Narcissist's are jealous, mean-spirited people, when you are happy they are sad and when you are sad they are happy, the more tension and frustration they can create in your mind and body the happier they are. Keep your distance from these emotional energy vampires.🦇 Good video.🌟

Your the best at telling the story of the Narcissist views and actions! Your a gift to the world! Thank you ❤❤❤❤

I can watch these videos all day, to fill the void with constructive thoughts, helpful instructions, and fellowship. It's like I have been thrown a rope at the last minute. So grateful.

Your wasting your breath telling them how mean they are. They'll do it more, and more hate. They get a sick kick outta controlling others.

The best tip I've found for dealing with a high conflict narc when they're being confrontational is to pull out the phone & record every interaction. It's like holding a mirror up to a vampire. It almost always ends their assault & sends them running immediately.

narcissists will never love you because your peaceful spirit is triggering their demons.

Oh wow this video reminded me of every morning I would wake up and dread going downstairs to get my first cup of coffee because I knew I would be thrown a crapload of questions, expectations and a whole big pile of tension - all before my first sip of coffee.

Everytime I watch one of your videos a piece of my heart gets repaired🐻🐨🐼

Team Healthy - every time you say it i get an endorphins rush. Feels so good to be a part of a team like this!

She told me once "I would rather us be arguing or fighting rather than being quiet and peaceful". Back then I never understood why, but I do now. Apparently, having a peaceful and quiet life to her was considered boring and she felt "dead". Small wonder why she felt the need to whip BS out of thin air just to create chaos to feel "alive". thanks, Dr. Carter

Their lives are constant drama, chaos and confrontation. Then they will take no responsibility for causing all of it. Just useless to discuss it with them. Better to just move as far away from them as possible.

When you are away and free from the N's tension, I think your actual physical health improves. No N, no pain. Gratitude and ☀️☀️☀️ to everyone🙏

That is so true that they like to cause tension and provoke you. You can just feel it when they come around. Its such a strong vibe. You can feel their tension building into a narcissistic rage. You just don't know when they will blow up but you know its coming. It caused me so much anxiety. It was such a horrible feeling when this person would come around. Narcissists are like a thunder cloud.

The narcissist's main feature is their domination vindictiveness.

My husband has abandoned me several times; I actually stopped counting. He says he won't file for a divorce. If I do, then he'll play the victim. It makes me want to vomit.

Narcissists enjoy to see you dysregulated because it dismisses their own dysfunctions and your emotional reactions will regulate their emotions. So that's why they need to perpetuate tension. Whenever you feel anger inside of you, you can choose between different options: 1. You can suppress => It will get worse (unhealthy) 2. You can be openly aggressive => You react in a harsh and harmful way like an overt Narcissist (unhealthy) 3. You can be passive aggressive like a covert Narcissist => You hide your anger by grudgeful thoughts like, "I will show you!" (unhealthy) 4. You can be assertive => You stand up for yourself by telling who you are, what your needs are etc. (healthy) 5. You can go to your higher priorities => "I want to be a person of peace.. I want to show respect.. I want to be honest.. I want to be open.. etc." (healthy) You always have an option! Dealing with a Narcissist it is always the best way to respond (mind over emotion) instead of reacting (emotion over mind). If you are easily driven by reactions, take a deep breath first to ground yourself :-) Dr Carter 👨‍🦳, thanks for this interesting and insightful lecture. (Where has Gus 🐶 been? Sleeping beneath the table at your feet?)

"That's your game, but I'm not participating. and I'm onto you."

I provided a home for my mother when she said she had nowhere to go and no one cared about her. Six weeks later, I said "Please don't speak to me like that in my own home." She bolted out the door, found somewhere else to be and trashed my name with every relative and friend she could find. I have been no contact with her and all of these relatives and friends for almost 4 years. The peace is bliss :)

The evil eye is terrifying. The smirk is nothing compared.

I just wish narcissists could be held accountable for their actions

I belief my brother killed himself so that he wouldn't kill my Narc Mom. Now I'm here caring for her, living in her home having similar thoughts.

