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The Science Of Getting Girls

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This.

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Күн бұрын

pick up chicks using science and psychology! All these tips if followed correctly are guaranteed to help you, but its important to keep the last tip in mind and let it go if it doesn't work out.
i have Instagram now too! i'll probably just be throwing some behind the scenes stuff on there :D
/ basically_him
sources:
gain loss theory: psycnet.apa.or...
proximity MIT study: dspace.mit.edu...

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@ysuf3125
@ysuf3125 8 ай бұрын
Mf first explained bluetooth and now he is fixing my life goddamn
@Rops1423
@Rops1423 8 ай бұрын
Me too 😂
@Marween
@Marween 8 ай бұрын
Gad damn right.
@angingis5922
@angingis5922 8 ай бұрын
Same jajaj
@alandeutsch9987
@alandeutsch9987 8 ай бұрын
i'm here for it
@dice4572
@dice4572 8 ай бұрын
fr
@willrouton
@willrouton 7 ай бұрын
If you're watching this, it's too late
@prakhargupta3949
@prakhargupta3949 7 ай бұрын
It never began...
@rawnessonthemax
@rawnessonthemax 7 ай бұрын
@@prakhargupta3949it never began with that name
@Razor-gx2dq
@Razor-gx2dq 6 ай бұрын
You are assuming that we ever had the chance
@mrjuicejunior
@mrjuicejunior 5 ай бұрын
no way it's drake
@maartenswiggers6674
@maartenswiggers6674 5 ай бұрын
Dont have to do me like that
@luks1207
@luks1207 5 ай бұрын
Got it, stalk her, but take a shower first and look confident while doing it
@jamiemb17
@jamiemb17 5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@kavguy
@kavguy 5 ай бұрын
be nonchalant and mysterious too thats mandatory!
@ItsVasl
@ItsVasl 3 ай бұрын
every indian man's misconception ever
@sambhavsongara3087
@sambhavsongara3087 3 ай бұрын
officer this one right here officer: dont forget to put 200 dollar clognes
@mezenes9120
@mezenes9120 2 ай бұрын
Correct
@travv88
@travv88 6 ай бұрын
"it has nothing to do with genetics" "now onto part 6. believe it or not it almost always comes down to genetics" lmao
@BlueFusion2910
@BlueFusion2910 6 ай бұрын
Normie gaslighting moment
@gaelr.s7123
@gaelr.s7123 6 ай бұрын
But le vvomen aren't superficial broooo just get 500 showers and a hair cut brooo
@ericxue3244
@ericxue3244 6 ай бұрын
He means it doesn't have to do with genetic trait which is visible
@travv88
@travv88 6 ай бұрын
It does though. It's not everything but it's not nothing.@@ericxue3244
@maheshkumar-sk1kc
@maheshkumar-sk1kc 5 ай бұрын
step 1 : say hi
@thc4825
@thc4825 8 ай бұрын
Me: "hi✋😃" then walks away Girl: "ok wtf"
@adampauling82
@adampauling82 7 ай бұрын
assuming you know them already.
@emanuelmaldoileacont8253
@emanuelmaldoileacont8253 7 ай бұрын
Nah,he say hi to strangers girls then walk away​@@adampauling82
@yeetboi268
@yeetboi268 7 ай бұрын
Have you tried being taller?
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan 7 ай бұрын
@@yeetboi268😂
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan 7 ай бұрын
Yeah I’ve never understood this tip lol
@aheendwhz1
@aheendwhz1 8 ай бұрын
The only advice you'll ever need: Don't overthink it and don't give too many fucks. Try to live a good life for yourself, and if you're confident about it, one day, someone might want you to share it (even if not, then you still had a good life for yourself). It's not the man's responsibility to manipulate every aspect of a situation only to "get" a girl. If she wants you and you want her, you'll find a way as long as you're both honest about it. Edit: I know myself that confidence doesn't grow on trees, and so doesn't the ability to express your emotions about someone (especially if it's attraction). I know from my own experience that if you don't feel comfortable about being attracted to someone, it might be uncomfortable for both of you, turning the other person off. So my point is, try to make the situation comfortable _for_ _yourself_ . If anxieties get in your way, seek for a therapy. I wasted too many years trying to optimise the way women would feel about me, but only when I stopped caring about that and started feeling comfortable with myself (after some years of therapy), I found my girlfriend and we hooked up.
@shariyarshajid
@shariyarshajid 8 ай бұрын
completely agree with. Just working on ourselves will suffice.
@thethe2279
@thethe2279 8 ай бұрын
Someone isn’t the brightest bulb. It’s called just be tall and good looking. Not your bluepill cope
@Emilizier
@Emilizier 8 ай бұрын
THISS!!!
@justonexone
@justonexone 8 ай бұрын
@@thethe2279as a 5’7, i completely disagree. I can attract a lot, just gotta be confident and good looking. Being tall is just a +, not a must, and anyways girls that take it as a must genuinely turn me OFF
@Caschrono
@Caschrono 8 ай бұрын
​@@thethe2279man... I don't know about you but I've seen some people that are physically 5/10 that have managed to pull 7+/10. Mind you, most of the ones I've seen are middle class. Let's say the relationship won't last long, but in the end, who tasted her? Definitely not you. But all that doesn't matter. If you have time to focus on these trivial things, then you're likely living an easy life.
@ItslagIswear
@ItslagIswear 5 ай бұрын
bro took overthinking it to a whole other level
@andrewdrewandy
@andrewdrewandy 4 ай бұрын
its so over
@Greatgoku4
@Greatgoku4 13 сағат бұрын
Nah he knows. And broke it down to you. To some it comes naturally so they don't have to break things down empirically and understand why. But for many it's needed to understand. I've gotten more girls in my life especially my 30s than I can count or ever remember without being that attractive or very tall nor was I super popular. But I always kept my level and standards to a tee, never let myself down and was insanely strong mentally. Always stuck to my ways. I agree with almost every single point in this video coz I thought about it and my life. It really does come down to those few things. Of course money helps increase the sample size but even then there are plenty of losers with money who can't get any and have to rely on paid services. So to be with someone happily there are two ways. Either get lucky and live happily ever after while staying blissfully ignorant OR understand this world and yourself first. What you want, who you are and what's needed for your long term happiness. Each person differs during this assessment but once they understand themselves they'll know what they want. After that they need to understand what girls wants and is drawn to. Each girl is also different with their wants so find someone who wants those similar things and of course understand their partners inner workings as well. There's many layers to life. It's not something I can summarize like that. I don't know about your life so I can't comment on that but I'm glad this video may help a lot of dudes out there suffering who probably needed a hint or a direction to walk towards instead of giving up on themselves and life. I've seen too many cases
@charalambosloizou6621
@charalambosloizou6621 Ай бұрын
At this point learning quantum physics is easier than doing all this for a girl
@annabethchase4568
@annabethchase4568 21 күн бұрын
knowing quantum is actually very affective too
@TiagoWolf
@TiagoWolf 18 күн бұрын
Doing everything but simping for women's attention is better.
@orsonchankenzie5323
@orsonchankenzie5323 15 күн бұрын
What is photon
@xerxesyerika
@xerxesyerika 10 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@ITgirlSn
@ITgirlSn 9 сағат бұрын
@@TiagoWolf you gay?
@grimmitachi
@grimmitachi 8 ай бұрын
1. You are something to be pursued or lost forever(mindset) 2.Proximity 3.Ask for favors 4.Looksmax 5.Luck 6.Scent
@mariusskrupskis2042
@mariusskrupskis2042 8 ай бұрын
observe pupils, that's the most important part xD
@tesfayeheegstra733
@tesfayeheegstra733 8 ай бұрын
you forgot gain loss theory. Let her win u over
@thethe2279
@thethe2279 8 ай бұрын
Over for sub8 jfl. Just be chad honestly is the point of this video.
@alanxo1759
@alanxo1759 8 ай бұрын
looksmax 😭😭
@Dimebag-wx2rs
@Dimebag-wx2rs 8 ай бұрын
​@@alanxo1759why laugh?
