I agree. How can someone go from "i love you" one day and one mistake that you make, makes them fall out of love? Ghosting? Like- was your love really that.... Fragile? How can you love me one day and not love me the next? How is that love?

same, i feel like for me i miss her more as time goes on, not less

@@eldin8910 that’s how it is for the first few weeks/months. That feeling will rise and rise and rise then peak, then slowly decline

Going through this right now. It wasnt even as big as something he did. I didn't give up ever and he gave up in a months time.

I know but all u have Do you if you want your Xbox is get yourself in the best shape possible have the best confidence the most confident self-esteem look your greatest and without a doubt they want you back hopefully at that time you’ll be too confident Ariel be really confident you would want them back

I’ve gone through a few breakups for me the only thing that worked was time and distractions after your finally over then you’ll feel a lot stronger mentally it’s gonna make you a better person good luck bro

@@loganswenor5213 thank you so much for replying! If you want to ever speak my messages are open. Talking to a stranger who goes through the same shit can be therapeutic. I’m struggling so much right now.

@@spiderofsorts7611 hey there. I'm going thru the same thing right now. Me and my girlfriend broken up after dating a year and 4 months. We're long distance, we've never met irl but we had smth special and we clicked instantly and shared deep connection. We've known each other for almost 4 years. The relationship was fun and healthy at first, but slowly it became toxic (mainly me) i have hard time communicate with her when she does smth i dislike cuz i dont want to end up fighting. So i just let it slide. My toxic behaviour mostly broke the rs. I sometimes speak before i think impulsively and she said i dont show her enough how much i care. In reality i have always loved and cared abt her to the most extent but sometimes i still fail to show it. She told me i mentally drained her and i have apologized to her many times and we just fought again last night so i think there's no chance for me and her. Sometimes i dont even know im being toxic until she points it out. I never cheat on her tho, i dont lie. Trust and loyalty was perfectly fine between us. It's just my behaviour that affected the rs. But now i realized it and i have apologized to her and actually working on myself to become better version of me before i love anyone else. And yes i feel like this pain will never stop but hang on there im taking one day at a time too. If you were the problem, pls sit back and realize what u did and maybe try and become better. If it's ur ex's fault, you need to wait for them to reach out and maybe they will fix the problems.

Yes. :( You’re not alone @Lonely Land. Good luck.

It's good pain bro

😂😂😂😂 I always wonder 🤔. I would be afraid to have a relationship with you 😜

@@mariatorres8997 cap

@coachlee kick this fool

no not his partner because he is not toxic he is a mature person

@@akashpandey792 nahh cuz no contact makes it hard for the ex, if he was begging and pleading then it would be easy for them to move away.

Holy shit dude! Did you actually count the days of you doing NC....That's hardcore man hahaha... Anyways congrats to your success

Thanks! It’s a great feeling but I just looked at the number of weeks and multiplied it by 7 😂

@@AnthonyPlayzz congratulations ,here one week NC ,so hard to continue

What dose she said ,update please

@@fiammagroen1226 Hey, if you are keeping up no contact, don't quit! I just want to say I made mistakes at the beginning mostly pleading and begging to get her back, but she still eventually came around so don't be down on yourself if you have made any! On my situation, she has been hot and cold to me, and im still trying to figure out what I want personally, but their are some challenges in our relationship that can't be solved at the moment which is mainly long distance and not being able to see each other because of covid. I know it is tough for you, it was a long four months for me, but trust no contact it does turn the tables. Just remember it dosent work every time and their is no time limit to it, if you are feeling down or really thinking about her come back to these videos and lisin to them and take it a day at a time. Take a look at the comment section to cheer you up as well thats what I did. The biggest thing is to work on yourself no matter what. Don't sit down all day do something or try to improve yourself the best you can! It might be confusing when she reaches out to you, you might not even want to get back together at that point. But watch these videos it really does help and it helps you understand relationships a lot more then you did before. Best of Luck! If you need someone to reach out to or anything or even text feel free to ask me!

Great news have fun in your life man all the best🤗

Regina Kart is he god 😅

Ilkan Ali because I still miss my ex Ofcourse

Ilkan Ali i wasn’t being sarcastic at all lol. I still miss my ex, but I’m also seeing someone new.

@@M_elliote34 best way to get over a girl is to be on top of a new one. Younger, richer, better looking, owns a chain the of liquor stores is gravy.

Hello all. It is so clear that the culture of obsession with sex in today’s society is deadly, devastating and destructive. It has devasted so many young lives through the massive spread of STDs, people going through break ups/being dumped multiple times and through many other negative consequences. I am a born again (evangelical) Christian. The bible forbids ALL sexual relations or sexual acts outside of sexual relations between one man married to one wife. Following this prescription in obedience to God will save you a lot of trouble and heartache in this life. You can be born again today. You can escape this destructive mindset of modern society today. You can do so by turning to Jesus Christ today and asking him to forgive your sinful life and give you a new life. That is what it means to be born again. No matter how messed up your life is today, Jesus can save you and give you a new life filled with peace and joy. Jesus said unless a man is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God (Gospel of John chapter 3 verse 3).

