Why Is My Ex Taking So Long To Come Back?

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Coach Lee

Coach Lee

3 жыл бұрын

Coach Lee explains possible reasons why your ex is taking so long to contact you after they broke up with you.
This is assuming you are using the no contact rule and are wanting to get back together with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend after they dumped you.
Sometimes just because your ex is taking a while to reach out doesn't mean that you want get them back and Coach Lee explains what could be going on and what to expect in this powerful video.
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VIDEOS Mentioned In This One:
Signs Your Ex Is Hurting: • Signs My Ex Is Hurting
Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: • Stages Ex Goes Through...
Phases of a Rebound Relationship: • Phases of a Rebound Re...
Signs Your Ex's Rebound Relationship Will Fail: • Signs Your Ex's Reboun...
When Your Ex Reaches Out During No Contact: • What To Do When Ex Bre...
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@RealCoachLee
@RealCoachLee 3 жыл бұрын
Just a reminder, I don’t ever suggest you contact me or anyone on WhatsApp. There are people who impersonate me in the comments. Take a look at my name here and how on a computer it has a check mark and on a mobile it is circled with a dark color. If it doesn’t have that, it’s a cheap, fake impersonator trying to rip you off.
@kelliejackson8152
@kelliejackson8152 3 жыл бұрын
Hi coach lee, yes I saw that and assumed it must be someone impersonating you, I haven’t messaged them of course x
@jdeeworldnume8330
@jdeeworldnume8330 3 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me 2months ago, he came back 3weeks later and was crying saying he misses me. We had sex twice in the last 3 weeks ... but his not saying anything about us getting back
@mlong506
@mlong506 3 жыл бұрын
Annnnd the irony of them posting on this comment 🙄
@tootsmay4420
@tootsmay4420 3 жыл бұрын
@@jdeeworldnume8330 he has videos dont make it so easy for him
@sashimurchie5067
@sashimurchie5067 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks coach for letting us know Thanks
@luciaiglesias1456
@luciaiglesias1456 3 жыл бұрын
Breaking no contact is like saying to your ex "I still can't do better than you".
@quake9405
@quake9405 3 жыл бұрын
19 replies and all of them are bots, they have absolutely no chill
@waitwhat6882
@waitwhat6882 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@paolanegrete8379
@paolanegrete8379 2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏼👏🏼
@richricogranada9647
@richricogranada9647 Жыл бұрын
It should be no more than 1-2 months. If still no contact, next please.
@shanetumminello2514
@shanetumminello2514 Жыл бұрын
@@richricogranada9647 Not always that simple.
@ak.88
@ak.88 3 жыл бұрын
Some exes will never come back or even communicate with you. You should never put your life on hold. Stay strong 💪
@Sams911
@Sams911 3 жыл бұрын
2.5 years and she still even hs me blocked... that ship sailed and sank leaving port.
@EJayyDreadHead
@EJayyDreadHead 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sams911 move on
@rdsieben
@rdsieben 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly life is too short!
@tercsi1
@tercsi1 3 жыл бұрын
@A K some people are avoidant personalities like my ex fiance...he almost never reached out first during a conflict. Was almost always me because I'm an anxious personality.
@lifeisbeautiful3019
@lifeisbeautiful3019 3 жыл бұрын
@@tercsi1 same here 💔
@ILoveAnine
@ILoveAnine 3 жыл бұрын
find comfort in this: You can never ever mess up something that is meant for you. Nothing you say or do will mess up what's destined for your life.
@stm1833
@stm1833 3 жыл бұрын
Ah thank you, literally always thinking about things I said to her after break up but i think no matter how things went after break up if it’s destined it will happen again, also she hurt me badly first before I overreacted but I still regret what I said to her
@emilyespinoza3009
@emilyespinoza3009 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. You're right. This brings me comfort.
@rutrakainmeiez5107
@rutrakainmeiez5107 2 жыл бұрын
Denial isn't the river in Egypt
@ordinaryguy815
@ordinaryguy815 2 жыл бұрын
Everything is predetermined and free will is an illusion. So, yes.
@karriesaunders8597
@karriesaunders8597 2 жыл бұрын
Apparently,that’s what they told me on a fake account,that nothing could change wanting a relationship with me,eight weeks later I was unblocked on the real account and says he’s in a relationship past month with a girl with three kids after abandoning his own child here.
@_astro_4291
@_astro_4291 3 жыл бұрын
She did actually came back 2 months ago , she came after a little more than 1 month no contact , i thought there was no hope , i started to talk to other girls .. now we are back together and we are pretty much stronger.. do no contact guys ans work on yourself , you will be surprised how the tables will turn , stay strong my kings 🙏
@sliceinher
@sliceinher 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats bro :). What was the reason for breakup btw?
@_astro_4291
@_astro_4291 3 жыл бұрын
Pretty much everything that coach lee has said , fall of attraction , the idea of breaking up for a long time in her head , now she is the one running after even if we are together .. just move on guys so if she come back you cab handle this like alpha
@dnap2526
@dnap2526 3 жыл бұрын
@@_astro_4291 that's awesome so mine broke up with me because of a lot of arguments that tears her up and I nitpick everything and I felt so bad she knows I'm extremely sorry and I said that if you give me one more chance for action I can show you I have bettered myself wow she asked why I didn't do it in the relationship I told her because every time I apologize I thought our relationship was getting better and you were patient with me and I can relax but I didn't realize that I actually was breaking you down to a Breaking Point so do you think I have a chance even with the situation
@dnap2526
@dnap2526 3 жыл бұрын
@@_astro_4291 she also saw another girl's Snapchat code on my story when I was out drinking at a bar but I did that to piss another dude off that tried to fight me but she obviously has trust issues now so do you think I have a chance with no contact it happened two days ago
@_astro_4291
@_astro_4291 3 жыл бұрын
@@dnap2526 the best advice bro is to let go ofc it will hurt but everything happen for a reason men i was down so bad i realise i didnt want to rely on someone to be happy , i work on myself and i accepted the fact that it happened , know your values bro if you feel that u have to apologize to her in someways do it , no simp , keep it real.. otherwise just move on bro 🙏
@itsreallyrona
@itsreallyrona 3 жыл бұрын
My ex can take as long as he needs. He’s exactly where he needs to be.
@marklynch3149
@marklynch3149 3 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂
@ebhodaghejeffery7789
@ebhodaghejeffery7789 3 жыл бұрын
How are you doing
@ebhodaghejeffery7789
@ebhodaghejeffery7789 3 жыл бұрын
I got my ex back.
@marklynch3149
@marklynch3149 3 жыл бұрын
@@ebhodaghejeffery7789 how long did it take?
@signsignsign74
@signsignsign74 3 жыл бұрын
Keep healing!
