Stop CHASING One Person and Do THIS Instead

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Andrew Vanhoff

Andrew Vanhoff

6 ай бұрын

Throughout all forms of media and storytelling, our society is obsessed with the concept of the other half. Half of the songs on the radio are about relationships failing and missing out on what "should've been" or how things "were meant to be". We have stories about princes and princesses, finding your one true person and living happily ever after.
And while there's nothing wrong with finding a person you really like, these stories have an incredibly damaging effect on our individual expectations of reality. They portray reality as if we are meant to be "half a person" in search of our "other half" that will somehow fix us and make us feel complete.
In this video, we discuss how this belief is incredibly damaging and contributes to ending far more relationships than it builds. We discuss the importance of REDUCING importance. Of relaxing and not clinging. And how by doing all of these things, you strangely become MORE likely to find the one person you're looking for in the first place!

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@nathalielelan8611
@nathalielelan8611 7 күн бұрын
People who are familiar with the teachings of Neville Goddard, who want to be conscious manifesters, they know they can have anyone on this planet, because we are all connected through one consciousness. It's a fact that we have to fullfill ourselves, we have to love ourselves because we are love, we have to go back to the source (through meditation, breathwork, shadow work...). We can manifest any person because everyone is yourself pushed out (EIYPO, it's the most controversial concept from Neville, because people are afraid of taking someone's free will but in fact no one has free will in your reality. But, it's a must to have a strong self concept, because we manifest through the concept that we have about ourselves. Letting go in the world of conscious manifesting is living in the end. It's living in imagination, no matter what the current circumstances are. If someone wants to be with a specific person, all they have to do is to be in that committed relationship with that person in the imagination and persist in it. Because the external world reflects our inner world. Imagination is the cause, the external world is the result. As Neville stated what is in your imagination is more real than what's in the 3D, therefore, the living in the end should be done in your mind, it's a state of mind. Living in lack is a state of mind, so change the state and your circumstances will be in your favor. Hope this is helpful for people who are struggling.
@inirzsrh8976
@inirzsrh8976 3 күн бұрын
The thing is I always get the person I want but they always leave so I don’t know what to do
@nathalielelan8611
@nathalielelan8611 3 күн бұрын
@@inirzsrh8976 maybe you get insecure or feeling not good enough when you are in a relationship?
@inirzsrh8976
@inirzsrh8976 3 күн бұрын
@@nathalielelan8611 possibly yes
@phenicelofton6444
@phenicelofton6444 Күн бұрын
Well spoken❤
@user-cf8xz2zw5n
@user-cf8xz2zw5n 13 күн бұрын
Actually, Einstein said "imagination is life's preview for upcoming attractions ". But if one or the other gives up on this idea that was created or lacks faith then it will fail all the time.
@Freedomandspice
@Freedomandspice 9 күн бұрын
I feel called out but it’s all good. 😂❤
@basil806
@basil806 Күн бұрын
You're speaking truths.
@_saraloreti
@_saraloreti 10 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video! I need this😊
@hadsena
@hadsena 29 күн бұрын
Thanks Andrew for your enthusiasm I love listening to your videos and your experience It does resonate with me a lt
@graciebob753
@graciebob753 4 күн бұрын
Love your videos and the way you talk 😊
@skincarerainbow4950
@skincarerainbow4950 6 ай бұрын
Very insightful
@user-kw2bx5fw8v
@user-kw2bx5fw8v 2 күн бұрын
Very true
@Jupura2810
@Jupura2810 2 ай бұрын
This is perfect!❤
@RobbiJamesVogt
@RobbiJamesVogt 11 күн бұрын
You’re good!
@Christina-yr1ru
@Christina-yr1ru 6 күн бұрын
Very cool! We are all going “whoops!” 😂
@eternallyviv
@eternallyviv 4 күн бұрын
Julien blanc copy paste. Word to word almost. And tonality etc. Stupefied by false prophets all over.
@vaishuvj2712
@vaishuvj2712 3 күн бұрын
He doesn't get to the point .. just blabbering on n on for 15 mins .saying relax... That's stupid!!!!
@lvl18abilities
@lvl18abilities 2 сағат бұрын
@@vaishuvj2712 fr i dont get this shit i dont think i got to the part where he says what to do instead, ive watcehd it like 3 times already, on my 4th watch to see if im being dumb
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