Gives students a basis for thinking clearly about real love and shows that mere conviction of love is not enough to insure lasting happiness. A drama. Courtesy: Prelinger Archives
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@emilyroberts38328 жыл бұрын
"I love you, you're the only girl I've dated in... in two months!" LMAO!
@PeachWookiee8 жыл бұрын
+Amilie Dechanelle They took "going steady" very seriously back then. You dated a lot of people and then settled on one only.
@YooTuba7 жыл бұрын
I cant imagine knowing somebody well enough to make a big commitment in two freaking months, but couples did it back then. I think my parents had only been dating a few months when they got engaged. They stayed married too and after dad died Mom was not interested in ever dating anyone else.
@shydreamguyman40987 жыл бұрын
yootuba, My dad was handsome ,charming, charismatic and hung like a mule . Why on earth my mom felt I needed to know that last 1 ? I have no idea .they didn't know eachother very long when they ran off to get married having to lie about mom's age because she wasn't legal. They stayed married till he died 15 years later . He was fun to be around . Gamma was pissed when he ran off with my mom & tried to have dad arrested . He had a thing for underage girls , 3 Statutory warrants over 3 different, willing underage girls at the time of his death . Had been described as the kind of man who could " Fall into a pile of Sh*t and come out smelling like a rose " When i was 18 I laughed when I saw their marriage license for the 1st time because I knew that neither of them were as old as it said they were .I'm not even convinced that dad was legally divorced from his 1st wife when he married my mom I know he left that woman while she was pregnant with his 3rd child & he was only 15 when he married her Heck he was only 19 when he married my 16 year old mom. I'm the youngest of his 6 kids, he had by age 25 .
@johnnypastrana67277 жыл бұрын
That makes you a Christian by dipstick.
@greglawrence13146 жыл бұрын
All the more so because he accepted this role.
@electricsutando41196 жыл бұрын
This girl's mom has just given me more advice in 3 minutes than what my mom has given me in a life time.
@jamesogrady66125 жыл бұрын
Electric Sutando My parents weren't very helpful, I went to a concert with 80,000 fans at 10 years old, bye the way my first music was Partridge Family, they let a babysitter through a party at our house. We were 1 big Irish Family 6 kids. I loved going to Concerts Stones, Zeppelin, Allman Brothers, Lynyrd Skynyrd before plane crash, I nicknamed Mick Jagger ( A ROOSTER ON ACID ) cause of his energy on stage. I also was a big Nascar fan, crazy those drivers go 2 miles in 48 seconds. I am proud knew my limits with Alcohol. Always loved that Quote ( FRIENDS ARE THE SIBLINGS GOD FORGOT TO GIVE US ) ERIN GO BRAGH means IRELAND FOREVER
@ayeitskrista58715 жыл бұрын
It confused me so much
@jensenward46634 жыл бұрын
Electric Sutando I’m your 1000th like and I’m proud of it
@faith4disney4 жыл бұрын
That's how the script was written.
@arizonabarb514 жыл бұрын
I guess your mom has been working like a real slave and there is no time to talk about good advices. Yes, that is in general.
@galinasauer4 жыл бұрын
I just really love how she realized she doesn't feel mature love for her boyfriend, so she told him and they came to the conclusion that they nonetheless have a lot of fun together and they can keep being a couple. So it's not always "I don't really love you, I quit", sometimes it's "I love you in a different way and that's okay" this video taught me a lot :)
@jah-marii82304 ай бұрын
I wish I would have known this, before breaking up with my girlfriend lol
@Queen_SakuraАй бұрын
@@jah-marii8230 That's...not a lol.
@PK-cg5ej4 жыл бұрын
Man what gets me at the ending was that both took the admission of not being ready for a "mature" kind of love so well. No hurt feelings or angry fighting, just the acceptance of the fact and willingness to spend more time together.
@buslady3705 Жыл бұрын
And you were really in love with Mary, and Betty, and Dallas... I hope he didn't get any tattoos.
@spacequeenruby7 ай бұрын
Aka have fun and figure out the rest lmao
@Joshamar17 ай бұрын
If only what i would say was the love of my life, when we were both young had this apporach, maybe we could have grown together and had real love as we matured, I do believe we could have. But it was supposedly unfair that i wasn't ready for real love and 100% verbal commitment, i was scared to verbally make rhat commitment, .but i was basically committed in my actions, i was loyal, obsessed, adored her, homest, everything, just was afraid to commit at such a young age, is it my fault or was it unfair of her to give me an ultimatum like that? Supposedly i had "committed issues", i think its deeper than that. Any one relate? And now, she has been through hell with relationships for the last 10/15 years, ended up taking drugs all the time, she still beautifull in all ways, but she's trapped in a lifestyle, i want to try and help her and she also wants that, but she might fuck my life up now, everythimg i have worked for 😂 Its risky as fu#k, what does anyone think? Please help 😂
@LilyIglesias2 ай бұрын
It can turn into love as the times goes by.
@virtualvivi5 жыл бұрын
"You young punks go to the movies a couple of times, do a little necking, and you think you're in love". Seems teens haven't changed much since the 50s 💀
@MADEbySOUL4 жыл бұрын
Virtual ViVi People are always people, no matter the time. Society thinks it’s better as times advance but people stay the same.
@jamiemcgrath12924 жыл бұрын
Sirama it’s only gonna get worse
@midapita4 жыл бұрын
August Humphrey oh please
@OstaraBooks4 жыл бұрын
lol
@HawkinaBox4 жыл бұрын
true
@katg957610 жыл бұрын
One doesn't fall in love...you grow to be in love...there is a difference between being in love and being in love with the idea of being in love.