@Ruuumichan
@Ruuumichan 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, I can't thank you enough. You are truly my saviour, especially during my darkest times. I followed your no contact rule for around three months and now he wants me back. Even though at that time he told me that we will never get back together etc. After following everything you said, I did it. I lost hope SO MANY times and I kept on questioning whether this would actually work, but I chose to believe in you and the no contact rule and here I am now. I am so thankful that I found your channel. I remember watching your videos literally EVERYDAY after my breakup, It's so hard and painful to do the no contact thing and each time I almost break the no contact I always go back to watch your videos. I remember scrolling through the comments on each videos just to read people's success stories, and I never thought I would write my own on your comment section one day. I did all the things you said and it helped me a lot, I learned patience and so many other things. You were right about so many things. You are truly a gift from God and I just can't thank you enough. Thank you so much Coach, God bless you. I love you.
@sliceinher
@sliceinher 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your story, it gives me hope. Nearly 2 months NC for me.
@janeycooker3173
@janeycooker3173 3 жыл бұрын
@@sliceinher Contact oyama for help he restore my marriage
@TheArgella
@TheArgella 3 жыл бұрын
i love reading success stories! thank you for sharing!
@Ruuumichan
@Ruuumichan 3 жыл бұрын
@@sliceinher Hang in there, you got this! Please don't lose hope! Just stick to whatever coach lee says and if you feel like breaking no contact just run to his videos. No contact is very powerful and it taught me soooo many lessons. It made me a better version of myself because the method itself has forced me to learn patience. :-) best of luck!
@Ruuumichan
@Ruuumichan 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheArgella Me too! and your welcome. :-)
@ILikeDumplings
@ILikeDumplings Жыл бұрын
Cuz he is not coming back. This is the last video I click on about getting my ex back. From now on, I'm only gonna focus on my healing.
@Neha-q7p
@Neha-q7p 4 ай бұрын
did he/she come back?
@ILikeDumplings
@ILikeDumplings 3 ай бұрын
@@Neha-q7p nope, but I am happier than ever :)
@bhagyashree829
@bhagyashree829 3 жыл бұрын
How to deal with the resentment towards them ? When they left you during one of the most difficult and crucial period of life whereas you were standing strong with them during theirs. This type of betrayal can easily drown one person into anxiety and depression .And it just gets more difficult to fight when you see everything crumbling right in front of your eyes.
@mj3696
@mj3696 3 жыл бұрын
😔🥺 same.....
@maviszer
@maviszer 3 жыл бұрын
This...
@pamelad757
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
Empathetic people a lot of times get intertwined and start to date a narcissistic person but the reality is to except it and walk away ... love yourself and if they are supposed to be in your life , they have a lot of catching up to you to do. Pain is real and the feelings of love are raw, put the feelings of love onto yourself and love you and realize that time will heal. I am 6 months NC... I know how you feel but you have to love yourself more and just let go. We don’t know what is around the bend but you will be the best Version of yourself if you don’t crumble and you know your worth. Stay Strong
@bhagyashree829
@bhagyashree829 3 жыл бұрын
@@pamelad757 Yeah. You are right. 4 months down the lane, but the pain has become so unbearable that now it is just getting more difficult. Reached that point that can't take it anymore now. Just gonna focus on self healing and looking forward to what life is gonna bring next. Let's hope that we all come strong out of this difficult times.
@pamelad757
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
@Bhagyashree One day at a timre... keep active, clean, put in a box everything that reminds you of them... just put it in a box. Who knows ... only time will reveal what is ahead of you. Remember labor pains... no pain no gain, workout, take classes, stay busy!! Best of luck to you!!
@matthewwalz2624
@matthewwalz2624 2 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much you are helping me right now....everyone in here is a complete stranger, but we are all feeling the exact same hurt and anxiety. It's good to know I am not alone.
@Esteban_Narvaez_MD
@Esteban_Narvaez_MD Жыл бұрын
the MJ song "You're not alone" came to my mind, and yeah I feel hurt and anxious also.
@lineakristensen1821
@lineakristensen1821 7 ай бұрын
​@@Esteban_Narvaez_MDaww that was one of my best friends favourite songs. He died in 2010. RIP CC.
@lineakristensen1821
@lineakristensen1821 7 ай бұрын
how are you today?
@kekkic
@kekkic Жыл бұрын
At first I was angry and vengeful at the way it was done, but now almost 8 months later and after a lot of self reflection, I realize I was handed the gift of not having to spend my life with a selfish, narcissistic, useless human being with no goals and no empathy. Therefore, I am happy now and forgot what his face looks like. I wonder, why would one want to get back together with someone. It's over and it's for the best. Be happy all. Also, remember that Time is your friend. I think we all have a self preservation trigger wired into our brains that helps us heal and forget.
@kermitTheFrog466
@kermitTheFrog466 3 жыл бұрын
if my ex has a rebound, i'm done!
@cbcarlson5008cc
@cbcarlson5008cc 3 жыл бұрын
Mine had one , to my knowledge he is gone , we had a 3 year relationship, and with a 2 yr old , I stayed in no contact but only to take care of the kiddo when needed. She has been giving some signals , but I'm still holding strong I have time on my side. Take care of yourself and level up yourself they will come back , I was the giver and fixer in the relationship, and I decided after her threatening me about leaving the past 3 years, I got pissed and told her to leave , trust me no contact does work just make yourself a you 2.0 , better yourself all the way. They will come back hold your ground on the relationship when he or she comes back set boundaries also , I am the man and the supporter for the family and will not sway my goals for anyone
@cbcarlson5008cc
@cbcarlson5008cc 3 жыл бұрын
Becky get off the damn comments your a scammer
@cbcarlson5008cc
@cbcarlson5008cc 3 жыл бұрын
Sophia you to are a scammer youve been on KZfaq only 1 hour ago
@cbcarlson5008cc
@cbcarlson5008cc 3 жыл бұрын
@@reymipena5567 how long were yall together and how long on the break up , I know it hurts trust me I've went through the pain 2 months ago . It still hurts , level up yourself and your appearance, your money and don't worry about it it takes time if she doesn't come back then you have closure. Just better yourself for the next one dont worry about that fu*know or category, he will crumble , and it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't, your life is more important than someone else's,
@cbcarlson5008cc
@cbcarlson5008cc 3 жыл бұрын
@@reymipena5567 I can only tell you that if she is happy and ok let her have it . Don't push it and get the fu*k off social media, its gonna eat you up inside . And your gonna hurt that much more
@wilsonaparra
@wilsonaparra 3 жыл бұрын
+100 days of NC. Confidence came back, made new friends, things are brighter than even a couple of months before the break up. Starting to think I don't want her back after a 4 years relationship. So, it's working.
