Why Your Ex Doesn't Want To Talk To You

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Clay Andrews

Clay Andrews

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Clay Andrews discusses why your ex doesn't want to talk to you.
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After a break-up, your ex might want to shut you off for a couple of reasons. Sometimes, they try to convince themselves that you are someone not worth talking to because you have already separated.
In this video, Clay Andrews breaks down the different reasons why your ex doesn't want to talk to you AND what you can do depending on their reason when your ex doesn't want to talk to you.
There re a lot of reasons why your ex doesn't reply to you or why they might say to them, but you have to address the emotional level.
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@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching this video. Please take care of yourself during these crazy times we're living through. Thank you for spending a little bit of your day with me. Best of luck with your relationship and anything else you may be facing these days.
@mistyoyerparsons1214
@mistyoyerparsons1214 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Clay... Misty in AZ 🌵 🏜 :)
@antonniferrarilacson8046
@antonniferrarilacson8046 4 жыл бұрын
Clay.... how can I get back my ex as ALPHA Female. - Ferrari lacson
@mzeye
@mzeye 4 жыл бұрын
I dont talk to my ex because they hurt me.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that you are still hurting. we hope you are doing small steps each day to slowly heal from the pain.
@Jakuboooooooooo
@Jakuboooooooooo Жыл бұрын
If they apologized and showed that they understand and have improved, would you talk to them?
@Level4Bio
@Level4Bio 4 ай бұрын
Nope! Once a cheater always a cheater…
@thomasgrabowski2202
@thomasgrabowski2202 Жыл бұрын
You're actually a really great coach. I'd give you money to work with you. Just listening too you and how your so precise with your words and I just feel you're a real dude giving honest factual evidence of reality. Thanks.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews Жыл бұрын
@thomasgrabowski2202 , thanks for your kind words. Truly appreciate that. :-)
@carterwatson1949
@carterwatson1949 2 жыл бұрын
super glad i found this video tonight its been a rough week idk how much i really want too continue go down this road but i do still love her but idk
@DjInfamous
@DjInfamous 4 жыл бұрын
Another good video. I did call her bluff on saying she was done talking to me yet it's been a month since that night. I figure she really is still upset over what happened between us and still has things of mines, which she didn't give back. I'm sure she read the few texts I sent on just reconnecting the right way from watching some of your previous episodes.
@mariotibbrine1
@mariotibbrine1 3 жыл бұрын
You rejected her and her ego is hurt let her reach out when shes ready till then stay on your purpose and is whatever you wanna do keep on living being the star player you are!
@scottporter4871
@scottporter4871 3 жыл бұрын
This really helped a lot. Thank you. Much ❤️.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped! :-)
@mariotibbrine1
@mariotibbrine1 3 жыл бұрын
They are devaluing and have devalued you it's that simple just keep it moving.
@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359
@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359 3 жыл бұрын
That's it..100%..totally agree..if a man devalues me..I'm out!!! And will not communicate at all with him..so done at that point..no apologies
@marinadram
@marinadram 2 жыл бұрын
Nah that's not always the case... Dont generalise things
@Jakuboooooooooo
@Jakuboooooooooo Жыл бұрын
@@marinadram for real. Why do people even watch these videos if all they’re gonna do is completely ignore it and say their own (often wrong) opinions in the comments and generalize every situation/project their own personal experiences onto everything
@marinadram
@marinadram Жыл бұрын
@@Jakuboooooooooo idk... It's not cool... In every video liks this there are such comments.. always
@angelasperanza1140
@angelasperanza1140 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant exactly what exes do Angela from Rochester❤️
@gaboserglez3978
@gaboserglez3978 Жыл бұрын
I left my ex and she took the decision not to talk to me , that is very immature, but I didn't took it's seriously I did keep going with my life . Now am married again and happy.
@73aven
@73aven 5 ай бұрын
It isn’t immature? What’s immature is you breaking up with her and expecting like she owes you some sort of communication. You broke her heart and expect her to cater to yours. I’m glad you set her free, you’re a delusional and egotistical ass.
@jasonvelasquez5551
@jasonvelasquez5551 3 жыл бұрын
I stop talking to him or trying. I just want my current relationship to flourish. I dont want another rollercoaster. I just want to settle down now.
@Dakkadot01
@Dakkadot01 3 жыл бұрын
LIFE. Move on
@danielauhunmwangho9655
@danielauhunmwangho9655 4 жыл бұрын
Trying to be civil is ideal dealing with an ex.
