Bumped Into My Estranged Sister At The Hospital

Bumped Into My Estranged Sister At The Hospital | Surgery Update 2023

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Justin shares his experience of having bumped into his estranged sister whom he has not seen or spoken to for 7 years. It just so happened that Justin sees his sister again at hospital due to surgery. Find out how this encounter ensued, and the details around hospitalization.
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@Gina19876 Жыл бұрын

I thought you had grown your hair. Thank you for sharing your life's journey with us.

@jesussaves222 Жыл бұрын

I'll continue to pray for the reunification of your family🙏❤

@bibbiana4Lyfe Жыл бұрын

Justin's commercial was smooth transition

@michelleespino9814 Жыл бұрын

Seamless ad transition 😅

@elizabethcorado3395 Жыл бұрын

Oooooo that transition was too smooth! Lol

@kannthomas8610 Жыл бұрын

As a medical professional here.. this is very concerning behaviour by your sister. Your parents need to be monitored closely for elder abuse. If your sister is blatantly willing to be verbally abusive to you and to your very young children.. you need to consider that this is going on at your parents home, as well. Her behaviour is completely unacceptable.

@sylvialyles919 Жыл бұрын

As a mandated reporter and you hear what is going on with her own actions, 'REPORT HER'!! There's ways for the authorities to find out who they are and where they live! I pray they get pop up visits constantly! I wonder if she's poisoning them spiteful because you got married and left home and left her there to care for them???🤔🤔🤔

@beramyers8873 Жыл бұрын

@@sylvialyles919 she definitely has some mental issues as well as evil intents. I'm a Dr of Psychology and her behavior is definitely not that of a well mind.

@BrioaZ Жыл бұрын

He knows his sister is verbally abusing them. There's no way he doesn't. They all lived together. It's so sad really.

@tallgirlhappyme Жыл бұрын

I completely agree. Her repelling behavior keeps you from witnessing her daily interactions with your parents. In other words, it's working! Chances are good you are not the only one being treated so poorly.

@Flourish_today Жыл бұрын

I'm surprised subscribers are not calling officials on his sister. I've heard of subscribers calling police or child services on parents who are abusing their children on their youtube channels.

@betsydelaney4047 Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry Justin.. It sounds like your sister is mentally ill. Your parents are struggling to handle her bizarre and unpredictable behavior. I understand that you continue to hope for a relationship with them. Guard your heart and be mindful of your children's emotional and physical safety near your sister. It's probably unlikely that she will seek help. Take good care of your new little family.

@boltup5566 Жыл бұрын

Is racism a mental illness? Nah it's a choice. She's choosing to be a POS person.

@reneegordon506 Жыл бұрын

Your sister definitely has some mental difficulties! I know you love your mom and dad but sometime you have to back off. You have gone over and beyond what I would have done to try to share your kids with them! Don’t force them to be grandparents if they don’t want too. Plenty of kid grow up without grandparents and they are find. I’m sorry but your mom, dad and sister are strange and it has nothing to do with their cultural beliefs! Let them be miserable by themselves. You have sooooo many good reasons to be overjoyed 😊! Congratulations! 🎉

@lexxiz875 Жыл бұрын

Yes I agree, definitely sounds like she is having some mental health issues. It may be that your parents are trying to shield you and the kids from her. Or they may be feeling embarrassed or even scared about her deteriorating mental state and don’t want you to witness it.

@victrola2007 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely spot on. As I wrote in my comment, trying to analyze and respond to her as a rational person or seeing her lack of filters as mere cruelty is misguided. Under no circumstances should Justin expose his impressionable treasures (S and kids) to the sister. I speak from experience. The parents chose their "prison" and will continue to regress the harder he tries to press the matters. 🙏🏻

@bluesky7288 Жыл бұрын

Justin, dont let your sisters behavior get to you. Dont engage in her games and negativity. She has serious issues, including mental health. Celebrate your reconnection with your parents and their interest in meeting your children.