@AlbertaRose944 жыл бұрын
Dayum, are you ever correct! I remember back in 1994 when I was 26 raising some eyebrows at my fourth attempt at a committed relationship.. A male friend who had known m since I was 18 said “On the surface it may seem like opposites attracting and two people on the rebound but underneath they have a lot in common. This’ll work.” I wish I hadn’t lost touch with him so I could tell him he was right.
@jonmacdonald53454 жыл бұрын
Kat g FACTS 💯 like a boss 💪
@xCAROLoveify4 жыл бұрын
there is a difference between being IN love and being someone WITH love
@__lavenderose__4 жыл бұрын
Or being in lust
@jauxro4 жыл бұрын
"Love takes time, and love takes work." - Garnet
@cautionTosser3 жыл бұрын
only 2 minutes in and I love how both mother and daughter feel ok with saying, "I'll have to think about that" before giving an answer. A lot of people would do well to use that phrase more often. Fast answers aren't necessarily good answers.
@huckella21314 жыл бұрын
"Are we really interested in the same things? Do we feel at ease with each other? Are we proud of each other? Do we agree on the basic things like; religion, marriage, children, money?" Well done, mama.
@johnrexcalunsag16585 жыл бұрын
when these two agreed they weren’t ready for the attachment and still managed to plan for their next date, i guess it was a sign of maturity. A good step for mature love
@111SweetP5 жыл бұрын
I agree. They became more compatible and mindful of each other. They’re not in love yet but they can be in time.
@nadiashireensiddiqi4 жыл бұрын
John Rex Calunsag I don’t think it’s mature to be submissive and only being with someone with the exact same background; Why don’t you marry your siblings? wanting unconditional love is not immature Especially when you’ve had it on a mutual level. As a Venus in Scorpio in the tenth house I think I could never forget AIK or RLS
@HisServant774 жыл бұрын
@@nadiashireensiddiqi I believe you have yet to reach a point of knowing true, mature love if that is your takeaway....
@kaydiejaco4 жыл бұрын
Yup. Stop this culture of hating someone or talking shit, being shady about them bc they rejected you or was your ex.
@shecijeakka4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree.
@MissHayleyKendal10 жыл бұрын
All the women sound like Snow White,
@huh19724 жыл бұрын
Back when pollution and climate change didn't exist
@wot-jk9mp4 жыл бұрын
IKRRR
@natalijataneska69994 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile most of the women today sound like brats 😅
@mopbrothers4 жыл бұрын
Yeah why is that? Why did all the women back then speak so strangely.
@kiabeth42054 жыл бұрын
That's just course if that Hollywood accent that was really popular then:)
@SteamyBun4 жыл бұрын
I like that they portrayed the girl as the thoughtful and reflective one, not the clingy/hasty one.
@opalskyartwork3 жыл бұрын
A thing they didn't really mention is that mature love requires compromise and communication. You don't have to like all the same things. You can be complete opposites but find harmony with each other. Compromise isn't about sacrificing your own ideals, it's about finding a middle ground and respecting each other's differences without belittling. Not every relationship will work out no matter how hard you try so it's important to take your time getting to know each other before committing. Also, a form of love is learning to let go and wish for the other person's happiness without being jealous or vindictive.
@iolafernandes88917 ай бұрын
This is what real love means🩷
@arunakumari74627 ай бұрын
was looking for this...
@indu98936 ай бұрын
This! ❤❤❤
@barbaraedgley2634Ай бұрын
Time helps because most put on good behavior at 1st. Observe how they handle isappointment, failure, money, how they treat others, what their parents are like. Know at least a year before marriage
@poetcomic17 жыл бұрын
"How can you tell if its mature love?" "You soak your dentures in the same glass."
@dariowiter30785 жыл бұрын
poetcomic1 👄👄👄👄👄 😄😄😄😄😄
@itsafinch5 жыл бұрын
Oh wow lol
@bexyevans7775 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@pansyflower96975 жыл бұрын
when u get burried in the same grave....... or get cremated together
@oliveb63185 жыл бұрын
poetcomic1 yuck no
@shithappenedwhatnow30285 жыл бұрын
Love that the girl holds her opinion. Doesn't just agree under pressure. Great way to get respect.
@juliancummings84363 жыл бұрын
Where the comments at?
@passthebleach97453 жыл бұрын
@@juliancummings8436 idk, weird
@pinrhyme67033 жыл бұрын
Its pretty quiet in here. . . .
@prishavrinda22083 жыл бұрын
Oof
@brooklyn32992 жыл бұрын
If women express their opinion, they are seen as forceful and domineering. A lot of men these days have no self esteem and can’t handle that.
@karla93194 жыл бұрын
I love how they used to talk back then it was so charming and elegant
@evelynp98184 жыл бұрын
Imagine someone caring so much about giving you a proper answer that they're willing to think about it for a whole day
@MrKillermeatball10 жыл бұрын
We need to remake these films for modern teenagers.
@yasirujayasuriya70266 жыл бұрын
Matthew Luttrell your really fuckin right especially before you get married. it could save a lot of heart ache.
@OkieTeacher9186 жыл бұрын
seriously!
@pingus99345 жыл бұрын
Na. Watching a video about "what's ___" is like being programmed to do something. I rather things happen naturally and develope and people
@no_peace5 жыл бұрын
We need to teach lots of stuff more explicitly... Relationship skills, finance, cooking, housekeeping, child-rearing...
@jaz86155 жыл бұрын
There are films like this. They’re dumb and inaccurate to our actual lives and when school tries to push them down our throat we laugh and joke about them. These were inaccurate to Actual 50s teens lives too.
@merakiminx7 жыл бұрын
"You love me, don't you?" "I don't know. . .I'll have to think about it." SAVAGE.
