the 1-step guide to finally loving yourself.

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love yourself sweetie
Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction
01:41 - Define your moral compass
05:07 - Don't give discounts
06:14 - It's the actions that matter
06:39 - Give yourself grace
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@jonte6837 Жыл бұрын

The fact that Lana is so stunningly beautiful that she could just become a model and life off her looks, yet she decides to use her wisdom and to help others. If the world was blind, Lana, you'd still impress so many. Thank you for spreading your light.

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

oh wow this is so sweet. thank you for your kind words.

@stylesstudyLounge Жыл бұрын

@@LanaBlakely i agree! Lana i deeply admire you and how wise you are 💕

@jus2cute09 Жыл бұрын

Looks fade, wisdom is worth more.

@stylesstudyLounge Жыл бұрын

@@ajaychandel5650 hello

@ajaychandel5650 Жыл бұрын

@@stylesstudyLounge from where

@RaphaelAvant Жыл бұрын

"I don't abandon myself for someone else" That quote was beautiful. Lovely take on self love.

@pritalevinasengkey6186 Жыл бұрын

" I don't abandon my self to satisfy someone else "

@ryanstells 9 ай бұрын

What if that "someone else" happens to be someone you love like your own child, significant other, parent, sibling or your best friend? Would you abandon yourself for their sake now? Would you do it if it was for the combined sake of literally everyone you love? I am not saying that you shouldn't love yourself. You definitely should but I think that it is possible to take the idea of self-love too far and into the territory of plain selfishness and narcissism and it's not obvious to me where to draw the line between the two.

@megiombro 2 ай бұрын

it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest

@launchpadmcquack4971 Жыл бұрын

“Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is looking.” I think about this every time I’m about to throw my apple core out the window.

@SwapBlogRU Жыл бұрын

It'll biodegrade anyway, a plastic bottle is a different story though.

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

soo sorry the audio goes from loud to quiet during some parts. I was moving around quite a bit when filming and wasn't wearing a lav mic hehe, hope it's not too annoying. love you.

@gayatrinakar5049 Жыл бұрын

Didnt notice

@NatureDaydream Жыл бұрын

No problem. Your audio doesn't annoy me at all. Thank you for such an important video about self-love. I love you too

@joeljeshurun1918 Жыл бұрын

Thanks! Definitely getting better at loving myself but that also means putting others down and walking away when you know you deserve better, sometimes we don't have to be the first one to be kind, especially when we are kind always, how about others be kind and respectful, show up and be present this time instead of hiding behind the scenes, give credit, give them what they deserve instead of putting them down, give them that promotion, that respect and credit they deserve, show them they are valued because that is what they need from you. Otherwise, walk away.

@ScottKath-Oceana Жыл бұрын

❤ support you!

@HAT_SAN Жыл бұрын

Didn't even notice 22

@michellexu417 Жыл бұрын

"You do not abandon yourself to satisfy someone else"-SO TRUE

@sumayyahyusuf7142 Жыл бұрын

I'm 21 and my whole life I was people pleaser now i come on stage that I don't want to please anyone I started to forgive myself and care more and take small steps everyday. Everyone deserve true love and kindness so be the person for yourself.

@HAT_SAN Жыл бұрын

I used to blame myself and depressed many times. But your sentence 'Don't give yourself, or people discounts' help me being more kind to me. Thanks Lana.

@tynnhammar Жыл бұрын

"I don't abandon myself for someone else", a great quote! We should make sacrifices when needed, help each other, and so on, but abandon one self is the same as suicide even if the body and mind still lives on. But what is the point of life if you abandon yourself?

@coco20165 5 күн бұрын

“how deep is this love that you have for yourself?” powerful line

@kflecha1 Жыл бұрын

Positive Vibes to everyone here 🙌🏽✨🌻 We all deserve to be the best version of ourselves ❤ Love you Lana ❤

@amolpundkare8994 Жыл бұрын

Love u Karla

@jamiewilliams8107 10 ай бұрын

When you love yourself you dont depend on others for anything

@bibliophile7557 Жыл бұрын

you always release videos about exacly what I need in the moment. thank you so much for all your videos!

