Great to see you! Maybe on the differences between Borderline and Bipolar? I know some people confuse the two

Yay!! What a wonderful surprise to see you gain. You look great. Please talk about your current mental health, relationships, advice on how to put BPD behind us. Etc. Anything you are passionate about. Welcome back!

Can you possibly Talk about narcissist and how borderlines are attracted to them , maybe?

I'm a self-diagnosed bpd because all my doctors tell me i'm too young to get diagnosed (18) but I still think that I'm a real borderline. Anyway, your videos have helped me a lot and I got worried when u were inactive for so long. Take care of yourself!!

Hey Bas! Awesome to hear from you again! Give us an update on your mental health - we care about you! Love to Amy!

You look very healthy and happy :) I'm sure all your ideas will be helpful

I'd like to hear about the tricks the two of you have made to deal with each other's BPD. To keep each other grounded.

So thankful that you are okay and back! I found your channel during your hiatus after I was diagnosed with BPD, and it's been so helpful! Looking forward to future videos!

Hi Buss !! Congratulations on your move. My husband has been in therapy for many yrs. My biggest problem what he seems to struggle with in therapy for now is the "I don't deserve what happens to me "the good stuff obviously" because he is VERY AWARE that he deserve ALL the BAD (which is not true but he does take responsibility for the shit he does and I'm told it's not very common bordeline I'm told but he takes it too the extreme! Often the problem is that if he makes a mistake (especially at work) he then blow's up because he can't forgive himself. Can you make a video on how to handle yourself when you are making small mistakes at work and not triggering yourself to a full on borderline crisis? Thanks!

I am a very lucky girl!!! I no longer suffer from or display any of the criteria for Borderline Personality.

Bussss!! i'm so excited to watch a new video after all this time!!!! your previous videos about bpd helped me a lot, and i honestly watched some of them more than twice! i'm very happy you're back! i'd like you to film a video about fear of abandonement or fear of loneliness

Awesome to see you! Great ta have ya back

OMG you are back :D i was writing all of your friends on facebook and no one knows where u were. am so happy to see you Bas :D so glad that you are fine. better make a video about you. how was life for you there? you are the best you helped me better than any Dr. loves and hugs :)

Hope youre doing well. Thanks for sharing all what you have about bpd with us. :D

Glad your doing great

Great to see you again! :) I'm so happy to hear you are all right. Take care :)

Glad to hear you are doing well, and nice to see you again. I would like to see videos on how to deal with not getting the help that you need, and invalidating comments from health care professionals. Depersonalation and derealisation , BPD and C-PTSD because they are so confusingly similar.

I have major depression. anxiety that comes with panic attacks. I also have BPD and one thing that most people never heard of is Kallmann syndrome. Plus I am always tired I have been on disability for about 5 years now.I am 32 years old. I am losing hope. I get flash back on memories and now my memories are starting to feel like there not memories any more. Everyday I try to find the answer on how to fix myself. Since I know the only person that can fix me is me. But I have not found the answer. Disability gives me less than 1,000 dollars a month. Which make almost impossible to do anything. Since every thing cost money. I go to a shrink buy she really does not help me and I dont have a lot support. I know that everyones BPD is different. but could give me any pointers. I want to get back into the real world and work again. Because right now I have almost lost all hope for myself.

I'm so glad you're back! Maybe a video about dealing with a partner or friend with depression on a daily basis would be good!

So nice to see you again Bas x

Yay your back! Your videos helped me so much when I first got diagnosed. Maybe a video on how you now deal with things?

When I'm in a typical borderline mood, it's usually because I'm having conflicting needs. Like, on the one hand I get irritated by something someone did or said, and on the other hand I don't want to make a scene and bother anyone. Then that leads to wanting to feel supported and understood on the one hand, but wanting to be alone so I won't bother anyone with my bad mood on the other hand. And then that leads to me leaving the room, then getting angry about nobody coming to see what's the matter, and then when somebody does come see how I'm doing, getting angry about them not leaving me alone, and it's like, no matter what anyone does, I'll just take it as a reason to get angry at them anyway. I really don't know what to do with myself when I'm in a mood like that! How would you deal with that?

ahhhhh you're back! awesomeeee!

Wow, it's wonderful to know everything is fine and that you're happy :)

I missed you. :'-)

Wow glad your back !

So happy you're back😀great to see you😀I'm wondering what are the best ways to reach out to friends with BPD when they are withdrawn, how can I help them to communicate ?

Welcome back!

How do you do it? How did turn your life upside down? How are you coping with this? Some coping mechanism tips?

nice to see you again! :)

I really loved your video about going to Amsterdam, what you do when you are having a bad day and how to get out of that black hole.

Hey Bas It's great to see you again. Thank you for making this video. We all missed you. I would like to know ways of staying in control of emotions, when life gets tough eg. Difficult people or situations. How to feel more in control & not lose it. Any tips?? Take care both of you & be kind to yourself ❤️ From Melbourne Australia

Welcome back! :) I really would like to hear about how to be able to stay in a relationship if you have bpd. I always push off the other person after a few months.. the worst is the more I love him the harder I make him runaway.

you're back!!!