@hi-yv7uv5 жыл бұрын
Where is this part ?
@3boxop6335 жыл бұрын
That boy just got swiped left in the 1950s!
@nathancrossen22245 жыл бұрын
Clearly, she says "I think so."
@xx-bg2dj5 жыл бұрын
"I don't know. . .I'll have to think about it." is woman speak for "How fat is your wallet"
@oliveb63185 жыл бұрын
AHappy Goth that’s my bf
@dannyspoons17714 жыл бұрын
Honestly, this is a lovely short film. The mom in this gave wonderful advice. I really like how she pointed out that temporary relationships and crushes are important for self discovery and experience. That's really valuable information, especially for someone that's young and has just started dating or broken up with someone.
@faizaanazam7 ай бұрын
It's been 70 years. Just imagining my grandma would be about 25 years at the time this was shot.
@saikatsaha41227 ай бұрын
My grandma would be in her late teens. My grandma is beautifull tooo like snow white. Dem lucky grampa
@beekah9929 жыл бұрын
This is actually... pretty good. I was expecting some stupid stereotypes or something but it does help you understand infatuation from actual caring for each other.
@goatsmilk66147 жыл бұрын
wise words from Biggie Cheese
@chasinglessandlessrainbows44026 жыл бұрын
Beekah I
@no_peace5 жыл бұрын
They had a lot of emotional sophistication we don't value or nurture as much now
@jamiemcgrath12924 жыл бұрын
Beekah in the end though, doesn’t all love start from infatuation, and either ends there or develops into love
@SarahSkinnyJeans4 жыл бұрын
Yeah how do my parents turn out to be such idiotic fucktards along with the rest of the boomers
@AJBeetle15 жыл бұрын
No explanation for why they took a photo of strangers kissing in their car and put it into a photo album...
@mrsloveydove45795 жыл бұрын
AJBeetle1 maybe camera film and photos were expensive and the mother didn’t want her daughter’s carelessness to be a total waste. Or they’re just weirdos xD
@fit_spoonie67605 жыл бұрын
People take photos of people without them knowing it, then post it online now a days. So maybe this isn't as weird as it looks for the time.
@janinedear-barlow4 жыл бұрын
I think they were her friends. Mug shot.
@The-OG-JT4 жыл бұрын
Plot device 😉
@bodyofhope4 жыл бұрын
The parents are pervy. Plot twist.
@beepbeepcasucha4 жыл бұрын
I like how despite their realisation that they're not in love/don't share real love, they still go out again. Maybe it'll take longer, not for them to compromise on anything, but to grow into each other. Love takes effort too
@wilsonwoman34 жыл бұрын
How are the questions this girl's mom tells her to ask herself still so relevant 70 years later? Man I wish someone would have told me to ask myself this when I was in high school!
@BlackCover954 жыл бұрын
We all knew the '50s were racist, sexist, homophobic. Who‘d’ve thought they also _knew_ things?
@Anton43218 Жыл бұрын
@@BlackCover95 Well weren't they racist,sexist and homophobic? Ofcourse they knew things and they didn't deny them,instead looking them head on and providing solutions
@viktorpetukhov7279 ай бұрын
Well, people communication basics haven't changed, no matter what media tells you
@zillobeast52579 ай бұрын
Human nature doesnt change
@Olivia-kz7zs7 жыл бұрын
"you the only girl i've dated, in two months" HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA I WAS LAUGHING SO MUCH IN THIS PART!!
@yasirujayasuriya70266 жыл бұрын
Olive B. that's really fucked up on the girls part
@angieh.74346 жыл бұрын
back then that’s how it was. you could date multiple people at a time, and it was okay because it was only getting to know the people without commitment. once they went steady, that’s when there was commitment and you realize you really like the person. plus, teens went on dates like every weekend.
@l3xsterz2985 жыл бұрын
Lol
@investertiger37775 жыл бұрын
@@l3xsterz298 That sounds better than what we have today. People don't take the time to know each other.
@NonanoN-er6de4 жыл бұрын
As long as they didnt sleep with each other it's all kushti
@mani20584 жыл бұрын
No one: Nobody: Absolutely zero souls: My recommendations: hOw dO yOu kNoW iT’s LoVe??
@bodyofhope4 жыл бұрын
Purity culture on KZfaq 😑
@davidgusquiloor26654 жыл бұрын
Maybe you need it. Maybe we all do.
@lifedeath4134 жыл бұрын
It was enlightening
@galaxystar87504 жыл бұрын
Same
@skyejacques4 жыл бұрын
Lol. Same. The universe brings to us what we need. I am hooked to the charisma videos that were being recommended to me. It's helped me improve how I relate to people and eye contact... (3 seconds with each person in the group)
@CaptainJess19944 жыл бұрын
This is so cute. The wholesomeness is refreshing and makes you feel good inside and optimistic. The relationships in these videos are phenomenal, especially between the parent and child. I wish had that with my parents or someone who will listen and give me sound advice. I didn't even get these kinds of lessons in school. I've learned so much more from TV, books, and music than ever from people I know or have met. Fortunately, I turned out to be a decent, right-minded person.
@dawnstonerock42537 ай бұрын
Pass it on! ❤
@emiw25007 ай бұрын
Yes! That’s so true! And isn’t it so nice to read a great book and feel like somebody so wise, thoughtful and mature is talking to you?
@niamh22123 жыл бұрын
The phrase "I'll say" needs to be used again. "did you have a good day" "well I'll say". It's so classy
@matttargett20096 жыл бұрын
Man, Bob had good hair. And good advice. But really good hair. He is 35 years old and sleeping in a twin bed next to his 16 year old brother. So, nothing weird there.