@Starsm74
@Starsm74 3 жыл бұрын
That’s me ..u give me hope
@robertvalentine7493
@robertvalentine7493 2 жыл бұрын
Nice to see a comment I can relate to. 4 years relationship. and about 20 days since the last text 26 days since we last spoke and going STRONG.
@wilsonaparra
@wilsonaparra 2 жыл бұрын
Keep it up. It's been 8 months of NC already. Now I'm sure I don't want her back. Haven't heard from her in a while so i guess she's still alive and that's enough lol I'm now dating a pretty cool girl, I like her a lot but I'm taking everything step by step. No rushes. trust the process, it's tough but necessary to rebuild your confidence and self esteem 👊🏽 blessings
@chandlerrutan7455
@chandlerrutan7455 3 жыл бұрын
Been quiet 6months ex and the guy she left with broke up. Now she is in my inbox everyday. She is working on the crap i told her was wrong. But she isn't doing it for me. She is doing it for her and him. Don't compete. I'll keep my distance but she is trying to friendzone me to comfort her. Not happening
@bosslady991
@bosslady991 Жыл бұрын
During the no contact I have actually healed to the point I’m ok without them when at the beginning I thought I would die without them..Hey time will heal you you will be ok👋🏻
@jannlewandowski5540
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Boss lady, GOOD FOR YOU! ⚘️
@TanzaniteHayley
@TanzaniteHayley 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not in love with any of my ex’s nor do I want them back but I just love being here lol
@kenf.2413
@kenf.2413 3 жыл бұрын
1. Break up was difficult, you made a difficulty at break up. 2. Dumper thought about break up for a long long time. 3. Dumper thought you are mad at him/her, and you don't want to take dumper back. 4. Dumper has a rebound relationship. 5. Dumper's friends or family trying to keep the dumper to stay in break up situation.
@fatherspiritural9920
@fatherspiritural9920 3 жыл бұрын
Hello dear❤ I can recommend you to a power a man in Africa who help me to get my ex back within 24 hours
@mamziemay1575
@mamziemay1575 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't pester him, plead, chase, beg. I gave him the break-up. Hell will freeze over before I would ever contact him.
@user-xv3zr4lm1j
@user-xv3zr4lm1j 3 ай бұрын
Any updates since?
@yangtzeling7468
@yangtzeling7468 Жыл бұрын
“ Hope can be incredibly destructive when your heart is broken. “ Guy Winch.
@jaycampbell1992
@jaycampbell1992 2 жыл бұрын
Getting stronger everyday, focusing on a new career and getting back into the gym. Thank you Coach Lee, for helping me through the darkest times.
@gadgetsondeck43
@gadgetsondeck43 2 жыл бұрын
stay strong 💪🏾
@gigibtsurvivor3348
@gigibtsurvivor3348 Жыл бұрын
If your ex was abusive or problematic in any way, none of this applies.
@wall1025
@wall1025 3 жыл бұрын
It’s about to barely be 4 months. She left me for a married fool, destroyed a marriage, and the guys wife just had his child. I was with her for about 4 years. It’s not as tough as before but I struggle from time to time. I just want her back, but I know things wouldn’t be the same and that kills me.
@antiyanna537
@antiyanna537 3 жыл бұрын
Kind of similar situation over here.. 4 years together as well.. sucks so bad
@TheBOneOfficial
@TheBOneOfficial 2 жыл бұрын
The thing with the rebound relationship is that I don't know how some people would be okay with their ex dating and sleeping with someone else and then coming back to them? I would never accept that, that is the lowest point for someone. The moment your ex sleeps with someone else should be done for you, in your head. You should definitely try to move on after this. How much I'm trying to get her back I wish to succeed before she is meeting someone else because if that happens, I will never be able to take them back knowing they've been with someone else. Even tho it's good for you because they realized they want you and all that. Doesn't matter, they slept with someone else. They abandon you, they are being selfish and don't stay to work on yourselves together, they dump you and then also sleeping and being with someone else? Who would want to be with someone like that? You should get your strengths and start to move on for good.
@roxana6733
@roxana6733 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@vfunkeraable
@vfunkeraable Жыл бұрын
💯
@jannlewandowski5540
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
B.1 I agree with you 100%. I could never take a cheater back. You don't know WHO they've been with, PLUS, if they loved you they wouldn't cheat. It's like a SLAP IN THE FACE! Good luck to you. ⚘️
@catvideo9459
@catvideo9459 Жыл бұрын
I agreed because I am on same phase
@comfortblanket
@comfortblanket Жыл бұрын
Yea if they have someone else in between, it’s a no from me regardless of if they come back.
@jacquelinema8137
@jacquelinema8137 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, todays my 31 day of NC and i realized that my feelings are shattered again here and there. So I came back to this channel, watching again for just mental support. Somehow your voice and this video really calms me down and gives me the patience to continue to believe on this, i will continue to work on myself
@dwightschrute8141
@dwightschrute8141 3 жыл бұрын
..update?
@spiderofsorts7611
@spiderofsorts7611 3 жыл бұрын
How are you now x
@karinajames4367
@karinajames4367 2 жыл бұрын
How are u now?
@spiderofsorts7611
@spiderofsorts7611 2 жыл бұрын
@@karinajames4367 I’m still suffering and it’s been 4 months of break up, I don’t think I’ll ever hear from him again! I hope Jacqueline had better luck than me x
@christellemagnolia7988
@christellemagnolia7988 9 ай бұрын
Me too, I'm fond of Coach Lee's voice, it's comforting. 😍
@griscamacho1
@griscamacho1 3 жыл бұрын
1 month of NC and she found herself a new guy. Basically a rebound and definitely a guy with nothing going on on his life. I spent all this time learning from coach lee. But the simple fact that she found someone new that fast is denigrating. Especially when I the dumpee raised my personal value. I just wanted to vent and say that I did loved her and gave her everything I could. Really saw our future but she sabotaged it for her emotional reasons. Men that hear me, work on yourself, be better, get better until you reach a point where you find your own bliss. They don't deserve us. We deserve someone like us. Peace out
@whoami6711
@whoami6711 3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. You have helped me see my situation through detached eyes. And I have realized that holding on to toxicity isn't worth the time and energy. Because of you, I have figured out it's just time to move on.
@jonathanfigueroa6733
@jonathanfigueroa6733 2 жыл бұрын
You answer so many thoughts and questions that run through my head ,everytime I feel stressed I pick one of your videos and it kills my stress instantly.. You're a blessing and thanks for what you do .
@sliceinher
@sliceinher 3 жыл бұрын
You a life saver Coach. A lot of breakups in lockdown, so easy to spiral into a depression, and isolation makes it that much harder. You are the OG of this breakup industry ;) thanks so much for helping me keep my dignity and proceed the right way where "it would make sense" for them to come back.