@monascott2576 Жыл бұрын

Oh heck no! She will not yell at those kids.

@yeashanbanks281 Жыл бұрын

I love how you transitioned into the advertising. I literally laughed out loud.

@raspberrymelon Жыл бұрын

Justin is hilarious! He cracks me up with his deadpan humor! 🤣🤣🤣

@bibbiana4Lyfe Жыл бұрын

It was funny

@B0WIETVC15 Жыл бұрын

One flip phone for 3 adults! You don't need to be stuck in 2005! 😅😆🤣😂

@Mimlou Жыл бұрын

To be honest, you are more mature and patient than I could ever be. If my family acted like the way they poorly treat yours, I would return the same energy they give off- non existent

@karenevanoff8586 Жыл бұрын

Agree 💯!

@DOLsenior Жыл бұрын

Totally!!!

@tessw9744 Жыл бұрын

I think that is an unthinkable idea for east asian people...asian people period. You don't ever cut off your mom dad or siblings.....unless the parents do. It may be changing now, but not for his generation.... they're stuck.

@DeeDiamond2981 Жыл бұрын

Me too.

@joyfulautisticjesusfreak1997 Жыл бұрын

It shows how broken this world is, and how sinful mankind is, and how much we all desperately need Jesus. In this case, all I can do is pray.

@lemeliajohnsonbonner1661 Жыл бұрын

Please, PLEASE don't allow your children to be around your sister. There's something seriously wrong with someone who says they'll yell at young children, especially for a ridiculous and petty reason. She's not just a jerk and a bigot, she seems to be eaten up with hatred and bitterness. She clearly can't even stand herself at this point.

@DOLsenior Жыл бұрын

Excellent comment

@caropapa Жыл бұрын

She is a frustrated angry old maid bigot full of bitterness

@kathypoindexter8982 Жыл бұрын

Yes I agree with your amazing comment 😊

@Channel66678 Жыл бұрын

She sounds extremely jealous of you and is projecting her insecurities onto you, as you're a perfect father, husband and all around great guy. Congratulations on your latest arrival 🍼👶🎈🎊 your family is absolutely beautiful & you can see the love between you and Sarah in every video.

@leslied.2475 Жыл бұрын

My thoughts also. She detest anyone that isn't Korean why is she living outside Korea?

@roshikay413 Жыл бұрын

It’s ok if you guys don’t allow the kids to meet with such toxic family. Don’t force it.

@janetday5431 Жыл бұрын

I wouldn't want my children anywhere around people that disrespect your wife and children, please wake up! Your sister has showed you who she is,please believe her,she needs counseling and or therapy, healthy minded people don't speak to family with so much hatred. Justin you have a beautiful family, please protect them at all cost!

@nedraenglish6362 Жыл бұрын

It seems that your sister runs that home. Your parents are seniors and they don't want to add to an already toxic environment. Love your family from afar Justin to protect your beloved family. This was the first time seeing your sister in seven years. You don't know what she is capable of. Prayers ascending for you, Sarah and your precious babies.

@mspatti Жыл бұрын

As a care giver to an elderly parent, I would suggest getting respite care into the home to take a little pressure off of your sister. Is she going to work each day? Perhaps a Korean social worker could come to speak to her? It seems everyone is still functioning physically, but that is soon going to change, and the mental health of everyone at your parent's home seems shakey. She does seem like she has some mental health issues and is unable to hide them, making me think she is overwhelmed and depressed and angry. Its true that you don't know her well anymore, and perhaps a neutral third party could get something going.

@Pleaseopenyoureyes Жыл бұрын

There is absolutely no way I would subject myself to bigotry/hatred and disrespect from anyone. My heart goes out to you, your wife and children.

