NLP Techniques: Anchoring Powerful States

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NLP Techniques: Anchoring Powerful States
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How does anchoring work?
Anchoring is a classic and powerful technique in NLP. Bandler and Grinder discovered it as they modeled therapists who were able to put their clients into whatever state they wanted. It looked like magic until Bandler and Grinder were able to figure it out and replicated the results.
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In this video you will notice Natasha going into a resourceful state of balance and openness to opportunity, a positive state she has chosen.
I use sensory acuity to calibrate her going into the state. Once I can see that she is there I set the anchor.
I anchor her three times by touching her wrist and saying "That's right". I set both a kinesthetic anchor and an auditory anchor.
After three times I test the anchor by touching her wrist. Her eyes open wider and she smiles. Clearly the anchor worked and she went back into the state.
When I test the auditory anchor though she feels it but not a strong as the kinesthetic anchor.
I try out a visual anchor by pointing to her wrist and even though i haven't set a visual anchor she still goes into the state.
Anchors work by attaching an external sensation with an internal state. If you think of a boat anchored at sea it's a great metaphor for how this works. An anchor is a way to fire and hold a state amongst competing stimuli.
This is great for putting a coaching client in a good state before coaching. It's also great for inner game and using on yourself when you want to create resourceful states and bring them into certain contexts at will such as giving a presentation or a sales appointment.
There's a lot more you can do with anchors which I will describe in future blogs and demonstrate in future videos.
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@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

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@citygalmelanieproductions1431 4 жыл бұрын

Life Mastery Gym Nice and I’m really enjoying your works.

@RiceGamingminecraft 4 жыл бұрын

4:43 she smiled knowingly

@geraldopadilha7430 4 жыл бұрын

Very good!!!

@DamonCart 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@harshachavda1541 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much x

@DamonCart 3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@Nikolai18A 7 жыл бұрын

I've found anchoring to be a fantastic way to organize a memory palace if you've constructed one; especially if you can use mental anchors alongside your kineisthetic anchors.

@DamonCart 7 жыл бұрын

Tell me more about your memory palace. Sounds interesting.

@Nikolai18A 7 жыл бұрын

I don't think mine compares much to anyone who's had formal training constructing one, but the concept seemed simple enough to me. I wanted to try a "prototype" and used the Mansion from the early Resident Evil games since I spent so much time in it as a kid. I knew it well enough to memorize a floorplan anyways. Turns out, it felt comfortable enough that I just built on that and started labeling rooms by topic; some of which I've anchored to audio triggers to recall information faster when a particular subject comes up. I've found it much easier to anchor said topics/rooms when it's a subject you like/or are passionate about; some of the psychology techno-babble can be recalled, but it's often quite dry. As far as kineisthetic triggers go, I've found anchoring marksmanship fundamentals to the pad of your trigger finger helps you lock into a rhythm much easier. I'm surprised, I didn't think anyone would be interested lol

@veelovessleep 5 жыл бұрын

Hey there, very informative video. Would you say that anchoring can be an upgraded version of classical conditioning?

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

It uses the same mechanism but anchoring is intended to create a state in yourself and in others. I don't know that classical conditioning necessarily has the same intention.

@masterstreetmagic 6 жыл бұрын

You are very talented in conversational hypnosis

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@geoffpayne8986 7 жыл бұрын

Really good video Damon, simple and clear I understood what she was saying fine, I think she was from England.Also nice advertising with the hoodie ;) Are kinaesthetic anchor the strongest, I have read spatial anchors can also be useful (especially in a presenting or performing context) do you have any videos on these?

@DamonCart 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Here is a video where I use spacial anchors: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/breeabt5sZ2qnmg.html Anchors can occur in all five representational systems. The degree to how strong they are depends more on the intensity of the state than which representational system was used. It also depends on how much the individual favors the representational system. For example a very visual person is likely to be affected more by a visual anchor, but not always. Again it depends on the intensity of the state when the anchor was established.

@geoffpayne8986 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Damon, very cool.

@DamonCart 7 жыл бұрын

You're welcome.

