It’s all about learning and growing. We can learn from anything and everything. One can say “nothing” is meant for them. But that means inaction, idleness, lethargy, or maybe harmony is meant for them - which said another way means “something” was meant for them. And unless you are purposely pursuing “nothing” then finding purpose in those things is one’s “something”.

I love the quote, I got a little lost in the relationship stuff because it’s not really been a theme in my life but I can still apply what you said appropriately. One thing I will say, is if I was to take spousal relationship advice from someone, it would absolutely be from you. I admire you, you’re wife and family. You guys have always supported me literally every time we been face to face and that means more than you know.

Lol becoming a bottle girl weeded out so many insecure ppl in my life. And for that I’m grateful. It’s empowered me to live my truth and be unapologetically myself. Once you start living your life for YOU, the truth starts to reveal itself and it becomes easier and easier to find your tribe, purpose, and source of love and happiness. So many ppl are literally standing in their own way.