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!! I definitely became more stressed in lockdown and I’m sure I’m not alone in this, I just don’t understand why exes can’t understand this and try to get passed the hump in this to give the relationship a chance. Then by all means if it doesn’t work out then maybe there are other issues to contend with but cross that bridge when you come to it
@adriantapia6480
@adriantapia6480 3 жыл бұрын
Just leaving this here : Just do you and don’t wait for anyone , keep your options open and k ow your value!
@bobbieyelding1354
@bobbieyelding1354 3 жыл бұрын
What an unbelievable watch, we don’t deserve you Coach Lee. You’re a human stress ball. Also another video, another great shirt 💙
@KingRussellJJ
@KingRussellJJ 3 жыл бұрын
I’m in no contact for exactly a year. Today I planned on reaching out for months, but I decided I’m staying no contact because I’ve gotten use to it and I’m enjoying my time away from my ex
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you, bro. It is 10 months of no contact for me now. This shit is over.
@KingRussellJJ
@KingRussellJJ 3 жыл бұрын
Think we should just contact her?
@rdsieben
@rdsieben 3 жыл бұрын
Best to move in. Your only revenge is to find someone better!
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204 3 жыл бұрын
​@@KingRussellJJ what's the point in contacting an ex as a dumpee? Yeah, ok, maybe it works out, she is not ignoring you right away and you have some smalltalk. Then what? You propose a catch up? And if she says no, you just move on? And if she says yes you check if there might be a chance to restart your relationship? I think either way this will probably hurt your heart again. At this point I do not see one reason at all why I should contact my ex and bother with all this emotional shit. I am too busy for that anyway. But I also do not believe that if I get dumped like a trashbag, it is me who should reach out. Most definetly not! Either the dumper realizes what he or she lost, or you just find someone else who appreciates you enough to not let go of you. My ex dumped me and told me she would be better without a relationship. Well, I respect her wish and let her live out her fantasy of being single. If she changes her mind, I will hear her out, but to chase someone who broke my heart is disrespectful toward my self. Disrespecting myself and chasing too much after her is probably part of the reason why she dumped me in the first place. No, either she reaches out or it's GOODBYE FOREVER.
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204 3 жыл бұрын
@@rdsieben yeah well, I agree with moving on. But I disagree with seeing this as a revenge. I wish her the best. And if she believes that the best for her is not being in a relationship with me, then I do accept that. Everything else woud only result in me being still bitter about her decision. Which I actually was. But I do not want to be bitter. I only want to move forward and not live in the past.
@jojohanna217
@jojohanna217 3 жыл бұрын
It took him 3 months to reach out again just to tell me we have to stay friends haha. Funny.
@yamomma5053
@yamomma5053 3 жыл бұрын
What a douchebag ...it was 3 months already, he didn’t think u were aware at that point ? Seems like a narcissist smh.
@jojohanna217
@jojohanna217 3 жыл бұрын
@@yamomma5053 and even at that point i had still been hoping. I was blind. And the more i think about now, the more I have to come to terms with the fact that he really seems to be a narcissist :(
@antiyanna537
@antiyanna537 3 жыл бұрын
SAME GIRL!! He went 4 months then reached out to have and dinner but said it was just “closure” towards the end of the night... like huh?? You could’ve just texted me that but clearly he wanted to see my in person. Made no sense ..
@polkanabalkanach
@polkanabalkanach 3 жыл бұрын
That's why YOU HAVE TO IGNORE HIM the first time he reaches out. Always!
@geeskin5750
@geeskin5750 3 жыл бұрын
That's when u say ya mama
@petrosk7789
@petrosk7789 3 жыл бұрын
rebound relationships are the worst reason. i gave up! after 6 months i am not even trying, but i still watching to stay calm!
@antiyanna537
@antiyanna537 3 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY. Same here. It’s almost 6 months!
@robertpreski262
@robertpreski262 3 жыл бұрын
It's been 8 months for me. Oddly she started following me again on Instagram...
@bristyshurtradharpuja3531
@bristyshurtradharpuja3531 3 жыл бұрын
same here
@robertpreski262
@robertpreski262 3 жыл бұрын
@D V no contact what so ever on my part. She started following me, so I followed back. I get an occasional like on a post. That's about it. I'm not contacting her. It's her move.
@janeycooker3173
@janeycooker3173 3 жыл бұрын
@@antiyanna537 Oyama real love spell is here to restore your marriage or relationship .
@alangodfrey3598
@alangodfrey3598 2 жыл бұрын
Now she chasing me after 6 months because I fell back and did not wish her no happy Holidays and I met a better woman on top of that she can go kick rocks 💯 I'm Gucci now 🙏🏼
@markwolf1925
@markwolf1925 3 жыл бұрын
May this day be filled with blessings, peace, hope, goodness and love as Christ has risen. Happy Easter to you my dearest 💕
@Reachoutat
@Reachoutat 3 жыл бұрын
*W”h”a”t”s”a”p”p”+3=4=6=0=2=3=4=4=2=5=5*
@clarissaalmeidailgenfritzd8513
@clarissaalmeidailgenfritzd8513 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people say they need to think just trying to stay away but it's so difficult that side too .Somethings are not that obvious.Believe in the coach
@marishajensen2282
@marishajensen2282 2 жыл бұрын
Threw out all the little things I never notice in my room , I ripped a card I was keeping from him, I threw out about anything and everything he bought me (which he whined about buying me) and I got so much more space and decluttering done :) wow that’s so awesome I didn’t know how much pieces he always left behind carelessly that took up so much of my space and my life. Deep breaths. 😌
@harmonichighways
@harmonichighways 11 ай бұрын
If you had emotions that was strong for the person, wait before dating someone new until you heal and feel ready, that can take 1 month or 1 year. Never rebound. Dont feel stressed meeting someone new, even if your ex has met someone. Its about you own emotions, your own soul and happiness. Emotions just dont die easy, even if you are hurt. It is normal. Wait until you are ready.
@aymanbilalassen2280
@aymanbilalassen2280 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I wonder how much happiness can people get after they pushed you in the ocean of sorrow.
@aymanbilalassen2280
@aymanbilalassen2280 3 жыл бұрын
@@louisejohnson8787 so.. will I have to sell my soul for that ?
@rashoodkenji7515
@rashoodkenji7515 2 жыл бұрын
coach lee you are like a big brother who is wise that i love and look up to even though we dont know each other thank you for bieng here for us in this very dark time in our lives no money can compensate for the work that you do
@SolidusRob45
@SolidusRob45 Жыл бұрын
Just me leaving another comment to show my appreciation. Coach Lee is here when I need him first thing in the morning, in the evening, middle of the day. It's comforting, quells the mind, and gives direction. Thank you, Coach. Regardless of what happens between my ex and I, you've given invaluable advice for me to better myself.