@supriyathapabhujel115 5 жыл бұрын

Hey a question I recently had a nlp class and they taught me this first and they said it takes practice, i want to know how much time does it takes coz i really want this anchoring happen to me And am i right if i say that it will not work if u go too hard on urself Because I’m struggling with my past experiences because i cant remember any state of my life where i was confident (my resourceful state) Also thanks

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your question. Anchoring yourself can be difficult because as soon as you get into the state you have to remember to create the anchor, which can snap you out of the state. I find it easiest to grab my wrist lightly and as soon as I'm in the state I want to anchor I squeeze my wrist. This usually makes it easier. Confidence is not a true resource. This is a common mistake NLP students make. Confidence is what comes after you've accessed a resource or resources, you're congruent, you have experience in what it is you'r doing, and you value what it is you're doing. If you've never flown a plane and you anchored confidence to flying a plane, you could get yourself into a lot of trouble. To feel confident about something you've never done before or something you lack required experience to be good at, is not real confidence.

@muhammadhaseeb323 5 жыл бұрын

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@nageshthukaram7225 7 жыл бұрын

This is nice one....... how much anchoring will be effective, without me verbal explaining about anchoring to person with whom i am anchoring ?

@DamonCart 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you. It depends on the context and what state you're anchoring and on who. You can anchor someone without telling them anything and without them even knowing it. If I'm teaching it to someone as I'm demonstrating it on them, I like to give a little explanation as I'm doing it and explain the rest after I've done it. Giving them too much information before you do it may dilute the state.

@beastlykage 6 жыл бұрын

Just wondering how to find which physiological part triggers that State

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

You mean anchors that have already been created? You can create an anchor anywhere and you can use any system; visual, auditory, or touch.

@tyanite1 6 жыл бұрын

I've been trying setting an anchor when my extremely high energy toddler is calm and playing, so I can bring him back to this state. Haven't learned everything about anchoring yet, and I hope I'm doing it right. When he's calm and playing, which is rare, I gently touch his shoulders and ask him, "You're very calm, right? You're playing?" He answers yes to both. Haven't tried touching his shoulders yet when he's in a hyper state. Going to try soon. Wish me luck.

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

That's great. Let me know how it goes.

@Soulastro12 5 жыл бұрын

Cool!

@Hshjshshjsj72727 5 жыл бұрын

good idea! howd it go?

@citygalmelanieproductions1431 4 жыл бұрын

Forgive me if I sound off color but setting your child up to be mind controlled is probably not the best idea rather than using direct and gentle communication to correct any undesirable behavior. It is so frightening that NLP Techniques are just being handed out without any responsibility. If your child is wild ... use direct communication and or corrections. Massage works best if the child is upset and sometimes they need a “cooling off” space. @lifemasterygym .... be careful what you unleash to a very uneducated audience. We are living in scary times where psychopaths are the norm and acceptable. In my opinion... the Law of the Universe is just. Karma about to do a sweep like we’ve never seen before. You have to put a disclaimer up some where that these techniques should not be used against anyone. You don’t want that “juju” coming back at you. World gone bioweaponed and insane.

@7575tavin 6 жыл бұрын

Great video! I actually smiled with her, because I felt like I found a secret! I tried it with my wife and it worked just as in this video, but the day after that, the cue didn't trigger any response. How many time do I have to do it in order to stick and become automatic?

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Anchors can increase over time, decrease over time, or you can quickly desensitize it. If you anchored her using a touch anchor somewhere that she is touched often like the palm of the hand, the anchor will quickly become desensitized. Also when you set an anchor you want to make sure the state is pure and there are no distractions. This isn't always possible if you're anchoring covertly. Make sure you set the anchor just as they're reaching the peak of the state. If you do it right after the peak of the state the anchor will have a tendency to wear off quickly.

@7575tavin 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot!

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@sophie13.wright10 6 жыл бұрын

NLP Gym why would someone purposely use anchoring to hurt another person? I am asking because I would like to known how to reverse, change or stop the negative affects. Thank you, I would appreciate any advice.

@jamesross4319 4 жыл бұрын

@@sophie13.wright10 Anchor other states, either a resource state or a variety of states, to the state. And bad anchoring can happen by accident or design. The defense here is learning to fire it off at will then overwriting it so it does what you want.