@WillBlindYouWithLight4 жыл бұрын
Well when you are cool and have great hair, you have to make some sacrifices. You can't just put your cool out there all over the place.
@Tzara864 жыл бұрын
Bob is proposed to a woman he doesn't live with...
@gracehaven54594 жыл бұрын
@@Tzara86 this is the 50s you did not live with your fiancee then, duh
@gracehaven54594 жыл бұрын
@@Tzara86 also it's engaged not proposed, speak english much?
@Perktube14 жыл бұрын
Back then there was nothing weird there.
@mugiwaranonegro14916 жыл бұрын
Parents were like moral dictionaries back then, damn I miss that. Look at the girl’s mom who gave her daughter the perfect answer on the complex aspect of love and the different types of love.
@janinedear-barlow4 жыл бұрын
I like how the mother didn't answer straight away and said that she needed to think about it. Good advice for parents.
@jamien.55284 жыл бұрын
Well it was acting, TV doesn’t reflect reality, even back then
@frankiepoprocks4 жыл бұрын
This was not how people where This is how they are acting
@wcotton4 жыл бұрын
She's lucky to have a mature mother.
@MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels4 жыл бұрын
Warren Cotton indeed.
@mr-bi3tf11 ай бұрын
This instructional video taught me more than life ever has. I felt like I was learning something from my mother during the snapshots scene and I got a little emotional. It was so informative and gracious. This generation lacks this type of knowledge. They thrive on immature love. I’m showing my future kids these instructional videos.
@PlayNiceFolks11 ай бұрын
. k. I did meth in inner city crack houses for a few years. I learned less than you'll ever remember.
@Bob314154 жыл бұрын
When she said she wasn't familiar with the Brahms Violin Concerto I knew that would be a problem. That violin concerto is one of the greatest pieces of music ever written.
@hopelessviolin46907 ай бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking. How can one spend their entire teenage life without listening to the brahms violin concerto
@Bob314157 ай бұрын
@@hopelessviolin4690 Well your comment is dripping with sarcasm but I invite you to take 40 minutes out of your life to listen to it. It will change your life forever and your problems will melt away. And BTW it's Brahms not brahms.
@hopelessviolin46907 ай бұрын
... Look at my username. I'm a college-level violinist. My comment was half joking but I regularly listen to the Brahms violin concerto especially the recording by Ginette Neveu. @@Bob31415
@ponticat72835 жыл бұрын
It's really creepy to me that she took photos of random people, then her mother put those photos in the family album.
@zirko235 жыл бұрын
PontiCat72 Her mom was like, “Oh how nice dear. You took a picture of your friends getting busy in a car. Dear memories for our family album.”
@lw13435 жыл бұрын
Oh right...like the stuff people record for KZfaq is better.
@MissMichSan4 жыл бұрын
@@lw1343 yes so right!.
@TT-rz5td4 жыл бұрын
@@zirko23 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@katya26724 жыл бұрын
She had it all planned out hahaha
@NightshadeGoddess4 жыл бұрын
she basically speaks of the types of loves that ancient greeks spoke of 😌 1. “Eros” or Erotic Love 2. “Philia” or Affectionate Love or the love we have for friends 3. “Storge” or Familiar Love 4. “Ludus” or Playful Love 5. “Mania” or Obsessive Love 6. “Pragma” or Enduring Love 7. “Philautia” or Self Love 8. “Agape” or Selfless Love
@user-en8nu2fc1x4 жыл бұрын
Best comment ever, thanks for sharing your knowledge!
@isabellek11714 жыл бұрын
I would like an agape type of love
@violetcarlson4 жыл бұрын
Agape is the highest love.
@roselahuerita4 жыл бұрын
This comment is the best one I've seen.!
@joanpelpinosas4 жыл бұрын
Agape is the greatest love of in my opinion. Jesus' love is Agape.
@adelehare84954 жыл бұрын
Who else is on a marathon of these old short films
@mousekander22324 жыл бұрын
I love how back in the day the main thing people admired in the other was them being a good dancer. So sweet.
@EditorJoe10 жыл бұрын
Thanks, this really helped me understand love. Now I've just broken up with my girlfriend and I'm off to buy a teddy bear which I intend to have a more mature love with.
@YooTuba7 жыл бұрын
I'm picturing "Ted" from the movie
@dragonswordmountain29087 жыл бұрын
+Joe Yes, me too, now i know what i already suspected...love is a choice of responsibility, admiring each other and helping each other out. To say someone is sexy or you like her kisses is not enough, we have to know who we are in the overall mature personality, dreams, interests, and responsibility. Love is not forced it's relaxed. There is no sexual tension, cause love is peace with one another. Love is not one sided or mystery. Love is to be ourselves. Don't marry someone unless you agree on the fundamental things.
@droodle.mp44856 жыл бұрын
man of the year xD
@mtlicq5 жыл бұрын
Then you'll have to wash it; it won't wash itself
@growwithlala4 жыл бұрын
Gotta be the 667th commentor
@mrs.schmenkman28585 жыл бұрын
That comment about possessive love is really powerful and could easily be missed
@mrsloveydove45795 жыл бұрын
Deb Carsey Even bad parents have nothing but possessive love, sadly...
@grennlaurence25875 жыл бұрын
you are beautiful and unique i admire you for that.
@rollandjoeseph3 жыл бұрын
Ie: controlling "love" , not good
@johnbockelie38993 жыл бұрын
This movie is 71 years old now. 1950 - 2021.
@larryjesse95973 жыл бұрын
Hello
@catmom406410 ай бұрын
This girl's mom is very wise and loving with her teaching. She doesn't accuse or demean her daughter's feelings. When most people ask 'How do you know it's love"' of their parent, the only answer they get is: "Oh you'll know." Not much help at ALL. I would have liked to have heard this. No wonder people have such problems with relationships nowdays.