@fortheyarerandom
@fortheyarerandom 6 ай бұрын
How is it between u and your ex?
@SolidusRob45
@SolidusRob45 6 ай бұрын
@fortheyarerandom we spoke some through the year, but it never went anywhere. Probably best, life has moved on and I'm in a much better spot than last year
@fortheyarerandom
@fortheyarerandom 6 ай бұрын
@@SolidusRob45 sounds good man, hopefully i get to also join the other side soon, miss her like crazy anxiety is killing me (currently in the 4th week of no contact) have to see her everyday during college with a boybestie that likes her, hurts like hell, but yeah hopefully I'll get over this soon. Your message motivated me that I'll get over this at a certained time, I'm happy for u bro 💯
@jamesritch5245
@jamesritch5245 2 жыл бұрын
I swear to God you are the most helpful person I've ever met. You are exactly what I needed thank you so much
@keepgrowing9941
@keepgrowing9941 3 жыл бұрын
A big thank you, coach Lee. This is what i really needed. You are really a Heaven sent for us who are struggling. 🤍🤍🤍
@Razainthewoods
@Razainthewoods 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! I second this!
@JKNat9004
@JKNat9004 Жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, "Sometimes people just need to mind their own business.". I laughed at the honesty in that statement. I can just picture who in my exes life is saying what. Oh well, continuing to try and stay strong here. This weekend my spirits have been a little better anyway.
@lindaya7927
@lindaya7927 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your help just listening to you helps to keep me calm anxiety goes down. Whatever happens with my husband his family doesn't want him with me his with them in another state now. I have been a total mess crying married now 32 yrs but his family wanted him back home. His going now two weeks . It seems like a lifetime for me. But just listening to you helps me stay strong and I am not texting him back or calling him or answering him. Thank you thank you . God bless you for all you do 💜🕊️🤗🕊️
@shoedecour7510
@shoedecour7510 3 жыл бұрын
All I want to say is "This Coach" knows what he is talking about.! I took his NC advice and after 3weeks things have changed for the Best.! I've even applied how you need to response going forward. Listen to him and again Thannnnkk You Coach Lee.!!!
@Reachoutat
@Reachoutat 3 жыл бұрын
*W”h”a”t”s”a”p”p”+3=4=6=0=2=3=4=4=2=5=5**
@jarrodoberg2078
@jarrodoberg2078 Жыл бұрын
Did they ever reach out?
@shoedecour7510
@shoedecour7510 Жыл бұрын
@@jarrodoberg2078 Yes they did and they had a whole different vibe. Give it time and let nature take it's course. Don't chase it never ends well for you when you do.
@juviehidalgo775
@juviehidalgo775 3 жыл бұрын
Before I stumble on your channel. I'm in no contact with my ex for 2 months now. I've been watching your old videos since then and I've learned a lot. Being in no contact with someone you still love or care helps you grow as a person. Focus on your goals. Don't give them so much attention. Just live your life. You have to know with your own self that you are worth it before you gravitate them back.
@frotusrwa
@frotusrwa Жыл бұрын
Man this truly made me understand! Real chigga talk fr fr no cap a playah gotta be bussin' cuz if the ex caughts me lackin' that aint a vibe im down with!
@sobreezy2456
@sobreezy2456 Жыл бұрын
Did they ever reach out?
@mayoayo001
@mayoayo001 3 жыл бұрын
Its been so long for me I think its time to just accept the loss
@pamelad757
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
@CyaKyle Do not listen to the con artist and their what’s app crap. How long has it been?
@mayoayo001
@mayoayo001 3 жыл бұрын
@@pamelad757 it’s been close to a year and a half possibly. But it looks like she found the one already. She’s far gone
@pamelad757
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
@CyaKyle How long did you date? Were you in a solid relationship or looking back could you have been in a rebound relationship?... that makes a huge difference..
@pamelad757
@pamelad757 3 жыл бұрын
United States Postal service It’s a Felony pretend to be the United States Postal Service
@antiyanna537
@antiyanna537 3 жыл бұрын
I know right.. 6 months for me and I feel like he’ll never want to be back together ever again.. especially with this rebound he has.
@sarahpureheart552
@sarahpureheart552 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Coach Lee, thank you for all the work you put into your videos and your blog. The way you talk as well as the Intro music is somehow so comforting! I would love to book a coaching with you! When will that be possible again? :( also: could you do a video on Mutual breakups and no contact? Especially if the break up happened due to family would not accept the partner or other difficult circumstances?
@jiachen8353
@jiachen8353 Жыл бұрын
Everything you said makes so much sense. Thank you for helping me to heal.
@lizetterocha2587
@lizetterocha2587 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee sadly it has been 5 months since our break up. I have broken down to many times and contacted him. 14 years of raising our kids and loving each other. But you remain right. I have restarted my countdown again on No Contact. The first 24 hours is always the hardest.
@fabster5005
@fabster5005 Жыл бұрын
Any update?
@beingfree7172
@beingfree7172 9 ай бұрын
Update?
@ArticruciA
@ArticruciA 3 жыл бұрын
Great explanation and once again nice timing. Thanks for the point of view!
@KenRFoxNashvilleSEO
@KenRFoxNashvilleSEO 3 жыл бұрын
Great topic Lee - and loving the shirt too 👕
@Lutjan
@Lutjan 3 жыл бұрын
I went NC coach, she reached out after around 2 weeks. We went for coffee and she told me if i still love her. I was unprepared and after a long staring her i said yes cuz i didn't know if i should've been honest or not.I think i've blow it up and i don't know what to do next. Thank you for every video that you make, you are a role model for everyday life 🙏
@SauravKumar-ek1gw
@SauravKumar-ek1gw 2 жыл бұрын
What happened after you told her that you love her?
@vigoolz241
@vigoolz241 2 жыл бұрын
any update?
@tweedybird025
@tweedybird025 2 жыл бұрын
This is so good! I haven’t broke the no contact rule since January when he told me he needed time. I do work with him, but I just keep it light and simple. I was depressed and everything for a couple months, but as of right now I am happy and looking into the future. He will see that in person and the way I’m communicating, but he said he needed time so I hope he’s happy with the new girl, but when he comes around again I will be gone.
@beingfree7172
@beingfree7172 9 ай бұрын
Any update?
@tweedybird025
@tweedybird025 9 ай бұрын
@@beingfree7172 actually been working on myself and have a really good guy friend at the moment. I do have a big crush on this other guy but idk if it will happen or not. I’ll ask him out for drinks some time but if he says no then no big deal onto the next one. I’m just glad I didn’t have to deal with that loser I was talking about on here. Life is way better without him in it.
