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3 ай бұрынI MISSPOKE, I'M SO SORRY!
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@trishforster9234 3 ай бұрын
KELLIE, precious woman, YOU ARE IN GRIEF PROCESS…NO APOLOGIES EVER NEEDED!
@65lalur 3 ай бұрын
X1000 🌷
@jesseka77 3 ай бұрын
This apology makes me sick! She's grieving and having to apologize for her own thoughts and words. Thank you for reminding her that she needs to do and say what she needs to.
@acnacn1861 3 ай бұрын
💐
@DJE5966 3 ай бұрын
Amen!
@sharondavisson4149 3 ай бұрын
I agree 💯
@janetharlow414 3 ай бұрын
This woman just lost her only son and first born. How dare any of you to be rude. You should be ashamed of yourselves. So what she missed spoke. I'm so angry anyone was rude to her. K, I love you.
@DianeRHawes 3 ай бұрын
Same here!!
@meredithpaynter5160 3 ай бұрын
Ditto.
@mamalaw5 3 ай бұрын
Same!!
@lorifiyak9881 3 ай бұрын
Well said!
@elliemcgettigan4366 3 ай бұрын
I agree with your comment!
@charlottemiller961 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, you do not need to apologize! You have every right to say what you are feeling and what you have been through! Ray needed the pain medicine, and we understand!
@hollieverafter 3 ай бұрын
Semantics. Anyone who doesn’t understand what you MEANT doesn’t understand your heart, which is ridiculous. Kelly, you are a wonderful mom and human being. ❤
@kimberlymiller655 3 ай бұрын
Right. I understood that too.
@jaynapicantine6726 3 ай бұрын
Semantics! Exactly my thoughts too!
@YayasWhimsicalBrush 3 ай бұрын
AMEN!
@jillianchavez2883 3 ай бұрын
You should never have to apologize for your own feelings when it comes to your son, your story, your life. It’s your life Kelly and I believe no one should shame you for that.
@MariaFlores-ql1rg 3 ай бұрын
1000% AGREE
@deborahmakray4505 3 ай бұрын
If someone was offended by anything that you said then or say now while in your grief, you do not need that person or persons in your life. How disgusting to call you out. I feel your pain, your sadness, and all the other emotions that you are feeling, because I am human, and so are you. Please do not ever apologize for what you are going through. You lost a child, and you can deal with that it whatever way gets you through.
@debbiesscrapbookingroom4245 3 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!!! Never apologize! EVER!!!
@bethbrown6155 3 ай бұрын
Oh, for Pete's sake you do not owe anybody an apology!! The word dependent and addicted is the same thing. Nobody thought that you were saying that your son was an addict. We understand completely what he was going through. Folks need to stop being so offended by these things. You were speaking from your heart. Your son was an amazing young man who was taken way too soon. I'm so sorry for your loss. I have not lost a child......and I can only imagine what you have been through. God bless you (((HUGS)))
@kimwatts6338 3 ай бұрын
❤ I too agree! Please know the majority of us agree that you should not apologize and know the context you meant. This is your journey, nobody has the right to shame anyone.
@lifeisgood-victoria796 3 ай бұрын
Oh, Kelly, NO APOLOGIES NEEDED! Whoever is demanding that you apologize did NOT listen to what you said. Whoever is offended by what you said, have no idea of what is to go through someone in pain. YOU DID NOT OFFEND ME at all I understood perfectly.
@Desaree1 3 ай бұрын
maam I'm an addict and have been for over 3 decades sweetheart as an addict no offense here!! ppl may become physically depencdent it happens to the best of folks. That is not his fault. I go through everything your dh went through too so even tho the feelings are the same they come from different situations.
@lisasophierb735 3 ай бұрын
Same
@margaretsmithallen8216 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, I am an RN. There are times when treating the cancer pain is so much more important than if the person becomes addicted or dependent. Quality of life is the most important and pain control really does help the quality of life. I grow weary of people becoming so offended at innocent word usage as with what happened to you. You were correct. Beat the cancer then deal with the issues that may arise from it. You are a kind and loving warrior for your son and your love and support gave him all he could ever ask for in a Mother in his life. God bless you and hold your head high. As a Mother myself, I know what you have lost.
@joannefeiock1411 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, Just be you !! You are a grieving mother……. These people are so cruel, they think they are “above everyone else “. Hang in there Momma, hug your girls closer & grieve you baby 🥰🥰🤷♀️🤷♀️
@EweTube4 3 ай бұрын
Honestly, this is your journey. We are not walking your walk.
@coltsgurl4u 3 ай бұрын
I am just blown away at the audacity of people. You are a light in this dark, dark world by showing you are the bigger person even when going through your own storm! People who had no right to judge your choice of words used simply to express your feelings. Yet, you showed grace, compassion, and true repentance to those people. Kelly, you are amazing. Never forget that! ❤
@tbearies 3 ай бұрын
You didn’t mis-speak. You are a grieving mother. You are a wonderful person who shares with us the easy and hard parts of life. Don’t apologize, please. Love you!
