Always happens! Don't get baited in guys.

Guess you can't trust em

This is true.

Becareful of men and women who want you to open up to them, but they do not inturn open up to you.

Damn right! Married 22 years then she cheated and has exploited everything she can to try and extract money. You'd think after 22 years you could have total trust! Ive kept *her* secrets though.

If you really want to end a relationship all you need to do is open up.

Yeah i have been complitely open with several girls shared some of my weaknesses and being vurneable in front of them. Never did me any favors. Now i have learned the hard way that blind honesty is not good in relationships. I actually regret it much since they propably shared all that i shard with their girl companions.

They will use any of your weak points against you

@@Latitz Isn't it better to get rid of woman like this by opening up?

@@ashuranero5721 Well you get rid Of them but there is a change they start gossiping about you. And worst case scenario they exaggerate what they learn about you.

there's the potential to be manipulative/ having a mask Think about women's gaming/manipulation books 'How to get what you want' etc. -She'll act like a girl that is genuinely intrested, manipulating the target. Let's say you can't tell one from the other. (meaning the mask and play is on point) You can only tell, when it all comes out, when the persona already got what he wanted/ took away from you But then, it's too late...

No games actually means the opposite - she LOVES games.

@@spqr1945 What it means is that she's been getting pumped and dumped by Chad's by the dozen's.

@@ZekeMan62 and she loves the thrill of being pumped by Xhad.

@@spqr1945 But she can't lock him down... so she wants to try other types of men... hence the "no games" stipulation, but only for you. She'll be playing games till the day she dies.

True. Its normal to take some things for granted after a while. A great quality relationship is one were you can speak about those things and develop a strategy on how to deal with those issues.

Women can’t afford to let themselves go as much as men though

@@joebermuda6452 Seems someone forgot to tell them that though. :P

Pleplerhep because women care less aboutmen’s looks so long as he is high value in other ways. Men do care mostly about physical attraction though

._. True

Oh, the along/alone typo is so perfect that I half-think it's deliberate.

@@chibaphil it's a typo 😅

@@chibaphil true.

Cornelius B agreed bro.

@@chibaphil both sexes should turn gay is what he means. Cause its hopeless situation🤣

won't you be bi before becoming straight?

Sooooo........ Update?

She forgot everything as soon as she made this comment and went back to mentally abusing and silencing her partner, if it turns out to be a guy. Lol

Like Button bait... GTFOH😂

lolll this comment is not real

That is probably a sad insecure person then....

They lie.....they want strength and stability from a man.

@@johngalt6838 Well, opening up about certain emotions is actually strength

If you most women cannot deal with basic HUMAN emotions, then you're just worthless in a psychological, social perspective. It's painfully sad and awful. And that applies with men AND women, either friends of partner.

@@cayden2744 it is but a weak woman will not recognize this. Avoid weak women.

well they know at early age what to hide and show. whereas a boy should be '' man up '' about things.

Hilarious and true

So true!

Yup, I thought I was the only one saying it. Because when I talk to women about this very thing, from young to very old, they continue to insist I don't know what I'm talking about and women know more about men than men do. Then they proceed to tell me men should do things that are entirely advantageous to women and don't even take men into consideration.

Just be yourself -Wrong! Express your feelings, women are very emotional so they will really relate to that - Wrong! I've heard both of these directly from women.

@@donnydomingo9962 "Just be yourself" is very well justified. High quality women will see through your acting quite quick. They are better at acting anyway, so they'll beat you. also, I don't get what's wrong with holding the door open - outside of the USA ofcourse.

My sisters were amazing, I used them to check me and her friends bodylanguage as I tried my game on them. I took them clubbing, using them as my scouts. My sister was my best wing person haha

@@mikolajtrzeciecki7979 yes, just be urself..lool. I've heard that one b4

Yes and also women have an aversion to taking risks and when you pursue somebody you're risking being rejected and possibly humiliated.

Women are as, if not more insecure than men.

