I am minding my black owned business. His family needs to reach out to the white community for help. Black women are tired of being disrespected, we have had enough.

He wanted nothing to do with black women. Out of respect for the wishes of the deceased I will not get involved.

She openly said she's toxic, she's not submissive, and only dates rich black men... she fetishizes them & they're okay with it... if a black woman said that they would say she's aggressive and a gold digger. It's one thing to not like us but they openly make hundreds of videos disrespecting us even in public, the world can see we are divided when will it ever end

I hate that it has to be this way, but we as BW cannot keep worshipping BM to our detriment, uplifting/defending men who degrade us & wouldnt return the favor. The time for reinforcing BM at our expense is long over.

Shows how low many black men think of us. I would never ask a person I have bullied, insulted, and harassed for help.

I’m so happy that BW have sat this one down. Let’s keep up this behavior💯

The manosphere channels sure are quiet about this. REAL quiet.

I'm sitting this one out and I'm Nigerian. When black women protest they call us masculine.

Like who you like, but just leave black women out of it. That's all.

BW…it’s masculine to fight for men who can’t fight for themselves. Sit in your femininity, ladies. 💅🏽 🫖 ☕️ ☺️ 💇🏽‍♀️

Get Becky , Karen, & Ling Ling to March, protest, & put themselves on the line.

They say we loud and aggressive as a insult! Now they need that loud and aggressive bw to fight for justice. I give my condolences, RIP

Stay out of bm and their preferences business. Period 👌🏾

I hate to say it but I was PROUD reading those comments. We CANNOT keep being compassionate to the very same men that show is ZERO compassion. He got what he wanted and what he deserved. Ashes to ashes and dust to dust! He said white women give him peace and NOW he is resting in ETERNAL PEACE. Amen ✌🏽

I like this guy. Instead of going in people's comments talking bout "not all black men blah blah blah blah blah", he's going to the source of the problem. He's putting the accountability where it should go. I'm sitting that one out. Resting in my femininity and what not.

This is spiritual. Giving black men the time to see their true self. They can’t blame black women forever

I sat in court and saw a Black man go through it with his White ex-wife. He was in there saying it’s not fair. People were literally laughing at him. The most I could do is shake my head. It was a very sad thing to watch. She literally popped that man upside his head with his laptop and he was still trying to cater to her like a ding bat. I saw that story and there’s nothing we can do for him. He’s gone. I’m not marching for him or no one else like him. His family better figure it out.

The most disrespected person in America is the Black Woman. - Malcolm X

When people get fed up of being used, abused and killed. That’s it!

You see how Asian, Hispanic, white and even AFRICAN communities are staying strong, it’s due to strong male leadership. As an African-American male, we need to do better; no need to mesh with other communities.

I keep saying that the hate BM possess for BW is obvious and glad they’re showing it openly.

I never understood all this respect for the dead, but none for the actual living..

Yea I may have to turn my cheek on this one. If he talked like that online, can you imagine what he allowed his gf and friends say about us behind closed doors. 😌

Yea they need to ask the community of women he adored and worship to help get justice and the bm that adored him as well. Now let’s see if they can do it without our voice.✌🏾

As someone who never marched in any of the BLM protests and I'm so glad I didn't I'm the first to say to other black women sit this one out this is not our fight if his "preference" doesn't feel any remorse about murdering neither should we

In 2022, BW said, NAHHHH It shouldn't have taken this long but I'm glad we are finally standing together and on the same page

They say black women don't listen....looks like we following directions really well and I'm proud of us.

But seriously, their preferences don’t want to protest on their behalf?

U,Taz,Themis (he’s gay) and Que Butter are the only BM I watch. Believe me. It’s about to get ugly. BW are very powerful when we are fed up. I’m married to a BM and he won’t even listen to me when I try to tell him the things I see for BM in the near future.I have 2 black sons and I know if things don’t change, they won’t be able to marry ANY woman because once BW don’t desire y’all, no woman will. This is all spiritual and very BIBLICAL. BW are screaming for BM to be the way scripture tells them they should be and they are fighting it

I'm proud of bw to sit this down. We need to continue like this. We need to do this with musicians, athletes, politicians and movie actors. Let's not support who disrespect us.