@tarynkriebel319 3 ай бұрын
YOU DID NOT LET HIM DOWN! You are a wonderful mother💜
@ameliajohnson1149 3 ай бұрын
If I could triple thumbs up you, I would
@deborahanneohara9386 3 ай бұрын
No, you didn't let Ray down! I would have done anything, said anything that would have helped my boy in any way! Ray knows your heart, Ray sees you, hears you now......🕊
@BellaButterscotch 3 ай бұрын
💜💜💜💜💜
@karenpowell-brooks1301 3 ай бұрын
Those people who complained to Kelly and made her feel bad need to shut up and get over themselves!!! Kelly is a good person and a good mom. Leave her alone.
@leslievalenciano-lopez8887 3 ай бұрын
I agree! You did exactly what a loving mom should do!🙏🏻❤️
@jodilea144 3 ай бұрын
It’s such a sad example of what this world has come to, that a grieving mother feels the need to apologize for offending people on the internet. Kelly, you and your family are still in, and will continue to be, in our prayers. 🩷
@michelleblackley9770 3 ай бұрын
I completely agree! Shame on the individual or individuals who called her out! You were not there, you were not living what this family was going through. It is so disgusting that someone would call her out for this.
@kimkelly9046 3 ай бұрын
Perfectly said
@lisa-gayle9939 3 ай бұрын
I agree 100%! What kind of person says ANYTHING negative to a Mother that’s going through what Kelly is going through. It really is disgusting! 🙏🏻❤️to you Kelly!
@blucky1250 3 ай бұрын
Amen !
@blessedbeyond2118 3 ай бұрын
Always gotta make it about themselves
@sherryebridwell8663 3 ай бұрын
No one from my prospective, should have been offended, hurt feelings! I am a retired Nurse and understand your word usage! I have prayed for you and Ray! You didn’t lie to him, you never never take away someone’s hope! My heart goes out to you!❤️❤️❤️
@westernskies2199 3 ай бұрын
@sherrybridwell8663 Words of wisdom.❤
@nikiculpitt4888 3 ай бұрын
You didn't let him down! You were right by his side helping him along, being a great mom!!❤
@madrinemeans1699 3 ай бұрын
Please give yourself some grace, my friend! As a former hospice nurse, I would see so many families struggle with how pain control affected their loved ones. You don't owe apologies. We owe you support. Grief is so hard.
@catwoman520 3 ай бұрын
Every person who had negative comments on this channel should apologize to her!
@user-mi3oc8pk8c 3 ай бұрын
AMENto that!
@silver_csmith 3 ай бұрын
Kelly we understood what you were saying. Someone can be dependent ….because they need that medication in order to get through the pain and there are ones that you can’t just stop taking. And yes, medications can change a person…but dealing with a lot of chronic pain/health issues can affect them as well! I never took what you said as calling your son a drug addict…The fact that whoever was making negative comments about your wording of things has clearly NOT had to deal with any sort of pain or health issues….or seen a loved one that has either. People are SO quick to comment on things these days when they have no business!! Until someone has “walked a mile” in someone else’s shoes they have no reason to give their negative 2 cents!! Please let’s keep things positive here people!! Nothing but love and prayers for you and your girls!! 🫶🏻🙏🏼❤️
@user-sd6iv3xw6s 3 ай бұрын
Kelly no need to apologise I admire you in so many ways you are an amazing mom and a beautiful person
@GetCraftyLemons 3 ай бұрын
Amen to all of you on here!!! I made a huge post as was in medical field 20 years and have lost family & friends to cancer and know people who had horrible injuries in car wrecks. People should really work on their empathy and compassion skills!!!
@teresalegum4049 3 ай бұрын
And let’s not forget that this woman absolutely does not need to be beat up by viewers comments
@galebelson3395 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Can we shame the people who have no empathy?
@alyciawieler2800 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this, I have seen medically dependent and addiction and honestly there's no difference.the brain doesn't differentiate as far as I know.