@angelitarodriguez5769
@angelitarodriguez5769 4 жыл бұрын
+ 2 3 43235561664
@latoyadale5747
@latoyadale5747 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you don't talk to your ex because they don't know how to keep it cordial. They always want to start the relationship back up when in reality, you don't want them back!🙄
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
Great point
@realfactstv7322
@realfactstv7322 3 жыл бұрын
But why
@latoyadale5747
@latoyadale5747 3 жыл бұрын
@@realfactstv7322 Why what? I wouldn't want none of my exes back because if we were together and it didn't work... I'm not back tracking that's like a dog returning to it's vomit🤮 I just pray that they will find someone else but it ain't me😊
@realfactstv7322
@realfactstv7322 3 жыл бұрын
@@latoyadale5747 Ok I'm emotional right now and really need someone to talk to. Okay but after being together for six years why no text or call shouldn't there be at least a teaspoon of love for me in her heart. I was a good man cook clean work run her bath water make good love give her massages cooked so good she begs me to cook for her . I paid all the rent and bills for 3 years straight I will admit I stop going to work because of a injury and anxiety issues but I still provided a little bit . But like wow even though she had bipolar issues I still loved her I would of never left her for nobody. She talking to dudes from Egypt now that can't even speak English and get mad at me for being jealous but she gave me so much love I miss it why can't she just pick up the phone and say how you're doing at least . Why 😭
@latoyadale5747
@latoyadale5747 3 жыл бұрын
@@realfactstv7322 Sorry to hear that! To be honest sometimes it don't have to be nothing wrong with you and you don't have to do anything wrong for the person to not want you or to keep in contact. You can give a person the world and still not be good enough to them in which it makes you question if something is/was wrong with you. I can't honestly say why there was no contact on her part but I know from experience that if the love is no longer there than most likely a female don't want nothing else to do with you. A female leaves mentally before she leaves physically. Sorry that you went through that but don't let that stop you from being a good man.
@brettming9015
@brettming9015 4 жыл бұрын
You always have the perfect video of what I'm currently going through. We were together 9 years and the last couple did us in. We kind of healed each other the first few months.Its been six months. Six weeks ago she was doing positive pullbacks but then texted me daily for about a month. She was playful and flirty and out of nowhere distanced herself again. She still texts but can go days and not say anything but when she does it feels different. I think she may be in a relationship with her ex husband and not telling me but still keeping me at arms length for whatever reason. I could of swore six weeks ago we were headed towards getting everything back. My confidence in that has dwindled.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
HI Brett, I understand how our thoughts can develop certain stories. But remember that getting back together is a process between you and her. So be patient.
@brettming9015
@brettming9015 4 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews Thanks Clay,I appreciate the kind words. I've been pretty patient throughout and given mega space. I'll stay the course.
@remyd1984
@remyd1984 Жыл бұрын
@@brettming9015how did your situation play out mate? Pretty much in the same boat
@brettming9015
@brettming9015 Жыл бұрын
@@remyd1984 We are back together. We worked everything out last May so it's been pretty good. I hope your relationship works out for the best.
@remyd1984
@remyd1984 Жыл бұрын
@@brettming9015 thank you so much 👍🏻
@user-mo5vx7bt6o
@user-mo5vx7bt6o Жыл бұрын
My ex told me he doesn’t see me as a person anymore and that he doesn’t want anything to do with me anymore
@Koboltdragon
@Koboltdragon 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Clay, Thanks so much for all your videos. With your help my ex and I are back talking. Only issue is we have only met up once in person and now seems to refuse meeting in person, at the same time the messaging and phone calls have been really good. it feels like she is determined to not let herself develop feelings for me again. Just wondering how to get past this hurdle as I know talking in person is important. Thought it might be a good topic for a video. Again, thank you for all the guidance as It been amazing talking to her again on such a good level and I thought I would never get to this point again.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
Take things one step at a time and allow your ex to fully process the progress. Yes, talking in person is important but you have to be mindful of her comfort level as well. Have you checked our Connect and Commit program? That might help you on your journey as well. :-)
@JD-dv9kc
@JD-dv9kc 4 жыл бұрын
Cut her off and walk off. She doesn't value you, she knows you're there and she has you. Stop giving a shit and bowing down to her
@thomasgrabowski2202
@thomasgrabowski2202 Жыл бұрын
You cannot control another person's perspective.