@squakke Жыл бұрын

You probably would if it meant keeping the peace in front of your dying father

@lisapatrick1276 Жыл бұрын

Stop begging, they know where you are and your numbers right? Let go let God! They are the ones missing out because of prejudice, it’s so nice that didn’t rub off on you🙏🥰

@peggygraham6129 Жыл бұрын

Your sister is seriously mentally compromised. Does she have a job or is living off your parents? This seems to go beyond mere jealousy into the realm of a deeper disturbance. Many mental conditions do not manifest themselves until early adulthood. She is threatened by you.As she treats you badly with impunity and your parents do not intervene she is obviously the one in control.Stay safe with your lovely family and be very guarded with any visits.A sad situation,but I respect how clear minded you are about it all.Love to you all from Ireland.

@madelinem3216 Жыл бұрын

You handled the situation well. Next time you bump into your sister just remind yourself that HURT PEOPLE HURT OTHERS.

@FaithandNova Жыл бұрын

Unless they are certified crazy believe they know exactly who they want to offend. Guarantee she don't talk to her boss that way

@shelleynobleart Жыл бұрын

Yes, but mental illness can stand alone as the problem without hurtful cause.

@shane6242 Жыл бұрын

Justin, is it just me or is it possible that your sister is controlling both of your parents to some extent? Maybe they are afraid to suffer the consequences of upsetting your sister and her weird racial takes. It seems she is mentally unstable at the very least, and it concerns me that she is in a position to possibly "EA" your parents.

@susannaCdonovan23 Жыл бұрын

That was my impression too.

@DOLsenior Жыл бұрын

I am concerned about the sisier and elder ab.Use too. Maybe it's time for a social services intervention.

@georgie9722 Жыл бұрын

I have the same analize, she is very toxic and she can be violent. Just careful with the kids to don"t let her approch them.

@georgie9722 Жыл бұрын

@@DOLsenior I think so about Social Services intervention, it's scary!

@feliciavargas2633 Жыл бұрын

Yeah especially since the dad just got out of surgery.

@jonilandolt596 Жыл бұрын

Justin, I actually feel quite bad for your parents. They probably do not fully understand the magnitude of your sisters mental illness, where to find help or how to help her. This saddens me deeply because these are your parents twilight years, their golden years. This is when their life should be carefree and happy. And there you are, caught in the middle. I was so impressed with your ability to keep ;your eye on the ball when you were visiting your dad. You made it clear to your sister, that your time with your Dad was about him, and not her. Keep on, keeping on. Do not let her steal your joy.

@Mimlou Жыл бұрын

Love your stories. However, I would not trust my kids with your sister! She seems like the type that would abuse them out of spite.😢😖 I will continue to hope and pray that your family comes around. Wow, I never knew family could be so cruel and cold to their own blood. Thank you for sharing your journey with us!

@enigma5014 Жыл бұрын

totally agree 💯

@joyfulautisticjesusfreak1997 Жыл бұрын

This is an example of how fallen and broken this world is, and how sinful mankind is, yet in need of spiritual healing and redemption.

@nunyas Жыл бұрын

You handled it well, Justin. Your sister's pain is evident and her behaviors and actions are her responsibility. Glad you don't take it in as she hoped you would.Never allow her to hurt your family in any possible way, Love Withstanding stands strong!

@theterrestrial3267 Жыл бұрын

She is a miserable, lonely and Hateful woman, Who at this point will never marry or have her own children.She may also be mentally ill and needs treatment

@jeauxjeaux9439 Жыл бұрын

Hi Justin! It's sad to hear that your first meeting with your sister in 7 years was a negative one! Keeping doing what you're doing with your parents. One step at a time. I hate to say this, but maybe go back to no contact with your sister for now. Seems like your parents were protecting you from her! God bless and prayers for your beautiful family!❤

@tessw9744 Жыл бұрын

You handled your sister's childishness in a very mature manner. Well done. It's so sad that people can be so miserable with their lives that they want to lash out at others out of envy.