@user-xz1vb9wq8l 3 ай бұрын
Amen. Kelly has been through enough. Leave her alone. ❤ If you can't say anything nice and encouraging, shut up and don't say anything. Sweet Kelly just ignore the bad comments. You have done nothing to apologize for. ❤❤
@amydisch7858 3 ай бұрын
Amen ❣️
@danielliott5736 3 ай бұрын
@@galebelson3395❤
@todaysbeautiful4212 3 ай бұрын
Dear Kelly, You have nothing to apologize for. You, your poor son and your family have suffered so much. He needed it for his pain. And you are a great mom for giving him hope. That hope helped all of you deal with this disease and to get through each day. Be kind and gentle with yourself and your girls. God Bless You! ❤
@kimbah66 3 ай бұрын
Kelly… you did NOT let Ray down… you were giving him the HOPE that you as his mom had in every fiber of your being…. Isn’t that a mom’s job? I think it is. When you mentioned feeling “alone”… I know what you mean… I still feel the same way after losing My son. It’s a club no mother wants to belong to. You talking about your journey has made ME feel… not so alone.😢. Thank you Miss Kelly for sharing Ray with us… and sharing your journey. ❤❤
@shelleyjoe8774 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, my goodness girl, are you kidding me? No apologies anymore, not even one. You are the most precious, kind woman. Leave it right there. Blessings and Love,
@justagirlnamedshawn 3 ай бұрын
I agree 100 percent, absolutely no apologies!
@craftycat1185 3 ай бұрын
Also agree💯She’s a fantastic, loving, kind and wonderful mom. Bless your heart Kelly❤️
@debbiecopping7917 3 ай бұрын
Kelly you don't need to apologize you are still a grieving Mom who did the best to your ability to care for Ray. I am so sorry someone would even comment bad things to you, especially if they have never lost a child. Cancer is a terrible disease and I admire your strength and courage! Sending blessings ❤ From Canada Ontario🇨🇦
@tarynkriebel319 3 ай бұрын
I don’t see you ever intentionally upsetting someone?
@BellaButterscotch 3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@sallyhodges6369 3 ай бұрын
I just lost my son two weeks ago and you should never apologize for anything you are feeling. It’s a journey I hope most Mothers never experience. Prayers, hugs and much peace and love.
@tarynkriebel319 3 ай бұрын
@@sallyhodges6369 bless you sweetie 💜💙💜
@lceec7012 3 ай бұрын
So true!
@starlenematchett2026 3 ай бұрын
❤❤
@lindarock3946 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, you DO NOT apologize . I thank you for sharing this journey 🙏 ❤️ I can't believe that people called you out on this. Come on, people, give this family a break . Sending you prayers and positive thoughts. You will get through this one day at a time.
@soniagiles8221 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, no apologies needed, you and your family are grieving an enormous loss. What you need is all the positive energy and support and prayers from those who have been following you through this difficult time 🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹
@marthabarron7854 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, you DON'T NEED TO APOLOGIZE. This is your truth. I knew exactly what you were saying.
@terrikimberling4876 3 ай бұрын
Same here. I knew exactly what she was saying as I have someone close to me who went through the same thing. My goodness people…she’s a grieving mother.
@momackenzie5867 3 ай бұрын
Me too. As a retired RN, I completely understood what u were saying. Please give yourself some grace. Anyone who’s been following ur journey for a while, is under no illusion of your purest of intention. Ray was loved & cared for impeccably by you & your girls …. Please show yourself that same level of love Kelly x
@westernskies2199 3 ай бұрын
@@momackenzie5867 Truth! ❤❤❤
@KayHutchens 3 ай бұрын
I CANNOT believe people have caused YOU to have to apologize! YOU say what YOU want and NEED to! People are so touchy these days! NO ONE understands what any of us are going through and if things aren’t articulated perfectly for everyone, they need to mind their own business and move on. You are sharing a very private part of your life to help others and the majority of us thank you…and love you. NEVER feel the need to apologize again! You do You!
@xmasbaby2574 3 ай бұрын
One gazillion percent agree!!
@KiKiQuiQuiKiKi 3 ай бұрын
❣️❣️❣️Exactly, your openness helps closed off people (like me) more than you will ever know❣️❣️❣️
@karenhay8455 3 ай бұрын
So well said!
@pollynye477 3 ай бұрын
Amen! Enough is enough!😊
@lisajames8653 3 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry people are worrying about a use of words. My mamma’s heart breaks w you.
@amyburwell5005 3 ай бұрын
Kelly. You are a mother who is grieving and you don't need to apologize for nothing. I could never imagine walking in your shoes. I'm sending nothing but love your way❤ but most of all my deepest sympathy.
@eleanormay729 3 ай бұрын
No apologies needed, you are grieving. We are all with you and supporting you. Love and hugs.
@MsV405 3 ай бұрын
How DARE anyone come on here and make you feel like you have to explain yourself! You do NOT have to apologize to people on the internet that can't understand or empathize with you and your journey. No matter what word you use to describe Ray's battle, it doesn't change the facts. We that love you are here to listen and support you. I have loved you and enjoyed watching all your DIYs for years prior to Ray's diagnosis and I love you more for your strength. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. You are amazing!
@judyspady4692 3 ай бұрын
Exactly!!! Those who are ADDICTED just have to bully others for their own gain. How sad.
@SunCountryCrafts-tj5yp 3 ай бұрын
I totally agree!!
@annawhittle652 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree ❤❤
@lindaarnold4590 3 ай бұрын
I agree!