@fivezeroniner 5 жыл бұрын

if i were to activate/use the anchor as much as possible like once every minute? would it lose effectiveness? what will happen?

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

Good question. Every minute would probably diminish the anchor and eventually remove it, but that doesn't mean that every time you trigger an anchor that it diminishes the power of it. If it's an anchor you trigger every once in a while rather than repeatedly it can actually intensify the anchor. Doing it repeatedly that quickly though will desensitize the anchor. To reenergize the anchor on yourself think of every time you use it that you want to re-anchor yourself so really go into that state and hold it. If you're using it on someone else, doing it unexpectedly will usually strengthen the anchor.

@jamesross4319 4 жыл бұрын

You're looking for state management. Learn to method act to hold state. Learn to breathe and stand and do everything the right way-for the desired state- until your body accepts the new state. After a few minutes your state should shift and your mind will begin to filter everything from the new state. You will only perceive things that put you further in state.

@AnubisTG1 7 жыл бұрын

Question. There are times where I get into an emotional state and make rash decisions to satisfy my reptile brain. Could anchoring be a way to suppress that?

@DamonCart 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your question. Yes, you can. A better technique, or process rather, would probably be the Swish Pattern: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/q9NpgsyBxrHZoX0.html Your language gives me clues to how you think about this issue and I recommend that you become more aware of how you think about this. True there is a part of our brain we can refer to as the reptilian brain, the part of our brain that is instinctual and doesn't think but reacts usually out of self-preservation. However, you're giving what sounds like a bad habit more meaning, reasoning, and a backstory that it doesn't deserve. When you do this it makes it that much harder to overcome. You are the master of your mind and master over all of the parts of your brain including the reptilian brain. Also you used the word suppress as in you want to use a process to suppress the reptilian part of your brain. What happens any time you suppress something? It usually rebels or resists. That's not how you want to go about this. Think in terms of integration, reintegration, and becoming whole and aligned.

@AnubisTG1 7 жыл бұрын

Wow. Thank you so much for that answer. I'm an internet stranger and you gave me such useful information. I really appreciate it.

@DamonCart 7 жыл бұрын

You're welcome. Don't be a stranger ; )

@shahnazmahpour6972 3 жыл бұрын

what are some good recourses we can use? for example if we want to feel more confident what recourse should we choose? thanks for the video by the way =))

@DamonCart 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your comment. I think you mean resources. Instead of just grabbing at random resources, think of a situation in which you want more confidence. Ask yourself what resource or resources would you need to access to feel confident in that situation and anchor it in.

@shahnazmahpour6972 3 жыл бұрын

@@DamonCart oops sorry for that :D Yeah that’s right thank you 🙏🏻

@JT8njr 4 жыл бұрын

Anchoring is like motioning your hands and saying "tickle monster" and making people laugh. Thanks.

@DamonCart 4 жыл бұрын

Yes I suppose that works too.

@Mansibavishi 4 жыл бұрын

Do u do online sessions ?

@DamonCart 4 жыл бұрын

I do. You can email me at damon@lifemasterygym.com

@zzulm 4 жыл бұрын

Is this introverted feeling? I use music to put me in a good mood and works every time I was just wondering if the emotional intelligence had to do with introverted feeling.

@DamonCart 4 жыл бұрын

I'm not quite clear about what you're asking regarding emotional intelligence and introverted feelings. What exactly are you asking?

@skionen1781 5 жыл бұрын

How long does it take to install an anchor on yourself..

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

Less than a minute. If you want to reinforce it you can spend a few more minutes repeating the process.

@SuperNeowiz 5 жыл бұрын

I use to consume MDMA occasionaly once every three or two months, the feeling I get while rolling is extreme self confidence, no anxiety and I am just overall happy with myself. I just accept who I am. I'd like to retain those effects after being sober, some dude told me that's just the way I am when I am not biased by social constructions and If I remember the feeling I can anchor it. The thing is, I can't concentrate enough to have a vivid memory, any techniques to solve this?

