It's been two months and I can't stop crying. We work together and I have to act happy but when I get home I cry all night. He looks at me and talks to me like I'm a friend. It hurts everyday

Peachblossom.Phlox :3 I’m in the same boat.. we work together and it sucks putting on a fake face..

@@jake_ughhh yeah I have to pretend I'm happy but I constantly have to go to the bathroom to cry

Peachblossom.Phlox :3 ugh that’s a mood.. I have my own office I go into so I don’t have to see him. But we have a meeting here soon and we’re gonna have to be in the same room. They always act like everything’s fine, and that their life is better :/..

@@jake_ughhh yeah we work in a small store together so we constantly see each other all the time. He just talks to me like our 3 years together didn't happen and I try to be friendly and nice too but it's so weird that my heart breaks everyday and he goes out with his friends and is always smiling

Thats so encouraging. Thank you

I real need help to forget my boyfriend

Best advice ever

Hard to be in no contact it's been 1 1/2 months of No Contact and 5 months today of separation with one time of intimacy after 2 1/2 months ughh 😔

William Miller *bro you are good, just breathe and focus on yourself* You got this

You did 3 months of NC great.

Did your bf meet other girl, had sex with her and when that failed he came back to you? If so, then you were his second option safety net and will probably do it again. I have had a situation like that and hope that you didn’t.

@@Mead33 if he left the other, she's not the second choice. I have my pride though we need to understand how human mind works, it's about values and quemistry in your brain we are animals after all. Saying this even though he was with another person and have sex or whatever (cause we don't know) he realize he miss her and it was because of the bond they have created. There are so many variables to take in consideration but they are mostly alike. And dont get me wrong I feel, I know Im the kind of person that knows he left me for someone else and any left apreciation just will fall. Sometimes we react on rage or just because we are to pride, and there's nothing wrong about it. As long as it wont become a repetitive behaviour I dont see why is wrong to take them back, though I dont feel like I would it but we are not all the same.

Kiasca yah if u really love the person. Whatever he did to u or said bad things towards u, when he started to reach out to u again and be humble you cant resist to accept them again. Esp when u see that theyr so sincere and doing a lot of effort more than they did for u before.

Happy for you

Keep up the strength! Motivation 🙂

How many days are you in NC so far?

Call me 😊

im with you sis :/

Update?

Lol my ex told me that before she broke up with me. She'll be the one to prove her statement if my silence really resulted into that 😂 Cause now we dont talk, she ignored my text before so I just backed off.

Inspired! Hopefully these two work for me and my case with my special person....💔

@@draziesaari wish you good luck. I m just shivering if this really works with my stubborn man. He's completely ghosting me but not blocking me. The only hope thats keeping me alive. He's a very hard nut to crack. I m confident that he cannot get along with any other woman. Hmm.

Dr Azie Sa'ari i feel you.

@@yourdukzsuccs3947 no contact? Succeed. Thank you Coach.

So he’s dead?

@@MK-co6uf How do you know? Do you have similar experience?

@@maureenkam9212 you wrote “he regretted for the rest of his life”

@@MK-co6uf You are sharp.

@@maureenkam9212 sorry to hear, rip

Yet he doesn’t crack smile!! I’m trying to think of I’ve ever seen him smile 😄

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Good luck I hope everything works out the way you want it to

Congratulations.

Update?

Nc works in my case also my ex call me msg me even came to meet me also but she doesn't realise what she said to me not even accepting the what she did instead of that she is saying i have saw boys for marriage & telling me that she has done mistake staying with me & Our relationship was 13yrs she said this words very easily I'm completely shatter & help less

I'm glad to hear that the no contact worked for you, sadly 3 days after the breakup I called her to get a lazy "closure", and since that conversation almost a month passed. I feel so heartbroken and I want a real and sincere closure. I really hope I get one

Same i love this women with my soul. I wish i been trying hypnosis and it doesn't help so far

9 months is when you should worry. Not 2

Anyone who values you will never leave your side. The fact that he left shows he never cared about you. It’s a unfortunate reality.