Hold up all the alpha male manosphere constantly criticising black women, why aren't they out there fighting for their "brotha"! Hmmm If black women don't do it-it won't get done.

We respect black men like you

*WE DO NOT SUPPORT WHITE SUPREMACY IN ANY FORM* Do Not ask us to show him love. We’re not against him. We’re staying out of it per His request. No longer will we as Black Women continue to take this misuse and abuse. WE NO LONGER SUPPORT BLACK MEN AS A COLLECTIVE! WE WILL ONLY SUPPORT THOSE WHO SUPPORT US. Things are too critical to engage in non-reciprocal relationships. *WE HAVE ALWAYS FOUGHT FOR BLACK MEN EVEN WHEN THEY DIDN’T FIGHT FOR US, DIDN’T WANT US, AND DESPITE THEM CONSTANTLY TELLING THE WORLD THAT WE ARE UGLY, MASCULINE, GHETTO, AND THAT WE ARE UNDATEABLE! WELL WE ARE NO LONGER GOING TO STAND IN YOUR WAY. You black males are Free & SO ARE WE! #WeAreTired🙅🏾‍♀️😤 #SupportASista👸🏾❤️✊🏾🥰💅🏾

I’m glad you mentioned red pill and the manosphere… I happened upon the black manosphere and it truly made me sick. Like legit pushed me to the very brink of divestment. Men sitting up wishing and wanting to inflict more violence on us than they already have and for absolutely nothing. Us black wymyn are beyond tired and DONE

I'm sorry, but bw need to sit this out.

This wasn’t my fight to begin with whether he had disrespectful tweets or not,I stay out of black men and their preferences business period… they go over there to get away from us REMEMBER💅🏾

It’s scary being a bw these days, I feel like everyone is against us and wants to hurt us for no reason 😢

Word on the internet streets is that his family was the stereotypical African family that had a disdain for Black Americans (calling us Akata) and put whiteness on a pedestal. Let those WP he loved so much fight for justice.

I wonder what he thought when that knife sunk into his flesh, and he realized what he loved killed him. Sit this one out my beautiful black sisters. He hated us. Let the crickets sing. Let's stand back and let the ones he loved so much handle it.

I'm a black woman and wouldn't bat an eye to help them. He made his bed eternally and he has to lie in it. I'm tired of black women being disrespected and our sitting out has shown this country how powerful we are when we come together and fight. I love my people, well the loves that love me back.

Proud of BW.....💯. Finally on code keep up the good work. This whole situation reminds me of that song by Fantasia..."Free Yourself". If you don't want me then don't talk to me....This man said what he said about BW. WW were his peace and now he is resting in peace. Miss all BW with this mess. We got better 💩 to do.

The fact that people are discussing us women fighting like we are macrophages is disturbing to me. Why is the community expecting the women to fight? So the men can't fight for one another? I think BW should stop fighting in general.

We respect black MEN like you! We would March on behalf of good men like you. Keep up the good work and keeping loving that beautiful family of yours

As time goes on, Men become weaker and more pathetic, just the way Satan wants it. They need to go to the Bible to understand the type of man that is acceptable to God and how to become that man - 2 Timothy 3:6. To women who think it's OK to financially support an able-bodied man, it is Biblically unacceptable to God - 1 Timothy 5:8.

It has nothing to do with me. I’ve been called aggressive, masculine, bitter, and every stereotypes you can think of by Black men after defending myself and other decent Black women against said stereotypes. I’ve read where Black men mocked Black women in domestic issues and said “we deserved it.” Well, as Black woman that used to champion for Black men, I just want to say good luck to them! Going forward I’ll ONLY defend Black men if he’s **squeaky** clean, he has to be next to Jesus at this point.

I haven't stopped clapping and cheering the ladies on 👏 even my wife called me petty ,stop throwing away the best things you have and they are your female counterpart.

At this point it on a case by case basis. Breonna Taylor got crickets from the collective of black men even though she was the typical ride or die chick. That was MY wake up call. As far as Im concerned, BM set the standard; no use complaining now. As you were so I am.

He just said that the woman is out drinking and partying. If BLACK MEN are doing nothing about this, THAT SAYS ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW. I'm going to sit this out and go about my business.

