THIS is What a Narcissist Does With Your Silence

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Rebecca Zung

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@lamaryoder10
@lamaryoder10 15 күн бұрын
They do spread rumors. Constantly going behind my back and playing the victim and telling others terrible things about me. It’s crazy. Exactly. It’s been 5 years and he is still trying to harass me. It’s crazy. I have not talked to him for 5 years.
@imbalancedstatus8824
@imbalancedstatus8824 14 күн бұрын
Yep...every relationship she had was an abuser she told me.... Am like maybe you go behind the same type. That caused a narcissist rage
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@Dollhousehenderson
@Dollhousehenderson 13 күн бұрын
@@imbalancedstatus8824 same with me every person around me right now seems to have massive narc traits. My husband is definitely a narc, a bad one and some female. I’m around. I finally started document in real time like Rebecca said to do I don’t know how I’m gonna have time for that number one he ignore me when I try to talk to him and then when I pick up my phone to do something I wanna do that’s when he wants to engage and try to pull everything out of my brain sidetracked me because he knows that I have a fucking very easily sidetracked mind but I believe my ex-husband was one and I know that this husband of 20 years is one it’s crazy how they are their own worst enemies. I don’t have to do anything to him. He will do it to herself because my God will take care of him. There’s no doubt, I wish there was a way to get these people help if they even wanted to admit they had a problem, but they are seriously like some drug addicts. He absolutely hates either the fact that I am an empath which he uses that greatly or the fact that I know I am an empath. He does not like that. He does not like me knowing known something wasn’t right because people stare at me like there is a light around me, they’re not trying to hit on me just stare at me and I’m like I feel like there’s some type of aura around me and evidently there must be because I seem to attract these SOB
@craz4mom
@craz4mom 14 күн бұрын
Silence before I moved out - stopped the angry raging I was experiencing- I just completely ignored his comments like he didn't exist
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@user-dl7pd2dq1z
@user-dl7pd2dq1z 14 күн бұрын
They try to act like nothing happened or try to provoke a reaction after you fail to respond to them.
@JankaLeucorrhinia
@JankaLeucorrhinia 14 күн бұрын
Totally ! They love to say - I'm trying to keep the family together but you're breaking it up, you only cause problems and everyone is unhappy because of you. “ And then they manipulate the family member to tell you that you should start communicating and come up with a solution together to keep family together because that is the most important. Very cruel manipulation. ! But we don’t give in. 😊
@wallaceleewl9189
@wallaceleewl9189 14 күн бұрын
😎
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@rwdchannel2901
@rwdchannel2901 14 күн бұрын
When I was a child, my narcissist mother made my 3 siblings give me the silent treatment until she said they could talk to me. She would call a family meeting when she got upset. When I was around 10 years-old she was telling me that I'm a super smart child and I asked her if I was smarter than her, she got offended and gave me the silent treatment until I apologized. Imagine a 35 year-old woman getting upset at a 10 year-old boy because the kid asked the woman if he is smarter than her.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@teresamckinzie4995
@teresamckinzie4995 13 күн бұрын
I'm currently going through this situation with a partner and I'm so grateful for your guidance. Yes, everything checks out on the list and without your advice I'd be reacting in a heartbeat. You save me from draining my own energy with such people.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@jessicazander5954
@jessicazander5954 14 күн бұрын
Going silent is my natural tendency when the narcissist(s) start accusing me of not being good enough. We’re in this position again because I didn’t stroke their egos fast enough. I suppose I will need to get my thoughts together and tell them why I am silent. It’s hard to want to break the silence because I know it’s useless in fixing anything. Acting respectfully towards me is a boundary and I am tired of being put to shame.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@ApocalypseofMichael
@ApocalypseofMichael 14 күн бұрын
Calm silence in their "Moment" is like kryptonite. They then cycle through their tactics of narcissistic domination. That which I call "Transient narcissistic behaviour"
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - ICANSLAY.COM
@Dollhousehenderson
@Dollhousehenderson 13 күн бұрын
@@ApocalypseofMichael what is calm silence
@ApocalypseofMichael
@ApocalypseofMichael 13 күн бұрын
@@Dollhousehenderson Not responding in trigger, which is what they want. If they shout, don't shout back, if they cry, don't support them, if they accuse you of falsities, don't argue your innocence. Stay calm and walk away stating you will not speak in this circumstance. They want you to react so they can play victim and make you out to be the crazy one.
@Dollhousehenderson
@Dollhousehenderson 13 күн бұрын
@@ApocalypseofMichael i’ve been doing this naturally because I prayed really hard before I ever knew what was going on and ask God to guide my words in my mind and my heart and he did. He literally led me to do everything that has been said in these videos everything so when I’m talking very normal he immediately says you’re talking to me like a grown ass man as he’s hollering and cussing me id I’m silent he keeps asking what is wrong.
