great vid man, just suscribed

This makes sense to me as a woman, I am thankful that I had lots of acne and braces as a teenage girl, meaning that I seldom got this attention. It now makes sense to me why the groups of hot girls seemed to have similar personalities that I didn’t like, even when they were friendly and wanted to include me. I think being a late bloomer in terms of looks is a blessing in disguise, especially for women!

My theory is people stop maturing when they find acceptance from their tribe. It just so happens that males and females are judged differently and what men are judged on generally occurs much later in life. Hence why ur high school quarterback tends to become an underachiever if he doesn't go pro because he was socially accepted and popular very early in life. Basically u mature and grow only out of necessity.

I had a relationship with a beautiful woman in her late 40's... who had the emotional maturity of a 16 year old. This video really hit the mark for me.

"Men's attraction to women is not very sophisticated"... how true, how true!

This kinda reminds me of a UK TV show called "the island" with Bear Grylls. Season 1, only men. They did great and feminists complained about no women. So Season 2, they did 2 islands, 1 men, 1 women. The men were about to launch a space station by the end of week 1. They thrived. The women were about to starve by the end of w1. They complained, they whined. They sent out an expeditionary group to look around who promptly got lost for 4 days and almost died and did not meet their mission objectives. One woman faked being ill so she could go back to base, sleep in a hotel, get fed and go back. So because the women were such a failure they brought the men over to help them and they promptly got mad at the hypergamy. Lol. The episodes are every other men then women. Its on KZfaq. The comments are gold.

You just perfectly described my ex-girlfriend and why I left her. I even told her exactly this: You never developed your personality because there never was a need to. She agreed years later.

"Their looks fade and become bitter of the world" In other words, they become Karens

When that type of women hit the 30's and not married it comes the phrase "Where have all the good men go"

my daughter has been amazingly pretty since she was a toddler. I never once told her she is pretty. But I complimented all her efforts to learn and grow. We homeschooled so she would have a good balance in life. She is super successful in the medical field with her own practice at 30. I use to teach school in the public schools and it was amazing how entitled the pretty girls were. They did poorly in my classes because I didn't cut them any breaks.

Most women don’t mature past 16.. they just get older!

Especially if they went to parties and drank a lot in their teenage years

As a female, it is thoroughly illuminating to get the opportunity to see my gender from an intelligent perspective on the other side. Thank you for this important anthropological and evolutionary work. ♡

You know what I never understood. These teenage girls dressing in revealing tight clothes and wearing makeup call the guys who do look at them weirdo's /Creeps /pedos, when they know exactly what sort of attention they will be getting from people around them.

I noticed that when i came back to school after 2 years away. All my male friends had heavily change, exactly as i did, but my female «friends » didn’t change at all (we were all around 20), and even now, at 24, we male are still growing up and maturing but women don’t

A beautiful teenage girl quickly "discovers" that her beauty is all she needs to feel good about herself, so she never bother to develop anything else. Of course there are exceptions--plenty of beautiful girls accomplish things other than walking around looking good--but the principle holds.

I wish I had seen these videos 20 years ago...

Also, when an attractive woman finally decides to settle down with a man, which is out of his league, it’s usually indicative of the female settling for complacency where she won’t have to proactively maintain her appearance as she previously did, while she was still active in the dating market. Of course there are outliers that don’t fall within the majority, but most don’t strive to sustain themselves the same way unless their partner is proactively striving to improve themselves during the longevity of the relationship as well.

“Girls mature faster than boys!” Everything has its price.

Simps while watching this video: "la la la la la Can't hear you!!"

I’ve actually found being an “ugly duckling” during my teen years has been a blessing in disguise. Those that have been attractive their whole lives don’t have to deal with experiences that generally help build character.

A damsel in distress does not need to know anything She just needs to attract the attention of a man who does But often men's continual need to save a woman Creates a nation of helpless women Who do not need to learn anything for themselves Once they hit their 40s there a burden on society

The implications of this theory are mind-blowing.