@arilyth Жыл бұрын

I def really love your calm energy and slow videos. They resonate with me and makes me more willing to take everything in! 💗

@okhepullup1705 Жыл бұрын

Thank God this channel exists. I’ve been here for almost 1.5 years and I learned so much. Thanks Lana❤

@Preset1 Жыл бұрын

As someone who is at sea level looking up at the mountain, I appreciate you sharing your experience to help those of us ascending/planning our own mountain. love.

@tami1468 Жыл бұрын

This was so needed. I need to learn how to say no and stick to it. Because actions speak louder than words. I gotta be there for myself

@ryans6442 Жыл бұрын

I’ve recently found this channel and lately I’ve been binging all your videos. I definitely feel like I neglected self love in the past and even now I feel like dumb mistakes in my past take over my mindset some times rather than focusing on where I want to go in life. I definitely think it’s good to take time and get to know yourself such as who is the person you want to be and what your goals are but if you beat your self up all the time that can be hard to do. I guess it’s all about balance with self care and holding yourself accountable

@FatimaKashif-vp8pt Жыл бұрын

Your videos really help me to take good care of myself and my well being. It means a lot to me

@priyankaraghav4713 Жыл бұрын

Much needed to hear this. Since last 2 days I've been beating myself up for saying no to a friend who always break my boundaries. This video is such a relief to me❤ Thank you so much Lana❤❤❤ "I don't abandon myself for someone else😌"

@HimanshuSingh-hf5dh Жыл бұрын

This stuff is so powerful and liberating. I have analysed many times where I treat myself harshly and overly critically and not the way I would treat someone loved. I do care for myself but I guess it's time to pump it up. Thanks a lot Lana!

@user-db6sw1dd4m Жыл бұрын

Lana, its great that you decided to share your wisdom with everyone. At 71 years of age, I never met anyone like you. You are unique and special. Keep it up.

@PatricKovac Ай бұрын

"I don't abandon myself to satisfy someone else". Wow that hit me well

@enidfrommyname Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this, Lana. You have helped me so much in my journey of solidifying my character, healing my insecurities, and appreciating myself. You have taught me a lot. Thank you. 💗

@kimmy6984 Жыл бұрын

Lana that was really powerful of you to say such things!! I will absolutely taking notes. As a people pleaser, i find this very helpful to help me love myself even more💗 Thank you for a billion times!

@abdullahcheema4069 Жыл бұрын

This video on self-love is so inspiring and empowering! It's easy to get caught up in negative self-talk and self-criticism, but the tips you shared remind us that we deserve to treat ourselves with love and compassion. I particularly appreciated the emphasis on setting boundaries and saying no to things that don't align with our values and goals. Thank you for sharing this important message and helping us all work towards greater self-love and self-acceptance.

@thechicguide Жыл бұрын

It can be so easy to fall into the trap of self-doubt and self-criticism, but your video reminded me of how important it is to take care of ourselves and to love ourselves for who we are💐💗💗

@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving Жыл бұрын

Love this, Lana. Treating yourself with respect & love is imperative to a happy life! Awesome insight as usual. BTW, I thought the audio was fine.

@RameshKumar-ng3nf Жыл бұрын

Listening to your talking on any topic , always feels like a meditation to me soothing the mind and soul 🙏

@thauriela6882 Жыл бұрын

something I once found that really changed my view on self- love and my moral compass was "be the person you would ideally fall in love with". that made me reinterpret my definition of both self-love and love I can be given by someone else

@captain1432 Жыл бұрын

I feel lucky to have found you and have you by my side in life as an advisor!