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

It would take more than anchoring. The drug is doing the work so you don't have to think about yourself which makes you less self-conscious. When you are in a flow state the effects are similar because you're not conscious of self therefore you're not judging yourself or comparing yourself to others. This takes a lot of internal work. Too much to go into here. I cover this in my online training Transforming Your Self.

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

Indeed

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@DeadlyV1RU5 5 жыл бұрын

I think cognitive behavioural therapy would probably be more useful to you than NLP in this instance. You have to examine the thought processes that are leading you to feel anxious or unconfident, and try out new ways of thinking and behaving until those new ways of thinking and behaving become automatic. I recommend the book "CBT for Dummies", it's a great overview of the whole area.

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

Tom Walker I've undergone CBT with a CBT therapist and in my case it was effective, but I find NLP to be much more effective overall. There's a lot of similarities between the two.

@bjacob9998 3 жыл бұрын

When or how does this slip into hypnosis?

@DamonCart 3 жыл бұрын

Some people use anchors in hypnosis but not always and you can use anchors without hypnosis.

@effortlessschool 6 жыл бұрын

Can we use anchoring in ourselves?

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

Yes. You do it unconsciously quite often. Some people find it challenging to consciously anchor themselves. I'm one of them. It's easier to anchor yourself using floor or spatial anchors. When I'm doing a process on myself I will usually work this way.

@tommyleahy6574 5 жыл бұрын

Can you define floor / spatial anchors please Damon?

@tommyleahy6574 5 жыл бұрын

No need to reply to this- just found your video ‘collapsing anchors ‘ which answered my questions. Thank you. I’m preparing for a job interview, which can be a crash state for me - so I’m hopeful that your strategies will make the difference for me

@tkkt3605 6 жыл бұрын

if someone else touched her wrist would it trigger the anchor?

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

Yes, if they touch in the exact spot it will. If she's not expecting it, she may even go into the state without being conscious of it.

@offensivetwat5750 5 жыл бұрын

@@DamonCart I suppose, wrist isn't necessary? Since it is a pretty naive and defenceless spot, it works good but i am wondering if same can be applied to neck?

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

You can anchor any part of the body. You can anchor only using sound or a visual as well or a combination of two or three senses. You just done't want to anchor using a stimulus that the person (or yourself) will encounter too often because it will desensitize the anchor.

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

If you're looking to use it for seduction, when you're on a date or with a woman (assuming you're a guy and you like women, no insult here, just making that assumption) and you haven't kissed her yet. When you're ready to go for it slide your hand gently across her cheek until your palm is touching her jaw just below her ear and your fingers are in her hair and touching her scalp. Make sure you do this in a slow and nonthreatening way. She will know what you're about to do and her heart will race. Take your time. This lets her know you're confident and sure of yourself and even if she wasn't planning on kissing you, you probably just convinced her. Lean in for the kiss slowly. Your hand touching the back of her head with her hair between your fingers will feel good to her and it will become an anchor because she is in a heightened state. So now any time you touch her like this again she will go back into this very exciting, sexually tense state that will remind her why she likes you. Too often guys don't feel secure and confident so they smash their faces in the woman's face as if they're afraid she might say no and they don't want to give her a chance to pull away. You probably will not return your texts after doing something like that. Women have seen men in romantic comedies kiss women the way I'm suggesting 100s of times. This is one way many women fantasize about being kissed. When you create that fantasy for her, she's yours.

@DamonCart 3 жыл бұрын

@Takua Ben dvarim any sexual gesture could do that, but if you're not in deep rapport with her as in, if she's not already interested in having sex with you at this point, you'll likely break rapport with her.

@Xbot4Life 7 жыл бұрын

i wasnt able to understand what she was saying, sound quality wasnt very good on this occasion :(

@DamonCart 7 жыл бұрын

Yes unfortunately she spoke very low. The main thing is to see how anchoring works. The content isn't important.

@Xbot4Life 7 жыл бұрын

NLP Gym ok cool, thanks

@sophie13.wright10 6 жыл бұрын

How can we block those negative anchors

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

We have natural anchors. Some you could call negative. Instead of trying to block them, I would collapse them; meaning trigger the negative anchor and then trigger a more powerful positive anchor at the same time to collapse the negative one.