@Kelliseven 3 ай бұрын
The nerve of people to raise such petty objections 👎 God bless you, beautiful Kelly. ❤
@SunCountryCrafts-tj5yp 3 ай бұрын
Exactly it is disgusting. why do people feel the need to put so much emphasies on things
@bonniethomas6421 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, you never need to apologize for sharing your heart. Prayers continue for you and the girls.
@grammybear2117 Ай бұрын
I'm an addicts mother. She died because of her addictions. I admire you and that you shared your story. You are a brave family, you had a courageous son. Your words are yours. You did your best. He did his best & fought for his life. Be proud of that. Your story is powerful. Don't be sorry for a choice of words.
@cheriebrittin7627 3 ай бұрын
You did not let Ray down Kelly, you were giving him hope. You’re a wonderful mother. Sending you hugs. ❤
@bettygann4628 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely a wonderful Mother!! No apologizing necessary.. GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILY..
@pparisihanuman 3 ай бұрын
I totally agree. YOU DID NOT LET Ray Down-don't EVER Think that. You and the girls are on my heart. Sending you Love, Hugs and Prayers 🙏 ❤
@deborahanderson1686 3 ай бұрын
I fully understand. I lost my son 2 years ago. I’m sorry viewers put you in a place where you feel the need to apologize. Give yourself grace. Ray was a very blessed young man, having such a loving, dedicated mom. You are in my prayers sweet Kelly.
@lisasophierb735 3 ай бұрын
Beautifully said 🙏
@lceec7012 3 ай бұрын
Beautifully said!
@cathiereyes2133 3 ай бұрын
Beautifully said ❤❤❤❤
@cindywalters7013 3 ай бұрын
This is so true.
@christywebb4730 3 ай бұрын
I’m a nurse, and I’m so surprised that people would be offended by your journey. We don’t always know how to articulate certain things, but you are mourning the loss of your son. Shame on those that made you feel like you had to apologize. People are selfish to make it about themselves.
@jillsetzer4637 3 ай бұрын
Kellie, this bought me to tears. Seeing you having to feel you needed to apologize to these people. How rude, uncaring for these people to cause you this grief on top of the grief you are already feeling. My prayers and thoughts are with you dear Lady.❤
@cassiew1734 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, give yourself grace and continue to heal. May God bless you and your girls. RIP Ray. 💜
@juliettelaslett6906 3 ай бұрын
Oh dear Kelly, you do not need another single thing to worry about. You are grieving. You are the sweetest person to worry about others as you continue to grieve. Allow yourself grace. I hope everyone will allow you that and time. Sending hugs to you and the girls. Xoxo
@Debisjoy 3 ай бұрын
Amen, give yourself grace sweetie
@danielleedwards9210 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@melindaonamission9511 3 ай бұрын
You didnt say he was an addict. You said he was addicted which was probably true in the physical sense. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. ❤
@WJW1024 2 ай бұрын
Kelly, you did what was needed in order to keep Ray as comfortable as possible!
@lindadevine9513 3 ай бұрын
Please Kelly don't ever apologize for you feeling and your journey through this aweful cancer battle with you precious boy Ray! You shared how you felt and this is the way you ate grieveing. There are many emotions to the grieving process and you entitled to feel and express them all. God Bless you Kelly and the girls!
@toniefrank 3 ай бұрын
Wow! I cannot believe anyone would dare say a word to a grieving Mother due to their own substance abuse!!! How dare these people! How low! I don’t care who they are or what their problems are you do not owe them an apology!!!! It’s absolutely disgusting! I’m sorry Kelly! God bless you and your family! Please don’t give these people or their comments a second thought!!! You will NEVER loose your real supporters!
@leowife9370 3 ай бұрын
100%!!! Anyone watching this should not have taken offense to what she said. Unbelievable.
@vahneb7260 3 ай бұрын
Ditto. ❤
@margaritamartinez688 3 ай бұрын
You don't have to apologize to nobody else. They don't know what is goings-on in our hearts we we loose a child.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🫰🫰🫰🫰
@marcydeziga1958 3 ай бұрын
I truly feel the same way. Kelly was just telling her story of what she saw and felt. This was her point of view. You can't judge her for it!!! So sorry for her having to apologize, uncalled for. God Bless You Kelly & your Girls. We all love you.
@xmasbaby2574 3 ай бұрын
Agreed!!!
@susieq3765 3 ай бұрын
It's baffling that commenters would be so cruel as to lambaste a grieving mom for expressing what was in her heart. So sorry you had to endure this, on top of everything else, Kelly. ❤
@gotgiraffes2 3 ай бұрын
Amen!!!!!!!