@hansash2 Жыл бұрын

There's a story about a man who saves all of his money to finally one day go on a cruise. At the end of the cruise he was talking to other guests who were sharing about all the fun activities they did, sites they saw, and food they ate and he mentioned that he hadn't been able to do any of those. When they asked why not he said he had used all of his money for the cruise and couldn't do extra things and they told him that it was included. So that entire time he had missed out on the beauty of the things that he had worked so hard for. It reminds me of your parents and sister. They got to Canada, a wonderful place where they can build relationships, explore, learn, experience so many new fun things with family and friends, but they choose to hide away in their homes and fill their hearts with bitterness. I love the example that you're setting for them of living a happy healthy life in a wonderful place. I hope your father's health continues to improve and that your mother and sister can start to have their eyes opened to the beauty around them if they are able to step out of their homes and step out of their selfishness.

@YahavehsSoldier Жыл бұрын

God bless you. Because if it were me, I would have walked out when she started saying things about my kids.

@feliciavargas2633 Жыл бұрын

That’s what she wants though. Her goal is to make him react.

@reneegordon506 Жыл бұрын

You don’t need the toxicity of your sister in your life or your family’s life!! You’ve been living without her all these years so she is not a vital component now!

@jj2071 Жыл бұрын

Your estrangement from your sister is a blessing

@jadOreMEii Жыл бұрын

You handled that situation like a mature adult! Other people i know wouldve went off on her for saying such rude comments. I personally would not let her see my kids, especially about the comment she made about them. She obviously hasnt been around any children and i wouldnt feel safe at all with her around them. Focus on your family for now and let your parents contact you when they are ready to start building the relationship again.

@deborahpollitt7533 Жыл бұрын

You and Sarah have been remarkably respectful and kind considerate of your family. While remaining open hearted toward them, I hope you’ll maintain your boundaries.

@debbiesedereas3485 Жыл бұрын

WELL SAID I AGREE

@joyfulautisticjesusfreak1997 Жыл бұрын

This makes me think about loving people who are hard to love, I mean loving the enemies the way Jesus did.

@mizzlaobooty6 Жыл бұрын

Your life is like a K-drama and I’m here for it. 😅 Your sister is definitely the ideal villain.

@sunniemorales4406 Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad your father is fine. I would be curious to know why your sister feels the way she does toward you Justin. You are a good man, husband and father. Since she is your older sister, yes I do believe she is envious of you and your life and family. You have such an amazing heart Justin and it shows.

@traceygilligan1201 Жыл бұрын

Justin, thank you for this update. Your Sister sounds, and acts so bitter towards you, she is possibly jealous of the freedom you have, and the choices that you have made. I too was very close to my sister from when i can remember, until i was in my Twenties, when our paths changed, i always supported her, but she pushed me away, and turned my only nephew against me, i have had no contact with them for over 27 years. Its difficuly having an only sibling that you can not communicate with comfortably, honestly i feel for you. Best to keep the kids away, she sounds unpredictable. Best wishes for your Dad's full recovery. Best wishes Sarah, and your three precious little one's xx

@victrola2007 Жыл бұрын

Her behavior is a clear manifestation of untreated mental illness, not mere jealousy and trying to analyze it from that standpoint will only result in emotional damage to the innocent children and both J and S. Her unfiltered unhinged behavior around the nurse only confirms it. Having seen/experienced it up close since childhood (now in my 50s), I shudder to think of avoidable trauma kids will experience even after a single encounter should Justin try to force meetings in the name of being a filial son. The parents' regression is ALSO a textbook response.

@susannaCdonovan23 Жыл бұрын

I'm thinking jealousy too. She'll probably remain an old maid with her attitude.

@victrola2007 Жыл бұрын

@@susannaCdonovan23 Respectfully, those are the least of her problems and beyond her control. Justin's goid life is triggering, of course. Sigh.

@susannaCdonovan23 Жыл бұрын

@@victrola2007 ????

