Agreed!!

You are correct, her wanting attention is not a crime, however, it is a mental illness !!!!

It takes Two

@@Ramsey276one A 16 yr old is a minor

@@user-yo5yr9yr2h Illegal =\= impossible Saw several pregnant highschool girls on my Grade 9-12 years, and I mean only my school. Reality is not pretty Picture Perfect

Pedophile?

A pdf file?

Exactly, this is what abusers do. The scariest thing is how many people saying they don't trust either. Like this is literal textbook abuse, yet everyone is fine with it

Right and considering the fact that he made a whole ass website to bash her and harass her for three years prior to her one nameless post is telling.

And abusers often use the court system to terrorize their victims after they don't have physical access anymore.

He didn't make the website you are talking about, one of her other victims did, nice try though !!!

@@willllllll-r1f I think you responded to the wrong person. I don't know what website you're talking about.

SHE. FAKED. CANCER. IF THAT DOESNT TELL YOU ANYTHING ABOUT HER PERSONALITY THEN WHERE TF ARE YOUR BRAIN CELLS

She may not have directly named him, and us "Joe schmoe" in the internet wouldn't know anything, but for any mutual friends/family that may be on social media, it looks horrible for him! So I can see why he would post! There is always story A, story B and the truth!

Do we know for sure how old he is? Some people just look older from a young age, especially men who happen to inherent genes for facial hair. And skin can seem aged by things like drinking, sun exposure, etc. For example, my ex husband stopped getting carded - bars, liquor stores, grocery stores, even for buying hard liquor - from the age of 22 lol. He had facial hair like this guy. Idk how old this guy is, but I’d buy anything from 24-36 tbh. I’d love to hear if anyone knows his actual birthdate!

@@DannyD-lr5yghe is 37 and apparently was 24 when she got pregnant at 16.... yeah

@@neeren777 Thank you for letting me know! I didn’t see his age anywhere so thought people were estimating lol. That age difference is gross and awful!

Yikes

SHE IS AN EVIL ABIUSER AND LIAR

This is why women are scared of having children… you marry a guy he’s kind nice etc you have kids then there’s a sudden shift in his behavior and things like this happen. If I was him and saw the cupcake video I would have sent her a birthday cake and asked how she was doing. Being exes doesn’t mean being enemies esp when there’s kids involved.

He just posted a threat on his TikTok page.

Maybe just maybe there are awful women out there and not all are princesses? Ah never-mind your mindless 😂

​@@natk4017and people "don't know who to believe" 🙄

she is evil

Also a lot of people who are pointing out how mentally unwell she seems are forgetting that abusers love targeting people with mental illness because they're easier to manipulate (plus also most people become unwell when they're being abused and it's not something that can be easily shaken off). Also, people tend to have a huge issue with the "perfect victim" mentality where if the victim isn't a saint then they couldn't be abused or they're at fault. This situation is extremely muddy and complicated and I wish people would just leave them alone tbh, because all this attention is going to hurt the victim regardless of who is in the wrong here.

@UTTP-142 women dont lose the kids in america unless they are evil

I find it incredibly hard to believe that he has 100% custody of their children but is confirmed to have abused multiple women! That wouldn't happen! Even in today's society, women are still looked at to be the primary parent vs the father.

⁠@@Nikki_81most men don’t get custody because they don’t try, women have never been taken seriously. while saying that, i usually trust a judges judgement over my own. but the system has failed thousands and thousands of women and children time and time again. i don’t know their situation but that logic isn’t really realistic, every situation has its nuances