My ex came sniffing around the bar I frequent exactly a year after the break up on the night I’m always up there. This was her way of contacting me which was bold. After a year I told her to pound salt, I didn’t even want to chat at that point.

There isn’t a secret number. Everyone is different.

Who is she.

❤ thanks Mr.Lee i needed yo hear this

Cheeky

Actually he is a guy with perfect knowledge, if he was a woman he would have given wrong advise. Because a whole of times women give wrong advice to their friends. Women do not know what they want, they speak something, think something and do some other thing.

Actually I was thinking about that too. How is he making rights, its a bit sus 😑

Update?

@Gustavo Gonzalez Met her around day 50, we went for a walk and talked about what she's been up to and what I've been up to. She has a new group of friends and kinda acts out of character. Told her to text me if she ever wanted to hang our again, she hasn't done that yet. Saw her on the street a week after that, she saw me but didn't even greet me. Broke my own heart again, should've stayed in no contact tbh😅

@@dominikhoffmann8657 any updates now?

@@ricardooo444 I found someone who actually loves me and really cares about me. My breakup turned out to be a real blessing in disguise. KEEP WORKING ON YOURSELF, IF YOUR EX DOESN`T COME BACK YOU`LL FIND SOMEONE EVEN BETTER!

@@dominikhoffmann8657 I wonder about that. But I still think that she's the best for me and that we'll still grow together as a couple.

@@dominikhoffmann8657 rebound?

Any update? My ex is depressed too

same here

Very. Good. I find This vids soothing also. Me on week 3 no contact. And. Yesterday I logically convinced myself: 1 - ex made a mistake and will return, 2- ex never loved me if able /convinced self to walk away w/o trying to work on...also, once ex comes back (if), are we ready to start NEW relationship with them? Old “comfort of relationship” won’t work. It has to be an entirely different relationship with new actions/events/traits... old are predictable and not exiting anymore. Both will have to try harder to maintain it. So. Why not to start a new relationship with a new person and let it unfold naturally w/o any pressure... good luck. !!

@@mushroom4978 same to you!

I'm on day 23 NC and he told me when we started dating that he's never gotten back together with an ex. So unless I'm the exception (I don't think so), it's over. Trying to deal as recovering from surgery during this time 😟

LOL how does that work?

😂😂😂😂😂just made mah day

@@RealCoachLee Social distancing during the covid-19 pandemic.

@@jahboyquatreonze2328 😂 LOL. Right?

Ahahaha ❤️

///AMG - They constantly need to be with someone!

do you think if a girl dumps you to focus on herself and gets over you at the end of the same month she left you in and start developing feelings for another guy a month after breaking up and lables him as a friend with benefits count as moving on fast or a rebound relationship??

easily replaceable . REBOUND!! Especially if she plasters it all over social media

lyricalprophet100 i wouldn’t say she plasters it on social media but i did lie and tell her i moved on (i know that was wrong of me. i later admitted the truth) i didn’t think she’d care anyway and EXACTLY AFTER i told her she posted her leaning against against other guy closely but a pic of their feet you could tell how they were posed. i told her i thought it was odd she posted it right after the fact. she said nothing odd about it and it’s just life she’s happy with who’s she’s with. she said she wanted a future with this guy Lol. but like already??

easily replaceable . First off, you’re not easily replaceable! Understand that. You’ve contributed to a relationship which I’m sure had very great moments. So, SHE, will not forget. Secondly, what I’ve found to be true is that people who immediately jump to posting pics on social media WANT people to think their life is great. That, they are happy. By posting “cute” pics. Me, personally if the relationship had any substantial amount of time like a year or more, posting pics like that is tacky. But they want this new “thing” to be real... So broadcasting that for people to see, in their eyes makes that true. It doesn’t. So, with that being said. Take this time to work on yourself. Invest in becoming a better you. Gym, job, home, becoming healthy physically and mentally. This thing that she’s doing now is going to run it’s course. You cannot change that. So accept it. Now, it’s up to you to become a better you!