@charleneogino7092 Жыл бұрын

I will pray for your father's revovery. I will also pray for your sister. Most aunts would be happy to meet their nieces and nephew. So glad you kept your cool and did not feed into her unpleasant comments. Can't wait to see your beautiful children again. 가족을 공유해 주셔서 감사합니다. ❤

@colleenm9188 Жыл бұрын

Yes, I would like to hear more about your sister and why you think she has turned into such a toxic and intimidating personality. You did handle everything so well, and belated congratulations to you and Sara on the birth of your son! I hope your dad recovers well, too. All the best to you and your family!

@sdholmes7028 Жыл бұрын

Good for you Justin, stand your ground, your sister don't run you, you run you. She is just being nasty. You and Sarah just keep living with your beautiful kids.

@noniboo1521 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes its just better to step back and let go. And that may mean letting go for months and even years. Your parents go out of their way to resist you and your family its all on them. They would rather hang on to useless views than have the love of their grandchildren. The loss is theirs. None the less you have been blessed with 3 beautiful babies and a beautiful wife and that is everything.

@kc88778 Жыл бұрын

Dear Justin, I follow your family, love and happiness to you all. I’ve listened to the explanation of yourself and Sarah on having the kids around their grandparents. Please keep in mind that some toxicity is harder to heal than to impart. Your kids are as important to your parents and sister as they are to them. Please hesitate from surrounding your kids with anything but the love, joy and peace in your own household.

@bethmeredith Жыл бұрын

You handled that situation with grace and maturity. We will keep praying for God to soften their hearts. ❤️🙏❤️

@lexus007lmlm Жыл бұрын

You're sister is in control of your family's home and parents.

@lexus007lmlm Жыл бұрын

I was only 10 minutes into the video and began to cry. 😢 I can't believe how anyone, especially your blood sister can be soooooo cold, mean-spirited and heartless. She spoke demonic words straight from Hell! I can only say there are demon spirits in her home that have consumed the entire family. It's so sad that you, your wife and children have to be around these spirits! I'll pray for you and the family.

@reneegordon506 Жыл бұрын

Don’t expose any of your family members to them!

@heavenlycontentedsoaps6453 Жыл бұрын

I agree and thx for saying this… cuz I can feel that too. So sad. Thankfully, the girls and new baby boy have a wonderful family at their home and Sarah’s family too. Sometimes, when you’ve done all you can do, just stand and most importantly, ask God to intervene on this subject and keep-keepn on with your beautiful family. Justin was able to be so mature because he knows what he has at home is his life.

@trishah2145 Жыл бұрын

You are both so patient, kind and loving. Great example to us all. God bless your growing family

@cherilombardi4377 Жыл бұрын

Justin, you are an amazing man. Your children are going to be so proud of you as they grow older. I know this can't be easy for you, but it feels like you are making good decisions when it comes to your side of the family. Bless you!

@LadyTressa Жыл бұрын

Justin, it breaks my heart to hear how your family treats you. I haven't seen or talked to my mother in 6 years because of life-long lies my sister told her. I'm thankful at least you get to see and talk to your parents even though I know it hurts.

@beth3535 Жыл бұрын

Similar situation, though my mother didn’t buy into it. My sister managed to alienate me from two brothers and the few remaining family members (except my grandmother). It went on for decades. Our last phone conversation was more than I was willing to stand. After a nasty but ‘teasing’ sucker punch I paused instead of responding. I calmly told her that when she was able to treat me decently I’d be happy to talk; until then, I didn’t want to hear from her. I never did and she died 11 years ago. I protected myself and my kid from this toxic, narcissistic person and have no regrets.

@Princess90547 8 ай бұрын

@@beth3535 That must be a very painful experience. I hope that you have forgiven your sister ❤

@beth3535 8 ай бұрын

@@Princess90547 I have no inclination to do that. It was a decision long overdue.