As I travelled three continents within the last 4 years, I asked probly hundreds of pretty to beautiful / sexy girls and women from Europe, Asia and Oceania, about this whole approach stuff. Except for some Australians, NONE of them has ever been approached at daytime, only half-drunk idiot approaches are an experience for almost all of them. Just wanted to droo this one for all guys who think "She's so attractive, she gets so much masculin attention, I don't even need to try". No one ever tries on them. Not at daytime! :) Further I asked, if they don't have the wish to approach a man who catched their eyes. Surprisingly, they want! But guess, why they don't do! They are afraid. Beauties, all of us would consider at least a 9 are too scared to hit up a man, oftenly even in nightlife. Guys, them girls are only human :) so many same struggles that would not be nessessary

​@@danielmeyer6994 A lot of men try, just not physically. But when a man does approach them in public, it can go 2 ways, and it usually is not the right way. I do not know where in Europe you went, but if you have visited the Netherlands, Amsterdam, you should know that women get approached a lot.

@@hemisheyes9865 True. It's why there is more drama within Female social circles, than Male social circles. It's ironic because Women are actually pressuring each other more than Men do to them, while also pressuring Men more than they do themselves. Very unfortunate. A shy woman is cute, a shy man is weak, and low value. It's

Wow... her comment, what an ungrateful, coldhearted thing to say after everything. I'm glad you got rid of her, even with all that you lost, you could've lost more later. It's just not worth it. I'm grateful every day that for all my failed relationships, I owe nothing to those women anymore. Never married, had kids, or committed fully to them, economically or otherwise, because it didn't feel right. And for that I'm luckier than many, I'm free. Sometimes I still naively hope I'd find that one person some day, "a soulmate", to whom I could commit fully, knowing we'd be there for each other, always. But before that miracle somehow manifests, I won't be making the same mistakes I've done before. I'd rather keep my self-respect and sovereignty than trade that for any woman. It means more to me than any money.

​@j you're absolutely right, big mistake, never got paid back of course. considered her as family at the time, lived together for 5 years, she outined a plan to pay it back, and the collectors were coming after her, so i wanted to bail her out of a really bad situation. never again...

@@champagneshade6249 Good riddance.

woman moment

That sucks. My ex BF was the same, but his excuse was ‘you have so much money, why are you so stingy?’. His response when I asked how he liked the elaborate food I made & asked for feedback was ‘stop bothering me I’m trying to eat’. Not only did I completely support him but he stole from me repeatedly. But it was my own fault for putting up with it all.

For number 9, I would add being “... yet firm”. Too often I’ve seen women be wishy washy with their answer. She most likely doesn’t want to date the guy but he doesn’t know that because she framed the rejection so poorly. I would much rather be told “you’re a great guy, but I’m not interested” than “you’re a great guy, but I can’t date right now”. Women need to make it clear they’re not interested and avoid falsely give the guy hope.

@@DarnedYankee I think he covered that under no.2 "Don't lead men on"

Thank you!

11 never date a woman....stay away

​@@estebansteverincon7117 I suspect that you've deeply misunderstood the context of the list.

@Kawhi's burner account I'm not Russian.

@@zuzanaeretova2483 Now, THAT was funny

@Kawhi's burner account Are you stupid ? You do realize that many countries with slavs exists outside of Russia

I think the number 10 is the most important one for sure. Anyway he is right, but I an not sure how a female would look at this 10 points he made out, for me is more like if you focus on them,eventually everything else like small points , will turn into your advantage as a female and end up as a high quality women. I appreciate your commentary. Don’t pay attention to Kawhis, he may be a beta 😤.

being here gives you a huge headstart, in the area i am right now are just two kinds of women (i meet) those who became pregnant in no time - and the ugly ones. And most became pregnant just after a few weeks with their new boyfiend The treshhold to be considered 'a good one' was never as low...

Tomi Lahren (cough cough..)

@@alvarosilva523 but there's the biggest issue tho MOST women think and believe they ARE high quality. Even tho they have 3 to 5 kids from 3 to 5 different men and work at Walmart not hatin on em you gotta do what you gotta do but they strait up DEMAND and say they DESERVE the Jason Momoa's, the Chris Hemsworths, Channing Tatums, and Labron James's even tho what exactly do they bring besides another guy/guys, kid/kids, boring conversation, and debt?