By me leaving my Husband 2 yrs ago, was the best thing thatI , could have done.2 years in Recovery from Alcohol, go to a meeting every day. He's still in his addiction. Don't want to change, so I had to move on, so I can have a peace of mind &, focus on my Recovery.

Well said Ivan. I agree 100%

💯🙌🏾

So basically you are a cliched your ex is an ex for a reason?

I find the reason we obsess so much when being dumped has a lot to do with the ego getting dumped. You don't realize how much you your ego controls that part of you.

Speech

Felt

Ur just confused time will tell u

@@reckzrs4113 I don't think he is confused, I think he is simply expressing how he feels.

TheSeattlegreen that’s confused because he wants her but and the same time he’s unsure

@@reckzrs4113 He never used the word "unsure" There are certain people in my life who I miss but I would never want to be with them again.

That's aweseome, Shawn Huff! Same with my parents. They got engaged after 2 mths of dating, married a few mths later. Still happy after 54 yrs together! In contrast, I've never been married and still trying to find what they have. I'm doomed. ha

There wasn't the easy choices of online dating then. There are so many choices nowadays, that everyone keeps thinking there is something better.

Stay close to God and ask Him to provide that for your life

Go back in time. Sorry but that doesn't exist anymore.

Its like winning the lottery hey

Awesome, stay strong!😎

@charlie did you get back your girlfriend?

How about if you lent them a lawnmower and they owe you money.....I probably won't see that.

Patience and building yourself is key. The amount of regret and sadness turned into strength and resilience will only prove that You survived and can survive a lot more. It's a huge dopamine hit and uplifting feeling. We got our power back. But work needs to be done. After that it's a win-win situation, no matter what is the outcome.

20 years ? .she don't want you !

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@Pablo udu unfortunately my x is married😂

True .. I dont wait .. I move on

Yes 😂 after breakup no contact forever 😹😹 because if they really loved u they wouldn't have put you in that situation to start with...

I know the feeling.. tapos MECQ pa.. going through a breakup as well. Just last month. Kapit lang tyo, we’ll get through this.

ishnookie y

Ako din. 3 months na after the break up and alam ko d na sya babalik kahit 3 and a half years kmi. kapit lang ako kina coach lee, coach craig, the dating guy and the love chat. sobrang nakakatulong!

Napansin ko lang.....daming breakups ngyayari this pandemic....siguro epekto to ng not being able to see each other.... Anyways stay strong mga Brads...Kaya naten to 💪

M H yes

What do I do about the situation. Hete we go no contact again. It's like when he has time for me then he calls.

same here idk what to do and I'm blocked through phone and insta I didn't even do anything wrong 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Ignore him again for a longer while. You came back this time... what about next time... what will they think if this no contact period lasts longer

If it ever goes that long I think I would talk to her. After all a talk is a talk, it doesn't have to mean "I desperately need you back" Like catching up. Who knows if it could get her to think about you a little more again. I am no relationship expert though.

Didier Mukendi nothing

Why do you say that?

Sara Perkins because I haven't heard a peep

Michael McGeehan well how long has it been? They may be giving you space

Sara Perkins 8 months - lockdown hasn't helped

Thank you

Myrtle Jennings You are So WELCOMED ! You and everyone on here have a right to be loved and To Be Exactly who we are.. And so Be it.. that we love our Ex’s...To me that means that we love through thick and Thin! God Bless you! 🙏🏻✝️❤️

Exactly

OH MY, PREACH TO YOU! I still love my ex dearly, currently in day 10 of no contact, and I watch coach Lee's videos to help me pull through daily. Whenever I go to the comments I feel like I'm being tested, or like I am wrong for loving a person who "dumped" me.

Alx NEVER ARE YOU WRONG FOR LOVING YOUR EX!!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️

How are you feeling now. It’s been almost a month for me and I still feel horrible

Shall we keep ourselves updated? I just finished day 5. Yeah, we used to talk pretty much everyday for more than a year. It is hard, but I believe I left some good reasons for her to remember me from time to time at least. We are doing well.

Keep going you’re doing great!!

Same here. I am wondering how is he now. I uninstalled my instagram and unfriended him on facebook. I did not publicly posts what i share on fb just to know that I'm not active.

i’m currently 2 weeks into no contact

@@user-ts7cr2nd9d any update?

Omg that’s me!! It’s been over 2 years I love him so much, I pray everyday he realizes what he lost

Jack- time to move on (probably should have started after 3 months). You deserve to be happy with or with them. If they come back, fine. If not, STILL FINE. Their loss- you must stay high value and respect yourself. 👍

Craig Kenneth is really good too. I've watched a number of videos from professionals, but coach Lee and Craig Kenneth are the best. Highly suggest trying his videos

@@LiLgPnoy15 yes I have watched also Craig Kenneth they're the best

How is it going now?