@RayhonaYandasheva-cf3vz Жыл бұрын

💜💜💜 I just say thank you a million for being here. You are literally my soulmate💜💜💜

@anandamayeesahoo9402 Жыл бұрын

I don't know why every time i watch your videos I feel I gained my energy back. I feel fresh and energetic. May God bless you with a beautiful life dear🤍

@tripathiamit2000 11 ай бұрын

lana is so beautiful and intelligent, and speaks so well, if she starts giving advice, life can truly transform.

@bamchel Жыл бұрын

You have the most soothing voice, Lana. Yes, I figured self-love was a missing piece during my recent slump. I'm back at my feet again quite ready to conquer the world after being reminded that I simply have to be kind to myself. 👌

@minelabsryan4485 Жыл бұрын

You help me see the light for a better future, thank you always for your amazing messages

@NatureDaydream Жыл бұрын

Your hair is so healthy! ❤Your video about self-love is a masterpiece. It contains lots of love and helpful advice which will lead to fulfillment in people's lives. You have a good heart. I am happy that you want me to love myself.

@taslucky1439 Жыл бұрын

Your voice is really soothing, its always nice to listen to you 🤍

@cf6408 Жыл бұрын

Such a good video! For me personally, the hardest part about setting your boundaries is when people make you feel bad about that. For example, I don't eat meat and the amount of time people in my family try to make me feel weird or bad about it is insane. But I've learned to stick to my moral compass, even if it results in not being understood oder being perceived as somewhat different. Thank god, my friends are totally different. Also, about saying no: I often feel selfish when I say no to doing smth "because I don't feel like it", because I know it would make the other person happy if I did said thing. I definitely say yes too often.

@TazerLazer Жыл бұрын

Omg Lana your hair is so beautiful 😭

@christopherlobo8082 Жыл бұрын

Lana changed my life for the better.

@knightsatin Жыл бұрын

Thanks for posting this video Lana, such wise words that I think I will need to refer back to often. 👍

@floriannn1596 Жыл бұрын

Another aweasome video of Lana full of excellent advice as always. I already listened to all your podcast I hope you will create more podcasts in the future, the topics you talked there were always compelling.

@mida-hg6jm Жыл бұрын

you’re insanely beautiful not only your looks but the way you speak and your personality

@mixshots1801 Жыл бұрын

Honestly from my heart , wish you healthy, wealthy and peaceful life ✨

@user-hz7dm4ur3s 10 ай бұрын

I love how you talk slowly and you take your time to tell things . Whenever i watch your videos i feel relax 😌 thanks🇲🇦 🇲🇦 for everthing

@tothemoon8465 Жыл бұрын

Tack Lana! Behövde verkligen det här

@Tim_G_Bennett Жыл бұрын

This is probably the best video I've seen on self love. Thank you. :)

@legallybrunettemee Жыл бұрын

This channel is A GAME CHANGER. You inspired me to have my KZfaq channel about weight loss and glow up , AND I GOT 48k VIEWS from 0 account. All thanks to you! I just stopped fearing and started to go forward + using all your tips!

@sabrosso1 Жыл бұрын

This Sundays uploads are a vibe

@alexandrac.l3359 10 ай бұрын

I’m really happy I found your channel 🤍 I love your energy and content. Thank you 🫶✨

@aamnahere6250 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate the openness and kindness in the video. The thing is that not all forms of self loathing or lack of self worth stem from the same causes. Unfortunately, it's extremely difficult for people who were raised by abusive parents or caregivers who showed them verbally or through their repeated actions that they don't deserve to be loved. That they are unworthy and a problem. I know we all go through serious issues in life which shouldn't be minimized but when a child's first contact with this world is made with people who instead of offering or trying to offer stability and love to them, either neglect them, resent them or otherwise live in a chaotic or physically or emotionally unsafe environment, it leads to that child unconsciously absorbing that stress or trauma and thinking of the world as an unsafe place and having extremely low self esteem. I know it's important to work on ourselves but it's also important to acknowledge that for a lot of people, the root of the issue is tied to childhood wounds. It's extremely difficult to heal them. I wish peace and healing to everyone reading this. May all our physical and emotional burdens be eased.