@@jaygage1555 im aware, yet this video was not meant for those

@Manannan anam I just come to realise that, ill erase it just in case

@@jaygage1555 Being a good mom to her kids is the mark of a high quality women. In the eyes of the man she had her kids with. I think that's the problem. Within society moms are high value, same as how a highly paid and skilled person holds value. Society's preferences are largely centered around women's security, needs and desires. They mistake this for SMV as they expect men feel the same way. But our needs are deviant in society's eyes which leaves them as "mysterious."

@@jaygage1555 Brad pitt, johnny Depp and George Cloony can't hold a relationship together, and they are the richest, most famous and best looking men, normal men have no chance.

This is why modern feminism is so toxic. It gives women an easy excuse not to see things fairly from both sides.

@@fiveleavesleft6521 Yeah... The fact that he has to explain that women should stop shaming normal healthy male behaviors and even just general human behaviors (when men exhibit them)... Is kinda proof of the dire straits we're in. I bet some crazy illogical feminists are getting triggered from this totally calm and reasonable video right now.

I'm a woman here, like he said in the beginning, sifting through all the conflicting information is very confusing. I am very grateful to finally be awake, it can be difficult to hear criticism, but it is necessary for growth. I am married and I see clearly that I have made many of the mistakes he mentions. We also have 3 daughters and I intend to teach them these truths. The way to life is narrow, but there is hope

@Global Man My, my, aren't we stooping to a new low? First of all, she is listening, and acting on what she's heard. Second, you're insulting an entire gender when you should be rationally explaining the flaws of a movement, or perhaps of societal norms. Basically, buddy, she's trying to help, and you're making things worse for yourself and her and... Well, this kind of attitude makes EVERYTHING worse.

Then you dont know a lot of women 🤣

@@xristinarose2409 I know tons of women but only a few who hold themselves accountable😕

may i add one last thing; forget stuff we made 2 years or longer ago

Well said. Aware men have to keep that reality in mind and not be distraught or distracted from their important goals and purposes.

"A woman simply is, but a man must become"

Maybe there is need to be a balance of both those chances ... if a female open up to sexual chances for a male, the male part has to open up to the romantic chances (like a win-win agreement) in the utilitarian lenses, at the spiritual lenses there could be a wiser version of that agreement.

So did it work out?

@@BrookMaboyi I lost interest in that girl, when i felt like i didn't pick her up myself.

Gold advice man xD

Assume that if you're telling one you're telling all of them.

That's true. But I depends on what the girl thinks about you. At least this is how it was in my case. There was a guy who was annoying me for over a year (over the internet!) with his love, even though I told him no in the beginning. He's got a lot of traumas and issues and that's why I had some empathy and tolerated his behaviour. Why did I not just block him? Because I didn't think it would have been good for him either. I don't hate him and I believe he's a good person despite his issues and I wanted to help him, which wad my big mistake. I have never been interested in him. Apart from that, I had a boyfriend who he was aware of as well. We had a complicated relationship, not in a way of misunderstanding or anything, we've always got along, and that's why he kept hoping he'd somehow steal me away from him. When he got me really annoyed I could indeed leak his secrets to other people. But usually it was more about asking their opinion about stuff, and not mocking him or anything like that. Now talking about a guy who I believe I have a very deep connection with. I love seeing him vulnerable. And I have never used it against him and I never will. I love it because then I know that he trusts me so much that he can share something like that with me. I would never want to hurt that connection. I have no idea how other women can do something like that. The only thing that comes to my mind is that they simply do not love you.

Women give the very worst dating advice. This is true whether giving advice to men or women.

I want to see 10 points of you too

How is a good man do you know if he has a video?

@George Bush ,the few that hit bottom ,maybe become dimly aware.Feminism and the media culture has groomed them top indeed operate as autonomous agents,and most eventually end up very unhappy.Yes,feminism should have never beenand needs to end

this right here folks

Accountability is kryptonite to women (TFM)

Literally just asked a woman to examine herself as if she was someone other than herself. It did not go well. Just blaming and screaming. Ugh 😑

@@friesmj That sounds like a ton of fun.