@sophie13.wright10 6 жыл бұрын

NLP Gym thank you, I saw the video and it was very insightful. Do you offer an online course to further learn all of these techniques?

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

I do. Email me at damon@nlp-gym.com and I can give you all of the details.

@ceeIoc 6 жыл бұрын

I associate laughter with negativity. When other people laugh I feel like they are laughing at me. If I laugh, I feel like I will be punished for it so I stop immediately. Can NLP help me?

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

Definitely, but this doesn't sound like a state issue so anchoring probably would not be the solution. It sounds like a self-worth issue. When you're overly focused on outside feedback that makes you feel less than it's often the result of a weak self-concept or weak sense of self. No matter how many affirmations you say it won't change the way you feel because it has to do with how you're unconsciously selecting and categorizing your experiences. What would you like to experience instead of feeling like people are laughing at you? Get very clear about this. Then think about something you're absolutely certain about yourself that you also like about yourself. Take some time exploring how you know that about yourself. What life experiences have you had that let's you know that? This is the structure you need to build up in place of what's missing when you feel like people are laughing at you. Apply that structure to how you want to feel when you hear people laughing.

@Soulastro12 5 жыл бұрын

NLP Gym hi is there anything on speaking to people much taller / bigger / better than you? I feel that whenever I speak to tall people I end up on my tippy toes, or I am nervous. I also feel that when I meet shorter people than me which is 85% of the time there’s a shorter person, I feel slouching and almost sorry for the other person. I take pleasure in being comfortable and when I talk to people physically weaker than me it makes me super comfortable but also uncomfortable that I could be hurting their persona. Help lol

@neilsjmcmahon 5 жыл бұрын

Hmm I started to feel this also. I believe it is related to trauma & possibly smoking weed in my case. I went through a very challenging time and started to feel like everyone was against me including (especially) my own family. I have yet to resolve this but I did stop smoking weed and found it helped. I agree about the weak sense of self. Question: Do you have a slight sensation that others can read your mind or "see through you"? This is often connected to childhood trauma or over connecting with parental figures into adulthood. When we are younger parents actually can read you nearly 100%. If this continues as adults it's a boundary issue. You should speak to a professional therapist so they can programe a workable solution with you

@offensivetwat5750 5 жыл бұрын

@@Soulastro12 Yes, and it is pretty easy. Just understand the fact that NO on is better than you. Naturlly you will feel like people who are taller than you are more powerful than you in physical ways but believe me that is because YOU think like that, you think very primitive. Bigger equals stronger. NO. You are the GOD of your own reality. Just like everyone else. Know your self worth. it is YOU that will change yourself.

@fivezeroniner 5 жыл бұрын

calling people "names" or bad names, is it some kind of negative anchoring?

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

It can be.

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

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@Arrowpointingright 5 жыл бұрын

1:02 If this is the first time she's got anything to do with NLP, how is she wearing a hoodie that says "NLP GYM"? Also the grin seems like another dead giveaway...

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

Well hello Sherlock. We were dating at the time and I gave her one of my hoodies. This is the second ridiculous comment I've gotten like this. Since when did wearing a NLP hoodie make a NLP master of anyone? Anchoring is such a basic and easy technique, why would it even be necessary to fake it?

@darksidessj25 4 жыл бұрын

Dude, she is into you.

@DamonCart 4 жыл бұрын

Ha ha, yes we were dating at the time.

@darksidessj25 4 жыл бұрын

@@DamonCart I knew it. My body language skills are off the charts when it comes to reading women lol.

@sophie13.wright10 6 жыл бұрын

Why do people use anchors to hurt people?

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

I don't know of anyone using anchors to hurt people. Do you?

@sophie13.wright10 6 жыл бұрын

NLP Gym I became aware of nlp through these negative experiences. I began to research, then I learned that nlp was a positive, empowering tool that helps people to overcome many obstacles or situations that may hold them back from their greatest potential. Then I began to notice in some of my relationships growing up that these techniques were flipped. For example, I watched this video on anchoring and thought wow people were doing that to me but using it during negative experiences. When my supervisor would attempt to intimidate me, I would obviously look upset and a co- worker observe this would come over and tap my shoulder, while I'm in this state. Or there would be coughing during and agitated state. I took my time and recorded each situation and I discovered a pattern. These people were purposely attempting to keep me in an agitated, negative state. I am working to learn how to overcome this and remove myself from this situation that I am in. Thank you again and I look forward to learning more about nlp.

