she was assaulted in her first sexual encounter with this guy. Describing it as suddenly happening, didn't expect it, kinda confused, was consciously not going into this relationship with that in mind, and critically, HE DID NOT ASK FOR AND WAIT FOR CONSENT!!!!!! JEEZUS. People, fucking, ask others if they want to have a sexual encounter with you, and not in your car in a parking lot at night, because they can't escape without making a scene and may even feel in danger if they don't agree. And if they're not enthusiastically verbally consenting, in a situation in which they are safe to withdraw and can easily withdraw, stop asking. If they're not verbally saying 'yes' and physically engaging with enthusiasm, then they haven't consented. Take it as a "No" and quit.

The married man secret made me almost faint bc I was absolutely head over heels for a married man 11 years older than me also and also a coworker of mine. He would talk to me everyday, flirted with me, helped me with whatever I needed help with, have me listen to romantic music that the lyrics sounded a lot like our weird relationship, but we never did anything besides him getting really close to my face and touched my waist a lot and touched my hand a lot and would just make excuses to touch me or be around me all the time. All our coworkers would see everything between us, even people who's worked here for years would say "I've never seen him that happy" or "I've never seen him smile so much" or "I've never seen him stare at someone as much as he stares at you" and everyone made jokes about "we argue like a married couple" or "go talk to your girlfriend" to him. It sounded so similar that I LEGIT thought she was reading a secret I havent submitted. We dont talk at all anymore bc after a year and a half of him getting really close and romantic with me while telling me how miserable he is with his wife and how she would make excuses to not even let him sleep in their bed together or celebrate their anniversary, he said out of nowhere "I didnt mean for her to get feelings, I was just being nice" BWUAHAHAHHA WHAT Dont bash me, I havent done anything nor tried to do anything with him bc I knew he was married, I just felt so bad for him bc he legit is miserable in his marriage and stays just for their 2 kids he doesnt even know if they are his or not. I stayed back when he initiated everything for me to develop very strong feelings for him. I just never felt love for someone like that before so ofc I'd fall head over heels, I just never flirted unless he flirted back. Yes, I know it was wrong, but we havent talked to eachother besides one word since he said he was "just being nice" bc I refuse to talk to him or even look at him anymore. It does still hurt deep down, I still care about him and I still love him deep down, I just didnt expect this to happen so I just let him go after me. His wife cheats all the time, not saying that makes it valid, but he said and I quote, "my wife can cheat, I cant" and that's ridiculous. Hes obviously miserable but I'll let him be miserable bc I'm over it just for the fact he can be miserable if he chooses, I'm not gonna wait around for a man I could possibly never have.

The only place that has ever given me food poisoning (and i've eaten at questionable fast food places my entire life) was Subway and it was nice to have that reconfirmed.

The way that i can literally just listen to this in the background and mid game just have my jaw drop on the floor 🤣

You are like my comfort zone always come to ur videos to make myself feel better🖤

ur amazing so proud of the podcast i watch ur vids all the time thinking about submitting a secret lol

Literally what I look forward to every week!

For the camera person, there is a website where you can watch people's Webcam that they've set up. A lot of people do it too. It's surprisingly clean, you just watch people and what they do day to day. It's a nice consensual alternative.

i love this new format! i've always enjoyed the series but it's so fun to have extended versions of the secrets, to hear more of your input and to actually hear from some of the submitters. i also feel like you're enjoying yourself more which is really cool to watch. this is great!

omg i can’t believe that Alyx listened to my secret. i was the one with the “knee injury” 😭

Omg i’ve been having the worst day today and im excited to listen to this

I’m 23 and I’d never ever pursue someone who’s 18. Her coworker took advantage of the situation

Me after 11:35 's secret: Checking if my webcam cover is covering my webcam 3 times just to be sure 🙂

YEEESSSS Alyx these videos are the highlight of my week! So excited!! ❤️

I loved the phone call segment. I think mindfulness and what you were talking about is so important. It’s something I’ve been talking to MY therapist about. She always has me go through two questions of “is this thought realistic?” And “is this thought helpful?”. Having self compassion can be so difficult. I think you gave her really good advice.

I love this show!!! And I love how you’ve expanded on this video concept. I was so excited when you talked about Abraham Hicks last episode!! So glad you are using your platform this way❤️❤️

Ordering the webcam/phone camera covers now… P.S. love this podcast 🫶🏼

This series is an absolute joy, I'm so proud of you Alyx, I'm looking forward to the next episode!! 😁

I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS I’m going through such a hard time and your videos ease my pain💔❤️

I've been patiently waiting all week!!! So excited aaaaaaa this makes me want to submit a secret..

Just here to let you know this is the most funnest podcast I have heard! Thank you for everything you do

I'm loving the podcast so much, I love every segment 💖✨ I've been watching you for years 🥰

these always come out on my laundry day so thank u for the entertainment while i put my clothes away

I want to speak with as much kindness toward the call section with the 18 year old and and the married man. This is not your guilt to carry. It is this mans responsibility to know when to stop this relationship if it is unhealthy. Yes, you are of age; however, what does a 30 something have in common with an 18 year old? This is not to dig at you, especially because you care so much. However, he should have the guilt because he knows what he's doing. If he is feeling unfulfilled in his relationship it is his issue and not yours. Of course you have the choices you've made to continue this, and I applaud you for trying to step away from this. You are not horrible, and you really are trying your best. You deserve love, and I hope you find empathy for yourself in this situation too. You deserve to be the first and only option from someone that's available for you and NOT using you at all. That's not to say this man doesn't care, but he is selfish for putting you in this situation. I am so angry for you because you don't have to carry his guilt and yours. I am still listening to the section, and I don't want to speculate, but I HOPE when he put his hands down your pants that it was consensual; if it wasn't that just SPEAKS to the person that that man is.