@TerrorFreak
@TerrorFreak 8 ай бұрын
THIS content is really innovative, no flashy editting just pure knowledge and entertainment
@Bobjpeg-fo3tr
@Bobjpeg-fo3tr 8 ай бұрын
We need more of this, learning not just entertainment
@josephmueller3752
@josephmueller3752 8 ай бұрын
it's what PUA used to preach for 2 decades before incels ruined them. Now that incel lingo (lookmaxing, mewing) has become mainstream this basic PUA content that was considered manipulative and unethical is surfacing back. Btw it's all BS
@IStMl
@IStMl 8 ай бұрын
its what YT used to be 10-12 years ago
@billusher2265
@billusher2265 8 ай бұрын
@@josephmueller3752 they didn’t ruin them, puas got banned and shadow banned and blackpill and redpill filled the vacuum
@MysteryDoorStudio
@MysteryDoorStudio 8 ай бұрын
Innovative? Bro, this is pick up artist 101. It's very good, but so obvious for a PUA. Social media censured this information in the last years
@monticellidavi
@monticellidavi 6 ай бұрын
Lesson 5: looksmaxx now.
@whavfx
@whavfx 5 ай бұрын
@theorb519 Priority number 2: Realize you dont have perfect genes and surgerymaxx
@NutsDerk1
@NutsDerk1 4 ай бұрын
Tip 4: Edge in class EVERY day.
@Saujas
@Saujas 4 ай бұрын
Brooo whatt? ​@@NutsDerk1
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 4 ай бұрын
You should do it for yourself, but it won't make nearly as much difference with girls as you think it will.
@monclerpaint
@monclerpaint 3 ай бұрын
5 years too late nephew
@alexr1632
@alexr1632 8 ай бұрын
I genuinely think the important part of this process is just being happy and content with yourself. nothing is more pleasant to anyone than a person who is happy, easygoing, and fun to be around. doing this weird bullshit of trying to manipulate the situation to make someone more attracted to you just makes you a pickup artist. you're not going to 'get a girl', you're gonna make yourself nervous and anxious with trying to follow all the steps. just be happy and things will work out.
@omkarthorat9651
@omkarthorat9651 8 ай бұрын
Noo but i can confirm this actually works. I've followed these steps and it worked. While i agree with u on the points u made but no if u r very clear in mind what u have to follow u can actually breakthrough the nervousness which is what we call confidence
@Nihilist_Waltz
@Nihilist_Waltz 7 ай бұрын
Cope
@NJ-lu6wu
@NJ-lu6wu 7 ай бұрын
This stuff works I’ve done all the stuff in this video (not on purpose), and I ended up getting the girl even though all the other guys in the group were the ones chasing. Girls want a guy that’s somewhat “unattainable”, you need to put yourself in her reach but not so easily so it’ll pique her curiosity and attraction. For my situation I was just so focused on my business and career that even though I thought she was cute I just didn’t prioritize her.
@ARINOXMUSIC
@ARINOXMUSIC 7 ай бұрын
No its not you can only hold a facàde for so long before they catch your bullshit ​@Nihilist_Waltz
@reirei6292
@reirei6292 7 ай бұрын
This is true being comfortable in your own skin will make you express yourself more easily and will make not only getting a girlfriend but approaching anyone very straightforward and easy.
@lucky81970
@lucky81970 8 ай бұрын
This shit is better than anything any so called "dating coach/expert" has ever put out.
@mateossr
@mateossr 8 ай бұрын
Just look good bro
@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226
@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 8 ай бұрын
BODY GAME And natural masculinity.
@mateossr
@mateossr 8 ай бұрын
@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 nö
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased 8 ай бұрын
​@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226heightfidence and faceonality
@-SimonRiley
@-SimonRiley 8 ай бұрын
​@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 what's natural masculinity? Besides “just be a leader bro” “just take decisions bro”
@thedark_lord514
@thedark_lord514 11 күн бұрын
If we're watching this, it js means that we're cooked
@jvoges
@jvoges 5 күн бұрын
someday man someday
@austen9748
@austen9748 3 күн бұрын
​@@jvogessomeday 😢
@user-uy2ok2ti6m
@user-uy2ok2ti6m 5 ай бұрын
Don't chase the butterflies instead build a beautiful garden. They will come to you themself.
@pantsnjacket381
@pantsnjacket381 3 ай бұрын
Underrated comment! So truthful.
@Never_GamePlayZ
@Never_GamePlayZ 2 ай бұрын
how the fuck do I build a garden.
@TheOfficiaITristam
@TheOfficiaITristam 2 ай бұрын
@@Never_GamePlayZ garden = wealth
@macdonald2k
@macdonald2k 2 ай бұрын
@@TheOfficiaITristam No, garden is heightfidence and faceonality.
@bobby.2
@bobby.2 Ай бұрын
​@@macdonald2kI know you are joking(at least hope so), but I want you to know I had a great laugh. Thank you!
@SolepsusYT
@SolepsusYT 7 ай бұрын
so 1. be friendly say hi when you pass by (try to increase proximity; better if u dont be creepy + next step) 2. present yourself as someone who takes care of themselves (posture, hair, clothing, skincare, looksmaxxing in general) 3. do favors for her and ask them for favors (also gives you chances to interact) - post dating 4. good first kiss (practice kissing on your closest bros, its not gay i swear)
@JDub3799
@JDub3799 7 ай бұрын
instructions unclear, in a love triangle with the bro now
@xerxes4real
@xerxes4real 7 ай бұрын
​@@JDub3799At least you found your passion!
@exquiilz
@exquiilz 7 ай бұрын
brainrot
@pasalasaga
@pasalasaga 7 ай бұрын
Now being serious. You can practice kissing with your hand. Put It like a fist, and then do that.
@skimsakj642
@skimsakj642 7 ай бұрын
5. Stop playing Roblox and finish public school
@SwornSon
@SwornSon 7 ай бұрын
I once disassembled and reassembled the entire engine bay of an abandoned car and had it run smoothly afterwards only with common sense, Reddit discussions, and KZfaq videos and I guarantee that was far easier than this.
@cattysplat
@cattysplat 7 ай бұрын
My dad was an ugly, annoying, shy dork. He got a higher education with a well paid respected job. Girls were throwing themselves at him. My dad is still this guy today, he never had to try, they came to him.
@SwornSon
@SwornSon 7 ай бұрын
@@cattysplat Must be nice
@azaanhussain1724
@azaanhussain1724 6 ай бұрын
@@cattysplathow can someone be annoying and shy
@aryasenaputra3226
@aryasenaputra3226 6 ай бұрын
​@@azaanhussain1724by being awkwars my guy
@mcpartridgeboy
@mcpartridgeboy 5 ай бұрын
Yep, very good amature chess pplayer here, can confirm for me that beating some profesional masters at chess is much MUCH easier than getting a date, and i have evry advantage in the book, im very good looking and still cant get even a date !
@rolexus7061
@rolexus7061 Ай бұрын
Is it patched yet?
@SpaceX-1
@SpaceX-1 19 күн бұрын
next update
@smurf88
@smurf88 18 күн бұрын
They’re bundling the patch with Half-Life 3.
@necronicles
@necronicles 16 күн бұрын
Not yet, but it does have a high skill ceiling.
@sh.walker
@sh.walker 15 күн бұрын
​@@necronicles Not getting girls was a skill issue at the start....i hate these devs
@Popcornisawesome
@Popcornisawesome 8 күн бұрын
They nerfed it many many times but if you are skilled you can still make it work
@DaveRobert-cd3mo
@DaveRobert-cd3mo 2 ай бұрын
guys, as a a married man with 3 kids the best advice i could possibly give is to honestly just be yourself
@thelawyer95
@thelawyer95 Ай бұрын
So be average looking and only 5'9? I already did that for 29 years. Isn't working.
@LifeStyleMaxxing
@LifeStyleMaxxing Ай бұрын
Married guy why are you watching this 😂
@biggay
@biggay Ай бұрын
​@@thelawyer95 man 5.9 is like 177 centimeters right? u seem quite high to me..
