Good point

Soooo true! It’s so frustrating!!!

@bereal8191it’s amazing how men hold women to a standard they will help you break(test/games) it’s manipulation and deceit and demonic…. Because they are not perfect but will throw our weakness against us…. It takes women a second to build fortitude against the fake love and wants from the men we “think” we love… these type of men are the worst and I’m so glad I’ve learned this.

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A man into me should not be looking or talking to anyone else. I feel awful.

What does that mean when that is going on?

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Gone bout yo business!! 🤣🤣😂

After 5 years I went back to spend sometimes with him. The reason I left him alone for that lone is the same reasons I see now. I called him out about texting out women while in my presence. Him receiving phone calls from other women while I am in his presence. I was placed in “the friend zone”. He is not for me. He got made cause I called him out. I told him that he is a player. He was to good to be true. Rich, professional soccer player and had everything together but yet not married yet. Red flags! “Friend zone”

​@@ambermarie8554 All funny business aside, the phone is an addictive device. Some people have an addictive personality and really enjoy spending time on their phones. A lot of people even work from their phones. This innocent behavior can still be a sign of disrespect/lack of interest when the intention is to spend quality time together. It isn't fair and it isn't quality time if one person is distracted, on their phone not paying attention. On the more negative side of things, it could mean he is distracted by other women. It is called quality time and attention, which is vital to a healthy relationship. The phone gives access to the outside world. Keep an eye out for this particular red flag but never go through a guy's phone without his permission. If he doesn't grant permission, give him the side-eye and "put on your track shoes." Never argue and fight with a guy over his phone. Sometimes an iPhone is the only prized possession people (men) have and it is sad.

A men that is interested in you will show you just that if they don’t then let it go

YOU GOT THAT RIGHT !!!!👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

yeah, sad....

I think women ( maybe l should make it about me -old me- feel kinda Unstable/lost stable when we feel a man will no longer get excited about us. And I’m attempt to “get the magic back” we compromise. I agree with you wholeheartedly that it was my insecure playing in me rather. Had I held those standards that I set beforehand, I would’ve had a different ending 🤷🏾‍♀️

This was a word!

Amen, so true

Good point.... Imagine she bowed out gracefully instead of doing this. Well, when you know better you do better.

So true

I made that mistake on my first “love” (lasted 8 years), although he is physically out of my life, emotionally I haven’t been able to let go yet. The thoughts of him moving on with someone else still haunt me. Do you have any tips for how to let go?

@@nicoleb9047 day by day it gets better. Time does heal. Keep busy. Remember why you left

@A BCD Be careful with your judgement of others. Your strength may be her weakness, just as your weakness may be another's strength. Healing is a lifelong journey for all of us.⚘

@@nicoleb9047 yes, give the unconditional love that you have for him back to yourself. Make yourself happy, become the person you hope to attract. It's time to practice self love. Continue on your healing journey and you will soon lose interest in anyone who does not love you in the same way.⚘

@@nicoleb9047 , you need to do the work to get over him. I believe Tony Gaskins has a few free courses to help. You have to be watching him daily. Focus on the three Bs: brain, body, and body. Focus on you and being a better you. It helped me heal.

Great Advice.

@@LA-wv7gf Right! There's no way he saw her the same, after that.

You are so right 💯

@@LA-wv7gf I really think it depends on the woman, though. I was a virgin til the age of 25, almost 26, but was able to give/receive oral from the age of 21, without feeling attachment towards the guy. Now, when I first attempted to have intercourse, at 24, (we were not able to physically do it), I got my heartbroken afterwards. We had attempted to "make love" only once, but then, broke up a few days later. It took me forever to get over the guy, like several years. The only reason I even had sex at 25 was because I had spiraled into self destructive behaviour, which included drinking and lots of guys, to try and get over the first guy. I was a mess. I really think sex is a whole different beast, compared to oral. But, that's my opinion.

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Too young to make grown adult choices. ❤️

@@LA-wv7gf yup. Then that they had sex

Girl ! I went through so much . He was only quiet and reserved because he was a liar 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

My ex was that. VERY quiet,... and played Thee most games, cookie-crumbed, gaslighted, you name it. I got played, but it was so intriguing to me. Live n definitely learned.

Or those "laid back" types

Facts. I have experienced it just as you articulate it.