What happened? Like how did you guys get together again...care to share the story?

After how many days he called

7 months - didnt you stop care about her

what happened

Yeah that's a really long time. Care to tell us how it all happened?

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4.5 weeks of talking after the break up likely ruined your chance of her coming back. Did she?

Did anything ever happen

@@rwankyo3 He hasn’t come back yet, however he has adopted my closest friends and stays close to them. He can’t hear my name being mentioned, he will ask people to not say my name because according to him it’s a sensitive subject. I’m still waiting but it’s hard because I know how much trauma he has from his life and I don’t think he will ever confront it, which means he will probably stay gone because he pushes anyone away when they get too close. I believe he still loves me but doesn’t know how to face everything that’s happened. I still hope for him though, and hope that he comes back. I will always love him.

@@PimpinWitch Any update on your ex? I also have an ex who happen to be avoidant.

@@chrisricciardo1976 I sure will thank you so much!

I totally get where you’re coming from. I went 10 months w/o contact after my ex dumped me. She posted things in order to get my attention, but I resisted. She recently reached out (for a particular event) and we txtd for a lil bit. I can sense her hesitation, and I’m not pushing. I reached out 1x, we had a txt convo, and it was cool. But she’s the type who doesn’t like to put herself out there. Her fears have always been a powerful force in her life. So I’m playing it cool. Back in nc right now. I’m in a much better place. Much stronger. Like he said, be patient man, work on yourself, and get yourself to that level where you know your own worth.

You have got this Nicolas! I believe in you ☺

I am almost into 1 year nc. Few weeks back mutual friend reached out suggesting that we should remain as friends..like seriously?????

I've been in NC since july 1, 2020

@@robertpreski262 been since February 6 for me. Still have not heard a word.

bruh

Wow .. after 20 years I think is to late … sometimes it works .. at least they are happy with each other.

Hi coach Lee, new to your channel. I heard you say ppl have gotten back after 10 yrs. It's been that long for my ex husband I, whose now in a 4 yr relationship. We saw each other the other day and our chemistry was hot. We saw each other the following week and it was the same. He keep saying he's committed but when I asked if he wanted me to stop flirting he smile and said, just slow and give me some time, then the next day went back to saying he's committed and wants to be friends. I know we still love each other, but at this point, dont know what to do. Any advice?

Hi. How are You doing? Did no contact worked for you? I am on week 3 and felling as letting go.... Please share if u have strength. Thank you.

@@mushroom4978 62 days NC now. Its gets easier. Better sleep. Less crying. At 45th day he "accidentally" message to a family member but send "wrongly" to me. I think he tried trick me to break NC. I did not reply him. He posted 2 meaningful pictures meant for both of us in social media. Not our pictures but interesting pictures we both had liked and discussed. I think he is trying to remind me of him. I Am still sad..so sad. Miss him like hell. Sometimes i cant help it but posted a picture thats meaningful for both of us too. I know i shouldn't. He kept looking at every stories i posted . But he did not make any move. So i am will not budge and stay in NC. 😭😭 this could take months! Everyday still think of him. keep listening to Coach Lee

@@ernitahap2718 did anything happen after this?

Me too

Ace7of7Cups, I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It's terrific and it will help you. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

I hope you're good now

@@Champman543 I am!!! I’m over the person now. It’s almost 2 years and I’m in a much better place. That person and I weren’t meant to be. I’m happy to have met them. I have good things going on for me so that part of my life isn’t as amplified anymore.

Helen hu@ I was totally broken when the love of my life left me it was so hard for me, I almost gave up if not for a friend who directed me to a very good and powerful woman

Update?

He also left me twice but I'm feeling he won't come back this time... You have an update?