@The_Darrell
@The_Darrell 3 жыл бұрын
Haha I think all 5 apply to my ex... Well, I expect to hear back from her in about 20-25 years
@wilsonaparra
@wilsonaparra 3 жыл бұрын
nice lol
@agr2628
@agr2628 3 жыл бұрын
Be patient my friend,25 years is nothing
@The_Darrell
@The_Darrell 3 жыл бұрын
@@agr2628 haha 😄
@colclarke7017
@colclarke7017 3 жыл бұрын
This cracked me up 🤣🤣
@gregrodgers9537
@gregrodgers9537 3 жыл бұрын
🤣 one ex messaged me and asked to go for a drink, wait get this over ten years later 😳 I said no thanks I’m good
@NotYourTypicalMermaid94
@NotYourTypicalMermaid94 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee I swear you are reading my mind!
@1Andrea
@1Andrea 2 жыл бұрын
Now I’m experienced enough to know 1 st acknowledge any wrong. Let them know you want to stay together. 2nd leave them and go no contact. 3rd I make new matches the next day and start working on self otherwise The anxiety becomes overwhelming and your stomach hurts. I’m not saying jump into another relationship right away but having the social connection and validation after the rejection along with reevaluating your life goals will help. At the end of the day our time in this reality is temporary and a relationship with another person should enhance the life you enjoy as an individual. Looking into your fitness finances and future goals it’s a perfect time to heal to dedicate to a great routine. I wish you all the best❤️. It will always 🦂 sting.
@keepgrowing9941
@keepgrowing9941 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, it is like in conclusion, they really dont want to get back, cause of they really did, like what u said, “they will push through”. Little by little, im moving on and i am not expecting us getting back together. Cause i agree, there are some delays, and all u say are correct.... those are the delays, but if he really wants me- he will push through.
@keepgrowing9941
@keepgrowing9941 3 жыл бұрын
I dont want too. Cause he has a new gf now. And i dont want him anymore.
@Zanzibarbarian88
@Zanzibarbarian88 Жыл бұрын
To anyone reading this, this shit works. I'm in a very unusual situation (more of a casual/poly situationship that ended and they still wanted to be in contact and hook up from time to time) and I don't think we're ever going to get back together (cause we were never really together in the first place). But the more I've not contacted them, the more they reach out to me. The more I don't contact them, the more respect I have for myself, which I can bring to the table when my ex reaches out to me. Do it for yourself.
@makingmengreatagain9291
@makingmengreatagain9291 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks coach Lee. Watching your videos always makes me feel better.
@Reachoutat
@Reachoutat 3 жыл бұрын
*W”h”a”t”s”a”p”p”+3=4=6=0=2=3=4=4=2=5=5*
@LaraCroft25444
@LaraCroft25444 2 жыл бұрын
This video helped me understand why my ex is taking long to reach out . Thank you Coach Lee.
@apartmanin8145
@apartmanin8145 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for this video! Perfect timing for the topic as always!
@mxsharkgang3246
@mxsharkgang3246 3 жыл бұрын
Good stuff coach lee. I watched you for months now & I followed every advice. My situation was short but I did no contact right away. Thanks to your videos it helped me ALOT. After 30 days he broke. He texted me 2 days ago & I haven't responded. Due to my emotions & I did all I could to heal from it for 5 weeks. Worked out etc took my anger out that way. I really thought I wasn't gonna hear from him again & that message caught me off guard. He texted to see if I was ok. - we broke up & mind you I was the dumpee, he used the excuse of it's me not you. I'm not ready for a relationship... he wasnt over his toxic ex so I moved out. I clinged on for 2 weeks & after that he said hes talking to his ex again as friends but part of me feels like he was lying so I could leave him alone . Idk what to do coach. I'm literally stuck. I love him but I don't wanna be an option...
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 жыл бұрын
I would advise go into no contact and let him come to you so then it increases your value, if you keep in contact then he’s more likely to treat you as an option since he’s nothing to lose
@mxsharkgang3246
@mxsharkgang3246 3 жыл бұрын
@@gamegirl8945 day 34 now. I haven't responded to his text 4 days ago. I'm not 100% but Its getting easier to do day by day. I'm trying.
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 жыл бұрын
@@mxsharkgang3246 if you don’t mind me asking how come you didn’t respond to his text? Also I’m glad to hear you are doing a bit better
@mxsharkgang3246
@mxsharkgang3246 3 жыл бұрын
@@gamegirl8945 I'm still too hurt by it. I'm still working on myself & I think I need to do that before I do anything else. Honestly I'm scard. I still haven't read his text from the day I started NC. I'm not ready to read it because its negative energy
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 жыл бұрын
@@mxsharkgang3246 ah ok that’s fair enough then, sorry if I sounded harsh in my last message, it wasn’t intended to Come across that way. If it is making you feel like this maybe say to him I appreciate you are thinking of me but I need some space to process the breakup or something like that rather than be worried each time they message and he could end up thinking you are ignoring him
@SurvivalHorror100
@SurvivalHorror100 3 жыл бұрын
Can I ask a question I haven't seen you answer before? So me and my ex were dating for nearly two months and we were great together. It just felt right with her and that we would always be together. I'm from the Republic of Ireland and she's from Northern Ireland (You can imagine that certain friends and family members weren't ok with this). However, because of Covid, both our countries went into lockdown and we knew we wouldn't get to see each other for months. My ex didn't want to go months without seeing me so she broke it off. I've been doing NC for 3 months now but my country is still in lockdown. Is there a chance she wanted to reach out at some point but didn't because she knew we still wouldn't be able to see each other. Great content by the way. Has really made dealing with this break up a little easier.
@selinac2964
@selinac2964 3 жыл бұрын
This is a really good video.. 38 days of no contact after I caught my ex of 2 years cheating, confronted him and he left ME. I did make it a difficult breakup.. and it dragged out for 2 weeks, haven’t heard from him. He doesn’t go on social media so 🤷🏽‍♀️ don’t know what’s going on with him but definetly positive he’s with the girl I found out about and he’s stubborn, but I will never reach out to him again no matter how bad I’m hurting.
@jeffreythomas4254
@jeffreythomas4254 3 жыл бұрын
He cheated. Why are u wasting ur breath or time thinking about him. Next!
@selinac2964
@selinac2964 3 жыл бұрын
@@jeffreythomas4254 you’re absolutely right, but easier said than done
@jeffreythomas4254
@jeffreythomas4254 3 жыл бұрын
@@selinac2964 have to love yourself, more than you love him. Cheater cheats when he or she is not happy. Time to walk and never look back.
@ibschicharito333
@ibschicharito333 3 жыл бұрын
@@selinac2964 I wouldn’t even bother with NC with someone that cheated. I’d block and delete and move on with my life. The level of disrespect he has shown you by cheating isn’t worth your energy.