@kevizzotheone
@kevizzotheone 21 күн бұрын
Asking the right questions 😂😂​@@LifeStyleMaxxing
@henrymcdaid6507
@henrymcdaid6507 17 күн бұрын
I don’t like myself but hopefully someone will😅
@iamfuckingcringe
@iamfuckingcringe 8 ай бұрын
WE GETTIN OUT OF LONELINESS WITH THIS ONE 🔥
@revolutioninc7081
@revolutioninc7081 8 ай бұрын
First step, change your username
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 8 ай бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jM5gm81qv6qddo0.htmlsi=cwwc6iXY1eTClvl3
@iamfuckingcringe
@iamfuckingcringe 8 ай бұрын
@@revolutioninc7081 Nobody knows about this channel fr
@AlaReDuS
@AlaReDuS 8 ай бұрын
@@revolutioninc7081 Yeah bro, positive self talk and all that ftw.
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased 8 ай бұрын
Second step, be born tall and attractive
@master-oh6zn
@master-oh6zn 8 ай бұрын
Steps -don't give them attention -see them often -make them think you don't like them -make them think you started liking them -make them do favors for you -have luck -have kissing skill
@PushYourEdge
@PushYourEdge 8 ай бұрын
the first two sound paradoxical but just for clarification, don’t give them excessive attention outside of physically seeing them: don’t text them all day, don’t watch every single one of their stories, limit your non-sexual attention as much as possible.
@alexm.6533
@alexm.6533 8 ай бұрын
These only work if you’re physically attractive
@voxer94
@voxer94 8 ай бұрын
Steps -Be tall and handsome -Be not severly mentally ill
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased 8 ай бұрын
-be tall -have attractive facial features
@alexm.6533
@alexm.6533 8 ай бұрын
@@FloppaTheBased I’m tall but I ain’t got the attractive facial features
@fredcastor1
@fredcastor1 3 ай бұрын
lesson 7, it's over
@maya_gabriella
@maya_gabriella 2 ай бұрын
Wth.. why do so many men have this mindset?
@smokinj0e
@smokinj0e 2 ай бұрын
@@maya_gabriella Coz you'll never know what it feels like being a guy in the dating world.
@IAmWatchingAYoutubeVideo
@IAmWatchingAYoutubeVideo 2 ай бұрын
​@@smokinj0e*being an ugly and guy and below 6ft is hard
@maya_gabriella
@maya_gabriella 2 ай бұрын
@@smokinj0e your mindset is the most important thing when ur dating. If u think u think you’ll never succeed you’ll never try and then you will never actually have a chance. U miss 100% of the shots u don’t take.. If guys are referring to their looks when they say “it’s over” or “it never began” girls aren’t as superficial with looks as guys are.. My first boyfriend i didn’t even think he was special at all but then we became friends and I found him more attractive everyday just getting to know him and how cool he was. Guys these days are getting these stupid incel opinions and views on girls from the internet and it’s just not like that in real life. Girls are human and lonely too just be friends and talk to them..
@smokinj0e
@smokinj0e 2 ай бұрын
@@maya_gabriella Right, coz it works so well for you 🤣
@KorisnickoIme84
@KorisnickoIme84 6 ай бұрын
I'm not scared of aproaching (maybe a little) but later down the line when they realize that I'm depressed and low on energy with no goals in life..
@benjaminmontenegro3423
@benjaminmontenegro3423 4 ай бұрын
Then don’t focus on partners brother, focus on finding that spark there is to life again
@somber087
@somber087 Ай бұрын
Bro focus on yourself before you focus on others
@RutinLaun
@RutinLaun 4 ай бұрын
Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Insecure Americans. Ebook is called CrushAnyGirl, so on its for finding a girlfriend as Insecure American. After reading, you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days guaranteed Highly recommended to read
@godishere4
@godishere4 4 ай бұрын
😂😂 why does this have no comments
@LoganBai-gv5ys
@LoganBai-gv5ys 4 ай бұрын
This has 6k likes so it must be credible. 30 days is pretty fast
@godishere4
@godishere4 4 ай бұрын
@@LoganBai-gv5ys probably bot bro
@LoganBai-gv5ys
@LoganBai-gv5ys 4 ай бұрын
@@godishere4 yeah it looks like an ad and this comment was only 2 days ago. so unless 6k people liked it in 2 days despite the video being somewhat old then something is wrong. Also this comment has so few replies under it as you mentioned
@neutral_narr
@neutral_narr 4 ай бұрын
Bot nice try
@nicom9476
@nicom9476 8 ай бұрын
The way your incorporating actual psychological evidence from experiments done in each of your points is so original and makes the video so much better. Please upload more psychology videos like this where you go in depth into the why and how. I love these types of videos. and your editing is onpoint!!
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp 6 ай бұрын
they date up by default. read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper
@spacecooqie6873
@spacecooqie6873 6 ай бұрын
They aren't tho, lol. They are citing single studies without any context or lit review, which is useless and unscientific. Additionally, the studies they are citing are out of date and all of their claim aren't supported by a big part of the literature. For example, we don't know if there are any sexual pheromones in humans.
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp 6 ай бұрын
yeah most psychology is BS. but brain scans show each gender is different + hardwired behaviour @@spacecooqie6873
@guilokoh9971
@guilokoh9971 8 ай бұрын
How to get girls 101: Step 1: Be attractive Step 2: Be attractive Step 3: Be attractive Step 4: Be attractive Step 5: Be attractive Step 6: Be attractive Step 7: Be attractive Step 8: Be attractive Step 9: Be attractive Step 10: Be yourself
@LevSeven_
@LevSeven_ 8 ай бұрын
you missed about half of the video mate
@Julian-p7q-b4t
@Julian-p7q-b4t 8 ай бұрын
I want a man who looks like 90s Tom Cruise. 😂
@richardparsley2538
@richardparsley2538 8 ай бұрын
Step 1: buy white van Step 2:
@FoodIsGood753
@FoodIsGood753 8 ай бұрын
@@richardparsley2538 naaaaaahhhhh we getting crazy with this one
@nicelypenn
@nicelypenn 8 ай бұрын
Blackpilled.
@nnndrww
@nnndrww 2 ай бұрын
dude this channel is probably one of my favorites ever I remember when you have a couple thousand or whatever glad to see you got the recognition the channel deserved
@ethanbrunt7755
@ethanbrunt7755 4 ай бұрын
Limiting your attention to a women is amazing advice and also reward a woman’s compliance (when she actually has to move to do something to or for you)
@gabrielpadilha8193
@gabrielpadilha8193 7 ай бұрын
I paused at 0:01, takes a long breath and...you know.
@jipvandergoot9836
@jipvandergoot9836 12 күн бұрын
Damn so real.
@gabrielnobrev
@gabrielnobrev 7 ай бұрын
Confidence is a huge factor too. If you're afraid of talking to women or afraid of rejection, a good way to solve this problem is by practicing exposure to your fears. Go talk to random women in public (not in a creepy way, of course). Choose appropriate places to talk, and appropriate situations, for example, when you go to a party with a lot people you don't know, or a big event.
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 7 ай бұрын
lmao "Just be confident, bro!!!!'
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 7 ай бұрын
no confidence for a recessed face
@dynamicflashy
@dynamicflashy 7 ай бұрын
“Choose appropriate places and situations”. Knowing which are appropriate is the issue.
@dylanm3181
@dylanm3181 7 ай бұрын
A good way to practice is to sometimes chat up retail associates or someone waiting on a line to get into a venue. This happens all the time in big cities. And who knows? That same person you chatted up may then decide to want to add you on Instagram or get your contact Edit: notice how I didn't mention anything romantic? The more natural you are, the more people will relax around you
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 7 ай бұрын
@@dylanm3181 you watch too many movies, son.