@angielindsey7390 3 ай бұрын
Agree! Makes me so mad that it seems to be our new world. Lost our compassion and kindness. ❤
@beckystewart4423 3 ай бұрын
You do not owe any apologies. We are not suppose to bury our children. You are a grieving mother. Continued prayers dear lady. ❤ 🙏 ❤️
@MomCat03 3 ай бұрын
My only comment? We are praying for you and the family and will be continuing to pray…and pray that you FEEL the prayers we and everyone are praying!🙏❤
@darlasmith5049 3 ай бұрын
I have a daughter who is addicted but I truly understood what you meant. Please don’t feel bad. I was not offended.
@marykunselman284 3 ай бұрын
I had a daughter that was addicted she died 9 years ago I love and think of her everyday I am raising he son
@craftycrab63 3 ай бұрын
❤ Kelly there's no need for an apology. I have a son who is like a year younger then Ray. I can't even imagine to go through what you went through. Like others have said on here you are grieving mother right now. There's no such thing as miss speaking at a time like this in your life. I blame this on social media because people just love to get in other people's business. You were only trying to be positive in a situation like this with Ray don't feel like you lied to him. When someone is going through something as serious as Ray did they need positivity. They need their hopes kept alive. Kelly you are a caring, wonderful, strong woman and mother. Like someone once said 😊 stay positive cuz I know I sure am!😊
@danielleedwards9210 3 ай бұрын
My father died of brain cancer and had a constant Morphine drip at the end. If he didn’t have it things were not ok. His body was addicted to the chemical compound of the medication!! No offense taken from me.
@darlasmith5049 3 ай бұрын
@@marykunselman284I’m sorry to hear she passed.
@soonzach4017 3 ай бұрын
Kelly,you don’t need to apologies, you are a grieving mom 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@deborahtaylor784 3 ай бұрын
Dear Kelly, It is your truth. No need to apologize. We understood what you were telling us. Praying for your strength.
@crystalshellabarger9095 3 ай бұрын
No one should scrutinize you while you grieve. An apology was not needed. Sending lots of love to you and your girls. 🤍
@jbarnes456 3 ай бұрын
People actually gave you heck for saying Ray was addicted to his painkillers? Any of you that did this to her should be ashamed of yourselves. Kelly, most of us would never judge you for ANYTHING. We want you just the way you are and so many of us love you and care about you. Listen to us and not the haters. No need to feel guilty. Praying for you.
@Kimmie-C33 3 ай бұрын
I AGREE!! Makes me so mad! How dare they..reach out to her and make her feel bad!!
@angelacimmino1102 3 ай бұрын
We grieving mothers are in shock for a very long time after losing our children to cancer. I am seven years in. My son Dan was only 28 and even though he went through several surgeries, procedures, and four different types of chemo for ten months, none of it worked. Do not apologize, Kelly. Stop beating yourself up. You are never alone. ❤
@bettygentry9672 3 ай бұрын
❤🙏
@jenniferkennedy4225 3 ай бұрын
My beloved Kelly! I continue to pray you and the girls. I wasn't offended at all and no reason to apologize. No one can make negative comments unless they lose a child. This is your time to grieve and not worried about negative thoughts and comments others are making. I love you all, and God Bless.
@DianneW15 3 ай бұрын
I cannot believe people are attacking a grieving mother because they didn’t like how she worded something. The mind boggles. It must be nice to be so perfect that they feel the need to be horrid. I’m sorry Kellie that people are so terrible 😞
@pennynoto1 3 ай бұрын
Nothing to be sorry for. Ray was blessed to have you as his mom.
@dottytyrrell5662 3 ай бұрын
Shame on those who criticize you for expressing your grief. You should not have to apologize for words that you use. People get offended too easily. You are a GOOD mother. May the Lord comfort you and the girls.
@victoriathomas1393 3 ай бұрын
Never apologize Kelly for trying to explain your grief process and the terrible experience you have all suffered! You don’t have to and those who take your words out of context should be ashamed of themselves! Take good care of your self ❤ you will get through all of this in time.
@charliewalsh2418 2 ай бұрын
Kelly you are a wonderful mother. You did everything in your power to take care your beloved son. You should never feel the need to apologize to these insensitive people. I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your daughters are in my prayers 🙏
@MrKathiejean 3 ай бұрын
Kelly!!! Ignore comments regarding dependant and addicted!! You are Not responsible to answer to people who decide to nit pick. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and your love for Ray. I have been watching you since before your mom passed, before covid, before divorce and when Ray was diagnosed I thought he would be ok in the end. What a wonderful young man. I've never commented on your channel. I watch from my TV. But you did NOT misspeak at all. Thanks for sharing and please continue. I loved what you did with Ray's house. What a loss and what a beautiful tribute at his funeral and the drive by s and all the wonderful ways his community supported and showed love for him and for your family. This journey is yours and yours alone. Nobody defines how you share it or how you word that journey. I'm just grateful to have been privy and I admire you and I miss Ray. And I didn't even know him but I felt like I did thanks to you and the way you've honored and loved him til the end.
