“Don’t make your relationship a job” man you better say that.

I told my ex what I needed from him. And he understood what I asked for. Lots of time went by and still I didn’t get what I asked for. I wasn’t asking for the impossible. I didn’t ask for anything materialistic. So, I kindly walked away from the relationship. Great video much love.

Thanks for the information! For the past couple of months, I’ve learned to bring my husband peace, no arguing, no fussing, no attitude , no complaining, and no masculine energy towards him at all and I see how happy and less stress he has become. So wives be your husband peace you will see a difference.

I love your energy and vibes. I feel safe and secure listening to you and that’s ok for me as a Black woman. Keep it up. I was in a relationship where I felt like a slave, cooking, massages every day, but when I asked him for something I’d never get it back. It made me not want to get married if that’s what it was going to be like. We never had temp checks. Glad it’s over.

As a woman who loves her black husband, I appreciate this video

“You gon’ get that spot hit every time” 🤣🤣 Well that’s alright…Fix it!! It’s good to see men like you out here loving their wife. Keep it up brotha.

Marriage is ministry. Ministry means to "serve." When you marry someone who thinks they are too good to serve you, you will not have a good time.

Glad you have a good marriage, and you are both doing the work. Stay blessed.

You would think by looking at the state of the world that this doesnt exist anymore but i know im pure in heart still, i havent been ruined by the world and ,and am purposely working in my purpose in hopes to find all the blessings i know are waiting to be unlocked ,thank you Shumake for being steadfast and unremovable in your life it shows and God bless you and your entire family.

If you can’t trust you can’t attach . You can’t attach you can’t bond.

Driving while watching. Occasionally distracted with the road noise. Ugh!😩 Your material is always from a real man’s point of view. No excuses, buck-passing or blaming. The games are not necessary. It’s impossible to please anyone under false pretenses. You were point on to inquire of your wife to why she felt that way. Honesty, leads to a level of trust and vulnerability that you couldn’t get anywhere else. I’m happy you took advantage of this moment. Using the opportunity to assure her that the contributions she make are appreciated, welcomed and contributes to the uplifting of the family as a whole. She is a vital necessity. Therefore, govern her as such. Helping to support your growth into manhood and offering a sense of security for the entire family. The fact that she’s in tune with you so emotionally that she understood and knew you needed time to yourself is Golden. Anyone else may have been upset that you was frustrated and didn’t have the time to meet their emotional needs. Selfish. When you find someone who truly cares about your well-being as much as theirs...🤔 There is definitely something special there. Intimacy is displayed in many forms, selflessness is one of them; Attractive and all encompassing. Shumake Way, thanks for this AMAZING share. 🙏🏾Blessings BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB

It’s so important to Openly Communicate needs within a marriage and both wife and husband must take Action in pleasing each other. Also showing appreciation for our spouse can help build a truly fulfilling marriage with no resentment or contention( overt or covert). Great points made in this video👍🏽

Good for you for asking your wife if she felt like it was hard to please you. My ex-husband NEVER asked that question. Truth of the matter is you know the area/s that you

Good video...there has to be conversation on what you want or desire. I think that's what Jada was speaking about ( just saw a snippet) about expecting her husband to know without telling him. People cannot read your mind ( I learned that in my marriage) you got to converse.

You have a heart of gold- your words are nurturing.

You and my fiance are so much alike. Thank you for making this video. You are appreciated 😊

Applauds to you king!!! Your frame of mind and thought process is so refreshing and I love that you and your wife are open to those conversations and hold each other’s wants, needs and desires important!!!

Making sure your spouse needs are met is one thing…but insuring their happiness? No sir, that’s our individual responsibilities. Look at Will Smith…

I so wish there were more people who felt this way! Communication is the key!!! I’ve asked this in every relationship and worked to make adjustments … unfortunately the men i chose to commit to have NOT.

Great word! Awesome message. On time.

Your channel is pleasing and healing. I’m learning so much from you. I aspire to be better person for my future partner. Your teachings are a god send.

I love to hear that a man and woman are in each other’s corner. My husband was very good looking but not conceded. And he loved this old girl and didn’t mind telling me what he wanted and likewise. He had a way about him that was so sweet I didn’t mind doing what my guy wanted. It was because he was so good to me and made it so easy for me to love him

100% solid, bro!!

Thank you for allowing God use you to show a healthy loving relationship

why do you give the best advice, thank u so much !

Communication TRULY is key. 🔑

THANK YOU MR & MRS SHUMAKE 💪❤💪 💐

Simply, know your man and be with someone who know you. Considering each other's feelings especially in areas where it matters the most. Money, family, lifestyle, partnership style, parenting style, the difference between realistic wants verses needs. I also am still working on speaking into one another verses at one another. Great video

That’s great advice, even for a women. Where were you 20 yrs ago… my life would’ve been easier.

This is where communication between 2 people seriously comes into play. I communicate with people all the time. If I don’t like something, I just simply don’t like it. I’m way too easy to please because for me everything is black and white. I don’t do gray areas. It causes way too many issues if you don’t pick the right selection.

My wife sent me this video. Interesting .

Me: This what healthy Marriage/Relationship 😉💗🥴😍!!

We please our man to point it breaks us .

Thank you bro💜💜💜💜

had someone tell me i dont want me to be tolerated i wanna be celebrated lol and i get that bc he use to piss me off all the time lol sigh but i was willing to work thru it

Great video!

Hey, Shumake.

Thanks!

There should be more men like this.

Yes King 👑❤️

🙌🏼👏🏽🙌🏼👏🏽🙌🏼

Congratulations for me anniversary

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I've watched a few of your videos. Said the same thing. Not all of us women are that interested in sex. We want decent partners, who work and have set goals. I rarely date but when I do, as someone who works for everything they have since 14yo. I want the same or similar. I'm working towards my set goals with decent people, therefore I require someone who knows how to work for their own money, has high Values and has some goals set for themselves and us as a couple. As do I and my circle. I get your sentiments.

Inside every man, there's a woman If he don't connect with her within, he can't connect. Simple. 🤣

But everyone's a slave to someone, or should be, n sometimes a Husband can serve His wife by yes, take the lead in things, like sex but also grocery shopping, saying hey love I'm looking for something to help you out, wanna make a list together, some good stuff n then we'll light some candles hehe or something, or hey can I just clean the f*** outta this here kitchen/ lr/ whatever, I always like doing stuff like that for my Man or just A Man lol, but i always like more intimate desires too ❤️

Some women don't understand their role as a woman. ... This is biblical. We have gotten too far away from the bible and too far away from God.