@vishalpazzo
@vishalpazzo 3 ай бұрын
i was surfing on the internet for my research work on streaming platforms the KZfaq suggested me this channel and i found it is really an engaging channel with good quality of content in it, I appreciate the knowledge you are transferring to the public in such a humorous way. i am enjoying all your videos more than a comedy show or a serious science show, but its a combination of both. Thankyou for making such an amazing, entertaining and educational content sir.
@rushbso8920
@rushbso8920 3 ай бұрын
while youre here, dont take everything here with such fact. its mostly entertainment
@matthewkannemeyer5757
@matthewkannemeyer5757 3 ай бұрын
1. Work on yourself and commit to your purpose. 2. Forget about charm, focus on becoming knowledgable. 3. Profit. Works for me...
@Brother_In_Christ
@Brother_In_Christ 8 ай бұрын
Don't worry guys. I've just looked into MHC molecules and apparently, a man with dissimilar MHC molecules just smells nicer to women, that's it. And that nicer smell might help with attraction. However, a less nice smell is not going to stop a woman from being attracted to you. Worrying about such things and being in your head instead of being present will make you less attractive.
@aheendwhz1
@aheendwhz1 8 ай бұрын
I think especially the kissing thing at the end of the vid will make you less attractive. How are you going to have a "good first kiss" when you have to worry that the kiss might ruin everything? Also, that's bullshit. Most first kisses are bad as how are they going to be good if you don't even know each other.
@Jwellsuhhuh
@Jwellsuhhuh 8 ай бұрын
The MHC thing is negligible, if not completely BS. Wedekind, zhou, and other pheromone studies have failed to be consistently replicated, and are extremely artificial in nature. The density of pheromones in the cloves mixture (zhou) or in the tshirts (wedekind) is absurdly high compared to someone’s ambient scent when standing right next to them. And that’s assuming no extraneous factors like BO. Hint: the slightest presence of antiperspirant, deo, or bacteria eating sweat will immediately mask whatever pheromones are being excreted.
@waltervelasquezgwt
@waltervelasquezgwt 6 ай бұрын
MHC ? Use a good perfume, works great. !
@zafuro
@zafuro 6 ай бұрын
@@aheendwhz1holy cope chad instatly melts any girl away when he kisses them
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp 6 ай бұрын
they date up by default. read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper
@Maxecute
@Maxecute 8 ай бұрын
I dont just wanna get girls. Exspecially not through psychological manipulation and playing games. All I want is to find a good partner with just being myself. Is that possible?
@hothdog
@hothdog 8 ай бұрын
why yes, it is.
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased 8 ай бұрын
if you need "game" and tricking women into liking you it's already over. None of the people in relationships did this cringe, it all happens naturally. If it doesn't happen to you then be luckier in the looks department next time.
@thefinalroman
@thefinalroman 8 ай бұрын
Beta
@americandream9473
@americandream9473 8 ай бұрын
​@@FloppaTheBasedin next life😂😂😂
@rando4998
@rando4998 8 ай бұрын
Find your purpose in life. However, your purpose shouldn’t be simping for women. Thus, when you find your purpose you are dialed in. So, whether women like you or not you are happy since your purpose gives you meaning in life.
@user-nf6qz9yp9l
@user-nf6qz9yp9l 3 ай бұрын
I've watched almost all your videos, I love your humor and way of explaining things! But this is just... Chef's kiss.
@sadscientist9995
@sadscientist9995 3 ай бұрын
“Just be a nice guy” this whole video
@SPACEDOUT19
@SPACEDOUT19 21 күн бұрын
men need to take the blackpill already, the delusion is insane these days. Its all about looks.
@bustavonnutz
@bustavonnutz 8 ай бұрын
Only two rules to dating: 1) Be attractive 2) Don't be unattractive Simple as. Attraction is non-negotiable, so honestly every other strat is just minmaxing. When I like a girl & she likes me back there is minimal guesswork & everything just flows. That's why when a girl starts acting wishywashy, cattish, or hard-to-get I almost immediately start to lose interest. There's just no point pursuing a girl who won't make up her mind or wants to spin plates.
@exuvie1
@exuvie1 8 ай бұрын
skipped this badly friend 5:26
@AkiRa22084
@AkiRa22084 8 ай бұрын
@@exuvie1 That one is BS. And weight is partially genetic and just confirms bustavonnutz's point.
@ShiroganeABA
@ShiroganeABA 8 ай бұрын
@@AkiRa22084 So of all the things he said in that section all you retained from it is the "weight" part?
@AkiRa22084
@AkiRa22084 8 ай бұрын
@@ShiroganeABA No, you misunderstand. All of the section is BS, but the weight one is not true even by his own standards.
@fiat_ow7876
@fiat_ow7876 8 ай бұрын
True. Bad personalities become amplified and good if your attractive, and good personalities become amplified and bad if your ugly.
@celinritter1385
@celinritter1385 8 ай бұрын
The only thing that is inaccurate is that at a party there are groups of guys surrounding a girl, if that is so these are likely her friends and to say hi and walk a way is a bit wierd. Say hi to her when shes relatively alone and u can have a conversation with her and let a friend yell out ur name so u have to go. NOOO pick up lines !!!!! But if u stared a conversation already and she dosent seem uncomfortable and happy to talk to u just talk to her like a normal human being would and ask her some questions about her that she feels comfortable answering. Ask for insta not her number girls are more comfortable giving guys her insta. Im from germany please excuse the mistakes. Dont follow her around all evening like i said find an excuse and go
@this.science
@this.science 8 ай бұрын
This is amazing advice
@christophewells3918
@christophewells3918 8 ай бұрын
Really solid respectable advice. Thank you, friend.
@Jorge-np3tq
@Jorge-np3tq 8 ай бұрын
"Like a normal human being" means nothing. Your boss, your mom and your friends are all human beings and you treat each in different ways. If you just focus on making her comfortable the fz is your fate and you deserve it. Insta can be gotten earlier than number but is way weaker as a lead. If you get her number it's to arrange a date and continue, if you get her insta you're just another follower to make number bigger and feed her ego. Look at naturals. See what they do and learn from them. Most people have some friends who are naturals. Go with them and don't cringe or get jealous, just learn. See how they tease the girl, joke around with her, act like the prize, ignore her tests, escalate...they do everything instinctively. Are you here to have polite conversations or to give women an attractive man that they'll actually want to have sex with? Women hate nice guys who think just doing the bare minimum will get them into their pants because they were so friendly and polite. You want something, actually build attraction.
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 8 ай бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jM5gm81qv6qddo0.htmlsi=cwwc6iXY1eTClvl3
@giftzwerg7345
@giftzwerg7345 8 ай бұрын
I disagree on insta, most people arnt active or care.
@ułttimate
@ułttimate 2 ай бұрын
There is no science, please do not act like X, Y or Z, just be yourself. If you act and pretend then you’re just living with a mask on, from my experience, the best way to have a relationship is just by being by yourself, before I had a relationship I got asked out by 3 different girls (at 3 different times obviously) and I didn’t do anything to “win them over” I was just myself, and that’s how my partner also liked me, I was just myself around her, she was just herself around me, until we started to catch feelings, there’s no “tricks” or “science” just be yourself and whoever that will like you, will end up liking you for who YOU are, not for you being someone else, good luck to anyone reading this. Edit: Oh also, looks matter, don’t let anyone lie to you, me and my partner talked about this after we dated and we both admitted that if we were bad looking, then we wouldn’t have dated each other, of course I’m not saying only looks that matter, but both your looks and personality matter significantly, some people don’t care about looks at all thought (rarely) but looks do indeed play a role here.
@IslandMashup
@IslandMashup 19 күн бұрын
If looks also play a role here, then I don't think I can win that sh*t.😢😢😢
@ułttimate
@ułttimate 19 күн бұрын
@@IslandMashup You may not look pretty to someone but to someone else you might be the prettiest one, everyone views you differently
@IslandMashup
@IslandMashup 19 күн бұрын
@@ułttimate I mean you got a point.
@IslandMashup
@IslandMashup 19 күн бұрын
@@ułttimate But the question is, how will I know? I don't think someone has the courage to say that in front of me because no one did.