@YayasWhimsicalBrush 3 ай бұрын
You said that perfectly! I think quite a few of us have been here when she had her little desk set up and her long, long hair and 2 tone nail polish! Kelly, we ALL know your heart. It's not in you to intentionally cause pain or do harm. In life, some people have to fall away like chafe so that the best wheat berries can thrive and grow! Don't worry about the chafe, God has Ray, and he has you, Kayla, Alli, and Jeff! Hugs my amazing friend
@Denise_B17 3 ай бұрын
Agree 💯
@michelalex7069 3 ай бұрын
I agree!
@angielindsey7390 3 ай бұрын
Big AGREE!
@debigraubergerleal7585 3 ай бұрын
So agree. You owe no apologies to anyone! Good grief you are going through grief and have been through so much! People need to give you some grace as you need to give yourself Grace as well!
@barbh2733 3 ай бұрын
I’m blown away with the insensitivity of those who were “offended” by your words. What has happened to grace and kindness? I am so very sorry for your loss.
@angielindsey7390 3 ай бұрын
Exactly! Humanity has taken a turn and all the compassion and kindness is slowly leaving us and its sad. ❤
@janetyamashige9573 3 ай бұрын
They went right out the window, along with logic and reason. Being offended is the national sport these days.
@karlalogsdon9944 3 ай бұрын
You are going through grieving right now and shame on those that are knick picking your words! I too just went through all of this last year and I truly believed and said the same things! You can never be prepared to loose a love one. Forget about all the negative comments and give yourself time for grieving. Please take care of yourself.
@kimberlyjeanpierre7540 2 ай бұрын
@angielindsey7390 some feel they can say anything under anonymity..
@Therusticvinetx 3 ай бұрын
The fact that you have to explain yourself and watch every single word you say during a time like this is just absurd! Bless you!!! 😢
@JESUSisLoveneverhate 3 ай бұрын
People need to go have several seats!!! You deserve so much grace right now. You don't owe anyone an apology!!!❤❤❤
@megkilloran1712 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, the majority of us understood what you meant by your words. Don't ever think that you let lay down. You were there for him every single step of the way with a kind of support that you can only get from a mom. You did your best and he did his best to beat this. My heart still breaks for you and your family everyday. No mother should have to bury her child. Especially at such a young age. You have nothing to apologize for. We are with you. You will continue to be in my prayers as you continue this journey.❤
@KimberlyLetsGo 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, this is a time we ALL need to give you grace. You have never hurt anyone much less your followers who don't even know you and you don't know us. Shame on anyone that felt the need to scold a mother that is grieving so hard. Tons of and tons of hugs to you and the girls, Kelly.
@mycraftoasis 3 ай бұрын
Precious Kelly, please don’t let beat yourself up. I lost my son in 2021 and the experience with hospice, the pain meds, the grief, the anger and most of all no time to express all the love I had. So hard knowing I had no power to change the outcome. Your openness and sharing has helped me to continue to heal too. Thank you for sharing. I think of my son every day still and I am thankful for the years we had with him. I love the memories. ❤❤
@Sunshine33333 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, please don't apologize, we understand your intentions with your explanation. You are, have been and always will be an incredible mother to your children, Always in my thoughts and prayers, God bless you and your girls and those precious pups too.
@terryc1445 3 ай бұрын
You are only human, Kelly, speaking from your heart, trying to help others. ❤
@rhondajones4369 3 ай бұрын
I am in shock that people do not have the sense to understand you are in the depths of grieving. This is your channel and if someone feels the need to attack you then they need to go away. Kelly, you never let Ray down❤
@cally329 3 ай бұрын
Kelly. I am so sorry that you feel like you need to apologize for anything you said. You were talking about your son and your experience only. Blessings to you and your family. ❤
@tracyrhyno35 3 ай бұрын
Sweet, sweet Kelly ❤❤❤ You are one of a kind ❤❤❤ Please, please, please, never,ever, stop being you, You are truly genuine and such a good person!!! You have helped so many!!! Thank you ❤Thank you ❤️ Thank you❤❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@SusiJ64 3 ай бұрын
I don’t think you labeled anything….it was your family’s experience. You owe nothing.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@denisehastings9262 3 ай бұрын
You should never be sorry for how you feel !! You have had a rough time over the past months and no one should judge you. You have my complete support ❤️
@kmg0125 3 ай бұрын
Kelly those of us who have been here with you for a long time understand. Your grief as a mom is overwhelming and there is no doubt in any of our minds you always had Rays best interest in your heart. Give yourself the time and grace to grieve. 💜
@fantan04 3 ай бұрын
I am absolutely staggered! As if you haven't been through enough! 😢 NO APOLOGY NECESSARY - on any count! You are an amazing person and I admire you greatly and I see you grieving after losing your beautiful boy and all I want to do is hug you tight. Please, please don't dwell on the negative comments anymore! You can see from all these comments that you are loved and you are respected. God bless sweet lady - we love you! ❤❤❤
@tracilynn05 3 ай бұрын
My dad was in the ER and told me he was scared. I told him that I wouldn’t let anything happen to him. He died 10 minutes later. This happened in 1987. I still carry the guilt that I let him down. I couldn’t save him. He was born with a hole in his heart. He died at 45 years old. I was 21. I was devastated and started drinking heavily. You did not let him down! You are a great mother! People need to relax! Keep doing great things!