And two of the hardest to find

Take away the profitability and alimony from divorce settlements and you might see a change; until then it's just going to continue the way it is...

@@kylel7158 Yeah, we need to abolish no-fault divorce.

They are not really sacrificing anything they can satisfy their hypergamy even after getting married they can monkey branch to a better guy and don’t forget that they even get rewarded for it with alimony it’s us men who are really sacrificing everything.

where did u buy your views?

Me too with my attempts at dating. Now I know to work on myself and level up and maybe practice some game.

My guy my guy

So true, the women I know in real life are completely clueless about what makes a woman attracted to a man.

@@independentthought3390 Their most used dating advice is: "just be yourself". Easy for them to say when they literally don't have to do anything to get men.

I noticed that they only give advice to beta males unlike to an alpha where they rather invest on knowing his current relationship

But meanwhile I as man will give you dating advice.

``pretends to react positively``

Well yeah she might react "positively" in the moment but she's not going to respect you after if you unload all your problems on her pretty little ears.

And when she does that its an illusion and a LIE

The only women who react positively are the ones who you don’t have a chance in hell of dating

It is possible, it's a nature VS nurture. I've personally met a few women that do and recognise society treats women with kid gloves. To be fair they came from families with strong father influence and the parents were still together.

It's true on a large scale.

@@Cornelius429 It is possible but why would any woman take responsibility for anything when their shitty behaviour is always defended?

@@jayc342009 I think that falls on men in general, we stop rewarding it.

If a parent punished his or her daughter with the same vigor as his or her son, do you think women would _generally_ be as duplicitous and conniving as they are today, or would they be of exemplary character? Be honest.

"Women will not do this - even if they say they will - they won't." If you respect women that little and basically do not consider them reasonable, rational individuals why are you even here? You do consider women beneath you, not even human. The way you phrased your comment tells me you think you know the ultimate, final truth. That you have nothing to learn, because you figured it out, you know best. In that case, why are you even here? With such a closed mindset you will probably never find a woman to spend your life with anyway, just get a cabin in the woods, keep to yourself, live a happy life without the women you despise so much and don't bother us.

Sad but true

@@Disappointed_Philosoraptor you strawmanned me really hard with no knowledge of who I am or How I think. I'll give you another chance to try this comment again. Particularly the whole 'I'll never find a woman to spend my life with' hoooblaa (guessing my intentions) and 'you think you know everything, so why are you here' (though I'm clearly here to listen to others because...duh......) but go off king.

Good analogy

@@Disappointed_Philosoraptor wtf where the hell did he said that women are beneath him?! He stated things someone should not expect from a women in a relationship and did not called women trash or something???? Pls read before you type. I am almost sure that the majority of subscribers from this channel don't have a genuine hate towards women bc Alex often says that he likes women and would never blindly hate anyone what so ever.

@Reconsider your position that was the most retarded comparison ive ever heard, and think about it from her position, she hears things that directly contradict one another then doesnt know what to believe cuz again they contradict ome another. You'd be in the same position too bro

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Where I live women would rather commit suicide instead having their secret stories of sexual escapades with chad becoming public. So many cases like that in news. Why do it in the first place then?

Even if the behavior isn't unusual, the focus and direction is. This doesn't sound like she is looking at herself for vanity's sake.

@@TheAk1292 ..they don't see it as vanity. More like work and virtue. But if it waddles like a duck, then maybe it really is a duck.

You're going after the wrong kind of woman.

bruh youre halfway to your grave, get it together

Men are different, so naturally what they like is different. Personally I'd love for my partner to be comfortable in her own skin, but also put in some effort (such as shaving and caring for herself), but she doesn't have to always wear make up. Basically some good balance, comfort with feminine traits. As for being a housewife, I find it noble and admirable (if that's what a woman wants to do), as it requires lots of effort and strength.

They won't . social media is a women's porn addiction. The effects of that addiction ( disloyalty, narcissism, materialistc) is what they are now. In 20 years they will change cuz the evidences will be to great to ignore unlike now there is still disbelief among them and that men are trash talk. Mind you yt censors the opposite gender of the last statement. Let start with the information they are not seeing.