@ułttimate
@ułttimate 19 күн бұрын
@@IslandMashup You will know if you’re close with that person, if they feel comfortable enough in telling you, they would. If it was someone random that just walked across you, then they obviously won’t say anything, but if it’s someone you know, and they felt confident a bit and comfortable enough, they’ll let you know
@ryanleuenberger1094
@ryanleuenberger1094 5 ай бұрын
So basically I’m cooked
@cinephilia1252
@cinephilia1252 8 ай бұрын
1: scarcity principle 2: Gain loss theory 3: Proximity 4: Ben Franklin effect (favors) 5: Discord Mod effect (look good man!) 6: Luck(pheromones (MHC) + Kiss good)
@TheTruZadrot
@TheTruZadrot 8 ай бұрын
Ty for summary.
@bro918
@bro918 8 ай бұрын
7. Be tall
@cinephilia1252
@cinephilia1252 8 ай бұрын
@@bro918 factss
@kelechi_77
@kelechi_77 8 ай бұрын
people in our generation will do anything but actually go outside and just talk to women
@revolutioninc7081
@revolutioninc7081 8 ай бұрын
@@kelechi_77cuz it’s deemed creepy
@vanwagon
@vanwagon 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this, I'm so tired of all the incel ideology bs that's been thrown around in the self-help community about how men struggle with attracting women because of looks. It is definitely partially true that looks do matter, but I think a lot of men don't know that they're approaching dating wrong, and blame it on the beauty standards women have for men, instead of learning from their mistakes. This is one of the first videos I've seen that also really understands the problem with the approach of the "nice guy" archetype
@nikobellic9140
@nikobellic9140 7 ай бұрын
u dont know the reality
@cattysplat
@cattysplat 7 ай бұрын
It's basically the same thing red pill says, just politely.
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 7 ай бұрын
jfl at you. if you’re getting no girls it’s because of your looks and not because of muh personality and muh confidence. cope harder
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 7 ай бұрын
If you’re watching this video and thinking your dating life will change = it’s brutally over for you
@YTdelsCmts4NoRsn
@YTdelsCmts4NoRsn 7 ай бұрын
On god, incel has turned into such a buzzword to use on men who have already been through enough.
@crystalclearMSA
@crystalclearMSA 3 ай бұрын
about the first kiss, all you really need to do is keep your entire mouth clean, brush your tongue (especially the inner section), make sure your tonsils do not get in your way at all, if there's a tonsil stone, remove it at all cost before the date, wash your mouth with salt water and have some breath mints, smell is important (others can smell you 10 times more than you can smell yourself). Good luck gentlemen.
@TactiBEAR
@TactiBEAR 5 ай бұрын
this is the one video that is guaranteed to have 100% retention
@Monochromatification
@Monochromatification 8 ай бұрын
What about "the science of keeping a healthy relationship?" All these videos on breaking down the dating process are great for some, yet they mostly focus on the getting in process as though that's the bulk of the work and the rest of a relationship will just work itself out. It effectively turns the process into a game where the reward is that you "get" a girl and that somehow means you've won something. Yet hardly anyone thinks of what follows, and all the self work that needs to be done (on healing old wounds/bad communication patterns or taking on feedback without defensiveness or understanding personal responsibilities and negotiating to have everyone's needs met) to create a good relationship environment. I believe more men need lessons in how to be good partners than in how to succeed at initiating relationships while doing little work on themselves and their potential issues. But maybe that's material for another video.
@this.science
@this.science 8 ай бұрын
I think that’s also very important, arguably more important, I just decided to make this video because I’ve noticed a lot of my classmates who are generally good and handsome dudes be completely petrified to initiate and sort of interaction with girls they like, i figured a lot of guys probably feel the same way and that there’d probably be an audience for a video concept that could help build a little confidence. I definitely get your point, and i plan on doing many more videos on human interaction and will definitely try to integrate stuff like that :)
@hanifsulistiyo3559
@hanifsulistiyo3559 8 ай бұрын
exactly
@christophewells3918
@christophewells3918 8 ай бұрын
This very much so. I agree with what you're saying. As a 32yr guy, I've seen it and lived it. It's horrible to see what happens to people when there isn't a mature understanding of how to be considerate, reciprocative, self-respecting and adaptable. You don't always get closure with relationships that wouldn't last either, but it would give so much awareness to both people in a relationship too if afterwards they could have a mature communication of what went wrong, what they liked and what they disliked about the relationship to better prepare both to not make the same mistakes in the next and see what they can improve themselves, not only for the next person but also for themselves. Not to mention it can build comradery rather than resentment between those who have been intimate with eachother.
@mikemondano3624
@mikemondano3624 8 ай бұрын
Yes, it's important to pretend convincingly that those other things matter, too. Acting is an oft-forgotten part of the needed skills. Sometimes, if you are good enough, you may even fool yourself.
@gaberoyalll
@gaberoyalll 8 ай бұрын
# 1 is simple its just focus on to talk less and in deep voice when u do but idk
@ButchersNailsEnjoyer
@ButchersNailsEnjoyer 8 ай бұрын
Back in my parents day it was literally just saying hi and you wanna get something to eat. Now there’s a whole science and playing 4D chess and pursue then pull away just to maybe get her number 💀
@cattysplat
@cattysplat 7 ай бұрын
Because there is an illusion of choice. People believe because they can send a message to Chad and Stacey on dating apps then they are worthy of more than their own status. People would rather be lonely and hoping for the impossible than settle for a mediocre reality.
@bro918
@bro918 7 ай бұрын
@@cattysplat Most men arent even getting matches, let alone with a 'stacey' lmao
@ITgirlSn
@ITgirlSn 9 сағат бұрын
@@bro918 they are, the incels whining are below average so instead of seeking out below average women, they try hitting on women more attractive than them and when they get rejected they cry whine women are monsters!! when they themselves dont want women in their league, hypocrites all of them
@omerkaya7229
@omerkaya7229 2 ай бұрын
Some guy comment it's too late. And yeah he's definetly right because focusing on money is better.
@TheUnshapedMantis
@TheUnshapedMantis 9 күн бұрын
6:15 As a university student and researcher in biological sciences, I find it crucial to highlight that, despite the long-standing theoretical existence of human pheromones, no concrete identification of them has been made in research to date. This is a significant area of study that often gets misrepresented, and it's important to keep this in mind when discussing the topic. I liked seeing mention of the importance of the olfactory recognition of markers for genetically dissimilar haplotypes at the Major Histocompatibility Complex (MHC), which has been proven to play a significant role in relative measures of attractiveness, though. You really did your homework!
@Otism.
@Otism. 8 ай бұрын
pro tip: be attractive
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan 7 ай бұрын
Or get plastic surgery lol
@_Devansh.Dixit_
@_Devansh.Dixit_ 6 ай бұрын
​@@AssassinIronMan that I will do i.e septoplasty I have very deviated nasal passage(if you know you know )
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan 6 ай бұрын
@@_Devansh.Dixit_ I don’t know 💪🗿
@_Devansh.Dixit_
@_Devansh.Dixit_ 6 ай бұрын
@@AssassinIronMan then use chrome to get it known rather then using it for something else 🗿
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan 6 ай бұрын
@@_Devansh.Dixit_ I’m better off not caring 😎
@TheOutlierToday
@TheOutlierToday 8 ай бұрын
Dating is just a game, isn't it? I'm not playing.
@Blurro
@Blurro 7 ай бұрын
Playing these dumb games is unfortunately how you have to go. What's your alternative? Because eventually if you do meet a woman you consider your perfect match, intelligent and all, chances are she's still likely playing the game and you'll be disqualified real quick. There isn't really a winning move where you 'break' the game, like make her aware of it and she realises "wow that game is silly, and you're so smart, I'll date you!" that aint gonna happen. Only guys get real nerdy over this shit and recognise it as a game anyway, and you keep that to yourself
@cattysplat
@cattysplat 7 ай бұрын
@@Blurro If you think this is bad, women having even more insane rationalisations to what they do.