No he seems to be absolutely horrible and seems to only care about the kids at all. His goal seems to be to hurt this young lady, and his actions so far seem to point to this. She posted a video crying because she’s is alone with her kids on her birthday. There is nothing wrong with that, we’ve all probably felt that way in our lives, and it’s even worse when you have kids, and when your emotionally broken, you can’t let your kids see it, you have to keep a smile on your face. He’s the one that decides to come attack her when she was clearly already at a pretty low point. I don’t care if she stole money, or even if she lied about cancer(which is terrible, but he’s shown no proof), or that she owes child support that she probably can’t pay, by looking at all the text it seems like her priority is the kids while all he can do is continue to degrade her and talk himself up. You can tell by his texts he lacks confidence and has low self esteem, and if your going to marry an attractive woman, you have to have both of these attributes or it’s not going to work. I’d also say she makes her money from social media, so he now wants to control her despite not being married, and take away her cash flow so she will rely on him and need him. I think he’d love for her to come crawling back just so he can continue to hurt her. He needs a swift punch to the face to knock some damn sense into him. Stop being a dick, be cordial and put the kids first instead of trying to get revenge on this young lady. I hope some attorneys reach out to her and help her get custody of these kids back. Because the shit he’s pulled would definitely help her if she took him back for joint custody or full custody. I feel terrible for the kids and I hope this whole mess gets dealt with quick for the kids sake. Everytime I see this guy talk he oozes narcissism, and the same goes for his texts.

He has full custody showed the child support debt why shill and cape after the facts 😂

Because the kids don't matter to him. They're just a pawn for him to hurt her. She's allowed to feel sad and have a bad day. This society sends such mixed messages about mental health. "Express your feelings, don't keep them in" *make video a with absolutely zero information no one who doesn't already know her would know" ""HOW DARE SHE SEEKS ATTENTION!!!! lots of single mom and dads have done this" And you don't think those same people didn't go in the bedroom and cry sometimes? Were becoming a society that tells people to both express their feelings and emotions but then says "umm, that's using emotional manipulation if you tell them when they treat you like that it makes you feel worthless"

She faked cancer and stole money. You people are mad if you think its typical single mother behaviour going on. The man said theres no legal evidence or proof of him being violent, yet youre all still happily pushing that narrative 😂😂 just say you hate men and move on ​@zuglymonster

Her life was ruined well before she ever moved to Florida

exactley !!! also perfect victims rarley exist after years and years of abuse, she got pregnant from him when she was 16, and he was 24. he is abusive, and being treated like this - alot of people will become mentally unstable or get issues and be self destructive or go out alot or do other things to forget...most people who have been victims for so long just arent the perfect squeaky clean sunday church goers that work in a stable job since 10 years

He just posted a threat on his TikTok

"not a perfect victim" and farming attention from faking cancer are two different things.

​@@natk4017thank you for spreading this 👍

​@@rutgerhauser2377 it's clear what he's doing. And you're still victim blaming? 😳

What drug are you on ???

@@willllllll-r1f none.

@@TheKatarinaGiselle You said he was "trying" to get her to go to Clearwater as if she didn't go there ???

Reminds me of the Diddy situation when he was saying Cassie was lying and just wanted a payday even though he settled that lawsuit IMMEDIATELY- then the video dropped and suddenly he realized how “sorry” he is!!!

Fair point! I don't have TT, but I remember the Rainbow cake shenanigans! 😆

and then starts with her owing childsupport and all his slandering accusations. like, in that case shouldnt he be happy she would potentially make money

@@MH-ys2gd yes! he sounds controlling. I don't think it's about the money. Intimidating her off of social media is insane 😦

@@leizylromero That’s crazy you’re willing to defend a liar and criminal. And where’s that same energy if this was done to a man?

@@IamjustBruh that's crazy. you're willing to defend an abuser and cyberstalker. Where's the same energy if this was done to a woman?

@@leizylromero So both are bad. Perfect! There’s no victim!

It is! Good catch! He’s such a (I can’t even decide which adjective use)….. fill in the blank 🤬🤬🤬

Fake religion.

And what about the ex’s response… thoughts on that?

XD

Bashing religion isn’t cool Scientology is life changing

I'm not bashing religion..... I'm bashing a cult that was created to evade taxes.

Delete all you want. You know it's true. Any "religion" where you have to pay-2-pray in order to advance thru the ranks isn't a religion. It's an MLM/pyramid scheme. Go get audited you suppressive person. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ErinHatesIt is not bashing a religion. It's freedom of speech. 1st amendment, hun. Any "religion" where you have to pay-2-pray, break your family, and then tell you there's something wrong with the rest of the world for seeing it for the tax evasion it truly is, is not a religion. It's a cult. Even the founder L Ron Hubbard said something along the lines of, "you don't make money writing sci-fi. You make money starting a religion."