@jackjones36574 жыл бұрын
This is really sweet. It's about mutual respect and nurturing people. No wonder society was so much more peaceful in the 1950s.
@mploutarchos7 жыл бұрын
Older sibling's said sorry to their younger siblings?
@evelyngomez46806 жыл бұрын
MariChe MMIV times have changed lol
@jamesogrady66125 жыл бұрын
Mi_ DUONG Love that Quote ( FRIENDS ARE THE SIBLINGS GOD FORGOT TO GIVE US )
@ragazzasolare775 жыл бұрын
It's still a movie ... acting.
@sp4cegrl274 жыл бұрын
me: a middle child *cant relate*
@apollo4214 жыл бұрын
I've never done that
@DrHPotter8 жыл бұрын
I teach healthy relationship classes to teens and I am going to show these videos! I am curious to see what todays teens think about these.
@breakingthemasks6 жыл бұрын
DrHPotter ... what did they think of them?
@etherealdeal17925 жыл бұрын
DrHPotter what a cool class
@bbygleilani5 жыл бұрын
That’s a wonderful idea! What did they think of them?
@oliveb63185 жыл бұрын
You should make KZfaq videos and show us how and what teens think of these videos today please!
@vintagehippie36475 жыл бұрын
Good common sense, kindness, cleanliness, organization, respect are always a good way to live.
@island661 Жыл бұрын
Kids really need to watch these old clips. Kids are really lost these days with ghosting etc. Complete disrespect for others.
@VIGUISEX34 жыл бұрын
(video) How do you know it's love: 1950: you get the full answer. 2019: clickbait
@poetcomic18 жыл бұрын
Bob and Jean are SO cute together. They are about 86 years old now and still talking about the same stuff.
@niabrown39528 жыл бұрын
+poetcomic1 So cute, I saw them at Bob Evans the other day.
@YooTuba7 жыл бұрын
at Bob Evans...ordering the faux Chinese entree
@bbygleilani5 жыл бұрын
Where do they live?
@Notoriousnipple4 жыл бұрын
cryslala03 lol
@sp4cegrl274 жыл бұрын
cryslala03 oh my goodness, i’m crying. that’s so sweet, i want that one day :(
@veronicabeatrice11338 жыл бұрын
Despite the mediocre acting, this is actually a really meaningful and enlightening video
@dragonswordmountain29087 жыл бұрын
+Veronica Walton See? It's the message of the story that matters and people complain about too much CGI and that the acting was cheesy and another deserved the Oscar and don't focus on the bigger picture. A lot of people are so spoiled and have so much short attention span, all they want is explosions and don't care about the human connection. This film is a work of art.
@Falconlibrary6 жыл бұрын
William Faulkner fell on hard times in the 1950s and had to write the scripts for these films for drinking money. It's true.
@lhernandez33525 жыл бұрын
Right!
@franciscomtz885 жыл бұрын
The mom actually did pretty good
@lw13435 жыл бұрын
Lol....Well you do know she's going to dump him right? She came to that conclusion at dinner. Just want to get a few dates out of him while she looks.
@hitokiridm9 ай бұрын
"How Do You Know It's Love? ", you say? That's the point, you don't. It is a feeling we can't explain either. We show it by our actions.
@nblessthan33 жыл бұрын
Questions: Are we really interested in the same thing? Do we feel at ease together? Are we proud of eachother? Are we agreed on basic things? Like Religion, Money and children?
@chromelimbug51238 жыл бұрын
I was expecting another crockpot old-timey video about virginity, but this actually had some really good points. Don't marry someone unless you agree on the fundamental things like religion, children and money.
@FurbyGender8 жыл бұрын
+Lola B and don't get married unless you haven't been with anyone else in 2 months lol
@mrsloveydove45795 жыл бұрын
Children and money are definitely things that should be agreed upon. If one wants children and the other doesn’t attitudes concerning that rarely change. Even if the latter agrees to having children eventually they usually make for a terrible, hesitant parent anyway. Most people get divorced over differences in financial decisions. Spenders rarely become savers and vice versa. Religion, on the other hand, is highly subjective... Some people change their religion 20 years down the road, don’t have one anymore, or didn’t have one and then pick one up. Some people require church attendance with their spouse while others are ok practicing their religion on their own. It’s all about finding someone that’s compatible with you. Some differing religious or non-religious people work better together than others. I would know, I’ve been in a relationship with my husband for four years and been married to him for two. We agree on children and money but I’m a Christian and he’s non-religious. The fact that we don’t agree on religion has no negative impact on our marriage. Rather, we view religion as a VERY personal choice and respect each other’s opinions. Just as it will be our son’s personal choice when he’s old enough to understand things like that (he’s currently 14 months old). So, I guess you could say that although we don’t agree *on* religion we agree *concerning* religion... And that’s what makes us compatible.
@TT-rz5td4 жыл бұрын
@CBS 70sfan I am sorry, but the reptile thing in the middle of responsibility and morality had me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ginkothree37284 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Also there is major difference between loving someone and being in love.
@TT-rz5td4 жыл бұрын
@CBS 70sfan no, just that you threw reptiles in there. Seriously, what was it about the reptiles that was a red flag? I am sorry you lost those years; I was in a relationship way too long myself and should have ended it much sooner.
@beatsg11 жыл бұрын
I thought they were good questions to ask yourself: - are we really interested in the same things - do we feel at ease together - are we proud of each other - do we agree on the basic things ie religion, children, marriage, money
@PutDownTheBunny3 жыл бұрын
Do we both enjoy.....well, you know....