My former workplace was always FILLED with tension. It was a small staff, so the employees became very close. We became even closer when we realized our boss used these types of tactics. We all soon realized that she simply couldn't STAND it if everything was going smoothly. She would actively create conflict and tension. She THRIVED on it. We soon had to record our meetings with her because she was so angry and confrontational behind closed doors. And she would lie about it later and make it seem like SHE was a victim. And she triangulated communication. "I just spoke with a Board member and they are very upset with you because of ....but don't speak with them. They are too angry. Let ME handle it." or "I just spoke with the Director. He agrees with me that you are being insubordinate, and HE said that I must write you up." I soon realized that if she reported something to me that another person supposedly said, I need to go straight to them and verify it, especially if my boss discouraged me from doing so. That's how I caught her in so many lies!! It is such a relief to be out of that work environment, but there is still some anxiety and stress, over a year later. Your videos and podcasts are SO comforting and helpful!! Thank you, Dr. C!

Its a character disorder. Thank you. That really helps me to understand my relative.

After doing something cruel, like endangering my dog and cats, the narcissist ex would smirk. After saying something cruel to me, my narcissistic ex would smirk. He enjoyed being cruel.

Does the narcissist love hurting you? Do they get off on it? I'm a newbie trying to get over a relationship with my narcissistic sister. It's so hard and I cry all the time. Not over her, but what she has done to me for 50+ yrs. She has turned some of my family against me. Does someone like that enjoy this? My husband is so supportive he says she just loves to see me so upset. I never have dreamed i could hate someone so much. I'm glad I'm here. I need help dealing with this.

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I was tormented by my husband for five years, all the while hearing, believing and agreeing that it was all my fault. A couple of months after we married and his NP came out, I said if you can't at least act like you respect me, and act like you like me, I will divorce you, and 2 mos later I filed. Then it got really bad since he was now the victim. We divorced and he moved away, but kept coming back to try again, or so I thought. A few days ago a video came up of Dr C, and the title intrigued me, and I have binge watched ever since. I didn't even know there was such a thing as a narcissist, let alone that there could be help for the victim. I now have an appt with one of the therapists coming up on Saturday. I feel hope for the first time. And I am no contact with the ex from now on. I am 68 and don't want this in my life, time is too short. Thank-you Dr Carver! DRC! Team Healthy!

“Duper’s Delight” is a term often used on the KZfaq channel The Behavior Panel. In fact, it was on one of their shows that I realized a person close to me is narcissistic. That led me to get therapy and to this channel.

Narcissists have a priority that doesn't include you, but if you really look at their priority there really isn't anything there at the core. Narcissists don't see other people as the most important thing in life, they only see their own delusional pretense where they have really lost touch with life. We all have aspects of that, but there is a difference. We can sometimes stop what we're doing, drop the delusion and be back n the moment; they can't. You can never ask them to stop what they are doing to be present in the moment; they have lost the connection, the connection to their heart. They can no longer be in the here and now without expectations as that place has become such a source of grief and terror for them that they can no longer not fill the moment with busyness, but it's a busyness that only leads to negativity, projection and criticism. They have lost the thread, but they can never admit this. This is the true sadness of narcissism, and it only ultimately leads to loneliness and alienation. God bless those who can see this emptiness of busyness for the dysfunction it truly hides, and have heart that we can make life better by being true to our heart. Narcissists hate you for it because it is no longer who they are, it is only a shadow of what they have become. You are richer and more important in this simple fact, the simple fact that you can see the true value of others in the here and now, than they can hope to ever be or become; their pretense falls away in comparison.

The smirk I've seen is more of a look that includes eye-rolling and says, "How stupid are you?"

I tried the nice approach agreeing with my narcissist family member and trying to be accommodating to their narrative but no matter what I did she would get aggressive. So I would try to explain my feelings on the situations. That didn't work. Her anger kept escalating each time she came around. The last time we spoke she had her final meltdown and I told her off. I didn't hold back. We haven't spoke since. I have known this woman since I was 8yrs old (I'm now in my late 50's) and she has always been this way. I just didn't live near her like I do now. She has ran everyone off from her life except one person (a neighbor) and shes blown up at her too. Its just a matter of time that she'll be gone too. She is the meanest, controlling, condescending, rude and entitled woman I think I have ever come across. She can be very nice and generous one minute but their is always a catch.

Team healthy behavior is the best choice. Besides it drives them nuts when you're healthy and they can't rattle you. Who would have thought that being healthy is the best revenge? lol

I swear this doctor was in my kitchen today! He knows everything that the Narc did and said to me today. The more I learn, the better I feel. Thank you.