Just move on

How are you now?

@strumfury3210 how it went?

Ellie, good for you....👍

Update???

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Does he have depression and anxiety?

This happened to me

Avoidant personality doesn’t work well in a relationship

@@croatiancroissant28776 exactly they are so hard to be with at timed sigh

update?

For how long did you do no contact

@@samlove3239 about 7 weeks

Done with Suboxone Forever what did she say? How did it go

@@gusthethird9665 she said she loves me and can't imagine her future with anybody else! It's been a month and things have NEVER been better.

Was there a rebound involved?

You mean something like this? m.kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jpqfgqyDqpuvZI0.html

What does it mean if they move a bit away from me is There still a chance

How do I discard his stuff he left behind can not trust him anymore

How are you holding up?

Your ex came or not ❔❔

@@abhishekmandloi2507 he did not.

Yes! This topic please!

Yes please

No contact can bring back that emotional attraction once time goes by. Watch "your exes mind during no contact"

I dont think he's gay though

Update?

update?

@@fluxcobra3541 Still being blocked, but not chasing at all anymore. Just sent a letter for her birthday 2 months ago but no reply or anything. My attitude now is:'I've got to live in the present and not the past. If she comes back into my present, fine. If someone else enters, also fine' But deep down heart you cheer a lil hope that your ex /specific other comes back.

@@larsdewolf6311 I feel u man, I believe in you. Someday you will meet somebody who really loves you like you deserve. Good luck and take care King!

how are you holding up?

@@yeuruuerueeheue you try to keep going... I´m a year in a new relationship but I sometimes keep thinking 'bout my ex. And strange or not. After so many years I might have dreams about her. Makes me kinda sad or hopefull but already have a relationship so got to focus on that... It's just hard to give the same amount of love to girlfriend now when you still 'love' the other in a certain way. Hope yours come back and stays with you. Greets

That's what happened to me. I am still in love with this beautiful, pure woman. Never once in my life have I ever had a woman tell me she loves me, not even once until this woman. In my mid upper twenties and she is the first. We broke because she has some mental stuff going on as well as losing family and it has stressed her out, made her betray her heart. And decided to end it with me oct 3rd 2022. I wish I could take all her pain away and destroy it.

@@senatorarmstrong9459 I feel you. I'd just add a perspective to help you (probably months later as you likely don't want to hear it now): upper twenties is quite young. You'll get more chances. I'm much older and way too wary now to strive for a long term relationship ever again. It's way too easy even for the "good girls" to break a relationship since there is no social pressure anymore to stay in one. Even when their friends or family likes you, "toleration" is so above anything else today that they'll just support her choice, regardless. Yours seems a good case to use No Contact though, for sure. Stay strong.

@@MVProfits she told her mom, dad, aunt's and uncles that she loved me, which if you aren't in love with someone, you wouldn't have them meet all of them, and then tell them, you told your family you love them. I know deep down she is going through a hell I wish she wasn't, and her mind is betraying her heart. I have broke some of the no contact rule, but I need to abide by it for now. I really appreciate your insight and perspective.

@@MVProfits I strive for one with this woman because the level of connection there was the very first time her sister, and my good friend introduced me to her, was something truly powerful, close to movie level powerful, and it only blossomed from there. She did something for me on our vacation and told me while looking me in my eyes with all the compassion she had that she loved me. I just hope she gets better, and does what she needs to for her, I wouldn't have it any other way friend.

I'm in the same situation .. hoping for great end result. Wishing you the best as well

same here guys! good luck all around!

We got this😎

Update please

Just curious...What is the cause of the breakup? Did she loss feelings out of nowhere, Did she cheat? Or Maybe she got smothered?....Care to share?

Spitfire Nation to be honest it was me, Covid made me very stress because I didn’t know if I was going to be laid off and I had no idea how to pay my bills so I became very distant and emotionally lost connection with her, at the same time she was also stressed about everything going on so me adding to that stress and not being my normal self with her. So yeah I have used this time wisely since then.

It’s funny, my ex reached out to me yesterday after 2 weeks of no contact. She had come to a place near my job with some friends, and wanted to see if I was still at work so she could see me. Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately) I had left home a couple of minutes before she messaged me. Curious, what are some things you found really effective in helping you move forward until they eventually reached out again?

Alex Wilson hmm... did you message her after not seeing her? Well to be honest I started working out A LOT, I’m currently in the best shape of my life and the day she messaged me I posted a photo of me at the pool so I’m kinda thinking that she messaged me because of that 😬 lolol But like I said working out is only a small part of it, I also did TONS of meditation to destress myself. I also found reading and walking in the park to be a good way to help focus the mind. And of course Coach Lees vids have help a lot also. Hope this info helps 🙇🏻‍♂️✨

Jonny Barrera Yeah that’s fine, go right ahead :)

Get over her dude.... Cheaters that have u emotional attached still... Your not moving on properly

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