@nancypatterson374 Жыл бұрын

Justin, I think you have gone beyond what most people would to have a relationship with your parents.Your sister sounds resentful for some reason, maybe it’s jealousy that you have a wonderful life with your wife and children. You are a good son and I feel very sorry that your parents are missing seeing your precious children!

@KoKoTheSagittarius Жыл бұрын

Your sister is miserable. You've found love, started a beautiful family of your own and you continually do right by your parents. For this your blessings will continue to grow as you age. For your sister, she will continue to spread the poison in her heart as her soul continues to turn dark. No man, Korean or not would want to deal with such evilness in his life. She will continue to suffer alone long after your parents leave this world. Honestly, its all because she chooses to allow evil in her heart. Nothing is worse than being an evil old person that the world has forgotten about. That will be your sisters fate.

@antoinettethomas6236 Жыл бұрын

You have a good heart and soul, because you were there for your dad and also there for your wife who gave birth. God continue to bless u & your wife and children with love & prosperity

@eileengineitis6721 Жыл бұрын

It’s sad that your sister is so miserable. She sounds like a joy killer. You and your family with Sarah are blessed and happy. Nothing and nobody should be allowed to try and diminish that.

@wat3v3rrr68 Жыл бұрын

Honestly, your sister comes off as very toxic and abusive. I would never trust her around your kids. Your parents has their problems but I get the vibe they want to know their grandkids and wouldn’t purposely try to do anything to hurt your kids. But your sister is another story. Just very bad and toxic vibes from her. Also one little tip. I would say any meeting you wants to make with your parents, I think you should do through your mom. Your dad seems to be scared of everyone and everything. If you want progress it won’t likely happen through him. I say that because when you spoke with your mom on the phone she was still thinking about you bringing the kids over to her…

@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Жыл бұрын

Wouldn't trust NoNe of theM!!! 🔥

@AriesLaZuriUhuru Жыл бұрын

Your sister is a jealous spinster. May you Sarah and the children continue to be blessed. May your marriage continue to be filled with love and thrive. May your children continue to be healthy and grow in love. I sincerely hope your parents don't revert to their old habits.

@Anim3giirl Жыл бұрын

ok....that was the smoothest ad segway i've ever seen

@kellygardner5417 Жыл бұрын

You’re a good story teller; being able to look back on these conversations, make good decisions for your family. Keep it up! You know what we call it here in, TN. Dippin’ em’ in butter. Kill them with your consistency and kindness!

@languay1 Жыл бұрын

It's sad that your sister is so toxic. The picture of your family is beautiful.

@blacklikethesun Жыл бұрын

"Like a bond villain" i died.

@claylover9845 Жыл бұрын

While listening to your story, I was having mini fits of anger listening about your racist and ignorant sister. All I can say is that you are a better person than me. I don't and won't have the patience that you have. I really hope that someday and somehow this will all work out for you and your family. Until the next video, take care.

@heavenlycontentedsoaps6453 Жыл бұрын

Wow… I’m really proud of you not confronting your sister’s rudeness! Justin, from your story l, I felt you used love for them both and kindness. I pity your sister, acting like a 5 year old. Poor thang, she must be completely miserable with herself. I’m proud of you!

@jessibella0167 Жыл бұрын

I am praying for you and your immediate family. This story is very disturbing. You are a strong man; so relieved that you have a wife and children who love you dearly. Stay faithful and keep positive. Love conquers all - this is a principle and will never be untrue. Stay strong. ❤💪🏽

@krlady4703 Жыл бұрын

I’m sad that you have to experience such disrespect from your sister. As hurtful as her comments are it comes from her own unhappiness and bitterness. It’s her loss because she’s missing out on being an auntie to your children. Focus on your beautiful family and the love from your wife and kids. 🙏🏼❤️

@wensimm6006 Жыл бұрын

Justin you are such a humble man. Keep staying on the high road, God honors that.🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

@Ohgrowup1 Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry, Justin. Know that your wife and children love you very much. Your father and mother are slowly coming around. Your sister doesn’t matter.