Yes, the narcissist weaponized (cruel, even life-threatening) everything he abstracted about me. I am here, Dr. C, because I still have to come to some peace with the narcissistic relationship that is fortunately behind me.

Don't you just love the narcissist that always instill self-doubt into you when you express how you want to take steps to improve your life for example? Today it seems kind of insane to me that they want us unhappy and unsuccessful yet still in their control what good are we? The most interesting thing to me is almost 4 years in no contact and I still notice the gas lighting profile photos on social networks. In order for them to be productive and healthy family members they would need 20 years of counseling to even come close to what my standards are today. Trust me you're all so much better off without them.

Also, is it an NPD game to become so unattractive/frustrating/unlikable that their supply avoids them resulting in the narc playing the victim (ie “you never spend time with me… I deserve someone who wants to be around me!)? It’s seems to be part of gaslighting and purposefully inconsistent behavior. In fact, inconsistency is a huge part of the mind f***ery. It’s impossible not to walk on eggshells around somebody who is hair triggered and unpredictable. I can’t wait to be completely rid of these kind of supposed humans. I don’t understand why they keep playing the same game when they can tell I know what they’re doing, but I won’t be sticking around much longer to try and figure it out.

Narcs seek out people who are malleable due to their tenderness, cooperative nature, and kindness. They see goodness as weakness. What a sad situation when you put it in those clear terms. My situation reflects this so I can relate. Thank you Dr C for all your guidance💯 and thank you to Team Healthy. I've grown to cherish you all. Happy New Year in 2023. I hope everyone can find safety and peace. Cheers. 💜🐕

Here in Southwest Arkansas we also " fix " our meals rather than prepare them. I chalk the difference up to personal culture. Now having said that PLEASE NO ONE TELL THE GOOD DOCTOR for New Year's Eve I fixed the BEST SOUTHERN culture meal: Hot Water Cornbread, fresh Turnip & Collard Greens, Black-eyed Peas, Fried Cabbage, Smothered Taters & BBQ Chicken. 😋🤠🥳 Happy New Year's to everyone ✨️

When you only have a hammer in your toolbox of choices, you can only pound things. That's how I see a narcissist.🤷‍♀

They like to stir the pot.

Unfortunately, there's no compromise.

"It's not an argument if it's one-sided." This is so true. Instead of letting them pull you into an argument and getting you disregulated, just say "Okay Bro," and walk off. They won't know what to do with themselves.

Is it possible my mom, who’s 76, is a covert narcissist her entire life and we just missed it? My dad recently passed away on the past 9 months, and since then my brother and I have gotten a real shock dose of who she really is. I took her to Florida for a little getaway, and ended up having to fly home 3 days early just so I didn’t have to be around her anymore. All she did was complain, wonder off, and act with such vile behavior whenever she didn’t get her way. The minute she would talk to someone back home, her voice completely changed to her perky self. Now that my brother and I are home taking care of her, we noticed if we don’t give her attention or her way, she thrashing out in such a cruel way. She tells ppl to shut up, is proud she is nasty to people, even goes as far as saying she doesn’t care is she goes to hell and that she doesn’t care to be a better person. She doesn’t care if she’s hurting others. Heck; she didn’t even cry once when my dad died. My dad pampered the heck out of her, and now that he’s gone, she expects the same treatment. I’m sorry but I didn’t sign a marriage contract with her. I’m not kissing the ground she walks on after she’s spit on it. Long story short, my mom had always been looked at as such a sweet person her entire life. Now that dads gone, we see an entirely different person. It’s kind of a hard pill to swollow, as things are starting to make sense. Things from our growing up are starting to make sense. I did notice this behavior when my dad was dying and I was there taking care of him. She would make the most vile face and tell my dad he smelled so horribly she couldn’t stand it. Well, he didn’t smell.. I was caring for him and bathing him. It was just a cruel comment to make. I had to kick her out of his room several times as she was so nasty to him. Now.. it’s her turn. She needs caretaking & ironically is the one who DOES smell. I guess what I’m asking… how could I miss this? It’s tearing my brother apart, as he feels so used and manipulated. Her behavior very likely impacted his relationship with my dad, as she was likely playing games to tear them apart. For me, it’s less impactful as she never really played a large role in my identity. My dad was my rock, not her. Yes, she was always there with my dad, but none of my growing was due to her advise (for the most part). Could she have been a narcissist her entire life and just hid it well? This is so confusing. It’s like the worst kind of gaslighting / brain manipulation ever.