It's funny considering in that post she was with her kids. So she clearly does see them. Him on the other hand has accounts dedicated to defaming her.

he is a obsessed disguisting piece of shit, probably hoped he made her situation so bad so that she would need him for help and he could use her.

@@RandomSwiftie13that not his kids, she technically has 4 2 she doesn’t see. The other 2 is from her current husband

​@@invader4life36They're still her kids, nonetheless.

@@roxassora2706 Quit defending poor female behavior, this is the reason the majority of women are single and will eventually die alone. If you think I'm joking, google it !!!

Are the cases he said she had real? The fraud thing?

Yeah I didn’t see anything wrong with it, like she is 1 singular parent obviously.

The Last Straw You can never know WHAT will make someone snap... Or WHY At least not until the investigation is finished

Right? I'm confused as well. Why is he watching her social media at all? If my ex was baking their own cake for their birthday, I wouldnt feel it's my business to comment on the situation at all.

It got so bad because the dickheads number one priority is to hurt this woman. You can see it in his videos and even more so in his texts. She’s saying please can we just get along, for the kids. She talks about her kids constantly while he doesn’t say a damn thing about them just constant digs at her about how she thinks she’s hot and why she thinks she’s to hot for him and how he’s just a fat slob(which he is, along with being a piece of shit narcissist). He said he’s had custody for several years, so I find it very odd this dude is still hung up with a woman he’s been divorced from for close to a decade. It shows what kind of guy he is. She needs to get an attorney quick, hopefully one reaches out to her pro-bono and helps her get the kids back because this dickhead is going to do his best to get them to hate her too, and will try his best to ruin their lives too.

I have said the same exact thing about making my own cake for the kids to sing Happy birthday to me, and I am widowed. There was nothing wrong with what she posted. He clearly stalks her every post, just looking for something to attack.

SAME

Do I believe you defend poor female behavior at all cost? YES

@@Ramsey276one SIMP

@@willllllll-r1f OF A COMMENT?!

@@willllllll-r1f you lack reading comprehension

Stunning!!! Got me inspired to go play with some makeup myself! ❤

You should see her with no make-up of a morning, a 4 at best !!!!

@@willllllll-r1f why do you feel the need to say that?

But the wings!!! 👁️😍

the mom is evil and crazy and belongs in prison. fraud is never ok

this is usually the case in all honesty

This right here. 💯

​@@cornballmcgoo7174And the father is better?

​@cornballmcgoo7174 but you'll excuse abuse, right? Sicko

Meh I wouldn’t say that. People are very quick to say “so and so shouldn’t have those kids in their custody” on the internet. I will say the dad seems shady as hell though.

I mean she was just chilling then he shared all this info about her so she had to defend herself-- can be hard to understand if you haven't been in a relationship with someone like this before

@@emma7698agreed. He could have said nothing. She never said one word about him. She just seemed sad that she was making her own bday cake. Divorce is hard. Being lonely can be hard for some people. He’s a douche really. It was a harmless video, maybe a bit cringe and “poor me” but I’ve seen much worse on my FYP.

She has had her accounts for years and never once mentioned him or any of her divorce details. Saying just it is sad when you spend your birthday making your own cake is normal. I have said the same being widowed raising children. On the other hand, this man has his TikTok named after his ex and has had web pages for years solely to defame her and try to destroy her, while blackmailing her to give up any online voice, with no regard to the effect that will have on his children. I've handled family law cases, and she need a good attorney to put an end to this and his behavior.

So at very first I was like he got custody, so she has to be no good. As I continued to watch, I realized this dude is full of shit. After looking at her content and watching more of this video I realized this woman, regardless if any of his allegations or true or not, clearly loves her kids and has them as her no.1 priority. Then when you start reading the texts you can see how little self esteem this piece of shit dude has and how he’s still bitter as fuck that she’s not with him anymore. He doesn’t seem like he could give a shit about the kids. In the texts she constantly begs him to think about the kids and can we please try to get along, for the kids. Throughout this video, she’s constantly talking about out the kids, while he doesn’t say shit, except to consistently point out how he’s a single dad and has the kids all the time, which is clearly bullshit. When she talks about the kids on the texts he just continues to throw digs, she’s begging for them to get along and he’s saying oh why do you think your to hot for me, you think I’m just a fat slob(only time I think he actually has told the truth, cause he is a fat slob.). He said he had custody for “several” years, so that means they haven’t been a couple for a long time, and this dude is still hung up on her and being vindictive towards her. Narcissist comes to mind. His goal seems to be solely to hurt her in any way he can. I saw this a lot while I was in the military. One part of a failed marriage will get addicted to the feeling they get when they hurt the other and they go further and further until they lie and get the police involved. I hope this young lady can take this asshole back to court and get these kids back. Nothing good will come from these children remaining with this man.