@JamieAug
@JamieAug Жыл бұрын
You nailed it. If someone doesn't want to talk to you after breaking up, that's their prerogative. No one owes it to you to talk to you after they ended the relationship. Just do your best to move on.
@travelingman9
@travelingman9 2 жыл бұрын
What if she get angry and makes comments like, “glad to see you living your life” or “you’re just out having fun while I’m stuck depressed” even tho the split was her idea.. she blocked me after criticism of me hanging out with my friends.
@fazoolaccount2335
@fazoolaccount2335 2 жыл бұрын
so what to do after that? despite of apologizing they refuse to talk..... and break up
@sahi122
@sahi122 3 жыл бұрын
Hey coach please tell me what should I do .he is gosting me now but I was first who break-up with him but I was only taking my space it was not real breakup from my side , but after few days I reach out to him but he suddenly block me without responding so I contacted him from here and there he is only ghosting me . yesterday he said if I want to talk I will talk . what does it mean ,he will come back or not please guide me coach🙏❤️
@lizzierose007
@lizzierose007 2 жыл бұрын
My ex is nuts, he told me that wanted to break up. He was the one who told that we needed to break up. Either he's doing what you said or was drunk! Im like "did I just hear him say that" lol.
@julieboyd9171
@julieboyd9171 4 жыл бұрын
My Ex is avoiding a talk with me. Not that we want to get back together but we are both being hurt because we won’t “come around the table” as we have close mutual friends and other people are being affected. I’ve been deemed this horrible, fabricated person and she’s so stubborn to any change
@thomasgrabowski2202
@thomasgrabowski2202 Жыл бұрын
good. Let it be. Don't change anything. Don't even try. Honetly the best advise I would give you is find a reason or just dump her ass and run like it's not worth it. Just don't do anything to be honest, doing nothing is.
@whitneymiller5139
@whitneymiller5139 Жыл бұрын
Update??
@FabioAguirreCalero
@FabioAguirreCalero Жыл бұрын
I'm so broken And it been 2 years. I lost myself
@clairesanders1742
@clairesanders1742 4 жыл бұрын
He keeps reaching out but still says we can't be together. I've told him I don't want to to the friend thing. I think he just wants to see if I still want him back. Sounds like game's to me.
@mariotibbrine1
@mariotibbrine1 3 жыл бұрын
Dont want him anymore friendzone him he's dead
@GoLiveJeez
@GoLiveJeez 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes they play games.
@G0ld3n.linaaa
@G0ld3n.linaaa 3 ай бұрын
My ex told me he didn’t wanna talk for 6 months he’s in the military and he’s going on deployment what should I do yes I want a relationship but I’m so unsure rn
@charlottebrowen2778
@charlottebrowen2778 4 жыл бұрын
My ex alway,s want to come back to talk to and tried to make a statement, dont work for me at all , he left me for his ex and I told work it out and leave alone ,was I was right and I meant just that. Peace.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about what happened. i hope that you are holding on well.
@seanpepin252
@seanpepin252 Жыл бұрын
Hey, clay I really need your help how can I get ahold of you to explain my situation?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews Жыл бұрын
You can send an email to our team at hello@modernlove.life :-)
@denoc817
@denoc817 Жыл бұрын
Only reason I call or text my ex is for my 8yr son before his bed time or ask how he is doing. She will not answer any of my questions, nor update me throughout the entire day. Not even returning my call as last resort. Drives me crazy 😤
@remyd1984
@remyd1984 Жыл бұрын
What’s your situation now mate? In the same boat!
@ourworld7228
@ourworld7228 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Clay, how about if you are in the middle of divorce? If anyone has any ideas, it would be appreciated. Thanks
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
Hey there, it really depends. At times the divorce lawyers mediates in between. So it is something that you may look into as well.
@JohnSmith-fo8tn
@JohnSmith-fo8tn 4 жыл бұрын
My ex said no more contact for a good while last Monday.. on Thursday she text me, called 5 times wondering when she can get her stuff back (she gave to keep safe while abroad) then I sent her a meme, she laughed. 2 days later, I replied to her story and said something which made her happy.... then next morn I realised she tried to video call me last evening bc i was in hospital and her and her friend wanted to check in... Then talked today as well as a friend of ours father passed away.. She said she loves her boyfriend a lot and has been together since February, said we shouldnt talk as much as we do bc we're exs and thats the only reason and it wont change.... but she still texted me lol so idk
@remyd1984
@remyd1984 Жыл бұрын
how did your situation play out mate?