Trespassing others its not enough for them. They destroy others.

You give the best advice about narcissism on the internet Dr Carter :))

Three years free.... August 11 2023..... Go Team Healthy!!!! Hey Hey Ho Ho, How do you want to make the narcissist go? Love yourself, set boundaries, find peace and don't let go. Don't associate with the narc any more than absolutely necessary. Be invisible to the narc if possible. Stay out of their line of fire. They are dangerous.

I've recently learned by mentioning to the person you see through them it seems to ensure a silent treatment. Funny how something that once upset and confused you has now become music to your ears. Thank you Dr. Carter😌

I've completely cut off my Narcissus. Now I need to know how to get them out of my head and let go of the hurt. Would love a video about. Thanks!

3:50 yup. This morning my husband complained that I eat too much although he also complains that I’m too thin and he said he wishes I would just die and threatened to beat me if I said anything else to him while he kept talking to avoid hearing me. All before eight thirty AM. Morning and evening every day like that. I’m ready to leave him the next time he goes out of the house. Thirteen years is more than enough abuse.

Thank God I found this live

The person I live with has many narcissistic tendencies and seems to have two rule sets: one for being in public and one for when we’re alone. For instance, he slurps his drinks in a way that’s so nauseating, I literally have to leave the room and stomps, slams cabinets and anything else that’s boorish, but in public he behaves like a civilized human. Is that an NPD trait?

Sadly that "live in" might have early Dementia. You may need to investigate nursing homes. Sooner rather than later, please don't let helping this toxic/sick person destroy your life. God bless your efforts to help.

A weight has been lifted off my shoulders.Your videos have helped me so much. Just left an abusive relationship. I couldn’t understand why he couldn’t see what he’s been doing. In 50 years he has not once acknowledged anything he’s done. It didn’t make sense. Now I understand. I feel relived he’s gone. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge.

Always learning here! I never thought about how tension is used to control and dominate. I'm Southern so your words are just right by me. In fact, I still say I'm fixinn to ____, and of course, I fix lunch too! Made me laugh! Smirk smirk!😉💖✌

I like you Dr. C. Thanks for being here and being someone we can have a little faith in. It's always very hard to find a soul you can trust and believe in a bit :)

I have to pause this video at the beginning to comment on the narcissist's smirk. Never heard that before. Brought up a memory. When my sister was testifying against me at trial, she was talking about a trip she took my mom on late in her life. Suddenly she gratuitously threw in, "That's when I noticed she had dementia." Then she smirked, and I thought, "Wow! What was that about?" She and my sisters (both narcs) were claiming they were very close to mom. (Mom said she only heard from them when they wanted something.) It was surreal to hear them describing the things I had done with and for mom as if they had done those things. In fact, *I* had noticed mom's dementia coming on years earlier and had told my sisters about my concerns. I thought the smirk meant, "See, even this I'm going to claim to my credit." I also thought she was trying to provoke me into some kind of outburst. Utterly bizarre. You can't change facts just by saying stuff (i.e., lying).

I am a very giving and helpful person. Some people actually seem to be playing games about how much they can get me to do for them. When it just gets absurd, I back out of the relationship/friendship totally. It feels like they won. But I am glad I finally called it quits.

I love how you give a full perspective by offering the healthy vs narcissist approach to life. Makes it so helpful in identifying a toxic relationship.

My mother does or says something very obviously wrong, for instance she took it upon herself to throw my mail out without having me know about it. I'd actually seen mail in the mail box earlier that day and thought I'll clear it later. Anyhow I just asked was there any mail for me. Yes she replied it's in the bin you didn't want it. Arghhhhhhhhh mum you don't get to make that choice. Straight away she went into attack mode, it's not her fault it's the first time she's ever thrown my mail out. She rushed to the bin grabbed mail and had a tight grip on my mail and wouldn't hand it over. Fighting to hand my own mail to me, screwed up face and aggressively talking at me. Well mum stop throwing my mail out it's not the first time and you have no right and walked away. She wanted to argue I refused. These sorts of things happen all day every day where she is constantly trying anything to get a reaction out of me it's so exhausting. I'm like find a hobby woman other than trying to annoy the crap out of me.