Sounds similar to my situation? What happened in the end?

Thanks for asking! So I gave time to .yself and focused on me, not expecring her to contact me at all and little by little I started healing. After some months I met my current partner (we have been together since then) again nothing forces and I let things flor. While with my partner my ex started contacting me telling me "I miss you, csn we meet or can we talk" and she only messaged me during Christmas and my Birthday, but after that I let her know that I moved from that and I dwell what I needed to dwel,, and that at that point she was an experience from where I grew. Since then ive been very happy.

C. Watson I’m like in your situation but the other way around. I want my ex back. She was everything to me

@@josephingram5978 Hopefully ypu will Husky. We're sailing in the same boat. It was just a one reason that I confronted, couldn't take it easily and it separated us to this extent that he's completely ghosting me. But only one jope is that he's not blicking me despite my asking him several times to do so as a sign that he over me and if I m really unwanted. There's just a grand silence but he never blocked me. Not even once. This is the only hope tgats keeping me breathing.

@@minuesperanza6273, move on. He isn't worth it. The only reason he didn't block you is because he is curious. They all are. The chances of him coming back are next to none. The odds are NOT in your favor. They moved on. You need to also. In the end you will be a lot happier than he ever will be for what he did to you. I guarantee. Heal, move on and love yourself!

@ChrisSoCalm sure. Thank you Chris.

@@gizzyfrizzy1 Curious that to what extent I beg him? Hmm. I didn't beg him literally at any moment since I was also not wrong but did multiple reactions. I analysed, questioned him what woukd do if he's me and I confronted the most heart breaking words used but never attemped to admit tgat he feels sorry to slip those words and the act that he woukd never appreciate if I woukd gave done. What I was in a thought that may be he's guilty but egoistically not admitting and started ghosting me cos he has no genuine answer. Don't know if he started seeing someone else yet.

I know what you're going through. It's been six months for me. He's still in my thoughts. Some days I feel better than others.

Lulifxi, give it more time.

🥰 Wow!

The longest span I ever heard was a couple got back together after 31 years. They got married! 💍

It's been 28 days for me. Keep going. Stay strong. It gets easier♥️

You got this girly i believe in you 💓💓

It's been almost 2weeks and girl.... But I have faith that God is going to move and this situation despite of how it look like I and I believe he can do it you too

You got this Pam!

I’m 1 month and 2 weeks. I’m better but cry occasionally when I have dreams of him with someone else. I feel like a different person but I started working on myself. I’m here for you. Trust me. You will be okay.

What a piece of trash!!! Sorry u went through that Alia. Happy u have enough self worth and strength 2 let him go.

My ex did the same! He came back after being apart for a year. We were in a relationship for another year before he ended things by lying that he had a new gf, thinking it might help me move on faster 🙄 It took all that for me to see he was not mature enough for me.

I feel you . He do the same to me.

Either you did not have a meaningful relationship, or like Shakespeare says “you protest too much”

Thank u I needed to hear this tonight is my first night without my ex and I'm starting no contact

@@bennyblanco6704 update on you both?

@@nono-iy4be actually we hooked up a few days ago had sex but today back to the same crap and her being narcissistic person

2 days? Your relationship wasn't worth anything then if that's the case, no wonder he/she left. 2 Days I INSANE.

After how long of NC?

Any further update ma'am?

LOL, I did too!

@@RealCoachLee omg thanx for replying dear 💜 I’m soooo Grateful to u for ur videos 🥺 Here radio silence is going on for 2.5 months ! My ex is STUBBORN !!!

Yes I sure do!!

5 years??? It should never take that long... move on.

How are you doing now?

@msthebemoon Did he ever come back?