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

The people in those situations may have been conscious of what they were doing and they may have been unconsciously doing it. It's important to understand influence and manipulation for this reason. We unconsciously (as well as consciously) influence and manipulate situations and people. We've been doing it since we were children. You cannot not influence. The more conscious you are of it the more deliberate and ecological you can be about it so that you can create situations where you can get what you want without hurting others or taking advantage of them.

@bendixtrinity8337 5 жыл бұрын

@@sophie13.wright10 tapping your shoulders, I think its their way of telling you that they sympathize with you, their consoling you... but I THINK the best thing they can do is SNAP YOU OUT of that feeling by surprising you or whatever..

@IamOzz 6 жыл бұрын

Says that she has never had anything to do with NLP but wears an NLP Hoodie!

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

So if I wear a Gun N Roses shirt that makes me a member of the band? Does it even mean that I've attended one of their concerts? I gave her the hoodie. It has the name and old logo of my business. If you think wearing a hoodie with the letters NLP on it means you know and practice NLP, I hate to disappoint you.

@IamOzz 6 жыл бұрын

You seem to have gotten a little upset here, Sorry for that. All I'm saying is that this video came across very rehearsed. Its just my option on need to take it personally. Have a great day!

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

If I took all of the negative comments I receive personally I wouldn't keep doing what I'm doing. I am amazed though by the assumptions people make about the content or about me. Nothing was staged in this video. She had never had NLP training and she did not know what I was going to do until I turned the camera on and gave a brief explanation.

@IamOzz 6 жыл бұрын

I do enjoy your videos, have a great week mate.

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you. You have a great week too.

@m1ordie 6 жыл бұрын

This looks uncomfortable and video is misleading. From my perspective, you're doing it wrong and anchor won't work for your student if you don't inform them what are you going to do beforehand. She didn't expect touch on her hand and the situation looks cringe. Always inform the person what's going on and ask permission first to do so then explain where will you anchor, include small relaxation before the start and proceed from there.

@DamonCart 6 жыл бұрын

Misleading? In what way? When an anchor works, it means you're doing it right. The anchor worked. The point of her not knowing what I was going to do was to eliminate any doubts of whether or not this is real or she's acting. We're anchored all the time without realizing it any time we experience a strong state or feeling combined with at touch, sound, or visual. This is how anchoring works. The cringe you mentioned sounds like your own projection. She and I were dating at the time this video was shot so she was already very comfortable with my touch. Sounds like you've been reading NLP books and maybe taking some trainings, but you haven't been practicing, which is when you really learn NLP.

@johnlangston5244 5 жыл бұрын

@@DamonCart What Taurey is saying is that he/she (not to assume gender) is a master of Twitter-linguistic Programming and is suggesting that in order to avoid the appearance or perception that you are sexually assaulting the young lady, you should announce you are going to touch her and wait for permission.

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

@@johnlangston5244 I suppose you're right.

@UnSurrealProductions 5 жыл бұрын

The problem is men tend to project their own emotional state onto women. She didn't appear to be cringing, but in fact comfortable and positive, expressed by her with laughter and her own opinion during the video.

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

Yes we were dating at the time and we had fun making this video.

@bryanstark324 5 жыл бұрын

No way she has no experuence w/nlp bcuz she's using nlp vocabulary from the start

@DamonCart 5 жыл бұрын

It's simply baffling to me how or perhaps why some people make such ridiculous comments about how she must know NLP because she's wearing a hoodie with NLP Gym on it or she obviously knows what I'm going to do before I do it because of her facial expression, and now it's because she's using NLP jargon. Okay Sherlock when does she use NLP vocabulary that's not also everyday common use vocabulary? Give me the time code on the video. It doesn't count if I used the words first and she's just using the words I used.