Midweek with Dr. C- The Emotional Fallout From Being With A Narcissist

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@michelepascoe6068 Жыл бұрын

"Maybe their rejection doesn't mean I'm no good; it just means I don't fit in their system of dysfunction."

@AedanGUnit Жыл бұрын

I really don’t think hate is sustainable. After a period of hatred, you begin to realize the only one being affected is you. The goal is complete indifference.

@rosieE121 Жыл бұрын

Hard when we are expected to work out differences with someone hell bent on destroying us.

@kathleenmilano4850 Жыл бұрын

Dr. C...please give Mrs. C an extra hug for me. She married a great man with much wisdom which gives us viewers insight. Deep gratitude.

@kathleenbristol6747 Жыл бұрын

It's not good to hate the person,but it's ok to hate there bad behavior!

@bonniekesic8040 Жыл бұрын

My Narcussist saw me watching one of your podcast and got mad. He said, I needed to quit watching that shit. Lol

@sharontalley2155 Жыл бұрын

The narcissist that I lived with went ballistic every time that I watched Surviving Narcissism. I'm sure she saw herself when she saw and heard what Dr Carter was saying. When she heard the opening music before Dr Carter started speaking she turned on her daughter's stereo as loud as it would play to drown his words out. It was unbelievable to watch her acting like that but that didn't stop me from watching Surviving Narcissism. I knew what I was dealing with and that I needed help getting through the abuse she caused. Thank you Dr Carter for always being there for me. You not only saved my sanity you also saved my life.

@aaronkwolfe Жыл бұрын

Moving away from family home and out of marital bed helped a great deal

@danarchambault8723 Жыл бұрын

I had to move far away , and recover on my own with help from online people like you

@lilysleisure1918 Жыл бұрын

I love your calmness. THERE ARE MANY people out there teaching about narcissism, but it's only you Sir who never confuses us and we feel the calmness in our hearts and souls that is reaching out to us through your videos!

@rosieE121 Жыл бұрын

As someone who put ip with yelling in the past, to me yelling is good reason to leave a relationship.

@From-A-StrongPlace Жыл бұрын

I like to play the video’s really loud… it’s taken me 9 years and a 7 year old little girl-my miracle. I’m not going to allow her to think that any of this is ok or normal. I am working on a plan because she deserves better and so do I. I’m 44 and she nor I have 9 more years to live like this. Thank you Dr. C. I believe in kindness and im doing my best to show my baby right from wrong. You are helping me so much ❤

@DEAN_23 Жыл бұрын

When my narc was in my life, I had started doing personal development. We were friends for so long, supported me through my worst moments and times, but the one time I started doing something good and positive, he clowned it, discredited it, devalued it. And I had always asked myself why? Why is he being unsupportive all of a sudden, why is he not building me up, and is instead putting me down? And then I came to realize the truth. Me, doing the things that I am doing, is threatening the paradigm of the way things are supposed to be, which is, he is supposed to be the main character, and I am always meant to be the supporting cast. Long story short, I grew tired of it, and except for a couple of times when we saw each other, we haven't spoke, or even contacted each other in over four years, and this was due to me finding great resources like this one, and learning about no-contact.

@natalievitrano8251 Жыл бұрын

I was at a party having a conversation with a man I had just met. He said, out of the blue, "I can tell you're not a narcissist because you can empathize with others." Blew me away. I didn't know whether to be suspicious (like oh, there we go again, he's spotted an empathetic soul to prey on) or to be impressed that he actually listened to the content of my words and reflected. I'm still a bit hypervigilant even one year out I guess.

@margueritebaca3921 Жыл бұрын

Dr. C and Gus are my role models, calm and even keeled. 🐕🐾😅😊

@tammydietschweiler7852 Жыл бұрын

I have been diagnosed with CPTSD from childhood abuse and feel I have control issues and perfectionistic problems that are difficult to deal with.

@rosieE121 Жыл бұрын

The priority has to be for peace, love, and civility.

@mrsfuller3462 Жыл бұрын

As a half Italian who was raised by a malignant narcissist who used her partial deafness as an exasperation tool, & who married into a WASP family with another malignant narcissist large & in charge, I can assure you that there are plenty of narcissistic weapons that are not related to volume. Of course, we perpetually exasperated targets are guilty of it. I thank you for my sanity as you verbalize everything I've experienced, but I again find myself weary of the association of volume with narcs alone. Like alcoholics & wife beaters, they know that the road to victimhood is paved with someone else's exasperation. They then shroud themselves in their manufactured victimhood as though it were righteousness. There is nothing about the process that has anything to do with righteousness. Or volume.

@wulv1013 Жыл бұрын

Just got into a panic attack because I have to make my food before the idiot comes home so I can close my door and not confront because he's constantly making confrontations and I freaked out because I couldn't find my phone this is what they do mess with your head