@marianneshepard5980 3 ай бұрын
Sometimes reassuring our loved ones is the biggest gift we can give them whether it works out or not. You did the best you could at the time.
@KiKiQuiQuiKiKi 3 ай бұрын
You did not let your daddy down. You gave him the comfort, love, support and HOPE that he needed at that moment. He is beaming his love and pride in you down from heaven and is in complete peace.
@veronicanoriega918 3 ай бұрын
God bless you for your grief. There was nothing you could of done. Dont carry that burden. God comes for us when he's ready. You were there by your dad's side to make him feel love.
@Swist1213 3 ай бұрын
You gave him comfort in his last moments. I can only hope that something will be there for me when I am in the same situation. I do understand how you feel, though. I found my mom deceased in my house four years ago (she lived with us for over 30 years) and I still feel remorse and guilt she did so much for me but that she died alone. Some things are just out of our hands.
@rosebud3510 3 ай бұрын
I agree with others. You didn’t let your dad down. He was scared & you were there to comfort him. Don’t feel guilty about that. You did your best & he knows that. He doesn’t blame you.
@donnasymoniak5280 3 ай бұрын
That never entered my mind when I was listening to you explaining your journey. Kelly, my heart just breaks that you have to go through this.❤
@MyHeartandHandShop 3 ай бұрын
No apologies needed! You are grieving. My heart goes out to you and your family on your great loss of your beloved son. You’ve been through unbelievable pain. Bless your dear heart!🙏🏻💕
@kathyparish4717 3 ай бұрын
Shame on all of those people that nit picked your choice of words. SHAME ON THEM, you owe them nothing. I'm sorry for your pain. I myself and a grieving mother who lost her only daughter two years ago. I thank you for your sharing this most painful part of your life. As it has been a help to me.
@cecenelson2194 3 ай бұрын
Sweet lady, those of us who have made the cancer journey with people we love understand completely. Please, please don’t beat yourself up over this. The things you said to your son were said out of love, & your hope for his recovery. I am so sorry for the loss.
@scrapqueen65 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, please! You owe no one an apology or an explanation. Ignore those who say otherwise! No one knows your feelings or struggles. Those who took offense were just looking for something to attack you on. Love you so much!❤️❤️❤️
@debracutler6847 3 ай бұрын
SHAME on those people!!!!!!😢 Do unto others as you would have done unto yourself. ALSO........ We rise by lifting others! Not tear them down to make you feel like you are all that. Kelly you're amazing. Being so strong. I've prayed and cried with you all the way. God bless
@user-bi8yd2ew5w 3 ай бұрын
Kelly don’t you apologize. You don’t need too. Prayers to you and your family.
@kathywestermann6277 3 ай бұрын
I just want to say that we love you Kelly. You don’t need to apologize.
@susanq24 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, I think you articulate very well when you're on your channel talking about your story. No one should be faulting you for using one word instead of another. I'm sure most of us understood what you were saying regarding the opioids. You are brave to be telling your story in such an open and honest way. You're such a kind soul apologizing to people while you're grieving and please, never doubt what an incredible mother you are. You didn't lie to Ray, you gave him hope that he needed.
@mariecaldwell4855 3 ай бұрын
Yes! you gave him hope and I'm sure that is what kept him going!!
@lceec7012 3 ай бұрын
So perfectly said!
@emilywaite3079 3 ай бұрын
You and your family have been through so much. You don't have to apologize to anyone. ❤
@susansalcido8257 3 ай бұрын
❤ my sweet kelly, you should not have to apologize for your feelings or choice of words of your journey, if anything, we should ALL be appreciative that you chose to and are still sharing your journey, your choice of words should be the least of anyones worries, and i dont feel that anyone should had felt offended as this is YOUR STORY AND YOUR JOURNEY. ❤❤❤❤
@lynnjohnk505 3 ай бұрын
I’ve lost a child to cancer. No one will understand your loss and what you went thru except another mother who has watched their child slowly die of this horrid disease! No apology is necessary. Shame on anyone who made you feel like you needed to apologize. Losing a child is the highest grief and loss you will ever experience in this life. Ever! Nothing else even comes close. Not losing a parent or siblings. As hard as those are, losing a child is such a different type of loss and grief! Let us tell our stories. Let us share our pain. Let us say our child’s name over and over. It helps us heal!