@jclyntoledo2 жыл бұрын
@@PutDownTheBunny eating food? 😆 yes bc some ppl only have protein shakes and water so this is important.
@randomcommenter717011 ай бұрын
If you see a educational film like this today the acting is atrocious, but id watch this and a whole movie. They did a good job
@adrianalanbennett10 ай бұрын
They couldn't do it today, because behind what their doing in this film is a rock solid sense the actors and actresses have that there is a firm reality and truth about life. Look at the love (not romantic love) these characters have for each other wanting to teach and help. This was before post-modernism made a hash of everything. People today mostly cannot even believe. This common belief in decency and the vision for how things out to be has gone out of the culture like a soul that has left the body. We have the body now only laying on floor rotting. This film is pretend on only one level. Actors and actresses today would first have to pretend a reality they do not believe in exists at all, then they would have to do their play inside their pretending of that reality, and that is why the whole attempt would be not only pretend but a fraud. Few possess the vision of the world that these folks did in 1950, and that is why this culture lies now at heII's door.
@valerielinares20683 жыл бұрын
I love how the mom describes the signs of love as "symptoms" lol!
@jessie30837 жыл бұрын
They need to show this to highschoolers haha
@Katttattack7 жыл бұрын
They used to.
@jessie30837 жыл бұрын
+Kitty Well yeah haha
@miracleschmidt43424 жыл бұрын
Being a highschooler(going on to 9th) myself I agree
@hazzahannah4 жыл бұрын
Mira-Kale Schmeade same
@Juleesuz4 жыл бұрын
We saw some of these type of movies in the early 80s... in jr high, I am sure. Course, most of my teachers were teaching there when my mom was there 22 years b4 me....🤣🤣🤣
@Women_Rock6 жыл бұрын
Though a bit corny, this bit is actually impressively insightful.
@melis26454 жыл бұрын
Dirk Diggler i don’t think it’s corny they just used to speak more mature and acting is still kinda like this they lowkey exaggerate
@justsomeguywithtattoos62674 жыл бұрын
Everybody saying it's weird they had strangers photos on their family album, but if you think about it, they didn't have social media back then, but it's just the same thing lol
@caribaez57114 жыл бұрын
8:25 Are we proud of each Other? Do we enjoy the same things? Do we feel at ease together? Do you talk a lot of things and enjoy each other?
@fines1583 жыл бұрын
That’s a very good question. Every time I am on a date, i will float that question in my head.
@WolfAdvocated10 жыл бұрын
I'm actually very impressed by how open these parents seemed to be with their children - I don't feel like now-a-days parents are nearly this candid with their kids, which surprises me.
@toadwitch46706 жыл бұрын
The Pregnant Doula . Joei Gowing this wasnt real
@BrittMFH6 жыл бұрын
Gruffin Waldrom But it might have been!
@drewmichael865 жыл бұрын
It's fake.
@TT-rz5td4 жыл бұрын
When parents actually cared about their kids and spent time with them instead of being self-involved and trying to look and act like teenagers themselves.
@goingtotahiti4 жыл бұрын
I agree. I don't even talk to my parents at all anymore, and I'm 13.
@JakobMusick7 жыл бұрын
"I've never seen a chinese doorman in my life" -- Best line
@rebekahkissel76294 жыл бұрын
80's kids watched films to avoid molestation and saved me quite a few times. I wish this was shown. Could have helped avoid alot of wasted time in relationships
@diankreczmer65954 жыл бұрын
I am eighty two and the advice is good. Was surprised to see being proud of the person you love. It is true, I never thought of that! Btw. Never heard anyone say swell. People spoke then like they do now
@fuckyouyoutube79214 жыл бұрын
Mom actually has solid advice. This is nearly 70 years old.. Hard to believe.
@SRBOMBONICA864 жыл бұрын
Ofcourse people back than always had a good advice
@raymonddodd90484 жыл бұрын
What is surprising is how comfortable the mother was in answering her daughter's question about love. Most parents today would probably stammer through it because they assume their child is having sex or planning to have sex.
@janinedear-barlow4 жыл бұрын
I like how the mother didn't answer straight away and said that she needed to think about it. Good advice for parents.
@Free-45544 жыл бұрын
Damn it’s been 70 years at this point, and the video still holds up.
@MortusSweet4 жыл бұрын
I wish my mother gave me advice...just once. We were never close, and my father wasn’t in my life for the majority of it. Perhaps I look at these videos because it makes me happy, seeing love in a family that I never had.
@AndiFels4 жыл бұрын
"You're the only girl I've dated in two months." Damn, she must be real special then... 😂
@tentedkarma74653 жыл бұрын
14 year old children's psychology
@larryjesse95973 жыл бұрын
Hello How're you doing?
@Morwenna168 жыл бұрын
These are actually good advices. I wish my mother would talk to me this way!
@mimitn75087 жыл бұрын
hhhhh same! my ma would never talk 2 me like this..... hahaah :D
@jamesogrady66125 жыл бұрын
Morwenna16 My parents weren't very helpful, they let me go to a Led Zeppelin concert with 80,000 fans at 10 years old, my first music was Partridge Family, My parents were crazy having 8 kids, we were cute with Irish Freckels on our face. Because we were Irish our Neighbors paid us with Beer to cut there lawns. Im not lying mom side us kids had 16 first cousins. ERIN GO BRAGH means IRELAND FOREVER
@harushouse4 жыл бұрын
I love how she says "oh mother, did you have to keep that" like no your mom is gonna throw away your baby pictures just cause you think you look ugly! I value every picture my mom kept
@xsty19688 ай бұрын
“Mature Love” - there’s a lot to agree with here but when it comes down to feeling proud of your choice (no matter what anyone else thinks) that means all. Be confident in your love!