@georgespangler1517
@georgespangler1517 4 жыл бұрын
Tuff one clay,, was together 13 years of which the last 6 years I love and raised 2 of her sons kids and when I wouldn't agree to move in and raise 2 more she left, she was going through menopause and had emotionally shut down anyway, 13 years and we hardly ever disagreed and never had bad arguments, just found out she married and dieing man , maybe I didn't really know her at all,, she never let the kids and I see each other again, she thought I would cave in and take more kids to raise but I just couldn't at 55 and with the new way she was acting
@mariotibbrine1
@mariotibbrine1 3 жыл бұрын
sounds like she is a gold digger or a woman of the street or a painted woman of the night you're better off thank the gods you are alive and made it outta there with the skin on your back.
@georgespangler1517
@georgespangler1517 3 жыл бұрын
@@mariotibbrine1 Thanks,,, Your right,,, guess I didn't want to believe it,,
@mariotibbrine1
@mariotibbrine1 3 жыл бұрын
@@georgespangler1517 hey man you are the prize. Dont raise other peoples f'trophies it's not your responsibility and they are bad eggs.
@georgespangler1517
@georgespangler1517 3 жыл бұрын
@@mariotibbrine1 Thanks buddy,, I've learned my lesson,, was always tough if your asked to be a hero step up and be one,, the kids loved me so much more then her that she was jealous of it,, just glad to know there's a bigger fool then me in the guy that married her at 58 years old with all the baggage. At least I wasn't fool enough to marrie her.
@mariotibbrine1
@mariotibbrine1 3 жыл бұрын
@@georgespangler1517 you did the best you could for that time and those people if those kids fail to see that in the future just be happy knowing the truth of the matter just wish them well and be on your way living your life and your purpose always live for yourself first everyone else second dont break yourself to elevate another above you if its something you're not interested in but someone else is be willing to let them go do it without you as long as it doesn't negatively effect or affect or infect you or hurt you personally of course. You are free do what you want how you want with who you want anytime you want as long as its positive for you enjoy life you only live once there is so much to experience and see get out there and find things create new things that help you occupy yourself and keep busy if you feel down make a plan research a new area hobbies skills keep going knowledge is key you must keep learning it keeps your mind strong and young and healthy and productive.
@charlesyoung3287
@charlesyoung3287 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Clay, I could really use some advice. So we’ve been apart for about 6 months now. She took the last of my stuff with her to her new apartment with her so I had to come and get it. I went and saw her yesterday. She made me dinner and caught a sunset and had a good time. I’d catch her looking at me pretty frequently. She mentioned how she’s essentially giving up on dating because everyone she’s met has been awful. She said a lot of nice things about me and that I was “the right person at the wrong time.” She’s always struggled with depression and mental health, so she has had a hard time understanding her emotions. Just before I left, she told me that she always felt loved looking into my eyes and before I left the door she actually admitted that she wanted a hug. It’s pretty clear to me with everything she’s done that she still loves me and wants to be with me, but isn’t connecting the dots and doesn’t want to acknowledge her feelings. Anyway, I’m pretty sure after last night she’s going to go cold again. We had a pretty good night filled with talk and laughs. What should I do next? How should I move forward if she doesn’t want to talk to me?
@campingforayearrenoheart5908
@campingforayearrenoheart5908 4 жыл бұрын
Your description sounds like she misses you by her actions, me I would wait 2-3 days tell her she needs to go have a good time what’s her schedule like and take her on a real date 3-4 days or week later , let her know your busy but you will make time and pick her up like a gentleman, and don’t bug her , mirror what she does let her do most of the reaching out you have waited 6 months , don’t bring up the past live in the now , don’t bring up the future, you have to start all over ! The second time around is hard as you already have emotions but it’s worth it , just remember you have changed she probably hasn’t , and heck almost all girls have depression, good luck my Friend
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
It sounds like your ex may be in the Test Drive phase. Make sure to apply the Advanced Relational skills that you have learned and focus on building connection. if she pulls back, respect her needed time for space to evaluate things. We talk amore about this inside the Ex Solution Program course.