@le2506
@le2506 3 жыл бұрын
@@jeffreythomas4254 I agree! I cheated on my ex because I was not happy with him ….And yet I miss him..ugh…Im nit going back to his avoidant self it’s very lonely. Why did I even entered in to a relationship. I did mentioned to him that I felt lonely and neglected. He would “change” for a little while and than go back after.
@rhettanderson411
@rhettanderson411 4 ай бұрын
Hey Lee thank you for all you do. I watched your vids. Immediately after a totally toxic relationship of 10 years and a horrible breakup I immediately implemented no contact. Freaking hard. I watched and watched. After 30 days I reached out. She returned fire with a lot of hostility a lot. I kept cool and didn’t react and responded in calm cool manner. The 30 days I personally think was a definite I can walk away from you and be ok moment for her. It worked. Your words of inspiration have been really helpful bro. Can you upload a video on toxicity and reactive engagements and How to handle it and respond to it
@lp3761
@lp3761 3 жыл бұрын
"I'll just keep the lines of communication open" THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I JUSTIFIED BREAKING NC 😂 Did it work? Of course it didn't!
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 жыл бұрын
Same here, I also listened to clay Andrew’s and by god I wish I didn’t, he talks the biggest load of rubbish with his “advanced relational” skills garbage and made me anxious enough that I contacted him to build a connection according to him even though he was reaching out to me. Doing that actually Made me feel worse as I felt he was only responding out of politeness. Coach lee as well as other coaches that promote your ex must be the one to reach out to you and initiate are correct. It’s more genuine when it comes from them whereas if you reach out they may respond but could just be being cordial. Also ignoring your ex is bullshit as well, if they directly reach out, please respond!!!
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 жыл бұрын
@kyara ksf crap I’m sorry to hear that, what kind of text message if you don’t mind me asking also how are you doing at the moment?
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 жыл бұрын
@kyara ksf stay in no contact and let him come to you! Don’t listen to clay Andrew’s where he says contact when you feel ready to build an emotional connection, your best option is no contact as it allows them to miss you, don’t be contacting them as it delays them missing you and re opens old wounds but I know it’s hard, I’m sorry he hasn’t contacted yet 😞 Though I know in another of coach lees videos separation anxiety tends to peak between 45 days and 75 days roughly
@brendonmartin7072
@brendonmartin7072 3 жыл бұрын
Yah his theories are horse poop...be strong try to detach and be with yourself
@gamegirl8945
@gamegirl8945 3 жыл бұрын
@@brendonmartin7072 it’s awful, the only coaches I listen to now are coach lee, Craig Kenneth, dating guy, love chat and Vincent bos and that’s it. Clay Andrew’s tries to appeal by not agreeing to the no contact rule as that’s what most will want to hear, but no contact is best and let them come to you
@ressler9774
@ressler9774 3 жыл бұрын
My ex left after 15 months of dating. I was crushed but then I really worked hard and was grinding for my last year in Varsity for graduation and I finally built my pc. Just as I got over the fear of loss and was good without her. I got a call from a friend apparently my ex hit him up and was asking about me and really wanted to talk. He played the middle man. She was scared I moved on completely, or maybe I was still angry at her that I'd chase her away or that I'd boast about the fact that she came back and basically have an ego boost. We're still taking things slow obviously at my pace. But all I can say is, just hang on guys. There's a lot of factors and things also happening in their life. If you do things right, you will be at a right place where you're okay if she comes back or not and that's the mindset you wanna have.
@fabianfabinho4284
@fabianfabinho4284 3 жыл бұрын
I got into a serious car accident I saw her little sister watch my story and then saw that my ex saw my story but she never reached out or anything it’s been almost 4 months now I thought she would’ve saw to see if I’m okay....I remember my last thought was seeing her and I at a lake house smiling before I got knocked out...I feel like I should call her because I nearly died and wanna just apologize for everything and ask for another chance or something she meant more to me than I thought I really thought I moved on...
@4SuReGaming
@4SuReGaming 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee do you recommend these methods for getting back a friendship ? I've lost my best friend and I want to get it back but I'm not sure if these methods are what is right for me. Please help I believe I have a more complex situation and I get find anything on it.
@brandonsanborn8527
@brandonsanborn8527 3 жыл бұрын
#2 is a crucial thing to remind yourself every day.
@SuperSeahA
@SuperSeahA 3 жыл бұрын
A friend sent me one of your most popular videos as they really helped him. However I’ll have to say, if you really loved them you’ll respect their decision instead of strategising to get them back.
@spectaculorobotfights4571
@spectaculorobotfights4571 3 жыл бұрын
34 days of NC now, was fine and carefree for a week but now I’m back to reminiscing over the past and looking through pictures we sent each other in the past. Wish so badly she would come back to me but I doubt she will. 😞
@le2506
@le2506 3 жыл бұрын
The similar thing happened to me. So I think it’s a normal part of grieving.
@vfunkeraable
@vfunkeraable Жыл бұрын
Any update bro?
@colleenmorrison9539
@colleenmorrison9539 2 жыл бұрын
Very true about friend and family telling your ex things that why they so confuse.
@LocoMenteClaraOne
@LocoMenteClaraOne 2 жыл бұрын
A rebound relationship = NO CHANCE OF ME EVER TAKING BACK MY EX GF AGAIN!!! The streets can have her!!!
@albabaez4672
@albabaez4672 2 жыл бұрын
3 days no contact .. Look I argued with him because he stood me up and didn’t answer me until the next day and his reason didn’t add up . Im not wrong I’m staying strong I stood up for myself ! 😤
@nonkinape4442
@nonkinape4442 3 жыл бұрын
I love what you said about mystery and that is so true.👌😌🤞
@Happy-tu3ro
@Happy-tu3ro 3 жыл бұрын
I broke no contact to collect my property. My Doc Ex sent his secretary to throw me out of his office and told his secretary to tell me that he threw away my stuff. That was the last time I heard from him.
@audibleillustation
@audibleillustation 3 жыл бұрын
My ex keeps calling me to talk about her life after my third time telling her I don't want to be friends. She told me she was past us but she wants to keep me as a part of her life. If kids weren't involved this would be so easy.
@joycebaily5543
@joycebaily5543 3 жыл бұрын
+2348119132200
@user-jd8zy1qh6p
@user-jd8zy1qh6p 3 жыл бұрын
I ignored him cause he wanted to be friends.. Is this wrong? Should I reach out to him?
@johniearmylody5383
@johniearmylody5383 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach I'm always active watching your videos
@Reachoutat
@Reachoutat 3 жыл бұрын
*W”h”a”t”s”a”p”p”+3=4=6=0=2=3=4=4=2=5=5*
@user-pc5hn2bl2p
@user-pc5hn2bl2p 9 ай бұрын
You came when there's no one on my site, friend, family bt I really thank you coach Lee you HV helped me a lot.