Not many victims are perfect. Trust me, it doesn’t take much.

Us, normal women struggle to get a date because people like you, who say such dumb things, like women are so prefect... Women can be vile maybe even more than men.

Funny how the second amendment just bluntly and immediately tells all English speaking Englishmen in elementary school that Nobody Has The Right To Live, isn't it? Haha. 😇

What's the bear?

Not trying to be mean! Just curious

@@joannasandquist1599 its a reference to a question asked to women about whether they'd rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear and majority of them responded "the bear"

ugh but if you read the comments. ShE's BaD tOo ...in what way are her sins comparable, let alone worse, than his. fuck this thread and thank you for keeping it real. you;d never, ever see someone stick up for a vicious beater woman saying well, he bounced a check and also cried on the internet, he deserves it, jail him!!! but god dammit do they stick up for male monsters at their female victim's expense though..that's alright, but the other way around, well, that'd be sociopathic. what psychos women are for being beaten and stalked and the audacity of her asking him to stop with a legal document that would not have been created had she not had complete credibility,

Her reputation was ruined in January of 2021. You're late to the party !!!!

Honestly, same. Am I old? It feels very performative

WRONG

@@willllllll-r1f ew

ONG I THOUGHT THÉ SAME

He's a what?

@@ScorpionFlower95sovereign citizen. Its a niche group of people that think they’re not a citizen of the states (for example if they live there) and dont need to follow the laws of that country. Like they dont need a driver’s license to drive their car or something bc theyre not a citizen but...? Idk they drive anyways bc they told themselves that they can. Some other people can probably explain it better ajajaja

100% - a hate site is a classic fair game strategy. I bet he contacted employers, friends too

sus or not, the man is a monster, bouncing a check does not a monster make, but violence against someone not your own size and the fairer sex is monstrous. sit down sir, we are not the same.

It's really hard to be stable when someone is running a hate campaign on you and holding your children over your head as some unobtainable "prize" for behaving the way he wants her to. Get real

You're with a felon!!!!

@@willllllll-r1fok and ??? I see you all over here defending him are you Andrew ??? Lmao

@@TheBlissMiss Sorry to disappoint you, I'm not Andrew, just someone with a brain that knows her and the family EXTREMELY well.

@@willllllll-r1f sure Andy

@@TheBlissMiss I'm sorry I know as much as I do. I'm sorry it doesn't fit your delusional female narrative. And I'm really sorry I know the family as well as I do. I would prefer not to !!!!

Same

Same

The first two are not his kids

Well one of them has a whole page dedicated to ex partner and jumped to expose the other person after they posted about being sad on their birthday

@dotcom3015 That's what I'm trying to say, both times, the men set out to try and make their partners lives hell, while being seen as the better person

@@friendly_space_martian oh, I get you. This guys obsession with his ex wife seemed more clear cut to me than the Amber vs Johnny.

The ex husband is giving Amber Turd for sure.

​@@friendly_space_martian😂😂😂 delusional

Yep, at the end of the day we have to believe the court, what they say goes. Always has, always will.

@@willllllll-r1f just say you don't believe victims and move on bro, I'm not taking your bait.

@@beetothebop123 Please explain the bait you are talking about. By the way, how long have you known the family ????

my head can't cope with all the She's Just AS BAD comments. like, the fuck..how

@@gwendolenyoung4198 I know honestly me and it’s all the red pill type pages online sharing it just laughing at her and enjoying their confirmation bias. We don’t know these people and this seems like an extremely messy situation. I definitely believe she’s been abused, he’s a little bit of a psycho and honestly the people I feel the most for are the KIDS.

Her first two kids are not his. The two smallest girls are his. She has two baby daddy’s.