@charlesyoung3287
@charlesyoung3287 4 жыл бұрын
Clay Andrews thank you for the advice! I’m glad to have your thoughts on where I’m at. It’s very relieving. I’ll look into the course
@richardhosey9788
@richardhosey9788 4 жыл бұрын
Clay I really need advise. My ex is with a new guy right after break up we been split for almost 3 months.. my son thinks of her as a mother we were together for 6 years..we talk off and on I brought up getting back together a lot because I truly only want her . Recently we have been talking more but today she says I’m lying and a friend I have known from grade school added me then accidentally send a friend request to her she got made and told me to stop having my wh@&e trying to add her I explained everything . Is this the dragon
@campingforayearrenoheart5908
@campingforayearrenoheart5908 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t talk about getting back together, talk about taking her on a date , go have fun , girls want a good time ! We live in the now not the future, if she talks about let her but you never bring it up , good luck 👍
@richardhosey9788
@richardhosey9788 4 жыл бұрын
Now she is saying there is no way we are getting back together so I don’t know where she is at didn’t speak for a few days then bam
@realfactstv7322
@realfactstv7322 3 жыл бұрын
@@richardhosey9788 Hey bro please respond me and my wife separated after 6 years why want she at least text or call . Sure I have given her space by not over texting and calling but dang this hurts I was a good man to her . Why !!! How long did it take for her to text or call
@marshellepayne4020
@marshellepayne4020 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t get my ex to speak to me said I was mean nasty and destructive.. he won’t even meet up with me. I tried apologizing for things I said. I do wish I hadn’t said the things I said but I don’t regret them was nothing but facts. But I miss him and would love to have a face to face but he’s not having it.. said I’d never see him again. That I violated him and he had never been violated in that way in his whole 51 years before
@writinggoddess9988
@writinggoddess9988 2 жыл бұрын
Damn I wouldn't meet up with you either😔 Crazy ass 😆
@Momon1i26
@Momon1i26 Жыл бұрын
Writing goddess: Be nice.
@kylejohnson6868
@kylejohnson6868 4 жыл бұрын
So what would your opinion be if I'm the one that kind of doesn't want to talk to my ex? I felt like it was a forced break up and after our breakup saw her get back with one of her ex's that she wouldn't stop talking about and would make her frustrated. She got angry instantly when i said she was looking for that ex in me and took me as a convenience. She also kept telling me i'd find better and i'm just the first gf of yours and she talks about how she has 6+ ex's and an ex fiance..
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Kyle, I'm sorry to hear about that but it seems like there's so much emotional tension that needs to settle down between you and your ex. Maybe once you both have healed from the breakup, the flow of your interaction would be different.
@kylejohnson6868
@kylejohnson6868 4 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews Hey Clay , thanks for the response. Sure you will hear one side of the story, but we both definitely need space and we both have room to grow up. It was rather unfortunate, but it gives me time to reflect on things I ignored about my self etc. Heck just trying to get her, her things is a hassle in itself especially since she went back to her home country. The worst in me definitely got brought out that is for sure. Time and keeping the mind busy is what I should do for now.
@craigsmith9560
@craigsmith9560 4 жыл бұрын
Was in relationship 5 years. We split up 18 months ago I never gave up hope of getting back with her I’ve gone into no contact of about 30 days a few times then asked confidently about meeting up for coffee etc in our relationship there was a lot of arguments over silly things she was insecure due to her past but at end of our relationship I end up being the insecure and needy one ! Any ideas ? I feel more confident and understand the relationship is over but she never replies ! I last heard from her 6 months ago when she said maybe sometime about meeting up I got over excited and blew it and haven’t heard from her since and realise now maybe she was testing me to see how I’d react !
@patgrogg4586
@patgrogg4586 2 жыл бұрын
Depressing
@thomasgrabowski2202
@thomasgrabowski2202 Жыл бұрын
hahaaha relatable! 'xD! Now I'm just laughing over it. She wanted to cheat on me. All good, I now know why you've been so distant! It all makes sense now. :) !!!
@michaelcolvin8702
@michaelcolvin8702 3 жыл бұрын
Just don’t understand why my ex still mad from me cheating and she has done it also. I asked for forgiveness but all I’ve caught her lying and cheated and so t own up to it also
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Michael, it seems like your ex is trying to displace his own guilt towards you. Though it is something that you cannot have full control of as they are putting up their own defense mechanisms.
@michaelcolvin8702
@michaelcolvin8702 3 жыл бұрын
Clay Andrews so space and time huh wanting me pay a bill from my place that was in her name and I’m not cause things she’s done
@johnlopez9014
@johnlopez9014 4 жыл бұрын
Idk know if made a video before but months ago my crush said no to me. N as bummed I was respected her decision n I ok no problem. I thought to myself, at least b friend like previous gf I had, we r still friends n I figured that she was a crush n nothing went any further it would b easier, BUT NO. We share same friends n we live nearby towns so obviously we had seen each other n I’m being friendly nothing weird, I just say hi n smile treating her like I would treat anybody else. But she doesn’t respond back similarly, completely ignoring me making things awkward n upset! I mean what gives?! Any thoughts
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
By the sound of it, it seems like her wall of reactance is still quite high.