Yeah, or even try more than two of 'em.

They don't want to lose an orbiter

Holy... yes...specially the door opening can nowadays missunderstood. Sometimes you only want to be polite and friendly, regardless of who you would open the door for. I had it too, open the door at some shop and getting a roll-eye face from a woman which I even did not thought of to try to date or so. Weird times...

Don’t let one behatch affect your behavior so profoundly. There are crazy ladies - you do you. If you feel masculine and generous holding a door, do it. Ignore the few who complain.

That one also confused me. I tried to think of even one. Anything and everything that I have a right to do, and it's legal, and I can afford to do it or buy it, every adult female can also do it or buy it or whatever. Plus she doesn't have to register for the military draft, and I was forced to. Plus she has a right to abort our child even if I don't want her to. I am really beginning to wonder what the word "privilege" actually means.

@@Pezerinno Walking down the street at night safely is just an illusion for men. The thug with a gun doesn't care how buff you are. Statistically men are attacked far more often than women. Men are mugged/jumped, but aren't sexually assaulted. Not having to fear a sexual assault (outside of prison) is the only privilege I could think of.

@George Bush lol So Women can't be Forced Into the DRAFT??? And MEN can??? That's unbelievable.. Lol

The right to court the woman we desire. Women can't, because they would look promiscuous.

@@jbalgo lol...lies...Women can always go after the Men they desire, they just don't do it the same way Men do it...Infact Women are more likely to get the Men they desire than are Men to get the Woman they Desire

super true.

Mirror & Match - give women the EXACT treatment they give you. ....... I bet they call you a misogynist before the end of the week.

@@seeborisgo8074 bro the biggest thing that I learnt from Alexander grance videos is that not to waste time on stupid people I would rather not be focused on girls anymore and helps guys out cos they would be more genuine.

And ask girls not to kick us in the ****s when they reject us.

@@nicholaslucas5183 bro but why do we have to even deal with these girls when it will waste a lot of energy and time to try to woo her se u might have got this only I was going to be lynched by the guys. Wasting time on these sort of girls is not worth it. We guys need to raise our standards cos girls will never compromise on their standard then why should we.

@@paretoshsaklani8690 thank you for your comment.

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I'm a woman here. I agree with him and I am willing to work on myself and treat my husband better and teach my daughters to do the same. Have hope

@@MiwaTamu Good on you Miwa but in your case already having a husband you kinda seem to have done a good job already . These tips are essential for women who are single because they are the ones known to treat men horribly in the dating market

@@MrArbeter I hear you, I suppose teaching my daughters could help for the future. Thanks for your kind words. God bless.

Even if you held them down and tortured them till they could repeat the entire video word for word it would not influence their behavior in the slightest.

I was thinking the same. Actually in Spain you've it easier, sometimes companies are given credit from governement

Balancing career and children is objectively harder for women, for biological reasons. As a man, apart from the sex, you can immediately focus in other things again, while the pregnant women will go through hormone and body changes, effects after birth and so on. I'm not saying it has no effect on the father, he'll usually have changes in mindset and so on, but hard bodily changes are absent. So, becoming a parent is easier for men than for women. Apart from that, I think in our society there's nothing else. There's some large differences in _large scale_ distributions on various issues, but that's irrelevant on the individual level.

There's the pressure of figuring out as early as possible the best mate and a person to settle down with, the pressure which many men like us do not have to face at similar stages of our lives. We as men have a lot of time in our hands to wait, think and make the decisions with no adverse effect to our sexual market value. The reality is that women do not have that freedom as we do

Men are usually delt a better hand with respect to the current society, but that's due to holding women to male standards. More women than men have a personality that holds them back. It's clearly individual challenges that those individuals (men and women alike) have to overcome while others don't, but it affects more women than men. I see how you can see it as a male privilege, but I disagree because privilege is something granted by an authority. It's more a _large scale_ natural male advantage. Some may be nurture, not nature, but in the end, for the present situation, it's root cause is rather irrelevant.