I HAVE BEEN WAITING ALL WEEK FOR THISSSS! I luv this Ty alyxxxx

You should do an episode with the secrets Themed "Alyx." Maybe even for your birthday.

Laid down, popped my headphones in and now I’m staring at the ceiling listening to this

You're my favorite KZfaqr thank you for existing 🦋🌻❤️

i’ve been looking forward to thursday’s now. this series is so entertaining and i feel like it’s perfect to put on while i’m doing tasks. you have great commentary and super fun ways to go about share these secrets.

I can't stop from cackling listening to your producer laughing in the backround as you tell secrets to people at your own. 🤣😂🤣🤣

I freakinggg loveeee this show!!!! Been here since the beginning and the podcast was just perfect for your growth so happy for you and ur success

Keep it up, it's the highlight of my week!!

HELP THE DUDE WHO WAS GETTING OFF TO YOU TALKING ABOJT LACTOSE SHITS

I love this new format

About the Brazilian wax, I can't say I agree with it because not only can you feel intimidated by men, or maybe a Brazilian wax making you nervous, but the thought of someone waxing your genitals, just to be thinking thoughts about you is fucked up because it's not professional and it's harassment too

Better help sucks don’t let the KZfaq ads fool you. In my experience it is NOT “affordable.” Idk just my opinion I’m sure it works for some people

I love your videos! Always looking forward to them!

Definitely about to download this so I can watch it on my free time when I go on vacation

This podcast has been so freakin awesome..I am SO proud of you!!

Alyx , I love you so much , you are very intelligent, funny and well spoken. You are a role model. Also the podcast rocks. Blessings ❤️

love this podcast! like so much

The part on chat roulette with the brother bath secret is sending me 🤣 your assistant's laugh in the background and then "what is your name?" "Does it matter?" "Okay" 🤣💀

I whole heartedly believe that Skyrim just crashed on me just so that I would open youtube to notice you had uploaded this. Only reason that would be appropriate.

I love this Alyx!! please don't stop postinggg

i know this is a podcast, but i would reeeeally appreciate some subtitles during de audio secrets, since english isn't my first language. loves ur vids

I really needed this today

My new favorite podcast!

OMG IM SO EXCITED, i just got off work this is a friggin treaaat

I am not surprised that this is such a great and entertaining series from the very beginning. Am so happy that this is a thing now. I truly enjoy her content so it means a lot to me to be able to have a Creator with platforms I am able to go to and spend some good times of my life enjoying.

love this podcast sm

Good podcast! Thank you ❤️🔥 I been supporting your channel from the beginning! Love your content 💯❤️🙏🏽

YESSSS these video get me through the week i love u!!!!!

the first one should be called pastabation

Love this series! Finally earlyyy

I’d be listening to these podcasts while I’m at work lol

I do like the podcasts but I do miss the og vids because they were funnier and easier to watch but support you and the podcast videos so far!

Love this series! P.s. think you should get the tattoo permanently! Love the design and the meaning and it really suits you! 👌

thursdays and sundays are my fav day of the week now

NOO IM ACTUALLY EATING SPAGHETTI RN 😭

i love uuuu alyx !!!!!! this is my fav podcast !!!!!

Love this series!!☺️

Been waiting for this the whole week 🥹

I’m not too big on podcasts, but I love this one

i have nothing intelligent to comment but thank you for the content

The only podcast I can listen to now........ I LOVE U!!!!!!!

I Love ayydubs sm I have so many secrets to share I’m not sure if I should but please keep making videos I love them kso much

love ur vids !!!!

Literally amazing

alyx has the biggest channel for revealing secrets, so that guy will definitely find this video

I heard that subway bread contained so much sugar that it’s legally considered cake lol.

Love the show! please keep making them but tbh I really like when you read them instead of voice recordings but either way I'll listen 🙏🏻

The restaurant I work at makes completely fresh made every single day sandwiches and everyone in the restaurant always trashes subway😂 I’ve heard just about every myth and fact about how gross their stuff is lmao

I love you so DUXKING much queen 😭

I LOVE THIS!!! INCREDIBLE

Looooove love love this podcast

I’m so excited 😍

"Eat a lot of milk." 😂😂😂

I like that we get to hear Amanda’s voice now, it felt a little lonely in the first episode when only Alyx talked

Obsessed with the series

i love these so much.

I'd call that poem Jeremy lmao😂❤

so tempted to submit a secret but definitely gonna be through voicemail bc my grammar isn’t it 😂

THE BROTHER BATH DUDE IS SO FUNNY IM SORHEISBDJDBD

Absolutely loveee! ❤️

I really think the wife of the man should know that he cheated for sooooo many reasons. Not the least of which is that I believe it would really help their marriage, either by ending a bad marriage, or forcing them to participate in counseling and understand how to offer each other what they need in the relationship. Taking your feelings and needs elsewhere in secret is not really a valid solution to any relationship problem. Being in a relationship with someone who doesn't feel comfortable telling me literally anything would never work for me.