Thank you for confirming, what I concluded a few weeks ago... at the age of 50! In my experience these beautiful women act like spoiled toddlers, when their wishes concerning having (manipulating) a man are denied. They think that they can get every man and play with him, treat him like a soulless second hand object and still be wanted so badly by these hungry men. I'm a very sensitive man and have always refused to play their little (spoiled) children's games. The result: they became very angry with me!

i really like how you mentioned the important part with the parents. i “developed” my beauty when i were about 15/16, and i noticed that I began to fall for it. i got almost all my self esteem from male attention. but my dad reminded me everyday that that’s not worth anything and other things are way more important, so i kept developing my personality. i don’t want to sound arrogant but I’d say i’m quite attractive but my personality and brain is way more important to me, and especially the way i make people around me feel, like my boyfriend. I’m 19 now and i’d always choose personality over looks for myself, it’s the only way to really be fulfilled and happy.

"A man has to prove himself. A woman only has to breathe, and some of them, not even that for some men..." Paul Elam.

being alone 19 years has made me developed emotionally a lot since i have never been popular or anything like that so when people know me for the first the see i always chill and careless i learned to being careless.

This male approval thing is a two edged sword. I remember hearing from a female friend about the day at the mall that all eyes went first to her 14 year old daughter instead of herself - a shock to both of them. And I have seen situations where an adult female dressed in an outfit that a high school girl could use effectively but looked awkward on the older women and thought to myself "she misses the attention and is trying to get it back", kind of sad in a way. Getting a lot of male attention at a young age has another negative effect for really good looking females - they can easily pass up good potential mates because they feel they deserve better. If they are not careful they can end up alone and suddenly without the male attention. They may then "settle" for "less than they deserve" which is not good for the relationship or they end up alone because they hold on to their unrealistic expectations.

Right now im 15, and i really enjoy your channel. Its been really hard having to learn that as someone who is both a man, and no longer a child, i do not have inherent value. Your videos have been helping with that. And its also made me realize that i dont necessarily desire a relationship, now or in the future. I dont gain happiness from women in today's society. I really love the channel man, just subbed.

I think the adult women also treat the pretty girls differently too

I remember being about 19 or 20 years old I had a very close "friend with benefits" in her 30's. Extremely beautiful woman! Literally beyond a 10! Off the scale! I asked her once how old she was when she realized she was sitting on a gold mine. She answered me without hesitation, "12 years old". I'm 40 now and I still believe she was telling the absolute truth!

This is one of your best and most insightful videos. Your points are very humbling.

“ Every beautiful woman is a tragedy. “ - Carl Jung

Dude; that was a brilliant concept, made a lot of sense.

In my experience, most women have an emotional age of about 11.

U can't say anything about women online in apps , without men and women calling u sexist or something

Stay away from the "pretty" ones. They are the ones who put false charges on you, emotionally abuse you and are bad moms. Just like the song said, "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife." I made that mistake and now my life is in the loo!

Just wanna say that this is the first time I’ve looked at Mr. Grace’s Patreon page, and I’m glad I did. The jokes he puts on his tiers of patrons are hilarious!

Thank you so much for posting this Alexander.

The most important and very best is this video amongst Alexander's works. Congrat and thanks for it.

What's really sad is you can tell women this over and over again, but they wont believe you until their looks fade and they experience it first hand.

So um.....I thought this was gonna tell me when girls stop getting taller

Probably your best video as far as I am concerned. Well done. Fascinating and well argued.

Your videos are so good, this is one of my favorites. They're really helping, thank you so much!

Looks get worse with age but skill is the opposite.

The most attractive woman I ever saw irl and tried dating was mentally around 16 I'd say. Of course she cheated on her bf and has a baby out of a broken relationship, also decided to not stay at Uni and educate herself. Now I can't believe I actually was desperate to be with her, but she was so amazingly beautiful I was thinking with my trouser snake and not my brain.

Amazingly described, amazing channel! Thank you

Wow, never thought about it in that way. Really like your videos and the way to explain things. Thanks for creating such a channel

Thank you, Alexander Grace! This finally explains why some of the most well-rounded and attractive women that I’ve met have been late-bloomer types.

One of my best friends ( and if I’m being honest, one of my worst crushes) is an absolutely stunning woman. She’s bright in many ways, and fun, and physically gorgeous STILL (even though she’s in her early 40’s). Yet she is an awful wife and girlfriend. I’ve watched her choose the worst men, into the triple digits over the last 20+ years. She’s burning her candle at both ends. She has nothing to offer men except sex. It’s sort of eye opening.

That was enlightening, thank you! Nobody else ever mentioned this topic.