@bro918
@bro918 7 ай бұрын
@@Blurro The only winning move here is to simply wait a decade or two for AI/Robotics to get good enough and then just buy a robot GF
@lekhajiitjzargo2437
@lekhajiitjzargo2437 7 ай бұрын
@@bro918 Exactly + curing aging for playing longer and more choices in life.
@TON-vz3pe
@TON-vz3pe 6 ай бұрын
​@@BlurroIt aint worth it. Relationships, Sex are way too overrated. I am glad to be single than to play all these shitty games.
@adibrahman3321
@adibrahman3321 11 күн бұрын
Guys lesson 4 absolutely works. Probably works the best. The more u do this the more attraction she will build towards you.
@jyandie29
@jyandie29 5 ай бұрын
Be everything you like in a person, and eventually the girls will come. Nobody can like a person who doesn't like themself
@Lo-to7zh
@Lo-to7zh 8 ай бұрын
Bullshit the most attractive feature are genetics, height and face
@Fourtune1
@Fourtune1 8 ай бұрын
This. It’s not complicated. This video would’ve been useful in the 90s and before but not after.
@giucas18
@giucas18 8 ай бұрын
Ok let me tell you something... it's the first time ever that, discovering a new channel from 0, I've gotten so involved. It's amazing how you put together such a well done channel in less than a month. Best of luck, you deserve all the success that will come.
@Percival-kl9yy
@Percival-kl9yy 7 ай бұрын
*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*
@Percival-kl9yy
@Percival-kl9yy 7 ай бұрын
*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*
@Percival-kl9yy
@Percival-kl9yy 7 ай бұрын
*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*
@NotA_f3mboi
@NotA_f3mboi 4 ай бұрын
Step 1: have fluffy hair Step 2: be tall
@ruzzianbot
@ruzzianbot 4 ай бұрын
this video is galactic level cope
@andrewdrewandy
@andrewdrewandy 4 ай бұрын
with number 1 please God don’t get a perm almost every girl ever thinks its a downgrade
@josueramirez7247
@josueramirez7247 6 ай бұрын
The presentation of the video was very good. I liked the words and images you used.
@Dslayer62
@Dslayer62 7 ай бұрын
I'd also recommend simply doing what you love in a crowded place. I became a karaoke regular at my local pub and after a couple months I started pulling girls (usually the semi-regulars) because I was a familiar face who was friendly and start conversation with everyone. I wasn't asking for their numbers, I was just happy to talk to someone between songs and make them feel welcome. What I realise I was doing is that I WAS making myself scarce. I didn't persue girls overtly because I wasn't there for girls. I was there for the karaoke and a good time.
@DarkAioL1666
@DarkAioL1666 7 ай бұрын
My experience is similar. Do what you love in a social environment where you are at ease and confident. You become attractive instantly.
@mcpartridgeboy
@mcpartridgeboy 5 ай бұрын
that sort f worked for me in the gym, the only problem is when i did ask someone out who clearly liked me i was rejected, so you still have to have the pick up skills to time it right avd to know how to ask properly ! or she will still say no every time
@maxjohnson8659
@maxjohnson8659 4 ай бұрын
Advice unclear, I was arrested for indecent exposure.
@Dslayer62
@Dslayer62 4 ай бұрын
​@@mcpartridgeboy Don't let 1 rejection convince you it won't work.
@martinshoosterman
@martinshoosterman 7 ай бұрын
I think the best take away here is to just try and make friends with women. First of all, the friend zone doesnt exist. Or atleast, not in the way people think it does. It is possible to become friends with a girl who isnt attracted to you. But that doesnt mean becoming friends with someone causes them to be unattracted to you. On the other hand, becoming friends has the benifits of both proximity and favours. (You will naturally ask favours from your friends). combine that with luck, pheremone compatibility, and generally taking care of yourself and you'll have a great relationship. And if it doesnt work, you have a good friend who can help you find someone else.
@samedifferentuser3225
@samedifferentuser3225 7 ай бұрын
Female confirmation: received👍👍
@tommygertcher2747
@tommygertcher2747 7 ай бұрын
So you're saying girls aren't less attracted guys because they're too friendly?
@samedifferentuser3225
@samedifferentuser3225 7 ай бұрын
@tommygertcher2747 If I may, I think it depends on what kind of level of friendliness we're talking about. Just being nice is different from paying special attention to her. If you're only nice to her at first, it may make her jealous if she sees you suddenly being nice to other girls (if she has that kind of 'romantical' awareness around you). On the other hand, many girls love nothing more than receiving a special kind of attention from a male. To be precise, ask her about her feelings, opinions, and take her interests seriously. Note: There are some kinds of girls that are just not into nice guys, but those are mostly complicated ones. Please don't try to change your personality for these ones, I guarantee you, there are girls out there who will treasure you with all their heart for your kindness! Good luck ^^
@martinshoosterman
@martinshoosterman 7 ай бұрын
@@tommygertcher2747 I've never seen that be the case. What people don't realize, is girls who aren't attracted to them after they were nice to them, wouldn't be attracted to matter how they were treated.
@grahambrown1980
@grahambrown1980 6 ай бұрын
@@tommygertcher2747If you’re too friendly and appear fake about it, she’ll assume you just want to get inside of her. The million dollar question is how friendly is appropriate to the situation and any intel on a particular girl you may know anything about? 🤔😏🫠🤥😈
@BRNardy
@BRNardy 6 ай бұрын
I was once at a street party, and there was this one girl in which all of my friends (and lots of other random dudes) were trying to get, but she didn't want any of them. After some encouraging from some friends, I went there to shoot my shot. Sure enough, she said no. "Alright, no worries. Have a good party!", I said right after. And left. Unlike all the others, the fact that I didn't insist and seemingly lost interest in her as soon as she denied me made her change her mind and come after me a few minutes later, saying that she had "thought her decision over". The fact I was not into her like everyone else was, paired with the fact that I showed that her "no" really means "no" to me (even if it doesn't actually mean "no" to her and she was actually just doing this to play games and see how far people would go for her) made me an interesting choice to her, somehow. Got the girl and most of her friends the same day. Party was wild. Believe in yourselves, bois.
@Khalid.Abusaud
@Khalid.Abusaud 7 күн бұрын
how to get girls in these steps : 1 - have lots of money 2 - money 3 - money 4 - money 5 - money 6 - money and lots of money 7 - money ... 100 - money
@Schoolboner
@Schoolboner 8 ай бұрын
Just be tall and handsome. That’s all. The confidence comes from knowing you look good, your personality gets better when you are liked for who you are. Let’s not overcomplicate this
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased 8 ай бұрын
redpill copers are on suiwatch lmao
@jangodebt
@jangodebt 8 ай бұрын
you needa get a life bro lmao
@gatoloco3949
@gatoloco3949 7 ай бұрын
​@@jangodebtHe'll still be right though, just with a life.
@Abhinav_p1
@Abhinav_p1 7 ай бұрын
Is 5'9" ok ?
@jangodebt
@jangodebt 7 ай бұрын
@@gatoloco3949 Obviously it's easier if your good looking, but its not the end all be all lmao. I know a lot of people who don't look the best who have gfs that are hot
@christophewells3918
@christophewells3918 8 ай бұрын
You are promoting some good healthy understanding, my friend. Keep up the good work.
@SPACEDOUT19
@SPACEDOUT19 21 күн бұрын
this is delusion
@Trxl_
@Trxl_ 3 ай бұрын
If you looked for this and didn't find this randomly. You are cooked
@ethosterros9430
@ethosterros9430 2 ай бұрын
that shit with the scarcity I mean. I want a life of abundance. I want a woman who is abundant with me. Maybe she's a rare woman, a scarce woman who you don't find very often, but she should be readily available and she should want someone who also wants someone readily available, because that's what sincere love is is truly desiring each other. Not because she's been ran through by bad boys and "learned her lesson" at like 45 and 2 or 3 divorces later, but because she from the heart wants an authentic and meaningful relationship. Put simply, if I have to make myself scarce to make her stay interested, then by definition she's someone who you have to eventually leave when they're dried up resource wise. Women like that are bad people, that's why they get mistreated in the first place its simple karma. There's plenty of people who make themselves available to each other in an abundance based relationship and those are the happy couples who go the distance. If you have to game her, she's not worth any effort to begin with.