that´s one of the basic question that brought me into this topic - what am i for these people ? why do they treat others this way ? how long do they think they can get away with it until someone snaps

I do anything I can to avoid riding in the car with my narc husband of 15 yrs or going out in the boat or out to dinner it is a sad way to live avoiding being in a situation where I have to communicate with them when I can’t avoid a situation or riding with him it always becomes a situation where he baits me for a reaction . It has been only the last several years that I realized why I was subconsciously avoiding any one on one situation or situation where I can’t walk away and escape from the madness he creates ! Just today he was using my son to try and get me to come to the farm with them ( the farm I have never seen we bought it 3 years ago because it would mean I was stuck in a situation he would be baiting me and he was in control of how long I would be stuck with him ! I said I’m not going I have too many things to do at home ( truth ) and I have nothing to do at the farm it would be a waste of a day … another truth .. his response when I walked out of room but loud enough for me to hear .. you don’t want to go because it would mean riding in the truck with me .. 😂 well at least I know that you know what your doing and you can see that I avoid being in a situation I can’t get away from you .. he knows I’m on to him that’s obvious .. his other fav comments “you make me miserable “ you can’t communicate 😂😂 why should I try . What’s wrong with you “, why am I married “

Being on Team Healthy brings clarity, comfort and great joy. A part of the day I look forward to with eager anticipation.

Regarding the false self, Dr. C: does that mean all narcissists are bipolar? Because I can think of quite a few who are 1 in the same!

This video was so helpful. I like the concept of “Don’t have to join them in their tumultuous lives “. This video has so many good points to think about.

26 yrs and the flying monkeys persist

LOL at the "fixing" comment. Being from the south, I can totally relate. I once told my supervisor I was fixing to file a report, to which he good-naturedly replied, "No, you are PREPARING to file your report, not REPAIRING to file your report". Thought that was pretty apt, never forgot it, but can't claim that it totally eliminated that southernism from my vocabulary :-)

Good morning Dr.C, abd everyone from Maitland Florida USA

Can you hear me saying over and over again, this is my daughter? I’ve come to the conclusion that I just can’t have any more to do with her at all. She triggers me so badly that I spend all my time dealing with my emotions over her craziness. she’s 54 and I’m 74. I’m done.

Hi Dr Carter and Team Healthy

All of this was so spot-on to my life. I especially appreciated hearing your advice regarding the narc's "problem"-solving techniques, as this is pretty much a daily occurance in our household. I often want to hurl a stoneware mug at the back of his head while I unload the dishwasher and he watches sports, (don't worry, I won't), but I know that would be horribly disasterous for me, (not him, because I'd miss), so I just go through the motion, (without the mug), and try not to throw-out my shoulder. I am, after-all, striving to be a "person of peace".

Yes, this makes me feel less alone! 😍

There was a narcissist that like to keep me on the phone forever just to hear the same thing over and over again. I just said I don’t want to talk on the phone anymore. You can call and leave a message. They tried to break through but I just say I don’t want to talk on the phone and get off. Seems to be working so far.

The smirk... I'm sobbing and crying after one of his many transgressions, and I look over and he always has a satisfied smirk.

Hi Dr. Carter, Gus and Team Healthy from California. I think they are aware of what they are doing and enjoy what they are doing. My experience is that they plan what they are going to do well in advance. They are great actors and Dr. Carter is so right, do not lead with your emotions because by the time you realize what is going on, they have walked up one side of you and down the other and started the trip over again. We appreciate you so much and how we learn from you Dr. Carter. Thank you.

What I love about this channel is the likability of this guy! Duping delight is something body language readers named I believe

Dr. C, I whole heartedly agree with what the listener had said in that he/she doesn't feel alone when listening to you and being part of Team Healthy. I find myself replaying previous videos you had posted, and it helps me when I feel alone, or my days are not going as well. You provide reassurance, clarification and motivation, together with a sense of understanding and togetherness. It keeps me grounded. Thank you for all you do and thank you Team Healthy!