@kiranjoshi5267 Жыл бұрын

So much practical and real life advice. By watching this video we understood what is the unconscious reasons for so much types of negativity we experience. Thanks a lot 👌👍☺️

@ValentinaGulpe Жыл бұрын

What an amazing video! From one creator to another! Beautiful work! You are such an inspiration :)

@dulcedavila884 11 ай бұрын

I've been struggling with being such of a pleaser (specially with my family) and the quote "i don't abandon myself for someone else" got me thinking of how i once told that to my mother and she told me that i must do things that make other people happy sometimes even do those make me feel like crap

@dinuopeng456 Жыл бұрын

watching your hair is a joy

@Aman-cc5ff Жыл бұрын

Thank You Lana for this amazing video ☺

@Alinghl Жыл бұрын

Those words made my anxiety goes away, thank you

@blessyleimapokpam5409 Жыл бұрын

It’s been so hard for me to love myself..I often get into uncomfortable situations because of it, I’m really grateful for this video, thanks Lana 💗 When I hear you explaining various things it calms my anxious heart and mind..I slow down and start to think about it in a better way rather than jumping to conclusions about myself which are mostly just my own thoughts.

@magneticmovements8667 3 ай бұрын

I love watching video's on these topics as they serve as reminders for me. What youre embodying serves as an opportunity for me to jump into who i truly am, or who im working towards becoming whooo. We are all just reflections for each other

@AnjaliKumari-sg1hh Жыл бұрын

You are such a sweetheart, beautiful with your experience with your grace and the power that you have in your softness. Keep inspiring us💗💗💗

@jl_galleza Жыл бұрын

Very well said, Lana! Couldn't agree more on what you've said. Thank you for this.

@veninrouge3211 Жыл бұрын

I'm a fan of Lana at this point. I'm waiting for her to write a book so I can have her on my book shelf.

@cexarz9042 Жыл бұрын

The advice I need right now. Thanks for sharing.

@wideballfreehit Жыл бұрын

I know it's a self-love video but I'm rooting for you too, Miss Blakely! love the "Don't give discounts" part, a very fresh perspective to look at things. :)

@srikanthmandela2511 Жыл бұрын

Apart from the fact that you are pretty, which is obvious. I like how you stimulate people's minds with your wisdom. Your values and concepts of life are immensely deep and thought provoking, in this insta glam world. Keep up the good spirit and continue your work. Cheers Lana!

@yousrabenouali1179 8 ай бұрын

thank you lana . i love everything about about your videos , the serenity watching you is priceless . I take notes everytime

@PavitraRaani Жыл бұрын

Thank you for these videos Lana🧡 truly so insightful and comforting, packed with so much value and with your beautiful energy🤍 keep shining 🌻

@aladdinhuseyov Жыл бұрын

Her message of self-love and acceptance is something that everyone needs to hear, and her tips for cultivating a positive self-image are both practical and effective. I especially appreciated her emphasis on the importance of self-compassion and forgiveness, as these are often overlooked in discussions of self-love. This was a refreshing reminder that we are all worthy of love and acceptance, and that it is never too late to start loving ourselves

@iansilverlight4540 11 ай бұрын

I consciously and by impromptu minimised window to check myself on learning from you Lana. True enough; you do have value lessons as I paid serious attention listening, pushing aside from visual judging looks. Congrats and Thanks for sharing your Value. Respect 🙏🍀 Subscribed.