@ravindergahlot7111
@ravindergahlot7111 Жыл бұрын
You are the best guy you gave the reality non nonsense I got a lot of determination because of you hat's off
@GlobeTrotterBen
@GlobeTrotterBen 3 жыл бұрын
See I made the mistake of reaching out to my Ex after 3 weeks of no contact. I politely asked how she was and was ignored. So I then went and sent a message saying that I respect her decision not to reply, but I do wish she hadn’t kicked me out of her life by text etc. and wishing her well, saying goodbye etc. That message rattled her cage to which she replied “I did not kick you out of my life”, and “you said text when I was ready etc”, none of which I actually said to her. I really do wish I stayed in no contact now, but that little conversation has actually made me more confident without her.
@currentresident1794
@currentresident1794 3 жыл бұрын
I got the ex back kit. It's too much work for me. It was easier for me to move on instead.
@ermatic5416
@ermatic5416 3 жыл бұрын
Please make me a moderator so I can get ride of these BOTS! They are the most ANNOYING thing and trying to take advantage of these heartbroken people with no hope!
@oscardanielweeb
@oscardanielweeb 5 ай бұрын
Breakup was 5 months ago, she came back when her pet died 2 months later for comfort. She disappeared again. Its been 3 months since we last talked felt like forever but proud of myself of all the progress on my mind and body Ive done. I have a feeling she found someone else but it’s not my problem anymore.
@Camroc37
@Camroc37 7 ай бұрын
Why does it feel so easy to work on myself now that she's gone, when it felt impossible with her around? I keep feeling like I have fixed everything she was unhappy with and now she's not here to see it.
@Danny-vv3zw
@Danny-vv3zw 3 жыл бұрын
Wow the exact thing I have been paranoid about all day, thanks :)
@Excava750
@Excava750 Жыл бұрын
She blocked me from fb and I did nothing! Now she’s running crazy looking for my reactions.. thanks Mr. Lee
@TS-hc7zc
@TS-hc7zc 3 жыл бұрын
Even if an asteroid the size of Antarctica was hurtling towards the earth at break neck speed and I had less than 10 minutes to tell everyone I loved how much they meant to me before I had to find higher ground, I still wouldn't reach out to my ex first!
@martinamladenova6919
@martinamladenova6919 3 жыл бұрын
Can you please make a video on “no contact rule” when kids or pets are involved and the ex just started a relationship and you want to get back together? In terms of kids and pets, you do need to contact them so you could see them. Thank you!
@danielbastidas2223
@danielbastidas2223 3 жыл бұрын
Come on guys, they are not coming back and you know it. Coach Lee helped me by giving hope during those really hard times after the break up and I thank him for that, but ultimately I had to step up and kill that hope in order to move on. If you wanna feel good again you have to be strong first and kill the hope, it hurts but it's the only thing that works. I wish you the best guys.
@RealCoachLee
@RealCoachLee 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel, while I'm sorry that it appears your ex isn't coming back, that doesn't mean that no ex ever comes back. It just doesn't. I have an email box that is overwhelmed by people telling me about their ex coming back. It happens every day. In every situation? Unfortunately not, but it happens quite a bit. Again, I'm sorry about your situation if your ex isn't coming back and I wish you the very best. There is someone better out there.
@veeoby3364
@veeoby3364 Жыл бұрын
You're 💯 right. Just kill the hope and move on. If and when they come back you'll no longer want them. If someone leaves, they should stay gone.
@joanmu1053
@joanmu1053 10 ай бұрын
I dreamt of seeing a person killed last night. That male person impersonated my attempts to get back together I think. It hurted so much to see it dying hanging upside-down in the air, bleeding.. I almost woke up with a heart attack. My whole body is hurting the day after. .. is this an unconscious sign that my love died? That my relationship with him died?
@naluchachimanda6656
@naluchachimanda6656 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you..u r indeed a good dose of comfort💓
@annabananna1906
@annabananna1906 9 ай бұрын
I realized my ex is so immature during the no contact rule. He wanted the perfect relationship. One of the reasons we broke up was bc I didn’t share his “interests.” Going to music festivals and snowboarding 🙄. Also claimed he loved me but was not willing to work on the relationship with me bc we lost the spark. That’s not true love. I realized I am better off moving on than waiting for this immature person to come back.
@vanessaclowater9653
@vanessaclowater9653 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️ exactly what I needed today.
@Reachoutat
@Reachoutat 3 жыл бұрын
*W”h”a”t”s”a”p”p”+3=4=6=0=2=3=4=4=2=5=5*
@edaluv
@edaluv 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this. I am at day 42 and I’m still optimistic.. thanks so much.
@edaluv
@edaluv 2 жыл бұрын
@@coreybart2783 I met up with him a month ago when he traveled to my state for work. We talked and laughed and got along well. It was a hood meeting. We kissed and hugged and loved on each other and he went back to his state and I stayed here. I haven’t spoken to him since. I went back into no contact. I feel like if it’s meant to be we will find our way back to each other. We are 4 hours apart so it’s not like we will just bump into each other randomly so it will take some effort but I won’t be reaching out . I’m letting him if he wants .
@fragrancelover3523
@fragrancelover3523 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Lee thanks for making a honest videos. I am from India your videos are really realistic and helping. I just want to say thanks. Stay safe. Jai Shri Krishna ❤️
@lucydiamond2562
@lucydiamond2562 3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, how about a situation in which the ex himself made the breakup difficult? He kind of sort of said he wanted to break up over the phone, then he said he wanted to speak in person, then he canceled last minute because he felt too nervous and sad - after I asked if he was sure he wanted to talk in person. Plus the huge embarrassment because he did not show up. It seems to me like he made the breakup harder on himself and that could delay relief - and make it even harder for him to eventually reach out. 1 month of NC. Thanks! You are fantastic!
@yannick1857
@yannick1857 3 жыл бұрын
Hey guys me and this girl was in a lrd and we live in different countries our relationship was abit toxic and it was mostly me that always messes up this was my first relationship and i was still learning yk but she gave me alot of chances and i kept going back to my ways we still had fun and she seemed just as happy as me she dumped me 2 days ago and said she needs to focus on herself also her mental and physical health and her new job she said i make feel unmotivated and sucks her energy she blocked me on everything and i have no way of contacting her i really cared about her and never argued with her and always wanted to talk our problems out and was always motivated her and being nice to her she said i lacked confidence and i put ppl first instead of me she said i am unproductive but every day i work and when i got home i go to the gym then i study plus i make timd for her i go to bed around 3am and wake up like 7 she still dumped me i still love her and i want her back do yall think i still have a chance? Feel free to ask questions if yall want more info on stuff btw I'm 18 and she 19
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