@barbaraedgley2634Ай бұрын
Sometimes love is blind but friends can see if your lover is selfish or jealous & warn you. Parents are way more experienced & know their children well. Its wise to listen to your parents & not think you know it all. Parents live you, desire your hapoiness, success & well being so it isnt like they want to ruin your future.
@xsty196829 күн бұрын
@@barbaraedgley2634 true but my parents didn’t approve of my choice….now they think the world of him and love him so much. We’ve been together for over 32 years!
@spiderwolf65795 жыл бұрын
I'm taking love advice from a show that came out in 1950 am I really that desperate.
@TT-rz5td4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@JadeJewels4 жыл бұрын
Yo, me too m8 💀💀
@alainaatk.62104 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the old wisdom is right
@MrRandomstuff94 жыл бұрын
Just cause it’s old doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Love hasn’t changed since the 50’s, so the advice is still rock solid. Sad that so many people have to learn this on their own and their parents never tell them. What happened to parents being moral guidance?
@wcotton4 жыл бұрын
Good advice is ageless.
@ellan13354 жыл бұрын
I loved “are you proud of each other”
@isabelladgriff4 жыл бұрын
I love how she lightly explains mature love.
@thattimestampguy2 жыл бұрын
5:13 Possessiveness - "A love for the things you own" 7:10 Mature Love - Tender, unselfish, At ease, admire each other, inspire each other?
@karenng97935 жыл бұрын
That fine waiter was gentleman enough to get her chair and her own date forgot! 😅
@Juleesuz4 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too!!!
@janinedear-barlow4 жыл бұрын
My husband opens doors and the car door for me.
@rowankingston59174 жыл бұрын
Janine Dear Barlow ok
@starlightwhispers67814 жыл бұрын
It's part of his job profile
@Alexinf14 жыл бұрын
Janine Dear Barlow wierd flex but ok
@beth96038 жыл бұрын
Literally found this helpful
@AlfredEiji7 жыл бұрын
It actually wasn't too far off in describing characteristics of love that current relationship research has shown to correlate well with successful and satisfying relationships. However, it was a little off in calling love to be mature versus developing. They're simply different types of love that exist throughout your life, but may be more or less dominant depending on your stage of life.
@yasirujayasuriya70266 жыл бұрын
littlery will find this helpful
@elMore11074 жыл бұрын
Beanyhead shockingly I have to admit it did in a much bigger way than I expected
@tempestholmes2 жыл бұрын
I love these videos, partly for their content which is mostly pretty cool, but also for the stilted acting and phrasing. Gives me the giggles. ^_^ We should all stop and realize that these short videos ran before feature films and were created because there were a lot of teenagers who didn't feel they could ask their parents questions like this and a lot of parents who weren't comfortable answering if the teens did ask. The 50s were a far from idyllic time in some ways, these videos were aspirational, they show idealized relationships between parents and young adults, and ideal reactions between people, unless they are showcasing what not to do, or how not to be. I like the videos because they show a lot of calm, non-judgemental interactions and reactions on the part of parents. Too many parents, in all eras, tend to react harshly even to sincere questions, or tend to judge harshly when asked for help or guidance.
@barbaraedgley2634Ай бұрын
Not so much stilted acting but that that was how oeople actually spoke & acted back then. I remember. Language & styles change with the decades. Young people nowdays talk like Valley girls in the movies. Watch moviesfrom the 1930s vs movies from 2020s & notice how inflections are different
@anisha4074 жыл бұрын
I love watching old movie scenes. It’s way better than the movies we have now. This teaches us a valuable lesson using only black and white
@princesaguerrera511910 жыл бұрын
Pure wisdom! I wish I had this advice before I ruined my life.
@tsalas4110 жыл бұрын
It's never to late to just start over. :) One baby step at a time.
@CoffeePoints9 жыл бұрын
Unless you're currently on death row after committing first degree, your life isn't over and can easily get better :)
@stephanie84176 жыл бұрын
TheMightyWill honestly, I found this reply just scrolling through and your little reply really helped me right now and that is exactly what I needed thank you so much ^-^
@joannoriol64444 жыл бұрын
Chin up, princess
@claudettegerety43494 жыл бұрын
Yep, me too.
@JusticeForWilmien5 жыл бұрын
Did people really start their sentences with "Say...." and use the word "swell" so much back then? Or is that just how they spoke in movies? Sorry random question but I always wondered about that.
@anarup9165 жыл бұрын
My grandparents use those words
@Window45034 жыл бұрын
I mean, we say “like” and “so yeah”.... so yeah...
@TheJenniferKK4 жыл бұрын
The truth is in the middle. Older people talk like that somewhat, but it was definitely exaggerated for dramatic effect.
@janinedear-barlow4 жыл бұрын
It's a word whisker.
@LeoliCat4 жыл бұрын
@@janinedear-barlow what a cute phrase 😊
@3joewj8 ай бұрын
How do you know when its love? I cant tell you but it lasts forever...how does it feel when its love...its just something you feel together...when it's love. --Van Halen
@a_literal_brick4 жыл бұрын
Q: How do I know when it's love? A: I can't tell you but it lasts forever
@michaelshields77774 жыл бұрын
B R I C K. Van Halen!! Woohoo!!
@barbaraedgley2634Ай бұрын
When you care as much about their wellfare as your own. When you are aware of their strengths & weaknesses & can accept them. In the 1st bloom of infatuation they will seem perfect (but aren't).
@elmin828 жыл бұрын
Bob and Jean have more chemistry than the other couple.
@americafoy895910 жыл бұрын
Why didn't I see this as a teenager?!
@MissMichSan4 жыл бұрын
I think if your a mom/dad now you should talk to your kids about this.