I just came cross your videos and I'm binging on them. May God bless you for your honest and courageous work.

wow you are the first one I encountered to explain beautiful woman's behaviour and their lack of maturity and why and how they ended like this. Great content

I see this at work a lot. Older women in their 40s who clearly would have been very attractive to men in their youth. Devoid of any personality, soul or intrinsic value. No clue on how to talk to people or form real connections. It's very sad. And what's worse is that these days because of social engineering like feminism a woman doesn't even have to be attractive anymore to get the "pretty girl treatment."

women have the control of relationships when they're younger, but the tables turn as men get older, they become the ones with power. it's simple when men are younger woman will always seek older men for stability, but men will always seek a younger woman if he's capable of getting one. this will lead woman often being single or having to fight more for a decent relationship. i just wish other males didn't care about women as much as they do and live their life more.

great video Alex, thanks for those words

You are a young version of Jordan Peterson. I wish more people had that mindset. Pure intelligence (rational and emotional). Cheers.

this video made feel good, only thing gives me validation is providing to the society in a good way. It gives me a sense of protection that I won't go down a wrong path.

i have been expecting this video. so on point 100%

Well explained, doc. Subbed.

Thanks for confirming something I’ve been thinking of for a couple weeks, you really are a great creator

It makes a lot of sense. I don't believe anyone ever stops being a kid (we just learn how to behave better), but I believe anyone can see women certainly get stuck in a lower level of maturity. But for me the main fault is because the way our society encourages us to treat and raise women. We stopped raising women a long time ago, now they are just overfitted teenagers.

Good advice. Experience teaches harshly, but it teaches best. Pick as a keeper, a woman with a happy disposition, and who contributes to the relationship.

Such a great video Alexander.

In college, I met a girl who checked all the boxes in terms of personality and character, but she was lacking in the looks department and I couldn't be physically attracted to her even though we had a matching personality.. Later she introduced me to her roommate, and boy she was a goddess glowing with glamour and beauty, but she had a very shitty personality that made it unpleasant for me to keep hanging with her. Even though I was drawn to her external appearance at first, it didn't reflect on her behavior.

I don't treat women to differently then I do men. No need to tell her she's beautiful unless she says you're handsome. Just respect everyone who deserves it.

I learn so much about female nature and psychology from your videos. Your material is VALUABLE

One of your best videos Alex!

TRUTH! been in relationship with 3 smokin hot girls... their reasoning and logic are very weird eventually beauty alone doesnt work in a relationship nowadays i go for hot girls just for mingling, no string attached relationship

I've been thinking/seeing this for years now.

I once read that “girls grow up and boys grow upwards” but I guess it’s quite the opposite

"That attention never extends to adult women" Ever heard of Jeremy meeks?

Special treatment from a young age and power over men through attraction will corrupt any character.

The beautiful women I dated had thousands of followers and hundreds of likes on fb & IG but in real life they had no real friendships or close relationships with there family. I couldn’t understand it. Until realizing that there followers were all strangers. There personalities were so underdeveloped, selfish, immature and Narcissistic that all they had were there beauty. Shallow people and simps validated them on the internet but in real life there awful personalities pushed everyone away including me. I would see how rude and nasty they were to waitresses, other women, people at registers because they held no value to her. Once she realizes what she can get from her beauty she doesn’t develop herself or her personality, it’s like shes sitting back on auto drive waiting for men and people to give everything to her like it’s expected until reality sits in when she hits the wall.

Excellent synthesis!!

This is one of those videos that made me feel grateful im a man, if people just lined up to validate me in my youth i would have never been driven to attain the hieghts ive obtained and am still chasing now.

Yes, I used to rely on the "looks fade" argument, but it also has to be said that good genetics are passed down to future generations and in some sense, looks last forever.

Your explanation of a woman's nature is very informative to young men of contemporary culture we live in. This is a huge help for them. Wish I had this information in my teen years. 👍

this advice is gold

Thanks for sharing your knowledge on this channel. :)

For the women wachting, if someone tells you you're pretty/hot, don't let that get to your head! I struggled with arrogance/being mean because of it. I was way too young to know how to handle that much attention. It took me a long damn time to forgive myself for all the hurt I had caused people. You're not special. They're gonna tell this to the next woman your age when you are older. The higher you are up in the ladder the harder you'll fall.