@ApocalypseofMichael
@ApocalypseofMichael 13 күн бұрын
@@Dollhousehenderson it really is like facing a devil as they cycle through their tactics to get you to react. I'm in complete no contact now, which is best. I still live with the "Somatic aftershocks" of the cluster of Dark tetrad abuses. Therapy is a wonderful thing. Continued strength and courage love! ✨❤️
@Dollhousehenderson
@Dollhousehenderson 14 күн бұрын
I see why you say document document document in real time I’m trying to do that with my husband and another narcissistic girl but every time I pick up my phone to do anything that matters to me, he has to talk to me or engage with me after ignoring me and I know he is very interested in what I am doing on my phone. I found out the other day. He went through my purse because he didn’t put my stuff back right I know for a fact he’s gone through my phone. I don’t know why he’s the one that is hiding, not me, in the notes oh my goodness it goes on and on forever and ever I could probably write a book right now we’re in a lovebomb phase and I don’t know how to behave because of everything I know now he feels the energy block because he knows, I am a naturally happy person. I am an empath, and a narcissist he has a strong intuition as well. Of some sort. He just tried to convince me for years mine is just wrong lol.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@tamraholland2285
@tamraholland2285 15 күн бұрын
I never let him meet my friends first of all they didn’t want to be around him. they heard he was an asshole to me ...smart on my end
@imbalancedstatus8824
@imbalancedstatus8824 14 күн бұрын
I never let she meet my friends... Always accuse me of having an affairs with them. Am like they will be there for me when you decide to drop me
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - ICANSLAY.COM
@jalorable
@jalorable 10 күн бұрын
When I go silent, my narcissist husband causes nightmares behind the scenes… He uses that opportunity to stop paying bills or not to follow through on obligations … or write me text messages, accusing me of things I haven’t done… doing anything he can to illicit a response or causing me to have to speak to him… Then he blames shifts and twisted to look like I am causing the problem by not leaving him alone…
@n8sjoy
@n8sjoy 13 күн бұрын
My sister sued my 2 other sisters and me over our parents' estate. We used your tools and won our case! Thank you! She had stolen the bank accounts using a POD, but we were able to get it back and split everything equally. The 3 of us have blocked her and gone silent. She showed up to my sisters church and joined the church! I see her where she works sometimes, but never engaged. My last encounter, she walked by quickly telling me to let her know if I needed anything (as if I was just a regular customer). I said, actually, could you help me find... When she found it for me, I just said, "Thank you".. as if she were just another sales agent. She walked away very quickly. One sister told me I made her uncomfortable, but I felt nothing. Thank you again! You have helped me find peace.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@tfkdandsvkc
@tfkdandsvkc 15 күн бұрын
Can someone explain why adults tear each other down at every opportunity based on ageism it's so cruel it feels like narcissism
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@msshan-l1y
@msshan-l1y 13 күн бұрын
Setting boundaries caused the narcissistic individuals that are or were in my life come to a state of confusion (that’s because I would always yes ). I decided to no longer be others (narcs) punching bag and say NO! being silent is one of the best tools I am learning in life and it feels damn good to say NO ❤
@cdgross5480
@cdgross5480 13 күн бұрын
Their thinking is in the negative and always will be. We always need to do the opposite of them. Behave with love and dignity.
@MiaHarris-hg2pw
@MiaHarris-hg2pw 8 күн бұрын
Totally!!!!! Having our friends call me and call but hang up really fast using family families by giving them money
@debrabrown9120
@debrabrown9120 14 күн бұрын
Contacted a relative of mine informing this person I had signed up for a scam.😅😅😅😅
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
By following my 4 Step plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> ICANSLAY.COM 🌟
@bryanandrew7729
@bryanandrew7729 14 күн бұрын
Boundarys yes I have 2 chains on my gate and a electric fence wire on topp to keep my boss out he's so annoying
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
By following my 4 Step plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> ICANSLAY.COM 🌟
@whitneysawyer483
@whitneysawyer483 3 сағат бұрын
"Totally"
@DawsonDave-YZF-R6
@DawsonDave-YZF-R6 15 күн бұрын
Totally !
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
By following my 4 Step plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> ICANSLAY.COM 🌟
@BPratto
@BPratto 9 күн бұрын
silence worked for me
@user-vo9fb9ig9w
@user-vo9fb9ig9w 10 күн бұрын
Totally agree
@pennyhay9061
@pennyhay9061 13 күн бұрын
Going on 6 months of silence!!!! Still, nothing!
@carolouellette3022
@carolouellette3022 14 күн бұрын
What does it mean when the narcissist, keeps silence?
@JankaLeucorrhinia
@JankaLeucorrhinia 14 күн бұрын
tests how you will react.
@Lebetii
@Lebetii 12 күн бұрын
@@carolouellette3022 they testy your anger level. If you react very angry, you are the one who guilty,( blame shifting), if you dont react, you are outsmarting them. The best way is for you to be completely quiet, and report every single damn thing to police. Make a plan. Becasue one day you will regret so much. Dont follow with anger. Anger can take you to jail. Careful there. NPD people are so smart. Bur be smarter then them. Good luck.
@luisn.gonzalezsr.7211
@luisn.gonzalezsr.7211 14 күн бұрын
Totally
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
By following my 4 Step plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> ICANSLAY.COM 🌟
@user-vo9fb9ig9w
@user-vo9fb9ig9w 10 күн бұрын
After I went Grey rock he started the salacious smear campaign
@benverasso4836
@benverasso4836 14 күн бұрын
Totally...
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
By following my 4 Step plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> ICANSLAY.COM 🌟
@MYKEYCARD
@MYKEYCARD 12 күн бұрын
🙏💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🌍💜🙏
@ASpootifulMind
@ASpootifulMind 14 күн бұрын
I'm curious, if individuals end up in a bad circumstance and over time assume (or learn) narcissist behaviour, how would you best help them back? If it's not neurological it can be reversed, right?
@bellaellena2989
@bellaellena2989 15 күн бұрын
Omg awful
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 13 күн бұрын
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@bobb.6393
@bobb.6393 15 күн бұрын
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