@12235117657598502586 Жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for your bitter sister because I firmly believe that she will never have a partner or husband - Ever! You are a patient, compassionate and loving husband and father! 👌👌🏾

@hlakaniphileguma2130 Жыл бұрын

Justin I applaud your unwavering love and patience for your family. You are a really good person and your response to your sister just shows suuuuuuch maturity. You are handling all of this better than most of us will. You and Sarah are amazingly loving and beautiful people with genuinely good hearts. Keep going....❤ Your persistence will prevail and inspire good and patience in your family and many others.

@loneranger668 Жыл бұрын

You handled the situation with your family very well. One day your sister will look back at her immaturity as a factor that brought sadness to her parents. Since she lives with your parents, I am pretty sure she has a profound influence on them.

@ivyd5485 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes the road to reconciliation is not a straight smooth path but rather a jagged one filled with potholes, ditches and fallen trees that seem impassable but nothing is impossible Justin. Sometimes time is the answer. Give it time and continue to be the son and brother who reaches out and demonstrates love to them.

@marianudemba9141 Жыл бұрын

Your sister is the craziest person I have ever heard about, your family is blessed.

@carmencruzado4746 Жыл бұрын

You are. A wonderful son please don’t let all this upset you just keep loving your family god bless you🙏🏻

@LynnDanielleTreasure Жыл бұрын

Family counseling or individual counseling seems warranted. Let the healing begin, Justin and Sarah.

@carolbarlow8896 Жыл бұрын

Justin, your maturity to take the high road no matter what is an inspiration and example to us all. Please don’t listen to those who would tell you to do otherwise. Thank you for the example that you are.

@tutyhasjim4170 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being sooo big-hearted and understanding, Justin❤

@amoraSvlogs Жыл бұрын

Justin’s you are so forgiving! Bless your heart!

@kcsunshine7408 Жыл бұрын

When you feed into your sisters comments you let her win so way to hold your composure. You are clearly winning at life as well. ❤

@leslied.2475 Жыл бұрын

Truly Justin, I really admire your patience and understanding. Your story and the challenges you go through with your family, and how you and your wife are handling it is remarkable. I will continue to pray for strength, tolerance and guidance for you and your wife. Congrats on your new born. #Lovewithstanding

@infactuality2454 Жыл бұрын

Wow, Justin, my heart goes out to you and Sarah in all of this. Sorry to hear about your dad´s health scare. I hope all things work out for you guys.

@HappyBlueButterfly Жыл бұрын

I pray for you and your family, Justin and Sarah! God bless his gifts, the children!

@lisawaters5304 Жыл бұрын

You are a wonderful example for your children. Keep on keepin' on!

@lisav.9414 Жыл бұрын

You and your wife are doing a wonderful job with your beautiful new family!

@shonnie089 Жыл бұрын

Love the way you handled yourself Justin.

@i6345 Жыл бұрын

As a nurse I also think your sister may be controlling your parents minds, life's and prompting them to stay away from you. As they get older they are becoming more dependent on her so are afraid to upset her. I don't think she is good for them.

@lilmono2 Жыл бұрын

Wow! Glad you got to see your dad

@tinajohnson1642 Жыл бұрын

So proud of you Justin for the way you handled your sister's behavior. Love is patient and kind; Love conquers all!

@shosmyth1454 Жыл бұрын

Your Family is Beautiful! May you all be Blessed! 🌺

@sirdonslady Жыл бұрын

I pray that your family will continue to strive in peace and harmony.

@normaanhalt144 Жыл бұрын

God bless your family. Stay strong, hold on to each other for comfort. ⛪

@wandahardy-cook2571 Жыл бұрын

Very excellent video. Great self control and matureness.