It's a new day! We ain't bout to put up with disrespect and abuse anymore.

My mother always said "you'll never know who is going to give you your last drink of water"

Something about "Act right because you might need me someday" doesn't sit right with me. Treat BW with respect because we're your fellow human beings

We don’t go where we aren’t wanted. Period. Don’t want us then, don’t need us now. 🤷🏾‍♀️ RiP.

I feel no ways I don't give a shit. O well natural selection at its best. Call the preferences for help.

Black women seemingly are just for comfort. We are like blankets. We cover you, keep you warm, are there when you need to feel secure. Then when you get a little restless and hot you throw us from over you and run out the door.

We/I am not supporting homie. I do not support any man of any color that does not support me/us.

It's sad that BM only see our value when they need something from us. Even in this, we get scraps.

It's sad that he even thinks it's cool in the first place. The BM will NEVER go hard at the WM as he does the BW.

Yeah, I’m not fighting for men who talk down on us. They said they good without us, let’s see how good they really are without us.

This is just the beginning. This will continue to happen, and BM will not repent.

We Black Women are tired of being disrespected, and tired of Black Men calling Russell Wilson a Simp.. and loving the future of the world..thank you.. Young Black King..!!🖤🖤🖤 with this Toby case, let his Preference handle it. " It's above us Now"

A lot of bw understood the assignment on this one!!!!! Love to see it queens!!! 🥺😍🤩✨✨👌🏾👌🏾

This should be a lesson learned. Don't denigrate your own. Have your preference but let it stop there. There's no need to bash your own. As a minority group, it makes more sense for black people to stick together because all the racist sees is yr skin color.

This is what happens when you have a generation of fatherless men leading each other. We love and appreciate good black men but there is a big population of the toxic red pill types. They seem to hate women and it’s sad. We definitely need the good men speaking up because there are too many BM without fathers to lead them properly and be the example so they follow any male easily. Thank you brother for being a real one!❤️

Let the church say Amen.

This guy was a Nigerian. Where is his African family? Where is the money from African men or BM? What do BW or African women have to do with this? I'm glad you spoke on this Mike. I could go on another tangent as to why Africans are now referring to themselves as "Black", but that's for another video.

Yes! If they love WW go for what you know. Leave us out of that mess. 💅🏾 And thank you for being one of the few BM that check BM who are out of pocket. More of you need to speak up and out.

Crickets. We are beautiful and educated. No longer have to waste energy on men that are ok with destroying our communities, legacy and race. Ignoring a certain rapper. He will ask for support soon. He is being made a fool of by an evil family. Worth billions and instead of paying lawyers he rambles like a fool. Crickets.

Black women shouldn’t be the foot soldiers of the community anyway. We are the only community that matriarchal instead of patriarchal. Men are supposed to protest and protect. I’m so proud of black women for STANDING DOWN and staying on code. We had a few pickmes out there twerking but this time we were strong enough to drown them out. It’s a new day, black women are choosing US💅🏾❤️

As far as I am concerned, that woman was defending herself.

Well, other BM can step forward and support him and his family. I rarely see BM showing up in support of BW who are mistreated, missing, or murdered. Now the very WW he adored put him in the grave. This is not any BW's battle except his Mother and any sisters he may have. Or better yet, they can ask the WW he so loved and adored to help out.

You are a glimmer of hope, Shumake…the complimentary descriptives could trail on, and on. From one Divested & Married Black Mom, to Young Black Women everywhere: subscribe.

If BM disrespect BW and get murked by their preference (or said preference's family or friends), all I got to say is RIP (Rest In Preference - I didn't coin the phrase, but it's how I feel). I just don't have the gas to trip!🤷🏾‍♀️

You love who you love but if you disparage me as a BW, keep it moving.

You're absolutely right 💯👍🏾. The chickens is coming home to roost bye bye bm 👋🏾

He got what he deserves AND that's coming from another BM. I would never do what he did, not even in a million years. Period. His family should go to his white friends 4 support. That is why I never disrespect the BW in my race. Period.

The cape is off.

Yep...I'm sitting my masculine energy self down.