@skyejacques4 жыл бұрын
Because you needed to experience first hand. I even received some advice regarding friendship and spiritual teachers and love, and I still had the urge to crash and burn. Then you remember and store the memory for lifetimes.
@idc48884 жыл бұрын
skyejacques Lol this was 5 years ago
@hamtramckchronicles3 жыл бұрын
Oh, the wisdom in this short film, the wisdom....
@JosephJordan4 жыл бұрын
This will make a fine addition to my lofi sample collection
@ExpertExpat11 жыл бұрын
Her mother is really wise and a good teacher. I liked how closely Nora listened to her mother as she was teaching her. She understood her mother had knowledge and experience that Nora didn't have yet, and she wanted to learn from her mom because she respected her. Rate today.
@Patt12 Жыл бұрын
Her mum follows the script
@peterh82745 жыл бұрын
It's 1am and here I am watching this video once again. I first came across it after being heartbroken when I was 16. I was so sure I was in love with her. Now, I watch this when I find myself thinking seriously about a new girl, or if I'm feeling down about someone from days gone by. How strongly I can now relate to the stages of puppy and physical love. But mature love? Someone I'm proud of? At ease with? Cooperative with? Agree on the topics of religion, money, children? Those boxes are a whole lot harder to get ticked off. After having watched this almost too many times to count now, I always realise the same thing. I've never really been in love. 2023 update: Funny how I keep on coming back to this video, almost 10 years after I first found it. So much life has been lived, I've had 3 big heartbreaks that have left their scars and important lessons learnt. Ive found, let go of, and lost love. C'est la vie.
@balthazarmayrena6004 жыл бұрын
You'll get there, man. All things worthwhile takes time.
@gracehaven54594 жыл бұрын
"Is he at ease with you?" "No" "does he agree about the important things with you?" "No" "is he proud of you?" "No.... fuck.. excuse me while I reevaluate my life 🤣😭"
@sneha53594 жыл бұрын
what's to say you werent in love with her? maybe you were
@jasonayres4 жыл бұрын
It's an old saying, son: "You live and learn.". And you are. Don't give up.
@rickygatu70537 ай бұрын
Yearly updates kindly
@69erthx11386 ай бұрын
Being in love is like reliving childhood together. In order to stay at it you both must endure growing up together. You learn to deal with mutual codependency traits that you both possess. Mutual understanding and continued conversation keep the union lively.
@ashantilikethesinger3 жыл бұрын
I wish things was still like this. I definitely have a great appreciation for things like this.
@tonystank10487 жыл бұрын
Did he follow her on Instagram?
@armorybrunotjr.32045 жыл бұрын
Instagram didn't exist in the early 1950s.
@tedb41505 жыл бұрын
Yes
@groovytone98754 жыл бұрын
Armory Brunot,Jr. That was a joke haha
@mishaangelachua80884 жыл бұрын
Why instagram tho? To be updated to that person?
@yeshello66774 жыл бұрын
@@armorybrunotjr.3204 r/wooshhh
@roxxyfoxify6 жыл бұрын
I feel this girl on a spiritual level
@karendoupe18305 ай бұрын
My mom was a Coronet student. I still have her books. The course served her well.
@coiledsteel8344 Жыл бұрын
And 1950 Marks the Beginning of a Decade That Will Go Down in History As America's Best For Having Families.
@Arrigo8885 жыл бұрын
Love is like taking a risk on a Lobster Cantonese...I finally figured it out. Thank you.
@Tzara864 жыл бұрын
I'm grateful this video exists online, for our generation where many of us come from broken homes and no one to teach us this very important lesson.
@AlfieAlpaca4 жыл бұрын
It’s amazing how relatable this video still is today!
@promitamondal80997 ай бұрын
Wow! Old movies were so meaningful and taught so much of good stuff about relationships.
@versailleschick19947 жыл бұрын
The guys I know disrespect me. They never want to get to know me as a person. When I'm trying to talk about something I like, they don't seem interested. They really just want to get in my pants. They say they like me, but I never hear from them They make promises and break them. I don't feel like I can be myself around them. I just feel used. They only call me when they're horny. It just sucks. Relationships look hard anyways, and I'm kinda content of being alone.
@jannulik5 жыл бұрын
Depends what crowd you are hanging with...
@keithacarl5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about your mistreatment. Don't give up hope in finding a virtuous man as mature as you. Think about what you would like out of life, the kind of man that can help you, how you might help him, and likely places where you might meet him.
@mirandataylor63855 жыл бұрын
Same 😢
@funeralfawn43904 жыл бұрын
I here for u bby
@janinedear-barlow4 жыл бұрын
Don't settle for boys like that and watch out for ones that only say what they think you want to hear. Make them answer first.
@mjlvnv4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in love with my husband since we were sixteen years old and that was 41 years ago. We have been married 36 of those years with four children and two grandchildren. I knew I was really in love when I couldn’t imagine anyone I would rather grow old with. All I know is when you really love someone, their happiness and well being is more important to you than your own and they feel the same way. I would lay my life down for my husband and family and he would too
@trilbywilby78263 жыл бұрын
Bingo! That's the answer to "how do you know it's real love?" When you can't imagine growing old with anyone else, when their happiness and well being is more important than your own and they feel the same way about you, when you protect each other by not taking advantage of each other's weaknesses, when you forgive each other's shortcomings, when you realize that you're not just marrying your spouse, but their family too ... yes, these are the signs of mature love.
@blu3chav3z89 ай бұрын
I hope these are around in 8- 10 years, my kids will be watching them
@biaotoch7 ай бұрын
these old videos are so funny and so cool to watch! also “you’re beautiful” “and what else” swan princess, they watched this before lol