@lotusky1246 Жыл бұрын

You two are very peaceful and gracious. I pray that all of your family comes together soon. Your wife never makes you choose sides. She understands that you should reach out to your family. Congratulations and hope all will workout for your lovely family.❤

@lmy969 Жыл бұрын

First and foremost you have a beautiful family and it's refreshing to watch your love withstanding 😁 through all of life's trials. I'm amazed how awesome you turned while being raised in such a toxic household. Be blessed and I'm sending positive vibes to you and your family ❤

@lindahoskins1920 Жыл бұрын

Great information on your part. Thanks for sharing and being a mature person. 🙏🏾💙💕😢😍

@josephinedeck9821 Жыл бұрын

Wow! Thank goodness you are so mature. Hopefully she will come around ❤

@alicegauteng2358 Жыл бұрын

Seding you, your wife, and kids light, love, and blessings

@marycaruso3846 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! We want to hear it all. I have 2 Korean grandson’s who I love to the moon and back.🥰

@jackiegivens5744 Жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear of such a negative interaction with your sister after so long. You are definitely strong and don’t allow her to turn you into her. She wants you to get angry so she can rub it in your face. You are doing the right thing by yourself and your sweet family. I understand your continuing to make the effort, especially for your children but still try to protect your and your wife’s wellbeing as well. God bless you as you continue your struggle with your families. Love following your family! ❤

@dajon122 Жыл бұрын

Prayers are for humbling of hearts ❤️

@debbiesedereas3485 Жыл бұрын

GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL AND THE WHOLE FAMILY TOO!!

@brrraaak2 Жыл бұрын

God bless you and family, Justin

@Jonas-qw9jf Жыл бұрын

So sorry Justin. You are blessed with a beautiful family. Wishing your father good health and a long life. ✨

@beramyers8873 Жыл бұрын

Wow. This is so sad. I will be praying for you, your wife and babies.

@KR-pe7gr Жыл бұрын

Justin, You are Godley Blessed. The way you deal w/ evil energy is superb. Keep being yourself always.

@carmencruzado4746 Жыл бұрын

You truly are a wonderful son and husband 🙏🏻

@stephanieaddison2595 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the update

@user-ii8tg6rt7l 8 ай бұрын

A beautiful family with adorable kids , good parents !

@melissacotton5680 Жыл бұрын

Justin I'm a fan and I'm saying this with love. Take it whatever way you want. I think there is some elder abuse I'm sensing in your story along with mental issues on your sisters end. No grown woman, no matter the Asian culture especially at her age, shares a phone with their parents. Like everything else your parents are hiding her condition. NEVER EVER leave those kids with them I'm afraid that if your parents turn their backs she would do something again with respect and no malice I'm just sayin.

@amiesparkle00 Жыл бұрын

He ignores all the advice people give. I hope it doesn’t end badly for them all.

@i6345 Жыл бұрын

You are an amazing person, husband, son, friend, everything! If you were my son I would be so proud of you and your lovely wife!! It is your sister's loss that she is missing this beautiful time in your life! She does not have a kind heart. Her bitterness is terrible to see! You have only one life to live so be kind to one another. Big hugs dear boy!!

@Ferf3o Жыл бұрын

I am sorry you have to deal with this! I too have a biracial son. My dad and his side of the family had a very difficult time excepting him. I went 13 years without speaking to them. I decided to try again and it was slow going but once they realized how much he was like my dad (in his personality) things changed. My son is now 31, has 3 kids of his own and my dad is very good to his great grandchildren! There is hope.

@vthomas372 Жыл бұрын

Justin, thanks for always trying. I applaud you for it because it’s not easy. I know from personal experience. Continue trying with your parents because you only have one and don’t want to have regrets for not giving it all you got. When you have exhaust every avenue then it’s okay to move on with a clear conscience. I’ll continue to pray that your parents will not regress to not speaking to you or seeing the kids. God blessings be upon you and your wife, Sarah and children❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