You have helped me so much to understand what has happened to me the past 36 years and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I continue to struggle with my feelings of doing something unpleasing to God. Without going into a deep dive about the toxic behavior of my husband’s mother and step-father, they are now elderly and asking us for money so they can live where they want to live, not where they can afford. You see, they have made choices in the past that have landed them in this financial situation, mainly step-father stepping into criminal acts causing him to lose his lively hood. Now, he is demanding that my husband take care of his mother financially so they can live at this place he moved her into without having the means to do so. We are in our sixties, we have a disabled, autistic daughter that we have to plan for when we are no longer here, as well as ourselves. My concern is God’s commandments to help the needy and what he will say if we tell them no and put our daughter and our welfare first. This situation is causing me much anxiety. My husband and I have been seeking help from a counselor. We have given them money in the past and they have not been good stewarts of that money nor have they ever made an effort to pay us back. In your wisdom, will we be ok with God if we set this boundary and say no?

JUST FOUND THIS!!

I love team healthy❤ Wishing everyone a happy new year from California 🦋SURVIVOR🦋

Love you so les!!!

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Definitely “duper’s delight” on the smirk. Creepy to see. Then, add the tension and unpredictability and more….ugh!

My husband had tension dripping off him always and I mean ALWAYS! I could just feel it.... It was easier for me as the yrs wore on. I just became use to it. It bored me, so I would physically remove myself to get away from him. But he would always find me and try to be jovial and a motor mouth talking about things he had been thinking about ( in a serious way) Ha! My famous take away was .....Really...WOW! AND LET IT GO

Sir Dr. C ur support & ppl like ramani etc. its so inspiring & uplifting for the the victims of narc abuse. The world is neither built by narcs nor is sustained by these vampires. Mankind is grateful for the good u are doing.

Wow this is so timely in relation to what I'm currently dealing with! Yikes.

This is so true. I fell into that trap time an time again which in time I let my boundaries go down Ani became more an more anxious. Till I was becoming from the anger from not being able to open their eyes to their injustice I would react to violent out bursts with the same as they were doing. They didn't like it but they got what they wanted My REACTION Which INTERN let them go see I told u were unreasonable an out of control. I am now 30 days leaving this person. It's very hard due to the fact I was raised by a very Toxic Mother. I am to old to keep playing these games with the bad choices I've made I want to make it out an clean my thought process I can only change myself I know I Can't or Won't be able to EVER CHANGE THEM. I Thank U for Your time an energy you put into this channel.

I'm from Texas and the word "fixin'" is a huge part of our expressions.

A small thing perhaps, but I've never forgotten it: as a little girl with my mother to the city, it was a nice day, and at the end, in the bus, the comment: 'I have made an appointment for you next week at the dentist.' That was not necessary, to tell at that moment. My day was ruined.

That smirk!!!!😂 If you are unsure if someone has bad intentions, that smirk is the tell.

Banana and pineapple in sweet potato casserole?! Sounds amazing🤤

I absolutely agree that we all need to stand up for ourselves, especially with family members, close friends, in others words on going relationships - otherwise what kind of a relationship is it really? When confronting abusive narc family members (such as the mother, or MIL in the first question) be prepared because it will not be a 'one and done' situation - you will need to probably need to set the boundary and then spend some time maintaining the boundary. At least, this is my experience - my parents, until the end of their lives, were trying to force me back into the scapegoat role and I needed to use some energy to maintain my boundaries with them; years and years (and years). It really never did stop until they both passed away.

Reverse projection. Suppress it, openly aggressive, passive aggressive, assertive and go to your higher priorities

Respect and knowledge is important for us to live but ignorance to get out of there is not ease is impossible.

My mom was like this. She’s still in my head, and I either fight or avoid people like her. You are teaching me a better way to deal with them.

Yes to dupers delight! They have an evil smile if they get you to react.

Happy New Year!

They just don't what happens but they want to help. The game , figure what they do. It get worse.

42:00 I sometimes wonder if nice people do finish last? It seems as though the nicer I am, the more I’m taken advantage of, and because I can’t stand to hurt anyone intentionally, I won’t speak my mind.

Do you have any tips for rapid recovery after an onslaught of holiday hoovers ? I'm overwhelmed !!

Wow, the commercial on before allowing me see this was inappropriate. Lol It was sponsored by Team Sleazy. 🙀 Oh, I thought the same thing as others about the smirk. But, it was funny, because before seeing your attempted smirk, I thought to myself, "I don't even know how to smirk," and was trying to practice. I probably have smirked, when listening to a narcissist. Otherwise, I don't really like the idea.