This excuses the attractive woman for having the mindset of a 13-year-old. While it is clear that humans tend to take advantage of whatever comes easiest to them, it is society that needs ensure it is not abused. As I have maintained, *the failure is in how we temper men’s advantage of, say, superior strength (and so we should), but actually make it “OK” for women to rely on solely on theirs (namely, youthful beauty) --- to the point that they have NO RESPECT for men.* The media has become so “empowered” by f3m2n1sm that there is active promotion to abuse that power (e.g. look up the hip-hop tune “WAP”). This systemic condoning of women abusing their power needs to stop. It is no different than promoting conspicuous wealth and arrogance. Should we merely recognize that it is not the fault of the spoiled rich children to act as snobs… or should we actively discourage this type of haughtiness? Recognizing the weakness of humans is not enough. We need to fix society.

Great analysis...superb content.

Real Excellent Analysis and Break down of many Attractive woman's personality and how it relates to their potential Quality.

"Most women START to mature at 45"- Cronicles of Judah

Australian Jordan Peterson

Killer video. Well done

Very well spoken!

This is the most meaningful relationship/social related channel I found on youtube. Very explanatory. I wonder what is actually the source of all that Alexander's knowledge.

This video reminds me of the myth of Narcissus. A man-child who is so beautiful that he falls in love with his own reflection projected back at him from everyone he meets. And Echo who is denied hers.

More honest words could not be spoken. Thanks for having the balls to talk about this stuff. I do not regret subscribing to you as I've learnt much.

Really great video.

I think what Alex said is true in this video But I want to argue against "common knowledge" that less attractive girls have "good personalities", obviously good people, men or women have to put in the work. Unfortunately, more frequently - bitterness and blame - comes from the less attractive women towards the more attractive, than a desire to develop characteristics which are attractive to quality men.

Its always said in a negative way " looks will fade" That isn't the point. Its true but no one cares if looks fade, until they fade. The point to make is about beauty. Beauty may fade in seconds; within a single moment, due to information, actions, words, understanding & perception! You find out a thing about a person & your perception of their beauty changes. To be extreme, say the sexiest model you ever met is in love with you, but you find out she's in a cannibal cult and eats humans. The way she looks doesn't physically change, but your perception of her looks perhaps would. This is important because the scale tips in both directions! No one says it using the right words-- Pretty looks can be ruined by ugly behavior. BUT, if you think some is kinda, alright looking, then you find out they are smart, sweet, kind, polite, wonderful, caring etc... It adds so much to their beauty! Its science. Your body will find a reason to think they are sexy, if they treat you properly. You will be like, "Oh she's/he's got sexy fingernails & elbows!" Lol. It can make a man/woman who's a 5, into a 10/11.. Shitty behavior, stupidity and poor treatment of others can, in turn, make a 10 into a 4 really quick. Its not what everyone else sees. Its what we see & experience individually: MY fav colour. MY fav roller-coaster. The most beautiful person I'VE ever seen. Beauty is not just looks. It can be the sound of a voice, the choice of a fragrance, the reaction to a reaction, etc.. We should close our eyes & give someone the chance to become more beautiful to us.. Listen, watch, wait & feel.. and finding someone you also think is cute, is wonderfully overwhelming. If you've never loved someone all the way through, you'd miss out. Being loved IS great, but not as great as getting to meet someone you truely get to LOVE all the way through, every part of their existence that you get to experience! That perhaps is what makes all hardship tolerable

Very interesting video! I was aware of this, but not to that extent.

Great insight

If memory serves, Schopenhauer alluded to this too. Those dang nihilists were on to something

For a few years I actually dated but was unable to marry one of those extraordinary women who are extremely beautiful and at the same time extremely sophisticated, well read, moral, of unimpeachable character. She was slightly vain, but only slightly. You can't imagine how great it was just to be in her presence. She was the great one that got away. She eventually married a failed novelist, a really nice guy of humble attainments, who I knew slightly. I haven't seen them in nearly twenty years. Women like these are very, very rare.

I remember some months ago trying to explain to a friend the fact that a girl I liked looked too good and also had some other characteristics that made me very sceptical but something was missing from my explanation. Fortunately I trusted my instinct which has saved me many times. It is this video that expressed the thoughts I couldn't at that time.

This is so sad but explains so much.