Does it always work? And, does it if the person who was broke up with reaches out? He asked about me at one point but then said he is content with how it is now. Then, I wrote him a message and he read it very early on a Saturday morning... I checked that morning because I had a dream about him and could tell when he read it. He didn’t respond. I sent one last message today and asked if we could talk, that I still love him and hate the thought of us never talking again. I also said I want him to be happy even if it’s not with me and if this is what he needs then I want to respect it. When we were together he said I was his soulmate, he looked for me for years... (we met 15 years ago). He said he loves me when he broke up with me too... I won’t message him anymore, this was my last shot

@@bailey1493 I feel very similar to your descriptions, feel like my ex is my soul mate even though we were only together for 7 months. It was like a happy content daydream. It has been over a year, and I still think about her every day. 15 years is a long time. Dont ever feel like this is your last shot. Never day never. Commit to your plan of strength. Do nc, when theyl talk to you again you know at least that they are open to talking.

@@dankline9162 Thank you, I appreciate that. It’s very hard.... He did respond to me but, ultimately said he’s not looking for a relationship situation and asked if I can deal with being friends. I know he still has some feelings... but I’m not sure what will happen. Don’t have much hope in it anymore. Have you tried to contact your ex?

@@dankline9162 Do you mean she asked you to meet up and then changed her mind? Try to be just friends, and see where to goes. It’s better than nothing... sort of like Clay Andrews teaches. Like in my situation, I’m taking it as an opportunity to show him we can be happy around each other and have good conversation. Our relationship wasn’t bad at all! There was just a lot going on and I was always stressed out and gave him a hard time for being friends with his sons mom. I didn’t understand their friendship at the time but, now I do. Since we broke up, my sons dad and I have learned to coparent as well. Have you and her talked again?

@@bailey1493 @Amanda Bailey Ive just recently talked to her some over the past month. She ranfomly asked whether i had an intimate video of the one time we got a hotel together for an event. Since I was on the phone already, I said I already gave them all on a CD. But she said she foesnt have a working player. So I said I could send her them, but not right away bc id have to convert the raw files. Later after thinking, I was afraid that she was asking just to attract some other guy, so I was asking around and searching what to do.. I talked with coach Craig and Margaret, since I couldn't get coach Lee at the time, which was frustrating bc instead of giving advice on what to do, they said to just keep working on myself, and to basically give up on her bc shes probably too young to want to commit! That was exactly how I felt about friendship back in February when she reached out and told her that its better than nothing, and at first she gave me hope in saying "see where it goes" but she retracted it probably bc I was too eager. Now I dont want it. Well I really want to, I just think its a weak position, im not being true to myself and her since I really want more, I'd feel really depressed and jealous if she was seeing someone else seriously, etc. But I also know she may need time and see other people to figure herself out. Idk.. I gave her the option to either get back together or be friends or nothing. I feel offering friendship was a mistake, and the best approach would be to start over with dating, platonic at first.

Julia Clair Taylor. I can recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you. It's excellent and it will help you. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

@@jannlewandowski5540 I already bought it.

​@@JuliaTaylorSoprano Thank you, Julia. You will love it!

At least you bothered to do all those things! Its excellent keep going x

And you replied each time she contacted? Or did you ignore until she messaged more?

I'm so happy for you 💓

You should answer but let them initiate ​@@brandonnykyforak

Good luck to you. Stay strong. Virtual hugs.

You know the answer to your question... believe your self and move on.

You should tell him to contact you if that relationship doesn't work out. Say that and move forward

@@spartanghost_17 no you should definitely NOT say that

Keep friends and family out of it. Do things with them to keep busy until you heal. They won't ever see things both ways. Pray, get a therapist, speak to a neutral party but you have to be 100 percent honest in what you say and explain. Friends and family mean well but listen and see with blinders on. Pray on it! Pray for direction for yourself, for help, for anything you need to know or do and take the time to heal, grow and learn who you are now and don't assume you're the same person you were before the relationship. You don't need much to be strong you just gotta choose to be. Day by day hour by hour minute by minute. You'll be OK! Trust God!

@ZytxHDx. Hang I there. Similar situation here.

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Any update?