Lawd, me too!

Hella funny 😂😂

In the doctor's office tho😂😂😂

I hollered😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭

@@mymakersdaughter6041 it's the way he play it out for me😂

So funny omg😂😂😂😂😂😂

facts

Agreed.. I gotta admit that the quiet ones are intriguing and pull me in. I had a child with the quiet type; so I know that you are telling the truth.

Tony is a whole trip ouchea ,i was just smiling

Tony cray 😜🤪

I hadn’t ever heard of this. Could you explain how it causes it?

@@PullthaleverKronkit’s because of the human papillomavirus (HPV) which is a common sexually transmitted infection.

Happen to me to and he was a decade older than me. Thank goodness I got myself out of it . He was a cheater, abusive in every way, a habitual liar, he pretends to be nice to other people only to gain something from them and had a white bible . He loved the fact that his daughter and son that are born on the 6 , because it’s 666 including him. He smirks when telling people that . He is a hostile diabolical nefarious , satanic thing

It sounds like your ex was worried about one of his friends informing you on something that he didn't tell you.

Yes, I agree. I went through the same thing. This one time my ex was so jealous that his best mate cracked my neck (chiropractor stuff). Mind you, his best mate was also doing other people. Next day I get told off “wow, you let another man touch you” 🤦🏽‍♀️ I was so baffled by his comment, I literally started to not talk or even make eye contact with his friends incase he pulled that card out on me again. I look back and think how stupid I was to even think like that.

@@susanntillzxo3626 I hope you don’t blame yourself anymore. I, too was afraid of talking to guys he knows because when I talk to a guy I knew before him in public my ex after grabbed my neck but he could talk to girls in front my face n behind my back. I look back and think wtf was I thinking dating this “looks challenge guy”(lol) and has a satanic personality and soul . I call him a thing .

@@shan4145 lmaoo at looks challenged. I'm glad you got out lol 😝

Stupid to single 😄 I'm in stupidity recovery right now but still find myself tempted to lower my standards. I never want to repeat that heartbreak and self degradation again though, so it feels easier to be strong. So much peace

Same here😢

Thanks for your transparency❤️

I’m in single mode as well I have been so so stupid.

I love this sentence "A man will always be around,etc.", wow, yes, I believe that too.

🗣In that order

Yup

Agree. As a female its disheartening what some females view as empowering and sexual expression.

@@missybella9046 I have a Facebook friend who actually posted on her page that the WAP video is "sexually empowering women." I cannot believe she actually thinks that. Unreal.

I don't like the song or the video. That song came on in the bar and my friend was soooo hype dancing like "Come on Brit, put ya hands on ya knees ". It is not that serious to me lol.

Rolling! You hear me 😂😂😂

Ti agree. One video had me in tears

YESSS!! I be on the flo 🤣🤣

I love your profile picture 😍

@@Ashley_Banks thanks!

@@blueseptember2174 continue doing things as family. Many women as soon they get divorce believe “ its time to enjoy life and baby themselves “ baby themselves equivalent to go out with men… I truly believe a woman who has kids and divorce specially younger babies should stay single …..they have no business going out with a man instead try to teach your kids family can be build with or without a husband. If your kids are 7-16 constantly do family activities… building their present it’s important for them to have a beautiful future.

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Everybody has played the fool for “love”. Doesn’t mean she’s stupid, she just made a poor decision

Yes he was!!!

Yep so we should just act on that "suspicious/unknown" "feeling". Save ourselves. When we pull back, he is going to pull to, BUT the games will be visible if our EYES are open and we are paying attention. Save ourselves!

@@saphireflowers3382 i was there recently. There was no tricks, makeup, weight loss, sexual tricks..all of it was never enough and i never ever got rid of this nagging feeling that i was on an audition constantly and he made me feel like he was an inch away from the door at all times. I just said forget it, it's not worth living like this. Breakup will be painful once but the pain of this uncomfortable will go on forever. I have to say if it wasn't for Tony i wouldn't know what i was stuck in. God bless this channel.

@@saphireflowers3382 exactly! Tony saves lives!

He said white women think that way 🤣🤣🤣.

I hollered!

@@FeelingFitFabFun 🤣🤣

Girl I had to pause, I was laughing so hard. The doctor part took me out 😂😂