@bettygentry9672 3 ай бұрын
❤🙏
@lorifiyak9881 3 ай бұрын
@lynnjohnk505 I am SO VERY SORRY for your loss. You are right, as I can't even imagine the horror of what you experienced. Much love and sympathy sent your way!
@suzieq1024 3 ай бұрын
You are right. I recently lost my youngest son. this pain and loss cannot be described. I can see the sun is shining but I can’t see the light.
@ShirlM727 3 ай бұрын
No need for any apology. You are a Mother going through the worst time a Mother can go through. You are amazing.
@lesliegiron4189 3 ай бұрын
Don't ever feel bad and you don't need to apologize. No one knows what you went through. Love and hugs to you girl. ❤
@jenchelle13 3 ай бұрын
You did not lie to your son. You were being a good mom. You were telling him what you believed. You shouldn't feel like you have to apologize. You are grieving. You didn't mean to offend anyone, but some people just get offended. You weren't downing anyone for anything. Oh Kelly...my heart breaks for you and your family. 😢
@jankirschke7425 3 ай бұрын
Kelly, please carry on full steam ahead. Certain people are on the lookout for trouble and those people always will be. Give them the boot and continue to provide the rest of us your crafts and your life on your channel. We love you!
@camerajen 3 ай бұрын
💯
@michellestorey378 3 ай бұрын
Kelly you do not need to apologize. This is your grieving process and I understand. I've been in your shoes and my heart aches for you and your family. Sending you lots of positive thoughts and prayers.
@blondieb6946 3 ай бұрын
Your son needed hope. You gave him that. I cannot imagine, but I do know as a parent, we have to help our children through difficult times. I can’t imagine how devastating that must be. Please please give yourself grace. You did what you needed to do to help him through at the time, he knew that I’m absolutely sure of that. Sending you love.
@shellye7052 3 ай бұрын
Oh Kelly.. We are only here to listen, pray, and send you lots of love. God bless you and bring peace to your family.💕
@uschihouseholder8237 3 ай бұрын
Be kind to yourself and give yourself some grace! Hang in there!
@maryannvawter7431 3 ай бұрын
You certainly DO NOT need to apologize for anything!!! We all understand and I think you are doing very well…Don’t let anyone upset you so much. We love and back you a thousand percent!! ❤❤❤❤❤
@drfabsoonjd 3 ай бұрын
Keep on keeping on. We love you. I’m just glad you are talking!! Its therapy. Praying and sending hugs for you and the girls.
@angelaraum1545 3 ай бұрын
Oh Mama you dont need to apologize. If anyone called you out they should be ashamed of themselves for hurting a Mom that is greiving. Kelly hang in there. Lots of prayers sweetheart.
@princessaunt73 3 ай бұрын
Oh Kelly, there is absolutely no reason to apologize. You are you grieving your precious son! Please don’t worry about us! Those of us on this side need to show her graces and not heap more pain. on her! Come on folks be better! Love you Kelly 🙏🩷🙏
@annabellbailey4964 3 ай бұрын
Kelly you said what you said and there was no need to apologize for it. You were speaking from grief. It wasn’t uneducated. I am a recovering addict and I never looked at what you said in any hurtful or uneducated manner.
@megpyron1090 3 ай бұрын
Sharing your story has the potential of helping others. Don't beat yourself up. We approach others with grace and others owe you same grace. Bless you.
@user-is3xr7cw3t 3 ай бұрын
You have nothing to apologize for. This is your story and your journey that you have chosen to share with us. I personally appreciate that you let us be part of your journey even in the darkest times. My heart aches for you and your family. Praying for you and your girls!
@carlettasharp5821 3 ай бұрын
Kellie, the anger of having to beg for meds, deal with phamacies and double-talk from doctors is difficult enough!....while trying to be positive and loving for your son at the same time is almost more than the soul can take. Ray was concerned about addiction, and you just used that word, thinking of him. NO apologies are needed for us! You are in the grieving part of your journey and we just want to be with you. Love and hugs, Carletta
@donnabarber526 3 ай бұрын
You are so right.
@kristenboland6026 3 ай бұрын
Well said. Unbelievable
@robinallen6716 3 ай бұрын
Stated as I would have said it! The negative comments may have been from trolls. This has happened on some Facebook pages too. it seems to come out of the blue.
@pattymcguirenielsen3616 3 ай бұрын
Kelly you don’t need to apologize for anything.Anyone who has gone through anyone with cancer completely understands what you were saying.Prayers for you and the girls.❤
@rebeccaanne38 3 ай бұрын
I shared ur story with a friend that lost her son…… it comforted her…. It helped …. Keep being you
@juliereneneal7027 3 ай бұрын
Kelly if someone was bothered by your words they have a problem not you. Love you so much. You are a wonderful mother and beautiful human being. Sending you big hugs and prayers. ❤️🙏🏻❤️
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