Career vs family. If you want to have a family a career is just way harder for a woman. Because as a woman you're the one carrying that foetus, having to give birth and recover from that (this can take months, mind you!). Imagine having to do that 2 or 3 times, the woman will have lost so much time and energy (and so, potential) just being pregnant and recovering from pregnancy that a man would not have lost. Now, if a woman really should want to have a serious career like that is a different question. But it's undeniable that the career/family issue is just harder for women, not because of "the patriarchy" or whatever, but because of the womb inside of them.

Just in my experience, by their 30s many men want to have a family, it seems to be instinctive. But broadly there are some men who want to stay around for their children and to be monogamous, and another group who find this harder. Sometimes it is suggested that this corresponds with the K (pair bonding, investment in children) and R (interest in sex with many partners but low investment) type difference in evolutionary biology and is a sign of different evolutionary life strategies among men.

I find deep happiness from strong connections and it's not just me. Quality of relationships is one of the best predictors of happiness, health, and so on, both for men and women. I used to be a boy you'd not want your daughter around. I did a lot of mistakes and acted like a total douche which I regret. One of my actions has cost me losing a girl I still love. We've been together for 5 years and it's been 3 years since we broke up. After that, I know precisely that I want to create a family and become a father. I'm no longer dating women just for casual reasons and it feels good, even if things don't work out. I'd usually go for a date with a girl I find cute to see what's up, but I need to feel like I will like her as a person once physical attraction wears out. Hope that helps!

I can tell you about me, though thats in no way representative. There a both types and a few in between. Ive known that I only wanted to have one partner and a big family with at least 8 children and a big house since I was like 8 or 9. The desire has grown by the day and now Im living the dream. There is men like me out there, but they are rare. For a lot of men its the second but I advise you to only go for the first. Dont wait. If you want to be a mother eventually, your job is to find a husband asap. Build a relationship that is strong and start young but not too young. I had my first date at 22. Thats a little late, but i wouldnt advise anyone start dating until the age of at least 19. Let your brain develop. Develop a personality. Be someone interesting and know what you want from life before you start dating. What is my gfs value to me? there is a lot she brings to the relationship. Companionship Humour (believe it or not haha) She will be the mother of my children She will take care of the household while Im not there She takes care of the finances because she has worked in a bank before She is there to talk about everything She cooks really well and loves to cook for me She is an inspiration and encourages and demands (in a positive way ofc) that Im the best version of myself and expects me to hold her to the same standard

@@adamzaczek6342 Thank you for sharing your story!

@@xLegendaryPictures Good for you! Thanks for your reply

Just don’t become complacent or lose vigilance

Spoken like every other cynical male 🤷‍♀️ At least I try to be better. Why such hate if you want a high quality female? You sure won't win any over with an attitude like that.. js.

The only way to stop the cycle is to be alone for a few years.

@@EclecticHottie i dont know if this comes late, but distance is a good way, keep as much distance betwen you and him as possible.

@@wackpendejo3000 I appreciate your support more than you know. It's brutal being female and posting here because so many men have had to deal with nasty mean women and it has made them bitter,, with reason!! So much has happened since.. his dad dropped our son off by me and left the state shortly after posting.. As of last week I told him I was dropping child support for the last year (he just turned 17 not too long ago). I wasn't getting much because I dropped it to just 100/month for a little help at the beginning of child support because I wanted him to have a home for our son to visit him, not me having to explain why he had to visit dad in jail for not paying me money. I care about his dad still to this day and if he ever needs help I am able to give, I will. I promised him things when we discussed if things didn't work out between us, and I won't back down on those. We were just better apart for obvious reasons that weren't so obvious to me when we first got together. Even our son had to point out to me things I didn't see about him. I stood up for him and constantly reminded our son that his dad loved him and would do anything in his power for him, which I KNEW he would and did. Even through all the bs, he was still there for me too. We had a son to raise and that was all that mattered to us both. Of course things could have been handled differently but our boy is basically a man now and he turned out pretty awesome, so no regrets.

@@EclecticHottie glad you didnt resent your ex and reassured your son about his fathers care. Both my parents divorced when i was young, but my mother understood i needed a father to grow up healthy, best of luck to all of your familly.