You are a wise young man. You see what’s coming before it get here. This story should of had nationwide attention, but the Black women ain’t fussing over it, we are tired of being denigrated by our own men, praising other races of women and putting their own down. You’re right if the Black women don’t fight, who in the hell in our community will. And I’m afraid it’s only the beginning, Black men with a genuine love for Black women got to speak up.

Let them continue their tiktoks about us, we keep to ourselves

The Red pill guys say we too masculine. We don't want to let them lead. So Lead. Go get your justice, Lead. You Got It. 😉

I appreciate you for this. Thank you. It’s like we get thrown to the lions but also have to lick our wounds and heal from these actions..from the very same men that degrade,rape and abandon us. That’s God’s work to forgive so effortlessly. So if We’re made in God’s image .. what does that tell you? There’s no faith. No grace. No love for God. God gives everything and gets taken for granted because one never knew life without that kind of unconditional love👌🏾..but when it’s gone….

I refuse!!!!! He got what his traitorous azz Karma required of him. I will NOT STAND on behalf of any BM that holds the position this guy did. He love that whiteness so good ... let THEM stand for him .. pass me the popcorn 🍿 😂 😂

So far I've only seen you and the Little Black Book 91 address this properly. I know there's more good black men out there but like you said, more good black men need to speak up and this is a good start.

I don't have no cape for ya!!!! Sorry. Ya better listen to this brother tho! 👍🏾

BW remember you shouldn’t be anyone’s 2nd choice or backup plan!! Save that love & devotion for worthy men!! The bwwm combo is one of the most successful unions in the country!!

This is why I keep quiet on BLM let their preferences shout.

I think they forgot who was right there next to them last Summer during the national protest when Becky was home saying she doing understand the problem.

I've come to the conclusion that "unconditional love" is a fallacy. When you love unconditionally, you open the door to allow yourself to be treated any kind of way and most times, those ways will *NOT* benefit you. Unlike JLo, my love " *DOES* cost a thing" and I've added tax to that shit. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

made a mistake but before his death he said he doesn't date black women because they are ugly. I don't feel sorry that he is dead

My cape has burned a long time ago, o well 🤷🏾‍♀️

I wouldn’t donate a penny to that case . They are saying the tweets are old and why can’t we defend him . Listen , you can’t come back home ! Stay over there and let them fight for you .

He talked about how horrible black women are. His cousin came on Twitter, asking us to help get them justice. However, her own Twitter account has multiple instances of her talking badly about AA, and calling us akatas. I’m not involving myself at all. They need to go to the white & Nigerian communities, and request their help.

This is good what you are doing Mr. Shumake and I appreciate it. I have went radio silent on BM long ago. We are always loud for him ok then he got the silence he wanted, we are too black and ugly fine, we will find someone else to love us and stay separate from him. Its time they be on their own for good. We are never perfect for them there is always somethong wrong with us. There are black women going to the length of getting hysterectomies so she will not birth black men anymore and have to raise the kids on her own. We are TIRED!!!!!

Once all bw turn on bm, and they have began to say more over these past few years, especially rn with that Courtney tailor girls man and bw not supporting the gofund me, bm will finally see and feel the hurt that no one, no matter race or gender, truly likes them. Then bm will finally be forced to act like men or just wither off alone

I work with the general public . I am a n outgoing individual but I have found myself making a conscious effort to limit my contact with black men! Even if an when I do speak to them I really don’t trust them. I don’t know if they are going to pull SOMETHING crazy or sneaky! I know I am not the only BW now a days! Please keep up the great work Mr. Shumake! ! !

💯💯💯💯 It's sad! Good black men need to start speaking up.

Maybe sounds harsh but I got the “Well fuck them” attitude a looongggg time ago. I dont even bother because they really are choosing to do us like that. Well, us beautiful black women were done for a long time. Now they are going to feel it and we are farrrr ahead. 💅🏾👏🏾

And funny thing is many of us so so so into wyyte wmn that we will find a way to blame bw for his death. Its a wrap lil bruh. Our bros are plain gone!!!

Brother, you did warn them😔

Same thing for that fool who got killed back the cops over a cell phone. Him and his Asian heaux talked mess about black women prior, not our problem. I think it's Stephan Clark