@dondonnysson4973
@dondonnysson4973 8 ай бұрын
So genetics don't matter but also matter the most? Good video dude.
@thepastarat
@thepastarat 4 ай бұрын
you didn't listen very well did you?
@thatguy5233
@thatguy5233 8 ай бұрын
meanwhile Tutorials for girls: make an eye contact with him, but try to not make it obvious. make him question if you even did that on purpose. if he does approach you, try to seem uninterested. don't EVER let him know your intentions
@chiragchoudhary1253
@chiragchoudhary1253 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Sprillet
@Sprillet 8 ай бұрын
i think most of the video is already a good step for getting a girl already, getting girls isnt that much different between males and females
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 8 ай бұрын
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@nnndrww
@nnndrww 8 ай бұрын
stop 💀
@kaeji_namitsua
@kaeji_namitsua 8 ай бұрын
@@Sprillet Eeeeh. Its night and day.
@nathan38748
@nathan38748 3 ай бұрын
cope if she doesn't find you physically attractive in the first place then it doesn't matter what you do
@Cam-bk4eg
@Cam-bk4eg 16 күн бұрын
Bro literally just take care of yourself (hygiene, self-care, dress well) and be yourself. You don’t need a tutorial on how to be a discreet and scarce “nice guy”😂😂. Also it helps to not be 250+ pounds with a neck beard..
@beckett746
@beckett746 8 ай бұрын
This is probably one of the best videos I've ever seen on this topic, and brought up a lot of things I have never seen anywhere else that make a lot of sense and seem pretty valid. Hugely underrated
@hailtodachimp2950
@hailtodachimp2950 8 ай бұрын
1. Face 2. Height 3. Neurotypicality Your welcome
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased 8 ай бұрын
also dick size
@almogxchq5282
@almogxchq5282 6 ай бұрын
As a girl, I'd like any guy who's actually honest with his intentions. No friends with flirting or promising forever love just to get in their pants. Approach them without ulterior motives, you make it obvious and see how it develops. Don't pretend to be something you're not. If you're approaching a girl with a get in her pants attitude and wanting her to be a girlfriend to you, most methods won't work for you unless you want it to be just that, a physical relationship with no emotional expectations. But to get someone to truly love you, you have to see them for them, not their qualities, specialties, looks, hobbies, or your ideas or standards for them. Once you fall in love with the person not just your idea or standard of them, chances are they feel the same way most of the time, or they don't and never will. If they do though, that relationship isn't going away easily. Another thing I suggest to couples to deepen their relationship is to understand and not judge. Ask them many hypothetical situations, and try to understand who they are, not want them to pretend to be who you want them to be. You want a partner, not a show piece! Remember people, your lover is a human, not a social standard!
@user-ru3nq1ti9t
@user-ru3nq1ti9t 6 ай бұрын
It's hard in reality I scared women so much and I don't want to be judged
@geraldlamptey7125
@geraldlamptey7125 20 күн бұрын
“in this case fellas, you’re in”😌 what an exit line😌
@WeristRiCK
@WeristRiCK 8 ай бұрын
I can confirm with personal experience that the majority of this video is 100% accurate!
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased 8 ай бұрын
just be tall and handsome bro
@justingibson1150
@justingibson1150 8 ай бұрын
60% of the time, it works every time.
@youfuckinknowit
@youfuckinknowit 8 ай бұрын
@@justingibson1150 DAMMIT! You beat me to it. First thing that popped in my head when I read this comment. 👊🏽
@aqiel509
@aqiel509 6 ай бұрын
@@FloppaTheBased it began for confidenttheorymaxingcels
@Shome2049
@Shome2049 7 ай бұрын
1. Have good genes. Height is most important. 2. Be Rich. 3. Be fake and mean.
@piggysew797
@piggysew797 7 ай бұрын
Pretty much, although you can simplify it into one step 1. Choose good parents
@Just_google_404
@Just_google_404 6 ай бұрын
7:34 checkmate ✔️
@megafiremario12volt
@megafiremario12volt 8 ай бұрын
I love that luck was added here cause you could be doing everything right but still have bad outcomes and vice versa. But its still good to work on yourself regardless cause luck is also when preparation meets opportunity
@bee0_081
@bee0_081 8 ай бұрын
I like this channel, it always proves its claims with studies and evidence and the videos don't bore me, it's actually entertaining to watch.
@WoJacked
@WoJacked Ай бұрын
Chad that is close to a girl = good proximity Sub5 that is close to a girl = stalking
@HolyGamer5
@HolyGamer5 4 күн бұрын
"in this case fellas your in" got me dying
@Yeoungie
@Yeoungie 7 ай бұрын
How to do This (Without Thinking About it) 1. Just groom yourself: learn how to dress, and skin care, workout 2. Be a Rarity: Have hobbies and focus on yourself, hangout with friends (women included) when you need a break 3. Talk to Women?: go to a club and frequent places that have a good ratio 4. Don't be a creep?: stop talking to women because you want to date them. Just be interested in who they are as a person and learn their story. People love you when you get them to talk about themself, so be interested. This means ASKING WHY AND NOT WHAT. This means, say you're at a party, "so you like x?" The answer will be a yes or no and the conversation ends. Make it open ended, instead say, "why do you like x?", "oh really?" "I think this about x and y, how do you feel about that?" Be curious. Get them to start monologuing, you may need to jump around a couple subjects, until you find one they just won't 5hut up about. In all, to not be creepy is to see women as another bro. Next time you see a girl just think, "that's my bro right there," and don't sexualize them. If they are beautiful, love that for them, and be a bro. You can enjoy their presence, learn to separate sex. (DOGS ARE CUTE, BUT YOU DON'T xxx DOGS). Bring that mentality. The more female friends you have the better, don't push the relationships, just be friends with everyone and enjoy their company and their story. 9/10 one of those friendships turn into something more. You have 1 female friend low chances, lets say you have 20+ good female friends, the odds are higher. It's not about your eyes on this one guys, that can be the ultimate decider, let the lovers of your life fall into your lap and choose you. The feeling of knowing that another person likes you and you both know it, but won't say it, is the best feeling ever. ------- Most importantly don't overthink it and be yourself, and if being yourself isn't working, it might be time to re-evaluate your life, like, is Fortnite and TikTok making me a better more interesting person, or a loser. Protip: when they vent, validate their emotions even if it's crazy, and say stuff that feeds their delusions. They just want to feel heard and appreciated, and don't want solutions. You are giving them support, so they can then turn around and solve their own problems.
@jojo75688
@jojo75688 7 ай бұрын
Well said man , this is how it's supposed to go normally
@Samurai-ss5qs
@Samurai-ss5qs 7 ай бұрын
👏
@DeepakJAT0007
@DeepakJAT0007 6 ай бұрын
Lol, my loser friend started playing PUBG in 2020 and in 2 years he had more than 20 numbers !
@PSR91
@PSR91 5 ай бұрын
Perfect guide be in the friendzone forever. Being friends with girls has almost no benefits as a grown man.
@necoluga7950
@necoluga7950 3 ай бұрын
i once was talking to this girl and it was like as soon as i told her what i really think about exitance and my metaphysical philosophy and shit she became colder to me almost as if i wasn't there friend anymore 😢 guys dont yap to much people in general don't want to hear the ins and outs of the typology of ontological groupings and elements within said ontological gropings aka the p(n) system (my metaphysical philosophy). they also don't want a full lecture on geometric algebra outa nowhere. i really think it was my views on how depression isn't real and she called me closed minded and wanted me to see it from her perspective. i am going to argue the infallible truth and there is no other that is justified. if an individual disagrees they are misguided and you can only pray for there enlightenment. another thing is is that i use super complex topics as general conversation and i have nothing to say to anyone otherwise. id rather talk about the human will and my own reason for existing than whatever frivioulus topic other than. there is no value doing anything other than cultivating the prowess of the mental field and if your conversation is some garbage that doesn't empower ones sellf you must stray away from that and nuture a true bond based upon intelligent discussion within another with your relationship.