@ceeze9923
@ceeze9923 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Clay, why does my ex WANT to talk to me? She calls and texts to check on me and wants to know what's going on in my life.
@ceeze9923
@ceeze9923 4 жыл бұрын
@@yolandakerr7368 Good point she randomly calls me to ask my opinion on things.
@ceeze9923
@ceeze9923 4 жыл бұрын
@@yolandakerr7368 But i don't want her in a romantic sense anymore.
@tintinpenaredondo6531
@tintinpenaredondo6531 4 жыл бұрын
@@ceeze9923 she still interested to you sir. Why you don't give her a chance? you don't value her and your relationship with her?
@ceeze9923
@ceeze9923 4 жыл бұрын
@@tintinpenaredondo6531 Yes i do value her. However we broke up twice already. How many chances should i give? Too much forgiveness invites bad things in your life. Plus in our time apart i have worked on myself, grown, and evolved.
@tintinpenaredondo6531
@tintinpenaredondo6531 4 жыл бұрын
@@ceeze9923 I see... Hope in my case the no contact rule will workout for me because i was needy and clingy but now I need to change if he back and initiate unless he is not value me or my relationshio with him for 5 years.
@andreytsatsulin5748
@andreytsatsulin5748 4 жыл бұрын
Surprised you didn’t mention the broken shards of glass for the 300th time
@andreytsatsulin5748
@andreytsatsulin5748 4 жыл бұрын
Guess fortune cookie advice is your new thing now
@andreytsatsulin5748
@andreytsatsulin5748 4 жыл бұрын
And for any possibly useful advice spend $300 on my program 😂
@thomasgrabowski2202
@thomasgrabowski2202 Жыл бұрын
Mhm yup. I tried so hard to get back with my ex. Wow. Never doing that again. Ever. Ever. Ever. Ever. Ever. If you wanted to be in my Life you'd show up but I don't even give a monkey's ass x'D !!! Not my monkey. Not my Life.
@kelddsrx
@kelddsrx 4 жыл бұрын
My ex literally told me that " we should stop talking this much or else it would seem as if we were dating.." then we met two times where we were all over each other.. he said I was the best thing that could have happened to him etc.. then before meeting again he cancelled.. said he just couldnt give us another chance.. Im in no contact now for 1.5 weeks.. broke it yesterday to call him cause I needed help at work (We have the same job but at different places). He helped me, sounded kinda indifferent. Today he called me to ask how it went and said that I could call him whenever I needed help at work . Sounds great but I think he's at this state of mind where he just wants to be nice.. he doesnt hate me.. but he cannot at all imagine another relationship with me and he just accepts that :/
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Kelly, It sounds like your ex is setting healthy boundaries, where he limits the interaction and topics depending on the situation and the type of conversation that you both have.
@kelddsrx
@kelddsrx 4 жыл бұрын
Clay Andrews hmm yes.. it's really hard to know whether he does the things he does because he is making baby steps towards me or because he just wants to be nice but by still being 150% sure about the breakup:/ he also still has some of his stuff at my place (after 2months) and always has another excuse why he cant pick them up etc.. think he would really want me as his gf, but is afraid of another commitment because of the issues I brought into the relationship:/ well, thanks anyway:)
@moonpiemoonpie
@moonpiemoonpie 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe they’re genuinely hurt. Move on, you probably deserve it.
@Level4Bio
@Level4Bio 4 ай бұрын
I don’t speak to liars or cheaters. Why would anyone want to communicate with a Narcissist? I’m confused by these videos. You seem to encourage staying in bad relationships? Why does it appear that way?
@DEMONICKHILLER-fx2ln
@DEMONICKHILLER-fx2ln 9 ай бұрын
I dont want to talk because my ex wont shut up. I dont want to talk because he’s bragging about being a slore. I dont want to talk because his girlfriend is a sllt bucket and he keeps trying to act like she’s not. I dont want to talk because he runs his mouth to much to his obnoxious friends and family. I dont want to talk because he is rude, racist, sexist, and has no respect for mental illness. I dont want to talk because he’s broke. So forth and so on.
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