@feriha3680 Жыл бұрын

The definition of real self love is defined by her ❤ each word is insightful

@abdrehimabdlemejid3288 Жыл бұрын

i share your idea

@NFSMAN50 Жыл бұрын

Hey Lana, Happy Sunday, I already know that this is going to be a great video!! Loving yourself is very important ❤❤hope you are doing well 💗 💜

@MsFitVegan Жыл бұрын

This video was AMAZING. Thank you so so much for making this 🙏🏼💞🍉

@Angeintheworld 10 ай бұрын

The way you style your hair is gorgeous!

@saptarshipal7498 5 ай бұрын

We need people like Lana to lighten up and rejuvenate the lives of thousands of people across the world. Great video and highly motivating for youngsters! Keep it up Lana!

@Conaty 10 ай бұрын

i always find these videos funny. it's easy to love yourself when you look like that. this shallow world gives value to you. but how could you love yourself if no one else did? that's something you can pretend to understand, but you'll never.

@squidwardt0rtellini 10 ай бұрын

Exactly. It gets to a point where the type of shit that she preaches, sounds juvenile and shallow.

@cal1687 4 ай бұрын

Once you find people that truly love you , you will notice they don't love you for your looks they love you for what's inside. "People won't always remember how you looked or what you did but they'll always remeber how you made them feel" love yourself by feeling confident and proud of what's inside and not outside. ❤

@antoniorodriguezlopez746 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Lana is teaching us how to live. This video is going to favorites bar in Chrome!

@spawnsticks Жыл бұрын

please bring back The Lana Blakely Podcast to life 😭💜 I'll keep refreshing till I see a new episode 💜

@iampanda1338 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Lana❤❤

@katherinemikaelson3707 Жыл бұрын

Girlll you gotta show your hair routine...boy oh boy every time it looks so good and I've always admired it! love the video btw!

@alan_schecter Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I needed that ❤

@niklasbacker8397 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Lana,in my life i tryed to love others and forget myself and your video makes me open again my eyse and soul to love my self and take care ty ❤️

@jianyezhang-cq6lr 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Lana Blakely. I am your big fan from China. I really love the way you talk, just like a slow stream. Watch your video really comfort me a lot. I will always remember the phrase that don't abandon yourself to satisfy someone else. I learn a lot from your video, grateful to you all the time!

@yashitdonttouch 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for the tips you've gave to us. It's useful to me.

@Anna-zs3vj Жыл бұрын

What a great description!❤

@billreed3265 Жыл бұрын

Yeah just now realizing this, after tired of being hurt by someone else actions. When the whole time I just need to focus on myself.

@madleani Жыл бұрын

I love that so much 💜💜💜 Thank you Lana 💘

@stylesstudyLounge Жыл бұрын

Lana uploads gotta stop what I’m doing and watch this, so let’s find out what I’m doing wrong with my life and how to improve.

@stylesstudyLounge Жыл бұрын

@@ajaychandel5650 ha ty!

@ajaychandel5650 Жыл бұрын

@@stylesstudyLounge from where

@ravaiiiii 8 ай бұрын

I love your content in general, but this is my favorita video. I struggle with self love and I believe a lot of people do too, and this is so... basic Honestly, thank you so much for sharing these humble and kind videos and life lessons ❤

@cburdette2468 10 ай бұрын

I LUV U LANA.

@Khanplayspiano Жыл бұрын

This girl is just the definition of perfect. So mature,highly intellectual, very beautiful she is just perfect has the most calmest voice ever... bro I just love her ❤

@attilathehun9654 Жыл бұрын

The problem is there's only one of her

@lilycat8702 Жыл бұрын

It's really hard to love myself but I'll start doing these tips and i hope it works 🖤

@chetdeter5137 6 ай бұрын

Excellent! Exactly and succinctly to the main point!

@theintentionalist Жыл бұрын

I’ve created a world where saying no is like gaining more time. Time is the most precious thing on Earth even if I use it to do nothing at all.

@_.ruxir._ Жыл бұрын

At First I used to watch your vids (frankly anyones') at 2x😌 Now I realised that the speed u are talking in naturally has a reason and i am able comprehend more