Oh my god you're back!! I missed you.

I'm so glad you're back! Honestly I'd be super interested in anything related to anxiety and maybe anxiety and university/ school I may have failed a class because of my anxiety so I'd love some advice

i missed you!!!

Hi Bas! I love your videos so much..they have really helped me understand my partner with BPD. thank you so much. A topic i would love to see you so a video on would be how to support your loved one when they are in push pull mode. Is it best to give them space? I know the pushing away has alot to do with feeling overwhelmed with emotions. I can't imagine how the pain of thinking you will be abandon might feel. What is the best way to be there for a loved one during those times? thanks Bas!!

OMG I missed you !!! I was searching through my channel and a new video came up. I'm doing the same thing after I deleted KathrynMovies I was out for a long time and now just decided to make a difference again keep doing what you are doing! Don't stop making videos because you haven't made videos in a while. I hope Amy is doing well too I know we all struggle even for me with Self Injury and now it's been a year clean, but maybe you can talk about different ways to avoid self injury. Stay Strong you look awesome!!

ahahha Bas!!! I'm so glad to hear you are doing great. can you make a video about dealing with parent relationships, divorce, and how to self care in situations like these.

I would really like you to make more videos about how you are coping, so far I've only been seeing your videos from years ago. I need information on how you do it. I'm unable to have relationships with people or figure out how to get by day to day. Please keep the videos coming. Thanks!

welcome back :)

Omg im so happy that you are back 😱🤓🤘🏻

Hey! I'm very happy that you came back! ♡ Can you make a video about emptiness? And indifference? Thank you :)

So nice that you're back! :D Maybe you can talk about C-PTSD and BPD? Or more about SH? I don't really know - I'm sure you have some great ideas though. :)

I would love to see a video bout BPD and addictions :)

hi! missed your face dude 💗 maybe could you do a video on recovering and losing your identity in BPD. I struggle with identity the more I "recover" and learn new ways to cope with my emotions. sometimes it's hard for me to feel "normal" if that makes sense ... anyways. have a great day, nice seeing you again!

thank you for your videos. I would be interested in th topic of how do two bpders talk to each other? any special pitfalls or good regulating boundaries to have but also how to be present for the other.

i have bpd, even if initially my therapist didn't want to tell me my diagnosis because of the stigma (he didn't want me to feel sick, crazy or hopeless) and he just focused my attention on symptoms. On the other hand, i hardly needed to give them a name in order to be less confused and more aware about what was wrong with me. it was frustrating..

talk about relationships!

PLz Talk about narcissist and borderlines specially the ones on Facebook that's been effecting many people who don't deal with these two disorders.

How you are now you are hugely recovered from bpd xx

I'm a brand new subscriber, so I don't have any suggestions for videos. Yet. I have a lot of catching up to do. I do like what I have watched so far. I was diagnosed with BPD about 2 years ago and I am still learning...

I just met your channel.... I think I might have bpd.... But it's hard for to go to a doctor.... Don't know what to do....

Hoi! Good to see you back. Whilst you moved to the UK to be with your girlfriend, I have moved to Holland to be with my boyfriend! I would be interested in a video about what home means, to you personally, or to a person with BPD. There is a lot I could say myself.. but I am interested in what you might have to say if this topic interests you for making your KZfaq films. Bedankt :)

Show us your ideas. ;) I just wanna see that first.

I was thinking of Imaginary friends and DID

Hello. Please can you talk about what relationships with BPD individuals can be like and how you can deal with the various obstacles that get in the way? For instance when a BPD individual takes longer to move on to the next phase of a relationship than most people (i.e. meeting up from communicating over the phone). Do they get stuck in comfort zones easily or do they just need more time than others to move their relationship forward?

Hello, I've been thinking I might have separation anxiety and after watching your video I'm pretty sure I do. But I also feel like I'm not good enough and I have a hard time being myself around people so I have a hard time opening up and also haven't really made any new friends since I was a kid. (I still have a couple childhood friends) I was wondering if this is apart of separation anxiety? Or do I have another problem? 😂 Also I was wondering if you knew what caused separation anxiety? For some animals it's from being separated from your mom too young, is it the same for people? That would make sense since my parents worked a lot and when I was home they were usually stressed/tired, well at least since I can remember. But strangely enough, I feel like the problems have always been there but haven't really come out or become a real problem until after I had a really bad break up about 4 years ago. I keep thinking I'm going to get better, but I think there's something deeper than just a bad break up

How to deal with BPD tantrums and unrequited love.

I missed you man how about ptsd

I missed you man. How about PTSD

bpd and marijuana addiction.

👍ben ik de enige Nederlander hier?☺️ik zou graag over De combi ADHD en borderline willen horen 😘

where are you?

As you have talked about what goes on in the mind of a border line person but still i am finding it difficult to help that person, she is my daughter.she does not accept it and niether takes any therapy.if you give me your email id i could tell you everything,and am sure you could help me.thank you

You are ENFJ personality type?