@Emilizier
@Emilizier 8 ай бұрын
Amazing video!! But also just wanted to point out that this video mostly tackles the topic of attraction, and from a very scientific materialist perspective. Which is great! But also remember that attraction and love are two differing things! You can get the girl to be attracted to you (which is the first step), but being in love and someone being in love with you is entirely another thing. Imo creating a life you enjoy living and working to connect authentically with those around you will just naturally lead to you attracting and finding someone you’ll fall in love with (and hopefully they’ll fall in love with you too). This way you will end up have a fulfilling life and also can introduce this special person into this life. I think a lot of value is placed on romantic relationships, but personally I think it’s important to remember that there are other things that are important too! Like being your authentic self, friends, family and cultivating a fulfilling life! And if getting into a romantic relationship means sacrificing any of those, I don’t think I’d be very happy in that relationship long term.
@Steve.Nguyen
@Steve.Nguyen 8 ай бұрын
True!
@va_valentin_
@va_valentin_ 8 ай бұрын
This!
@qujie8212
@qujie8212 8 ай бұрын
Although I agree to all you've said it's really not that simple (at least for some of us 😂) Based on experience I can say that just living your life is always a good thing to do but it won't help you find girls, it just makes it so that you're happy nonetheless 🤷‍♂️
@billusher2265
@billusher2265 8 ай бұрын
what is called romantic love is just lust + oxytocin
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 8 ай бұрын
Plastic surgery is the only option for finding a soulmate if youre not good looking
@ZXNE.
@ZXNE. 5 ай бұрын
It’s over
@Virgincrocodile
@Virgincrocodile 3 ай бұрын
Just get rich, that's all
@durciak1407
@durciak1407 3 ай бұрын
If you want only for sex than yes, but if you want something more than a hoe than money isnt everything
@xuchilbara21392
@xuchilbara21392 8 ай бұрын
"the most attractive feature is NOT genetic" - yeah please tell that to a 5'3'' balding guy with bad physiology thanks to genetics. Just because on average, not many of us will experience such a fate, it does NOT mean that genetics does not play a role
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased 8 ай бұрын
tell that to any average guy basically. Average dude today is not really different from 5'3 balding dude for women, they're all ugly.
@DumplingDoodle
@DumplingDoodle 7 ай бұрын
well clearly you don't have the right attitude either, which isn't doing you any favors. not saying you're wrong, just that you're only making it worse by giving your insecurities power.
@treymiddleton
@treymiddleton 7 ай бұрын
It’s really not bro I see short men all the time get hotties. I’m 5’9 so average height but it’s really about your personality and charisma
@LOLxUnique
@LOLxUnique 7 ай бұрын
i know a balding guy punching way above his weight. he works out, smells nice and is super confident. people dont care about your bald look
@xuchilbara21392
@xuchilbara21392 7 ай бұрын
@@LOLxUnique is he also 5'3?
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 8 ай бұрын
Just be tall and handsome. Believing anything else is COPE
@millysmanifestations
@millysmanifestations 5 ай бұрын
From a woman’s perspective I guarantee we are far more attracted to men who look happy or smile or who carry themselves in a positive and open demeanor than those who are closed off, cold, looking down all the time or don’t possess warmth. It makes you 50x more attractive no matter your physical features
@aleksklyar
@aleksklyar 4 ай бұрын
Лол, нет. Вообще, счастье детерминировано и для того, чтобы открыто улыбаться нужно родиться красивым
@aleksklyar
@aleksklyar 4 ай бұрын
@@Dimitris_Half Ты либо красив, либо туп
@danielallen8702
@danielallen8702 4 ай бұрын
I certainly appreciate you sharing.
@crenshaw46
@crenshaw46 4 ай бұрын
Stop the cap. Women are drawn to 3 things no matter what they "think" they are attracted too: 1) Height 2) Looks 3) Status. That is literally all there is to it.
@millysmanifestations
@millysmanifestations 4 ай бұрын
@@crenshaw46 as a woman, i disagree… maybe that’s other women but not ALL of us🤷‍♀️ those aren’t my personal priorities
@babyface3396
@babyface3396 6 ай бұрын
Sad. Women are not a commodity to be acquired. If you want to form a genuine human connection instead of just "getting girls," then stop playing games and just get to know people. Spend time with people you like. Make friends. The video imo also failed to make a connection between initial attraction and long-term relationship success.
@aidentrics7098
@aidentrics7098 8 ай бұрын
first step: be attractive
@werinter
@werinter 6 ай бұрын
1. Be attractive. 2. Be lucky. Literally those are the two things really matter. Good looks and luck.
@Razor-gx2dq
@Razor-gx2dq 6 ай бұрын
Dude I know got super lucky, thing is he didn't even try, she came to him, guess we can't all be winners
@dboijahskush1251
@dboijahskush1251 3 ай бұрын
you forgot money
@normified
@normified 3 ай бұрын
your comment tells me you're just as attractive as your profile picture and it's yo own fault lmao terrible mentality
@sadscientist9995
@sadscientist9995 3 ай бұрын
Money matters too
@user-is9yv2gl3n
@user-is9yv2gl3n 3 ай бұрын
​​@@sadscientist9995nah, if she's choosing you for money, then it's not genuine and a man wouldn't get much joy out of such a relationship. At least I wouldn't. I literally would be physically disgusted at a girl who liked me because of money
@soy-jadey
@soy-jadey 4 ай бұрын
Instructions unclear, now I just became a billionaire
@pawglove326
@pawglove326 11 күн бұрын
and get liad
@bramstelt3361
@bramstelt3361 8 күн бұрын
Pay to win strategy.
@Hurricaneria
@Hurricaneria 21 күн бұрын
As someone who's been working at entry levels jobs for over a decade, it's comforting knowing now that I may have the tools to live a happy and fulfilling life - once I'm done working on everything else.
@citrus3719
@citrus3719 8 ай бұрын
beauty video mate, was shocked at sub count when I saw ur dreaming video, keep it up and don’t listen to the people fretting over a spelling mistake
@this.science
@this.science 8 ай бұрын
Thanks :)
@Empyreanis
@Empyreanis 7 ай бұрын
I like how the video is presented in an informative but casual manner. Like a friend giving you advice. Videos with titles similar to this are usually presented in a manner like a sergeant briefing his soldiers before going to war lmao.
@Luckystoic
@Luckystoic 3 ай бұрын
As a 60 years old man who broke each and everyone of these rules, I can tell that they are true. Advice for the young: do not be fooled by anything else. Follow these rules by the letter. If it means losing somebody, so be it. They were not worthy.
@micahmock3505
@micahmock3505 15 күн бұрын
The scarcity effect works a little too well with my personality. Even when I’m throwing as much attention as my energy allows at the girl, it is probably considered scarce. They fall for me easily enough. The problem is when I have low energy days, I “ghost” even when to me it feels like a slightly longer break.
@xrasor9592
@xrasor9592 8 ай бұрын
lesson 5: its not genetic lesson 6: its almost always genetic okay then keep your secrets
@SmashBrosBrawl
@SmashBrosBrawl 7 ай бұрын
features that women find attractive like height is almost entirely genetic.
@YaBoiElyyyy
@YaBoiElyyyy 6 ай бұрын
This is like school. Learning something youll never use
@JIHAN147
@JIHAN147 3 ай бұрын
Lesson 5 : genetics dont matter Lesson 6 : "Genetics"
@nemesisnine3297
@nemesisnine3297 4 ай бұрын
So delete the notion of ever having a girlfriend? Got it!!
@juancruzlives
@juancruzlives 8 ай бұрын
very great video. taking away the over-seriousness and making the format funnier really helps you enjoy more the learning process
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